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| 43 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile. | No_Life_333 | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:26 PM |
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| 0 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?That kinda goes hand in hand with what I was just saying though, that men exaggerate sexual encounters and women underreport. Is it hard to imagine that your friends might just not want you to know about their random Tinder hookups? And I know that men often do the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:48 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?If it’s easier for women to get sex then how would men usually have higher body counts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:41 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?I don’t see how that’s possible at all. Unless it’s the obvious answer that women are underreporting and men are exaggerating their sexual encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:33 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Probably because it’s harder for a man to have a lot of casual sex, and it’s harder for a woman NOT to have a lot of casual sex. We are all human at the end of the day, but you’ve got one gender having to fight to be able to succumb to their baser instincts, and one gender that only has to fight not to succumb to their baser instincts. It basically tells you as a man that she has probably had more sex than you, or more sexual partners than you, and for a man’s first time realizing that it can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Nah I disagree. Every guy I know that got casual sex before a relationship would be bothered to find out his wife/LTR gf had dozens of ONS’s before him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Men should decenter women tooOh I’m dead serious, and thanks. I think a feminine perspective on things would be a welcome addition to hear from on a regular basis. I’ve been traveling for work/married to a woman that didn’t support female friends for so long that I’ve basically isolated myself to a few guy friends over the years, and I don’t know any women anymore. After my mother died a few years ago I really haven’t had any women at all to be close to, to be able to ask their perspective on relationship issues I might be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Men should decenter women tooNo I fully admit I need female company. I’ve got little issue finding hookups on dating apps, but recently I’ve taken to just looking for female friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 11:03 AM |
| -1 | Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave”I think there’s got to be some kind of fuckery going on with the numbers for that to be the average. I had slept with six or seven girls before I turned 20, spent six years in prison from 20-26 not getting any sex, and still got my body count up into the forties at least by now at age 32. And this is with me going through long durations in relationships, getting married at one point, taking care of a child on the weekends instead of spending time at the nightclub. As a 5’7” white guy with a weak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Men are so desperate it's patheticLook at his post history, certainly looks like a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:03 AM |
| -3 | Even if the "nice guys" have hidden selfish motives, they are still infinitely better than the honest “bad boys”.Tl;dr ITT: soyboy lists reasons why Chad is actually soyboy and why soyboy is actually Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Yeah mine definitely initiated sex at least once per week. We were pretty adventurous though, and always tried to keep it spicy, using toys and bondage play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Yeah idk I agree with a lot of the red pill’s ideas but some things they’re just thinking too hard about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?What are you talking about dude? Sometimes talking about it in advance and planning a special night when you’re both off work the following day will amount to a lot better experience than anything spontaneous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 01:11 PM |
| -3 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?There’s a lot of ugly guys out here with hot chicks, totally disproving your claim. Don’t be an unattractive guy either though. You can be ugly in the face but make up for it with a good physique, being well dressed and well groomed, smelling good, hell even some nice tattoos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:31 PM |
| 7 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Wut???? How else are you supposed to “get” sex? Or do the real alphas only “take” sex? The way nature intended. /s Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:19 PM |
| 13 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Bro even the real deal Chads still get shot down from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 12:16 PM |
| 14 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?I totally agree with that. That’s about my optimal rate too. A lot of folks are in happy marriages with sex once or twice a week though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 11:51 AM |
| 44 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?For real, it makes it so obvious that some of these individuals are basement-dwelling weirdos that blame everything but themselves for the fact that can’t get laid. Celibate and angry at women for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:38 AM |
| 125 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Only gets sex “once or twice a week”? Dude that’s a decent amount of sex and a lot of marriages do just fine with that much of it. A lot of people don’t want it every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.Social media to be sure was a drag on our relationship. Between the 50/50 problems and being accused of narcissism every time I breathed the wrong way, I began to hate TikTok with a passion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/25 04:22 AM |
| 13 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.Princess treatment is exactly the way she describes how she expects to be treated too. Tells me I have to match what her daddy did for her or else I’m not doing enough. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.Dude that is exactly how I wanted to do it with her. If I’m making 70% of the household income then I pay 70% of household expenses. That ain’t enough for her though. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Me wanting it to be “50/50” is why she refuses to reconcile.That’s what it feels like man. When she wasn’t working and only taking care of our child, I always refused to put her on a joint account with me and instead would give her a spending allowance each week, usually $200-$350 depending on how much I was making. I didn’t want to put her on a joint account because I asked her to start getting familiar with my bills and her bills, and their due dates, and for her to start figuring out a family budget if she was going to have access to the family money.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/25 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Hookup vs RelationshipBullshit. Calling most normal women a slut is a very serious insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Hookup vs RelationshipI’m sorry but there are indeed women out there that fetishize big penis, and will look at a guy in sweatpants to see the bulge. Extremely common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What are The weirdest dating preferences that you've heard from any gender ?Yeah instant boner kill for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why don't males shoot their shot anymore?If the reason you don’t approach is because you’re guaranteed to be rejected then you’re doing something wrong. Or you’re 14 and still afraid of girls. Idk, regardless, I’m not the hottest Chad on the planet, in fact I’m short, with a patchy beard that I have to keep trimmed into a chin strap to hide my weak jawline, a bad hair line that I’ve had since I was fifteen, and teeth that probably could’ve used braces when I was younger. I still approach women, and probably 1/3 approaches are met with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Why don't males shoot their shot anymore?Stupid take. Yes it feeds their egos, and if you can’t deal with that then you don’t know courtship. Women do approach me sometimes. Not at the same rate that I approach women, and when they do approach, maybe 10% of the time is it a good enough looking woman that I would’ve approached her myself. The rest are overweight or a lot older than the age group I date in. There’s nothing wrong with flattering women by approaching them, and being rejected. There’s been some embarrassing moments, but ult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Okay I’m gonna push back against the quoted guy saying that “we” lie about actually wanting sex. I’m a man that’s a part of this loneliness epidemic, and I know for a fact that every one of my friends, and male family members especially, are also a part of it. And most of us can get sex fairly easily. I’m nothing close to a “Chad”, but I get matches on dating apps, I have some success approaching women in nightclubs, and if I’m really looking for it, random hookups aren’t that hard to find. Desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 02:09 AM |
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