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| – | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenI'll tell her that she can fuck people without loving them and love people without fucking them. But that she can't fuck people into loving her or love people into wanting to fuck her. I kind of expect the teenagers of the apocalyptic future to sidestep all of the old man ideas that I can come up with now. So if she then decides to cunnilick some cyberpunk transbian that bombarded her with sappy poetry generated by vr-gpt sourced from a reboot of DisneyCorps Frozen that his her shitty origin sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:02 AM |
| – | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenApparently smart girls do as they're told | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:31 AM |
| – | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenWhy am I not surprised that the fucking boomers who told us as boys to be docile and easy to handle also told the girls in or class that we are single minded and can't be trusted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:26 AM |
| – | "Men only think about one thing" is projection from womenOr you confirmed the bias? Sorry, but daddy set you up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakhttps://www.reddit.com/r/Beichtstuhl/comments/14ia81j/ich_rutsche_in_incelartige_gedankengänge_ab_weil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?The experience -> personal growth effect just seems way too clear to me. Case 1: She tells me she had kind of a low self esteem period so she got in a relationship with a guy because of his huuge dick. The sex was really good but the relationship had a lot of problems and she ultimately left him. It taught her that sex can't hold a relationship together and it's just not that important. So now she seesawed in the other direction and wants to hold out 3 months into the relationship before having … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:53 PM |
| – | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?I wish women understood how rare it is to have sex or even be sexually wanted and the downstream effects of this. I see random polls and anecdotes about when women lost their virginity or started fooling around sexually and it's just way earlier. Like some girls just start to give their first blowjob at 15. If she didn't have sex at 21 she usually has a good excuse. Obviously they are not hooking up with guys of their own age. Meanwhile I meet guys who are weird nerds and didn't have a kiss at 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?This. I try to measure "want" in how much effort you are putting in to overcome the distance between this reality and the reality where you have this thing you claim to want. Because otherwise you are just lying to yourself, "wanting" conflicting things. And then I hear women say "He only wants sex." "I wanted to have sex, too, you know?" "Women want sex just as much as men, it's just that they are judged for it and also men aren't good at it." "Women with responsive sexual desire really want yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 02:18 PM |
| – | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?men constantly try to sexually assault me. I can’t be out alone at night. If I am alone anywhere anytime I have to tell my mom or a friend. I can’t travel alone. I can’t be home alone and tell people about it. I can’t even go to the bathroom alone. I live in Scandinavia, one of the safest places in the world One of these has to be a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Define satisfied. Statistically speaking in 1 out of 4 relationships the women has a higher sex drive. She will keep his balls drained and he will barely be able to think about other women, and why would he? But that's not a position women want to be in because it's kinda unsatisfying for them, sexually. What I think they mean when they say "satisfied with one woman" is this fairy tale where he strongly desires her and only her. I.e. only has eyes for her. Which sounds narcissistic to me.. It is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:33 PM |
| – | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?I learned to admire women's insane work ethic. They go to incredible lengths just to not get a C on a test where a man would have noped out long ago. They also have a sense of duty men could only muster in a war. Women do a lot of jobs that benefit society as a whole. I have no doubt that if the state were to fail women would organize and run soup kitchens and after that patrol in militias. If you ask a man why he does this thing he isn't getting anything out of he will tell you his angle, how h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:59 AM |
| 1 | With all the negativity going around in this sub and in world, what is the one positive thing that you really admire about the possite gender?about the possite gender? omg, the genders just keep on coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 07:35 AM |
| 20 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakDo I have to point out the inverse? If people tell a short, awkward guy to spent his 20s going out clubbing to "shoot his shot" in a place where he doesn't have a shot you have to take into account the opportunity cost of doing so and the mental drain that the rejection takes on him. It's a road paved to incel town. On the German subreddit there is a guy who is an ugly bar manager who sometimes bartends. He is an introvert that doesn't even like bar culture, he doesn't even want to hook up! But … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:20 AM |
| 3 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakI remember a study that found that the preference for a difference in height in their partner increases for men as they get taller and women as they get shorter. I guess I should look it up again, bet there is a sweet spot. So while you are not the only one you are very much the exception that proves the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakThreats to her status, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:03 AM |
| 1 | The dating market isn't fair and isn't meant to be fair, so we should give young men a breakWas she taller than you? My guess is that Richie rich is not looking for a short cutie or a tall soulmate but instead trying to compete against his peers height with dollars and hasn't come to terms with the outcome yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.And as corollary, if you think this is what you think your target demographic would want from you then you should either go back and check that assumption or pick another target demographic. unless you are willing to pay a surgeon to fuck with your face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Women generally just aren’t that interested in men no matter how attractive because they aren’t as horny. Any interest they do have is greatly overshadowed and diminished by how obsessed men are with women and the anxiety of putting themselves out there or the work involved in courtship.Having no eyelids is a meme women push upon themself. Your eyelids are good, they are captivating even and drawing the look into your eyes. What's bad about your eyes is that you don't smile with them, i.e. you don't express welcoming or happy emotions with your eyes. That is pushing away people more than any "exposed eyelid" ever could. Try making a video/picture of yourself doing what I wrote here: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXSex/comments/12pt26k/cant_take_a_photo_to_save_my_life_and_its/jgoa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/23 05:57 AM |
| 3 | When guys claim their only problem is the lack of sex, we should believe them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be so obsessive about not getting laid.To them casual sex is the best proxy for their place in the world. The internal logic goes something like this: "Of course my mom says I'm special and my grandma says I'm such a handsome young man. But they have to say that, they love me and can't see me any other way. And the ugly girls in my class say I'm so deep and thoughtful, but they just want me to validate them back with a relationship. But if I go out on a Friday night and try to meet women they despise me. They take one look at my heig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyThe standard line is that it's anal and sex in public. Because anal supposedly is something women don't enjoy, only do for the man. And sex in public is something for teenagers who have troubles fucking at their parents house and but do get a kick out of. But once you are an adult and have your own apartment it is viewed as exhibitionistic felony and now you feel you missed out. Sorry, I guess you just had to be there. The imaginary conversation goes like this "Honey, why don't we ever try anyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Nonverbal consentNo, he didn't do it to anybody he employed? He was in "a position of power" because at that time he was the star of the show. But that makes him less like the boss who can fire his employees if they don't put out and more like a fellow employee who happens to be the employee of the month The thing that killed him was he allegedly called women on the phone and just started masturbating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 02:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women underestimate the sheer effort and time towards looking like a big muscular gym bro, which is why they say they don’t like gym/muscular guysFor everyone who didn't get the reference: It's a joke, the actual quote is "Everybody wants to be a bodybuilder, but nobody wants to lift no heavy-ass weights." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t cheat because they’re ‘emotionally unsatisfied’This. We use barely any data for other discussions if we have any at all. We couldn't even agree on how much cheating is going on, never mind for what reason. It is just such a grey area number wise. Anything we say is just going to be us reading social media tea leaves. It will say more about us than about women who cheat, so probably very nasty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?Thanks, I appreciate the response. Without getting too stereotypical am I right to assume they also like to drink 🍻 and party on the weekends? And the women compete in this sort of bro culture instead of antagonizing it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Given we are living in an age of sexual liberation and mutual promiscuity; why is there still a narrative that men “use” woman for sex?Don't dox yourself but can you care to share the origin story of your socio-economic background or clues about this mythical "where I am" land in which women have sex because they like sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Men need women more than women need men.Our civilization got sort of complex. Things depend on other things in hard to anticipate ways. It's not that there is some male quality that keeps everything going but that men(and women) were made part of this big civilization machine. And the argument is that once the machine comes to a screeching halt as a whole there is no restarting it. Both because you lack the means and because it starts to disintegrate before your very eyes. Sort of the same way that past a 4-10 min window you can't jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys explain lonely women?People call it the sexual/dating market because it seems to obey the laws of supply and demand but this oversimplifies it somewhat. Dating isn't a commodity where you can just move more units by simply lowering the price. A more intuitive model for me is by comparing it to the labour market. There is an obvious asymmetry: An employees livelihood depends on getting a job, but for an employer it's just about maximizing profit. Employees rightfully complain, they are setup against each other and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 3 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVThe difference between women and men when it comes to orgasms are based on effort? Really? I mean if you are a woman who doesn't masturbate and doesn't orgasm and this is your n=1, sure I can get behind that but holy fuck let's not simplify it like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVSure. After all unlimited corporate donations to a politicians campaign are not corruption but also a form of communication and therefore covered by the first amendment as free speech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | You are responsible for your orgasm. CMVThis. Rejecting this responsibility is the fallacy most women fall for. Not that I have too much inside knowledge but from what I can observe it's that once women realize that to them orgasms don't come easy they feel bad and start to shift the blame elsewhere. First it's just that there are no cute boys in her class, then the bad ONS wasn't attentive enough, then all ONS are doomed to fail anyway and orgasms only grow on the commited relationship tree. And finally when she is inside said relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.Just a side node. The article you linked isn't about him and how wholesome a guy he is. It's about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineYour problem is that you think of yourself as unique, with worth bestowed on you by being a quote "full human being" but you just sound like a bot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.I think the rhetoric is that the lawful-good blue pill approach discourages you from immaturely hooking up while you are young and it's reckless fun. That alone almost enables the chaotic-evil red pill drug dealer. And only after you have resources to share you are worthy to have a, as in one(1), mature relationship with a woman who had no problem surveying the dating market while you developed your sexual dysfunction. But you aren't allowed to hold that against her. Sounds repressive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:47 AM |
| 4 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.You sure you are blue pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.Of course, because kids suck. It's about sex with another human beeing. Almost no-one who has good sex suddenly chooses not to have it. Almost everyone wants to have it and eat it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:26 AM |
| 8 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.That's a straw man. No-one is arguing for breaking consent or grooming. It's about social engineering. Or at least picking the right social circle for oneself or ones kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:23 AM |
| 0 | Signals it's overTbh it seems pretty intolerant and haughty not to. Probably because I'm also a guy: it doesn't scare me, only makes me also a bit angry. I mean sure if he does it every week maybe stop playing League of legends or try meditation. Weed doesn't seem to help long term. But seriously what is it exactly about slamming doors? Because we weren't supposed to do it as kids? Because it's "childlike"? Do you literally not feel safe when doors get slammed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Signals it's overSame. I don't see the numbers actually proof the 80/20 stuff. To me that looks like a defense for not measuring up. But yeah, women constantly try to squish men into female centric relationship styles. All these "relationship" articles that grind the axe about mental load, orgasm gaps and how men should process their emotions like women so the relationship works. Every time it's the future society meme captioned with "if men treated with each other like women do" Really does make you think a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Signals it's overThe point is you don't get to unilaterally decide how someone else is allowed to express handle their emotions and shouldn't blame them for not following your expectations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?Do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?All of this but not at the same frequency | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 11:16 AM |
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