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| 1 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineIt’s a true story, believe it or not. We exist in different realities, friend. Subsequently, my anecdotal life won’t always make sense to some people (as has happened with this situation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 06:30 PM |
| -4 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpAn explanation of what is happening in Australia. It’s not my fault you are using that example to generalize all feminism, red pill man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Asking men to support feminism is peak audacity: Feminists in Australia lobbied to have suicidal men insta-flagged as potential woman abusers when they reach out to authorities for helpCrappy times breed extreme choices. Pre judgment, genital mutilation, murdering newborns… add it to the list. And it won’t stop growing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 04:59 PM |
| – | Men who think women are “better” than men and that they aren’t attracted to looks are actually being misogynisticBecause women are smarter than men. The catch-22 is the men that want women to be “better” are also the men that will deny women are smarter. Round and round we go. 🎠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?This really does encapsulate how weird the gay stuff gets with straight dudes in the military. The dudes watching were definitely more gay 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.Can a mod explain to me why the bot is blocking comments on a flaired debate? Maybe I’m missing something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 02:09 PM |
| – | Most men here don't just have dating problem, they're severely under-socialized in general.HARD AGREEMENT. Say it louder for those in the back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:47 PM |
| 36 | “Just be happy single” is easy advice when singledom is optional.Telling anyone “Just be happy”… or even telling someone how to feel, is no one else business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 11:59 AM |
| – | Is too much perfection a red flag?Too much anything is a red flag. Even being too nice.. it comes off as insincere if there’s no balance. Life is about moderation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Describe your dating experience for meYou didn’t ask a single question, FYI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Are you sure size doesn't matter?I’ve never seen more gay shit than the stuff that went on at our unit. Our ACTUALLY gay sergeant would call us fags and be like “you homos are gayer than I am.” I don’t miss much from the military, and myself and my unit were a bunch of ass holes but I miss that my unit treated EVERYONE the same. And DADT was still in place. That sergeant was one of the best men I served with and any of us would have died for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 03:19 AM |
| 3 | People, especially women, will often push their personal boundaries to make their partner happy.I don’t understand the purpose of this post? OP, help me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 02:55 AM |
| 2 | The idea that "most men on dating apps are trash and don't want commitment" is egregious inaccurateDon’t know if I agree or disagree, but TL;DR for those interested…. Some people are caught in a catch-22 loop: they physically judge unattractive men, make assumptions based on said judgments and, continuing, use those judgments as a way to justify their lack of attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsI dont use labels. I treat people like people. Period. And that is why we will never agree. I was NEVER taught to fight and (scrape?) to get women. I was taught to fight to go to WAR. Which I did. For this country. I guess that’s why I was never taught to claw my way into a relationship. I didn’t have to… it came easy. Be a decent person to others, fight for what you believe in, and stand on business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineThere’s probably some validity to what you’re saying. He was pretty gross. But there were plenty of attractive, willing, sober ones mixed in there. Height doesn’t define you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineProbably 10ish years ago. As for the why? Because it’s much easier in person. When dating is presented like a game with infinite choices, it skews people’s judgment and perception of true reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:30 AM |
| 14 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsI appreciate your idealism, but that’s just not reality. There are LOTS AND LOTS of men that think they are entitled. I wish I could @ all the women in this subreddit and watch it explode 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:09 AM |
| 3 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineNah, light skinned black guy. But I also know a guy about 5’9. Skinny white guy that looks like the neurotypical version of Tanner from Love on the Spectrum… 7 in one day at ROT rally. Gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineOne of my friends was 5’7” and slept with 100 women by the time he graduated college. And almost exclusively “conventionally attractive” women. You think BDE came out of nowhere? Those dudes exist. I call them peacocks because they always outgoing, animated, and bring attention. It’s an energy and an attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsSure it’s entitlement! Entitlement also applies to the personality type you are describing in the post. I’m not a father, have also taken my nieces and nephews, and been told otherwise. You’re not wrong with your concept and I agree people shouldn’t do that. But that’s just OUR opinions. People just like living in different ways. And in the end, why would you want to be with a person that doesn’t match your style at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:55 AM |
| 8 | Negative talking points about women will always exist as long as guys can keep pointing out how women behave onlineBro, you can’t use phrases like this then call yourself “no pill man” 😂 They reek of red. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?Buy a thunder bunny. They have them on Amazon and in shops. No, I’m not kidding. You and whomever are welcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:41 AM |
| 19 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsThere are women like this; most definitely. And your general idea does apply to a decent sized subset of the female population. But things like this go both ways. If a married dad takes a kid to the park, one time, every person is like “OMG what a great dad!” And how many dads change ONE diaper or wake up for one feeding, and act like they’ve saved the planet? Or, closer to your topic, how many men think they are entitled to a hot chick, regardless of their attitude, behavior, hygiene, etc.? The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:38 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical.Understood. Really didn’t want it to come off that way… apologies. It came from a place of genuine surprise and concern 🥺 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 03:01 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical.Agreed… what’s the point of the plan? What kind of “life” would that be if you “survived it all”? I will say… I can understand why others might have that mentality; survive at all costs. But I’m very much a quality > quantity person. I don’t know about you, but I also fully support personal end-of-life decisions for people that are cognizant, and have enough of their facilities, to make that choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 02:53 PM |
| – | A lot of men do not believe women as a whole should have bodily autonomy, which can be proven by a simply hypothetical.This is an INSANE take AND hypothetical situation that you have created in your head. Wow. I’m not going to speak for anyone else, but if there were 20 people (10 men, 10 women), I sure as shit wouldn’t be worried about who I was having sex with. Again, I’m not going to speak for anyone else, but if there were 19 other people left on earth, odds are I wouldn’t get along with most of them, would go at things myself, and die within the month. And I’m totally at peace with that. I’m being 100% sinc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/26 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Lying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you overLying and being manipulative to get a girl or keep a girl is bad and will screw you over. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:46 AM |
| 1 | I've come to the conclusion that men shouldn't be doing 50% of chores, they should be doing 80-90%The mods probably don’t like that you are delusional and lacking self-awareness, red pill man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:36 AM |
| 0 | Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding.I’m SO TIRED of so many people (both genders) not understanding that male and female brains are hardwired to receive information differently, at basically Planck scale. EXAMPLE FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK: When a man hears “clean your room,” he is going to clean his room in whatever has been ingrained into his adolescent brain. It might literally just be picking up the clothes off of the floor. Go, do, done. When a woman hears “clean your room,” she is going to think … “Alright I’ll get in there,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Men dating downIn general, I think I agree with this statement. I will add… For your 2nd and 3rd paragraphs, I’d say the variance in choices by these men starts out WIDE AF when they hit puberty, and then almost all of them slowly narrow the scope as they sleep their way through college+ Some will have wider variance, others hardly any at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.You definitely have a point. But I will say this Just being nice(r) to people will make yours and their day better. Literally. Anywhere I go, when I interact with strangers… “Hope you have a good rest of your day” “Cool nails! I really like the design” “Your shirt is awesome!” This kind of stuff may seem cheesy. Hell, you might have actually seen ME personally doing this at a store and laughed at me. But you know what? I try to improve the day in the SMALLEST ways for strangers. People can FEEL … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.Some of us are luckier than others 🤷♂️🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Men pretend theyre not as picky as women. Even the “desperate ones” are picky.My mentality As long as you are: single, kind to animals and service industry workers, fun, funny, and don’t look like a total foot, it’s worth a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:17 PM |
| – | Most people need to experience casual sex, especially men.Above average in what way? Quality versus aesthetics? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | A guy can be attractive to women regardless of whether he’s actually a good person.I foster and re-home dogs from a kill shelter. I will also go out of my way to cut you off in traffic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Straight men aren’t actually straightWhile the idea of umbrella-ing an entire gender seems laughable, I think what you are describing is a subset of men. I’ll give an example of what I was talking about a few weeks ago… Roman elites. It’s tough to quantify ALL of these men as gay, but they fall into a subset of people that ONLY fuck for the power dynamic, gender be damned. But is a small subset, and the idea of applying a label to a group that large is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 05:18 PM |
| – | Leftists have broken the dating system by being simp to womenWomen suck, men suck, people are individuals. -signed, a left-leaning, combat veteran | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever managed to change their type?It may not be the popular opinion, but as someone that’s your type, I think you should stick with your type. Because you know what you want, anytime you are going on a date with someone not your type, that little voice is going to live inside your head. You will subconsciously look for small flaws in order to extricate yourself from the relationship, denying in your head that it’s all based on physical compatibility. You have to have the balance, but without that physical attraction, most people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Mem are not that desperate irlANYTHING can be made into a cult, even good things. That all depends on the people, person, and approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:05 PM |
| – | Mem are not that desperate irlYou are responding to a red piller cloaking themselves in violet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)Quality time and words of affirmation probably are split, then acts, touch, and gifts. It was interesting to discover a few years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys keep implying that they either didn’t know shallow women existed or that they want shallow women.This isn’t a specific red/blue/purple. When anyone gets too deep into their own echo chamber, they start using edge cases for generalization. They start thinking rare and unique situations, probability-wise, are the norm, and start to adjust their personality accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward (and men know it)This is just too generalized. I can see where you are coming from, if the man/person is driven by physical touch. But as someone that loves sex but considers it 4th on his love language priorities, sex as a reward will never be a motivating factor for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 02:42 PM |
| 3 | A Women being unchosen is a much bigger failure than men being unchosen.Men are attracted to most things. They’re just typically more interested in how they are perceived for said choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:21 AM |
| 0 | Hiw many first Dates do you think a avarage men has?This is totally normal, IMO, but some other pillers won’t see it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:52 PM |
| 4 | Hypothetical choice (I think these are fun!)What people think goes on in my bedroom is none of my concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 03:25 AM |
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