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| 3 | Best way to approach a girl at the gym?Use the Ron Burgundy method | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 02:39 AM |
| 1 | In which European clubs you see many people kiss when they first met in the club?Did u get laid | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How to keep it interesting in textingTease her, be unpredictable with your texting times | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 05:29 PM |
| 34 | Should you move on if she flirts with you but then calls you a friend?U got a tiny green light and went in like a bull in a China shop | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 2 | How to make a girl laugh?Tease her | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.Bro this is a trainwreck to read, just wish her well and move on, she’s not interested in friendship either, she’s just letting u down softly | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Can talking to too many girls at a club sabotage your chances?Ok well u won’t know how well u did till u hear from her | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Can talking to too many girls at a club sabotage your chances?Ok hav u got a date out of it? | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Can talking to too many girls at a club sabotage your chances?I’d worry more about your opener “can I keep u company?”, what r u 60? | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 05:17 PM |
| -2 | Does Therapy help with the game?Yeah just sayin don’t ask a therapist for pickup advice bro, read a pickup manual | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Does Therapy help with the game?Doubt it, a female therapist will Fundamentally disagree with whole concept of it | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How important is mood in the approach?Very important | /r/seduction | 27/09/24 03:48 PM |
| 2 | My first dates 9 times out of 10 don't go anywhere.. feel more like interviews or a catch up with a colleague than anything else. Any advice?Ok well that’s probably what the “mild awkwardness” is about. Otherwise likely you’re not teasing/bantering, asking too many lame generic questions, not telling stories/anecdotes that convey your identity, not physically escalating, + sending a lame “it was great meeting u, we should do this again soon” msg 10 mins after the date.. | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 10:05 AM |
| 2 | My first dates 9 times out of 10 don't go anywhere.. feel more like interviews or a catch up with a colleague than anything else. Any advice?How bad is this walking disability ? I imagine it has sth to do with that | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 05:34 AM |
| 2 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?If they can get sex they can usually get a relationship, issue is whether they want one. Give a girl amazing sex 2-3 times, she’ll wanna be your gf | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Should i tell a casual sex partner that i'm a virgin?No | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | My friend called me a saint. How can I stop being the good guy?Yeah sounds like you’re too far over over on the good guy spectrum , women like guys who are (playfully) bratty, non needy, unpredictable, don’t fawn to them, aren’t always available, + don’t open doors and buy presents just to be liked | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | silence during meetingNot talkin about the past | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | 3 Worst Texting Mistakes Guys Make On Dating AppsMistake 2 advice is bad, if she declines a date u go cool on her/don’t ask again for a few weeks if at all | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:24 PM |
| 2 | silence during meetingWrite a cheat sheet of talking points/stories/teases etc before u go on the date and memorize it, re consult when u/her goes to the bathroom | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | How many lays did you get after attending coaching/bootcamp?3-4 nights out a week, was better when I was in vegas for 7 months as u can stay out like 6-7hrs, in Cali it’s bad since bars close at 1.30 when you’re just getting going. And to answer your last question, defo in the hundreds, possibly in the thousands, looking to open maybe 20 girls a night, but I was useless with groups so only ran 1 sets or cyphening off a 1-set from a group rather being a clown for the group | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 04:07 AM |
| 6 | How many lays did you get after attending coaching/bootcamp?I mean I went on a few, + got 30 lays in 2.5yrs, avg looking , they were all younger +hotter than me, so solid results but still sometimes 2 month barren spells or just half finished hand jobs lol | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | How many lays did you get after attending coaching/bootcamp?I went on a few, typically some moderate improvement, not life changing. For the latter you’d likely need to video the teachers entire set from start to close and even then, pick-up is about finding what MO works for your personal vibe | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Did I go too far?If u have to ask.. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Went silent... then liked my storySent too many msgs, also possibly buyers remorse from the sexual content, better to save that for in person | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 12:53 AM |
| 2 | How do you find NSA relationships? Women I (M,32) meet ask about relationships during dates and I'm open that I'm looking for casual. But that doesn't end well. Dating app matches looking for casual never show up for a date. What works for you ? What should I do differently?Just give a vague answer like “if someone knocks my socks off then I’m always open to a relationship” which is true for most people anyway | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 07:35 PM |
| 7 | How do you find NSA relationships? Women I (M,32) meet ask about relationships during dates and I'm open that I'm looking for casual. But that doesn't end well. Dating app matches looking for casual never show up for a date. What works for you ? What should I do differently?Yeah you’re too honest bro, u can’t pull that off unless you’re a 9.5 and she’s a 7 | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 06:31 PM |
| 0 | How to move things forward from the flirty playful teasing stage?Why didn’t u ask this 2 months ago? | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 09:49 AM |
| 3 | How do I make a move on my girlfriendR u paying for everything ? | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:48 PM |
| 27 | How do I make a move on my girlfriendThat’s not a gf bro | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.yes, and her working to keep the convo going | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.Exactly, words lie, her body language doesn’t. Sounds like u made too many badly timed attempts at physical escalation. But some women are just time wasters in this respect, u probably should have bailed a lot earlier than u did | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 12:11 AM |
| 3 | The reason why you run out of things to say (and how to fix it)It’s not about what u talk about, it’s about how u talk to her. Tease her, banter, + if you’re gonna ask questions make them fun+ thoughtful + qualifying, + not written like an AI bot | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Club game, social circle game | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 05:04 PM |
| 6 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Conversion rate to dates from day game on street usually is painfully low unless you’re a Jedi | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 04:57 PM |
| 6 | The reason why you run out of things to say (and how to fix it)U mean wooden texts like “what fun things did u do today?”, “what did u buy in the city?”, does this guy even know what banter is, most guys get ghosted precisely for asking too many lame generic questions like this, charisma isn’t asking questions. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 01:44 PM |
| 16 | The reason why you run out of things to say (and how to fix it)Bro, you’ve got a Siri personality. Don’t post advice until you’ve banged 100 women | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 10:13 AM |
| 0 | How to answer the "what are we question"?It’s a cliché grande to say that when u don’t want a full relationship with someone | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How to answer the "what are we question"?Use the word headspace, then they’ll write a Reddit post about u | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 09:33 AM |
| 4 | How long did it take you to become good at escalating?Don’t flirt, tease. +physically escalate by breaking the touch barrier | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | What should we do to not get in friendzone and understand if the girl is good or bad?Yeah be playfully bratty with her, tease + toy with her | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What should we do to not get in friendzone and understand if the girl is good or bad?Not always being nicey nice, not always texting back immediately, not being a shoulder to cry on, not doing her homework for her etc etc etc | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 09:52 AM |
| 6 | What should we do to not get in friendzone and understand if the girl is good or bad?Don’t always be available, don’t be predictable, don’t be overly nicey nice +polite+respectful. Tease her, leave her on read, blow hot/cold, don’t double text, don’t ask lame questions | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 09:48 AM |
| 8 | I approached a beautiful woman on the train today, here’s how it went.Qualification isn’t complimenting. Women are attracted to balls + drama, both were aplenty here | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Does location matter for cold approach?I imagine SF better, 20 degrees warmer and a lot more chill + more women with time on their hands | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 02:07 AM |
| 8 | Should I consider learning line dancing to get girls?No, just learn pick up | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Because they hook up with hotter guys who wouldn’t choose them as gfs | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Write your best sexting that gets her wet.“ready to pinch+twist “ | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?It means reading her body language | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Yeah not that bro. “Ha you’ve got a little chipmunk nose” better, stay away from boobs comments until you’ve learnt some calibration | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Do women not find me attractive enough?yikes | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Do women not find me attractive enough?Start teasing them, stop asking lame questions, stop talking about physics and video games. I love physics, but I don’t talk about it on a date | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Why would she be hot and cold toward me?Because you’re not spiking her emotions enough | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Would this have been weird?That’s what I call a Siri personality opener | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Would this have been weird?Is that your opener ? You’re on a seduction sub 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 28/08/24 10:56 PM |
| 42 | How could I get women to send me nudesFocus on getting actual dates bro | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How can I ask a girl out from work?Just send a fun teasing DM, no mention of a date, no question, no mention of how much u like her | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 05:38 PM |
| 4 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?Great, dont open it till the next day, make it seem like you’re alos busy with other options | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?But all practice is good practice, let her stew till the next day, agree but don’t act too keen, she’s still in the doghouse | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:50 PM |
| 20 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?Yeah the 11.30 text back is consistent with another date in terms of duration | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 31 | Girl flakes but apologised and asked to reschedule. What to do?That reeks of another date | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Maybe u look too perfectly neat + manicured | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 11 | I make artistic portraits of girls I date and especially like and post on IG. Creepy hobby?Without their consent yeah it’s creepy | /r/seduction | 23/08/24 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Any Chicago groups on here?The band ? Hold me now, it’s hard for me to say I’m sorry.. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Am I being too nice?Agreed but literally one or two comments all u need, the ratio of teasing/flirting should be like 99 to 1 | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 06:36 PM |
| 6 | Am I being too nice?Don’t flirt, tease. Teasing generates attraction from thin air + encourages them to chase u, flirting is generally cringe unless timed v well + still requires teasing anyway | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s Going Wrong on First Dates?Strategy remains the same bro, regardless of the outcome. Other kino: twirl/dip/palm read/gangster handshake. But also need to tease her, qualify her, and have a whole memorized list of stories about yourself that convey your identity and questions/games for her that lead things in the right direction | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Achieve game and flirting skills with easeYeah I mean he has no push, it’s just “im good looking + confident”, that isn’t gonna work if you’re a 6. I love the film tho | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Achieve game and flirting skills with easeRyan has no game in CSL, watch scene where he gets blown out by Emma stone | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with stale text conversationOnce the date is set shouldnt sending more than like 1 or 2msgs max, sounds like you’re just sending too many msgs generally, it’s not how many msgs u send that counts, it’s how long u leave between them | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Met this cute girl and f’ed upSounds like you’re askin to many questions, coming off too keen +not intuitively knowing when the set isn’t going anywhere | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Wings in Miami / Palm BeachIn my PUA days in SoCal (when I was 28-30), went to Miami once. Come to Thailand bro, you’ll never need to do another approach again | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Wings in Miami / Palm BeachYes. But need to be goin out like 3-4 times a week to get good, which probably not gonna wanna do in your 40: | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Wings in Miami / Palm BeachNot gonna get good goin out once a month and you’re over 40 | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on rejection by coworkerADD girls like that u to let them chase, + don’t appear to try, but close when the opportunity presents because likely u won’t ever get a normal planned date with her | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 08:09 PM |
| 10 | Thoughts on rejection by coworkerSounds like u keep botching your physical escalation when u do get a chance, you’re not being hot/cold and subtle enough about it, so u keep ending up in a shut out. U had two clear opportunities to have sex with her | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 14 | Canary Isnalds Nude beach etiquette?Dude they’re usually like 50 | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 05:57 PM |
| 69 | The “It” FactorIt’s not giving a fuck what other people think bro, being internally validated, not kissing ass, being a badass. Think Clint Eastwood or Al Pacino | /r/seduction | 02/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 13 | She asked for my number but won’t answer when I calledDon’t call. It’s too much pressure for her. A playful teasing text would have been better | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 06:30 AM |
| 5 | How do I get my bf to fuck me more?Guys often get bored of sex in LTRs once the Challenge and mystique have worn off, and in this case sounds like you’re just a bit too full on in this dept | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Is past 30 above your prime?What venues? 😂 | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 02:09 AM |
| -4 | Is past 30 above your prime?39 is.unless you’re an actor | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Second date after no escalation on the firstYes good. OP u need to warm her up with lighter playful touching to break the touch barrier, eg thumb war, palm read, gangster handshake, twirl, dip, hug, whatever u can pull off smoothly | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Is this a rejection? Or is her reasoning actually the reason why?As u said, u missed the moment by not escalating | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | When did you start learning and practicing the game2006 | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 0 | 5 years ago, it was easier IMOCould well be age | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 12:07 AM |
| 4 | My first ever try at day game and I need some feedbackStop touching her, for a newbie to daygame it’s likely to come off as creepy, it’s not a club. Stop asking some many questions, stop with excessive compliments, + yeah u won’t hear from her again, daygame is generally v low hit rate unless you’re pro level | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 111 | Is it a red flag if a woman gets invested and attached only after having sex for the first/second time?No just means the sex was good, it’s a red flag if she doesn’t get invested/attached after sex | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 07:56 AM |
| 1 | What's exactly charisma?Al Pacino | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 10:17 PM |
| 5 | How to make her feel she's also contributing to "US"?If the sex was good they’d be biting his hand off for more | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 11:59 PM |
| 8 | How to make her feel she's also contributing to "US"?Nothing to do with “contribution” bro, this just means the sex isn’t that great | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys lick the pussy of every girl you get laid, or you choose some of them?fake chow | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Necessary to escalate at a coffee or stroll in the park date?Better if u can (at least some light “inadvertent” arm brushing, or thumb wrestle/gangster handshake or sth, much easier to do if you’re sat on the same side as her | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 06:26 PM |
| 15 | I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap...Yeah if she’s not messaging out of work, you’re just work entertainment for her atm | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 09:18 PM |
| 10 | I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap...U spoke to her for 40mins? Do u even have her phone number? This has all got way too complicated/convoluted, as u said u likey missed the boat when u had a strong frame to get a date + now it’s just in weird land | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Game is just finesseNah you’re alright | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 06:19 AM |
| 1 | You've been dating someone for 4 weeks getting serious then suddenly she doesn't respond . How do you approach the subjectSeparate or together | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | You've been dating someone for 4 weeks getting serious then suddenly she doesn't respond . How do you approach the subjectHow many msgs hav u sent her that she hasn’t replied to | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeAct like you’re the prize, + u don’t care what people think of u | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeFix what? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeRead a pickup manual | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 12:41 AM |
| 15 | I have a date with an older women coming up.bring WD40 | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeNice guys text politely + regularly: “hey how’s your day going? 😊”, she doesn’t know if or when she’ll hear from BB, it won’t contain an emoji, it won’t contain a question, but will be sth with high emotional stimulus/teasing/bait eg “hi bratface, I think I met your clone today but she doesn’t have your nose.. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 06:24 PM |
| 13 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeThey put a coin in, + they don’t know what will come out, that’s why it’s exciting. Women live for emotions | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:44 PM |
| 40 | Why do girls(Early 20s) repel a kind and caring person and go for the oppositeBecause bad boys are en emotional slotmachine | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 10:13 AM |
| 1 | How to continue after making out at an event.i) don’t meet in coffee shop, needs to be in bar or at her/your place ii) u need to physically escalate: warm her up with lighter playful touching to break the touch barrier, eg thumb war, palm read, gangster handshake, twirl, dip, hug, whatever u can pull off smoothly | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 10:56 AM |
| 8 | Can I Win Her Back? Seeking Re-engagement TipsAdvice: don’t be a mug, send the gift back, get a refund, she told she doesn’t want a relationship with u | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 07:39 PM |
| 0 | When will we have female-only cities?Jfc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 02:27 PM |
| -1 | What's wrong with being a cuck?60 lays. But obvious to anyone that once cuckoldry ensues in a marriage, it’s a line that can’t be be uncrossed. Pretty weird to be posting here as a woman dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 2 | What's wrong with being a cuck?Obvious to anyone who actually understands female sexuality bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:29 PM |
| 8 | What's wrong with being a cuck?Because she’ll never see u the same again, and she won’t stop thinking about him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Questions for getting first date layIf u can great, but it’s a lot harder, +generally you’d have to bounce to a bar anyway, so why bother with the coffee shop. I don’t know how good OP is, maybe you’re a pro and he isn’t. But no pick up coach would advise a coffee shop over a bar for a lay that night, in most cities the coffee shop wouldn’t even be open. U said “your job on a first date is to set a romantic mood” 🤦♂️ , we’re talking about getting laid here. And u saying u don’t even like bars is a bit of a red flag | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:26 AM |
| 6 | Questions for getting first date layHe’s looking to optimize a first date to get laid, why would he take her to a coffee shop where it’s bright, you’re sat opposite each other, u can’t escalate without the whole shop watching, + it closes at 6pm 🤦♂️ . A coffee date is more of a pre-date | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Questions for getting first date layYeah you’ve never got laid from a first date 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Questions for getting first date layDoesn’t matter what kind of bar, what matters is that you’re sat on the same side as her so u can physically escalate | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:14 AM |
| -1 | Best Approach for sitting sets?use your normal opener 🤦♂️ sit down between the opening part of the opener and the backstory, Ie very fuckin quickly | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Best Approach for sitting sets?I just gave the (very obvious) answer to this, get off here and start opening | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 0 | I blew a perfect opportunityU have no experience of plane game bro, leave it to the pros ok | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 4 | I blew a perfect opportunityU needed to chat for the entire flight bro, not just the first and the last 5mins, u didn’t do the groundwork here + turn her on, just did the bare minimum and expected a date | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Wwyd if you had an ingrown hair on bottom of your shaftMassively doubt she would notice bro | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?If u were corny +over eager, then there’s your answer | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?Yeah it’s just too slow, can’t u just upload photo | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:19 PM |
| -1 | Is this girl just toying with me or did I mess up?Imgur link doesn’t load | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Has this girl been waiting for me to make a move?Ok well she rejected u then. + she could have come to u | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Has this girl been waiting for me to make a move?Arrange a 3rd hang out and actually make some subtle moves this time | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How to schedule the first date?Most women outside Latham aren’t gonna up for bumping +grinding of dance on a first date (particularly if it’s a blink date from a dating app). Otherwise, I’ve used “ps can meet for quick drink next Tues or Thurs, if u promise to behave ..” successfully hundreds of times | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I get her on a date if she gives excuses?Read the room bro, that’s a clear no | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 01:02 PM |
| -1 | Can it take a while for a girl to warm up to you?That’s not the reason u messed up, the reason is u didn’t physically escalate | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Unsure whether to chase or waitWhy du wanna be polite? Why du need to “check in” on her? If u must double text it should be weeks later, + just a random tease like “ps I think I met your clone today, but she doesn’t have your nose..”. Msgs need bait… women don’t want politeness, they want DGAF guys who tease them like their dorky little sister, pushing +pulling their emotions | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Unsure whether to chase or waitNo, + never send that as any text. If that’s the kind of lame generic needy msgs you’re sending, it’s no wonder you’re struggling | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 12:05 PM |
| 0 | Unsure whether to chase or waitIf u need up having to double text, write “ok whatever, take care”. Polite double texts are suicide | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 11:02 AM |
| 11 | How does a women want to be seduced?Yes it’s a tease, but don’t be so mechanical about it, doesn’t have to be pull then push in very sentence or you’ll just sound like a cartoon character, needs to just be a natural vibe | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 02:37 AM |
| 19 | How does a women want to be seduced?I mean that one’s a bit cheesy +off the shelf, but that’s the general idea, needs a playful sting in the tail which is the bait | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:09 AM |
| 176 | How does a women want to be seduced?A guy who pushes+pulls in just the right amounts to build sexual tension that she’s powerless to resist. Seduction is two steps forward, one step back. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How to be flirty to your LDR boyfriend? 26F, 29MSounds like he’s not giving u anything to work with | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 02:17 PM |
| 128 | Flirting not know if she's single. What do you do?Doesn’t matter, just have the mindset that she is | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Is "desperate guys don't get girlfriends" complete bullshit?No it’s the absolute truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | I just need some clarificationProbably doesn’t matter, doesn’t sound like you’re even on her radar romantically | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 12:00 AM |
| 1 | I just need some clarificationYes pls do, but you’re killing me, this wasn’t even a date 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 11:53 PM |
| 0 | I just need some clarificationAnd why didn’t u make any moves after the cooking? That’s the whole point of a cooking date | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 3 | I just need some clarification“Ha Stop perving over my apron missy, +I’ve just invoiced u for your main course.. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 11:45 PM |
| 5 | I just need some clarificationU didn’t give her anything to work with in your msg, no bait, no tease, no actual humour, no new conversational thread. Also define “went to bed?” | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 11:35 PM |
| 10 | Date with a girl next weekWtf? | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 11:32 PM |
| 7 | PickUp was great for young men, RedPill is bad for everyoneDon’t think they were the “set of values” dude, it was just about getting laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:17 PM |
| 0 | I don't think women should have "no porn" policies unless it's an addiction or causes problems for her or is cheating, I don't think it's right for men to be denied thatGive this man a cigar, in most cases it’s not an addiction, it’s just he’s bored of having sex with gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 08:10 PM |
| – | Why is Taylor Swift seen as a role model for young women when she has so many traits representing what’s wrong with the modern woman?Because she wrote Style + Lavender Haze | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:06 PM |
| 1 | does social proofing on attraction show how women have lower levels of free will or independent thought?It’s confirmation that the guy is cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 12:42 PM |
| – | Why do ladies often assume I'm not interested if I don't try to jump their bones on the 1st or 2nd date?U didn’t turn her on. Try + get the kiss out the way on date 1, so u can focus on further (calibrated) escalation on date 2. Just a bit of eye contact + sparing amount of touching + askin sincere questions doesn’t do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?60 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?Worse for women because men judge women more on looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Does men need to pay the bill?So you’re the unicorn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 01:21 AM |
| 4 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:42 PM |
| – | A $20 coffee date is disrespectful for us young women.What the hell currency u workin in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:42 PM |
| – | A $20 coffee date is disrespectful for us young women.And coffee date is 6 bucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:57 AM |
| – | A $20 coffee date is disrespectful for us young women.Go away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Women and Men weigh sex differentlyI mean she just needs to be hot + responsive to being seduced, she doesn’t have to actively do anything to be “good in bed” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:37 PM |
| 0 | Women and Men weigh sex differentlyAgree more or less, +Every woman is good in bed if the man does his job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:33 PM |
| – | What happened when I asked my neighbor is she wanted to go for coffee?She’s not interested dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:22 AM |
| – | The Kanye West situation proves that women will get together with known abusers and narcissists if they're high value enoughAnd Simon Leviev | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Is the 80/20 rule real?Not to be agreed with or not, its a truth based on the biological fact that men are more desperate for sex but women need emotional connection first in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.<shakes head> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:20 AM |
| -1 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.Keep telling yourself that bro, sounds like you’ve led a sheltered life. Thousands of posts on Reddit to the contrary. The point is the average looking guys who are hooking up are the ones with charisma, who know what women actually want, not what they say they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.You’re just projecting from your own lack of experience in this area. Guys with rizz hook up with girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.Women do enjoy hook ups , they happen all the time + they certainly climax during them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them?Yeah it’s just jealousy, trust lawmakers on this issue not redditors. No one has a problem with Leanardo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenMaybe stop banging on about irony dude, women don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | “Just Be Yourself” and other passive platitudes about datingWell said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why is it socially acceptable for women to artificially enhance their beauty but not men?Don’t think anyone else on here has even heard of most of those things, but the main reason is that male to female attraction is much more based on looks than female to male attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 07:09 PM |
| 0 | What does "putting a woman in her place mean?"Just means not jumping through hoops + not adhering to unfair/unreasonable requests or tolerating bad behaviour. It shouldn’t mean shouting your head of at her, but rather being a assertive and masculine when it’s necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Your location is the biggest factor in success in datingStill not getting any then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Some are, some arent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:52 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Because a woman can often fall head over heels for a guy she didn’t initially find attractive , butthey often self sabotage by not giving those guys a chance and then wonder why they’re single at 37 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:46 AM |
| 5 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'Guys do make lewd remarks, but not what u wrote there pal , clearly u didn’t hear that first hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:14 AM |
| 0 | Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightistOk it’s the face then lol. Ps I do have a thing for tall girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Men on here say women need to drop their height standards, but men are just as heightistThis is a myth , no guy has a problem with 5-8, most models are taller than that, it’s probably your shape they’re taking issue with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women.You’re takin this way too seriously dude, this isn’t a gender politics exam, it’s just a playfully derogatory term | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 02:23 PM |
| 26 | The term "Pick-Me Girl" has become a completely bastardized term that serves no purpose but for "feminists" arguing in bad faith to sow further division in gender issues and practically demonizes any sort of love or sympathy towards men by women.Urban dictionary definition is correct, your extrapolation of that isn’t. Has nothing to do with being walked all over or a simp, it just means a girl who tries to fake being more unique + interesting than she actually is for attention, that’s it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?LMR isn’t a technique it’s a thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Does PUA actually work?Yes it works bro, but it will change u forever, u can’t go back to the guy u were before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:25 PM |
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