No_Mirror_345 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	7 Ways to Find Out Her Real Body Count (Without Asking Directly) Interesting bio. I think you’re in the wrong sub and this advice isn’t accurate.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/25 02:14 PM
-2	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood Lies. The parent who has the most physical placement of the child is responsible for filing the FAFSA and parent plus loan application if money isn’t saved accordingly.	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 06:43 PM
-2	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood Why does OP refer to “unprotected sex” if it assumes an unwanted child?	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 06:40 PM
3	A man should be allowed to opt out of fatherhood Not sure how I feel about the concept, but if I accepted it, it would definitely have to be within the timeframe where it were legal to have an abortion. In too many states that’s not at all anymore. In others, it’s 6 weeks, etc. But you don’t get to spring it on the woman and have her scrambling to travel out of state, last minute, where there is a 3 week waiting list and missing the timeframe for an abortion. The decision to have an abortion typically takes into consideration whether or not yo…	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 06:35 PM
7	Losing attraction to my girlfriend because of her job Or you could date someone your age. You have no idea where this woman will be in 5 years. Until then, if it’s important to you, date someone who is already there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/25 05:45 AM
6	Husband wants a one sided open relationship what do I do? I don’t think he is likely to be swayed by #2, given his repeated comments about the nature/biology of men. He’s not a man who is convinced he can be monogamous, nor does he have the desire. He will be chasing 20-somethings when he’s 50. She will repeatedly be faced with knowing, or at least suspecting, he’s with a new woman. Why do you keep referring to her not having her act together? The only time I was betrayed, I was in my absolute prime, in all respects. Also curious why calling his bluff …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/24 12:31 PM
1	I am obsessed with my husband but he no longer is with me. Am I the only one who immediately jumped to the worst case scenario? It was refreshing to read some sound perspective.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/11/23 04:52 AM
1	Should I 26 F let my fiancé 30M sleep with other women? He’s been grooming you since you were 16 and he was 20; this is why blatant red flags are hard to see and walk away from. I don’t blame you for this, he seems like a master manipulator. Please, believe in your worth and don’t waste another moment of your youth on him. You will be very marketable if you leave now. Not so much after threesomes that you know in your heart you don’t want. Be brave. You can do this.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/23 04:49 AM
1	Should I 26 F let my fiancé 30M sleep with other women? Or he just just the type who won’t be monogamous regardless how attractive she is. Don’t put this on her. He wants out for other reasons, but whatever they are, set him free!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/10/23 04:42 AM
9	told friends I never say no to sex As can the feeling of being forced. You’re walking a fine line. Be careful and all the best.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/10/23 11:41 PM
5	Fearing reaction from my mom after telling her that my boyfriend is Arab Chances of him sleeping with you and marrying someone of the same faith and culture are high.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/09/23 12:54 PM
2	Good for the boyfriend, ngl By the time you’re bartending at a strip club, you’re already ‘not it’ for most good guys. Interesting place to draw the line in the sand.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/23 10:35 PM
7	Liberal women have an easier time dating I’ve always been afraid of feminist hell too! Lol. I would have feared expressing these things out loud, but fully agree. I completely struggle with what OF is doing to both women and men and the future of an entire generation having healthy relationships. Is this really what those before us fought for?	/r/RedPillWomen	14/08/23 06:40 PM
1	Age gap relationships are generally shamed by bitter older women Romeo and Juliet laws should exist, but age gap relationships before the prefrontal cortex is fully formed is sus. (Same for joining the military, becoming a cop, etc.) When the potential long term damage outweighs the benefit, should someone change their mind, this must be a consideration. Indoctrination isn’t cool.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/22 10:40 PM
1	Yeah cuz she needs that 200k a month for sure I read one article about this and it said that Kanye wouldn’t be “forking over” this amount to Kim for CS, this is just his share of the children’s expenses for tuition, security and a crap ton of other things that normal kids don’t experience.	/r/MensRights	01/12/22 03:08 PM
3	Women Initiate Most Divorces But Why? You didn’t have to do that to get 50/50, but I understand the fear. It says a lot about her that her initial demands for time with the kids could be negotiated with assets.	/r/MensRights	20/11/22 04:38 AM
2	Was I ungrateful? Yes. Absolutely and there are tons of videos on YouTube related to why 30 day no contact is best (and even effective if you want them back, although I don’t think you should).	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/22 02:34 PM
1	Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it. Yeah, these are all reasons I would’ve made up in my head to excuse the behavior of wishy washy guys when I was younger. But the truth is, nobody waits 2 weeks to text somebody they are truly into.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/22 07:49 PM
7	Why r women soooo picky and more importantly what can guys do about it. Very few men or women appreciate thirst behavior. That said, 2 weeks is obviously too long. I’m not sure what you expected after a complete display of disinterest like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:45 PM
6	Would you rather date a younger guy who looks older or an older guy who looks younger? Older who looks younger, although I can pass on the 6-pack. That said, a 40 yr old guy who is hyper fixated on the gym is typically lacking elsewhere. Also “genetically younger” isn’t a thing. You have no idea what either one looks like on the inside and older guys, just like older women, have more issues with infertility, regardless of looking younger. On its face this seems like an easy answer, but it’s not when you consider all factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 03:00 PM
7	The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned. Yes, trash	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 06:27 PM
7	The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of average Woman as he would act no differently if the tables where turned. This mis-matched libido thing doesn’t switch up later in life. Men who want to cheat do so. Now. Later. Single. Married.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 06:26 PM
4	Smart moves for 40 year old woman? You should see your OB immediately and discuss freezing your eggs. 5-10 years ago would’ve been better, but now is better than tomorrow (and esp in 2 years)! We should really discuss this with young women more often. Our biological clocks don’t work in our favor and often put us in positions to make less than ideal positions with men, or decisions that may not be ideal for a child. My suggestion would be to freeze your eggs and allow yourself some time to let things play out organically with Mr.…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/22 10:36 PM
0	My story as the “perfect guy” who can’t get girls and why this is so common Move to Texas where you’re allowed to be openly racist and oppress women. This is your solution?	/r/MensRights	12/09/22 03:18 PM
4	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? Not happening, sorry. He might get a chance when he’s 35 though and they’re either still single or divorced. But at 21 hot girls are looking for hot guys, who typically make them chase. Also, simping for vapid hot girls is not the move. Promise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 05:42 PM
7	I’m honestly getting tired of defending myself as a man But who is actually putting out the content? What’s the demographic?	/r/MensRights	07/09/22 01:41 PM
2	Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you? Bahahahah. Hopefully you’re wealthy for that strategy to have any chance of playing out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/22 11:58 PM
6	Giving woman your own age a chance why? Except at 30, she’s considering her biological clock so every year younger on his end matters bc science.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:43 PM
7	what exactly are the standards for an average man ? Avg ht of US man is 5’9”, avg wt is 200lbs	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/22 06:39 PM
1	Girlfriend tells me she hates men; it hurts me, but what am I supposed to do? Bounce.	/r/MensRights	12/07/22 06:59 PM
3	how to make sure I don't get consumed by medical school as a woman that has dreams of getting married and settling down ? The above comment was removed so I can’t see what it said, but I’m a pediatric nurse, and mother married to a physician. I always coincidentally dated residents bc I worked at a teaching hospital. They seemed to always find my career and passion endearing. As others have said, men appreciate nurturing, compassionate women. Men, including my husband, have given me reasons as to why they preferred nurses over women doctors, but they were pursuing me (a nurse). So I don’t know that sharing their re…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/22 01:14 AM
8	Red pill marriage…almost… For most healthy individuals IF is fine and some believe beneficial. However in OP’s case she reports symptoms that could indicate hypothyroidism, pre-diabetes, etc; in these cases she would want to work with a physician and/or nutritionist to develop a plan best suited for her. ETA-this is not medical advice	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/22 09:44 PM
1	Red pill marriage…almost… Make sure to have comprehensive lab work prior to starting IF, but if all is well, yes!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/22 08:35 PM
5	I so desperately want to be loved Yep, those stories are all over the place.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/22 02:18 PM
2	I so desperately want to be loved It’s very typical for people who are in therapy and being medicated to struggle with losing weight.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/04/22 02:17 PM
6	What is your opinion on the new Oklahoma abortion law. Thanks, to you. No thanks on the law.	/r/MensRights	07/04/22 01:18 PM
2	What is your opinion on the new Oklahoma abortion law. What’s being proposed?	/r/MensRights	07/04/22 12:57 PM
2	Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value. Eh. But she is also fine dating a hotter guy, her own age, finishing his residency, with debt and potential. Money isn’t everything to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 03:04 PM
4	Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not? I don’t know that I disagree, but we don’t have a great way to measure given WW are also afforded superior access to health care and mental health care, therefore being more likely to receive a diagnosis. Likewise, they are more likely to be believed by law enforcement regarding claims of SA and more likely to confide in LE in the first place. It’s impossible to know what claims are made to friends, family, etc. Hard to know what numbers would look like without huge disparities in place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/21 06:04 PM
3	I think this has been talked about but... Huh. I wasn’t aware this was a thing. I did recently see a bunch of gay guys objectifying a gay guy who had just come out though and was amazed that it seemed completely acceptable. I thought it was disgusting. I suppose we each have our own triggers based on our personal experiences.	/r/MensRights	27/08/21 10:42 PM
-5	if women are equal to men, or superior, why do they need alimony? Except getting ‘knocked up’ doesn’t result in alimony.	/r/MensRights	26/08/21 04:41 PM
5	I’m unhappy with my hardworking boyfriend Reading this I have so many different thoughts. I can’t decide completely how I feel, so I will refrain from commenting on that. I do just want to add that you are both so young. The pre-frontal cortex of your brain(s) isn’t even fully developed until around 26. Read up on this as well. Figure out the likelihood for change and go from there. It’s going to be hard for him to love you well, until/unless he loves himself. This sounds like the missing link.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/21 12:59 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Exactly, we’re only beaming if we’re into you. What do you mean leading you on? Just through the first date? Or beyond? Can you give an example? I was inclined to push back, but I want to understand first. I ask bc guys say they are never complimented, but then seem to take ‘You’re cute’ as being led on. What if we are just being honest and polite, but also not incredibly interested. Is it best to withhold any positive feedback?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 07:24 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Lol this was a rollercoaster of a read.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 05:53 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Your assessment is correct. And yes, if you’re getting all the signals on a first date (especially after kissing), but no sex, you can’t assume it meant nothing simply bc there was no sex. I agree. The more into someone I am, or the more l desire something long lasting with that person, the more likely I am to fiercely override any animalistic urge to sleep with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 04:04 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Boo. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:51 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread I can’t speak for men, but most women in that age range don’t know how to tell the difference and, to some degree, aren’t thinking far enough ahead to care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:50 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Worse in what way? As a sign of the person being over you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:47 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive Exactly. I know that a guy with who fat shames other women and uses the word “retarded” is never going to get me off, regardless of how hot he is. So spare me the two minutes that I’ll never get back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:29 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive About the idea that women aren’t worth befriending or communicating with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:18 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive At a bar, in a sea of people (including hot ones), yes, if I woman is talking to you it’s because she finds you somewhat attractive. Why would she spend her whole night devoting time talking to someone she found ugly when the time could be spent cutting the conversation short and starting one with someone attractive and worth pursuing for more? It sounds like you have your mind made up that everything is a lost cause. I guess trying to change your mind here would be nearly impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 02:15 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive I believe it and I’m sorry. Dating can be a draining process. If you’re using apps and it’s not working, it’s probably for a combination of reasons. Probably mostly looks based, but also simply because women get so many matches. You need to really stand out from the crowd and then if you do get a match, you need to communicate effectively. If my DMs have 100 “Sup beautiful?” message and three messages with jokes or questions or just not the lowest effort possible-those are the ones I respond to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 01:37 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive Looks match. If you’re a 5, women who are a 5ish. Have you been realistic with your expectations and also actively tried and failed every time? Or if not you, do you think this is happening regularly for men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 12:56 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive So you’ve gone hard at pursuing your LM and never once been successful?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:18 AM
2	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? True. However, even when I was dating at the height of my insecurity, I would’ve tolerated the BS for me, but not for you. My friend group was fit and “hot” by societal standards; but none of us would’ve dated a guy who was mean to other girls. You don’t date a rapist just because he doesn’t rape you. Gross. Good treatment feels like home. I know it sounds cheesy, but it feels safe. No looming anxiety. No uncertainly. Someone who is mindful and consistent, doesn’t keep you guessing. Someone who …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:11 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Haha. I thought the Epstein sentence was the best part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 12:46 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, because what you end up with is a simp who you aren’t attracted to. The worst of all worlds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 12:09 AM
1	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? If this guy is actually hooking up with willing, hot women which I highly doubt, given his own admission that he trades vacations for sex, they are insecure and willing to tolerate poor treatment. No self respecting, hot girl, dates a guy like this for fun. There are plenty of hot guys who are confident, without being assholes. I wouldn’t let this guy’s dick anywhere near me. Between the off putting language, boomer philosophies and the way he has spoken to you, I think there is a low probabilit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 11:23 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Based on her definition of “hair pulling”, I don’t trust she knows what a narcissist is either. Everyone disinterested is probably a “narcissist” and a “gaslighter“.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 09:27 PM
3	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive Ok I don’t know what you look like, but let’s say you’re a solid 3. You should be seeking women who are also 3’s +- 1. Now think about it. Do you think women who are 2s-4s are heavily pursued in social settings? Probably not. So they feel like you do. Undesirable and insecure. They don’t know how to show interest or approach because they fear you won’t be interested. Be realistic and then show interest. It’s the only way to find out. Otherwise tap out and...idk...pay for hot women, if that’s a n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 08:26 PM
3	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive I understand the argument, but who are all the girls 7 or less sleeping with? Nobody? Doubtful. If you’re a 7 and opposed to dating the same, how is that the fault of women? Those women may agree that Michael B. Jordan is hot, but they have likely come to terms with the fact that he’s unattainable. Guys just tend to bat out of their league. I didn’t pursue people who I felt were out of my league. Many times I ended up being wrong and therefore pleasantly surprised. But I wasn’t setting myself up…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 08:06 PM
6	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive She is not an anomaly! The men I’ve dated are the men I’m most attracted to, but I’ve dated really hot guys who’ve turned out to be dumb as rocks and I become repulsed. If I want to jump their bones it’s because I find them attractive, funny, smart, kind and into me, without being a simp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 07:49 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive Co-sign on physique	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 07:30 PM
31	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive Admittedly, I can see truth in this. I had no idea until recently that the average height for males in the U.S. is 5’9”. Most of the guys I dated have been 6’2-6’4”, with one outlier at 6’7”. I may have suspected the guys were slightly taller than average, but I wasn’t paying attention to anyone else. So, yes, I didn’t recognize how much taller than average they actually were. I would’ve thought the average male height was 6 ft.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 07:19 PM
15	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive I don’t get why men don’t believe this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 05:22 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive A woman below stated a preference for “skinny, rockstar bodies”; you’re in luck. Also, there are ways to bulk up if you feel it necessary; but it’s a lot of work. Most women don’t want to outweigh you, so consider that when you are pursuing women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 04:44 PM
1	Women, describe a physically "universally attractive man" which encompasses what you feel is attractive and what the majority of women also find attractive This is mostly spot on for me as well. I would add any beard or scruff should have clean/defined lines. The same goes for hair, no matter the length or style. Shoes are important. Jeans are important. Not brands necessarily, but have an idea of what is on trend. If the trend isn’t flattering on your body (skinny jeans), avoid it! Say ‘no’ to graphic tees, especially those portraying brands. Old Navy 4th of July t-shirt? Burn it. Bud lite t-shirt burn it? I hate that I even have to mention this, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/21 04:22 PM
–	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying You deleted your comment, but confirmed that he owns the home. In this case, I think it is appropriate that he pay the mortgage as if the relationship were to end, you would not get any equity in the home. Splitting costs on other things and showing your appreciation in the way that you are is acceptable, IMO.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 03:35 PM
1	Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future? Absolutely, but especially to the last sentence.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/21 02:26 PM
12	Reddit, why you so misandrist? Tired of being downvoted for calling out misandry. Or what didn’t you do?	/r/MensRights	22/08/21 04:48 AM
4	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying I don’t think basic respect has much to do with feminism. My grandfather wasn’t a raging feminist, but he certainly appreciated my grandma’s efforts and treated her respectfully. He would’ve never expected her to take care of things like lawn maintenance and A/C. This man sounds like he wants the best of all worlds. He either needs to be in a position to hire help or let her quit her job. One person can only do so many things well. This woman is doing more than most, from the sounds of it-especi…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/21 11:19 PM
2	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying “Marriage and children are in the horizon and we have good plans in place for all that.” If you don’t mind, what plans are in place? As a 30 year old woman your time is precious. As a 35 year old man, 3 years into a relationship he knows whether or not he is going to marry you. Ask any married man whether it took him 3 years to figure out whether or not his wife was the one. You have to be willing to consider the possibility that he is looking for reasons to drag his feet. If he isn’t manufactur…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/21 11:06 PM
1	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying boyfriend* though 🥴	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/21 10:46 PM
1	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying He pays the mortgage; but he owns the home, correct? You moved in to a home owned by him? That is how your OP read. Correct me if I’m wrong.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/21 10:38 PM
4	My partner doesn't acknowledge how hard I'm trying He shouldn’t be taking the opportunity to transfer it onto her. He’s a 35 year old man. What happens if they have children?	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/21 10:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Bahaha. Thanks for sharing. I just entered my preferences and got 1%. Thats for an unmarried, man, of any race, who isn’t obese, is making at least 50K/yr annnnd, the kicker, is at least 6’0”. After seeing yours, I even extended to age 50, which I don’t actually want, but figured it may help my odds. Looks like I need to head back to compromise some more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/21 09:34 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread All I see is ignorance with a touch of snark. Pretty much the worst combo. Although, the best kind to remain unvaccinated, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/21 09:17 PM
8	Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you. I agree. It’s laughable. Most of the guys who fear this have absolutely no reason to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/21 08:23 AM
0	Women not wanting to date you because you’re ugly, short, and not attractive are valid reasons to not want to sex/date you. It doesn’t work long term.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/21 08:19 AM
1	Result of Divorce Hah. Says the person who can’t differentiate between ‘to’ and ‘too’. Your third grade teacher would be proud. The real struggle seems to be your comprehension. Good day.	/r/MensRights	20/08/21 02:34 PM
3	Virgins at age 26: who are they? I’m going to push back on most of this; but for anyone with this mindset I can see the conundrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/21 03:53 AM
1	Some of the blue pill gaslighting that doesn't exist. You were right. It’s much more to do with our methodology than your terminology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 06:44 PM
13	Some of the blue pill gaslighting that doesn't exist. Ugh. I hate to admit the truth in this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/21 06:39 PM
2	Coercive control: Male victims say they aren't believed Reach out to the lady running we.rise.movement on IG. She is pro se representing herself and helping men and women who are getting screwed in family court. Her husband is a high powered attorney and she is attempting to expose the judicial corruption. She is a little off, but quite intelligent especially when it comes to this process. At least use her as a sounding board. She is desperate to talk to other parents who are victims of this kind of coercive control. Her whole belief is that protecti…	/r/MensRights	19/08/21 12:59 AM
1	Result of Divorce Same in the US	/r/MensRights	19/08/21 12:32 AM
1	Result of Divorce A relationship with both parents is ideal. This is what his daughter currently has. Why would you wish a broke or absent parent on anyone? He isn’t going anywhere and will remain in his daughter’s life, as he should.	/r/MensRights	19/08/21 12:31 AM
0	Result of Divorce I’m all for healthy co-parenting, but I guess the idea of him having to let you know every single time he has anyone over just so that your child doesn’t happen to pop over would be a bit of a concern for me too. I wouldn’t ask him to move out, but I would probably have him come to my place. At least initially. I honestly would have no desire to meet you before I even decided if I liked him.	/r/MensRights	19/08/21 12:16 AM
6	Tall women, particularly those 5’7” or taller, here’s an interesting question. I’m 5’9”, same here. I have never been aware that my height was an issue, but perhaps short men have avoided me without my knowledge. Obviously we aren’t aware of most of the people who avoid us or why. Men I have dated have always expressed that my height was an asset, but they have generally also been above average height. Last night, in another sub was the first time I had ever seen tall women being discussed in a negative light. The theory was that men prefer “tiny” women, closer to 5 feet, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 11:18 PM
3	Should I be concerned about reliability/lack of clear plan for the future, or let it go? All of these things are relatable. I have been there. There was a point where I would’ve suggested just to take it slow, so long as you were enjoying day to day life with him and see where you ended up. That is terrible advice. The truth of the matter is that wanting to be married with a child on the way by age 30, doesn’t give you a ton of wiggle room for non-committal men. Now 30 isn’t a magic number and I hate to think of you stressing about a specific age or date, especially since there is s…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/08/21 08:25 PM
2	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina Why are you like this?	/r/MensRights	18/08/21 03:03 AM
1	Should I be concerned about reliability/lack of clear plan for the future, or let it go? I don’t love this for you. I’m curious how you’ve ended up paying. Have you been offering? Are you comfortable sending him a Venmo request?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/21 11:58 PM
1	Should I be concerned about reliability/lack of clear plan for the future, or let it go? To clarify, do you actually know with certainty that you would want a family with him right now?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/21 11:49 PM
0	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina His delivery had some problems, but I hope guys find reassurance in his second to last paragraph bc he’s right.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 10:19 PM
2	META: Is anyone else feeling extremely stressed being in the "neutral" space that is the purple-pill on the red-pill and blue-pill spectrum? Hah. I was reading that book at work, years ago, I accidentally left it at the nurses station and when I came back a doctor had left a post-it note on the cover. It said, “Because they weren’t bitches when we married them.” I never did finish the book, but it did prompt an interesting discussion with him about his thoughts and what he would do differently if he could do it all over. Definitely insightful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 04:45 PM
0	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina Me: what’s going on now isn’t the same as (aka equal to) the dictionary definition. You: Some random dictionary definition doesn’t equal truth. Are we done yet?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:15 PM
3	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina fem·i·nism /ˈfeməˌnizəm/ noun the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. I said strictly, “by definition“, what’s going on is not feminism. I stand by my statement. Never did I say that the way it was enacted wasn’t problematic, however in talking about the here and now, feminism is more problematic for men than ever before. When I went to college, for example, if you got drunk, had sex with a guy who was also drunk and woke up regretting it, you chalked it up to a…	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 01:19 PM
1	Expectations vs. Reality: What We Think the Opposite Gender Wants It is interesting. I’m 5 ft 9 inches and I’ve always gotten positive feedback. I guess we all think we’re killing the game. 🤣 In reality, we’re probably pursued by the men who find our height attractive to them. But if you 5 foot’ers could stop pursuing the 6 foot 3 guys that would be appreciated 😆	/r/RedPillWomen	17/08/21 07:03 AM
0	A nice feminist comment section. Of course not a single rational argument for any points I made. Just emotional name calling I just want to be June Cleaver. Is that so much to ask? Lol.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 06:39 AM
2	Suicide Squad star Joel Kinnaman under investigation for rape \| Woman now alleges he raped her in 2018 after he reported her to police for extortion and took out a restraining order against her obsessive attempts to contact him They are uncovered, but I’m not sure they’re convicted. I think most of the time there are no consequences.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 06:12 AM
1	Suicide Squad star Joel Kinnaman under investigation for rape \| Woman now alleges he raped her in 2018 after he reported her to police for extortion and took out a restraining order against her obsessive attempts to contact him Inability or unwillingness?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 06:11 AM
-5	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina What’s happening now isn’t feminism, by definition though. Whatever it is, is gross.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 06:04 AM
-1	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina But were you joking? You were basically saying that women think they walk on water and overestimate their worth sexually or otherwise, which in many cases is true. Is it not? How am I a misandrist for agreeing with your main point? If acknowledging that scented tampons, douches, “feminine washes”, strawberry vaginal suppositories, fruit flavored lube, etc. are all means of teaching us that vaginas are supposed to smell like fresh fruit makes me sexist then ok. These are products designed mostly …	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 05:34 AM
9	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina This is like advocating for the police to murder white people bc they are doing it to black people. The goal is to end police brutality-against everyone. You’re arguing for the lowest form of humanity. No thanks. Some things simply aren’t funny. Those being things out of people’s control.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 05:06 AM
4	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina So are you advocating that everyone is humiliated? Or no one? I can’t tell from your comment. “Nothing is wrong with either of those things...”? Things, being the statements made or the anatomy as referenced?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:25 AM
2	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina Of course it’s voluntary in the same way you can squeeze the muscles to stop your urine stream. Different muscles, but same concept.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:23 AM
-3	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina Ok, now you’ve met one who doesn’t believe any of that. But please, it’s men and advertising/media who think that vaginas/vulvas are supposed to smell like fruit. As for the rest, clearly no two vaginas are the same and no one vagina is the same throughout its lifespan.	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:18 AM
25	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina Why would it be acceptable to make fun of anatomy that someone has zero control over?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:13 AM
5	You can shame a man for having a small or average penis, but cannot shame a women for having a loose vagina I am willing to agree and admit that this is wrong; but this was not always the case. Not by a long shot. How did we get here?	/r/MensRights	17/08/21 04:11 AM