| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 84 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standards | Question For Women | No_Mechanic_3299 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:43 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | why won't women engage with men?It’s both, but is usually often stemmed from physical/sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 22 | why won't women engage with men?It’s not a secret: most women are attracted to a very small minority of men. Since we’re traditionally the pursuers/initiators women can afford to be laid back and wait until a man they like approaches them. Or at least one they like enough. Sometimes the men they like don’t notice them either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 10:47 PM |
| 5 | It’s unhealthy for someone to never having someone else be romantically interested in them.This is what the average straight man goes through already 😭 even an average woman can have someone interested in her sexually/romantically. I’ve seen women complain that there’s always plentiful woman who are bad around, but hardly ever a handsome or cute man. Just what I’ve seen and heard over the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsShe’s some regular chick not an influencer; I actually met her at a party a long while ago. Also I’m not single….this is a genuine question for the sub….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsOr if you will meet him in your lifetime at all. Women also typically have more options than the average man so it makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsYeah I’ll agree it isn’t gender specific. My experience was a lot like yours when I met my wife. I basically gave up on women (and pursuing them) and decided to work on myself then she came out of nowhere. Life man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsIt doesn’t bother me…just asking to pick at it from the female perspective. I’ve seen women proclaim for the man of their dreams, but curve genuine interest and dating opportunities, which is their choice ofc. Is what it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 07:32 AM |
| 12 | Do you think the idea of the 666 is the sole reason why you, or some men struggle to get dates or sex?How tall are you and what earned you 6 figs? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 07:25 PM |
| 12 | The Case for Celibacy: Freedom from a Rigged GameMen really should remove themselves from dating if it’s a waste of time. A good amount of modern women are hypergamous and borderline transactional so jsut focus on yourself until you are in a much better position for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women desire respect for being *anything other than* sex objects. Men desire respect for *being* a sex objectI suffered from something similar to this and I just got married. My wife isn’t the only girl I’ve ever gone on dates with, but she’s the only one I’ve really dated if that makes sense. My dating history is full of misadventures; and of course I got rejected a ton. Almost made me genuinely give up on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Are women more intimidated by the husband material guy vs. the fuckboyI get what you’re saying, but showing some mutual interest or even firsthand interest isn’t a bad thing for a woman. Sometimes the guy may not know she’s into him. Anywya we are the initiators and approach, but this is also why men disproportionately (and for some constantly) face rejection much much more than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Having Significantly More Casual Sex Than Men, They Just Share The Men.I’ve read a couple places that have said male sexlessness has been increasing and expanding. Also women are more susceptible to STIs because of basic anatomy. They are traditionally the receptive partner which puts them at higher vulnerability than the penetrative partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 01:24 AM |
| 3 | If a guy is romantically struggling, but there are men who look like him and are the same height as him who aren’t struggling as much as him, what are those guys doing differently?6 pack makes more sense tbh 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 3 | If a guy is romantically struggling, but there are men who look like him and are the same height as him who aren’t struggling as much as him, what are those guys doing differently?Other than height and income, what’s the final 6? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 9 | How about some slightly less depressing, how should a guy healthily meet someone in 2024?Dating apps are VERY shallow with people mostly looking for hookups so I’d try mutual friends honestly. If you’re generally attractive all you have to do is go out honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreTo add to the last bullet or confident enough. I was that guy so I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymore🎯🎯🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreYup. Seen it in person. Women change their answers rules and conditions with men often based on how attractive they find them (I’m not just talking abo it sexual or physical attraction either). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIt’s really simple: women’s general attitude and complaints of guys approaching them (since women are typically disinterested in the majority of men) made men less bold. Also general fear of rejection etc. it’s almost not worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 02:29 PM |
| 4 | If you could make the opposite gender accept one thing as FACT, what would it be?🎯🎯🎯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresThey are legally adults of course, but optics and biases take over largely. Especially in a modern Western society like ours sex matters like race still does; why white counterparts are likely to get certain repercussions compared to Black Americans. Heck there was a case recently in Wisconsin where two female teachers at a high school were “forced to quit” by the district for sexchatting students and trying to set up an orgy. And of course the legal consequences are way lighter than had they be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Men are shamed for basically having sexual desiresThis double standard has always existed and will never go anywhere. Conversely when a man doesn’t fit this narrative and has no sexual experience (usually by mid adulthood 30s) he’s considered a weirdo creep or just a guys who repulses women when it could be another matter entirely. Some guys are nervous or late bloomers, but instead they get labeled as inept creeps for not hooking up with loads of women, despite the fact that it is infinitely easier for women to hook up and have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | why do women want marriage more than men?I’m currently going through this. My girl’s family is Jamaican and marriage has been in our plans (albeit my gf brought it up much sooner than I have and has always put more energy into me proposing, claiming her needs to “take the next step” etc. when I wanted to be more financially set and live together first; we’re long distance), so her family is looking st me to be the breadwinner in full transparency. Right now my gf makes more than me and bought a house last year and has started her real … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 03:53 AM |
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