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Find your niche my friend. You may not have broad appeal but you can appeal to those in your niche.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:25 PM
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Because I was also bullied. I was handsome captain of a sports team. However, it was the soccer team and I was also a theater nerd. Where I’m from, soccer and theater are… a good way to get bullied. So I internalized all the negative and never noticed the way women reacted to me. Or I guess I never acted on it. I was always thinking “she’s just being nice” I never assumed a girl liked me. Couple that with one of those high school girls cheating on me at a very impressionable age with an older, m…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:07 PM
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Oh I’ve had plenty of things fall into my lap over the years and I had multiple girlfriends and hook ups in high school. Just never maximized my potential as a young go-hard. Now I use my handsome privilege to its fullest and I’m not wasting any more time wondering if a girl likes me. I just chat to a gal like “yo what’s good” and see where it leads. It was through this exercise that I discovered women actually like attention and maybe I am actually decently good looking and more charismatic tha…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:50 PM
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100% agree. Doesn’t hurt to try though.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:31 PM
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I’m rather good looking and I always hated myself and never believed it. Took lots of therapy to be able to admit that I might be handsome. Now that I act the way women expect a handsome successful guy to act I get way more… opportunities. BDD is real. It sucks. It will drive you to keep striving to be better looking though. So there’s that.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:29 PM
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I think we all just need to watch what they do and not what they say. I will just tune out at this point when a girl is describing her Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:33 PM
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It’s that ability to “not take no for an answer” that people say is gross but somehow leads to more success… it’s gross but it’s the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:53 PM
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I would say that nice guys don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable. Being nice is easy, being charismatic and charming and “cool” is something completely different. And plenty of “cool” people are absolute monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:52 PM
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They are a great place to have a good time. And I would say that all that bs about where to approach women is pure bs. The same people who tell you where you can and cannot meet women are also the people who say “you should have picked up on her hints and made a move” just chat with everyone, flirt with the world wherever you are. Fortune passes everywhere….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:50 PM
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It’s taken me a lot of therapy to be able to admit that I’m good looking. Lol when I say I was modest and humble I mean like I had a problem. But I’m working on it! One day I’ll be able to say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:37 PM
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I have always been really good looking but my success rate went WAY up when I started acting like it. I was always modest and humble and I got no bitches. Now I dress crazy, act like an arrogant jerk and it works. I get attention and opportunities I never did before. Both are good, but more than that BOTH ARE BEST.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:30 PM
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What do you say to all the guys who have benefited from the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:22 PM
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False. I think a lot of successful, good looking guys are out here wondering why they can’t get a date. According to your post you think that all it takes to get laid is to be a good man. And it’s just not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:14 PM
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Maybe if you are dating a very wise and enlightened woman. Otherwise blue pill will have her walking all over you cheating with the first red pill guy she can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:10 PM
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I’m maybe slightly above average but we’re doing good. What’s frustrating is that I changed my strategy somewhere around 27-28 and I’ve had way more success. I just started assuming every girl is interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:45 PM
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I think the problem here may be that I touch too much grass. You’re the one who seems to believe all men think like this. And out on the grass it’s just not that way.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 06:40 PM
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I disagree. I think a lot of people tried the blue pill and realized it doesn’t create the “spark” virus are looking for. So they try some red pill strats and if they’re not hideous losers it works. I think a lot of people are successful in life but not with women so they come here to find out why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:21 PM
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I agree. If you’re going to go chat a girl up you need to assume she might be interested. This is hard for people who were raised to be humble and self aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:17 PM
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No man thinks like this. Chill out.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:59 PM
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I’m kinda rad honestly. I bring a lot. Only now realizing my worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:56 PM
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Look up the Ted Bundy story if you don’t believe that people have a bias to see handsome people as “good” despite the fact they are literally the worst. Tons of man on the street interviews of people sayin “I just don’t believe that guy is a murderer” he’s not even that good looking, like slightly above average at best.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:40 PM
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Agreed. I’d argue that women tell guys what they think they should be looking for but leave out all the unhealthy bs that they wish they weren’t so attracted to. But it doesn’t change the fact they still like those things. It’s the same for men, we all want a girl who will let us do all the crazy stuff on the first date but then…. Is that a girl you want to marry? We all need to be more transparent. Men have unfair double standards as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:34 PM
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You could believe those things and feel hard done by the dating scene and still have good will towards women. I have many close relationships with women that I love and I swear sometimes it’s impossible to get them to understand that maybe, just maybe, they have a “type” that is not the thing they always say is their “type” ie: they describe their Prince Charming as a humble, quiet gentleman, but they keep falling for the cocky, loud party guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:28 PM
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Not looked for a wife but I’ve had success with holiday flings even with language barriers. It’s a real novelty when the “stupid American” can chop it up in the native language though. So in Spanish speaking countries it’s even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:21 PM
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One big issue is that I think redditors are assumed to be ugly, unsuccessful, and pretty much undatable. But I reckon there’s a few decent people here that have successful lives and meaningful friendships. They’re looking at their lives and thinking, “how am I able to have friends and colleagues that like me, even of the gender I’m interested in, but as soon as I approach someone with ROMANTIC intent, everything goes off the rails and I fail”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:15 PM
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I think if you are a woman and you want to give romantic advice to a man you need to have done some work on yourself. For instance take into account your own biases and experiences. Take into account what is the ideal vs what is pragmatic. We all want to live in a world full of love and acceptance, however we cant go out into the world and assume that the world is currently full of love and acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:12 PM
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They’re selecting for pushy, overconfident jerks. And they’re getting just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:31 PM
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They’re very articulate. They just aren’t saying the truth most of the time. They will describe a gentle, wholesome guy who makes them feel comfortable. But then they will slide off their chair when a big strong bad boy beats someone up on tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:14 PM
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Can’t change your view but I just can’t believe a dude would show up to a place like this and not be dressed well and well groomed. That’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:06 PM
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Yeah it’s wild how so many will say it’s outright wrong and won’t work. I’m here to tell you. It works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:56 PM
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I was raised to be a gentleman. Never did any of this stuff, never initiated contact, never made a double entendre. Had very little success. Ever since I started I realized I may just be a chad lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:53 PM
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Non threatening physical touch. Like touching hands or elbows or literally anything that initiates physical contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:37 PM
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Ever since I started doing this my success rate has gotten way better. Stop lying to these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:36 PM
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Haha I know these things now. It all started when I allowed myself to believe that I might actually be good looking/worth something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:40 PM
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Ahhhh the middle school playbook? That still works?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:25 PM
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They absolutely should. Can’t change the game but you can change your strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:12 PM
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I don’t think we should accept any of these bullshit social norms. We should strive to improve as a society. Is AF/BB a real thing? Ask any man, they’ve experienced it. We can be vigilant to avoid those scenarios, try to uplift and celebrate honorable, enlightened women. Accept that it’s always going to be a factor, then avoid it and mitigate it’s consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 05:05 PM
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Exactamente
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:35 PM
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I mean I was raised by women and coincidentally im very desirable from a LTR/marriage potential standpoint (been told many, many times 😤). However, I’m not good at creating that “spark” and appealing to the sexual side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:34 PM
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Imagine that. Someone with an actual sane, nuanced take gets downvoted.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 04:35 PM
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What the red pill does well: observations of what works on women given the current environment. What the red pill does poorly: all the other philosophical bs about value and all this garbage. It helps men understand how to appeal to the desires of women. Stuff we have always known but was omitted from our social upbringing because it’s “not pc” or “outdated” Women will say they just want love and loyalty because that’s the pc thing to say. But it is an absolute lie to posit that women don’t care…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:41 PM
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I do think there’s an element of maintaining your sanity lol. Definitely don’t jerk off every single day but if you’re contemplating doing something risky to get frisky, just beat that thing and forget about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:25 PM
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It’s like exercising IMO. You gotta learn your body’s rhythms and stuff. You can’t do heavy squat day 7 times a week and expect to be ready to perform some leg intensive activity after that. You can have too much of a good thing. I think nofap is too much, but you ought to refrain for a few days at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:23 PM
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Conventional wisdom: Women deserve love and connection. It’s a human need that improves life and provides happiness. Men: we’re human too Conventional wisdom: Well that’s too damn bad! Stop crying and build something!
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 08:37 PM
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I’m a blue pill, egalitarian, liberal, pan sexual, feminist. Height and financial status don’t matter to me. It’s a pure coincidence that all my boyfriends happen to be a red pill masculine HVM poster children. /S
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 08:34 PM
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Mid sized American city.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:05 PM
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With that attitude. Maybe. However! I believe in you! You should too!
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 05:14 PM
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Thanks for the vote of confidence OP. Yes! We gotta love ourselves more. I’ve always been good looking but never had the confidence to believe that a girl might actually want to talk to me. I would take it a step further and say that a lot of people who have trouble with women don’t realize how personable and charismatic they are. They just only use those skills with certain groups. If you can banter with a coworker or a male stranger, then you can banter with a female stranger. Could be that ba…
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/23 05:12 PM
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If anything I see hot guys with below average girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:25 PM
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You’re not allowed to talk to other girls because they all want to fuck you. But I’m allowed to have male friends and suitors because “it’s different”. Oh well I guess if it’s different then that’s fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:09 PM
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You never know how attractive you are until a jealous girlfriend tries to put you on house arrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:07 PM
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It happens. I’ve experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:06 PM
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Brother. Jim important. For you, not for girl.
/r/AllPillDebate08/08/23 07:32 PM
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Perfect example of someone confusing what you CAN do with what you SHOULD do. And such is the crux of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:14 PM
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Seriously learn Spanish. It will benefit your life in MULTIPLE ways
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 09:58 PM
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Just that flirting with girls is like rude and annoying. As if I should never communicate my desires to a woman I like. Male sexuality was always depicted as being obnoxious or dangerous somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:48 PM
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If you’re starting from zero I would suggest an improv class. It will teach you how to turn everything into a game/bit. Probably meet some cool people that way too.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 06:21 PM
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I told them I was just trying to be polite and I never wanted to make things awkward or uncomfortable for her. What I wanted to say was “how the fuck was I supposed to know you even were interested” I’m sorry to hear you are in a rut my friend, but I believe in you! Baby steps! Don’t overwhelm yourself! Start small and build on the positive! What I mean by don’t interview her is always try to insert humor and playful bullshitting. There’s an old joke that goes “if men flirted with women the way …
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:57 PM
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Late late 20s. Colleagues and coworkers and such just women that I had contact with. One was a classmate from school. Low sex drive: get your life together. Nutrition, exercise, jerk off less. Then talk to a doctor. As for asexual, Demi sexual etc my (unprofessional) advice would be to appeal to a woman’s flirty side not necessarily her sexual side. Be playful and flirty. Demisexuals should be adept at using their wit. I reckon a light hearted debate with playful jabs and teasing would still be …
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 05:39 PM
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In any case, you need to move that direction if you want a girl to take you seriously. What i find EXTREMELY strange is that actually saying “I’m attracted to you in a sexual and romantic way” is frowned upon more than just risking an awkward sexual advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:57 PM
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I for one have reached a point in my life where women reach out to ask “why did you never make a move? I was always so in to you” and the answer is I never wanted to make a colleague/coworker/classmate uncomfortable by making things sexual or romantic. Turns out that you’re not a criminal for being a sexual being, gents. Shoot all the shots, from half court, the bleachers, just keep firing. You never know who is secretly crushing on you, you may be surprised how desirable you are.
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:16 PM
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“Lack of sexual push as disinterest” Word. Women want sexual escalation, many men were raised to believe that is wrong to escalate things in a sexual manner. Either as outright wrong or just “impolite”
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 04:10 PM
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Yup it all comes back to people bloviating about what a healthy relationship looks like and then you see many many people in these relationships. People don’t live up to their enlightened ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:57 PM
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Absolutely do not build a friendship first. Speak with your body language and touch her, try to show her you are ATTRACTED to her, not that you are interested in the same things. Familiarity does build attraction sometimes, but you still gotta escalate physically towards sex. Or you will only ever be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:52 PM
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“Women are turned on when they can tell the guy they’re into is turned on by them” definitely something that boys and men need to know. I feel like my generation was taught to never show this desire for fear of being crass/too forward/making someone uncomfortable. There’s only one way to know if a girl likes you, ya gotta flirt, touch, attempt to kiss. Stuff I was always taught never to do with a stranger. Drive fast, take chances, boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:44 PM
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I don’t buy into the misogynistic bits and the value judgments based on shallow things like body count and expected “roles” in dating and relationships. However, I find that the red pill helps men realize what women want (rightly or wrongly) as opposed to what they say they want. I find that my years spent being a gentleman were less successful romantically than now when I just act bold and rakish and flirt and flaunt my value. I find that the “confidence” that women appreciate is just flaunting…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:09 PM
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I mean girls say they’re cool with honesty but you gotta lie a little if you only want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:17 PM
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I feel like women only really started liking me in my late twenties/early thirties. May have something to do with me just being much more flirty and bold now because I’ve built up some confidence. I’m just better than I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:15 PM
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If a man is doing his fare share then he deserves to be treated with respect and equality. I would argue that many men these days are much more involved, but there’s some internalized narrative that women are allowed to complain about their partner’s contribution. I know good guys that are great and do cooking and cleaning every day and still get bashed by their partners in public “he’s such a slob”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:12 PM
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Yup being a quiet respectful gentleman is important but to spark interest you will have to flirt and behave in a rakish bold way at some times. Let her find out you are a mature teddy bear renaissance man after you have sparked some interest and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:56 PM
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I think women get bored. And in my experience the girls I have slept with early on fell in love with me and the ones who took it slower never really went anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:25 PM
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Yes is the ethical and morally correct answer. No is the pragmatic and realistic answer based on the current temperature of the water in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:22 PM
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Word. Raised by women and I can tell you what I learned never worked lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:20 PM
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True and things do fall into your lap when you’re handsome. However, women still prefer to be approached and if you’re a handsome guy who is humble quiet gentleman he’s not going to get laid as much as a less attractive guy who is super outgoing and flirtatious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:43 PM
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No i think there’s a lot of attractive, well socially calibrated people that have trouble. For instance a guy who is funny with friends, charismatic in general, yet clams up in front of a pretty girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:06 PM
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Here’s your filter: approach the girl you like and tell her. Don’t do that for women you’re not interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:56 AM
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Ahh but the male demo has money and these are businesses. So it’s in their best interest to make it hard so you will pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 11:55 AM
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Become valuable to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:42 PM
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Yup it’s that typical virtue signal what you know you should be looking for and then go and date whoever makes you feel tingly. It’s why there’s so many “nice guys” out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:47 PM
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Most of them. Until I open my mouth. Lol then it would drop considerably.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:47 PM
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Yes if a girl sleeps with you you’re already in a really good position to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:46 PM
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The “should” language has always bugged me in this sub. Everyone get exactly what they deserve IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:40 PM
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I’m not boring lol I’m a renaissance man. What I’m saying is that doesn’t matter. Nobody cares about the person I am until we bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:12 PM
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Admittedly I am a good looking guy. But yeah “dating” and “deep conversation” are not what works for me. I find nothing bores women more than chatting forever (even if it is stimulating conversation) and if she hasn’t slept with me by like the third date I pretty much know it’s not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:25 PM
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I find that it’s more about setting and receptiveness. Even if you’re her type, she may be annoyed by your advances depending on the setting. I feel like 1/10 women reciprocate my advances. So yeah you just gotta keep that line in the water. In the right scenario a less attractive guy can land a 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:20 PM
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I look like this guy but I’ll tell you right now my instagram has more of my hobbies and pets than of my abs on the beach. So I am actually curious. Is it better to try harder (ie make my profile like his) or be genuine and not show off shirtless in EVERY SINGLE POST.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:14 PM
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I was always told friendship leads to romance leads to sex. But I find that the girls I fuck on the first date (or early on) tend to fall in love with me and the girls I “take it slow with” those interactions rarely go anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:11 PM
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Focus less on conversation and more on building physical attraction. Try to get laid as fast as possible. If she doesn’t reciprocate, move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:08 PM
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Basically all the good stuff minus the bad stuff. That’s my definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:07 PM
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And women, you’re lovely the way you are. RAH-RAH. Go queen. Slay. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:29 PM
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I know but “simp” gets thrown around all the time as if it’s somehow beta to pay for drinks and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:06 PM
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Yes for instance. I was raised by my mom and two sisters. I am the perfect gentleman. Women love me and want to marry me once they get to know me. But I never learned “game” because I always considered it to be annoying or obnoxious from the perspectives I was exposed to. If you are a decent man you can find a partner by being aloof and quiet gentleman. However, you will always be relying on women to make the first move. Which,as a man, can fill you with a sense of dread for lack of control over…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:52 PM
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It may not be “wrong” but I think it makes you take a back seat in the relationship. If you want to change something you need to actively pursue the change. Rather than let life treasure it’s course and track stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:36 PM
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I know a lot of “alphas” who still pay for girls food and drinks. It’s not beta to flash your resources or use them to meet girls. Just know when to cut your losses if a girl isn’t reciprocating the attention and effort. As for a potential long term partner cheating or leaving for an “alpha” that’s up to you to vet and choose a woman of good character and up to you to be a good man to remain desirable to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:32 PM
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Don’t limit yourself man. Be a gentleman but put yourself out there! Flirt with everyone, you deserve love and connection. Don’t let anyone tell you you are creepy or wrong for being a normal human being. It may come to surprise you but women actually WANT to feel that desire and WANT to be pursued and sexualized sometimes. And you might just be the right guy for them so shoot your shot!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:42 PM
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No. But good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:49 PM
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Yup. met a really lovely college aged girl on vacation recently. Id probably be too old if she saw me on a dating app. But because she met me at a pool party she had no idea how old I was and everything just flowed my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:56 PM
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Never stopping. I’ll always chat girls up and be a flirt. Not like any women have ever been faithful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:48 PM
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100% agree. We need to stop telling boys to ignore their desires and allow them to act on them. Why are men single and sexless? It could be because we told them any sexual advance will alienate and scare women. You are not inherently a bad person for liking that girl and having sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:40 PM
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It’s also admitting that you are a stud that women might actually want to be with. My whole life I was told it’s wrong to hit on women pretty much anywhere. But one day I started doing it and it almost seems like they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:38 PM
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You OWE them dinner though…. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:14 PM
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Probably the girl who fucked the upper class man because he had a car and I didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:05 PM
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