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Field ReportNo_Professor1089/r/seduction17/11/25 07:56 AM
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ConversationNo_Professor1089/r/seduction27/11/25 07:30 PM
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Outer Game No_Professor1089/r/seduction17/10/25 11:01 PM
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A week before valentines, I went out to the mall and approached 10, got rejected 6 times. That was my most for the day
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:51 PM
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I've been approaching for months now but only realizing now how important it is. If she's not exuding same energy and vibe as you are, you might want to end the convo. If its not a fuck yes, its a no
/r/seduction16/01/26 09:49 PM
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This is my takeaway, will start adding these into my routine
/r/seduction13/01/26 01:21 PM
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I like the advice because this is something I know I have to do but I haven't been doing it. For example, i feel like asking for directions and saying hi to stranger is below me because I think I'm 'too good for it'. My ego prevents me from doing that even though I know i should do it just to keep social momentum. I think the time aspect of it is something new for me but sounds reasonable. Maybe like max 2 mins of gap between last interaction and next so you can capitalize on social momentum. Be…
/r/seduction12/01/26 05:14 PM
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Great breakdown I dont do nightgame but mostly daygame I also feel like its really important to build social momentum. I've seen massive confidence difference on days where I build social momentum vs days I dont. It's day and night difference. Any other specific tips for day game?
/r/seduction12/01/26 05:02 PM
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What are some tips to keep high vibes and energy? Like actual practical day to day tips?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:58 PM
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This sounds interesting. A few months back my aim was just to get rejected more times so I treat it as normal but looks like it's faded away now. I gotta start getting rejected more
/r/seduction07/01/26 12:38 PM
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I have a lot of anxiety to approach girls when other people are around me but its easy when she is alone and the area is empty. How do I fix this?
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:18 PM
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What if they say something like 'why are you talking to me?'
/r/seduction06/01/26 05:17 PM
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Can you give examples of some of these
/r/seduction04/12/25 11:01 PM
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I agree that these topics are boring but have to start with these because you literally cannot start with the most random topic
/r/seduction01/12/25 05:24 PM
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You talk about weather, movies etc just to get your for in the for in the first 20-40 secs. You can try cold reading her and making observational comments After that, you shift the conversation to her. Basic intros and then about get hobbies, why she's in that place and then you take it from there
/r/seduction01/12/25 03:42 AM
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You're actually right that it seems contradictory that approaching itself is you having more interest and on surface seems needy. But non neediness comes in when you know you can pull back or move away from the girl if she doesn't show interest. That's non neediness and detachment The ability to pull back and approach another girl
/r/seduction30/11/25 04:35 AM
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The problem is here in my country girls are conservative and dont give out numbers easily so Instagram is a good way to get foot in the door
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:54 PM
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That was my exact thought process. I've lost a lot of girls because of having mo Instagram so my aim is just to start a comvo with them on Instagram and maybe setup a date/get her number
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:54 PM
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Yeah that would be problem because I'll be creating a new Instagram account..obviously I'll grow it in time but my aim is to just get into DMs and then set up a date or get her number from there
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:53 PM
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Yeah I have 2 malls nearby which I can use as practice grounds
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:18 PM
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I agree with this partly. It's natural to want to talk to girl but my country is a bit conservative so it isnt too appreciated when strangers talk to each other especially if the girl is under 20
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:18 PM
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I agree with your point and usually I do indirect approaches 80% of the time and direct ones 20% of the time. I usually ask them for song recommendations and if they have good vibes that I continue to conversation with them. My area isnt small but I have seen a lot of regular people around so I definitely need to change my area for some time and practice some place else. Thank you for your inputs
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:17 PM
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I'm 23 for reference
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:14 PM
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Yeah going indirect works better because its subtle and also helps you see if the other person's vibes are good
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:06 PM
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Yes I agree with this, I reflected on this and I agree my frame was shaken by the sudden reaction
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:03 PM
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You know girls these days look way mature than their actual age especially young girls so its hard to tell But from now on if I have any doubt about their age, I'm gonna bail the approach
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:02 PM
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That's fair enough but honestly I didn't recognize her or her friend
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:13 AM
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Yeah I'll probably do that
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:13 AM
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Should I avoid the area for some time until they forget or should I keep going. In this Ive learned one lesson which is to not go too direct on girls especially in areas where I'm frequently seen
/r/seduction17/11/25 08:08 AM
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Nope I went in direct tho. 'Excuse me, I know this is random but I thought you were cute and I had to come say hi'. But I'm in a third world country so being too forward is seen as bad thing here
/r/seduction17/11/25 08:07 AM
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damn that is bad
/r/seduction17/11/25 07:48 AM
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Yesterday I approached a girl and apparently her friend recognized me because I had hit on her sister a few weeks back so she recognized me. They walked away leaving me hanging. So I lost 3 girls and maybe some more in my area who might be her friends
/r/seduction17/11/25 05:07 AM
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No worries man, great first approach tho I approached a girl today as well and she said she's engaged to someone so I had to fuck off but not I felt proud after the approach
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:25 PM
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I think you already know what to say or have interesting things to say but you dont have the guts to say it yet. Part of it might be that you're still outcome dependent and hence you still look needy When you truly become outcome independent, you can say whatever comes to your mind and a lot of it will be interesting things
/r/seduction13/11/25 09:21 PM
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Started a few months back and now I did 2 approached today, I need to ramp up the numbers but I'm very selective but hoping to get to 10 approaches per day soon
/r/seduction11/11/25 06:47 PM
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The thrill is in the uncertainty
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:09 AM
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This is good advice. Your mood determines your approach dynamics.
/r/seduction06/11/25 05:25 PM
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social momentum - start with small compliments to people, small talk and then start approaching once you have momentum
/r/seduction06/11/25 10:11 AM
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One of the first few! You'll laugh at this a few months from now
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:06 PM
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I ask girls for their spotify song recommendations and then steer it from there. If she likes a particular song, i tease her on it, add comments playfully and then start flirting. This has worked for me becasue you can screen them before and check their vibes
/r/seduction03/11/25 10:01 PM
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Obviously that's your starting point - ask her about something you may not have understood, or discuss fan theories or anything related and then steer the convo from there
/r/seduction31/10/25 09:03 PM
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You can ask her about any changes in college admin, how's the lectures etc small talk
/r/seduction31/10/25 08:27 PM
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Second that
/r/seduction31/10/25 07:05 PM
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Do you guys have same lectures?
/r/seduction31/10/25 06:31 PM
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This is something that I tried out today and maybe it will work really well if you try it as well. So you want to do just ask them about any of their favorite things. For example, with their favorite Spotify playlist, Spotify songs, favorite movies, web series, anything just to get the conversation going. And once you see that interest, then you can take the conversation from them. If your vibes match, then you can escalate further. And if you don't think the vibes matching, then you can simply …
/r/seduction27/10/25 07:05 PM
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That's true but I didn't want to risk it
/r/seduction27/10/25 05:52 PM
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I actually just approached a girl asking for her spotify recommendations and it went to movies, series and other stuff and then at the end she says she's 17. But I'd say I brought a smile on her face and made her day
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:13 PM
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I had this happen to me about 2 weeks back. I had a great conversation with this girl and she was happy to give me her number. Next day when we started talking, she randomly said I'm not her type. Now she did look a lot older when I approached her and my aim was to friend zone her later. But she friend zoned me the very next day saying I'm not her type. She said we can stay friends. But I don't see that happening so moving to the next girl now. There are too many girls in the world to be stuck o…
/r/seduction26/10/25 07:08 PM
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Track everything
/r/seduction20/10/25 02:47 AM
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But if you switch from her to her friend, it might become awkward and the friend might think she's your 2nd option
/r/seduction17/10/25 11:36 PM
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Yeah silences where you just look at each other seductively is hot
/r/seduction15/10/25 10:48 PM
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Correct - your frame should be stronger than hers then she'll feel your masculine energy
/r/seduction15/10/25 06:37 PM
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Keys to THE VIP
/r/seduction14/10/25 09:26 PM
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Dad's a legend
/r/seduction13/10/25 10:14 PM
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Is it really common for girls to touch you in the first conversation? I've had girls hold strong eye contact with me, little flirting but no touching yet. Is it really common or they're not as interested in me? Maybe it differs from region to region?
/r/seduction09/10/25 07:59 PM
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This is true. A lot of them will project their own insecurities and what they feel in the moment but others will have good vibes when you approach them. You can't control their reactions but you can control yours. Just detach yourself from the outcome and stay in the vibe
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:25 AM
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For me taking to other random strangers has changed everything - helps your brain calm down and detach from the outcome
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:53 AM
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I'm loving the replies here because I personally haven't seen anybody close to me who's great with girls so this is an eye opener to me
/r/seduction19/09/25 08:09 PM
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I second this If you're able to approach strangers, you'll get confidence to approach women as well. You'll realize they're just humans with similarities like us. You'll be in social momentum once to start by taking to strangers
/r/seduction20/06/25 06:58 PM
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This has some good stuff https://www.friendlywrenchilling.com/all-approaching-excuses-and-limiting-beliefs-debunked/
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:49 PM
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This helps me too- warms me up for upcoming social interactions
/r/seduction16/05/25 05:43 PM
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More on 14th please
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:03 PM
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