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| 3 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?I assume most women have the common sense not to tell everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?Correlation doesn't mean causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?Reproduction doesn't only involve the 5 minutes of sex but also the 9month + 10+ years that follow. A woman's need for stability is biological if not to say hormonal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Women: How many of you want men to improve their social skills?Holy shit stop ignoring his point and reasserting your invalid one. Women are buying sex toys because they are not sexually interested in the average man and don't want to pursue him proactively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Most women actually appreciate being approached and it's only condemned by a vocal minority who aren't worth dating in any caseA lot of women don't reject men they don't want. They know for sure those men are into them so they sometimes take advantage of that fact and use them for X. Welcome to the male experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Is sex a product of a good relationship or is it a pre-requisite to one?*Their sex drives peak with women in their 20s Seriously, what would you use to back up your claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many men believe if women ghost after sex it's because "sex was bad"?The reality that men need to perform in a ONS situation is communicated very clearly. The whole thing need not be complicated with thoughts about a LTR. A lot of women bemoan that they want a fwb situation. They say the problem is most men are unattractive and have no idea what they are doing in bed/can't find the clitoris etc or just don't care about her pleasure. The message is clear that men have to perform if they want return customers. I have been told multiple times without asking and have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 10:52 AM |
| – | Most of the advice here just tells men to NOT be proactive in finding a girlfriendOne comment said "you'll meet someone when you stop looking" holds true for women because to them it means dropping their filter or famous checklist they apply before considering a date, aka "I actually wouldn't have matched my current boyfriend on tinder" The same advice for men would be something like "sow the seeds of your social network more liberal, with less expectation of payback and in a wider area because you are obviously getting insufficient results here" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | What some people get wrong about flirtingI am kind of surprised that you would think that from reading the first few paragraphs. it is definitely not pandering to blue pill thinking. It is more along the lines of what attractive actually is on a psychological level and how to be that (without extensive surgery) here is a link to get around the forced login: https://12ft.io/proxy?q=https%3A%2F%2Fhotelconcierge.tumblr.com%2Fpost%2F140529495929%2Fhow-to-be-attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | What some people get wrong about flirtingmaybe read this https://www.tumblr.com/hotelconcierge/140529495929/how-to-be-attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:32 AM |
| 1 | What some people get wrong about flirting"you'd been perfect if only you were tall" means you are playing the wrong archetype. They don't have an advantage because it is not a one dimensional competition. The 6'2 guy is specialized for the niche of hookups, but that is a hard,competitive field. The 6'2 Twink is high status, empathy without being threatening. How can you be the same things at 5'4? Well, you are already non threatening due to your height, being limpwristed like the twink will just make you look weak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | What some people get wrong about flirtingit will not offset your height, but you get a lot of bang for your buck for something you should be doing anyway. If you are 5'4 your frame fills out and leans down way quicker compared to someone that is 6'2. You can literally change your archetype from soy-twink to short-MA-guy within months of lifting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Would you want to be a man?The fact that my boyfriend's N count is literally twice as big as mine and yet people are more likely to negatively react to mine. If you were a man your N count would be literally half what it is now and yet people would react more negatively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 09:33 AM |
| 5 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveThank you for this. I was unhappy when I was surrounded by 90% dudes with no access to socialize with women. It got worse when I changed my surrounding to 80% women because with the female dominated peer group some of them repeatedly made me feel defective and it made the whole thing feel hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 09:02 AM |
| 1 | People who assume romantically unsuccessful men just need to "talk to women" more are naiveThank you for this. I thought I was unhappy when I was surrounded by 90% dudes with no access socialize with women. It got even worse when I changed my surrounding to 80% women because with the female dominated peer group some of them repeatedly made me feel defective and it made the whole thing feel hopeless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | There are two ways of talking to women: 1) treating them as people and 2) treating them as people you want to have sex withHave a look at /r/hl_women_only and /r/foreveralonewomen, a common theme they bring up is that women are less equipped to deal with being neglected sexually than men. Thinking you would be happier if you weren't pursued sexually is just as much speculation on your part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 06:59 AM |
| 0 | Do you feel any male soliditary with male refugees/immigrants or view them as sexual competition/invaders?The accusation of wanting immigrant dick is an overstatement to hit them where it hurts. Much more common is larping the virtue signaling all the way by getting a boyfriend who barely speaks the language and then fixing and supporting him. As I see it we in Europe don't have black people so brown people are the next best thing to live the stereotype of white men equals bad and entitled and third world brown man equals disenfranchised but confident and with a heart of gold. It rubs me really the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M men with zero options, do you consider it a silver lining that you can't attract women who would treat you badly, or do you mourn over not being able to attract them as well?I wasn't abused or anything but pursued by a roommate when there was no compatibility and I guess barely any sexual attraction. At the same time she did all those verbal jabs and tried to shape me into what she wanted. When I rejected her bc I wanted a relationship with proof of physical attraction she got hostile. I am kind of glad that I know I have something to offer. Or maybe I don't and she was just interested in me making her non-single. But after I had the experience I don't need it again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:51 AM |
| -29 | Indian women are entitled to Alimonies after cheating on men. But husbands are being Jailed for doing the reverse?Are you actually in India and a man? I.e. does this actually apply to you and you know the context? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/08/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Single women are happier... Whats your perspective on this?I find it more helpful to focus on the life expectancy study as this isn't just self reported data. So women's life expectancy goes down compared to never married. Men's life expectancy goes up compared to never married. Both of these are averages and we don't know causality. So my guess is: women have a big opportunity cost when marrying a random joe. By marrying him and maybe bearing his children she has way less time being around friends and the family she already has. Men on the others hand … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/08/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenBecause you can’t just not maintain your home. Watch me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenA lot of women seem to have an active disdain for casual sexuality, while swearing sex will happen long term if the relationship is healthy. I have wrestled with wrapping my head around their point of view for a long time and finally arrived at a satisfying explanation with attachment theory. In a nutshell there are three kinds of outlooks people have on relationships. The secure attached trust that the other will meet their emotional and sexual needs and they have no problem advocating for thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 08:19 AM |
| 2 | Non problematic men are still often loop in with toxic masculinity, just because they have a few personality traits women don't find attractive in men? This is why I struggle to take some people using the term seriously.I have come to the conclusion that in the context of relationships "toxic masculinity" actually maps perfectly to Dismissive-avoidant attachment from Attachment Theory. Attachment theory is a concept in psychology, it's real science. It stood the test of time, it's cross cultural (kind of applies to all mammals, really), it applies to both genders and it allows you to make actual predictions. So you should probably look into that if people keep labeling you with "toxic masculinity", because dism… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/08/24 09:00 PM |
| 5 | "Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptiveThe advice is worded poorly. If it were "treat women with human dignity" or "treat women like your sister" or "treat women like bros" it would be too specific. The "like human beeings" makes it sound profound and applicable from the 14 year old boy to 60 year old boomer. And because it is repeated like propaganda in different kind of situations it now sounds even more true. Though now you need to decipher wtf this advice in the form of a quib is supposed to mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 06:49 AM |
| 2 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?Tbh it is the story that gets sold to men, we only repeat it. "Sex will go down 3 months into the relationship, that is completely normal." "Relationships require a lot of work." "A good sex life in a relationship requires constant communication." "Women will put on weight as they age, especially if they have children." "Your girlfriend doesn't owe you sex." "If she doesn't want to have sex with you, you probably did something wrong." "50% of marriages end in divorce." "Women don't want to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?At least act now on easy things you can control: Floss twice a day. Eat protein according to the WHO recommendation so you don't put on weight. Use sunscreen on your face every day regardless of season. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?What you should actually care about is that desirable/healthy people pair up with desirable/healthy. So if you take a decade to find yourself a lot of options will have been taken, you will not want what is left. A 35yo guy can date down to snag a well adjusted 28yo woman who wouldn't be single at 35. The women who still is single at 35 will look around and view all 35+yo bachelors as ineligible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 02:15 PM |
| 8 | The male gender role of being the stoic rock in a romantic relationship is the most pronounced example of emotional labour that exists in life, and those who believe women do more emotional labour on average are either lying or ignorant.I have come to the conclusion that a lot of gendered issues in relationships can be boiled down to attachment theory. Men, as the result of their gender role, are expected to behave as stoic rocks [..], delaying your grief [..], having to stay calm and collected in the face of conflict and argument, being the one to apologize first, being the one to apologize even though you aren't wrong, being the one who has to be okay with their arguments being dismissed regardless of their merit [..]. Men ar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesI live in a small college town with a heavily female skewed gender ratio. Two times I have witnessed female roommates having the following conversation with each other after moving here: "Have you opened Tinder? There are literally no cute guys around here." "Yeah weird right?" "I guess no hookups until we move back to a big city, haha" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do people say Tinder doesn’t work? It’s just an interface that mirrors real life dating preferencesSocial media in and of itself doesn't do anything. It just is. It puts all those who sign up in a space where they have free will to produce and consume what they want. Yes algorithms may push people in this or that direction but overall for the vast majority of people you just kinda get what you want. It's a glass and the users are the water filling it. You choose how you conduct yourself, it doesn't change that. So when people say social media is bad, I disagree. It just "is". And the results … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?I just recently had an epiphany, it comes down to Attachment Theory: Dismissive-Avoidant and Anxious-Preoccupied Attachment makes us view sex in different ways. Men are usually predisposed to becoming dismissive avoidant. Being dismissive avoidant desyncs your sex drive with your need for emotional intimacy: Sometimes it is encouraged to be sexy, at other times it is inappropriate. Sometimes it is encouraged to voice your emotions and seek support, at other times man up and buckle down. If your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Surely being excluded from our democracy here violates a need, but there are a lot of fat and happy sellouts in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia who don't actually feel the need to vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?I have no sympathy or sorrow for people who take their personal problems out on innocent people. What about the ones who take it out on themself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?Sorry. Where I live prostitution is legal, access to firearms is controlled and thus we don't have "house full of women" suicides, so I thought you are just strawmanning hard. I guess now we know where one source of the lack of empathy is rooted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not seem to have empathy towards sexual needs of men?You having no sympathy is kind of what this thread is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:20 PM |
| – | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeI guess then you must really hate the gays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:00 AM |
| – | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeIt is not a competition of effort. If you want something from people you should give then what they want, not force down their throat what you happen to have. So, are you adding something they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:50 PM |
| – | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeMost young people in general are boring and have no personality. Have you ever talked to people 5+ years younger than yourself? It's horrible, they all emulate each other, have the same mainstream talking points and think cards against humanity has hilarious humor because it's so edgy. It's like reddit irl. Girls just get sexed nonetheless and then complain that hE wAsN'T iNtErEsTeD iN mY pErSoNaLiTy, LiKe hE DiDn'T eVeN sEe mE aS a pErSOn , jUsT aN oBjECT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The bar is on the ground for men is an incredibly toxic statementWhen you are building a strawman you need to take care to use only locally sourced straw. Yours was probably patchworked together from a blend of different kind of straw fields that don't actually harmonize well. It's probably sourced from different straw farms in russian, ukraine or china, then blended to cover the complete fiber profile and the mix relabled as italian extra vergine straw. It has the right texture and smell but it just has the clear just taste that it's an amalgamation of diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?get off this cancer site | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?get off this cancer site | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?get off this cancer site | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do women hate when their male friends confess feelings to them?get off this cancer site | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedget off this cancer site | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Parents have to be more conscious about structuring the socialization of their kids, especially boysThere was this study where they stopped rats from playing with the others when they were kids. The male rats they did this to were later unable to mate, the female ones weren't. I'll see if I can find it. https://archive.hshsl.umaryland.edu/handle/10713/20644 we assessed the effect of juvenile play deprivation, predicting that play-deprived rats would exhibit impairments that would differ by sex. Supporting our hypothesis, males prevented from playing as juveniles showed multiple impairments in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | "They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people.See also who is most likely to be their rapist: |their (ex)partner| How ironic that the one thing women don't survive is their survivorship bias | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.and have been found to be sexually aroused by many stimuli contra their stated preferences per research I would love a source on this because it is very hard to measure. Vaginal lubrication could just be damage mitigation in case of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I think the trash talking would reduce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsIt's a bit like the Key&Peele sketch on robbing a bank. You pick a non-suspecting plain girl, plan dates to get to know her, sometimes gift her flowers, chocolate or something thoughtful, get to know her parents, ask about her hopes and dreams and insidiously write it all down and most despicable of all you pleasure her in the sack like a madman (you eat her out every time ofc for maximum sex skill gain). You get so good at pulling the wool over her eyes that she herself will fight to keep the a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsIt's a bit like the Key&Peele sketch on robbing a bank. You pick a non-suspecting plain girl, plan dates to get to know her, sometimes gift her flowers, chocolate or something thoughtful, get to know her parents, ask about her hopes and dreams and insidiously write it all down and most despicable of all you pleasure her in the sack like a madman (you eat her out every time ofc). You get so good at pulling the wool over her eyes that she herself will fight to keep the abuse going since you succes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:58 AM |
| 3 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsI find that while every person is different, when you look at the partners one person has over the course of their life they aren't that different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:39 AM |
| 1 | It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriendsDon't call it practice girlfriend. Instead call it practicing to be a good boyfriend. I once had a rommate explain to me that she knows for a fact that sex is not important in a relationship because she got in a bad relationship with a guy for his huge dick (she was very inexperienced with sex but curious). She later proudly showed me one of his XXL condoms which she kept for some reason. Despite the good sex she then broke up with him because he was sad and depressed because of a back injury an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?No you should go to therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?By forcing men to constantly express themselves in a way that vibes more with your emotional language you change them, how they see themselves and behave, essentially making your boyfriend into your own twink, just because you like it more that way. It would be ok if he was in on it, but usually it is used as bargaining chip for sex or just as a way to bully people into fitting their personality to yours. And society sanctions it because apparently men are just broken women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:56 AM |
| 1 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?This is the dumbest fucking comment I have ever read. What you call "feeling" is the most superficial of reactions. It honestly makes my blood boil. And it is in no way vulnerable to say "this spiderman movie wasn't very good. makes me kinda sad, the old ones were much better." What kind of garbage person do you have to be to think that is emotional vulnerability and on top of that that this is what makes a relationship thrive? Dating today has been ruined so thoroughly by people coping with sel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:28 AM |
| 1 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?the "just be confident" advice is essentially the draw the rest of the fucking owl meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:10 AM |
| 1 | What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted?it's such a low bar imo "the bar is so low" is just a different way of saying all men are trash. If the bar would literally be low they would be falling head over heels for a random guy that shaved and showered for 7 days in a row. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:07 AM |
| 1 | "Every woman is unique in their taste in men" no they aren'tTbh it might just be sunk cost fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:21 AM |
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