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Personally I have not seen this at all. When men are portrayed smart they are rarely gay as for race...i have never noticed a racial split either. Just because a black man may be smarter than a white man doesn't mean they did it off race. Do you have any examples where they make it about race and it isn't just a black man being smart?
/r/MensRights17/10/25 04:39 PM
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Bloody hell I can't see why you can't fathom this. Nerds are often portrayed as intelligent, the whole brain vs brawn thing. Thus if they make a boy a nerd this trait will also come already equipped. Same way if a girl is nerdy she is most likely intelligent. As you so ironically pointed out nerds are interested in knowledge/intelligence so its a very easy link to just make them intelligent. Kyle couldn't speak and had fits of rage, emotions and all other sort of stuff going on. Again even hard-…
/r/MensRights17/10/25 04:36 PM
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I said nerds/genius aka one or the other. Yes one of the most powerful members in coven is a warlock and they treat him like the anti-christ and big bad. He is the exception and meant to be a bad exception as in its bad that he is powerful. Kyle is literally braindead and unable to speak. Consent where? Even the viewers of the show found that aspect disturbing don't get why you are trying to justify it or brush it under the rug. Vampire diaries ended ended in 2017. So probably wasn't infected by…
/r/MensRights17/10/25 03:16 PM
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Vampire diaries. "is a man who is a clear exception and smarter than other men and meant to be a genius type character." From what you said I already covered that bit. American horror story? They have a whole season where men are less powerful in magic due to testosterone, they rebuild a man with other male body parts because they like it more, make a smart young man a slave/sex toy between 2 women even making him lick their boots and its never the focus of the horror. Not to mention they have w…
/r/MensRights17/10/25 02:32 PM
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Not just ads. Can't remember the last time a man was allowed to be smarter than a woman. For movies, tv books etc. The smart character is nearly all the time a woman or is a man who is a clear exception and smarter than other men and meant to be a genius type character. In sitcoms the dad is always the dumb one. I, 100% bet you if there is a sibling duo for whatever franchise the girl will be the smart one.
/r/MensRights17/10/25 05:49 AM
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What you just said sounds like a disadvantage. You are expected to do more work, only reason it seems better is because your OK with it.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 03:53 PM
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Depends on your country or even area I guess. Maybe you think you pass but to others you don't. Also even the most feminist transmen online have admitted that for men the world is a lot colder and less coddling. I find it hard to believe you haven't noticed any of the disadvantages of being a man or rather you overlook them.
/r/MensRights15/10/25 02:24 PM
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Our experiences are very different. You mention the UK then I'm sure you are aware of most social media posts even slightly having a poc in there are flooded with invasion nonsense or harassing teens going to college about getting a job and not living off benefits even when they know nothing about his life other than his skin is brown, I already mentioned the double standard of wanting poc to be deported. I even had to block any tags relating to the UK on all social media because the racism is s…
/r/MensRights11/10/25 01:06 PM
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I wasn't sneaking it in. When a POC does a crime wanting to deport him but not saying the same for white criminals is in fact racism. Shows a different standard and reaction based off skin tone/Ethnicity. Whether it's considered good or not doesn't remove the fact people want harsher sentences if the criminal happens to be non-white. I don't know why you are rooting for right wing so much, I made my stance clear that I'm not on either side but seems you are very clearly right wing. But right win…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 05:17 PM
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I agree the left can be racist but we can't act like all racism is the same same way all sexism isn't the same. Right wing racism often results in targeted attacks, hate groups, wanting to deport, racial tension etc. Left Wing racism is more like lack of grace and being hyper sensitive about POC issue to the point they overlook white people. Or are overly suspicious of white people and misinterpreting their actions online. Also victimising POC and treating them like they are their race only inst…
/r/MensRights10/10/25 10:42 AM
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People will still deny that misandry is a serious thing. Ukraine didn't let men leave and dragged them out to fight a war. UK doesn't want women in prison and by law women can't rape. And now this. How much longer can people deny it? Is this not clear evidence of prioritising women? Or devaluing men?
/r/MensRights08/10/25 11:54 PM
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This is literally dystopian second class system type fanfiction. And obviously since women aren't angels will backfire immensely. I can see a lot more gangs and stuff using women to drop off drugs etc What is even more shocking is the lack of uproar well that's not really shocking. People in the UK seem almost dazed or drugged up like the lions you see in zoos where you can tell they have been drugged up to be more docile. The UK implemented these stupid censor laws where you have to show your i…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 11:41 PM
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I agree but not on the many part. Some people confuse men rights activism with general anti-feminism and there can be an overlap with genuine misogynists (Andrew tate types), conservatives, traditionalists etc. Especially online and even on this sub a few times I had to report genuinely misogynistic and sometimes even racist takes. In fairness those comments did get deleted and it is good some discussion can happen unlike feminists spaces where they will just kick you out and ban you. The fact t…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:45 PM
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Yeah that guy is weird, claimed Bambi was anti-hunter propaganda instead of just a movie and did a rant that the hunter shouldn't be a villain and is just feeding his family but the movie is from a deer perspective so of course a hunter is the bad guy. He is one of those too anti-woke guys.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:27 PM
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I didn't even notice I did that
/r/MensRights08/10/25 10:23 PM
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It's so eye opening once you realise anything benefitting men is always portrayed bad compared to what benefits women. I swear it's like they manufactured every tiny piece to always side with women or have their best interests at heart.
/r/MensRights08/10/25 03:51 AM
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I live in the UK and it's so exhausting. I saw a grown bald man questioning a 17 year old teen why he isn't working and he's leeching off benefits and what not. Just leave him alone, he's 17 trying to go to school. Has a backpack for said school, is speaking perfect English so clearly from around here. Yet kept interrogating him for like 5 minutes until he lost his temper and carried on walking to said school. Or claiming they are being invaded and it's just a brown girl on a bus minding her bus…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 03:43 AM
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Left hides behind white man but they clearly hold the same prejudice for all men. For example when they say they hate men they don't say killallwhitemen they say killallmen. When they try to blame the patriarchy they don't make men of colour the exception even though during even the most sexist of times, race was still considered more important aka a white woman in the past would outrank a black man. Even online you can see each race dragging their men. Black women complaining about black men in…
/r/MensRights08/10/25 03:42 AM
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Starting to think its Uterus Kingdom rather than United Kingdom. Misandry is so rampant here. Honestly its gone so downhill recently that I am moving out. Racism is on the rise so is misandry, genuinely shocked that America seems more stable than here. And at least in America you can have a gun.
/r/MensRights06/10/25 01:13 PM
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Are you purposefully trying to misinterpret what I say? My issue is the female prioritisation and taking from men as well as general bad male representation. To drive my point home I will use examples. Will be the same movie/franchise to show how much has changed. Maleficent/Sleeping Beauty. The father who had to send away his child for her safety is now the bad guy, Philip's heroic moments and true loves kiss was taken by Maleficent and they chose the worst villain to try to redeem. She calls h…
/r/MensRights04/10/25 12:59 PM
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As I just said the problem is the male representation not how much there is. Even in modern male centric movies they always have some variation of a girlboss character. Or he is put down by some other women whether it's portrayed as romantic, humbling him etc.
/r/MensRights03/10/25 08:59 PM
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They act like literal children. Do they expect constant praise and admiration until they die? I see so many use the excuse of being 'neglected' if your 40 years old and still need constant affirmation that can get exhausting so fast and doesn't really make the compliment genuine. Even children don't have this level of maturity. Then dodging accountability saying the other man made her. Are you not in control of your own body? They act like they are such powerless victims who simply can't resist …
/r/MensRights03/10/25 07:27 PM
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The problem isn't the lack of men representation but how bad it is. How many of those speaking roles are just dumb fathers from sitcoms? How many are sexists that girlbosses need to overcome? You cannot tell me you haven't noticed in the last 10ish years media has taken a very extreme swing in the other area.
/r/MensRights03/10/25 06:11 PM
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I just remember seeing countless videos of men not jumping from excitement of having a daughter and comment sections ripping hin apart saying he's misogynistic, abusive, horrible father etc and it's not like he was sad just wasn't overly excited like the mum. Yet when women do the same actually when they do worse such as screaming or writing articles about it, surprise surprise no one cares in fact they try to justify it. Always double standards. For men it's horrible reaction, for women it's ok…
/r/MensRights03/10/25 12:05 PM
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Yeah in millions of movies and tv shows made there eventually will be male centric media. The exceptions don't disprove the general rule.
/r/MensRights03/10/25 12:01 PM
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Pretending you came here for an actual discussion or learning. One post talking about how female centric modern media is, that is a problem and evidence how society is becoming more and more gynocentric. Not every post needs to be about rights despite the name same way feminists can complain about a million stuff but no one posts this crap on their posts.
/r/MensRights03/10/25 11:37 AM
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I know men get blamed for everything....but this really is mens fault. Women will accuse, lie, manipulate etc but men always make it worse. Stop being womens white knights and defenders, it isn't gentlemanly it just looks pathetic how eager they are to lick womens boots. When a woman says something misandrist call it out, too many men just either brush it off or don't care. The small things add up. Men need to care about men. Say what you want about women but they got the sisterhood part down. T…
/r/MensRights01/10/25 05:19 PM
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The UK is so gynocentric. Weird as hell.
/r/MensRights01/10/25 11:07 AM
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That's for anything. I'm not joking, anything they complain about they do the exact same. It is just victim mentality. Hate prenups until they have money or inheritance to keep all of a sudden they like it. Loved alimony until they had to start paying then went online saying it's cruel to pay your ex. Had no problem with mothers getting primary custody but when it's men they say it's cruel to separate a parent and child. Told men they were ridiculous for wanting paternity tests and the babies dn…
/r/MensRights01/10/25 11:06 AM
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Please explain what misogyny is. Then explain how the draft is misogyny and not misandry
/r/MensRights26/09/25 05:02 PM
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Lots of feminists online think the draft is misogyny. Yeah you heard that right. Having the choice to not be forced to go die is apparently a bad thing and misogyny. No one is stopping them from joining the army, they just won't be forced to during war times. How in any world is that oppression to women? Also claimed the titanic situation is also misogyny. Their life being prioritised during emergencies situation is also somehow oppression to women. There's a reason lots of people are getting fe…
/r/MensRights26/09/25 01:25 AM
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I don't want to group all women together and in my experience it isn't the older generations of women just the newer one. So seems more of a social change. But men seem infinitely more mature. And I'm not talking about interests but actual maturity. Learning when to let things go, being practical, not making everything a big deal, basic empathy, holding yourself accountable. Competing with his mother for attention of all things, stupid relationship tests, giving cold treatment to a man because t…
/r/MensRights25/09/25 03:11 PM
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I was more talking about abuse situations. You see it all the time they call their brothers, fathers, other male family members etc. I have met women who genuinely think boys (not even adults) can't be raped and that they are lucky because they became men early.
/r/MensRights25/09/25 03:06 PM
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Ok, if you want to debate it. Define the term man without using it in the definition
/r/MensRights25/09/25 03:04 PM
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I don't believe you can change your gender. But this doesn't mean I hate trans people. Trans men especially can shine a light by directly telling how people treated them differently. In regards to misandry I believe trans men can be victims of it. Ironically so do trans women since the fear is that it's really a man underneath and man = danger. Trans men misandry is more of a looking down type as if you de-volved at least from what I witnessed. Like why would you want to be a man type mentality.…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 09:34 PM
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I have a feeling to really change minds you have to sneak it in. If they come in with an already hostile view they will undoubtedly just be hypocrites and pretend not to notice what the show is saying. It's not just feminists even normal women and men (unfortunately) don't really grasp it. So to get more people watching with less of a hostile view in mind it's best to just wrap it up as some matriarchy girl boss show then slowly unravel and show how the men (or rather women in this case) are als…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 12:48 PM
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I never got why they compare vasectomies and abortions. Abortion is the life is already there. It stops being your body your choice when it's involving 2 bodies potentially 3 of you include the father + child support. Forced vasectomies however is...just barbaric and nowhere near the same level as abortion. There is no life there and they aren't going around impregnating women then the women pay them.
/r/MensRights24/09/25 11:41 AM
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To make it more digestible to feminists since they are a large chunk and you don't want the TV show to flop straight away. Put it in a fantasy setting. Kind of what the barbie movie actually did but actually swap men and women's role. Make women seen as oppressors but they are just living, show them being victims of more violent crime yet it's men people focus on, do men and children first, show women being drafted then men trying to say that's hatred towards men, have women be the ones to kneel…
/r/MensRights24/09/25 11:00 AM
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I literally saw a woman on tiktok hitting her son with a belt with a caption "I know he's going to hurt some girls heart in the future, don't worry mommas he's getting his punishment now in case your daughters can't" It was horrific. Tiniest and cutest kid I seen crying and the psychopathic comment section saying it's best to beat them early and some saying they make their sons clean their sisters room. Thankfully the video is deleted but genuinely vomit inducing how far there hatred goes. Their…
/r/MensRights23/09/25 08:06 PM
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I personally never watched the series but it still shocks me modern women or rather feminist women are shocked they aren't wanted by the men they want. They act hostile, rude, sassy, attention seeking and say a ton of anti-male rhetoric and defend deplorable behaviour just because the person who did it was a woman. Then care more about your finances then you but will expect the reverse from you where you prioritise her over everything even your children. Who looks at that and think to put a ring…
/r/MensRights21/09/25 12:41 AM
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No, the 100 year argument isn't valid. Everyone is descended from a woman. So by your logic everyone should hate men because of generational trauma. Yes I will blame women today for how they act. Because that's how being an adult works, you be held accountable for your actions. You seem too white knight-y trying to justify women. You got a lot of downvotes not from hurt, salty men but from fed up of men. You are trying to find excuses and justify a woman saying all males even children are rapist…
/r/MensRights21/09/25 12:27 AM
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The 100 year argument isn't valid. She looks ugly but she certainly isn't 100. She and women today can't hate todays men based off something they never experienced or the men didn't do. You don't always have to empathise with them. This page just seems like hate but you were just empathising with someone saying they don't care about men. Why don't you show that empathy towards the men here reacting to someone not caring about literal children being raped.
/r/MensRights20/09/25 05:29 PM
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All social media just protect women. And only women, even children are fair game online but say something about a woman and your account is banned.
/r/MensRights20/09/25 05:23 PM
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They live in this weird place. Men supposedly don't care in their world. Just being a woman means the man doesn't care. Yet when they are in trouble they call their brothers, fathers, police (most of which are male). You see it all the time, threatening to call their brothers. Calling their fathers, uncles hardly ever female relatives when they get abused. But once that situation is done, men go back to being oppressors and don't care in their world.
/r/MensRights20/09/25 05:21 PM
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A woman threw out a man's mothers ashes in the dumpster. The tiktok section? Condemning the man saying he's an abuser and needs to go to jail because he pushed her away to grab the urn back. Even saying stuff like "no wonder she felt compelled to do this. She is clearly with a violent man. Violent men break you mentally" Like how is he supposed to react to you disrespecting and throwing away his mothers ashes? Just stand there and watch? Same way they hate on men who push girls attacking them of…
/r/MensRights19/09/25 10:17 AM
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It shows how toxic actions towards men are encouraged even by big name brands. If this was a guy doing it to his ex from 9 years ago he would rightfully be seen as a loser.
/r/MensRights19/09/25 10:13 AM
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Not a specific person but a feminist who tries to benefit from past womens oppression or pregnancy. Like if someone complains how a tv show portrays male characters they will say "Well it's been like that for ______ years for women. Men can deal with it". Were you alive to even have felt this? Why are you trying to use the past to decline new men (because those men are old or died off) of getting better portrayals? Or the ones who demand reparations for something they were never apart of or ever…
/r/MensRights18/09/25 04:03 PM
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I downloaded tiktoks because they have such good edits of tv shows and rarely do the tiktokers post it on YouTube. Gender wise, man the women on there are deranged. Like all the worst possible traits you could possibly want. Egos taller than the eiffel tower, insane double standards hiding behind whatever excuse they come up with (like saying they are feminine so they only recieve affection and won't return it and men are gay if they want that), trying to call men gay if they don't devote every …
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:49 PM
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To me if they downplay false accusations just seems as if they don't think rape is a big deal because if they truly saw it as something unforgivable they would be angry at other women lying about being rape and treating it like a joke whilst being able to understand how bad it is to call someone a rapist. Yet they act like it's no big deal. They have more outrage over being labelled a gold digger. If we rightfully want to treat rape as a serious crime, then those who lie about it for attention o…
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:43 PM
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That isn't blaming women for the laws then. That is saying the hypocrisy for feminists to oppose the potential changes which would be more equal.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:37 PM
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No one is blaming women...
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:33 PM
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This might sound cold but no adult should need permanent help from their ex nor is it the exes responsibility. Actually quite crazy when you think about it. Even with children involved unless he cheated or there was abuse why are you entitled to carrying on getting paid? Do they extend this courtesy to other aspects of life? Your boss fired you but will still pay you until your back on your feet? No. Number 1 reason I will never get married. The laws themselves just don't make sense to me.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:33 PM
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Hate men constantly Blame men for every problem Then wonder why some men are bitter or checking out of a obviously rigged game. Hate men until they need men. Hate men but will still demand their protection or feel entitled to it but not be grateful enough to give anything back. Honestly it's more disheartening to see a misandrist dude especially this guy who says he enjoys being a man and has a community of male friends...so where is all this distrust? How did he become friends with a group he b…
/r/MensRights17/09/25 06:27 PM
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Maybe I'm more jaded and practical but I think that's way better. Marriages born out of love and emotion will be very volatile. You see it all the time, the women divorcing because they fell out of love whilst men tend to at least stick in it long enough for the kids. Looks or emotions can change, fade or her desires can change. I would want something consistent like money. And it's not like they immediately divorce you if you go broke because divorce is a very big shame for them so they will st…
/r/MensRights15/09/25 12:56 AM
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Nah its israel. Even if it was women the media would still stay silent.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 11:17 AM
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It's despicable how they always cry October 7th when they do much worse a lot more frequently. I remember seeing israeli kids asking greta thunberg "what about October 7th?" When she was trying to get Palestine aid as if it was even relevant.
/r/MensRights14/09/25 11:13 AM
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I once argued with someone that not being drafted and the women being allowed to let go whilst men were held at gunpoint on the titanic isn't misogyny. Literally mind numbing. For the draft they said its because women are seen as weaker thus its greater discrimination to women than the men they literally drag out to go die. I know you shouldn't compare oppression but come on. Its not like women can't join the military it just means they have a choice and men won't. And for titanic...they said th…
/r/MensRights14/09/25 01:15 AM
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I don't know. I don't particularly like MAGA folk so don't talk to them enough to get their perspective. Also helps that I'm not in America so I don't really run into them much.
/r/MensRights12/09/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah traditionalists are not really pro man as traditionally men were the ones expected to show no emotion, be the emotional rock and sacrifice for his family.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 04:04 AM
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Ignore the deranged lunatics. They also celebrated when a lady stabbed a 80 year old man because he looked at her butt.
/r/MensRights11/09/25 04:03 AM
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It's better than it being silenced like the feminist subs
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:44 AM
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I think it was more mothers would fight for their sons. However nowadays even mothers are being misandrist to their own son's and devaluing them or not helping as much because apparently it's only fair to their daughter since he is privileged because he's a boy.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:43 AM
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I still haven't heard a single reason why it shouldn't be. Other than the dreaded result of women actually being held accountable.
/r/MensRights10/09/25 07:39 AM
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This is the number one reason why when I'm having kids a stay at home parent is a requirement. I just don't trust strangers with my children. Children are too innocent and clearly can't trust society to give them justice.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 05:43 AM
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Women buy more stuff and consume more media. So for people wanting to sell something makes sense to cater to women. Divorce and child support, because if the man doesn't pay then the government will. Also I heard they get a certain percentage of child support so are incentivised to dish out more child support. Its all just human greed to the max. They want to make more money, women are an easy enough target.
/r/MensRights08/09/25 05:38 AM
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I agree. I don't really follow all the ultra macho stuff but its very clear that the ideal male today just seems to be a slave who is non-threatening. You can see this the most in media. Men that were previously heroic in their new live action adaptions are getting what I can only describe as 'neutered' Peter Pan and Wendy she slaps him, he has to learn to listen to women (like that's an actual plot) and Wendy is just a Mary Sue who can sword fight grown pirates. Maleficent, they made the father…
/r/MensRights07/09/25 06:56 AM
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Its so exhausting how they managed to always make women the victims if something good happens to men. Like complaining about mens mental health month (which only started getting recognition very recently and even then got a bunch of backlash) saying women feel left out when they have a whole month for themselves. Where noticeably men don't hate women or say they want women suicide to go up. Even for something like war, women are still prioritised with even idiots saying they are the biggest vict…
/r/MensRights07/09/25 06:47 AM
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I feel like society itself babies women and honestly it gets to concerning levels and feels very weird. Even the justice system gives them slaps on the wrist and are heavily on their side. Men are always expected to take the higher road and act like the actual adult. It's genuinely off putting feels like adopting another child who won't even recognise your effort and will say she deserves equal respect when she acts so childish.
/r/MensRights06/09/25 06:55 AM
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I hate chivalry also. Even as a kid the concept of it is essentially telling men to put women on a pedestal and they are less important. Open the door for her, walk on the side closest to the road so you can get hit by a car/mud instead of her, literally kneel to propose. Ask a man to kneel to another man and he will most likely decline but somehow it's chivalrous and good manners to kneel to her and then stand up when she enters a room. All old school gentlemen traditions seem very twisted and …
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:33 AM
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I just take a page out of womens book and shame them. Something along the lines of "Just because your so desperate you would go for anything don't project that onto kids" then imply they are a pedo or something. Because frankly it's weird to try to justify a child being taken advantage of.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:29 AM
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Yeah I think this is mostly a male problem too.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:29 AM
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He knocked her up is also a common phrase. Then look at any pregnancy comment on reddit, tiktok, Instagram or even YouTube. Especially ones where the man expresses some doubt or isn't 100% supportive and bubbly husband she wants.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:25 AM
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I also say something similar. They say the man needs to own up to his consequences and shouldn't be allowed to escape but isn't that what abortion is? Trying to run away from your consequences and escape.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:23 AM
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Just finished it. Season 2 felt so hamfisted with the feminism in a way it just wasn't in season 1. Morticia saying she rules the family Female Hydes being called stronger and more dominant despite being a slave species they just had to make the female ones stronger for some reason. Enid being an alpha because of course she is. And so much more.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:22 AM
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This is why it felt incredibly mind boggling when they said they didn't want to give women prison and suggested alternative solutions for young females. Ignoring that men are way more likely to go to prison so if anything the men should get this rehabilitation but living in the UK. I can tell you the women are just as vicious as the men especially youngsters. Sometimes more so because at least the boys from time to time would have common sense and size the guy up and figure it's not worth it but…
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:18 AM
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I already see women avoiding feminists and essentially eating their own as soon as they think differently. Men have checked out. And the women remaining are turning on eachother.
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:07 AM
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I actually find it funny. A lot of the men/boys nowadays online no longer care about being called misogynistic, abusive, narcissist and I don't blame them. Overuse a word and it loses power. It's literally the boy who cried wolf story. But now they have moved onto calling men gay, one thing I can never figure out is how do they all randomly at the same time know when to switch to the next shaming language. Like this year they all decided to call men gay if they don't like the behaviour, do they …
/r/MensRights04/09/25 04:05 AM
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At a certain point you just got to admit they are the problem. Trying to ignore the root of a problem because saying so is problematic just let's the problem fester and boil even more. Even other women are finding women too toxic such as mums leaving subreddits for mothers and joining subreddits for fathers because they are less toxic same for other female centric subs. Other women leave because they are so toxic and hate filled. Men are having a problem with it, women are having a problem with …
/r/MensRights01/09/25 05:15 PM
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Yeah they gave women a big barrel of clean water (doesn't sound like much but when your surrounded by salty sea water and the men had to find their own clean water it is a lot) They also released a little pig for them to kill. And sent a medic after them when something bad happened. They used the precious clean water to clean their hair. They befriended the pig and made it a pet. Then went and begged the boys for their fire and resources. The owner of the show at the end did some ham fisted lie …
/r/MensRights01/09/25 05:09 PM
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I always felt like we should test this out. Put all the feminists and girl power ladies on one island. All the men who want a male island onto the other island. Neither can receive help from the other gender for anything. Even if paying for them. Come back in 10 years and see who is thriving more.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 05:06 PM
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Wednesday, the guy who plays Xavier.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 05:04 PM
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Yeah a lot of mens problem is other men being shameless boot lickers and always looking out for the woman. It's hard enough trying to convince women (in general as feminism and misandry is very much mainstream) to look at men's issues and care about men but it's even more baffling when another man is so quick to take womens side.
/r/MensRights29/08/25 02:48 PM
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Men have hyper-accountability, women don't. Men are blamed for literally everything, I even once saw an article where a lesbian woman blamed a man for her divorce. You would think lesbians would be the one area where we can't be blamed but they always find a way. Men were even blamed for women not finding the average man attractive because they keep wanting rich guys and the men around them can't match their wallet. Which to me is way worse than dating someone for their looks, like I couldn't ca…
/r/MensRights28/08/25 03:22 AM
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Men are always told to back down and just obey. "happy wife, happy life" All the constant jokes about women never being wrong Told to go with the flow and be understanding when she wants to just dump all her emotions on you yet you can never do the same back because thats emotional labour. Even for paternity tests, imagine something as big as a child at least 18 years of commitment and they try to tell you you are in the wrong if you want to be 100% sure its yours. That you should trust her. In …
/r/MensRights28/08/25 03:03 AM
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This is arguably one of the most extreme forms of sexism right next to the draft aka in a crisis our lives are put last and can literally end in our death for no reason other than we were born men.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 02:50 AM
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Exactly, if one ship goes down society isn't going to collapse from lack of fertile women. Especially in todays society where the world is so interconnected. I never got why they use this excuse. If a building goes on fire...its not going to be like a massive crippling amount of lives lost. Only way I can see this being a legitimate excuse is in small towns but even then if the men die that small town still needs to branch out.
/r/MensRights28/08/25 02:48 AM
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I can guarantee if a new law came out saying that the default would be you keep what's in your name and what you earned all of a sudden women won't want marriage as much. Along the same lines if 50/50 can be forced due to a prenup, it will start being women who ask for a prenup.
/r/MensRights25/08/25 08:05 AM
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I learnt from experience taking the high road is the most stupid advice ever created right next to telling someone a victim ot bullying to tell the teacher rather than stand up for yourself. Sounds really good and mature on paper but just doesn't apply to reality. People don't change especially if their victims act like they aren't bothered. People don't change if they don't get any of their own treatment back. Fight a person with their own logic, I do the exact same. I treat it like they would …
/r/MensRights24/08/25 11:30 PM
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They all dehumanising a man when they are still dating in their 40s. Either they got divorced or are so ugly that no man even proposed. One of them literally admitting doing the same things as these problematic men as in she is 60 and has one night stands with 20-30 year old men...and she got a crown. The double standards are so outrageous. Another claiming she went on a date and he had the audacity to not pay for her meal. If you are over 40 and can't pay I don't even know what to say. Anyone e…
/r/MensRights24/08/25 10:32 PM
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Never got what's so bad about that. If they are being upfront about it what's wrong? Lots of people's do hookups or one night stands. They aren't leading her on or giving her false promises. Both parties going in knowing the situation. Nothing to hate on really.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 10:22 PM
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There will always be bad eggs in any community. This is 100% guaranteed. Even if found on the most peace loving and humanitarian goal, someone is going to mess it up and go extreme. Like vegans, on surface not so bad until a few rotten eggs tried to shove it down people's throat and now people don't like them much. The problem comes when the extremists are more common than the rational ones. Many feminists or so called feminists speak up for men and just call themselves feminists because that's …
/r/MensRights24/08/25 10:14 PM
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Ohhh ok, yeah I agree. I like using tv trope because surprisingly a lot of the times they give actual explanations and aren't all "women are eternal victims"
/r/MensRights24/08/25 10:08 PM
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It's neutral and just uses tv tropes. Men being expendable is a trope so makes sense they have a page. Not like they chose the trope.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 07:31 PM
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A feminists kryptonite is facts. Ask them to prove without a doubt men have privilege. They will either give some bs statistic or say something emotional like "Women can't walk home at night without feeling unsafe".
/r/MensRights24/08/25 07:31 PM
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Why does who set it up matter?
/r/MensRights24/08/25 07:28 PM
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That's still in the genre and has been part of the world-building. It's alongside the magical world rather than doing something drastically different or trying to downplay wizards.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 03:18 AM
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I never understood why they go to a male dominant media then try to make it about women, if you like women and want to chase their boots to lick so much just buy women dominant media such as Barbie. The most stupid thing anyone can do is try to alienate and attack the target audience. Its like buying the rights to Harry Potter then start hating on wizards and focus on aliens in the Harry Potter universe. Like why do that? The fandom likes wizards so why hate on wizards and focus on aliens? If yo…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:24 PM
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I'm pointing out their logic just doesn't work. All men don't want the same thing and if you trusted this advice that means you thought they wanted you.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 03:01 AM
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I actually felt a bit disappointed when I heard he got married, he seemed like a good example that you don't need to be married to make it work. I normally don't care about celebrities and I don't care that much but he did seem like a good example to point out when people say if he doesn't marry you, he doesn't love you which is such a manipulative statement.
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:35 AM
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Hypocrisy. The same group that says men need to listen more...just refuse to listen then have a shocked pikachu face when the men they ignore and belittle no longer care for them. The real reason for the double standard is society is reliant on men just shutting up and carrying on. So that's what's encouraged,
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:32 AM
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So did they try to sleep with you🤨 after all they are men and as you said men only want one thing
/r/MensRights23/08/25 02:17 AM
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Would be a solid idea if they didn't scream every 5 minutes that men are privileged and the ones in power
/r/MensRights22/08/25 03:47 PM
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It's not being hypocritical. No one should be killed for their gender. No one here is saying burying girls is ok
/r/MensRights22/08/25 03:45 PM
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Sharks and snakes are animals. If men only want one thing...what about your dad, uncle, brother and grandfather?
/r/MensRights21/08/25 07:40 PM
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Hyper sympathy is the perfect term for what I have been seeing happen. There's always some excuse, justification or some other reason. She isn't accountable no matter what. Even when it comes to child vs woman the woman is still picked first. Like women pedophiles, mothers killing and abusing their babies etc. It's gotten so bad that currently it's women, children, men. Children should always be put first. They even hijack child support, people saying the mother deserves a reward for looking aft…
/r/MensRights21/08/25 06:00 PM
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What's rule 24?
/r/MensRights21/08/25 02:17 AM
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I always question the whole 2 wrongs don't make a right. Sometimes the only way people realise how horrible they are being is when you give their same energy back. The reason the double standards have gone so extreme now is because men haven't been fighting back against it or giving the natural consequences. Taking the higher road hardly ever works.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 12:53 AM
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Yeah men aren't more simple. They are just more stable and don't get wrapped up in their emotions where they throw logic out the window.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 12:47 AM
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I had one tell me you have to be a bit mean to men because men like it and if your nice 24/7 then he gets bored. Also went on that the 'masculine' needs to chase so once you get the woman the chase instinct has to be nurtured by the woman so he continues to chase her, spoil her and so he doesn't cheat. And said the occasional blow up keeps it healthy. Of course her definition of feminine was being spoilt and feminine receives and not reciprocates. Said the man is gay if he wants more from her an…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 12:46 AM
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I don't want to be stereotyping ugly people. But all evil and hate filled/bitter people tend to have the same evil look. He looks like he does some evil evil things behind the scenes.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 04:43 PM
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Reminds me of when they found out men are earning less than their fathers and grandfather's so life is becoming unliveable and they need more assistance from their parents. You would think that would be the outrage but nope they focused on how high earning women can't find a guy to 'match' them. Well not really that more like there aren't enough guys matching them that they also like. Same way the left only tried to start caring about men when they thought it cost them the election. Just pure se…
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:16 AM
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Only you know what you are happy with and what you need to improve. Is having extra money important to you or will you be OK with a modest income where you can live a normal life? If you don't prioritise yourself maybe you need to work on that, same for if you prioritise yourself a bit too much. Do you want to be more social? Or do you go out too much? There's a lot of things a lot of people can work hard on. It depends what's important to you and what you want. I would suggest asking your mothe…
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:13 AM
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Whilst that's obviously horrible...how exactly is that a male rights thing? And I lowkey agree with them. Keeping the 2 genders separate just means when they do meet both sides are going to be unprepared leading to stuff like this. It isn't the first time either, weirdly women are attracted to dangerous men. That's why serial killers get love notes and people protesting saying they should be let free because the guy has prominent cheekbones. There was also another story where a woman just helped…
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:10 AM
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Mods are some of the worst things to exist. I hate they have unchecked power and often don't care to even try to put up an illusion of fairness.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 04:57 AM
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Yeah I have a sneaky suspicion it's less about women and more just making it so men don't have any characters who are in control or not pushed down.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 04:49 AM
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Anyone question why they are so obsssesed with mens roles? I don't see a lot of men saying make cinderella a man? Women have plenty of their own roles. Why do they still need to try to go for mens roles.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 04:14 AM
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This women are wonderful effects is too powerful and beyond annoying. Men get ripped to shreds over the exact same thing women do. Women do rank guys, you know how? Watch an ugly man ask out a pretty woman and how she will act offended. They also say stuff like a celebrities wife is out of their league etc. None of this is considered misandry. Ranking people based off looks isn't any kind of discrimination unless you want to argue ugly-ism. I saw people rave on about how men who kill kids are ho…
/r/MensRights18/08/25 12:54 PM
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R/everydaymisandry is a good one. It basically is like this sub but won't get the annoying criticism "YoU dOn'T eVeN tAlK aBoUt RiGhtS" because some people can't comprehend that people may want to vent. Also no one makes the same complains on feminism subreddits when they hate men. Same for other subs that point out the double standards
/r/MensRights18/08/25 03:28 AM
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That's a whole lot of words trying to justify why she likes dating rich guys. Just say you like materialistic stuff and not interested in romance. Instead of trying to twist it into some societal problem
/r/MensRights18/08/25 03:25 AM
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A lot of these misandrists (because there is tons of normal women, but they always get hate by the hivemind) act like children. Patting themselves on the back for simply paying their own bills, being so proud of being independent that they feel the need to screech it every 5 seconds like a 5 year old trying to convince you they are grown and so much more. The major one is the utter lack of accountability and victimhood. Even children are sat down and told they are in the wrong, need to apologise…
/r/MensRights18/08/25 03:16 AM
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Those people always disgust me. An animal and human life will never be equal unless its some really evil human
/r/MensRights18/08/25 03:11 AM
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I agree to some extent, I think AI is best stopped. Somethings just don't need to be developed especially if its going to cost actual people's their jobs. I also saw some pro-robot people saying to be kind to robots and saying they should get human rights and be able to get a job if they have emotions which is beyond stupid.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 03:09 AM
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I don't see the issue. In fact it only seems like good news, women won't be able to dangle pregnancy to get out of literally everything. It evens out the 2 genders.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 09:32 PM
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I'm not black but my skin colour has most definitely made my experience way different to my white passing brother (we are mixed race, I look more like my mum) Apart from grown men being racist to me as a kid, spitting on me, telling me to get out the country, police brutality cases, police being proven to have certain racial bias, my brother doesn't have to worry in crowds of white people, I have been accused of stealing, been told that I'm taking a job from a real citizen, people treating me li…
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:16 AM
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Recently for a show an actor got accused. The show (whoever is in charge, producer, director etc) cut his contract. She later went on twitter and said everyone is ruining her fun aka it was all a joke to her. His career, as an actor the beginning is incredibly vital as it can either launch or sink you was destroyed because of her 'joke' People were sending him hate, saying they feel sorry about his female co-stars etc then did a 360 when it was revealed she lied for fun.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:07 AM
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No...not licking women's boots doesn't mean misogynist
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:04 AM
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Then, genuinely. Please tell some because a lot of what women say is sexism against them never really seems so.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:03 AM
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Simple. The media is scary powerful, people don't realise it but it is very influential. Insanely so especially towards kids. Now imagine majority kid shows, there is always some obligatory girl power episode or if it's slightly more mature they have the girl deal with sexism. Then they go to school where they are told of women's treatment in the past. This combined with the already sort of brainwashed kid. Then social media where they constantly try to call out misogyny. Kids are basically just…
/r/MensRights17/08/25 07:01 AM
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Interesting, what about infertile women or women who are lesbians with no interest in children? Besides its a flawed argument. Putting all the social justice warrior speak behind us...men dying is only bad for women and children. Men are needed to produce more children and no the whole 1 man can have 10 kids with 10 different women doesn't really solve the issue because then inbreeding becomes a concern. Who is going to provide and protect the family? If we assume this is going by caveman logic …
/r/MensRights17/08/25 06:47 AM
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You'll also notice men don't pat themselves on the back for paying bills or bragging they are independent as if that isn't the bare minimum of being an adult.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 06:35 AM
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Chatgpt has a massive gender bias. Even when I try to get it to admit men are better at some things it always tries to sneak in a extra point for women like saying "physical strength isn't everything and women excel at....." when I asked it who on average was stronger. Even when discussing scenarios I noticed it tries to tell men to be more patient and kind whilst women are catered too. I wrote a scenario saying my girlfriend yelled because I forgot our anniversary and it said its sorry but then…
/r/MensRights15/08/25 02:47 PM
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Its just their effort to make men support them. Whenever men do try to push for change you get what you basically said. They dismiss the issue, blame men (which isn't helpful since it doesn't matter who is at fault) or just contradict themselves. I fully believe you can tell how much a person truly believes in their ideology and understands it if they can answer questions. A lot of feminists seem to just be online parrots who say one or 2 statistics and catchy phrases, nearly all the time the sa…
/r/MensRights13/08/25 11:28 PM
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UK is all sorts of messed up. Women can't be a rapist Currently you need to show your face to use anything not kid friendly which is like almost everything. People getting arrested over Facebook/tweets then complaining prisons are too full...gee I wonder why. Literally feels like an authoritarian regime. A robber can enter your home, scratch himself on glass and sue you. They also want misogyny to be treated like extremism and give women alternate options to prison. The UK is all sorts of weird …
/r/MensRights13/08/25 06:01 PM
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Female pedos are under reported and not taken seriously.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 02:24 AM
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MeToo Got a bunch of people fired and even today studios still fire actors if they just get an allegation. Doesn't even have to be true. They say men hating women is systemic. Yet if you look at old traditional stuff it's always women being prioritised and protected. Women and children first, women exempt from the horror of war, chivalry is just putting her on a pedestal, dating/marriage life is essentially just "give into her" for men (happy wife happy life nonsense) Systemically I would argue …
/r/MensRights12/08/25 02:20 AM
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In today's current climate yes. I think feminists should be persuaded first or at least gynocentric men.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 12:03 PM
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I saw a post a woman was laughing. She lied about her ex being abusive so her brother killed him and is now in jail. As if that's not bad enough her mother knew she was lying and both of them haven't told the brother that it was all a lie. The comments predictably were trying to downplay. I have had multiple female friends, sisters, female cousins. That's the reason I don't believe in the whole women are morally superior or that they are forever victims. It's just weaponised victim hood. The bel…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 04:04 AM
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No that is very much trying to justify injustice especially as its used to try to silence men when they do speak up. Changing the system to be better for men would require giving men more attention yet when men try that they are told who set that system up which just dismisses men and it becomes a neverending cycle.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 02:01 AM
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Who set that system up? I just say not me. I always ask why they care. Why does the origin of the system even matter? If there's a fire in your house are you going to interrogate your family and say "who set the fire?" or try to put it out before it spreads and burns all of you? If someone accidentally cuts themselves, are you not going to offer a band aid just because they did it to themselves? In the longterm i ask them, do you want to play a blame game or actually try to solve the issue. It a…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 01:58 AM
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Curiously but not surprisingly a lot of the things they want men to do, they don't do themselves. They want men to hold other men accountable (which they already do way more than women) yet they run to defend a woman over the most heinous of crimes. They want men to help yet refuse to give help Want men to fight back against misogyny but will still try to gaslight you that misandry isn't a thing. Want men to be OK with breaking gender roles for women yet will still fight tooth and nail for gende…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 06:17 PM
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But you hate the idea of equality based off a post made from 6 years ago and is deleted? I thought you hated MRA's
/r/MensRights10/08/25 12:55 PM
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The person who commented that...got it from a deleted post from 6 years ago and was 1 line. And even that got people in the comments fighting against it and just focusing on how castration being used as rapist punishment is horrible due to stuff like false allegations and it clearly won't be applied fairly to both genders. Its very telling that one of the only somewhat acceptable reason to hate this sub was one line from a deleted post 6 years ago. They genuinely have no reason so just latch ont…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 02:47 AM
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Its a slippery slope. It would snowball essentially at least thats how I interpreted it. I admit that line is iffy but easily explained by being rights focused rather than the morality of it. There's just something most people agree the government has no right too. I hate white supremacists and other similsr ideologies but I would never want it to be banned or censored for the simple reason that it could snowball and I believe strongly in freedom of speech even if I don't like what the person is…
/r/MensRights10/08/25 12:37 AM
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Very easy for you to say as it would benefit women and impact men more. This is just facts, in some countries women can't even rape such as the UK. Men are targeted by false allegations tons more than women. I have known people who got false allegations. If this law was in effect and he got castrated only for it to be all for a lie would have been horrific and irreversible damage. The comment section isn't gathering sympathy but simply pointing out that it would affect innocent men with somethin…
/r/MensRights09/08/25 11:34 PM
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Surely you would understand why? Not only is false allegations a common concern on this app, we can see from a mile that this law would be only applied to men. Thats not sympathising with rapists thats pointing out that this law would only target men and the fact it wouldn't even be a discussion if it includes women. Chemical castration for rape which can be lied about is a horribly horrendous idea.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:48 PM
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Where in this sub have majority (because one or 2 bad apples don't mean anything) of the comment section try to generate sympathy for rapists?
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:04 PM
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Where have we defended all rapists? Or wanting sympathy for rapists? Its becoming a concerning pattern where they make up these random comments then get angry yet you can never seem to find these comments.
/r/MensRights09/08/25 10:02 PM
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Yeah ever since I noticed this it soured a lot of movies for me. It always feels very targeted or the men have to learn from the women. I can't think of a single movie or show with a flipped dynamic apart from Alvin and the Chipmunks. But it's not just making men dumb. Men that were previously heroic in their new live action adaptions are also getting 'neutered' Peter Pan and Wendy, she slaps him, he has to learn to listen to women (like that's an actual plot) and Wendy is just a Mary Sue who ca…
/r/MensRights08/08/25 09:28 PM
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What are you trying to say?
/r/MensRights08/08/25 09:17 PM
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I don't want the government in my relationship. I spoke to a few women on why they think I should marry my long-term girlfriend, believe it or not all the excuses they gave just benefitted her saying she deserves security. That without marriage I can walk away whenever and not have to help her get her life back together. That how would I feel if someone didn't offer security to my future daughter. I definitely noticed a lot of the group who think marriage is essential or oh so important happen t…
/r/MensRights06/08/25 08:12 PM
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The 4b tantrum was hilarious. I saw one where she divorced her husband...thought it was going to be a big moment in history and she needs to do a sacrifice only for it to die down in like a week. It literally just boiled down to women angry at trump and are so entitled and have such big egos they thought they were punishing men by restricting them of their presence. Divorcing their husbands because a president got elected. Like imagine the ego needed for that, to think your presence is such a gi…
/r/MensRights06/08/25 02:27 AM
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I 100% agree, I only have control over my actions. I can't control what some random man I never met does. I also agree on they put so much expectations for men to help them yet they don't offer anything back. They don't even be grateful about it either viewing it as bare minimum or some other nonsense. I'm talking generally. Another thing that annoys me is when women say they want protective boyfriends, sure ok everyone can like what they like but then they won't listen to said guy. They'll be g…
/r/MensRights05/08/25 01:33 PM
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I'm so fed up of pregnancy/Childbirth related discussions. I've seen people use it to justify saying the man needs to serve her, that she should get the last name and first name choice, they use it as an excuse to not get drafted, they should have 100% say over anything. Yet when it comes to men they just say don't impregnate then you don't have to worry. It's so exhausting seeing them dangle pregnancy for literally everything
/r/MensRights04/08/25 08:36 PM
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I swear in a few years there will be some article coming out saying all these unnatural hair dyes are damaging people's brains somehow. It's just way too many to be a coincidence. Anyone with unnatural hair colour just always seems to have negative IQ but a whole lot of bitterness. People with natural colour hair dye (black, brown, blond, red hair dye) all seem to be relatively normal people.
/r/MensRights04/08/25 06:32 AM
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Literally the amount of stuff men go through they are always handling emotions 10x more than women. Even in the olden days, happy wife, happy life was a thing for a reason aka she will make your life miserable if she isn't happy. But women act like it's emotional labour to just talk to their boyfriend/husband about his trouble. Never mind they have endless group chats where they give this effort to their friends but suddenly when it's their Signifcant other now it's emotional labour. I'm having …
/r/MensRights04/08/25 06:30 AM
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A few feminist fantasies seem straight up dystopia. Such as wanting men to have a 'keeper' and it be up to the mother to castrate their sons and it would be a public festival
/r/MensRights02/08/25 07:07 PM
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Remember these people will also tell you misandry just annoys and cry that anytime a female dies it's femicide. I see it all the time. If something bad happens to a guy they always try to give a woman the escape or some benefit of the doubt. If something bad happens to women they go crazy and act like we have super patriarchy meeting to do more stuff. A woman sold her children into slavery where they were tied, beaten and used as farm labour just because her new man didn't want to be a stepdad a…
/r/MensRights02/08/25 09:58 AM
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Mens issues are connected to feminism or at least the fact that they haven't been dismantled yet. Of course we are anti-feminist since their side has thrown a lot of hate and is a huge part of gynocentrism. Mens issues have to do with gynocentrism and general male hatred. "feminism as a whole doesn’t focus on men’s issues" "What I’m saying is that feminism focuses on equality for both men and women" Surely you see how you contradicted yourself. If it is not focusing on men's issues how is it foc…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:18 PM
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Because of people like you, claiming feminists care about men's issues then asking why we expect women to focus on men's issues. Surely you see how that's contradictory? Not to mention male rights activism at the very least is very open that it is focusing on men rather than trying to gaslight that their focus is on helping women but never actually following through. Feminism tells men they focus on men's issues but actually don't. Just as you tried to convince me now.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 10:02 PM
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I have tried. 2/3 article you gave still tried to downplay men's problems or say women have it worse. It's all good and well to say you are for equality, most hate groups have enough brains to realise they can't outright hate a group if they want it to become popular. Even racists justify themselves. No one ever wants to think of themselves as the bad guys. I have read and seen actual feminists. Cheering on male suicide, saying KAM, attacking men for no reason, starting online gender wars or say…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 09:29 PM
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Yes it very much is a manipulation. It's always the same thing, try to shame the man into agreeing you. Other examples are "A real man would" "a gentleman would" or some other attack on his masculinity or maturity. Now they realised men have stopped caring about those past phrases so have moved onto the gay implication. I have started saying the same to them. Tell them they are probably just closeted lesbians or they should date women whenever they complain about men or say they hate men. Once y…
/r/MensRights01/08/25 08:07 PM
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Might not seem like it but a lot of people need a deprogramming of feminism. Feminism portrays men badly and women as angelic beings, this sub is pointing out that's a clear lie. Feminism and anti-male attitude has become alarmingly normalised. Books, shows, movies, social media. Obviously we are anti-feminism, they do nothing but throw constant hate
/r/MensRights01/08/25 07:56 PM
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People thinking men not wanting to be treated differently somehow translates to hating women tells me 2 things. They are aware the way men are treated right now is nothing but beneficial to women. Or they themselves know feminism isn't for men so self project it onto men thinking male rights activist want to do the same.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 07:54 PM
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Why?
/r/MensRights01/08/25 05:27 PM
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And it would be over the most stupid thing like having to clean up after their kid. Or their dad said to clean their room
/r/MensRights01/08/25 05:26 PM
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I have tried to give feminism a fair turn. YouTube, Reddit and Tiktok all have the same flavours of men hating. It used to not be so bad but recently it's like a pandemic my guess is all those tiktok feminists have also moved to YouTube or reddit. And I agree most of it is just emotion and just sassy comebacks they think is a gotcha moment. Ironically proving the stereotypes of irrational and hysterical woman. And anytime they are hit back with a logical debunk they either don't respond or will …
/r/MensRights01/08/25 05:22 PM
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I hate the term femicide. They seem to think it's any time a woman is killed rather than killed for her gender.
/r/MensRights01/08/25 04:38 PM
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My thoughts...even in a so called patriarchy, men still do like 90% of the work anyway. But also the only way this can stop is men need to do something. Think about it women can complain and moan all they want but nearly all the time it's a man that's enforcing her will or not thinking about how it will affect other men. Or it's other men encouraging her delusion and childish attitude. At least women seem to have eachothers backs, men (generally speaking) are too eager to throw other men under t…
/r/MensRights31/07/25 03:54 PM
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I hate the ones who say stuff like "your choose to be depressed" "you choose to be offended" rather than just fixing their behaviour they expect you to just be a robot. I had a friend like that. Very annoying, we were sort of in the friend group so it's not like I could just cut him off without it being very awkward. He would be the most annoying person ever, repeat what you say, act like he's a tough gangsta that's going to hit you, always aggressive. Yet anytime someone complained he would jus…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 08:10 PM
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I've always felt this, sometimes these misogynists are so outlandishly misogynistic and hateful it feels like a play especially when you realise they don't even act like that off camera. Just feels like trying to give feminists ammunition so they can ignore ore 90% of male presence online to focus on this one specific one then circle that for weeks. Like that one random guy who everyone found problematic saying something about women's bodies now belonging to men due to some abortion laws. Men do…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 01:38 PM
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I don't mind it. I don't like it especially since it's becoming harder and harder to find movies where the male character isn't portrayed as incompetent, needing to be taught a lesson or is just dumb but at least it shows they have value. I think one way to bridge the empathy gap would show it's OK to like men this seems similar enough to that. And I do mean it, I've seen lots of women essentially bullied out of caring for men even a little bit. It's so bizarre to see a woman genuinely hate anot…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 01:32 PM
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This year was one of the few times I saw many posts about men's mental health during men's mental health month. It felt so good to see so many people post about it and even doing stuff like 1 minute silent posts but of course women ruined it. Not all women but the same old toxic feminists. The sheer hatred and vitriol feminists were spewing saying the suicide rate isn't high enough or it's men's problem made me sick. They get focus every year for women's month but the one time the shoe was on th…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 11:07 AM
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Men are the biggest upholders of society. This is just fact. So if the society is gynocentric and misandrist then men can in fact be very big misandrists
/r/MensRights30/07/25 11:03 AM
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Nothing screams privilege like getting excluded when talking about your problem. This is one of the reasons that convinces me that feminists just aren't oppressed as they claim to be because the minute you are not a feminist they see it as a bad thing.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 11:02 AM
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You just said it yourself they know full well it will have massive pushback if done to women. That is in fact misandry. Or at the very least know misandry is so rampant that no one will care
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:58 AM
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You would be shocked how far pretty privilege gets you, man or woman.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:55 AM
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Don't forget cheering about a woman setting a man on fire because of a misogynistic joke. Or saying male suicide isn't high enough all because during men's mental health month they saw some posts. Men didn't do that when they had girlboss feminism shoved in their face or women's month. They legitimately got angry that men's mental health was getting focus.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:45 AM
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This is why I say men's problems are other men. Other men need to stop rushing to defend women and be so ready to attack another man simply because of how she is feeling.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:43 AM
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I always remember that their so called fear doesn't stop them provoking men. If your legitimately scared you wouldn't try to provoke them or hate on them so openly.
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:43 AM
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I know your joking but I legitimately had a 20 minute argument with a 21 year old feminist who thought it was the patriarchy making places colder saying stuff like women feel cold more and it's not a coincidence that shops and other buildings have AC on even if women are uncomfortable and they want men more comfortable than women. At the time we were in the middle of a heatwave and I pointed out it's easier to get warm then it is to get cold especially in professional environments where you can'…
/r/MensRights30/07/25 10:37 AM
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In a culture where saying kill all men, celebrating male suicide and general anti-maleness is allowed and accepted you can't fight that without generalising for the simple fact is that it's a large group of people doing it. You can't fight mainstream thinking without acknowledging it is in fact mainstream. I have met lots of nice women, but they often aren't the ones calling themselves the empathetic gender.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 08:16 PM
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I've seen so many times women just use children to either elevate themselves or punish the father. Such as thinking because he can't pay child support she gets to withhold his child from him. Even when they talk about divorce they talk about taking the kid even if he hasn't shown any hostility or abusive behaviour to the kid. They use children as an excuse for so many things. To escape the draft, to demand a push present or to be prioritised by the father. Even in courts they use its the benefit…
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:21 AM
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Yeah all of a sudden their outrage over rape and consent goes out the window when it's a woman.
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:04 AM
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Legitimately I want to see where men have even been half as bad as that. Men don't say KAM, make jokes about baby girls dying (literal babies), dismiss literally disfigurement and setting people alight, make fun of female suicide. A woman chased and stabbed an elderly man and people were justifying it saying he touched her butt. It was a crowded area and embarrassingly that has even happened to me in crowded areas my hands briefly touched someone else's butt. It is not enough to chase the man an…
/r/MensRights29/07/25 09:04 AM
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Seems like you wrote this in bad faith. But for arguments sake and just assuming this is in good faith. ⁿ Any discussion discussing one side being hated one and oppressed will inevitably compare it to the other side otherwise it's not really selective oppression but mutual oppression. Women by large have been hating on men for literal decades and only recently are getting any push back. Literally 90% of women channels or any woman centric thing will at one point hate men. It's highly encouraged …
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:57 PM
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No it's not.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:47 PM
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The law on paper might be fair but the ones executing the law might not be
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:45 PM
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Still waiting for all this patriarchy benefits I'm supposed to get. Because so far it just seems like men are stuck with the bad sides of traditional gender roles
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:43 PM
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Exactly, how can we trust that a woman (who for some reason in this social climate just love to hate and resent men) will be unbiased
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:42 PM
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That has got to be the most insulting lie ever told. I don't know if this generation of women got evil-ised but I have never seen a shred of empathy from them except when it comes to defending other women. Children aren't even safe and they want women over children.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:37 PM
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I genuinely hate that song so much. They still don't see the problem with this mob mentality and thinking just because she says it happened it's true. Especially since those same people won't attack and sometimes even defend people like Cardi B who outright admits to drugging men.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 01:28 PM
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I've seen them defend the hypocrisy saying stupid stuff like reparations, using history as an excuse or saying we live in a patriarchy so it's fine.
/r/MensRights28/07/25 02:57 AM
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I struggle to see misogyny that isn't just a reaction to misandry. Seems like feminists are in a one sided war and just making up random things in their head.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 12:24 AM
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I noticed this all the time, every time gender wars happen its blatantly obvious which side is starting it and which side always goes over the lines. For example men for a fun little thought experiment did 100 men vs a gorilla trend. Everyone giving their thoughts some saying 100 men will do it, some saying 100 modern men won't have the physicality of our past ancestors so will get wrecked by a gorilla etc. Women then started doing 100 men vs not raping someone. Just absolutely ruining the trend…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 08:32 PM
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Literally, why is everything just projection with them. Just feels like they are so self centered so assume because they feel something the other side must too. Really reveals their dark side when you realise all the bad stuff they say and theorise about men is just what they imagine doing if they were in charge (as they seem to think men are).
/r/MensRights26/07/25 08:19 PM
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For me it was as simple as just opening my eyes and literally seeing first hand men were getting the short end of the stick whilst others try gaslighting them into thinking they secretly got the long end.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 08:17 PM
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Maybe try movies that came out before feminism became so popular. I haven't watched any but seen some old time movie clips and the men are generally respected, its not seen as bad if the woman actually listens to the man, they don't do none of that "I don't let a man tell me what to do" and the male protagonist is actually someone to look up to or admired or the very least portrayed as cool. However you will have to get past the bad graphics and probably racism and other bad traits of the past. …
/r/MensRights26/07/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah if it's so beneficial why is it always only the woman who wants to get married? Not to mention everything is about her. Kneel to her, propose to her, buy her a ring, she will go bridezilla and then after that it's happy wife happy life. It's gets so bad that the house is taken over for her and he will have to get a small room for a mancave. Not to mention men saying their bedroom lives basically die after getting married.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 02:47 PM
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Kids are at school for 5-6 hours. She can get everything done in those hours.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 02:47 PM
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Ironically I saw a comment section attacking a sahd saying they would never allow their man to have an easy life whilst they have to work, calling him a princess and so much more. Like literal hate and saying he's horrible for making her work whilst he enjoys a soft life. Tale as old as time really. They view it as the easier job when a man does it but for some reason it's the hardest job in the world when women do it. Always a double standard. Will complain either way.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 09:55 AM
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Yeah I don't agree with everyone here either. Some are bigots because unfortunately they think just because this sub is anti-feminist and anti-gynocentric it means it's anti-women such as claiming women don't need rights. But they are very few and in between. Same way some try to bring race into it or be anti-religion. I personally don't agree with that. But the fact there is any discussion is better than just silencing anybody. Shows not everybody is perfect and not everyone will have the same …
/r/MensRights26/07/25 09:32 AM
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Yeah and ironically they claim it's for everyone and that men need to listen yet they block and mute anyone who has a differing opinion. That's why a lot of people are walking away from feminism. They say one thing but act differently, everyone can tell they don't mean it when they say they want equality for men.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 09:12 AM
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I've seen a lot who still want their husbands to do housework. They say stuff like "his is a 9-5, hers is 24 hours. She deserves a break". So essentially they just want someone to pay for everything and do half the chores so 75% of the work and call it being traditional because they are beings leeches. Even with kids, they go to school for 5-6 hours. You are telling me you can't clean the house, cook a meal and do other little chores in 6 hours. I don't buy that at all. Especially since they sta…
/r/MensRights26/07/25 09:09 AM
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You know what I blame men. It's all other men discriminating against men. Sure women can be mouthy, do accusations etc but the only reason it does any harm is because other men will back it up. Women will type or speak but it's other men arresting the man, creating laws to benefit women, defending rape of men. Men are their own worst enemies. We need better solidarity. Women I can understand jumping to the worst conclusions, other men hating on men are some of the most spineless creatures on the…
/r/MensRights25/07/25 04:30 PM
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It had a lot of useful applications. Made the public aware your child wasn't illegitimate. Of course today doesn't matter but back then it very much did matter due to religion or simply claims to fortune/inheritance. I read somewhere also acted like a safety blanket. A family with a father was sort of protected from other bad men even if the dad was on a trip for business people would leave the family alone simply because there would be a man returning who would get vengeance. Particular last na…
/r/MensRights25/07/25 03:58 PM
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Feminist subreddits block you for simply disagreeing. I got blocked because I suggested that last names normally went through the paternal line because everyone knows who the mother is, can't say the same for the father especially pre-dna tests. Apparently saying it wasn't because women were property and men wanted to own their children was bad enough to get blocked. When I questioned being blocked they muted me for 28 days.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 09:58 AM
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A lot of women have double standards for a lot of things. I just saw a post of a woman teacher saying very suggestive things about her male student even showing his face and body saying he looks delicious. The comments were saying it's OK because it's just a video. And when you call them out they for some reason run to history saying men have been doing it forever and no harm comes if a woman says it. Just made me think, were you ever against it or just didn't like it was men doing it. The histo…
/r/MensRights24/07/25 03:04 AM
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Simple, in school stop teaching they are being oppressed. Also in media. I babysit my nephews and the amount of shows that have some form of "woman oppressed, man bad, woman needs to beat man to win" formulas out there are most definitely influencing people. The cycle stops when society stops trying to tell women they are oppressed 24/7. I can't think of a single show that hasn't had some form of feminism injected into it. Full on feels like a conspiracy.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 04:03 PM
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It isn't. It can say it is but hastags like KAM ruin that for you.
/r/MensRights22/07/25 10:38 AM
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To be honest this is one of the biggest things that made me anti-feminist. They truly don't want equality, supposedly men have had the easier job traditionally yet none of them are rushing to do men's role same vice versa they get so angry when a man is just a sahd or isn't doing what is a man's role. Never thought I would see people hating on a sahd and saying stuff like "is he a princess?" And calling his wife the man and feeling sorry for her. What they say, they don't even believe. You can t…
/r/MensRights22/07/25 10:36 AM
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Being invisible is always much worse because then you can't really help to get rid of it if everyone can't see it. If the popular mindset becomes that misogyny is worse. That's still bad but you can at least try to start unbrainwashing them. But if they believe it doesn't exist at all, then you got to try to make them see it exists, then try to make them see its worse than misogyny. So like 2 jobs.
/r/MensRights21/07/25 05:01 AM
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I'll remind them all the ways they tell me the patriarchy hurts me. They love saying patriarchy hurts men too.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 12:01 PM
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I genuinely just ask them what problems do women face more. Nearly for each one it's just false and something that is a popular feminist saying that they are all parroting. Like the supposed wage gap ignoring men do more work and go for higher paying jobs. It's sometimes exhausting to argue with the brainwashed lot though, it's like arguing with a tape recorder just the same excuses nearly all the time word for word. So clearly just parroting what others tell them to be offended about.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:55 AM
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Reminds me of feminists telling me sex work is empowering for women and it's her body but in the same breath saying the men consuming the content are pervs and dangerous. So are they empowered or victims?
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:52 AM
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Rape used to mean it being forced onto the person. Nowadays people act like anything is rape. You regretting it later is not rape. You agreeing but secretly not wanting to do it isn't rape (nobody is a mind reader how are they supposed to know you didn't want to do it?). A man asking or trying to change your mind isn't rape. That's how humans work, they communicate and try to convince the other side, you can't say you were raped if you agreed to it.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 09:11 AM
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If a guy witnesses a beating he isn't going to be the final say. OK, let me ask you then. What justice will he get? How do we even know she is telling the truth that she was mistaken? Or are you saying men shouldn't get justice for going to prison over a lie?
/r/MensRights17/07/25 07:44 AM
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All stuff not happening to you so you can be mistaken. However if the criminal did the act to you and an innocent man still went to prison then you deserve punishment.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:08 AM
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He was still punished for something he didn't do. She deserves punishment
/r/MensRights17/07/25 12:54 AM
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That's my main problem when they use the statistics of "only 2% of rape accusations are false" because anyone with a brain knows and is taught very early on, lying ruins the validity of statistics. Only 2% have been proven false and those people get free. It's just common sense, unlike murder statistics where there will still be a body to actually confirm they were murdered (and even then those statistics aren't foolproof because there could be bodies/cases where they can't find the body) If you…
/r/MensRights16/07/25 09:43 PM
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Also see in movies where it's totally justified for a woman to slap a man if he's being a jerk but if a male main character (who is supposed to be the hero/protagonist) did it they would label him an abuser. Can also see it in aita, someone did exact same post but pronouns switched. Drastically different results. I struggle to see why everyone can't see how rampant the double standards are and how normalised it is to abuse, berate or just in general dunk on men.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 04:17 AM
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It's a shorter list to see what they don't have double standards on. I can't think of any.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:23 AM
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I lost his phone number and we just grew apart since he lives like 2 hours away.
/r/MensRights16/07/25 02:17 AM
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Anytime it mentions it boils my blood, the shelter literally had nothing to do with them. Was hurting nobody but they decided to attack it. Then they say misandry just annoys when misandry can be instrumental in blocking any actual help for men. Can't imagine the pure evilness to attack an abuse shelter, those people already suffered and they already have very little places they can go and they still try to squash them down even more. Reminds me of when feminists started complaining when they ha…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 01:36 PM
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Literally they have 99% of reddit agreeing with them, why do they have to come to this little corner of reddit to complain even more and demand women be prioritised as if they already aren't. On my other accounts...people were pointing out that people were treating a man who slapped a wall after months of being lied to and manipulated worse than an actual murderer who murdered a disabled man. It was all a show so not really important. Anyway he takes back the lawyer he's paying for after finding…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 05:39 AM
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I remember that they threatened the owners dogs and even gave bomb threats. The shelter wasn't even doing anything but helping men. Feminists generally don't like men getting any support.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 05:31 AM
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White feathers or even the rules of chivalry. I was shocked when I learnt the origin of the men walk on the sidewalk was so if a car does come he will get hit and not her. Or before cars it's so your clothes get dirty and not hers. Frankly a lot of expected stuff from men seems downright prioritising women. Kneel to propose, have to buy her jewellery for her to even consider it, walk closer to the car so your clothes can get dirty or if a car swerves you can be the one who gets hit, give her you…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 05:30 AM
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I always hate seeing this type of thing and just assume the guy is saying it to not get cancelled. You ask women how they suffer worse in the West, they generally can't answer your questions except to parrot some points they see online but don't understand. Even in this sub you get the occasional feminist trying to moan about womens rights and how everyone hates this sub because they hate women yet feminists literally defend saying KAM. We always have to prove we don't hate women but the other s…
/r/MensRights15/07/25 03:50 AM
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Its blatant evil, they started making fun of male suicides and going on about how they won't respect mens mental health month.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 03:46 AM
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Feminists: Men should hate the patriarchy they suffer too because of their gender Also feminists: Misandry just annoys, misogyny kills So is the patriarchy oppressing us or is it just annoying us, seems to be whatever suits their argument at the time.
/r/MensRights15/07/25 03:45 AM
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My friend got accused by a lot of women. The wicked witch that she was made all her friends and their friends lie and say he did it to all of them. But thankfully they were stupid and lied saying it happened at the exact time he was in another country. And they had no shame, legitimately no remorse or even a "wow I almost ruined this guys life just because he wouldn't date my friend". Didn't stop all the white knights of the school trying to corner him or throw stuff at him in the cafeteria. I e…
/r/MensRights14/07/25 12:21 PM
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Because feminists seem to have this idea of if men are getting support thats support being taken away from women, not joking. There are at least 3 articles that outright say they are worried women aren't getting the spotlight and al this talk about men makes women feel left out.
/r/MensRights14/07/25 12:14 PM
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Exactly even in cases where she hits him first everyone tells him he shouldn't hit back because he's stronger and could hurt her...why should he care about hurting her when she obviously doesn't care? Same for why they don't want false accusations to be punished. Because then future women might not come out. Essentially telling a man to just not get justice so future women can report it. Or in France where paternity tests are banned because it could destroy the institution of marriage aka let a …
/r/MensRights14/07/25 08:50 AM
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Same, I could accept it if they give a genuine answer that isn't immediately debunkable the minute you think for even 5 seconds. Objectively if you look at it, men have it far worse
/r/MensRights12/07/25 11:34 PM
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I see it so much that I'm genuinely fed up of the word pregnant. I've seen it used to justify a woman making a gender reveal more for her. She was having 4 kids, and had 4 cakes. He asked to cut 2 she then let him cut one and took the knife back. The comments kept bringing up she's pregnant so for some reason she should be able to do that. They use it to justify not being drafted They use it to justify not paying for the first date saying stuff like "your going to carry his child and he can't pa…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 09:16 AM
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Women are always in the spotlight. Who cares that men are dragged to die whilst they can get away scot free. Even when an article came out saying 1 in 4 people who are homeless are women, everyone freaked out despite the fact that it meant the other 3 were men. Even for the UK they wanted to change how women prisoners are dealt with despite admitting more men are in jail so logically they should be getting the attention. It's so exhausting. Pretty sure soon they will say women suffer more from t…
/r/MensRights09/07/25 10:52 PM
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I never understood why we couldn't just build it into the marriage contract. At the end just add "if this marriage is terminated, _________ and _________ have agreed to..." then detail the alimony, child support, future asset division. This way nobody is being blind sided. And make it not negotiable in court.
/r/MensRights08/07/25 08:01 PM
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Men seem to want gender equality more than women despite women saying they are more oppressed. Also not shocked at them calling him princess. It's the same thing when a man rejects them suddenly he's gay even if he has a girlfriend. Insults and shaming are their weapons that's why a 'real man' is whatever suits them at the moment and never seems to be his benefit but always her benefit
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:41 PM
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Someone once said to me (and it wasn't a joke) that periods are misogynistic...like sorry I don't control your biology. Also somehow women not being drafted is misogyny even when I pointed out it didn't mean women couldn't join simply they weren't forced to. They had a choice whilst men did not, But they still could not say it was misandist instead calling it benevolent misogyny which is an oxymoron as you can't benevolently hate someone. And how is giving women a choice misogyny?
/r/MensRights06/07/25 12:44 AM
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That is an interesting question. At what age do you tell them their life is now counted 3rd in emergencies.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:53 AM
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Ah yes prioritising women is somehow hating them. This is why most of the time I can't take any claim of misogyny seriously. Half the time it isn't even hate.
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:51 AM
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Also the government/system/other men helps cushions their fall or take what used to be a man's place. They hit a man and he will be arrested if he hits back or other men will jump in on her behalf. She chose a bad man despite everyone telling her not to? Doesn't matter he will still pay and support her. I'm not advocating to abandon your kids but it's to show how they are saved from natural consequences. She can't afford to keep her children, logically you would think this means give custody to …
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:45 AM
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A woman said she got the ick from a man tying his shoelaces. Starting to think their icks are just when they are reminded men are humans and not robots whose only purpose is to serve them. A guy had a list of all the icks, something like 800 icks over normal things like breathing, flinching at something flying towards them etc
/r/MensRights05/07/25 03:36 AM
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I get hit with "its not my job to educate you" when I ask them the most basic of questions. And its not just online or one person. I asked 5 feminist relatives none could give an actual straightforward answer same for online. Like when I ask what rights are they missing in the West because they kept saying women don't have basic human rights. Or when they say misandry is a reaction to misogyny for online spaces but then you have to point out most of the times when it comes to online gender wars …
/r/MensRights04/07/25 04:28 AM
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I don't get how they always equate everything to their gender. Getting killed or kidnap isn't gender specific. Do they think murderers are just super sexists who kill women because they hate them so much? Genuinely I hear all the time, "misogyny kills" yet misandry does so much more if we use their logic. Men are victims of violent crimes more than women, men often don't get justice, men are literally sent to war where they will either die or come home so terribly traumatised they can't even be …
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:37 AM
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Like feminists attacking a male domestic abuse shelter someone built because there were none for men. They had no reason to do that. If I recall correctly it made the maker of the shelter lose faith in feminism especially after they threatened him.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:24 AM
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I always hated it and noticed it, but when I noticed it went way too far is when a woman made fun of a male suicide victim (not that unusual for so called feminists, remember these are the same people who wished death on Margot Robbie's baby) but for once all the men started attacking her (which reinforces my belief that men are fed up of always being the bigger gender and staying silent whilst they throw hate) Women were saying the men were overreacting and that its always been trendy to hate m…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:22 AM
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They can criticise and if they have good points I can acknowledge that. But can they? Often it's feminists who for some reason come on this sub tell us we are all pathetic and shouldn't complain and won't take any criticism
/r/MensRights02/07/25 03:01 AM
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I had sisters and lots of female cousins, was then friends with girls in school. You learn very quickly they ain't angels. Frankly I never understood the type that truly believe in the women are wonderful stuff.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 02:59 AM
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So you can kill the baby without repercussions and just be able to dodge motherhood but fathers can't dodge fatherhood?
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:10 AM
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Yet feminists want it both way. They want to have 100% say in the decision despite it affecting both of them.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:08 AM
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I think it's less of a patriarchy and more of everyone had their role. Men weren't praised or treated like a god. And it made the most sense Modern times no longer has much needs for the roles however it's only women they don't want the roles to apply to. Men are still held to their traditional role
/r/MensRights01/07/25 06:43 AM
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A feminist tried to tell me we should give a woman some grace when it came out she lied about being raped because she was traumatised and she might have been confused. This was us discussing a case of a man who went to jail over a false accusation and she was telling us to feel sorry for the girl saying she must feel so guilty and sh just made a mistake.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:34 PM
7

I've been saying this for so long to feminists who think they are being smart for saying statistics they got off Google and gave no thought too. Men often won't report and if they do, they aren't often believed. This massively screws the statistics over. Same for rape. They love saying "Only 2% are false" but we have no way of knowing what was false or not. Only 2% were believed to be false that doesn't mean the others weren't false just that no one believed it was false so didn't write it down …
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:29 PM
1

It should definitely be changed, seems like divorce laws think we are still in 50s where women find it hard to work and a mans wage is big enough to support her and him. Today women can also work and splitting down a man's wage to her in this economy is brutal.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:25 PM
13

A maid is paid to clean someone else's house. A SAHM wife is being paid to clean their own house and still complaining Not to mention with a maid you aren't buying them food, bills, rent, jewellery, clothes, taking them on dates. With a maid you can give specific instructions.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:23 PM
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The whole its for the best interest of the child goes out the window when the money is directly given to the mother. She can get her nails done or even buy alcohol with it if she wants.
/r/MensRights29/06/25 02:20 PM
16

Why they always trying to replace male characters? Can men not have anything to themselves?
/r/MensRights28/06/25 07:01 PM
5

Yeah at that point you can't convince me that £900,000 is needed or is going to be used on the child unless your getting them diamond diapers. That's way above average for anyone's wage. Nearly 1 million just because they lived together. It should be capped at a certain amount for situations like this
/r/MensRights28/06/25 07:00 PM
5

So essentially it's a race and the only reason they win (mature faster) is because the finish line is a lot closer than it is for men?
/r/MensRights28/06/25 07:04 AM
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I find it ridiculous if he can't afford to pay it he gets sent to prison all for the crime of not being able to afford to pay her. Do mothers go to prison when they simply can't afford to support their child. I also find it ridiculous it's based off percentages rather than a fixed amount. That seems ridiculous, after a certain amount you can just tell the money ain't going to be spent on the child.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 07:02 AM
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No, I am not meant to be disposable, used and left. What a horrible way to talk about anyone. That may be something people believe but it's simply not true. If it was some universal biological truth then affection for men would be impossible as it would be a flaw to have affection for something meant to be disposable. Do you care about the rubbish in the bins? No.
/r/MensRights28/06/25 06:58 AM
1

Men have the exact same complaint.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:44 AM
4

Yeah, my line of thinking is it's a slippery slope. If we start letting them censor certain speech it's only a matter of time before they censor any sort of speech that goes against them.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 09:43 AM
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I honestly don't think it should be. I hate the term and honestly it's getting exhausting however I believe no one should really be punished for their speech beyond social consequences or if it's a cause for concern.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 07:58 AM
1

And you know this how? Misandry is a lot more accepted and trendy. A lot of them just become misandrists because that's what the majority are doing.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:51 AM
3

Yeah I've seen feminist turning on gays (it's very clear they aren't all that tolerant if they call men gay as if it's an insult the minute he doesn't do what she wants) and gay men fighting back too. I've noticed a lot of people are starting to walk away from feminism and see how toxic it truly is.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:48 AM
1

I was more talking about how after America's election, people on the left has realised they left men out and dropped the ball with them. The right didn't really have that worry.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:45 AM
2

A lot of the women who stand up for men are called pick me even if they aren't downtrodding other women.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:37 AM
1

In my experience it's always been the other way around. I've seen many young boys turn to redpill type content simply because everywhere else misandrists are hostile
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:36 AM
2

Also need to get other men under control. Guys be commenting under boys who were raped posts saying they are lucky etc.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:35 AM
2

Why would I want to help a group hating me? I'm talking about misandrists not women.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:34 AM
1

They aren't material objects. Doesn't matter which happened first or not. It's an ideology so if fluid and different for each person. Let's say a random boy goes on social media and sees all the hate women give. So of course he will then hate women too. In that situation misandry did come first and misogyny was a response.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:33 AM
3

And when they say "Who set up that system" Trying to find ways to blame men rather than just try to change
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:30 AM
1

Gives the same vibe as the left realising they dropped the ball with men then asking where they went wrong
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:26 AM
7

Feminism says they are for men=women. Then you look at their actions. Always focusing women, making up hashtags such as KillAllMen, calling all men oppressors and they have privilege and defend other forms of misandry or say it isn't something serious. Or the fact feminists attacked a male domestic abuse shelter for no reason other than they didn't want men to have one. Even the ones who don't do such hateful actions will still try to defend or downplay it.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:23 AM
5

I've seen at least 5 gay men standing up to how women treat them. Some say women treat them like an accessory rather than a real person. Calling a guy 'gay' as an insult if he rejects you or doesn't do what you want. Some find it offensive women exclude them from being a man.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:21 AM
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I think we shouldn't attack this phrase as much because it's often said by people trying to defend men. Sure the word allow is a bit iffy and implies that they are in control but it's nothing bad. They are just saying let men be men rather than trying to portray anything masculine as bad but then only dating masculine men.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:19 AM
7

Incel is such a weak excuse and used so many times its lost any impact to me. I remember in AITAH sub they were calling a husband and father of 3 an incel. It's just their go to insult. They use shaming language to try to control men (example: How all the 'real men do this _____' and it's always something that benefits them).
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:17 AM
4

Yeah, I've seen it so much times. Bi women saying they prefer men and complain about women's habits (one even said they felt angry at sex being hinted at then taken back and being expected to pay for dinner. Common complaints men have) and other stuff such as victimhood, toxic and immaturity yet they never realised it was a woman problem. There's a reason lesbians have a higher divorce rate then straight couples and gag couples. Straight couples have the second highest. Common denominator.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:14 AM
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No, some are just hateful. This reeks of white knighting, let women be in the wrong wthout trying to justify it.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:10 AM
11

Sad it took her brother dying to wake her up to the reality
/r/MensRights26/06/25 06:07 AM
3

You are defending comments calling men plagues and saying its not hard to understand why.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:45 AM
2

I actually agree with you, its all men's fault. They sit back and let it happen not taking it too seriously then start complaining when it snowballs. Men seem to forget they are men whilst women never forget they are women. The amount of fathers I've seen say to their daughters "men are pigs" and act as if every boy she brings home is horrible not realising the hate he is instilling in her will shape the world his son will also grow up in. Its like they forget they are a man when they decide to …
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:43 AM
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Because crimes by women are under reported.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:40 AM
2

I noticed that too, the same thing they would call toxic masculinity for men they would totally be fine with if it was a tomboy
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:36 AM
1

What do Palestine flags, Ukraine and global warming have to do with mens rights?
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:35 AM
5

When they say listen to women they mean blindly obey them
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:02 AM
1

Reminds me of everyone saying its proof of institutional misogyny and patriarchy that 1 out of 4 homeless people are women which is ignoring that means 3 out of 4 are men. Women always get priority
/r/MensRights23/06/25 04:23 AM
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I noticed recently (maybe its always been that way and I never noticed it as much before) they use pregnancy for everything. The way they act you would think pregnancy lasts 10 years and she loses an arm. Whenever they argue the mother should give the child her name, trying to get out of war, saying the man has to sacrifice more because she's sacrificing her body to bring his kids into the world (yet somehow they are no longer his kids when it comes to court), use it to justify alimony etc all b…
/r/MensRights23/06/25 04:10 AM
5

War I think is just another way of showing how disposable men are to society. People argue that the reason women aren't drafted is so they could have kids but during times like WW2 or even recently the Ukraine war, women weren't being forced to have kids or take care of another family's kids yet men were still forced to go die. She could go her whole life not having kids but it would still be used to save her. Also think its unfair that its often the civilians and working class that has to take …
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:56 AM
4

I tried so hard to de-brainwash a friend. He even got dragged online by the same feminists he kisses the boots of. He just couldn't see sense.
/r/MensRights12/06/25 11:39 PM
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I've seen this across other platforms too. In the past men would have laughed it off or not said anything but now men are starting to push back and say how it is. Personally I think it's ironically women's fault (in general). They call men misogynists, incels and other insults so much that it lost its punch. A woman calling you a misogynist isn't that big of a deal when they use that for everything. Men no longer care about coddling their feelings because they realise women tend to not coddle me…
/r/MensRights12/06/25 09:17 PM
1

That's because most feminists and women don't seem to use the word misandry. You can pretty much get your same search if you type in KillAllMen, men are the problems etc. They all tend to be showing extreme misandry. Also misandry isn't even that rare especially on tiktok. Just watch any video with a woman and guy and you will find it in the video They think by using the word misandry they are somehow invalidating women...for some reason.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 07:00 AM
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So despicable, no matter how bad a gender war ever gets I would never justify or advocate for an abusive father to get out. Children should be the red alert button that makes everyone instantly drop their bias and punish the criminal as they deserve. Accountability is literally women's kryptonite and it's not even their fault. Society/other men always bail them out.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:55 AM
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I saw a woman saying "Why I stay with him even though there's no ring, I have to pay for everything and he occasionally needs to slap me" and in the video he's sitting next to her then stands up and towers over her. I thought obviously the comments would be like stand up and leave. But nope they were all like "I totally understand". Just baffled me how he could get away with being a leech (she clarified she does all the cooking, cleaning etc) and beats her but they all understand because he happ…
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:51 AM
1

No, why would it be?
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:44 AM
0

No, the UK is not better. Trust me. Any social media about Britain is always complaining about Muslims and assuming Muslims are the criminals even in cases where it was a Christian. YouTube, Tiktok, Instagram. They literally record Muslims using the bus, sitting perfectly fine on their phones minding their business like everyone else but people would still hate on them in the comments. We relatively recently had EDL riots with people throwing bricks, attacking mosques, attacking vulnerable musli…
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:42 AM
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A lot of people fully trusted their partners. Did not stop them from being cheated on, raising someone else's kid, divorced, even in severe cases abused or murdered. This is such a bad argument that is so easily thrown out when you actually think about it. Also its stupid to rely on something so flimsy as trust. People can change, they may be trustworthy at the start and be a different person when divorcing.
/r/MensRights06/06/25 06:33 AM
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I hate saviour complexes, often mens problems are started by other men who want to rescue women and be white Knights. Its exhausting whether its a grown man trying to intimidate a teenage boy for looking at his oh so special princess or some stupid cop who comes onto a scene and will arrest the man automatically. Another example is the how can she slap video with a bunch of men dog piling him when he gave her the same treatment back. It even bleeds into draft, child support/alimony arguments etc…
/r/MensRights04/06/25 08:04 PM
4

You can say the same thing about abortions
/r/MensRights04/06/25 07:24 PM
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The dad thing annoyed me. I love to watch sitcoms but it was always off putting seeing them always make the husband dumb or have the wife outdo him for laughs. Even in sitcoms that focused on more than one family, the husband were always evil, dumb or their wife was so much better/more powerful. I don't mind a dumb character but after a while the trope gets repetitive and just annoying. It's genuinely shocking to see a sitcom and the dad isn't dumb, evil (or told he needs to unlearn toxic mascul…
/r/MensRights01/06/25 10:07 PM
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Truthfully depends on the kid. If he's willing to pretend nothing has changed so can I. But if he suddenly starts treating me as a secondary dad and starts prioritising the biological father who hasn't had contact all these years I'm not staying. No point in staying and watching your son drift away from you in person. Just gracefully step away. But I could never hate the kid, like I would just become a sort of uncle figure. Like if I ever cross path with the kid, I would be friendly the way an u…
/r/MensRights31/05/25 10:23 PM
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I have never thought or even entertained the idea of putting women on pedestals. Even other people who call out women say they started as a feminist or learnt the true nature of it later on. It just never infected me.
/r/MensRights30/05/25 04:43 PM
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But still they will try to force feed you the lie that false accusations shouldn't be punished and you shouldn't worry about them.
/r/MensRights29/05/25 06:08 PM
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Doesn't surprise me, women divorced their husbands for the 4B tantrum that lasted like 2 weeks. Imagine your whole family life just shaken because some idiots on the Internet convinced your wife all men need to be without women. And ruined their lives for a movement that just faded into obscurity. A woman also divorced her husband because he dissed Taylor Swift...a woman she will probably never meet. If you don't value the man, its very easy to divorce him without a second thought. Even the advi…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 06:07 PM
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People commenting that you are generalising off your own experience when its quite common for the man to be sleeping on the couch (its even a joke in popular media) or how rare it can be for women to admit their wrong. Its even in popular songs and people on social media both men and women joke about it. So no this isn't a one off. My guess is men in relationships are actually treated like an adult, its so weird to see how people try to infantalise women in relationships such as justifying her h…
/r/MensRights29/05/25 09:50 AM
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Let's see. Women aren't very subtle about their hate. Just click on hashtags such as #KillAllMen, #MeToo or even #Feminism. Misogyny also works too. I would say misandry but they don't use that word much. Also man or bear question and where have all the good men gone. Also a lot of women giving dating advice
/r/MensRights28/05/25 08:20 AM
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The thing is even if by some horror 100% women vote for this (I doubt even 3% will)...how exactly are they going to enforce it? Men could easily enforce something like this very easily but women, not so much due to one unchangeable thing...biology. And lets say somehow they manage, maybe they get hold of guns and for some reason no man at the time also had guns. The society left would crumble without mens everyday labour. Then when women get pregnant they won't want to be separated from their li…
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:24 AM
1

But you also did the same competitive behaviour...I mentioned what I saw and you tried to argue for that side and kept asking who gave birth to me
/r/MensRights26/05/25 10:00 AM
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Exactly comparing them made no sense yet she was doing it. She was saying it wasn't a privilege for women to prioritised during emergency times because eventually she might get pregnant and that's worse than being a soldier. Yes a woman gave birth to me, don't get why you keep saying that? It was also a man who paid for my house, food and literally everything else that kept me alive. I wasn't in the conversation...I was pointing out a conversation that I didn't bother engaging in because she was…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 03:27 PM
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Everyone is born from a woman, so yeah...what kind of question is that? Do I have to experience something to point out it's horrific and not a privilege?
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:46 AM
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A lot of the hate towards men is recent and done by current women. I can't blame the men of the past for the women of today being hateful. As usual men are always getting blamed. I swear it's like pulling teeth for feminists to admit that they may be the problem and that the current situation is a lot different than it was 50 years ago. They keep using history to justify their current hatred/dismissal of men. They literally cheered when a man was burned alive. When another man was decapitated an…
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:32 AM
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War is literally you going into battle where either you die or see your comrades blown into bits. I agree it's not comparable, it's way worse. And I did mention in the conversation it was about draft times or during stuff like the titanic where women were prioritised.
/r/MensRights25/05/25 12:17 AM
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I also use chatgpt and it's so hard to get it to admit men are better in some areas. It tries to make it everything equal. Even when I tell it to cut the politically correct crap it still tries to uphold women. For simple questions such as on average in general who is physically stronger it would do some stupid answer of "However physical strength isn't the only thing that matters you need to take in consideration emotional strength" always trying to somehow give women a win. I even typed the sa…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 08:22 PM
10

Women support women, you can even see this in popular lingo. Now its being a girls girl and supporting men is pick me behaviour. It used to be "what happened to women supporting women?" but that's not trending anymore. Even "I support womens rights and wrongs" used to be a thing. Always same message it just changes its coat. Women have gone out of their way to justify child abuse, selling your own children into abusive homes, murder, rape, robbing etc. Obviously not all women, some are pointing …
/r/MensRights24/05/25 04:41 PM
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I can't do much but I do try to call out people's blatant sexism when I can. Sometimes they don't even see it as sexist. In one post someone arguing that pregnancy is worse than men getting conscripted for war...saying men have the easier job. No one is holding women down and forcing them to get pregnant. They are however forcing men to go die or get inconceivable trauma. And to be clear they were talking about draft times/titanic (the usual women and children first) even trying to claim its sex…
/r/MensRights24/05/25 04:26 PM
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Because a core belief of Feminism, is there is a patriarchy which naturally implies men are in control and oppressing women. Even if they don't project that onto men surrounding them, they still believe men are the privileged class and oppressing women.
/r/MensRights24/05/25 03:40 PM
3

I was watching my sister watch a Netflix series where a boy is looked at as weird and is given weird stares because he did a speech about male rights. It definitely is treated as a joke
/r/MensRights22/05/25 01:15 PM
2

Yeah I hate feminists but what I hate more is male feminists. At least women have the excuse of they can't really know what its like for the other side and men rarely complain until quite recently. But other men? They should know what its like.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 01:13 PM
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At this point I'm not sure men can do anything without some sort of hate or twisting it for women to be the victims.
/r/MensRights19/05/25 01:10 PM
4

I never really care, women can say they want any standard and it's encouraged as her wanting what she wants and not settling but for some reason men can't do the same without receiving some criticism not even age specific could be anything such as weight and they will say it's problematic as if he's obligated to give fat girls a chance even if he doesn't like them. The woman knows what she's doing, unless he lied about his age then she went in knowing he was older. Why should I look at her like …
/r/MensRights17/05/25 12:43 PM
1

"She does not exist to look after a man" "He will be a true safe ally to women" Definitely seems like she's raising one to serve the other. It's disgustingly common on tiktok, I see countless videos where mom's show off what their sons do for their sisters and it always seems weirdly servant like (carrying her bags, tying her shoelaces, cleaning her room because "she deserves it and he understands how hard her life is"). It's a great disservice. Because he's going to grow up to be someone else's…
/r/MensRights17/05/25 03:49 AM
1

Kind of, their argument was men have so much power in this patriarchal society and women are protected in such limited ways so trying to take this 'power' away was misogynistic and leaving women more vulnerable than ever. Obviously it was just a flowery word salad to say they just want to be able to accuse men without punishment.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:35 PM
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Kind of, their argument was men have so much power in this patriarchal society and women are protected in such limited ways so trying to take this 'power' away was misogynistic and leaving women more vulnerable than ever. Obviously it was just a flowery word salad to say they just want to be able to accuse men without punishment.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:35 PM
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Kind of, their argument was men have so much power in this patriarchal society and women are protected in such limited ways so trying to take this 'power' away was misogynistic and leaving women more vulnerable than ever. Obviously it was just a flowery word salad to say they just want to be able to accuse men without punishment.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:35 PM
2

Kind of, their argument was men have so much power in this patriarchal society and women are protected in such limited ways so trying to take this 'power' away was misogynistic and leaving women more vulnerable than ever. Obviously it was just a flowery word salad to say they just want to be able to accuse men without punishment.
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:35 PM
1

You asked who's making people deal with feminism, I just pointed out literally everybody and everything. I wasn't saying men's problems are feminists are in books, movies and shows. Either your purposefully being obtuse or your just hyperinflating my argument for reasons I can't figure out. You think it's a right to kill your own child? That's literally modern day women's problem in America, they can't kill their kids and run from responsibility whilst men can literally be drafted if a war start…
/r/MensRights16/05/25 10:31 PM
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Optimistically, maybe its just a case of they simply can't understand what its like to be a man and are being indoctrinated into always being fearful and that men are the enemy. Like how they panic over paternity tests and men shouldn't care who the father is but as soon as they heard one nurse switched babies all of a sudden DNA does matter despite what they tell men and started to bring in markers to mark their babies. Or how some women only start realising other women can be problems and men …
/r/MensRights16/05/25 05:22 PM
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Anything left unchecked will eventually become too radical. Feminism was ok, in a controlled space in the past. The reason it's a problem today is because it was allowed to remain unchecked with people just following whatever they say.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 03:56 AM
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Feminists who put themselves in everything. Social media, work life, books, tv shows, movies etc.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:14 PM
3

I'm more annoyed at the mums trying to take over fathers day. You never see men doing that to mothers day. Just seems greedy, you already have a day to yourself which is celebrated much more. Can anything just be for men? Or do women always have to be the center of attention.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 11:01 PM
3

Many post here, often with some venomous words that would have others banned from their subreddits.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:56 PM
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This reminds me of a blind guy being accused of staring and the woman going to the manager or something similar. Absolutely rage inducing when they touched him in the spot that made him fall out his chair. What a joke, so obsessed with protecting women they go after disabled guys who can't fight back. And automatically assuming he's lying because...heaven forbid a woman be proved a liar. It can be literally impossible for you to do the crime and they will still try to find ways to prove she was …
/r/MensRights14/05/25 10:50 PM
5

Materialism, pettiness, comparing everything, entitled egos.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:21 PM
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Exactly, if you want to go into the route of who deserves what he deserves compensation for all the money he spent on her.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:19 PM
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If your dating and break up, no 50% of your stuff or even in some cases having to pay her because she looked after her own children. Imagine if men started demanding payment for looking after their own children and keeping their homes tidy. If your married and break up, lose 50% of your stuff and have to continue to pay her because...well you was married and whilst you paid for everything she did some chores and looked after her own kids. She clearly deserves you paying her even more.
/r/MensRights14/05/25 07:35 AM
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Exactly it's so dumb, what's worse is they are very familiar with the concept that someone can be against their own gender (they call it a pick me or internalised misogyny). Some even argue it was oppressive that women aren't drafted and men were privileged by it, yes how oppressive it is to be shielded from war and men are so privileged to be dragged out their homes to go die in the trenches next to blown up bits of their fellow soldiers seeing horrors nobody should have to. Honestly the mental…
/r/MensRights13/05/25 08:20 PM
6

Its the whole bitter women who realised they push/didn't care about men and are now single trying to get comfort from cats and whine.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:16 PM
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This truly feels like a cult, why are kids being forced to do it? And if she did want to do it and wasn't forced to by her mother, she was clearly indoctrinated.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:13 PM
1

Yeah same way they will claim their fat friend is a 10 but the minute you say there's not much difference between them physique wise she gets angry. Its just to save face, they know damn well not all women are 10s but they say it to save face even if they don't believe it. Men are more straightforward and aren't so extreme about protecting eachothers emotions.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:08 PM
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It was a broad generalisation that may not apply to you however it is very common women don't know what they want. A small scale example is something even women admit to as in they say they don't want food then take some of yours. Harmless really but nonetheless an example. I wasn't really trying to say men need to make the decisions, I was trying to say the way it's currently set up women say one thing to save face but secretly want another.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 01:40 PM
3

The genders are inherently linked, female empowerment comes at male expense especially if men saying the same thing is viewed much more negatively.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:01 AM
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Exactly, like was anyone blaming women or feminism for the draft? No, they are just pointing out ways men are disposed and used. Yet feminists feel the need to shout out its men as if men can't be misandrists and gynocentric.
/r/MensRights11/05/25 11:43 PM
3

There is a reason other men say don't go to women for advice. You have to peel like 13 million layers to find out what they actually mean and want. Their standards and what they want seem to change every 5 seconds someone online says to. I genuinely think the hivemindset need to be looked out because women be divorcing their husbands because of silly things they get online. They'll say they want one thing if its the right thing the hive mind decided on, but secretly want something else that they…
/r/MensRights11/05/25 11:41 PM
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Yeah then they ask why people say womens kryptonite is accountability. They heard a man was a victim of an acid attack but still somehow find a way to try to clean her character or trying to find ways to make her justified. It's sickening when they do it to actual victims. I have never seen women commit a crime and not have at least one person trying to find a way to make her seem less bad. Someone in the comments was saying is misogynistic to just portray her as a jealous ex and she is probably…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 05:36 AM
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What is rape culture? Its clearly illegal as people literally go jail for it, sometimes even just by accusation Most of society are vehemently against it to the point that false allegations can take someone to prison or cause him to be ostracised by the people around him. People even want death sentences for it and people know to use it as an excuse for people to justify anything. In the media, rapists are always portrayed as ugly or evil. I can't think of any aspect of society where rape isn't …
/r/MensRights10/05/25 04:36 AM
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I actually agree, people who put their wife over their blood family always seem like cowards to me. Your mum, dad, brothers, sisters have known you through the ups and downs, for at least 18 years and your going to throw that away for someone you've known for considerably less time, can leave when she wants and with one decision is no longer your family. Real family you can't just separate on a whim. I've seen people (mostly uncles/friends/older cousins) side with their wives, ice out their pare…
/r/MensRights10/05/25 04:21 AM
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I saw this on tiktok, the comments were as expected all some variations that boiled down to "there's more to the story/what did he do to make her do it/she's not just a jealous ex". I don't know why I expected anything different. Some even bringing up he went to jail so wasn't an outstanding father and son as the video said.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 04:07 AM
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Exactly, the mere fact it exists in the first place is a huge counter point to so called male privilege. But they always try to diminish it or write it off as something else ("who set that system up?" or other similar stuff) If a law came out only targeting women they would lose their minds. Its so stupid to say "Well it hasn't been needed so no worries" but I'm guessing it was a woman so ofcourse she won't worry, she's protected either way for just being born a woman.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 03:57 AM
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I've noticed people do have a very extreme disproportionate responses to what they see as misogyny/actions against women. People were cheering on a man who beheaded a homeless man and was in the park playing with his head as a football, proper psycho stuff but tiktokers were saying he was just protecting his wife. I get protecting your family, but beheading and playing with their head is not protecting your family or a spur of the moment type stuff. That dude was clearly psycho and just needed a…
/r/MensRights08/05/25 07:15 PM
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It feels anti-women because your used to women being pandered to in social media and this side just treats them equal aka criticise and point how they aren't as morally righteous as feminists and misandrists claim to be. When your used to privilege equality can seem like hate. The sub points out double standards, gynocentrism and other stuff that correlate to mens rights or issues.
/r/MensRights07/05/25 05:20 PM
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I still don't get why so many people can't figure out why most people today don't want marriage. Most women are hateful to men or at the very least don't take them seriously. Then the potential fallout if you divorce (can take your children, alimony, lose 50%). What benefit is there to marriage that can't be done some other way
/r/MensRights07/05/25 05:08 AM
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When men want paternity tests or prenups they say "don't marry someone you don't trust." Yet they will also say its suspicious if he doesn't give his phone over when she asks or the amount of stupid tests primarily women do online to test his loyalty. They get told you can never be too secure
/r/MensRights06/05/25 11:33 PM
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Just like feminism, men's rights also can point out double standards.
/r/MensRights06/05/25 06:50 PM
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Ah the infamous patriarchy at work. Logically it works out giving one group lighter punishments, it won't backfire at all/s
/r/MensRights06/05/25 10:05 AM
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I don't want to praise anyone doing gender wars but men always seem to have some sort of limit. I have never seen men wanting to kill baby girls, talking about 'training' them, don't make fun of abuse/suicide etc like women engaging in gender wars will go to all time lows such as making fun of a teenage boy being murdered brutally by his father but men won't and the few that do will be held accountable by other men. Or women going blue in the face to defend another woman killing her kids whilst …
/r/MensRights06/05/25 08:59 AM
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"But even having the conversation about how to tackle the young man crisis is complicated, and can leave girls feeling, well, put out. After all, girls and women have had centuries of inbuilt disadvantages to contend with, don't they finally deserve a moment to shine?" And as always women's feelings must be prioritised. I could understand if it was about womens safety, because I could rationalise it as simple "women are weaker so need more protection" I might not agree but I could understand the…
/r/MensRights06/05/25 12:55 AM
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They use that same logic when men say they want false accusations to be given a punishment. They argue future women might not report it, 'might' they aren't even sure but still think men should be denied justice because well women might get affected
/r/MensRights05/05/25 09:23 PM
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They use that same logic when men say they want false accusations to be given a punishment. They argue future women might not report it, 'might' they aren't even sure but still think men should be denied justice because well women might get affected
/r/MensRights05/05/25 09:22 PM
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At least with marriage you could argue the person was stupid enough to sign up for that. This is just flat out female privilege, he's paying for his ex and her child from another man simply because once upon a time she lived with him. This sort of thinking only ever seems to apply to husbands for example Hotels aren't obligated to let them stay longer same for landlords even if she did live there once upon a time so why is a boyfriend/husband has to be financially responsible for his ex? In any …
/r/MensRights05/05/25 09:19 PM
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Remember when Hillary tried to make out the biggest victims of war was women? Or people freaking out about how hard women have it because 1 in 4 women were homeless ignoring that meant the other homeless people were men? Men are invisible until people need their labour.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 10:27 PM
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That is caveman thinking
/r/MensRights04/05/25 10:23 PM
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I'm starting to hate that series. People act like its undeniable evidence and represents all men. Why is everyone clinging to this one so much?
/r/MensRights04/05/25 07:06 PM
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I've just realised they like to self project which is why so many of their claims seem ridiculous to most men because its something they do and think everyone thinks like them.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 08:02 PM
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Damn, that sounds horrible for your own mother to suspect you of that.
/r/MensRights03/05/25 07:58 PM
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They love pointing out men who do crimes but forget its often other men rounding those men up and putting them away. They just like to focus on the negatives
/r/MensRights03/05/25 10:02 AM
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I was thinking this today, a lot of stuff women claim guys do is just what they do...its like they think because they do it that means men must do it to. One told me obviously I obviously not going to condemn a rapist unless surrounded by others because the rapist was a man too. I straight up told her, no I don't look at a person's gender before deciding whether I'm on their side or not. I don't care what you were born as, I look at you for your actions. Then I was reminded of all the trends the…
/r/MensRights02/05/25 08:11 PM
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It's obviously not genuine. Just something they want to do to seem like they support men.
/r/MensRights01/05/25 03:31 PM
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Nah it won't last, somehow it will get dropped or feminist will complain they aren't getting the attention
/r/MensRights30/04/25 01:28 PM
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I swear we are going backwards, women used to be mature, sacrifice for their families and understand money isn't everything and if the time calls for it to step up. I shouldn't say women but rather feminists/misandrists. Nowadays they blame everything on mental health/trauma (disgusting they tried to justify a boy getting drowned by his own mother), they are always a victim and the latest terminology they use is that men expecting anything back is feminine and ths means the man is in his feminin…
/r/MensRights30/04/25 12:39 PM
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Hence why I use different accounts. Also one of the reasons to make me think women aren't oppressed. We literally can't talk about men without getting hate or banned.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 01:20 PM
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Hard to fight back against multiple other grown men holding you down. He did try to fight but was overpowered.
/r/MensRights29/04/25 01:09 AM
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I don't see what Christianity has to do with it. They look down on cheating.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 10:33 PM
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People have gone to jail before without there being any DNA.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 10:31 PM
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And people will still argue against giving people who do false accusations punishment. Men shouldn't get justice because then women MIGHT not report and lie. Granted its different from regular false accusation but she still accused him of something. Reminds me of a story when a father was held down by multiple other men as a woman tried to walk away with his child all because she said he was the kidnapper. Can you imagine the sheer horror of being held down as your child is literally being taken…
/r/MensRights28/04/25 10:30 PM
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I call it me-ism. They don't like the fact they might not be everyone's type so try to guilt/nudge people into dating them. My guess they like to think they have a chance and if they don't the other is a bigot who needs to be taught. Same way some women attack and call men for not being interested in them.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:54 PM
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It is, it's showing favouritism that women get by the law. You might not agree but it's not putting men and women against each other if they point out double standards.
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:49 PM
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If you have noticed then it's not men wanting to be victims...honestly what a tone deaf thing to say
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:35 PM
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So...you come onto a subreddit about male issues then try to downplay and dismiss them as wanting to be victims?
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:35 PM
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Men sell drugs = Men bad Women sell drugs = Men bad Somehow this turns into patriarchy? Men are the privileged class and their privilege is being blamed for everything?
/r/MensRights28/04/25 04:25 PM
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I also stopped taking it so seriously when I saw a bunch of posts saying that what qualifies as sexual harassment is different for everybody which just blew my mind, this isn't what food you like to eat where you can pick and choose then say personal preference. Its an actual crime that can get someone put in jail, it should be concrete. Not up to her. A woman even claimed they were harassed and I offered them comfort only to find out it was an old guy looked at her on a bus and she felt uncomfo…
/r/MensRights28/04/25 01:32 PM
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How exactly is women oppressed in the West? Other countries I don't know about so won't speak about them. But in places like USA, UK etc how exactly are they oppressed
/r/MensRights27/04/25 02:26 PM
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Also some just come off as racist as if a guy can't like another race without having some other motive. I remember a Filipina woman telling them off saying she is educated and it's no one's business if an American man fell in love and married her. They say they don't need men and to kill all men but suddenly wants them as soon as men start looking elsewhere
/r/MensRights27/04/25 01:02 AM
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I don't see it talked about often but women can complain and say they want a man from another country when they hear that country thinks men should provide (conveniently ignoring those men would likely expect her to be a housewife). Yet when men complain and say they want women from another country because they are nicer and don't seem so hateful they get hit with being a predator, that he's just looking for someone to manipulate, he's abusive to her, he wants a power dynamic etc. Men and women …
/r/MensRights26/04/25 12:59 PM
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Online they cheer when people say a man was murdered or committed suicide. Wished death upon a baby for being born. It genuinely feels like a hate cult.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 11:16 PM
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Feminists actions are what pushed me away from feminism. Not realistic but so so hateful yet excuse anything women do such as a mother drowning her son is somehow excused. I just can't support a group that will always hate me or think I have some special privilege over them. At most they will tolerate me until I have a different opinion then it's "Men always speak over women" "You wouldn't understand your a man" "Just let women speak on this". My input will never be equal to theirs.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 08:35 PM
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Why is that your ex's problem? Only exception I could see is if he was abusive, cheating or he left you. But if you abuse, cheat and are the one to file why should he continue paying you.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 11:50 AM
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If they are able to share the spotlight (Hate to use that word but they act like it's a stage and if they don't get attention then it's bad) without trying to blame men or say men cause it to just brush it off. Basically try to gaslight men into thinking feminism will help or care about them. They don't want to genuinely help, they only started caring once they realised the way they treated men has come back to bite them such as the Trump election or people turning away from feminism.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 11:48 AM
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Women will also openly sabotage their friends relationships or try to tell the friend to leave the guy. The couple could be perfectly happy but the single friend will add her 2 cents and toxicity.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 02:32 AM
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They were compensated. Their food, bills, clothes etc was paid for.
/r/MensRights25/04/25 02:17 AM
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They are allowed to be racist as long as they put the word men behind it. Kind of like a loophole to be racist as long as they are claiming its just being fed up of men of that race.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:54 AM
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This has annoyed me for so long. Mostly when it comes to alimony they want to be paid for doing basic chores and being a mother saying it entitles them to carry on getting paid even after they divorce yet if a man was asking to be paid for doing basic fatherly duties and keeping the house clean in the past people would just look at him and say "Yeah, that's called being an adult"
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:51 AM
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Uh yes they do. Its in lots of shows, movies, books where its portrayed as comedic or empowering. In real life people will standby and not do anything but as soon as he retaliates people will literally attack him. Online, people will ask what he did or praise her. Even in real life people still spew the whole "you can't hit women" and justify her hitting saying she's emotional or it doesn't hurt.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:47 AM
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The wage gap has been disproven so many times, if you want to ignore all the other evidence such as men go for higher paying jobs, work more hours etc then just use common sense. Corporations are greedy if they can get away with paying women less, they would just hire majority women. Statistics for crime especially regarding rape, abuse can be incredibly screwed for the simple fact men aren't often believed if they do come out (there are stories where the man is being abused and police arrest hi…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:40 AM
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Literally, they even said they didn't want to vote when told they might become eligible for the draft. I agree its too much hate over something much more minor than any other group encountered yet they act like they were so oppressed. And I could understand if it was the same women denied school or voting being angry, that's understandable but it be 20 year old spoilt girls who have never even seen a world where women couldn't do that. They were just told about it and still get angry
/r/MensRights23/04/25 05:55 PM
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Most people here don't want pro-male agenda but just equality
/r/MensRights23/04/25 02:57 AM
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A lot of women seem to be angry at stuff that never happened to them and aim that anger at people who didn't do it...like genuinely unhinged and unfathomable levels of rage that I can't understand. So much anger and hate and they don't even have a reason.
/r/MensRights23/04/25 02:56 AM
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Women dressed up as Ted Bundy's victims at his court date in front of the victims families. When have men done anything like that? Everyone tells them not to go with the bad boy they don't listen because they are so obsessed with autonomy and being an individual (such as telling the dad off for apparently not trusting her decision and not treating them like an adult) then when he leaves or abuses them...they turn on all men even though it's often other men who would take him to jail or intimidat…
/r/MensRights21/04/25 05:10 PM
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Those situations always confused me. Like how am I supposed to get the experience (in this case posting experience) if you don't let me get the job/post. If they keep taking down your post how are you ever meant to get a lot of posts in the first place? And how do the others do it?
/r/MensRights21/04/25 11:17 AM
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When I used it was politically correct, whenever I gave it hypothetical situations even outside of gender it always has a paragraph at the end saying "it's important to be mindful and ______" some generic stuff that you know it only says to be politically correct. Even if it's unwarranted, I literally have to tell it I don't want that.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 11:14 AM
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Interesting, I sometimes try to do stuff like this but it always seems to try to cushion the woman "have you thought of asking her what's wrong?" "Maybe she had a bad day", etc responses I never get if it's a man. But I did this a while back so maybe they changed.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 10:55 AM
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Are you saying my comments are totally irrelevant? Hard to tell online
/r/MensRights21/04/25 10:41 AM
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Same way they say guys have it easier because they can wear whatever and even repeat outfits. Most guys aren't going to care what you wear or how many times you worn it, it's other women who will judge you or make videos tearing your outfit apart.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 10:37 AM
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It's not toxic or masculine really. I hold doors open for anyone behind me and so do other normal women. Maybe I'm just from a nice neighborhood where if you didn't hold the door for the person behind you they would look at you weird. Like it's such little effort and kindness. The only people I think exempt from this unspoken rule is disabled people, kids and the elderly for obvious reasons
/r/MensRights21/04/25 10:34 AM
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Imagine if a man started talking about politics of wearing trainers and the symbolism. He would rightfully be laughed away. Just ridiculous that this was even thought up of
/r/MensRights21/04/25 10:31 AM
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This reminds me of English teachers desperately trying to convince you the author writing about blue curtains has some deep, symbolic meaning when often its just more straightforward aka the author wanted blue curtains for the scene. Feminists here choose to wear heels then talk about politics of wearing heels? How heels have some deep symbolic meaning when its literally just a pair of shoes.
/r/MensRights21/04/25 12:57 AM
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Its not really a post gender society for men though. Men are still largely held to their gender role (pay for dates, chivalry, earn more, be the protector, know car stuff etc) One change I like is recently I've seen more men try to come to other men defenses because it seems like only men seem to remember other men are humans with emotions, can make mistakes, might react etc. They also have been calling out all the simp content creators who bash men for views. Feels like women want men to be per…
/r/MensRights20/04/25 11:01 AM
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People only throw out presumption of innocence for men. When it's women they get people making up excuses for them without even knowing any details. They just hear it's a woman and suddenly they do mental gymnastics and say to empathy and understanding
/r/MensRights20/04/25 12:24 AM
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A bit embarrassing this is even a topic, they refuse to punish women and take women's word as sacred that men are considering bodycams. Not to mention the excuse they give for not punishing the people who make false allegations, saying they might not come out then. So real men don't get justice because women MIGHT not come out if they were assaulted. That is ridiculous, some even using the excuse of "what if she was right and goes to jail for nothing" as if that's not exactly the situation the m…
/r/MensRights19/04/25 08:06 PM
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No, the woman in the video I saw was blonde and wasn't working in IT
/r/MensRights19/04/25 08:03 PM
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Under 5, no. Kid won't remember me, might sting for the first few years but I'll get over it. Older to the point they have a bond and memories of you, grey area. Would depend, am I still treated like the dad? I don't mean just providing but can I still parent, discipline, make decisions etc without the kid or mum trying to pull the "your not the real dad" card. Is the actual dad trying to move in and the kid is gravitating towards them? If I already like the kid, worst case scenario (both pushin…
/r/MensRights19/04/25 10:18 AM
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A woman sold her kids, 2 of which were beaten, kept in a barn and used as slave labour...people in the comment sections tried to point the finger to the dad who left before (so he never actually sold them) or say she needed the money (she used the money for bingo and was unapologetic when one of them grew older and confronted her). Always a man's fault somehow
/r/MensRights18/04/25 07:59 PM
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For men yes, for women they get hit with "Your emotions are valid, all feelings are valid" nonsense.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:21 AM
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Its genuinely disgusting how often they try to use children as shields for anything for women. They use children to shame the man into staying and continuing to provide for her. They use the mere possibility of her getting pregnant in the future to mean she should get special privileges such as being able to escape war and not have to fight. They even try to use children as a means to justify alimony by saying she should have got paid to look after her own child and justify insane amounts of chi…
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:17 AM
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Doesn't make sense, apparently patriarchy is built by men for men...if I follow feminist thinking of it gives men privileges and oppresses women, then why would it be good as a man to dismantle it? If the so called patriarchy sends men into war to die whilst women get sent to safety, has laws that benefit women greatly, extreme double standards against men etc is it really even a patriarchy anymore? Other than feminists clearly just want more female privileges this is my main problem with them. …
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:08 AM
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Yeah massive double standard, even other women leave female centric subreddits because they get toxic such as mums lurking and interacting with dad subreddits.
/r/MensRights18/04/25 12:41 AM
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Don't forget this is the same country that wanted to ease up on young female offenders because they aren't happy in jail. I'm sure tons of men are happy in prison
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:28 PM
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I've seen so many women be welcomed or at the very least treated the same in male centric subs...however men in women's subs are reported, banned, comments deleted and general hate.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:27 PM
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Why should they get no punishment?
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:25 PM
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I generally want to see how they justify it. Now it's not even having to sign a paper, simply living with a woman can entitle her to half your stuff.
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:23 PM
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Statistics can be screwed. It's no secret there is a general double standards. How many times have wives hit their husbands and people laugh it off or police don't take seriously. If it was a man it would go towards domestic violence statistics but for women it ain't. And there's other examples like that. Crime statistics aren't reliable people lie, people get away with a lot etc. People act like statistics are undeniable proof but when the system and people are biased you cannot trust statistic…
/r/MensRights17/04/25 11:22 PM
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I'm not even shocked that they just want to reallocate it to women. Anytime anyone ever tries to punish/disadvantage men they somehow manage to make it a positive for women. Then women will tell you they are oppressed. One thing both sides seem to agree on is men working.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 08:40 PM
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I remember watching a video where a woman admits she tries not to hire other women because they are a pain to deal with. She said men come in do the job, might chat to each other than go home. Clean, simple and efficient. Whilst women will expect the workplace to bend to her whim as if its her second home and can be trouble for the other men such as accusing them of looking, expecting them to lift things etc. Sure its just one video but it did change my perspective on it. The reason they might n…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 08:38 PM
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I've seen it multiple times face to face even by mothers or teachers. Male hatred isn't just online, don't forget behind those usernames are real people who think like that. If a man or anybody I know needed my help, I would always try my best to help. I have tried to help in the past as well. I'm not seeking confrontation.
/r/MensRights16/04/25 10:26 AM
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People actually mock male suicide (male only). Always horrible comments that sound downright deranged such as hearing a story about a guy who was abused and committed suicide and the comment section is laughing or saying he deserved it when he was the one getting abused. Yet when someone called a mother selfish for commiting suicide when she still had children a lot of people were like "wheres the empathy?" "you can't blame victims" etc. On an unrelated note I fully support men who try to get th…
/r/MensRights16/04/25 10:08 AM
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He deleted the post and his account, it came off as fake anyway. It was years ago but I'll try find it. It felt made up talking about how he is so muscular and his son was powerless just felt like a alpha power fantasy.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 08:44 PM
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Those same people also be outraged if you use a soundtrack because they deemed it for SA survivors and apparently using it is disrespectful
/r/MensRights14/04/25 08:41 PM
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Tiktok is just overflowing with misandry and female entitlement. Women don't need to be the focal point of everything, they wouldn't complain if it was a man. Seriously any feminist lurking around here explain how you could possibly be outraged that one character in one movie wasn't a girlboss.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 01:28 PM
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"To me, feminism is a movement to promote equality between different genders." Yet all they talk about is women, doesn't sound very equal to me. "Supporting women's wrongs as well as their rights" Not even hiding it now, it is genuinely just support women even if they are wrong. I doubt they extend the same courtesy to men. Its hilarious whenever a feminist talks for more than 2 minutes they always manage to contradict themselves. You are not for equality if you are only supporting women.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:27 AM
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Men who open up are accused of putting emotional labour on her because apparently being nice and listening to your partner is emotional labour. Yet men manage to do it (And women generally are much more emotional than men) without claiming it as some sort of abuse.
/r/MensRights14/04/25 10:24 AM
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Yet the baby is only there because of me and if the baby is born I'm expected to pay for it. The question was about stuff I don't agree with. Doesn't make sense to me that I'm responsible for the baby at every stage yet she holds all the power?
/r/MensRights14/04/25 09:40 AM
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Its worse fathers be aggressive to their own son. Their was a post where a father beats and kicks out his son for allegations that were later proven untrue. He felt guilty because his son took his life apparently there was blood everywhere, thats how bad he beat him. He also said some stuff like he was taller than his son and worked in construction and worked out daily so was a lot stronger than his skinny, shorter son. Even stopped his son from leaving by dragging him back when he tried to run …
/r/MensRights14/04/25 09:38 AM
1

Men can't get pregnant...did you not know that?
/r/MensRights13/04/25 09:04 PM
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Abortion or any gender specific laws (not surprisingly most gender specific laws are only for men). The law should not have any gender, it should be gender neutral.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 05:21 PM
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I've seen fathers do videos where they full on admit they treat their daughters better than their sons because she's his 'princess'. It just makes me so sad, imagine being a child and your dad favouring your sister based on nothing but her gender. This also later creates an entitled princess that nobody wants to deal with and are the type to threaten a teenage boy for simply dating his daughter. I've always hated girl dads.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 08:50 AM
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Don't delve into hate but I can definitely understand why some might feel hatred over time. Women are way too protected. Remember there are good women out there who do advocate for men. Who get hate from other women and feminists simply for sticking up for men or pointing out the double standards or even just saying men have a different perspective. There are mothers who shield their sons. Focus on the good
/r/MensRights13/04/25 08:16 AM
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Thats so sad and whats sadder is no one cares because its boys. That's literally hunger games (having to pull your name out of a bowl) yet no one bats an eye
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:59 PM
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OK, since men are expected to essentially give up their lives at a drop of a hat. Surely they should receive some additional benefits just for having their names on the list in the first place. Just for equality sake if they are forced to risk their necks they should be given some additional perks.
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:55 PM
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I noticed it too, I was raised in a largely egalitarian household where no one was treated differently based off gender other than obvious stuff (such as my mother buying dresses and makeup exclusively for my sister which makes sense) so once I got to the outside world and heard about chivalry or what people expect from men nowadays it sounded like a nightmare. You have to physically kneel to propose to a woman and make sure you brought an expensive enough gem because otherwise its disrespectful…
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:51 PM
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I don't get why men are always blamed if a movie doesn't do well especially if you market the movie as feminist or girl power. Shouldn't you be relying on women to make the movie do good? If you want more men to be interested, how about you make movies with them in mind
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:48 AM
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I don't hate women but I can definitely see why they say more and more young people are becoming redpilled/misogynistic. I downloaded tiktok to watch one video and I kept it, the amount of double standards and sheer hate men get. I feel bad because now I automatically scroll past any video with a man in it because he always receives unnecessary hate over the stupidest thing in the comment. Such as beating his girlfriend in a race or people calling him gay because he wants to game over going shop…
/r/MensRights11/04/25 09:30 AM
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Because race has often taken a precedence over gender historically speaking. For example a black woman would be below a white anybody in the past. Thankfully we are making huge strides towards more racial equality even if some stubborn old people persist such as hearing someone got denied a womans hand in marriage because he's not her race (aka her parents are racist). It might not be perfect but its better than it was in the past. But generally race is given more importance than gender because …
/r/MensRights09/04/25 10:39 AM
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I think they confused emotional with empathy. Same way they say they are the more emotionally intelligent gender yet also expect you to read their minds and hints that even they admit is subtle.
/r/MensRights08/04/25 03:47 PM
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A father lost his 14 yesr old daughter...the comments were accusing him of raping/sexually assaulting her and that she died trying to escape him. When confronted on how they can throw such a wild accusation to a father crying over his daughter dying they said they don't care and to look at stats and men through history. They really do have a warped sense of reality where they think every man is a rapist and every woman has been raped. Even for social media that felt way out of line.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 11:49 AM
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Whenever men do try that they are told they don't understand, they are one of the bad one or to stop defending them. You can't reason away prejudice when the other side refuses to listen or budge
/r/MensRights06/04/25 12:46 PM
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Can't wait to see how feminist will inevitably try to defend her. The fact she only got 20 months is so telling of female privilege. If a man forced a woman to sleep on the floor, abused her, starved her etc they would try to put him away for life. No surprise it was in the UK though, one of the most misandrist place ever.
/r/MensRights05/04/25 01:24 AM
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Anyone with a brain should know this. Generally if 50% of humanity is on average stronger than the other 50% and all or even majority of them were bad, Earth would be literal hell. Yet you still have good men stopping criminals, putting out fires, creating laws to benefit women etc its just those actions go unnoticed because people want to be negative and focus on a small percentage of men. Even when men go to war its other men they draft. All in all this supposed patriarchy seems very gynocentr…
/r/MensRights04/04/25 11:41 AM
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From what I gather feminism has flat out poisoned women in the West to the point even bi women and lesbians find it hard to deal with them. Its not even just men who find it difficult to be with them. Just endless entitlement and arrogance as well as believing their emotions should be the end all in a relationship. That sort of personality can't be in a relationship without things going 100% her way
/r/MensRights03/04/25 11:42 PM
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Yet when you ask men they can give you articles, laws, situations etc. They can give you actual reasons why they think the way they do. I often ask so I can see both sides of the story but they can never seem to give why they think the way they do even if they do its jut stuff they heard online and don't really believe themselves
/r/MensRights03/04/25 11:38 PM
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To this day I still haven't got the answer to what special rights or privilege I have that women don't. They all have this somewhat shared delusion that we live life on easy mode and have special privileges and rights and they are the ones lacking yet when you ask them they can never answer. In real life they change the topic or say "I'm not your teacher, Google it" (basically meaning they don't know either and are just parroting some beliefs they saw online) or if online they never respond back…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:21 PM
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I can't remember the name but there was a sociologist who pointed out boys do better under male teachers. The reason why can be speculated but they do a lot better under male authority (father, teacher, coach etc)
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:17 PM
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Yeah women can't act like they also don't get horny or sexual. There's so many dirty fanfictions (sometimes even when the characters are turned into babies and still forced to do the actions) written mostly by women. They are the reason I stopped reading fanfictions because I could barely find one that wasn't somewhat sexual or nasty. Also gradually just lost interest in reading them anyway. One good thing about the Internet is its bringing light that women aren't all that different when you get…
/r/MensRights03/04/25 12:15 PM
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Men doing nothing and just staying in bed and somehow its a terror threat. 3rd slide is ridiculous, don't walk behind her and cross the street. If she is so scared shouldn't she cross the street?
/r/MensRights01/04/25 07:41 PM
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That doesn't even make sense, heterosexuality is literally what keeps humanity going. Something that essential wouldn't be manufactured. Its just natural
/r/MensRights31/03/25 07:33 PM
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Always the center of attention but also always the ones saying they are oppressed. I would argue, if men are expected to sacrifice more, protect and provide...they should logically get more benefits including leadership roles.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 06:20 AM
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Yeah one of them was acting a victim because she asked a question and the comments didn't sugarcoat the answer (basically would you marry a single mother) and the other womsn commenters were saying the men were bad for not being gentle or validating her.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 05:52 AM
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I've seen so many girls online and in real life thirst over their teachers, its even a very well known role play scenario for whatever messed up reason. There's millions of fanfictions with it etc.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 05:50 AM
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Mental health issues only ever seem to be brought up when the woman is a criminal.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 05:46 AM
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I've seen people start to call it out more. So thats some change I guess
/r/MensRights30/03/25 12:15 AM
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Yeah might not like it but lifes not always about feelings, some people act like its the hardest job in the world when really its not. People just exaggerate.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 08:20 AM
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You would still have to do all those jobs anyway you just have to do it a bit more and soon enough when the kids are older you give them chores, make them clean up after themselves etc. Don't know why you tried to make fun of being the working parent? I didn't even mention them. And yeah like everything some people will want to be it and some people won't.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 04:10 AM
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The sheer audacity of preventing his biological father to see his son to give custody of his stepmother. Not even his actual mother. Now even being the biological father isn't enough, she gets custody just for being married to him. And of course not even 5 seconds into scrolling the comment sections I see women (it's almost never men) trying to justify the child being kept away and saying not to blame the sheriff and state.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 01:02 AM
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I've seen people call a happily married father an incel. Isn't the fact he has kids and a wife proof that he isn't an incel
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:50 AM
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Fear of what? A situation they themselves made up in their own head? They made up this hypothetical situation then say the reasoning is fear but they are the ones who thought it up in the first place.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:48 AM
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You would still have higher chance of escape and survival rather than if it were a bear. A bear you can't outmuscle, outspeed or even hurt. A man you can at least have a slighty higher chance of survival
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:45 AM
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They have the same job and chores so yes for arguments sake it is the same thing
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:41 AM
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Those are all very easy things to do, taking kids to school and picking them up. You get in a car, drive to their school and they get out/come in. Its hardly that big of a deal. Cooking? Just cook a larger portion of whatever you were going to cook for yourself. If you got picky kids, you have like 6 hours to make the food or even multiple meals. Doing multiple loads of laundry? Again unless your doing laundry by hand, this isn't that big of a deal. Not gonna go grocery shopping for your family?…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:39 AM
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Even with that context, man is still a better pick. Worst case scenario, bear/man attacks. A bear can outrun you, kill you with one strike and eat you alive (They actually do that, just pin you down and take big bites). A man you could possibly fight back, claw him, pull his hair, attack his eyes, fight dirty. With a man you could run into civilised area and he will back off, a bear however won't care that others are looking and still attack you. Best case scenario, the man helps you get out the…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:29 AM
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I've actually debated with amen about this...she flat out said its not about logic when I mentioned worse case scenario (as in they choose to attack) you have a higher chance escaping from a man than a bear (The man is smaller, you might actually be able to push him off/pull his hair/fight dirty, run to a civilised area where he will back off) And best case scenario the man will help you get out the woods whilst a bear will just ignore you. Either way, best or worst case scenario a man is the be…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:24 AM
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You are leaving out context as in that question is intentionally set up to either make men feel bad or try to show how scared you are of men everyday. The reasoning of the question is misandrist
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:18 AM
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Lots of guys are just tired and yeah being treated differently will make people angry. Hardly anyone here hates women simply because they are women. Men don't wish the worst on women, women however do wish the worst on men even going as far as to wish death on a newborn baby because he was born a boy (Margot Robbie's son). Men aren't saying KillAllWomen or defending a man's actions no matter how bad it was. I don't get why this sort of attitude is targeted to men and Mens Rights Activists, we ar…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:13 AM
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Someone actually did the whole gender flip scenario for an AITA post, they got drastically different answers.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:03 AM
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"It's completely wrong, but it persists. It's a way of saying 'you want equality, you got it. Here's how we're going to interpret these scenarios, right? We're going to interpret women as violent, equally dangerous, equally implicated,'" said Sheehy. Is that not equality? Why is that wrong? And the reason police chalked it up to toxic relationship is because they have already been called to that house.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 11:22 AM
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We aren't though?
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:24 AM
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I swear its like the UK sit down and try to figure out ways to benefit women more.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:12 AM
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Don't forget single moms deciding to make fathers day about themselves yet you don't see single fathers doing the same on mothers day
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:05 AM
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What are men allowed to do that women can't? What rights are women missing? "men..dont..know.. what it feels like to be a woman. its very difficult for me to see why men make the arguments above, so obviously men probably have a way harder time as to discerning what "issues" women face when they themselves arent women." Could say the exact same thing to you, you don't know what its like to be a man yet you wrote a whole post trying to diminish mens concerns.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 06:23 AM
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Women are wonderful effect + Men are evil by default. Stop always blaming men and trying to justify women. A woman can literally sell her children and still have a comment section defend her whilst a man is ripped to shreds because he acted tired or fed up after a long day.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 01:24 AM
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That's just an endless cycle. Women need to get sexism out of their system now the men are angry so now they need to get it out of their system making women angry again.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 01:21 AM
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Don't listen to feminists or even women on how men should act. They have no idea about what life is like for men so how could they possibly be qualified to give advice on how men should or need to act.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 01:19 AM
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The quote "if you are for equality you are a feminist" is so outrageously arrogant as if they are the only group who want equality and they have a monopoly on it. I always hated that qoute.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 04:59 AM
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No one likes male feminists, feminists themselves say they don't like male feminists and try to tear them down https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/16gy2k6/how_common_are_feminist_men_in_real_life/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/1f30gtv/is_it_wrong_to_be_alert_the_moment_a_dude/ And other men often just see them as pathetic. It truly is a lose lose situation, hate on fellow men for a group that hates them for simply existing and will turn rabid against them at the drop of a…
/r/MensRights25/03/25 03:47 AM
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Geez did sucking up to people who regularly say KillAllMen go wrong for you a man? Who could have thought this? If you don't want them to think of us as a hive mind don't be apologising for someone else's mess. Or say their hatred is justified
/r/MensRights25/03/25 12:58 AM
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Online harassment. Its not really safety check because otherwise they will say something like "This man abused me for 2 years and just left me penniless. So if any of you see him, don't get with him" instead its more like checking he isn't two-timing her. I would accept it if they were equal but I doubt a group of men passing a womans photo to check if she's two-timing them will be treated the same
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:36 PM
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Because women usually try to demand their full attention, no joke I've seen women say he shouldn't want to hang out with his friends or old family because he has her now. What's so special about her? I don't know. They can still hang out with their friends and have girls night out and if he stops that he's abusive other way around? She is in the right and he has to give her attention. That's also why they have such beef with their boyfriends mother. I promised myself I would never be one of the …
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:15 PM
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Just say your talking to a girl to get them off your back
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:07 AM
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At this point misogyny definition is "it doesn't benefit women"
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:01 AM
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I'm confused isn't waiting behind after class a good thing, they are going into their own break time to learn more and understand better in a way where they aren't disrupting the class flow. And they are tall? so what, should they be treated differently over something they can't control?
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:00 AM
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I haven't seen anyone call it misogynistic but I have people label it an ick for a man to breathe a certain way
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:58 AM
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Don't feel guilty, I wouldn't want to be made to feel guilty for another actions so I would hope people here don't want you to feel guilty. As for what you can do, literally just treat men like women aka treat them like human beings with feelings. A lot of issues can just be solved by both men and women being more empathetic and treating everyone the same. For example call out people saying KillAllMen as you would if someone says KillAllWomen. Or call out casual misandry
/r/MensRights23/03/25 06:52 AM
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Yeah which is so confusing because they clearly don't hate the actions because they like it when women does it but act like men are misogynist if men don't like the characters acting like a typical bully. There is a difference between strong and masculine and straight up jock-ish bully which half the girlbosses end up coming as.
/r/MensRights22/03/25 10:19 PM
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I've seen it online so much times, whenever a man doesn't console a woman or hype her up he is mean or abusive. I saw a gender reveal gone wrong because of the mother and the guy just showed literally 5 seconds of disappointment before kissing her and carrying on...the comments ripped him to shreds saying he's just a boy not a man, some simps and white knights going "if it was my wife I would hug her straight away and say its ok" and all other assumptions over literally 5 seconds of closing his …
/r/MensRights22/03/25 10:14 PM
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I noticed its a lot more recent thing, not that it didn't happen in the past (there's always been some form of misandry sprinkled in) but shows/movies from like early 1990's-2015 didn't have nearly this much man hate. I was rewatching some of my childhood shows and I was shocked at how the men are portrayed, strong, masculine, women actually listen and even on the womens side they are allowed to make mistakes, be in the wrong and have messages like you sometimes need to put your feelings on hold…
/r/MensRights22/03/25 05:48 PM
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Exactly, there was another post on here saying it would help Male Rights activist if they showed they care about women and girls all I could think is why? The whole point of the movement is everyone already cares too much about women, why even in this movement does it still need to cater to them? The reason womens problems ain't discussed here is because everywhere else they are already doing so.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:56 PM
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I would prefer to be divorced than live with a woman who cheated on me and be duped into thinking the kid is mine.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 08:53 PM
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Then they can make an informed decision, the dad who wants it might not after finding out its not their child. And since when do we care about if men want to be childless or not, if that was the case stuff like child support wouldn't exist
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:04 PM
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Its for cases where the man doesn't know if he's the father or not, the ones you mentioned are clear exceptions where they will return and say "_______ is not the father" then the man will just say "Oh I know". Pretty straight forward. If the father is deceased or unavailable, the woman will just say that and it carry on like normal. In cases of mothers death and child isn't his, he can choose to either carry on and raise that child or do whatever happens to a child when their single mother dies…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 05:01 PM
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I would say leave, I was friends with people who called me one of the good ones (I had just moved and was lonely so stuck to the few friends I had even if they were toxic) it only takes so little for them to turn on you and "you are just like the rest" leaves their mouth as soon as we have an argument. But if you want to stay (which I understand) and its stable enough to debate bring up their dads, brothers, uncles etc or say "What about my dad? my brother?" and carry on
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:51 PM
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The UK is so messed up, never realised it as a child but now I can practically see the sexism leaking from every section. They even issued a new law saying young girls will not get the same disciplinary measures as boys and recieve more rehabilitative care...why not just offer that to all young people? Why only girls?
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:42 PM
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Women were so scared of raising someone else's child they took markers to mark their baby after they heard babies got switched in a hospital. As with everything, they will hate men for doing it but when they get put in a similar situation they do the exact same thing (make sure the kid is theirs)
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:31 PM
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weirded out, why would I want a flower you can't even do anything with it.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:27 PM
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Yeah I've always said this, mens biggest problems is always other men. Woman can cry, accuse or anything else but it is always men that actually do the action. Men need to stop being womens enforcers. If men stopped listening like a rabid dog ready to attack at a moments notice it would be so much easier. For example when a guy hits a woman back, its not other women who come to her defence but other guys. Or another case where its other men who held down a man being accused of kidnapping his own…
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:19 PM
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I just use one of their quotes "the oppressed problems are always invisible to the oppressor, doesn't mean its not there" I've had them throw that at me a bunch of times so now I throw it back
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:10 PM
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Genuine question, let's say hypothetically this all seeing Patriarchy is a thing and as they said is built to support men and their needs then how is it in our best interest to dismantle that? He keeps saying its our best interest yet with his concept of patriarchy, its our best interest to keep it.
/r/MensRights20/03/25 04:08 PM
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Its not that hard to figure out, the only reason people act confused is because they are realising their own ideologies backfire on them. Surrounding boys with KillAllMen, men are pigs, constantly portrayed as either dumb or sexist in the media, everything we do is some form of sexism. Those boys are going to grow into men who will resent and fight back and run to places that don't shame them and tries to give them some pride. A child will burn its village down to feel its warmth, people go and …
/r/MensRights19/03/25 05:36 AM
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Lack of consequence and for some reason people adopt a guilty until proven innocent when it comes to rape
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:50 AM
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I've seen people defend a mother killing her child, crazy world where people take female worship so seriously that they even defend murdering a child.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:48 AM
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Sounds bad but just tell people to stop caring about women so much. Almost any time a man complains or something happens to men, women get the focus and men are told to just suffer because women might if they don't. Some examples are when men say women who do false accusations should go to prison...the response to that (can even go check other feminist subreddits) is then women might not come out with their rape story. They don't want men to get justice because it MIGHT (they aren't even sure) d…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:45 AM
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I don't know yet but definitely somewhere with stricter laws. The reason everything is so messed up because the laws aren't strict enough here. Literal teenagers joke that its nothing and when questioned say give them more sentences if its that deep.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:31 AM
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Men are hated for stepping into a fight, but then also hated for not stepping into a fight...there's videos of men who grab their girlfriends and walk away when another man is abusing a woman and the comments hating on him as if its his job to protect women. Or a video where a woman got hit by a brick and she's crying because there was 4 men there and they did nothing. I wouldn't do anything to a brick throwing maniac either. And yeah there is a massive aggression double standards, even on famil…
/r/MensRights05/03/25 11:17 PM
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This is stupid, give a group lighter sentences or treatment and they will go wild and out of control. Not to mention these types of law will just grow and fan hate flames or cause groups to fight each other since they view the other as having more privilege. I'm definitely leaving the UK as soon as possible and I'm not that shocked to see other people are also making plans to move. People I personally know and then even British youtubers/tiktokers I'm watching are moving. It's like everyone's go…
/r/MensRights05/03/25 11:05 PM
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Why? what will that achieve?
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:59 PM
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I would never admit to knowing any pedophiles or try to defend them by saying its not their fault.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:57 PM
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Because men and women are inherently connected especially if you are trying to prove (because many people don't believe it) that men don't get the same advantages and privileges of women. So by pointing out times where women do get special treatment or sympathy goes to show you that it isn't just men being emotional and it is actually something happening to men. For one group to be oppressed/ignored the other has to be prioritised/given attention. That's just how it works, this shows how a woman…
/r/MensRights05/03/25 06:00 PM
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People will trip over their own 2 feet to try to give women excuses, I saw a crime documentary about a woman who sold her kids into slavery (well not real slavery but they were kept in a barn, abused and forced to do barnwork by the people who brought them) because her new man didn't want to be a stepdad...all the comments making excuses for her saying it must have broken her heart to do so and she was desperate for money. Yet when one of those kids grew up and found her again, she expressed no …
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:56 PM
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Isn't that the same? She did a monstrous act yet is receiving sympathy and people making excuses for her. If you heard a man killed a baby then saw people giving him sympathy wouldn't you say thats people excusing his actions
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:52 PM
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Yeah why does the hormone argument only work one way?
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:49 PM
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Always some excuse
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:47 PM
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Seems they are too wrapped up in their victimhood to even consider anyone else's point of view. I've had so much arguments with them and got no where because they kept pulling "who set that system up?" as if it was a blame game and men vs women. They didn't want to acknowledge any female privilege or men being considered disposable/forced to do stuff because in their delusion men set that system up so have no right to complain. I wasn't even blaming or looking to blame anyone but to them it was …
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:43 PM
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Then people claim misandry and female privilege isn't real as if there are gender specific laws that benefit men like this.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:31 PM
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Female privilege is only 2% of women being in youth custody but they will still work and prioritise that 2% rather than put that effort towards the 98% which are boys. Then have the nerve to say they aren't ignoring boys needs, I have a feeling people aren't that fussed with boys not receiving therapeutic and trauma informed environment. What's annoying this could have been a good change, treat the youth kinder and try to understand and unpack their trauma, mental health issues and emotional nee…
/r/MensRights05/03/25 05:30 PM
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There is a bit of a difference though. For one, if you accused someone of robbing you then it turns out you didn't, people forget it. In a couple of days things will go back to normal. As well as there is evidence aka something is missing, in cases of rape people are rarely that kind to people who were falsely accused even if it comes out later that it wasn't the case. And rape doesn't have much evidence other than he said, she said.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 10:50 AM
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Think how good it would feel if you can always blame your problems on another group. You are perfect queen who deserves to be worshipped and just need to realise your true potential, you are a hero powering through people underestimating and discriminating against you. Classic power/underdog fantasy. Now imagine this thought process is sold to you in every corner of society, books, TV shows, movies, social media, education. It becomes very easy to believe and fall into it because it feels good a…
/r/MensRights03/03/25 11:08 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/9ipofz/should_women_who_falsely_accuse_men_of_rape_get/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TooAfraidToAsk/comments/12d247z/do_you_think_women_who_make_false_rape/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bar3db/women_that_claim_false_rape_deserve_mandatory/
/r/MensRights03/03/25 07:29 PM
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When you have nearly every thing around you telling you your perfect the way you are and men are the problem you will get someone vindictive, petty and thinking they are flawless. Movies, TV shows, books, school, social media all keep hyping women up for anything even if she's wrong (it was a trend of "I support womens rights and wrongs") whilst telling them men are their enemies.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 05:39 PM
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I've noticed this too...even when you point out problems men face they hit you with "who set that system up" which is weird because they treat it like a blame game and assume your accusing women rather than trying to talk through the solution or problem. Even if you disagree about the problems men face, you can still debate it logically instead of trying to do some weird blame game which gets no one anywhere. Only way I can think of it is just being way too emotional and thinking they got the mo…
/r/MensRights03/03/25 05:32 PM
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I agree I've seen so many people just flat out lie about what they want because it gets a better reaction like the men who say they want a fiery woman yet when they meet an actual one they realise its nightmare-ish to date a hostile, argumentative woman.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:23 AM
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Society however is claiming to strive for equality and that's what people should want. These double standards are flying back in peoples faces and no one is feminizing themselves by pointing out these double standards or how men get screwed in society.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:53 PM
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"they have the same rights as women plus more" I would ask them what rights women are missing and men have more of but they block anyone who has a different opinion. They always say this nonsense and I genuinely want 1, even just 1 right women don't have that men have. Not to mention men aren't automatically given respect, what delusional world do they live in where men get automatic respect. And you being scared at night (man or woman) isn't a right being trampled on, any rational person would …
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:43 PM
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I also wonder this...their only claim to oppression is something that happened in the past and not even to them. I could understand it if some elderly woman who was affected by it showed some bitterness. But somehow the older generations are the ones more respectable and polite about it whilst the younger ones who haven't suffered it are the angry, bitter ones.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:33 PM
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They hate masculine men but seem to love masculine women. It hurts my brain to try to understand it, clearly they don't hate the behaviour because they encourage it in women they just don't like it being applied to men. But they also will only sleep with the masculine men so deep down they do want it despite calling those same men toxic? And everyone knows feminine men aren't typically top picks.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 02:01 PM
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I've actually had this argument, 3 women trying to convince me a man should pay for any children born inside marriage because he made a vow to her and its unfair to the child and the child still needs support and shouldn't be punished. That its barbaric to care about whether its your child and if you really loved her you would stick with her and take the child as yours. These same women said they won't babysit their nieces and nephews because "why would I deal with someone else's kids" despite t…
/r/MensRights26/02/25 01:03 PM
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If someone ever tried to give me allowance money from my own income, it would be immediate divorce.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 03:08 AM
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Reminds me when I saw a woman from Ukraine claim she is the oppressed one. Somehow they ignore the actual men dying and being forced to do it.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 03:06 AM
2

How are you going to try to turn misandry and always blaming men to be a womans problem?
/r/MensRights25/02/25 04:03 PM
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I don't know why I am shocked by such clear sexism by the UK. At this point they might as well come out and just say they want men to be second class citizens. Women can't be rapists, misogyny is counted as extremism, they want to tear down female prisons etc.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 03:29 PM
2

Yeah its disturbing I've seen so many videos where people just hate on the parent for showing their sons any form of love its quite disturbing. Such as no on batting an eye when dad's do a silly video saying to raise their daughters standards in men yet when mothers do the same but raise their sons standards for women they get attacked. In another video people were justifying a grown man choking a 16 year old because he called his daughter a slur after she cheated on him and saying there's never…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 10:11 AM
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Body image issues isn't sexist every gender has them to different degrees men even broke their legs just to gain some height, paranoia and anti-male stuff is sexism towards men not women and people rushing to find excuses for women isn't a disadvantage but an advantage.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 10:05 AM
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That# just furthering the problems though, you need to start showing boys as victims to make people care again.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:45 AM
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There is no food for thought, trying to frame someone for something they didn't do is always wrong. He is innocent of sexual harassment since he didn't do it
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:43 PM
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I mean you said you and Jane were both manipulated by him so its not simply having proteges. But after searching up what Title IX is yeah I would say its wrong. Because he didn't really sexually harass anyone
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:33 PM
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In your post...you said he was messing around with his mentee's, you and it was a pattern. Not to mention in the story HR actually listened to him. So again, I don't see an issue?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:25 PM
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what does this have to do with male rights? This seems like it belongs on AITA type subs.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:19 PM
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Nah, can't really agree with that. I've seen some double standards for sure but nowhere near as bad as men get for example no one says KillAllWhitePeople and then have people defend it. No one says white person in the woods or a bear etc. Certainly some double standards and jokes but nowhere near the same hatred against men. Unless I'm missing something. Especially compared to racial attacks against POC whereas the same can't be said for men and women
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:11 PM
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This is all just a random guess and theory. One reason they treat it differently is because the boys are eventually going to grow into men and gain more strength so its more of a teach them whilst they are young thing so its ingrained so they don't hit their wives in the future which would have been a big concern in the past before telephones and stuff like WhatsApp were popular. And for women they see it in the light of if the man is really in trouble he would be able to fight back but the same…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:04 PM
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Gender switching is so annoying to me especially in cases like this. I forgot the movie title but its basically a girl escaping being held hostage by some lunatic then at the end they say its based on true events but leave out the hostage was a boy but they just gender flipped it for the movie. I'm like why? Nothing was gender specific that they had to change it. Are they trying to erase male victims? Does this sort of stuff happen to women where they get gender flipped?
/r/MensRights24/02/25 02:55 PM
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First off we don't deserve hate, I don't get why men are the only group its acceptable to hate on because of the actions of a few. Not only is that inherently illogical (there will always be bad eggs and good eggs in any group) its downright stupid. I should get hated on because some other guy did something? I should have to deal with double standards, misandry because someone chose a wrong man. Secondly stop obsessing over women you shouldn't look down on yourself because women online are hater…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 02:46 PM
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on reddit some subs ban you for commenting here and will attack you if you say you aren't feminist so its definitely feminism is counted as the default or your expected to support them or not hate them unless your a bigot.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 11:32 PM
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It is her actions to cheat on her husband, why are you trying to take the spotlight off women when it comes to accountability?
/r/MensRights22/02/25 04:09 AM
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Or because people think not worshipping women or acting like they have no faults is somehow misogyny.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 03:59 AM
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The only one who doesn't benefit from paternity tests are the mothers, probably why so many people are against them but aren't against women randomly checking their man's phone even saying if he doesn't hand the phone over straight away he's hiding something
/r/MensRights22/02/25 03:58 AM
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Damn, with paternity fraud its often "how can you abandon the child, they didn't do anything" "I feel bad for the child (coincidentally forgetting the main victim is the father)" but with women all they get is support. Same way they say blood doesn't matter but as soon as hospital switching babies became a thing online (as in people were hearing about it and getting paranoid) they started taking markers with them into delivery but a man is a jerk if he wants a paternity test. As with everything,…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 05:39 AM
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They really tried to use his eye shape to say he's controlling and abusive, just proves my point they go out of their way to be miserable or try to see faults in him. Having no red flags is apparently bad but so is having red flags. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 05:30 AM
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The entiteledness and plain stupidity gets annoying. You join a group dedicated to assuming he is already two timing you then be shocked when all you see is negative reactions from other women, like duh. Did you think this group had positive interactions and decided to join for the fun of it. It is inherently negative to its core so of course your going to hear negative experiences. Just like if I went to a shelter for homeless teens then get shocked they have a bad situation, like obviously the…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:50 AM
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Objectification is just a word to make it sound worse than it is. Everyone loves looking at humans they are attracted too. There are actual celebrities read thirst tweets videos most which are made by women, look up any photo of Tom Hiddleston/Chris Hemsworth/Chris Evans or any other attractive movie star. They do the exact same but apparently its not the same. Its not objectifying for men to look at a pretty woman on screen same way its not for women who look at men.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 11:33 AM
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My friend was accused of it by a girl because they stopped being friends because she was a popular girl she got her little hag-coven to say he did it to them as well. I was the only one who stood by his side and I knew he was telling the truth because she said he touched her legs in biology under the desk but he sits by me in biology and on the other side was a wall so obviously he couldn't touch her since she was 5 seats away. She also said he raped her after school on a specific date but she c…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 04:00 AM
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I always hated this trope especially when they make the mum ultra competent or so clearly above the man's level. I genuinely got shocked when I watched the sitcom the middle and the dad wasn't portrayed as less intelligent or competent in fact he's more competent, often more level headed and straight forward whilst the mother is less controlled. But she still listens to her husband and they don't do that weird trope where the husband is scared of his wife's temper or actions. I'm only up to seas…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:33 AM
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I always hate this answer, an example I compare it to is a fire. When there is a fire you don't stand around and start accusing each other of starting the fire, you either run or try to put it out. Playing the blame game is just an excuse to not have to acknowledge it. Why focus on the past rather than the present issue? Not to mention their argument fall apart. Men can be gynocentric and misandrist not to mention they unknowingly admit there is a system against men they just try to justify it b…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:22 AM
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But you can't know who the victim is...if she is lying then he was the victim
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:10 AM
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"Then the woman is barely punished, or not at all! They always say oh we can’t punish the lying piece of shit woman because that will discourage other women from reporting." Men just take the fall and don't expect justice because it might affect other women. That's got to be the lamest excuse ever.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:08 AM
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What's particularly disgusting is even when they come out as liars...people still rush to defend them. There was a tiktok where a girl did a similar thing to her father because he wouldn't let her go out to a party or something and people were defending her and saying he must have done something because why else would she lie? Or saying she's a teenager and hormonal. It's downright disgusting how little they care about men being falsely accused. The father actually got sent to prison and for som…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:06 AM
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Easy answer to this, people have to be reminded men suffer too whereas women get all the sympathy points already. The fact there are male mental health groups is because women always derail it the few times they get involved or everyone shifts to focus on her which is just not needed, normal therapy/mental health help is already geared towards women. In this specific case talking about VAWG it makes sense to bring to light male victims because they are often ignored, women however are not ignore…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 03:01 AM
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I am also seeing a slow and subtle change as in a few feminists around me are quickly falling out of love with it and more people are defending men online. One video where a very tired man got fed up of his wife trap questions yelled the older comments were hating on the man saying he doesn't love her or he wouldn't have yelled and got annoyed by her the premise being that if you love someone they can never get annoying but the newer comments were supporting him/treating him like a human saying …
/r/MensRights15/02/25 11:30 PM
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They do that a lot just try to make it general rather than acknowledging its about men. Men should be able to defend themselves when women hit first quickly turns into nobody should be hitting anyone completely ignoring that men can't defend themselves without others getting involved. Pointing out the draft targets men quickly turns into there shouldn't be a draft again just blatantly ignoring that its a male issue and trying to make it more general. They don't want these to be male issues so tr…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 11:19 PM
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yeah to me its a case of the media/social media having a very powerful effect, it gets them all riled up and emotional so they ignore the logic of if everyman was as bad as they say...the world would be literal hell for women.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 11:12 PM
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its funny because if someone is actually dangerous or unhinged you would want them to stay in their rooms where they can't hurt anyone.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:58 AM
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They should make it a show. Get a group of women and put them on one island then a group of men on another island (obviously pick men and women who say they don't want to be with the other gender) then see what happens.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:56 AM
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ironically even feminists often hate on male feminists so they are hated/disliked by all groups.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:32 AM
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A lot of the times, the things they accuse men of are just their own projections
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:29 AM
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My cousin was listening to too much feminist stuff (I don't know what exactly) and when she repeated it in front of me about how all men are bad and the world is unsafe because of them. I asked what bad stuff did she suffer and she couldn't give me one example. I then asked what did her dad (she's a massive daddy's girl, loves him so much) do to make the world unsafe for women, again couldn't give an answer. I kept going on and on she had multiple male friends and male cousins and she quickly re…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:28 AM
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For me its just the victim complex, they think they are the victims therefore men can't be suffering or oppressed because they are this is also probably why when you bring it up they try to change the topic to make it not about men (such as saying there should be no draft at all when you mention women should get drafted too instead of acknowledging men are unfairly targeted in that regard) or try to find a way to blame men as if that has any impact on the present issues. Why focus who is at faul…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:21 AM
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Yeah they always say women aren't subject to the draft because they need women to have kids yet they aren't forcing women to have kids during that time. If your going to be totally utilitarian such as saying men need to die for the greater good during those time single, childless women should be forced to help pay for single mothers who are husband less because of the war. If the only reason they aren't subjected is because of children enforce that.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:20 AM
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I stopped following the "your not a real man if...." because I learnt very quick its just a form of control. All the stuff that follows that phrase is always somehow benefitting anyon but the man. A common example is 'real men don't hit girls" and people say this when men retaliate to women hitting them. You can see from far its just them trying to manipulate men to help women.
/r/MensRights13/02/25 01:04 AM
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I'm genuinely asking, what systemic power do men have that women seem to think we do? Legally women are advantaged. Socially women are advantaged through double standards. Even in schools they get a leg-up. What more help could you want? "more bs excuses for their hatred of men In a nutshell it can't real hurt men besides their feeling." "make women feel unsafe." Of course feelings only matter once its a woman's feelings being hurt. Misandry does so much more than just hurt feelings but ofcourse…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:15 AM
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Interesting, I would actually like to know the reason behind it especially for Lesbians.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:04 AM
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Yeah its funny how women are dismissive of mens issues until they too begin facing similar issues then all of a sudden they are against it. It would be funny if it wasn't so sad and self centered. When women had to start paying alimony they went online saying its unfair and they are never voting for whoever made them do it again...but then they'll turn around and say men should pay alimony because she spent her youth on him and other stupid stuff. They say its weird for men to care if the child …
/r/MensRights07/02/25 10:21 PM
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The classic blame game. Not once did I blame women or telling women to fix it. Frankly I don't care who is to blame, I find it useless trying to focus on the past rather than focus on fixing the present. Stop focusing on who set the fire and just put the fire out. What I did however point out is examples of misandry/double standards. Is it still patriarchy if its targeting men? And even so gynocentric laws being made under this supposed patriarchy doesn't mean people can't criticise them or poin…
/r/MensRights07/02/25 10:07 PM
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Yeah but if you ever point it out people drown you out with (like OP said) that men are exaggerating or they try to tell you its the mystical patriarchy's fault (funny how the patriarchy is so focused on hating men, is it even a patriarchy if it targets men?) or they try to act like MRA's activists are just incels who can't get laid. I mean just look on reddit, some subs outright ban you for simply commenting here. Feminist subs have us under the same tag as nazis, last time I checked. Its a ver…
/r/MensRights06/02/25 03:46 AM
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Jeff goldblum is a bit better because he didn't say he was doing it based off their gender but Shaquille is horrible for targeting his sons. He's not the only one I've seen saying they would purposefully make their sons life harder but give their daughter everything. Either way rich people trying to keep their money away from their kids boggle my mind, most people want to pass down a legacy and make their kids lives easier not harder or purposefully withhold help.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 01:45 AM
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It's still wild to me that they would arrest anyone (but mostly men) for child support. When women can't afford children they receive help and sympathy, men get hauled away to jail. Actual madness.
/r/MensRights06/02/25 01:25 AM
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That's just surface level of misandry a lot of it goes unnoticed or is so normalised people don't see it as a problem. In the UK, women can't be rapists. They want misogyny to be treated as extremism but not the other way around. Want to tear down female prisons because women aren't happy in them (very shocking women aren't happy in jail, everyone knows men love jail) and offer women better, more rehabilitative options that they just refuse to give the same to young men. Other places the draft e…
/r/MensRights06/02/25 01:20 AM
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But when you tell women that somehow its wrong and victim blaming. Its not victim blaming to tell someone to take precautions.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 10:45 PM
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Yeah a woman online said she cooked, cleaned then got the kids from school and brought them back. I thought this was a relatively chill day but she was making it out of to be as if she survived war. The comments going on about how she is underappreciated, deserves a day off and that being a stay at home mum is the hardest job in the world. When its really not. Same thing with stay at home mums, they exgagerrate and list every little thing they do just so it look like they have a hard job. They c…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 10:41 PM
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Exactly, its been drilled into me ever since I started wanting to go out alone my dad always said no matter how big you are never think your safe because truth is your not. People could gang up on you, pull out a weapon etc. I don't go out unless its absolutely necessary and if I can I just put off whatever I need for tomorrow morning. But whenever I give this advice to other women (advice I myself follow as in just stay home at night) I get called misogynist and that they shouldn't have to chan…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 10:26 PM
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As for wage gap whenever I attempt to debate (because I always like hearing the other sides points) I always start off with "don't mention the wage gap I don't feel like debating that" so that's probably why its never brought up with me because I always make sure to tell them I won't interact any further if they keep bringing that up. And yeah most of their points were about feelings "Women don't feel safe at night" there's only one person who can control your feelings and that's you. Learn to d…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 10:18 PM
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But people online are saying its ok or at least encouraging it. After the american elections the amount of misandry online was unbelievable. On tiktok alone there was all sorts of posts about women subtly trying to give out plants that are poisonous and other hateful stuff and they get no hate for it. In fact their comment sections were quite positive.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 09:52 PM
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Yet they accuse men of being violent and constantly thinking of how to oppress women. Seems like self projection to me.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 09:48 PM
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I've begged multiple feminists to tell me this mythical male privilege and why I haven't got mine yet. The most responses I get back is "you can walk home at night"...as if I'm magically stabproof as soon as its night. And thats the only claim they give me that has some sort of validity the rest of the privileges I get don't even make sense (someone once told me I'm privileged to not have a period. Take that up with your biology, you aren't oppressed because you have a period or can get pregnant…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 09:46 PM
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There's an audio online of a man being eaten alive by a bear (might have been a recreation) and its chilling. I watch horror movies a lot and normally like scary things but that audio was too horrifying. Being eaten alive unable to fight back is my new greatest fear. Plus those women never actually mean what they say. They act like they are more scared of men yet I guarantee if someone said behind 2 doors there was a bear and the other a man they would pick the door leading to the man rather tha…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 07:38 PM
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Not to mention it isn't a good look that they chose a plantation for their wedding. I'm surprised no one brings that up more.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 07:32 PM
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Simple as men like some things and women like other things. Doesn't have to have some deeper meaning of wanting attention. Not to mention women do have greater variety normally so there is a reason to buy more or shop more compared to men where its like do you want this black shirt or this other black shirt unless your younger/into stuff like graphic designs, hoodie, tracksuits and even they have limited variety.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 12:36 PM
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Same way a woman would complain about her friend wearing the same thing but men wouldn't even care at most they might find it funny they both wore the same thing.
/r/MensRights02/02/25 12:33 PM
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I'm fed up of people trying to make it out as if having your entire lifestyle funded is so bad, you would literally be able to do whatever you want (within reason). Want to sit on the sofa and watch TV all day? You can. Want to randomly paint or draw? You can. Most people work hard to get enough money so they never have to work again. And yes you have to do chores, but if your consistent with it its not even that hard. Clean up your messes as you go along that way no mess can gather. And the res…
/r/MensRights01/02/25 05:18 PM
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This doesn't account for lesbians having the highest divorce rate though...
/r/MensRights01/02/25 04:29 PM
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If you can't defend yourself from a man paralysed from the neck down without hitting (like she could simply walk away) then your just pathetic. When people say feminism/love for women has gone too far this is what they mean, people will try to justify a woman always for no other reason than she is a woman. There was another case where a person posted the exact same post just genders reversed and in the second one (where the woman was in the wrong) people kept making excuses for her.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 04:27 PM
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I think every job/duty should come with perks especially one that could potentially get you killed so a few extra privileges won't hurt. They could even make it that anyone can get these privileges if they sign up and these privileges can be revoked if they decide to take their name out. That way women can get these privileges if they so desperately want it.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 04:21 PM
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I hate when you argue with them, they don't even see how its always illogical to choose bear. Worst case scenario, both decide to attack. You could potentially fight off a man (fight dirty go for his eyes, sensitive areas, pull his hair etc), run and go to a area with other humans where he will back off unless he's truly deranged that he's going to attack you in public with others watching. Compared to a bear that can kill you with one swipe, is faster, won't care about other humans watching. Oh…
/r/MensRights01/02/25 04:16 PM
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I also don't like the whole women and children being grouped. Children I believe should always get priority but people constantly try to use children to benefit women rather the other way around. For example men get told "she's the mother of your child" whenever they want to guilt him for how he treats his ex even if its not relevant or she doesn't apply the same respect to him as the father of her child. I see that used so much I truly want someone to explain the mentality of thinking being the…
/r/MensRights29/01/25 08:31 AM
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Especially when they act like they've been violated because some man they didn't find attractive looked for 2.5 seconds. At the end of the day does looking even do that much damage? I can understand if the man starts making suggestive comments, starts taking photos or does something else that crosses the line but simply looking is such a non-issue yet you have women trying to put guys on blast online because in the background of their video the guy looked at her for 2.5 seconds.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 03:07 AM
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Women are taught to hate men or see them as lesser, make those women teachers and you have a recipe for disaster especially when you don't confront their sexism. I had so many teachers be blatantly sexist but never get called out because you can't be sexist to men apparently
/r/MensRights26/01/25 01:58 PM
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Downright stupid. "Why don't male rights activist hate on men who rape little boys" because the world already does (as they should). its not a who can hate this group more but raising attention to the fact women are privileged. its like going to a feminist subreddit and posting about women doing crimes against other women...its still bad but makes no sense to post it in that specific subreddit. Same here what about that is going to increase awareness towards the massive double standards. And som…
/r/MensRights26/01/25 01:47 PM
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I hate this excuse for so many reason but the main one is people use it as a reason to dismiss mens problems or blame men for it anyway acting like its a blame game which when you think about it explains so much of feminist thinking. Half the time the things they complain about is them just looking to blame men or act like victims. Let's say this hypothetical, evil patriarchy did happen (because its certainly not happening now) that doesn't change the present. Why focus on the past or who to bla…
/r/MensRights26/01/25 12:52 AM
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Define man without using the word man. My definition is an adult male human. What is yours if it isn't that?
/r/MensRights23/01/25 11:31 AM
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Also won't have the full experience men have since a lot of those experiences start at a young age such as boys being discriminated against in school, the whole don't hit a girl thing even when they hit first that gets drilled into boys, being told to man up at young ages etc.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 11:29 AM
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is it really a patriarchy if it only targets men? A system prioritising and keeping women safe doesn't seem much like a patriarchy. And he didn't make you out to be the enemy or say women are.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 11:06 AM
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Its because they are trusting another woman's decision to be with you and have a kid. She deemed you worthy and safe enough to have kids so the other women think your safe. I remember reading that this is also why men get hit on more when women realise they are in relationships. The reasoning given was that another woman has checked you out and deemed you safe compared to another guy who they have no way of knowing is safe. Of course this logic is stupid when you remember abusive men still get i…
/r/MensRights23/01/25 10:57 AM
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Then he shouldn't use words he doesn't know, especially here where everyone already thinks we are misogynists.
/r/MensRights22/01/25 04:09 PM
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Yeah just like with everything, give them no boundaries and they get entitled, spoilt and very keen to hate on men. I don't know why men tolerate it or sometimes even defend it
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:43 AM
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Misogyny is hatred of women, any hatred for 50% of humanity will always be wrong. And of course that will be unattractive as it will make you look dumb to hate 50% of humanity
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:39 AM
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I see a lot of matriarchal fantasies be exactly like that, its always 10x more oppressive and abusive than their real 'patriarchy'. Even in Barbie when they tried to do some real world parallel and say Barbieland is just the real world with gender flip yet in Barbie land Ken can do nothing, doesn't even have a purpose beyond being Ken the real world allowed a woman to not only make the Barbie movie but make a feminist movie. I can't be the only one who saw that hypocrisy you can't be claiming me…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:28 AM
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Rwminds me of a woman who went to a gym with tights the same colour as her skin so it obviously looks like she is naked then when men did a double turn as in "wait, is she really half naked in public?" but she interpreted it as them checking her out. I'm sure even gay guys (who have no sexual interest in women) would even do a double look to make sure they were seeing it right. Joey Swoll did a video on it. I personally believe looking will never be sexual harassment especially if you purposeful…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 10:02 AM
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A lot of it isn't logical so it will never make sense, but my guess is they view anything benefitting men as disadvantaging women or they think this is some incel/woman hating sub. There is also a lot of pro-feminist type thinking and they obviously hate anything to do with Male Rights activists they actually group us with Nazi's on their subreddit
/r/MensRights18/01/25 09:40 PM
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I strongly suggest creating a new account because their perceptions against you might become flawed or they might even delete your post before it gets traction. That actually happens, some subs delete or ban you for posting here. if you want advice a different account is best
/r/MensRights18/01/25 09:18 PM
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This is exactly why I will only ever have kids through a surrogate, they will be my blood only and if I ever date a woman (because I'm never marrying) she will only at most be the kids dads girlfriend and have no claim to my kids. No court (I hope) will ever try to give the dads girlfriend custody. As for you case, its heartbreaking but I don't know much about law. Maybe post this on lawyer subreddit and see what they say. But maybe on a different account because posting here might make some of …
/r/MensRights18/01/25 08:55 PM
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Makes a lot more sense if they got it from mens prisons.
/r/MensRights18/01/25 09:50 AM
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What roles people play doesn't really matter. Some men are better at being stay at home dads and some women have good careers so makes sense they make the money. However whilst yes patriarchy and gynocentrism both have the same origin as in its the same thing called different names the use has changed drastically relatively recently. Gynocentrism has taken over you see it everywhere, people stepping on eggshells around women, double standards, the draft still being a thing, in the UK men can't b…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:07 AM
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The first one i say is good. It shows it as horrific and wasn't justified or glorified. That's what we want rather than it being something girlboss or brushed over such as in Once Upon a Time where one of the main character raped a man for 28 years then killed him once he gained control over his body and went against her (she used magic)...she is later crowned the Good Queen and is a hero. Or American horror story: Coven. They took a bright young man who was going to be an engineer, accidentally…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:58 AM
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Exactly, feminists spaces block you in a heartbeat for simply suggesting men aren't inherently evil and trying to control everyone. At least here, feminists can ask questions. Might not get the answers they want but they can still ask
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:40 AM
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This is the problem, people see mens rights activists as fighting against women rather than feminism and gynocentrism. You were given multiple examples of where men were disadvantaged yet still tried to defend women as if they were being attacked. And the origin of it is not important, a purple space man could have set this system up and it still doesn't remove the fact that the system is there. Why focus on the past rather than the present?
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:37 AM
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I've tried to debate so many feminists only to find out most can't explain their viewpoints or just throw out catchy slogans that 99% of other feminists use. It was like they were just parrots unable to understand what they were saying.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:33 AM
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I just start using their methods. Call them lesbians like they rush to call men gay if men even slightly critique women ("go be with a man then"). But do it in a sweetly veiled condescending tone they like to use.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:28 AM
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Because that nation would need workers to sustain it and if they are a minority that will be much harder as in simply not enough people to do all the jobs needed to sustain a nation. Let alone enjoy the nation even if we do find enough people. It would just be tireless working and working
/r/MensRights13/01/25 09:49 PM
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The emotions thing is annoying for me too, its like the video its not about the nail. Just take it out and do less whining, not everything needs a heartfelt discussion before doing something so basic. Not everything needs to be about how your feeling. Some things you just need to walk off and ignore because if you become an emotional wreck over everything life is so much harder
/r/MensRights13/01/25 10:06 AM
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Also the person who receives alimony should have to pay it back slowly after they get back on their feet
/r/MensRights13/01/25 10:01 AM
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Unless every man there has no mother, no daughter, no sister, isn't straight its kind of hard to truly remove the other gender because eventually straight men will want to do the deed or other men will miss their female relatives even if they aren't married (mothers, daughters, sisters etc).
/r/MensRights13/01/25 09:59 AM
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I didn't realise the UK was so pro-feminist. They want to label misogyny as extremism, tear down female prisons, men legally can't be raped by women and now this.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 09:56 AM
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My arguments is the double standard and clear women siding that feminism does but turns around to say they are for equality
/r/MensRights13/01/25 09:52 AM
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Yes people in general will complain, that's pretty human however feminists only complain if the guy higher up is a man that's where the problem arises. Same way when they protest/scream that women need to be represented in jobs more they are still only talking about higher up jobs/careers looked upon more favourably which again is them just wanting women to get better and not actually want them to be equal.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 06:49 AM
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Yeah they focus too much on men who have done bad rather than the literally million of men who have done good. Not saying women haven't done good, every group (race, sexuality, religion, ethnicity, gender etc) will always have good and bad people. No group is perfect but no group is 100% evil either. Its best to not see groups and look at the individual. The men who do bad, did bad because they were horrible individuals not because they were men. And often it would be good men who put him away o…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:12 AM
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That was not the point and it flew over your head. There is no job that is 100% male my point was feminists will complain about men being in high positions or respectable jobs because that's what they want. They don't want any of the dirty jobs just the high paying/powerful positions
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:05 AM
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Aren't women infamously toxic friends, or their friendship group is just connected through sheer negative emotions or they act jealous/catty. There was even a movie that shows how toxic and superficial girl friendship groups are (Mean Girls) with lots of women saying it was accurate. You even have the classic single friend who will keep everyone else single or try to poison your relationship because she's jealous. Or the fact brides will sometimes make bridemaids wear ugly dresses just because s…
/r/MensRights09/01/25 07:02 AM
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I saw someone say a 21 woman is a minor and say her husband is a predator (he was 25). Like is it infantalisjng women thats gone out of hand? or is it caring about age gaps that has risen so much recently? I know before 2020 people didn't care this deeply about age gaps from what I saw. Some even say you shouldn't date someone significantly poorer than you because its unethical.
/r/MensRights09/01/25 06:44 AM
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They want men to do stuff just not have any form of power. Women don't line up or fight to get the real dirty jobs such as garbage collectors, construction work, janitor etc. They still want men to do all the labour but just want men not to want higher positions. with great power comes great responsibility. Women want the power but men do any of the actual work. long story short, they want women to have high paying jobs and careers that are looked upon favourably and men to do all the gritty stu…
/r/MensRights08/01/25 12:51 AM
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Advocating for other women in countries that are worse off, is a noble goal and thing. However they hardly ever try to help them but just use their suffering to gain sympathy for themselves and use it as a shield against criticism.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 12:44 AM
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Yes they are wrong. The statistics are screwed due to the simple fact men are shamed into being silent and the fact people don't care anyway. There's multiple cases of women doing it so yes trying to pin the blame on men is wrong (always a man is them blaming and saying its always men).
/r/MensRights08/01/25 12:42 AM
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Reminds me of the video about women double guessing alimony after seeing that they can be subject to it too. Its disheartening to see such clear double standards whilst saying they support equality. Like just be straightforward instead of all these mind games and lies. At least tradcons people or redpill alpha types admit that they believe the genders have separate roles and are upfront with having different standards but feminists will act like they are for equality when clearly they aren't. It…
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:36 AM
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I already know the answer. Positive masculinity is when someone isn't masculine or the personality traits benefit women. The hate on masculinity is so weird to me. They absolutely love masculine women but a masculine man is where they draw the line or have to change. But like everything, feminists use words to fight and control. Its classic shaming tactic. Same way being a gentleman is suspiciously always putting her first and treating her as superior. Or when men online complain women will eith…
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:23 AM
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its ridiculous in this day and age, imagine giving half your stuff and sometimes even continuing to pay your ex. Like why are people responsible for their exs? If they want to leave let them. They are choosing to leave your wallet. Its ridiculous the government can just force you to pay her especially if she divorced you.
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:12 AM
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Men have always been their own biggest problems. Women slaps a man and he slaps back? Its not other women who will tackle him or come to her defense but other men. Its father sowing seeds of hate in their daughters at such a young age "boys only want one thing" "men are pigs" or for some reason having a sort of culture where its normalised threatening your daughters partner or just looking down on them. Its simps/white knights that continue to feed their ego and let their bad behaviour go. If I …
/r/MensRights07/01/25 10:09 AM
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Surely you see why people would be suspicious of the timing. You are seeing it from the women's perspective and already decided she's telling the truth. So its only logical men look at it from mens perspective as in these little leeches want a payout. "Men are all stupid. Weak little boys. They're not very smart. They just make lots of noise" "Train them to beg like the dogs that they are" "Y'all are just servants. This is my palace, built it brick my brick. So get in a line, drop on your knees"…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 11:27 AM
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As for false allegations they do have some sort of equivalent aka a mean girl saying she slept with the whole football team or something similar. All of a sudden its the worst thing you can do to lie about someone else regarding their sexual lives. Or when a guy lies about a girl sleeping with him. Its not a good equivalent but it makes sense and once again shows the massive double standard. All of a sudden its "your going to ruin her reputation" "what if her parents hear this lie" etc etc. Or h…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 11:16 AM
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>abd i looked up that law you were talking about and you’re blatantly misconstruing it. they’re trying to open up better and more efficient options for women who commit non violent crimes And why aren't these options being given for men who did the same crimes...that is a problem and blatant discrimination. >women dont even have access to bodily autonomy and are forced to go through with pregnancy. The same country where men at 18 have to sign up for selective service? You not being able to kill…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 10:54 AM
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People in the US already have a big support (government, police etc). I don't know much about Afghanistan and I can't claim to know much. But its obvious why a collected group with guns that are vicious animals will be able to make people so afraid they won't fight back. The average Joe will just be trying to keep his family or himself safe. This has been a fact of society way into the past. People get pushed around too scared of higher power until someone snaps then revolutions happen. People j…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 12:34 AM
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At least they are waking up to the fact that marriage is not attractive to men. I've only ever seen women excited for it and that makes sense. The guy is basically just tying all his assets and stuff in the hopes she won't leave him.
/r/MensRights06/01/25 12:24 AM
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Its the same cycle that always keeps repeating. Women can never understand men until they go through what men go through. Reminds me about women who were OK with alimony, until they had to pay all of a sudden they are saying it feels awful for paying for your ex. I said this in another comment women are so privileged in this area they just can't grasp men's concerns. Until it can happen to them all of a sudden then they are bringing markers and marking their babies to make sure they don't get sw…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 12:19 AM
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Personally I don't care about celebrities lives but I will say I always find it very convenient that as soon as a guy gets famous all of a sudden he's a mass rapist from people who clearly want a payout. Not saying they couldn't be, but its just very convenient timing that will raise anyones suspicion. Especially when people say its just allegations and have no proof. Also sometimes its just rich privilege, the rich get away with a lot. Like a lot a lot. If you got billions your nearly untouchab…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 12:07 AM
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You are clearly here for bad faith argument and not to actually learn. The main argument here is feminism has gone rampant, that's not something men created. A few examples would be extreme double standards, new laws being invented to benefit women (such as misogyny being considered extremism but not the opposite or the fact in the UK they want to take down female prisons because women are sad in them), how society cares more for women. #MeToo movement, false allegations and general hate that is…
/r/MensRights06/01/25 12:03 AM
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yet you said and I quote "everything yall complain". And secondly. Why is real allegation outweighing anything even relevant? like why did you feel the need to mention that?
/r/MensRights05/01/25 04:16 PM
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The closest ethical reason they give is the baby can't consent which is so stupid because since when do people care about a baby's consent?
/r/MensRights05/01/25 04:14 PM
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>At a stroke, the one thing that women had going for them has been taken away, the one respect in which they had the last laugh over their husbands and lovers. DNA tests are an anti-feminist appliance of science, a change in the balance of power between the sexes that we’ve hardly come to terms with. And that holds true even though many women have the economic potential to provide for their children themselves. Don't they scream they want equality yet are saying paternity tests are wrong because…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 01:13 PM
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Also most men would just try to keep their families safe. Nobody wants to be the outlier who fights back especially if they don't know others will also fight back. All would happen is that man gunned down, any future people thinking of protesting get scared and probably the mans family attacked. Not to mention most be at work or trying to survive. Trying to use population numbers doesn't work because they are still humans who would be scared to fight back especially if they got young kids they n…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:52 AM
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The only way to convince themselves their group is right is by tearing down other people. If you can make it look like your opponent is someone meant to be hated than your group gets more love/defended.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:38 AM
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Agreed. Because how is anyone going to try to compare mens rights to israel of all things.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:36 AM
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Its to embedded in people. From both via books, tv shows, movies, social media its drilled in women have it so much worse. Almost every show I know has had that almost obligatory episode where the woman/girl experiences some sort of sexism and has to overcome it. Or have a girl power episode. This literally brainwashes women into thinking they are victims and men are the bad guys they need to stand up to. When you see yourself as a victim you aren't too worried about helping who you see as the o…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:34 AM
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Didn't realise women doing false accusations was somehow caused by men.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:22 AM
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The problem is gender is made relevant by society. When a man defends himself against a woman, society attacks him. White knights become feral, police arrest him even if she started it, people make excuses for her etc. So its useless to state the obvious of you shouldn't hit first but gender is very relevant because society made it so.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:16 AM
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I learnt it truly is hard to debate anyone who hasn't already come to the same conclusion. You are telling them everything they are told (because they are told women have it worse by books, tv shows, movies, social media etc) is wrong. It's especially hard for women because like everyone they have struggles but they think their struggles are due to being women rather than just being human. A man can't be a jerk to a woman unless he's sexist doesn't matter if he's equally a jerk to men. They didn…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:09 AM
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Reverse the gender will be the paternity test question/prenup. All of a sudden its "you should trust your partner 100% or don't be with them" when the situation doesn't benefit them
/r/MensRights05/01/25 10:00 AM
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I've seen multiple men post incredibly romantic gestures you know what they get back (or more specifically what people type in their comments) "bare minimum". I don't blame men for slowly deciding being romantic and chivalrous ain't worth it. The minute you act entitled to something and don't appreciate it, is the minute people will not do it for you. Women act very entitled and aren't appreciative of these gestures as well as rarely be romantic back so of course men decide to stop putting in ef…
/r/MensRights05/01/25 09:56 AM
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Objectifying is such a misused word. Your not being deprived of your humanity or being degraded to an object status if the main female lead is attractive or shows a bit of skin. Especially the way they talk about male celebrities (look at Chris Evans, Henry Cavill, Chris Hemsworth, John Cena comment sections) but then act as if its so dehumanising if a man says he's attracted to a female actress or she is attractive to men. The eternal victim hood is exhausting. And yeah I also noticed how much …
/r/MensRights03/01/25 03:15 PM
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I'm all for enforcing equality and having to point out something is discrimination because for some reason people don't see discrimination against men (literally if they do this sort of stuff with any other group it would be a scandal/boycotts etc) but it's sad that its a family owned restaurant and small business taking the hit and being forced to shut down. Especially in this case where it is a man who being forced to shut down despite everyone else doing similar stuff.
/r/MensRights03/01/25 03:02 PM
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Don't know what to say other than grow thicker skin? Anytime in public, someone might look at you. Its not the end of the world. Its different if they are following you but in those videos often the man is simply just looking.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 09:33 AM
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Don't go in public then? People are always going to look even outside a gym. I gave you multiple reasons why someone might be staring inside a gym (zoning out, your in their line of sight, they are waiting for the equipment) you don't seem to take it in. In every video he does where he says the girl is wrong its because she's grasping for attention because someone looked at her for 5 seconds.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 07:26 AM
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Seems like the point is flying over your head. Staring is creepy however that doesn't mean its anyone problems not to mention when you workout people tend to zone out so it might look like staring but its not in the ay you think it is. Or your just waiting for her to finish working out so you can use the equipment before someone else rushes to also get it after she's done so you keep an eye on her. Or she is just in your general line of sight when your resting between sets. I see no reason to ma…
/r/MensRights24/12/24 08:07 AM
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Why would anyone jog at night anyway, its stupid for literally everyone.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 06:38 AM
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Yeah at the end of the day, companies would do whatever they can to save money. If they can get away with paying women less for the same work thy would exclusively hire women
/r/MensRights24/12/24 06:23 AM
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It's so weird. When talking about alimony feminists say stay at home mums deserve compensation for the loss in their career (despite often choosing to give up for their children and having everything paid isn't really oppression) but when it comes to victims of false allegations they don't want to take in considersion for any sort of loss for income or career.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 06:11 AM
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I don't. I would never associate with someone unless I absolutely had to if they use those terms because its always just underlying hatred for men.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 06:03 AM
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Like my comment said you are uncomfortable why make that anyone else's problem? nothing ever happens other than someone looks at you.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 06:01 AM
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Thats not really mansplaining or not the way feminists use it. Mansllaining itself is a sexist term, why does someone explaining something suddenly turn bad because its from a man not to mention both genders have AHs who act all high and mighty as if they know everything so why is it only men get labelled with mansplaining.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:31 AM
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So why ask us why we don't support feminism when you also think equality should be for everyone. Males rights just brings attention to male issues because the rest of society is already tackling female issues so no need to also tackle them here.
/r/MensRights18/12/24 03:29 AM
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Thats what male rights activists want.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 11:40 PM
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Kind of straightforward. Why aren't you a male rights activist? I'm assuming you choose to identify as a feminist, why not a male rights activist
/r/MensRights17/12/24 11:32 PM
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Your thinking too scientifically is really the answer. Language won't always work like that for example emotions don't come from the heart yet people still use the heart to talk about emotions (heartfelt, heartless, cold hearted, stone heart). Language won't always work with science but what is convenient and used by society thats also why slang is a thing. Race as a concept is stupid, however it exists as in humans made it. Same way humans gave value to some stones in the ground whilst anything…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 11:16 PM
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I understand you said it like 3 times now, did you just find out about Serberia or something? Why are you so hung up on that? Language isn't always perfect but its mostly there for convenience. East and South Asians are different so makes sense to differentiate them.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 10:07 PM
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Of course the burden falls to men for women cheating. Can't know if a child is yours because you might leave her. Heaven forbid she receives consequences for her own actions.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:58 PM
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Why are you so stuck on Siberia? Are you from there? I was using the terms how they are used today. I was showing you examples of why it isn't a meaningless word salad as they do have practical uses.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:55 PM
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The way I see it, they only like you to be emotional so they can be the special one you let your walls down around. Its goes for nearly every brooding bad boy they love in fiction. Treats everyone like trash but not her because she's special. Is emotionally closed off from everyone else but not her because she's special. It never feels about him but rather her being the special one. The exception.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:52 PM
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Its not a meaningless word salad as East and South Asians have different cultures, generally different appearances and values. For example when everyone was panicked about Covid it wasn't South Asians being attacked but East Asians. It then made sense for tiktokers to warn other East Asians rather than South Asians as they weren't being attacked/targeted. Or hypothetically let's say you set up a dating profile and want an East Asian girlfriend or have preferences for an East Asian girlfriend but…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:48 PM
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Feminism is rooted in the belief women are oppressed and men are the ones at an advantage. Feminism is about women. Once upon a time it got them their rights but like milk it stayed behind and got spoilt to the point that anyone with a clear head to see it is no longer needed (at least not in the West) and has spiralled heavily out of control. Feminism doesn't help with mens problems, they in fact make it worse. My question to you is why aren't you a MRA?
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:37 PM
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You think its woke to have East and South Asian be terms?
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:35 PM
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Why did you put "East Asian" as if east Asians don't exist?
/r/MensRights17/12/24 09:32 PM
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Heres another one https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/s/rwC8dETAuY You can't really deny that subs double standards.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 02:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/h3Wry64Urz Heres the link, I don't know how to merge pictures but this was the post I was talking about https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/s/rwC8dETAuY This one wasn't an experiment but it shows the double standards the same way
/r/MensRights17/12/24 01:40 PM
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I will try although the comments on the posts have changed because obviously once the guy posted the differing results people went on to comment on the post against the double standards. So now the comments have changed a bit due to the double standards being pointed out.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 01:29 PM
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You don't really need to look far. Look at any tv show, movie, book, social media and the hate will always present itself to you. Stuff that even seems normal is proof of their hatred for example when the modern day girl boss slaps a man or just slaps him for no reason. This is almost never treated like abuse. Them treating fathers in shows as dumb idiots that are lucky their wives even look at them is also sexist or they will always have a dumb male kid if trying that dynamic with children. Kil…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 07:57 AM
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Racetraitor...this sub isn't a place to be racist
/r/MensRights17/12/24 07:50 AM
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Someone actually did an experiment, did exact same post but changed the gender and a few other small details. Results were widely different based off if the man did it or the woman did it.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 07:29 AM
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They do that with a lot of stuff that is more woman heavy. When men talk about false accusations, they say false accusations are rare and don't worry. When men talk about how unfair stuff like the draft is, they once again say its rare and hasn't happened in a long time or change the topic to no one should be drafted. When men talk about how they don't want a golddigger, they try to insult him or make him out to be delusional. Amongst others, they are always trying to minimise or ignore mens con…
/r/MensRights15/12/24 04:22 AM
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American Horror: Coven The main men are a butler, a man used as a literal pet and slave locked away when he can't be useful (was turned into a minotaur), they frequently use their powers on men like making a random man go into the middle of the road. Or just draining the life force of a man because he can't make an elixir quick enough. A whole team of men who hates witches because misogyny so try to kill them. Testosterone weakens magic and wizards are always angry about the fact they can never …
/r/MensRights15/12/24 04:00 AM
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Why? Whats happening on January 20th?
/r/MensRights15/12/24 03:52 AM
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Everyone suffered in the past, don't see why they try to act like all men were in mansions and women were in chains being forced to slave away. If you weren't rich, you were oppressed. If you were sickly or disabled, most likely would be oppressed or unable to support yourself. It was poor men that were the majority of the workforce and soldiers. What's more oppressive than being forced to go through the unspeakable horror of war. But anyway the sisterhood is real, something men should develop t…
/r/MensRights15/12/24 03:44 AM
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That why I said exceptions being if he's abusive, cheating or leaving her first. Essentially anyway where she is forced out compared to her deciding to leave but still wants his money
/r/MensRights13/12/24 11:45 AM
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If that one party is just choosing to divorce him then makes sense for her to feel the fallout. Why should you get to uproot his entire life and have the audacity to keep expecting him to pay you whilst your doing nothing for him during this time.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 11:30 AM
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They got compensated during the marriage aka getting everything paid for. Don't see why they need extra money after.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 10:12 AM
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It being frequent means its not the minority by default. Especially if its not combated when it is shown or that people who stand up against it are banned from subreddits, attacked/mocked online and so much more. Even if we pretend only 1% of feminists are misandrists and nearly everything else doesn't cater to women. The fact that no one speaks up or that those who speak up are punished/attack shows misandry is not the minority. Even on reddit hating on men isn't considered discriminatory yet t…
/r/MensRights12/12/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah there's plenty of posts bashing conservatives as well. It is mostly apolitical.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:55 PM
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If your standing for everything, your standing for nothing. We can't just accept and believe all beliefs because they are inherently incompatible. Feminism's hatred for men isn't the minority, its the normal for them to the point people are shocked when they aren't hating on men. Misandry is so normalised that people are comfortable saying it doesn't exist. Its widespread through movies, shows, books, social media and so much more. In fact the women who don't hate on men are called pick me's. Th…
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:48 PM
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Nope, any alimony after the child leaves is stupid. Alimony shouldn't even exist unless under extreme circumstances.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:41 PM
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Compared to feminist subs that would have banned you if you think differently? People disagreeing with you for trying to stick up for feminism isn't the sub not being inclusive. You can say what you want, doesn't mean people will agree.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:38 PM
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I don't understand this line of thinking, so what if she's a homemaker. They are no longer married so that means no more wallet for her. Only exceptions should be if he is abusive, cheating or divorced her without good reason.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:34 PM
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This explains why women with brothers tend to be so much more rational and easy to get along with. Brothers don't hold back and the sisters grow up thinking men are humans because they have brothers. I never really connected the dots before that almost every woman I get along with has brothers or some other strong male role model that they genuinely just treat me normal compared to feminazi's.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 09:30 PM
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You don't need to apologise, you didn't personally do anything. As for the rape thing, its defined as being penetrative aka only men can do it because only they can penetrate. They can still sexually assault but not rape. And the female prion thing, I agree. It ain't a vacation but no they want to look at alternatives which would be good. Some crimes aren't so serious that having better alternatives is a great idea however making it gender specific and only women be offered these alternatives to…
/r/MensRights12/12/24 01:35 AM
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This is what people mean when they say feminism has gone too far and lost its point. They got equal rights (and you can't deny that) so anything else is just wanting privilege.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 11:22 AM
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At the end of the day, doesn't matter your race, ethnicity or even nationality. Every government will always see men as expendable and things that need to be trained and tamed. I don't know a single country where this sort of expectation doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 11:21 AM
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I don't see why not. People are going to hate anyway.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 11:18 AM
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Again, disproportionate reactions are a thing, that was a massive overreaction and wasn't self defense but revenge, so his hypothetical son should also be able to get revenge because his dad actually died compared to someone just touching him. Someone wronging you or touching you isn't permission to end their life, that's psychopathic and frankly unhinged. Give proportionate punishment not extreme punishment.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 11:15 AM
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So if the elderly mans son decides to take vengeance for his father being chased then stabbed by someone younger...you would be OK with that? As you said take it in your own hands. Murder is much worse so he would be in his right to do that. By your logic
/r/MensRights11/12/24 10:54 AM
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No, can't agree there. There is such a thing as disproportionate reactions. You don't get to chase and stab an elderly man because he touched your butt.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 07:08 AM
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Again, she stabbed someone and he died. That's murder. 10x worse.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 06:48 AM
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They outline the problem is feminism but instead of looking inside they still blame men. When will they get it through their skulls, men aren't intimidated by independent women, is this some sort of coping they just tell themselves because they think men should like independent women. There is a difference between a woman who has to shout she is independent vs genuinely being independent. Also when they say no one is to blame yet they blame men alone. Their exact points are men are either too co…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:41 AM
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In the UK, women can't rape anyone, misogyny is treated the same as extremism and they want to tear down women prisons because women aren't happy and are trying to find alternative methods. Countless men in prison not being happy but the minute women start being unhappy it needs to change but only for them,
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:23 AM
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I'm interested, whats a ladscape? Never heard it before
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:19 AM
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I had to write a whole essay on this topic so I probably remember some theories. I don't remember the theorists names but just their general points. Lack of male teachers in school. Long, complicated science-y reasons basically boils down to men know how to tame and discipline boys. Women either go way too hard, get too emotional about it or just write it off as him as a troublemaker. Men in comparison have greater insights and know what the boy is dealing with so whilst they can be firmer they …
/r/MensRights11/12/24 03:53 AM
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And if the widowed mother was abused or cast out by her family because she chose someone they do not accept? Or a widowed mother can't expect her presumably elderly or getting old father to support himself, his wife, his adult daughter then any potential grandkids. This solution only works for rich people. Or assume an orphan grew up to fall in love and get married then her husband dies and she's left with 3 kids? She has no family to turn to. And the old way wasn't the best way, women couldn't …
/r/MensRights11/12/24 03:27 AM
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Is Sugajm the creator of the video?
/r/MensRights11/12/24 12:38 AM
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I'm confused on why you think just because the women around you are kind, smart and compassionate thag the opposite can't exist when there a tons of videos online proving they do. These aren't movies or TV shows where you can just say its fake and scripted but actual events happening that was simply recorded. It being online doesn't take away from its credibility. You have experience with women who are kind, smart and compassionate but others also have experiences with the opposite. Women who we…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 12:31 AM
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Key word being when good men lead. Men aren't always good and in a system where men are in charge will inevitably crumble due to the corruption and will just be a continuous repeat of the past (women will get tired, protests/rebel, then everything shifts in their favour and replay again) Not to mention husband's can die. So a single mother would have no right to vote on what laws should be placed in the country that will affect her and her children? What about other single women? What about lesb…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 12:23 AM
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Equality shouldn't be a wild goose chase at least in the legal sense. MRA'S problems are double standards so why would we want to introduce same double standards but only to benefit us. Its being the same as feminism. And going back to olden ways is just going to lead us to where we are now with everyone cuddling women thinking they need protection and to be provided for, in my mind equality is the only cure. Treat them like you would a man. With inner relationships sure, if one partner is natur…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:43 PM
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A woman in Germany just stabbed an elderly man and people were justifying it because he touched her ass. People are so psychotic over women its mind boggling. Chasing and stabbing a 60 year old man isn't the win they think it is. Double standards are annoying because it often comes from women who be screeching about equality but still want double standards. I can accept different treatment from someone if they apply it fairly for example if a woman insists her man has to be the protector and pro…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:32 PM
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Yeah no, i don't agree with that in any capacity. In fact my main argument was that those type of fathers are what have bred the entitled and out of control women today. Just treat everyone equally this sort of thinking is what gives MRA's a bad name.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:23 PM
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Its a lot more complicated than that. In the past, yeah men hating women would be a much bigger threat simply due to strength differences. Today? Not so much especially when society as a whole rightfully looks down on misogynists however misandry is accepted and encouraged. Women hating men and that sort of stuff being normalised is extremely bad especially when you bring the law into it (off the top of my head the UK where women legally can't rape anyone, misogyny is going to be treated like ex…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 10:47 AM
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Feminists however say stuff like KillAllMen and have other similar thoughts "all men are pigs". These are insults. They also have a lot of past hatred being put forward to back it up. Asking if all women gaslight is just that a question, whilst it sounds bad I've seen similar ones about women posting in AskMen and I've never saw that as misandry just that she's has a relationship problem and trying to see if what she wants is rare or she's just looking at the wrong guys. Just comes off as emotio…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 10:32 AM
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People are so hostile when it comes to women and I don't know why they think people want to make them property or are trying to oppress them when you ask women to be a bit more considerate and nice.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 10:26 AM
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Again thats not really hate at most just looks like some exhausted and frustrated by gaslighting. And those upvotes could simply be other men agreeing and sympathising with the frustration. Either way a lot of the comments were agreeing with you. And it was removed. So if this sub really hated women they would have kept it up and try to tell you to change your thinking. Or ban you like they do in feminist subs,
/r/MensRights10/12/24 10:24 AM
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But nearly everyone in the post you linked was against generalising all women, and they didn't say they hate women.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:37 AM
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Not that it would ever happen but if a strike was to ever happen just pre-stock food so they don't starve.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:27 AM
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What rights are women missing exactly? I'm talking mostly about the west because I have no experience or knowledge of other gender matters elsewhere. And why do you assume people who want men to be treated equally are against womens rights? There is a difference between rights and conveniences, women to my knowledge can do everything that a man can do. Get a job, vote, go to court etc failing to see what right they don't have
/r/MensRights10/12/24 09:25 AM
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Frustration I guess is I'm now noticing lots of people are speaking out about double standards and are much more willing to stand up whereas in the past they would have pretended they agree. Go on any YouTube video from like 10-11 years ago then compare the newer comments to the older ones, you can see people starting to be more equal and callout women more. For example there is a video where a wife was complaining her husband fell down and had a nasty bump on his head on the wedding day and I e…
/r/MensRights10/12/24 01:25 AM
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I gwt told "Google is free, its not my job to teach you" basically meaning its not their view and they are parroting someone else's view.
/r/MensRights10/12/24 01:11 AM
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Judge: Why aren't you settling this case Husband: Milord they were demanding 1 Crore alimony and now 3 crore Judge: You must have 3 crore and that's why she is demanding it Husband: Milord, you have seen what kind of fake case they have filed against me, She is not letting me see my 4 year old son and my family is constantly being harassed, she herself decided to leave and i have to travel here daily from Bengaluru Judge: Dont mind it, she is your wife so what if she filed fake cases This always…
/r/MensRights09/12/24 08:02 PM
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Yep conservatives will tell you a man needs to provide and protect women and are mostly responsible for a lot of the bad anti-male social tendencies. Such as fathers threatening teen boys who just happen to date their daughter, or telling their daughters men are pigs, that a man should defend his country with his life despite said country not caring about him, how a man should always pay. Trying to be a white Knight and defend a womans honour. Feminists are just conservatives who don't want gend…
/r/MensRights09/12/24 07:55 PM
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You think touching someone's butt means chasing them and stabbing them. That doesn't sound like defense but revenge.
/r/MensRights09/12/24 06:49 PM
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Touching someone's butt vs chasing them and stabbing them. One is much worse. Surely you don't need to be a genius to figure out which one
/r/MensRights09/12/24 06:48 PM
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Its so bizarre to me how feminazis will try to tell you, you need to believe all women and even justify just blindly believing women with "I rather side with a liar than a rapist" or saying the statistics are low or whatever. Do they not see the inheret problem of just believing someone blindly especially if you include the law and plan on sending him to jail. Rape is different to other crimes, for example if someone is murdered there will be body. If someone was assaulted they would have an inj…
/r/MensRights09/12/24 06:14 PM
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I was talking about media in general to the end and pointing out the latest movie that is being hyped up was as you said done by a woman. It is based of Gregory's version which is Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West but the latest movie takes more inspiration from the Broadway musical which was written by Winnie Holzman. Thats also why I brought up the other franchises movies and recent developments. Towards the end it was more about the media than strictly books. Pointing…
/r/MensRights09/12/24 06:21 AM
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Funny you say that because online at least people really are starting to prioritise women even ahead of young girls. Its so bizarre to me, I thought the one thing each ideology shared was kids should come first and be protected but clearly not. Calling kids crotch goblins, excusing any time a mother acts wrongfully by saying she's only human whilst yes true that doesn't mean she gets to take it out on her children, hyping up a mythological woman who killed her 2 sons, going on videos about a bab…
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:55 AM
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Its genuinely scary that your trying to make excuses for her. Did she want to kill him? That’s debatable. Yes she did. He was inconsiderate to get drunk and not be able to follow through on a commitment he knew was of importance to her. however, to a hormonal, spoiled, selfish, mad, hurt, mentally unstable and possibly disturbed person this was just too much. Her switch flipped. She threw a dangerous tantrum that cost him his life. None of that is a good enough excuse. He got drunk and had to fl…
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:44 AM
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Conservatives are also bad for men because they stick to traditional ideals and all that stupid honour/chivalry crap. They are a tad bit better than the left who will openly say they hate men and blame men for everything but conservatives will happily send men into war and see it as their duty. Or claim a man must provide and protect.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:30 AM
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This is one of feminists problem they act like its still the 1900s and they are still being oppressed. Let's look at the top 10 selling books in November 2024 as that's the most recent month passed. https://www.circana.com/intelligence/entertainment-top-10/2024/top-10-books/ Only 2 out of 10 books were written by men. For anyone who gets confused Alex Aster is a girl I initially thought it was a man till I googled it. 8 out of 10 of the books were written by women. https://www.goodreads.com/list…
/r/MensRights08/12/24 11:16 AM
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I just assume he is a freak or has no dignity
/r/MensRights08/12/24 04:55 AM
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Sounds wrong but sometimes a good slap back to reality is really whats needed. Shielding people from consequences only makes them entitled.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 04:47 AM
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To my knowledge one troll person said it online and for some reason its caught so much traction. Haven't seen it elsewhere other than people talking about it. Not nearly as widespread as KAM.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 04:33 AM
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They should keep it relatively cool and anyone who gets too cold brings an extra layer. Its easy to warm up harder to cool down.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 06:04 AM
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Don't forget she thinks doing some chores and looking after their kids entitles her to 50% of any future assets and deserves alimony.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 06:01 AM
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It means you can't still have a cake after eating it.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:58 AM
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The military. Was that not obvious?
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:55 AM
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My mother said to my brother when he wanted to join the army (he was way too young and just saying it) "they don't care about you. Your just another number to them" that changed my whole perspective not that I was ever patriotic or thinking of joining. Her whole point was she didn't want to lose a son to a country that doesn't care about him. The guys starting the war get to sit back and not get touched, its often the poor man whose life is slaughtered and sent to the frontlines. I'm not going t…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:53 AM
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Also when a topic about boys not doing so good in education was twisted to be bad because it negatively affects womens dating pools since they like to date up or as they call it "equal" which we know is just them saying up but in a politically correct way. Its only ever bad when it affects women too.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:40 AM
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If you stare at me too long it’s rape. If you talk to me you’re a creep. If I don’t like your joke I’m gonna tell HR some BS and get you in trouble. I forgot what talk show it was but a woman said sexual assault and harassment is subjective and changes with the woman and 5 other women agreed. No crime should be subjective where it just depends on how she perceives it. I've seen people claim an elderly man harassed a woman by looking in her direction on a train and people saying she was right for…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:37 AM
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Feminists conflated being emotional with emotional intelligence. They are not the same things. The first thought that came to my mind is the "its not about the nail" video. Women in the comments talking about emotional intelligence when she wasn't doing anything intelligent? Like she keeps getting emotional and wants to deal with the emotions rather than just take the nail out but for some reason this resonated with women. Or when they do stupid tests such as the orange peel test or "would you l…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:33 AM
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Ah the classic you must be gay if you criticise or point out womens flaws. Women get to do it to men but the reverse and the man must be gay. What a weird logic to live by.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:14 AM
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The shriek about religious conservatives then act exactly like them. Such as the recent 4b movement. They decide no longer to have casual relationships and keep to themselves...exactly what religious conservatives wanted as well. They've gone so progressive they became traditional again.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:12 AM
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For some reason people see women and kids as a package deal its so weird to me. Like a bunch of girls I was eavesdropping on (not really eavesdropping since they were speaking so loud) were talking about hiding her son from his father because the father wasn't there enough during pregnancy and they thought that was a legitimate excuse saying stuff like "if he couldn't be there for you why should he get the kid?". They just couldn't fathom that she is separate from his kid. How he treats you vs h…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:08 AM
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Hero complexes and being white knights. As well as men not generally caring enough or just see it as an unfortunate fact of life useless to fight against. Can't blame them though everything around them kind of nudges them to this belief. TV shows, movies, the way society is ("happy wife happy life" "don't hit girls" "be a gentleman"). Men are forced fed that men are the problems and women need uplifting (one could argue if they are so strong and independent why do they constantly need mens help …
/r/MensRights07/12/24 05:00 AM
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Hence why I said defend the right. Aka whoever is in the right rather than just assuming she is automatically in the right by virtue of being a woman or just because he is stronger. In your case defending the petrified girls who are being followed by big guys, she was in the right. it should be proportional and consider other possibilities to reduce the violence, just like when a man is hit by a woman I think it is digusting to promote ‘teaching her a lesson’ by hitting her back in the same way …
/r/MensRights07/12/24 03:22 AM
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Disagree, someone shouldn't be defended just because they are weaker. It should be defend the right person. If more women were told off from their toxic behaviour in public the same way people feel comfortable approaching a man in public to tell him off then maybe their entitledness will decrease and they will see people aren't tolerating it from them either as well as shift how larger society feels about men. Mens hero complex in trying to save a girl who they see as a victim simply because the…
/r/MensRights06/12/24 04:04 PM
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Feminists are less likely to want to be challenged or debated, They just want you to believe them straight away. For example last names were passed from father to child because mama's baby, fathers maybe. Back then they had no idea and your family name was basically either a shield or a detriment. The father giving the kid his name is him stating to the world that it is his kid and that the mother isn't so promiscuous that she doesn't know her own child's father. Overall benefitting everyone. Mo…
/r/MensRights05/12/24 10:11 PM
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I think people really misunderstand how feminists feel about men of colour. They are only tolerated because they assume they are victims as well so will stand in solidarity. However they will very quickly switch up if he shows no interest in feminism or is too masculine. Plenty of black feminists hate black men for not marrying black women when they get successful or saying black men failed their families by not defending women. As well as other women of colour making videos about not wanting to…
/r/MensRights05/12/24 04:47 PM
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Its always one sided too, as soon as they get angry they'll accuse their boyfriend or other people they deem misogynists as gay showing they aren't really tolerant and see them as inferior men.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah if I remember the story right, the guys actual wife and mother of the child managed to get their in time and reveal she's the real mother. Not a shock that the white knights only listened to another woman.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 04:35 PM
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Reminds me of when a celebrity gets famous and all of a sudden so many people were raped by him. The timing always feels way to convenient.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 08:37 AM
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No wonder they push for women to be in mens spaces all the time. And as soon as they do men need to change everything to make sure she feels comfortable. Men especially modern men need to stop worshiping women and running to their aid. The women never learn the lesson and they just continue the whole expectation of women always getting their way and bing coddled.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 08:36 AM
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You know how women have endless sympathy for other women and always try to see it from her point of view? Men need to do that with men and be very vocal about it. Men are so quick to try to paint other men in bad light when there is often another side to the story. Such as the white knights who held a father down when he tried to save his child who was being kidnapped. Or a crowd of men attacking and hitting one man because he hit a woman after she hit him first. Stop being strange womens guard …
/r/MensRights05/12/24 07:09 AM
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Also feminists often say women do majority of the raising and majority of teachers are women...so it seems like any early behaviour is taught by or encouraged by his mother or female teachers. He doesn't come out the womb putting women on a pedestal and why does the patriarchal man who supposedly wants to enslave and control women put her on pedestal?
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:34 AM
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I've seen so many wonderful men go above whats expected and do something really nice only for the comments to say that should be the bare minimum. But they'll also say its not common. Ungratefullness and being entitled will push anyone away. They don't even see their own downfall
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:30 AM
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Also you become a "real man" when you do something they like. Its weird how "real men" seem to just be docile, obedient boyfriends/husband's who treat their women like queens.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:27 AM
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But they'll still tell you its a man's world
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:24 AM
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Kids eventually grow up and realise you can't do that as a grown up. But the bullies at school, sometimes they do need a good hit to leave you alone.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:22 AM
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I was on a video where a girl gets in the car rudely gives him chocolates and flowers leaves the car then comes back to take them back then he's laughing at the absurdity of it and saying they are just going to mcdonalds and she smashes the flowers in his face for laughing at how weird she is being. The comments are saying he's the red flag and this was clearly a cry for help. Then there are the comments on videos, like one where an elderly man asked a bank assistant if she needed water, and his…
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:18 AM
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Don't feel bad about other people being scared just because of how you were born. As for the little girls...it's generally just safe to not interact with children, a father was held down and restrained by multiple white Knight wannabes when he tried to stop a strange woman taking his child. And people still tried to make excuses for her lying about it being her child. And thats with his own kid. As you said you don't look like a teenager, you look like a grown up and that's what those type of pe…
/r/MensRights05/12/24 03:03 AM
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I agree, pre-2020 was so good now its like everyone went crazy from the lockdowns and we are feeling the impacts of it. Because think about it people were stuck in their homes on their devices where only the really extreme takes get popular so its just people getting exposed to such extreme views online whilst being cut off from the outside world. Feminists got even deeper in their manhate because on their fyp/home pages they were getting constant extreme feminist posts whilst having no outside …
/r/MensRights05/12/24 02:49 AM
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Their tolerance for POC only goes so far. They quickly turn racist as soon as you reject their opinion or have a differing opinion. They also unnecessarily hate men of colour who don't bend the knee to feminism or are masculine in any way. You see thousands of posts by women saying "why I will never date ______" and I'm not black but there are posts about black men needing to stand up for black women and hate on them for not marrying black women if they become successful.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 08:05 PM
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Honestly the endless amount of sympathy and justification women get is so concerning. I've read stories and seen women do the most outrageous things and people still rush forward to protect her or make it out as reasonable. There's a popular Greek figure Madea who killed her own 2 sons because her partner cheated...the comment section saying she's justified and he brought it on himself. A woman literally sold her kids, 2 of which were then kept in a bard and used as slave labour...comment sectio…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah just went to the posts he's talking about hating on mensrights...because NSFW subs exist. Like where the correlation? Some people post nudes/sexual activity to a subreddit and suddenly you hate the idea of men having rights? Not to mention most of those posts are self posts from women (not that I've ever looked at any but its common sense the women would also have to pose and act in those scenes) As well as men centered NSFW subs exist to...simply type in men and you would see some. Don't g…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 02:49 AM
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Yeah I just wanted to see if he was going to say where he got the idea from.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah thats one person though...do you know the title of the post your referring to? Lots of one time feminists say something outrageous. For example wishing for Margot Robbie's newborn son to die just because he wasn't a girl.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:18 AM
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Did you actually look at their complaints? They were complaining #MeToo was making it hard to mentor women, it got twisted into general man hate and formed a believe all women type mentality. None of that is disrespectful.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:12 AM
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So your going to believe a woman just because another woman in the past was nice to you? That doesn't seem very logical. A lot of men have been nice to me, should I believe a random man over a woman just because of that? I wouldn't even make it a gender situation
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:05 AM
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Such as...what actions are showing disrespect?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:01 AM
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Genuinely curious, why did you say that in the first place?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:01 AM
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It literally doesn't. Women are accepted for being vulnerable much more so. You want evidence, just go online and look up YouTube social experiments. The girl nearly all the time gets a lot more sympathy a lot quicker.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:49 AM
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In an ideal world? Yes But in todays world? No. There is chances its all for a tiktok, or maybe trying to get a case on you, maybe even trying to rob you through pick pocketing or even putting some dangerous substance on you such as dropping a bag of whatever in your pocket. Would do the same to a woman, I would just not hug. Its even more suspicious if they ask for a hug rather than me deciding to hug because I feel bad for them.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:48 AM
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You assume the only people who care about the way men are treated is men who can't get laid?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:45 AM
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Because they point out double standards and how feminism has gone too far?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:44 AM
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Why? Isn't that sexist?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:43 AM
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Here's a nice post from a feminist community on false allegations by the way: I’m sick of the “false accusations ruin lives” bs. Fact is. They don’t. less than 2% of accusations are actually false, not even 10% of accused actually end up doing time so no they don’t ruin lives. They should. but they don’t. Its more like only 2% have been proven and accepted as false accusations. This is why statistics can never be 100% because people lie and the reports only go off whats on the system. So if a gu…
/r/MensRights02/12/24 08:41 AM
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Would be much better if they got rid of all the other anti-maleness. Such as misogyny being treated the same as terrorism Or female prisons being teared down because women aren't happy in them Or having it that a woman can never be accused of rape
/r/MensRights02/12/24 02:00 AM
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Yeah have a feeling a lot of the help will just be trying to teach them not to be toxic and other stuff which will put the blame on him or men in general.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:58 AM
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They don't see it as bigotry if its towards men then they wonder why men give the same energy back.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:49 AM
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Yeah a lot of feminists claims are just bold lies they use to try to further what they want. I've had discussions with many just to see if I was being blinded and not seeing their ideology for what it is for them. Nearly all just backtrack what they say or say its meant to imply something else. Never just the straightforward truth.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:48 AM
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The wage gap myth is so stupid because if companies could get away with doing that, they would almost exclusively just hire women just to save money. These big companies are greedy above all else.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 01:45 AM
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Yeah its always funny to me when women try to make that argument. Men are literally dragged out their home to fight someone else's war, get inconceivable trauma and then come home to hear women complain they are the oppressed ones. I remember seeing a Ukrainian woman saying she was oppressed and I just swiped past because the level of delusion is massive. She was living in a nicer apartment than me when recording the video with perfect makeup on whilst men were being dragged out their home to fi…
/r/MensRights01/12/24 12:24 AM
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This has never worked for any group in history especially when there are such massive double standards and often women and even men don't understand how wrong the double standards are until it happens to them or their loved ones. As men, why dispute with women. Why not be wrongly accused by them? Why not be cheated by them? Why not be taken advantage of by them? Why not be backstabbed by them? Is this sarcasm? Its very obvious why men don't want to be falsely accused especially in today day and …
/r/MensRights01/12/24 12:04 AM
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Yep, I've seen so much people say "he could have restrained her and not hurt her" why? Why should he give her any second thoughts when she already hit him? And do they act like adrenaline doesn't exist and men are perfectly robotic and able to just calmly restrain her and be nice to her. I also hate the what did you do thing. They would blow up and say your victim blaming if you said the same thing to a woman who hit her husband back when he tried to hit her first. This is what men mean by women…
/r/MensRights30/11/24 11:59 PM
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"Wait, what do you mean we can't regulate men's body' Moving aside that vasectomy is often pressured and people particularly on reddit flat out try to shame men who don't want to get a vasectomy as soon as their wife clicks their fingers (Go on relationship, marriage or aita sub. They will come up with any reason why he has to have a vasectomy just because she wants no more kids). Vasectomy is completely different to abortions. Also...men's body and wallet has been regulated biggest example is t…
/r/MensRights30/11/24 11:52 PM
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Maybe I’m just not part of those echo chambers, but I have literally never heard a guy say the words “your body my choice.” I’ I might be wrong but its just one random guy who said so, feminists grasped onto it because it confirmed their delusions when really he was just throwing gasoline into the fire for fun because everyone was panicking about abortions and other related stuff.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 11:45 PM
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I just don’t see how it helps the child to be abandoned by the only father they know. Because it isn't for the benefit of the child but the man...why should a man continue to pay and raise someone else's kids just because its beneficial for the kid. It would be an unfortunate situation but one that the mother brought onto her children and self
/r/MensRights30/11/24 05:53 AM
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They argue that DNA testing gives too much power to the male. A lot of feminism is like this. They just don't want men to have power. They would be ok with anything under the sun as long as the woman gets to decide.
/r/MensRights30/11/24 05:47 AM
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A single mother who warns her straight son to stay away from girls isn't perceived as sexist. People get it's just a warning about the nature of sexual/ romantic relationships, not gender based stereotyping. Actually they do get a lot of hate at least on YouTube and tiktok. The difference is who is being hated and protected. Dads protecting daughter is seen better because its men being hated and women being protected. Mums protecting son is seen as worse (they'll even call it emotional incest an…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:03 PM
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Also threatening a teenager is just weird. Just makes me think the dads were bullies in their youth and just like scaring weaker boys to feel strong themselves.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:54 PM
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Also threatening a teenager is just weird. Just makes me think the dads were bullies in their youth and just like scaring weaker boys to feel strong themselves.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:54 PM
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Also threatening a teenager is just weird. Just makes me think the dads were bullies in their youth and just like scaring weaker boys to feel strong themselves.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:54 PM
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Yes. You may not be agreed with here 100% of the time and encounter differing opinions but you won't be banned for commenting against the main opinion on here unlike feminist subreddits. In fact there's quite a few feminist posts/comments recently where they attempt to discuss it.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:48 PM
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and if helped its helped to not be so evil. This annoys me greatly whenever I see it, they treat men as if they are animals needing to be trained to cater women or as they put it "gentleman" (funny how all the stuff a gentleman does is basically just putting her first and prioritising her) and everyone claps along to it. When Margot Robbie had a son and feminazis were freaking out and saying its a shame (I even saw one saying its not too late and a cot death can still happen). The ones that were…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:44 PM
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You know this could have been really good. Some criminals are young, confused, were radicalised etc. They could use the extra help rather than throw them in with other criminals and hope they learn their lesson. But they had to go out their way to make it gender specific. Just why?
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:33 PM
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Ohhhh...I meant verbally attack. They didn't physically attack anyone. My bad, I explained it in a weird way
/r/MensRights25/11/24 04:14 AM
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Did you not see what happened in Ukraine not to mention if its such a non issue why even have it there in the first place?
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:58 AM
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Any subreddit based on a group pointing out they are oppressed and discussing how they are treated differently will always be negative.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:57 AM
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That is true, due to the very nature of the crime it can be hard to prove and thats why I don't rely on statistics so heavily. People lie, falsely accuse, don't realise they've been sexually assaulted etc. Its just way too abstract
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:55 AM
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I'm guessing because you can't arrest people over online bate comments. At least not when it's men.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:53 AM
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Yeah I'm noticing that as well, before I thought I was just feminist leaning but now its full blown on just female privilege. Misogyny is treated as extremism, female prisons being teared down because women aren't happy in them...duh its supposed to be a punishment and a woman can't even be accused of rape.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:52 AM
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What is it then?
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:50 AM
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I honestly don't get UKs women worship. The women here aren't extraordinary or anything. They are and can be just as vicious and aggressive as the guys. In fact I've seen more aggressive women then men. But UK has done nothing but continously try to praise and rise them up. Making misogyny a form of extremism (and we all know how everything is misogynistic if a woman doesn't benefit from it), tearing down female prisons because women aren't happy in prison (um...yeah that's the point. It ain't a…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:46 AM
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No, I don't think so
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:40 AM
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A while ago women made a hashtag KillAllMen then attacked men and women alike who spoke out how wrong it is to say that. It was just a way for women to show how much hatred for men they have. Even know Margot Robbie had a boy and a few feminists felt comfortable saying they hope it has a cot death and a boy shouldn't get to have Barbie as a mother. And fother stuff saying its disappointing she had a boy.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 03:37 AM
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You can't blame women for that. However, I do believe that selective service should apply to every citizen. For every soldier, there are at least 10 non-combat roles. There's no excuse not to serve your country, even from a support position. Doesn't matter who is to blame. Its still a form of privilege. A tribe with 1 male and 10 females would survive much longer than a tribe with 10 males and 1 female, simply due to our childbearing capacity. This doesn't reflect the individual value of a perso…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 12:50 AM
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I've had this argument with a woman as well. I said I would never marry my girlfriend and would just stay boyfriend and girlfriend forever. There's no law saying you can't live in the same home and have kids with someone you ain't married to. All the benefits she tried to say to convince me don't outweigh the security and protection I have in my relationship whilst not married. Eventually she tried to make it sentimental and say "its a security for her, if you love her wouldn't you want her to b…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 12:29 AM
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Because they think all men care about is women so thus restricting access to women is such a big punishment for men. Just entitled princess thinking everyone is obsessed with them. Their mere presence is a gift in their world. I'm happy for them, it will now require less effort from us men to avoid these types. Same, at least now we can see the crazies from far. In a few years they'll see they were stupid and cutting their noses to spite their face. No men are going to suffer apart from the men …
/r/MensRights25/11/24 12:26 AM
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-They portrayed Americans’ fascination with sexual pleasure as a vestige of patriarchy, and they accused women who willingly had sex with men of literally “sleeping with the enemy.”- Then they ask why people think feminism is about hating men. Not to mention their #KillAllMen and other hateful behaviour. They'll twist everything and anything into being the patriarchy fault, ironically its very infantalising treating each of their problems to be someone else's fault as if they are a child.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 10:08 PM
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The UK is basically just female supremacy land. Don't forget not putting women in prison because they don't like it...literally that was the reason given. Of course with more technical and professional words thrown in but when you scratch that all off its basically "well women get sad in prison" as if every man in prison is happy to be there.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 09:52 PM
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4B movement is laughable. They are shaving their own heads due to an election. Then acting like its a punishment for men. Like oh no unstable manhating feminists no longer want to associate with men. How will men cope with this loss/s. Although it exposes part of their ideology. They truly think they are such wonderful prizes that simply being denied their presence is such a terrible punishment. Like get over yourself. Only people I feel bad for are the women. In a few years they'll look back an…
/r/MensRights24/11/24 09:37 PM
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If human beings are perfect but the problem is the system but its humans who created the system doesn't that mean they aren't perfect because they didn't create a perfect system?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 12:25 AM
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Seems believable, of course its sad if its true because they truly thought making women hate men was the answer rather than just discipline and teach your daughter morals and values. Doing something good for women but at men's expense
/r/MensRights21/11/24 12:23 AM
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And if it was only about lineage and showing it’s your kid the child would get both last names, but bc the male is the leader of the family and the woman has to change her name bc she’s now “his” the kids get his name. Why would they get both last names. People will already know who his mother is as she is literally the one giving birth. we do not live in a society where women manipulate laws to benefit women, someone said any law about women that was made to stop discrimination against women, w…
/r/MensRights21/11/24 12:11 AM
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No you KNOW wives were “owned” by their husbands and therefore children were as well, fathers pass their daughters off to husbands for ownership and children get his last name bc he owns all the land house and money. That’s why marriage was created and how last names came to be how they are. No, last names were created to point out lineages. Since no dna testing existed at the time it was more logical to give the child the father's name so everyone knew whose son he was because back then being a…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:32 PM
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You don’t see all the rape and targeted attacks and murders on women as a problem? When did I say that...please point out specifically where I said that. As to answer your question, yes the rape, attack and murder of anyone is especially bad. Especially if done to children, now look at this sub and see how many articles try to sugar-coat it when boys are raped and how the teacher (often the teacher) hardly gets punished. Literally just scroll down this sub, you'll find some articles soon enough.…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:02 PM
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Simple, feminism by design is centered around women and believe women are the oppressed ones. I do not believe this. As well as feminism has gone out of hand and too much like a hivemind to the point your kicked out of feminist subreddits if you don't join in on the hating of men. In other subreddits, you can debate to a reasonable level not get banned then muted for 28 days just because you ask why you were banned. Another example is JK, feminists rushed to hate her and insult her yet when you …
/r/MensRights20/11/24 08:48 PM
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I had a similar situation but far less connected, 2 women tried to use threat of abortion/miscarriage to control my brothers 2 friends. Anytime they were upset thats what they would immediately jump to saying.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 02:57 PM
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I agree to an extent. If it is dangerous for her medically then save her life otherwise she should have to birth the child. Its not like she didn't know this was a consequence. Other way around the men don't get the luxury of people thinking of how it would affect their lives instead they are just told to man up and pay. They are told to control who they do it ignoring the underlying issue which is this is too much power for one person to have solely in the relationship.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 02:46 PM
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What the hell is the UK doing. First taking down female prisons, then making misogyny terrorism and now this. They really do want a female centered society
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:15 PM
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Andrew Tate is a sad sad man who has complex daddy issues for a dad that didn't really care for him and his brother. They tell stories about their dad and it just sounds like the most horrible guy but they say it like he's a hero. Like they didn't have enough to eat the day before but their dad is giving out $10 tips to look like he has class over feeding his literal kids. Or talking about his affairs with his child when cheating on said child's mother. Not to mention I think he's worse than fem…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 06:43 AM
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This is always such a stupid counter argument. I'm trying to think of a good comparison but women don't have anything comparable so I will make one up. Let's say there is a law saying a man can beat his wife. But no one does it anymore but men still will dismiss women who are scared that if it does happen its legal and she might get punished. Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it can't still happen or that its unfair it only affects men. And if the draft is really not that importan…
/r/MensRights07/11/24 06:35 AM
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I don't know, I have no experience in marital arts despite wanting to. My dad forbid it when I was younger. Can't you take a friend or someone and have him be your partner. You would both be beginners. Or maybe there's male only classes?
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:23 PM
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i want a postive environment that doesn't hate men and encourage me to be strong as well and improve myself. Sadly that's not going to happen any time soon. If someone calls you those things it just means 3 things. They have nothing else to attack you about so have to resort to generic insults people throw at men. They have no actual answer so thus resort to insults. Or they just aren't very smart. Don't take it personal, they would say it to any man. I guarantee it, if you was a woman they woul…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 05:13 PM
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What feminism says it is, is different to what they preach. Its always about women
/r/MensRights06/11/24 04:10 PM
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They confuse emotionally intelligent with being emotional.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 04:07 PM
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Because men are controlled through shaming and attacking them, whilst women get praised. Have you ever notice they say "a real man will do..." and it just is something that exclusively benefits them. Or saying fragile ego/insecure or calling him toxic/controlling when he doesn't let her do whatever she wants. Once you notice the formula you can see it everywhere for any situation where man aren't looked favourably. Trying to get a man to get a vasectomy? Shame him or say his ego is so fragile th…
/r/MensRights06/11/24 04:03 PM
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What's the alternative? For argument sake, let's say it is absolutely necessary for men to die and if they survive to get massive trauma, little support for a leader who didn't even leave their mansion. There should be some sort of prize/privilege given to it. Especially if only one group is doing so. Instead of expecting this, then turning around to hate the men and tell them women are the oppressed ones who get all the same rights as them.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 03:41 PM
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Gee I wonder why men never voted for a group who holds this viewpoint. Truly baffling. Any man who is a feminist/pro woman should start speaking up but alas they won't.
/r/MensRights06/11/24 03:15 PM
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Is this sarcasm?
/r/MensRights05/11/24 02:49 PM
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When I landed in the water I instantly went down to the bottom cause at 6 I still didn’t know how to swim very good, and I sank. I ran out of oxygen and became unconscious and only 2 minutes more and I was dead by then. But luckily a swimming instructor saved my life and I was to the taken to the hospital, where I stood 3 days in coma and 4 days more in the hospital conscious. Same but I was much older around 11 at the beach. I almost drowned but luckily a man on a surfboard grabbed me and took …
/r/MensRights05/11/24 02:48 PM
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I'm confused why would someone knowing maneater be a good thing or teaching them young? Isn't it just a song
/r/MensRights05/11/24 02:39 PM
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Even a baby isn't safe from their hate.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 07:38 PM
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The abortion only affects the woman Except it doesn't. She needs a man to impregnate her. And let's say she decides to keep the child then he's on the hook for child support. You can't remove men from abortion because men are the reason she is pregnant in the first place. So what are you opposing. You just casually stated why People are Pro-abortion but said "you shouldn't do it because you just want to" of which no one does?. not even porn actress those women get put on birth control or Just ha…
/r/MensRights04/11/24 06:42 AM
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wife doesn't have a say if you do or don't get a Prostate exam, Your wife doesn't have a say in what you do or don't spend your money on, Your wife doesn't have a say if you do or don't decide to kill yourself. Your wife doesn't have a say if you do or don't want to Circumcise your penis. Your wife doesn't have a say if you do or don't get a certain type of job. Your wife doesn't have a say if you do or don't get to have a Gun. These are in no way comparable to abortions. An actual comparable si…
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:58 AM
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Those online people exist in real life. Its real people behind the accounts typing stuff up
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:37 AM
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Its proving how normalised and comfortable misandry is as well as showing how rotten feminism has become.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:34 AM
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Thats also why I'm against the idea of being able to get an abortion just because you want it. That puts way too much power into the woman's hand where she can dangle the baby's life in front of her husband to get what she wants. Also because the people who advocate for that fully admit to wanting men have 0 say in that situation.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 05:33 AM
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Ifs a bit shocking how people don't understand this. I don't know much about American politics so I will stick to the shaming part. No one likes being shamed or semi-forced to do something because otherwise your a misogynist and sexist. Its why manosphere and Andrew Tate type characters (not that I like him) get young men drawn to them. Because everywhere else is so hostile and trying to shame men that the one corner of the Internet that says its OK to be a man or be masculine will undoubtedly g…
/r/MensRights03/11/24 06:51 PM
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Yeah its a tough situation especially if the courts aren't giving the kid to him. But if the kid is forced to stay with the mum and the mum keeps wasting money to the point the bills and lights aren't paid then he might be sending money so his kid doesn't suffer. Horrible situation and I would hate it but I would do the same only for the kids sake, if she didn't have my kid I wouldn't really care
/r/MensRights03/11/24 11:41 AM
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Your right I should have said more healthy food to get my point across. I misused the word.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 11:35 AM
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Yes, mens biggest problem is other men. Because women rarely solve their own problems, they will whine and complain then a bunch of men will come forward to solve it for them. Mostly simps/white knights are keeping it alive. If all men decided to stop with this nonsense it would be so much easier. And then men won't make enough noise about their own problems.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 10:06 AM
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People expect you to still pay her after divorce aka stuff like alimony.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:58 AM
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Horrible situation but I can understand why he keeps paying if he has a kid who is with her. If her bills, light etc ain't paid, his kid suffers. Just terrible situation all around but not much you can do unless you want your kid to suffer
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:57 AM
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I would assume he's doing it for his kids sake. If her bills and light aren't paid, his kid suffers.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:55 AM
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You know for a group that says they don't need men, they are weirdly obsessed with men and what they do with their free time. If he works out or has bro culture, ok and? Obviously if its getting to the extreme such as working out all day to the point his kids don't see him then its a problem but otherwise, why do they care? Anytime a man blinks wrongly they are ready with a 100 versions of "we do it for ourselves, not you" "we don't need your approval" etc etc. Reminds me of women who complain a…
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:53 AM
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In the past before all this unhealthy food such as junk food and generally lazier way of life I would assume their testosterone levels were higher. Men back then were able to work together to build cities, hunt together, fight wars together. A bit of competition is normal and healthy as well as even women are competitive with eachother. Even today its women who are more viciously jealous and sabotage-y. Men might have a competitive streak but it rarely becomes anything to serious unless it becom…
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:39 AM
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What was particularly disgusting is women who dressed up like Ted Bundy's victims to get his attention and sending him fan mail with pictures of themselves in it. One even said he doesn't look like a killer. What they say is true, if your hot enough women will excuse absolutely anything. Like pretty privilege is an immensely powerful thing. And my personal favorite “You miss the point!”. This one's funny because it implies they created this situation for a reaction from men and are angry that it…
/r/MensRights03/11/24 09:34 AM
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What gets me is...they post it online anyway. Meaning they are ok with thousands and thousands of people seeing her like that but the minute a man in the gym looks the she's a victim. Like you know people are going to watch if you purposefully wear such clothing to grab attention because otherwise you wouldn't bother recording it if you wont get any views. Why is it a problem that the guy in the gym looked over for 5 seconds compared to a guy online who probably looked for more than 5 seconds.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 10:09 PM
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Precisely. They are OK posting it online but a man in real life looking for 5 seconds and they lose their mind.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 09:19 PM
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Its proof thats its actually living and is in fact not just the woman's body. I'm OK with abortion under specific circumstances but people try to use weird methods to justify it or make it sound nicer. Its like they can't face the reality of what it actually is.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:38 AM
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This might be me misunderstanding...but why the hell do they make such a big deal out of being comfortable and people staring. Its like babies crying to their mothers over the smallest of stuff. They always say they are uncomfortable as if its the biggest crime in the world. On another post quite a while back a woman slapped a man for staring on the bus, and the comments were on her side saying he made her uncomfortable. Others saying its sexual harassment. Also Joey Swoll never invalidated anyo…
/r/MensRights02/11/24 10:30 AM
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You know despite how much they say they don't need men and their lives would be better without men, they sure do obsess over men. Even if you take our r/feminims/ask feminist because those subs are about patriarchy/men bad. Even in other women subs, like 95% of the post is about men. In male subs (excluding the ones about women or ideologies like this sub) they don't generally care. And even when their is a post about women, its often a woman asking. Halloween comes once a year and they decide t…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:46 PM
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What exactly do you disagree with the first sentence? People being forced to die in a war for leaders who couldn't even give a toss and are perfectly safe as kittens only for the men who do survive to come home to a country where the narrative is women are more oppressed when he just watched his friends die in trenches. Of course leaders are all too trigger happy to start wars, their hands hardly ever actually get dirty. Its all just men dying for them and the men don't even be rewarded instead …
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:44 PM
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In another discussion you disagree yet here you agree?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:35 PM
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, i never cited masculinity as a reason why, any mentions of that were a critique of your character. "If your too pussy to fight" "Stupid soy shit" "fighting for what you love are pretty core to being a man or even a citizen of a country, so you can see how I found your duty less nature insulting, yes?" Is this not trying to make it about being a man or masculinity. Or at least a very similar technique to the ones feminists try to use. was insulted at the time at your lack of bond to your countr…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:33 PM
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Its inhumane to drag men out of their home to fight for a war they had no control over especially when the leaders on either side get to stay in their warm mansions whilst its men in the trenches getting shot at. Only for women and the media to then turn around and say women are the most oppressed. Give men an actual reason to fight for their country. Maybe try treating them nicely and not screwing them over. Maybe special privileges etc.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:11 PM
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Your perspective will be considered if you put forth actual reasons beyond "your a man/masculinity" or any other silly superficial reason. I don't care about virtue signalling.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 10:08 PM
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If you got nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear. I’ve even seen the excuse of, “oh if you trust me, you wouldn’t do this.” Classic shaming and trying to make him feel guilty.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:52 PM
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If society is so focused on equality and claiming women are more oppressed then yes showing cases where they are prioritised is a good way to disprove that and show society isn't try to be equal
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:44 PM
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Womens life being prioritised for nothing but their own benefit You: "Or is it misogyny?"
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:43 PM
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What post is this?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:38 PM
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Yep massive double standards. Testosterone effect isn't considered but women get justified just by saying hormones. But then when men use hormones to talk about a woman's behaviour...all of a sudden its sexist. They can't make up their mind. Its a weapon used to justify and defend themselves until it turns on them.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:30 PM
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I have never heard any man ever try to defend rape or molesting unless they are a massive horrible waste of space. And when you look at their comment sections...its other men telling him off and saying they disagree. Women however defend Cardi B who admitted she drugged men and stole from them. Women are the ones that get called every other word but rapist (a 40 year old teacher can't have an affair with a 14 year old boy. That's rape). Women also do talk more. Even when you look at couple video…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:27 PM
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Not to mention when they act horribly because of their period they justify it as hormones same for pregnancy.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:24 PM
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What has your country done for you specifically that they haven't also done for women for them to be the exception?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:13 PM
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For argument sake, lets say it is absolutely necessary. Shouldn't those who are drafted or can be subject to it, get special favours or privileges?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:12 PM
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He smacked her across the face Good. Can't imagine the sheer audacity to try to shame men into going into a war but not willing to go yourselves.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:11 PM
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Strong agree. Men are too divided for their own good. Women actually act like a team. You have simp/white knights attacking men for womens sake or dragging men down so they could get female approval. Not to mention white knight type thinking is the reason they are hardly ever given accountability or why articles about women raping boys seem to use every other word but rape. Then you have the men who don't care and just further it along such as "happy wife, happy life" type stuff. I was genuinely…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:05 PM
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Mens biggest problem...is other men. Men are too divided, women are much more collected maybe too much so. The simps/white knights are ruining it for everybody. We can't forward these discussions when you have their little voices backing what feminism says. Its already mainstream so when men side with it , it just further discredits men or the men who are pushing back are secretly misogynist or whatever. Not to mention their line of thinking is why men would jump other men for a woman's sake or …
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:59 PM
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It could be a metaphor for any bigotry really. There will always be bad eggs and any bigot will always use those bad eggs to justify their hate because they still care about public opinion so wait until they can have a good excuse to do so. Nearly all bigotry/prejudice seems to follow this method, hate the entire group because of the actions of a few. And people will follow the mob of hate all they need is a few crumbs. In the case of gender I could see a strong interpretation like you said. The…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:51 PM
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A lot of feminist methods seem to be self projection. They know they are that bad so assume the men are too or think like them
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:35 PM
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There's also the Dadvocate who, as her name implies, advocates for men, particularly men in relationships. Her most salient topic is how men are screwed in divorce court, but she also tackles a lot of the casual misandry you see online such as the "discourse" around the Man vs Bear thing. I love her channel especially when she points out to other women stuff they might misinterpret and how men are wired differently. She isn't demanding men conform to womens standards and do stuff the way women w…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:33 PM
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To be fair in those situations it is quite different. (Unless they are focusing on the rape aspect). I'm specifically talking about cases like 2 teens do the deed and a kid comes. The teen mum would go through pregnancy and if still living with her parents (aka they haven't kicked her out or something) then childcare and the burden of the baby will fall on her more heavier. Can still affect the dad but his day to day life could remain relatively unchanged maybe now he just pops in to see the bab…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:30 PM
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I didn't even say anything bad about women and made sure I didn't. I just went against their idea of the past. If men were as evil and power-hungry as they imagine to the point every tradition is about them having power...the world would be a much much darker and unsafe place for women who are on average weaker. Men would just use physical force to take power if that's what all the men wanted like they think men do.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:26 PM
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I got banned because I answered a question about why children get their fathers name. I said its simple, in the past when DNA tests weren't created this was the father claiming the child and telling everyone the child is legitimate. But it went against the notion of men being evil little dictators who want to enslave everyone and make them property (actual answers they had). I got banned and wasn't given a reason. When I asked the reason...they muted me for 28 days.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:21 PM
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And when they do, they sidetrack to "no one should be drafted" can't ever keep the discussion about men
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:19 PM
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I don't think its that big of a deal to be honest. Most people don't want to give the very interpersonal details of their life so just say generic stuff. Not to mention being a family man can often take up your whole day and swallow you.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:18 PM
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I agree. Minimising abortion and saying every woman should be able to get rid of their baby just so she can't face the consequence of her actions is causing psycho behaviour. Someone actually said "feels like you care more about her being punished rather than her" to me, if you don't want a baby...close your legs. You shouldn't get unchecked power over your unborn child life. Even the way they talk about abortion is weird. "Its just a clump of cells"...with a heartbeat, different genetic code to…
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:15 PM
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I saw a YouTube video talking about a woman who sold her children to be abused and kept in a barn forced to work like slave for a couple of farmers...people in the comments were talking about how hard it must have been for her and were blaming the dad who left years earlier and had no influence in the decision. She used the money for bingo. She just needed money for bingo and her new husband didn't want to be a stepdad. And this is the woman people were trying to make excuses for.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah what shocked me is...he wasn't even allowed 5 seconds of frustration. He didn't yell at her, touch her or do anything aggressive just seemed disappointed the moment they set a camera up for was ruined. He showed 5 seconds (counted it) of frustration on his face and he got dragged. Even his wife laughed it off and kissed whilst celebrating again. Just so sad to think his 5 seconds of silent frustration was such a crime to the comment section.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 03:43 AM
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Unfortunately it has to become a victim hood contest for one simple reason. If the mainstream and popular opinion is women are oppressed and the ones with a hard life, simply smiling along won't do much. Feminism is very mainstream now, I can hardly find a movie where they acknowledge men have it harder or that the system is against men. We have to point out how men have it much harder because the idea of men being the oppressors and living life on easy mode will discredit what we are saying so …
/r/MensRights27/10/24 12:26 AM
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If female privilege is debunked by some jokes then doesn't that mean male privilege is debunked as soon as women joke about it?
/r/MensRights26/10/24 01:44 PM
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Was this on AITA? because Holy hell the people there have double standards. Someone being a mother or pregnant? Virtually untouchable unless she's done something very bad to a group they also decided is good. Such as a mother taking it out on her daughter. A mother kicked out her son and husband (son was 11-13) on Christmas Eve and wouldn't let her son come home for Christmas because they both didn't clean fast enough and the house was her parents so she had power. You would think people would b…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 01:42 PM
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I also am of the belief of wanting equality for all humans. I wouldn't want men superior because that will still affect me by my sister, mother and female friends being inferior. my body my rules I hate this quote so much. I don't even think it fairly applies to pregnancy for the fact you are now carrying a different body or life with its own genetic code, heartbeat etc. If it was just your body then it wouldn't be a pregnancy. Not to mention the double standards of how it is applied. Men are li…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 01:32 PM
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And you just know if it was the other way around people would breaking him over the coals for being excited about a son. I also see lots of gender reveals and the comments always have disgusting double standards. In one, the mum accidentally ruined the reveal and the dad was disappointed it was ruined for 5 seconds (literally counted it) but he quickly got back in the game, kissed her and they carried on like nothing happened. The comments? Saying he's abusive, saying he probably just wanted a b…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 01:23 PM
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Yeah they always ask a man and never a woman then they hide behind shes pregnant as if they couldn't ask a woman. I saw a YouTube video where a woman asked a man to stand up so a pregnant woman can sit...the woman who asked was also sitting yet it didn't cross her mind to stand up. But the comment section made her out to be a hero.
/r/MensRights26/10/24 01:15 PM
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Yeah I agree. Like with everything find a balance.
/r/MensRights25/10/24 06:28 PM
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I stopped caring. They won't take notice if you be nice and if someone demands respect for their gender I don't really want to interact with them. I'm not going to respect you because your a girl.
/r/MensRights25/10/24 06:27 PM
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You don't need to apologise for stuff you didn't actually do.
/r/MensRights24/10/24 05:26 PM
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Men are primarily hurt in almost every action show. Men never complain about it. Why is it a big deal if in a show a woman gets hurt
/r/MensRights24/10/24 02:36 PM
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Pretty sure someone did extremely similar posts on that subreddit but switches the genders. They got dramatically different results even if the situation was the same just gender reversed. Then they will tell you they don't have double standards
/r/MensRights24/10/24 02:33 PM
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I was the silent and very well behaved kid at school. Dad was very strict and I didn't really want to make him angry with school behaviour. We got a substitute teacher one day and she just pegged me as the trouble making kid due to my gender. And was shouting at the boys for talking despite a bunch of girls talking loudly in the back, laughing dramatically and eating food. They got a really low effort "put it away girls". The boys got a "Next time you talk I'm going to give you a detention" Or w…
/r/MensRights24/10/24 02:30 PM
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Don't hate it, I think its just run its course and like with everything if you keep it around it'll spoil. Basically feminists are clinging to an ideology that is no longer needed and has strayed from its original path. Even today there are so many examples I could lose my head if I list all the massive double standards from a community that claims they are for equality which naturally means no double standards. Plus they seem like modern day bullies. They will attack and try to cancel you if yo…
/r/MensRights22/10/24 12:35 PM
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You never seen double standards for boy mums vs girl dads? Mums get accused of emotional incest whilst the dads get praised and other stuff like "that's his little princess" An example is 2 tiktoks. A dad was teaching his daughter how to fix a tire so she's not impressed by other peoples son (called them musty as well as other insults) A mum did exact same video but instead teaching her son to cook so he's not impressed with someone else's daughter knowing to cook. One of those videos got a lot …
/r/MensRights21/10/24 11:10 PM
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How many men do that in real life?? Pulling out their gun, or threatening any suitor. That never made sense to me. Often the suitor is a teenage boy they almost never show it being done to an adult man. It just comes off as a bully picking on someone younger than him who can't fight back because most people don't want to upset their potential future girlfriends father. Its beyond cowardly. I saw some comments on YouTube justifying it with a father threatening an 11 year old boy. But no one seems…
/r/MensRights21/10/24 10:52 PM
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Thats why I've always hated the overprotective father's shown in TV shows or movies. You are just reinforcing her bad behaviour when you are supposed to discipline her. Msn are equally at fault for the women entitlement crisis because of fathers like this who stand by and do nothing.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:43 PM
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Whenever I see someone use the word toxic masculinity its either just men not behaving how they expect (aka for themselves) or the woman has double standards such as not wanting aggressive guys but then being aggressive or expecting he boyfriend to fight her battles. Anytime they say its a positive portrayal of masculinity (as people often say regarding movies) its just the guy not acting masculine. Being soft or whatever. The only good masculinity is one that either benefits them or isn't reall…
/r/MensRights20/10/24 02:41 PM
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Of course it includes women and girls. Even when it's just father and son it has to absolutely benefit women. Father son rites sound interesting and good in theory. Strong male on male bonding time and showing the dad is involved. Also good memories for the kid if done right rather than it just being made about women. Its like nothing is exclusively for men.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 02:39 PM
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I feel this too sometimes. We took away any social expectation of women and now they run wild. Even other women don't like women. And its not even biological because you can see older generation of women are much more pleasant and have common sense.
/r/MensRights19/10/24 09:16 PM
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Yeah if your 'motherland' doesn't value you, why should you value it?
/r/MensRights19/10/24 09:13 PM
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But men are wrong an abusive if they point out the dynamics aren't healthy
/r/MensRights19/10/24 08:59 PM
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Then if the only option is men. Maybe treat men better or give those who fight special privileges.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:55 PM
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Women have always used shaming tactics to get their way.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:53 PM
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If its only for repopulate they should draft women who have gone through menopause or are infertile.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:49 PM
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First, while most feminists do not hate men, they are too soft on those who express anti male attitudes and too willing to justify and excuse it. True. No matter how pure an ideology is, unfortunately if its available to the public that means some jerks and crazies are going to get their hands on it. Like being vegan, at its core seems very loving but some jerk-ish vegans and crazy vegans have soured its reputation. However feminism can't claim this for one reason. When people were saying KAM (K…
/r/MensRights15/10/24 04:40 PM
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Yeah she mentioned they aren't just unprofessional with bad work ethic but they make it harder on others create issues out of nowhere with other employees (especially other females) Crazy how a lot of husbands and even a few lesbians and bi women have also said the same thing about them looking to pick fights or start problems. Its like they get bored then want drama. Like them having a dream that their husband cheated then expect him to apologise.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:15 AM
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Yeah reminds me of a video where a girl slaps a guy on TV. It was a TV show meant to make him break concentration by insulting him. But hitting wasn't allowed. He slaps back and I kid you not other men just grabbed him and start beating him up yelling insults and swearing to his mother and sister (which is weird...to protect a woman your insulting 2 other women?) Its just so sad because no one could hold off that many guys simultaneously kicking, and punching him. Throwing him on the ground. All…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 07:00 PM
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I'm glad I wasn't raised that way, seems so out of touch to assume one gender needs protecting despite their bad behaviour. Let them have consequences, it'll only help them long term.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:55 PM
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I meant more morally speaking. I can see why people would warn men from the legal point of view. But morally people who just let women hit men but hate the man for hitting back, like why?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:50 PM
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She's a woman, her punch to his head couldn't ACTUALLY "Hurt" him" Lol, do they think men are invincible? They don't give a shit about telling women: "Hey, its not a good idea to go around assaulting men because they may hit you back" Nope, instead they want women to have the freedom and protection to assault any man they want to without consequence or retaliation.. Exactly, thats why I never take it seriously if a woman claims she's assaulted after she did it first. Their should be some law to …
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:48 PM
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I wish I had the confidence to say that but she surrounded me with like 10 of her friends
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:35 PM
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I know feminists and other types of people come to this sub, which is fine. Its always healthy to hear others opinions and not just straight block like r/feminism. But could anyone explain why people believe women shouldn't be hit back. That's absolving them of one of the earliest forms of accountability. Even as children youmlearn not to hit because the other person hits back,.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:32 PM
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Worse women will claim to be oppressed.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:21 PM
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I remember watching a YouTuber woman employer admitting she stopped hiring female employees for multiple reasons such as work ethic, more likely to complain about silly stuff, has to worry about sexual/inappropriate stuff in the office such as women trying to make a complaint. Not cooperative. And basically had a whole list. It boiled down to women expected the company to bend towards them and made more problems then solved. The men just got the work done and went home. She had a small business …
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:14 PM
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Yeah I got called gay because I rejected a girl but I knew she was just doing it to embarrass me because she brought her whole friend group to do it whilst I'm trying to read in the library. Then called me gay and other slurs all because I didn't want to give her the power to humiliate me in front of her friend group.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:08 PM
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Wouldn't that make women the ultimate leeches?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 06:00 PM
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Why should he fight in a war for a country that clearly doesn't care about him. He's going to die and no ones going to care. And if others are fighting why can't women?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:59 PM
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Being a gay guy is a problem, just not for men, but for women. However, they can’t express this yet as they need inclusion into your minority group to continue pushing their majority agenda. Yep, as soon as a woman is triggered your not into her. She tries to claim you as gay. They are all about body positivity and saying fat is beautiful until you tell her she gained weight. A lot of the time what they preach isn't what they practice.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 05:55 PM
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You raise good points I didn't think about. However what if the woman you described is the one getting alimony after they get a divorce. Surely you see how that's unfair since he supposedly (in your situation) has been doing all the work and still continues to pay her after when she did nothing but play videogames Nor do I think any of these should qualify for alimony. I agree that's horrible behaviour however I don't think anyone should pay for their ex unless its extremely needed or him screwi…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:11 PM
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What variables could make my situation unjust. Alimony should be only given in times of abuse/cheating or if the breadwinner is the one doing the divorce. What variables can disrupt this line of thinking to make it unjust?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 03:58 PM
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If she had been a SAHM for many years, she should get some alimony. She made an investment in THEIR children that can't be properly measured. She lost potential earnings and growth in a career. Depends, was it her choice? Did he force her to stay at home? If I make bad decisions and end up homeless, I don't expect my ex to come in and save me. I agree with alimony under very specific instructions. Abuse/cheating or if the breadwinner is the one initiating the divorce. And it should be paid back …
/r/MensRights13/10/24 03:53 PM
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As much as they hate masculinity they sure do seem to like it. They will never go for the feminine, 5'6 man who wants to be a sahd. They want to complain and feel like they are making some groundbreaking discovery to help humanity but also want the same things they are writing against.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:01 PM
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Interesting perspective but to counter that...when your divorcing someone you should divorce their wallet too. Alimony is outrageous.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 01:56 PM
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Have you been keeping up with the news? Ukraine has drafted their men. Its still something that can happen today. Not to mention if you think its so useless...why not get rid of it? Whether you think its useful or not doesn't diminish the fact it targets men and only men. And punishes you if you don't sign up. So yes I am talking about that law which only targets men.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 09:17 PM
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Yeah being ill is one of the few times I think it's ok to be emotional, whiny and crying for everyone (no matter the gender). Its you literally being sick and in pain. No one should be mocked for that.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 02:22 PM
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When I said depend I meant more of most manual labour is men same for the military. Firefighters, police officers etc etc. am not against other solutions then rotting in jail, just wish the same would offered to everyone rather then just to women. Same, like why even make it gender specific? Could just say the minor crimes get rehabilitated and other punishments but no they had to make it gender specific.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 12:52 PM
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Reminds me of the UK saying women aren't comfortable in prison to justify trying to tear down female prisons and offer other solutions. Womens comfort and happiness is so weirdly prioritised. Like why? Will the world explode if she feels uncomfortable and unhappy for 2.5 seconds. If you think about it logically...it should be mens comfort and happiness prioritised since society depends on men not women.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 12:16 PM
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They are violent. Society just let's them get away with it and doesn't see their violence as that bad. There is a reason there is a saying of hell has no fury like a woman scorned.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 12:07 PM
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What shocks me about all these laws is the immense stupidity of it, The men who are criminals are already breaking the law. So the only ones who will listen are the law abiding ones. As well as it will make the former good men start to hate women and the government. Also that law can never be passed for one simple reason, people will need men to work night shifts, male police officers, male firefighters. As much as women like to moan, whine and complain society is way too dependant on men. Not t…
/r/MensRights08/10/24 09:58 PM
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Also its basing the man's worth based off if women like him.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 09:52 PM
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Society belittling men, giving no respect and treating them like dangerous criminals unless proved otherwise. Setting it up so being in a relationship with a woman has too many cons especially marriage (which is always pushed forward, very convenient that it also benefits women more). Then act shocked when men don't want to play the rigged game.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 09:51 PM
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Wrong, they actually give dogs better treatment then men.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 09:48 PM
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No accountability/letting their emotions decide everything. Its been so normalised that women don't apologise that its a very well known joke. And frankly it seems more immature or arrogant. I don't understand why people put up with it or why its not called out. As for letting emotions rule everything take for example whole bear vs man thing. They don't go with the question with logic but emotion when logically even assuming the man is a total psycho...your chances of surviving against him is mu…
/r/MensRights08/10/24 01:26 PM
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No one benefits from the actions of a bad person. I might be missing context but what makes her think men supposedly benefit from other mens bad actions?
/r/MensRights08/10/24 04:32 AM
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I'm guessing that's r/feminism. Massive echo chamber that ban and mute any who don't confom to their ideal. I answered a question about why it became common for babies to get fathers last name (short answer, we know who the mother is not so much the father) but the other answers were insistent it was men wanting violence and domination. I was banned because I apparently had regressive views and was uneducated, I actually gave an actual logical answer rather than just saying all the men in societ…
/r/MensRights08/10/24 04:28 AM
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I meant more as in the law explicitly targeting men. Child support on paper is gender neutral its human bias that makes it target men more. However draft laws specifically target men and are open about it.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 03:27 AM
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Yep and the fact women claim they are the oppressed ones is even more crazy. No law targets women to make them unable to vote, get loans or even treated like a citizen.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 01:56 AM
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Why is a womans choice not the same? Abortion is much less severe than being drafted.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:54 PM
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I was banned on r/feminism because OP asked a question, why do babies get fathers name. I gave an actual answer other than men want to control people and be violent. I said in the past it made sense and was the father claiming the child as his own as everyone already knows the mother. Apparently that's regressive and less educated than the other claims of its for violence and domination. Those were the actual reasons given for my ban, regressive and not being educated but I was the only one that…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:51 PM
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The fact there is a law purposefully targeting men and singling them out is the biggest counterpoint to those who believe in male privilege
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:48 PM
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These are the same women who were asking for confidential pictures of someone doing an ID check for work to be passed around as he was topless in the picture and they wanted to check out his body..... I would say do something similar but this is your job and you can easily get fired because people are overly sensitive to that stuff. So don't. But yeah thats another double standard. Complaining men sexualise them when they easily do the same thing.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:37 PM
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This was one of the reasons I stopped being a feminist pretty early on and never saw society as patriarchal. I saw first hand women get everything served to them on a platter whilst men are left to fight for everything. Female students were treated better despite them being even noisier than the boys in my class. I had a sub teacher one day and she targeted me when I was usually the quiet kid who just did his work all because I was a boy. Called cowardly and a wifebeater because I pushed a girl …
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:33 PM
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All I can say is men are much more kinder and less dismissive of the physical differences. Men are stronger so help women carry stuff. They don't belittle the woman or call her weak. Women have better immune systems yet ridicule men for being more susceptible to illness. A womans father was vomiting live and haunched over yet his daughter was mocking him for manflu. Not sure if its for other men but for me its because I keep putting off the illness till it physically hurts too much to do somethi…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:26 PM
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Yeah, I noticed that too regarding dating. But more as in they say one thing and want another. Like a woman saying she wants a leader type and dominant man, alright. You can like what you like. But then she never let's him lead but the only reason she got with him is because she was attracted to the leader aspect. Just boggles my mind. Also reminds me of people saying men are sexualising women through OF accounts...yet will praise women for sex work. How does that even work? Its like hating on p…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:19 PM
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I just wish society would stop treating women's discomfort as such a bad thing, in the UK they are trying to get rid of some female prisons because women don't like being in prison...yeah no one likes being in prison. Its supposed to be harsh and bad yet women aren't happy so they are trying to find other way to rehabilitate them. Or women flat out admitting what counts as sexual harassment is subjective...then wonder why men have problems with sexual harassment claims. Women have complained the…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:11 PM
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Not a desperate situation at all. Her husband didn't want to be a stepdad. She needed extra money for bingo so hit 2 birds with one stone. Even went on to have more kids only these weren't sold because she was with their father. Pure evil is all I could think. Even if you were selfish in the past the least you could do when meeting one of the kids face to face was pretend to be sad about it. But she was cold and said she didn't regret it. Genuinely repulsive that people tried to defend her on a …
/r/MensRights07/10/24 04:27 PM
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May I ask which country? USA specifically Chicago. She did it cause she was going to have kids with her new husband who didn't want her 4 former kids there. And she used the money for bingo/gambling. It was most definitely not desperation the comments just leaped to that to justify her. Later one of the kids found her and she said to his/her face (it was so long ago I forgot specifics) that she didn't regret it. She even had more children with the new husband. And people still rushing to defend …
/r/MensRights07/10/24 04:16 PM
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Yep, Right Wing people will tell me to leave the country and I don't belong because my skin isn't white. Apparently I'm stealing jobs by my mere existence. Left wing hates me because I'm a man and don't believe in modern day feminism (in the past it made sense but now has evolved into something else) Both sides have equally disgusting bias in their extreme forms, the best for everybody is a middle ground.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 08:07 AM
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I was on a YouTube video talking in the past a woman sold her 4 children. 2 ended up with a farmer couple where they were kept in a barn and beaten used like farm animals. The other 2, one was luckily adopted by an actual nice couple and got a good education and life. The last one they didn't say. The comments? Some trying to downplay it saying she was desperate, some were blaming the father (he wasn't in the picture or had anything to do with the situation) and some were saying it must have hur…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:34 AM
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Reminds me when a woman accused a man who saved her life by giving her cpr. Society really needs to take them off a pedestal especially since they are acknowledging that they are on a pedestal.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:23 AM
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If not being able to get an abortion means we aren't living in a matriarchy (as is your logic) Isn't the fact that men can't have their own space and are drafted proof it's not a patriarchy?
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:15 AM
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Getting an abortion isn't a right.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:14 AM
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The government literally has plans to stop sending women to prison for committing crimes. I must stress that this is not an exaggeration. They talk about how prison 'isn't working for women', because clearly prison is working great for men! I watched a video about that, the woman arguing for it was saying women are not happy in prison. Yeah Sherlock, prison ain't for making the criminals happy. Its beyond ridiculous that was one of the complaints and arguments for it. And people fell for it. Lik…
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:11 AM
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Its amazing how accepted it is for anyone to take half of your assets and money just because you once upon a time used to be in a relationship. Like if she aas a regular woman who was struggling no help. But because she once upon a time was married to this man she is trying to see if she can take his stuff.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 06:01 AM
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Just as the left has gone extreme so has the right. The amount of people who are racist and are right wing is concerning. There is a reason most people tend to avoid people who have American flags in front of their house.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 05:57 AM
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He responded he only said daughter because he came off a YouTube video about a mother crying over her daughters murder and he said he didn't think it was fair the murderer just gets prison.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 03:59 PM
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Just felt like she was drunk on feminism cool aid trying to turn a simple answer into some gender politics. Don't even know why she asked the question but then focused on the very minor detail of he said daughter.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:55 PM
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Majorly disgusting. He's 17. You do realise that?
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:52 PM
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Yep UK are planning on tearing down female prisons to make more men ones and misogyny is going to be treated as extremist views. Not the other way though.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:51 PM
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Not my experience but I saw another user merely say the word daughter for an analogy (it was about death penalty and OP was asking why people are for it so the user said if someone killed your daughter wouldn't you want justice). OP randomly turned it to be about gender and kept going back to gender when the topic was the death penalty. The user kept saying he randomly just used the word daughter and there was no gender aspect to his question but she didn't budge and insisted that its a male vio…
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:43 PM
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Feminism is just old traditional values but only for men. They just don't want to be held to their traditional roles but men have to. Thats why I quickly woke up from Feminism. What they preach is not at all what they actually do. 2 very different things.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:36 PM
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Geee I wonder why he isn't touching her when she's prepared and already has a story and plan to accuse him. She's literally waiting for a time to cry wolf.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 04:50 AM
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My friend was also accused of that, whats worse is she got her witch clan to say he did it to them as well. I knew he was innocent because there storjes never made sense such as saying he was touching her thigh in science class...he sits next to me in science and she's 3 rows behind. Unless he's Mr Fantastic he couldn't possibly be touching her thigh.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 04:40 AM
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You do realise your only proving our point right? Men say no one cares then you are there trying to mock it.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 04:29 AM
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Are you incapable of grasping that its not about puppets? I've pointed that out many times.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 03:31 AM
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As you just pointed out its old. Nor is he particularly being told he's right. If you go back further enough there are very racist depictions in media because media reflects their time and values at said time. I see no reason to focus on an old TV show because clearly those values have gone away. Normalising hitting men however has not. Hence why that needs focus. If a show came out today about a husband repeatedly hitting his wife, i would also say that's wrong. I wouldn't call him a cool dude …
/r/MensRights03/10/24 07:42 PM
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But its undoubtedly the men who would be expected to keep the country running aka do all the needed jobs
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:56 AM
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Its actually hilarious because if you think about it logically, your mum is the way better option and you've been with her longer. Its natural to like your mum more, same for her and her parents. But no they want to be the center so put her first even over your own kids. If I ever have a son and he starts distancing himself from me because of some girl, I'll know I failed as a parent and know she's bad news. People who want the best for you never want you to be isolated or have to choose between…
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:39 AM
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Same. Its honestly a bit sad how disrespected and ridiculed mother-son relationships are compared to dad-daughter relationships (notice which one benefits the girl is instantly liked and accepted) Mothers can see through other women's toxicity so wives will try to distance them so they can better control the son. But if a husband tried on purpose to distance his wife from her dad or cause problems and he would get roasted alive for not respecting her family and being abusive by isolating her. It…
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:28 AM
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Hence why women hating their mother in-law (aka the one who will be able to detect her toxicity and help her son) is so normalised. And men are encouraged to side with their wife/gf over their mother yet if he expects the same loyalty back he's abusive and trying to isolate her.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:09 AM
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Normalisation of hitting men and double standards. What is allowed in media and how its portrayed says a lot especially if one group is always depicted more favorably.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:06 AM
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What they say is almost never what they do, they just give out the politically correct answer.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 10:05 AM
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Its weird because feminists who claim they are for equality will also say stuff like male one spaces shouldn't exist. Go onto r/feminist or whatever their name is and search male only gyms. They have quite a one sided stance as in female only gyms are good but male only gyms breed misogyny and keep power between men (because business men definitely go to the gym to create connections)
/r/MensRights03/10/24 09:48 AM
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Anyone feel like this is extreme and will only cause more supposed hatred and extreme views such as holding when accountable. If your whole group can't be criticised without the other person being labelled a terrorist then your definitely not oppressed.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 03:41 AM
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For me, it was easy. Girls with lots of brothers or male cousins tend to have lots of sympathy towards men unless they were brought up in a sexist household. But one of my gfs treated men like normal because she lived with 2 brothers so idk was just used to them. Her brothers and father didn't treat her differently so there was no entitled princess syndrome. When she hit her brothers she could expect a good hit back hence she never got violent with me. I don't know how to explain it but its just…
/r/MensRights16/09/24 03:32 AM
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about 22% of them were adult men, according to data from the EU statistics office, Eurostat. "Stop paying those social security payments for people who are eligible for the Ukrainian draft. There should be no financial incentives for avoiding the draft in Ukraine," Sikorski said at a conference of international leaders in Kyiv. So only 22% were men and they still gunning for them. You can't even make this up, look at the disdain thrown at men for not wanting to die for a country who obviously do…
/r/MensRights16/09/24 03:15 AM
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Thats what annoys me. If men are putting more sacrifice in shouldn't they logically get a reward at least the ones who survive. If their gender is enough to determine they can be reaped like bloody hunger games then it should be enough for them to get specific gender rewards.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 03:05 AM
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I love that once you no longer care about their opinions its easy to see how they always try to manipulate people to behave how they want often through shaming. Saying "if you do ______ your no longer a man" is just blatant manipulation to act in a way that benefits women. Somehow giving your seat to a woman, letting her slap you and so much more makes you a man when in reality they just want a doormat. Its ridiculous because if the reversed were to happen men would be told to stop being so enti…
/r/MensRights16/09/24 03:00 AM
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First off, thanks for explaining the thought process clearly and without any ill intention. fact a lot of men still have traditional ideologies of women I know you said don't say men experience it too but for one group to be oppressed it has to mean the other is given special treatment. You can't talk about the oppression without acknowledging the others privilege so in a way it will always be a comparison. Women largely still have traditional ideologies of men. The reverse is not so expected to…
/r/MensRights15/09/24 10:08 AM
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A girl said she hated all men and everything they touch turns to crap...I pointed out she is using an app and likely a phone made by men. Somehow my comments are deleted but hers stay. I really want a girl to explain how she is oppressed in this day and age? Girls from the west claiming they are oppressed is laughable. Society and the law is on your side. The only thing you don't have going for you is physical power but society is constructed in a way that physical power is largely meaningless u…
/r/MensRights14/09/24 10:25 PM
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That would get depressing so fast, people literally give dogs and fantasy creatures more thought than actual men. Its exhausting and even more infuriating when the ones benefitting off mens work are the loudest with their hatred of men and then claim they are oppressed when they can openly hate men but the reverse happens and your comments get deleted like on YouTube,
/r/MensRights14/09/24 10:17 PM
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Still boggles my mind how women think they are the oppressed ones when their are laws that specifically target men such as the draft ones. Like it sounds full on dystopian. Imagine reading a fantasy book where elves are socially allowed to hit and berate ogres, ogres are expected to provide for them and if they want companionship to literally kneel to ask them for it, are forced to be soldiers for elves if a war happens and ogres are told "happy elves happy life" then the elves claim they are th…
/r/MensRights14/09/24 10:01 PM
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Some male nurses say they are expected to do more heavy lifting even if its not their job.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 04:00 PM
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Women obsessed with being victims of the patriarchy seeing men struggle due to the fact they are men invalidates their belief that men are evil tyrants that everyone bows down to. Also why they conveniently switch topics when stuff like only men being subject to drafts they'll shift the attention to "no one should be drafted" instead of focusing on how it is unfair for men. Even male issues regarding fatherhood is somehow always twisted to be about women. Men complaining people look at them weir…
/r/MensRights13/09/24 03:57 PM
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Patriarchy Nope. Well not in this day and age. Socially women are the more protected group with their own spaces. Legally women also hold more power. So in what sense is it a patriarchy if only women seem to be benefitting. Once upon a time maybe but today? No, nearly everything is geared towards women. I'm not talking about other countries but rather just the West. Rape Culture Again no, what do women think? That we gather to talk about rape? Many men are just as appalled by rapists than women.…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 10:12 PM
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I never got where the coward association came from in my experience every bully and abuser I ever met weren't cowardly. Just violent or impulsive.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 10:04 PM
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