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So guys are just supposed to roll over and accept that they aren't good enough to reproduce? Just go die alone in a ditch? It's slave morality. If I have the choice between living in a sexually free society where I'm miserable and lonely, and living in a society with enforced monogamy where I'm not, then I'm sorry, but I frankly don't give a shit about the toxic and unhealthy dynamic. I'm not going to roll over and die like a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:10 PM

Guys aren't going to sit back and just let it happen for long. It's going to reach a critical mass eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:06 PM
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Shyness for women is a personality trait. In men, it's a personality flaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:03 PM
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Women have easier access to sexual partners in basically every context. So how can any non monogamous couple avoid that problem unless the guy is literally a cuck and gets off to the fact that you get more play than him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:00 PM
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Guys that can't get casual sex can't get relationships either. For some reason people separate this, but if you can't get a girl to fuck you odds are you can't get a girl to date you. SMV and RMV are pretty much the same unless you have some serious relationship-ending personality issue like BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:58 PM
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Yeah, you're such a winner, that's why you're hanging out on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:56 PM
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Women will do this too. Lots of girls just wanna have fun, and don't want to commit. Trust me, plenty of girls have lost interest because I wanted a girlfriend. In all honesty this isn't a new problem, it's just that society used to take care of this by enforcing monogamy as a cultural norm very strongly, and now they don't. There's no problem, the system is working exactly as it's intended to. The winners win, and the losers lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:52 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Egalitarian attitudes don't make you more sexually attractive. Going to the gym would be a far better use of time. A modern attitude is nice and all but it doesn't make girls want to fuck you more if you're not attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:47 PM
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That's why you just lie, and frame it like you've been focusing on school, or just haven't met the right person yet. Even telling her that she specifically makes you nervous works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:14 AM
1

Why do people get angry when I say stuff like that in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:48 AM
1

Love is only real for beautiful people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:44 AM
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It's too late for mine. I dropped out and had to finish online living at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:38 AM
1

How did he fix this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:35 AM
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They make me sick. Of course, we do have to remember, men are like this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:27 AM
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Why does it hurt so much to be an incel then, if it's just that? You're telling me that all of this pain is simply because I'm wired to make babies at 12 and die?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:20 AM

Then why do ugly people exist? Why is God cruel?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:05 AM
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Women only love one night stands with top tier guys, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:03 AM
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Romance and sex are the same thing. Love is sex, at least, sex is a large part of love. If you want sex, you have to be attractive and assertive, and if you want a relationship, you have to be attractive and assertive. "Being yourself" is worthless if your natural personality isn't charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:01 AM
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If you want sex and can't get it, it's a good strategy. Immoral sure, but it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:27 PM
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You have one's number?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:22 AM
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People don't want him bro, he's a dorky young dude, get real. It's not like it's a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:37 AM
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In the real world there is a bit more leeway. The general rules are there but the SMV gets fuzzy, and a lot of times stuff happens that doesn't fit so neatly into systems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:36 AM
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Yeah cause if you're skinny and cute a guy is going to reject you because you don't have a big round ass. You have to realize it's just different for women, girls reject guys over height all the live long day, no guy is going to reject a girl for her boobs not being big enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:29 AM
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Small in comparison to what? How many different cocks have you seen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:24 AM
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What about goals? What about life, a fulfilling career, a family? It's all just unattainable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:29 PM
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Women act like I do something wrong by wanting to have sex with them. I see your point, people will do what they want, people will act in whatever way they please.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:24 PM
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Platitudes are not reflective of real life. Whoever said that was a fucking moron, nothing is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:03 PM
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No, what happens is she lets the hot fun bad boy have whatever sexual wants he has because she breaks rules for him, while she make your simp ass wait like a good little dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:58 PM
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Fair enough. I do feel like avoiding it helps, you can overdose on Red pills. I'm just going to workout and focus on my social skills and if it works it works. If not I'm just going to be a monk. I honestly feel like just organically trying to figure it out is better than a dedicated strategy. I'm no slayer, I've kissed one girl and got a handjob from another, but other than that KHHV. I'm not even ugly, just fat. I feel like this stuff can be helpful, but it's all fairly intuitive. It takes pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:52 PM
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For me, being exposed to black pill and red pill at an early age really fucked my head up. I remember seething every day all throughout highschool, and I have legitimately wanted to end things for good several times. Maybe blue pill me would have been happier, maybe not. But I don't think this knowledge helped. My earliest experience were seeing girls go after bad boys and not nerdy guys like me, I was aware of that long before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:50 AM

So are men though? I'm an incels, and I'm sure I could date a fat ugly girl if I wanted to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:10 AM
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What if said knowledge radicalizes someone, or promotes self deletion? What if someone is using the knowledge as a form of self harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:07 AM
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Maybe they don't care because they've given up? Hate to break it to you, but New Balances and Cargo shorts are what dad's mostly wear, they're getting some somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:05 AM
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We are all so fucked. Man's hubris opened the Pandora's box of the internet, everything all at once all the time, and we cannot close it. I honestly agree, I think we're just up shits creek, I don't see a solution, and neither do a lot of people way smarter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 05:01 AM
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How? I've managed to squash down the hate and resentment to a small little clump of it's former self, but it's still there deep inside. It can still be triggered, in the right situation. How do I call it completely?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:52 AM
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I'm decent looking and came from a good family, but I was horrifically shy and anxious and couldn't get laid to save my life. I basically just gave up and started getting fat cause I stopped caring. I'm actually fairly happy, just lonely at times. Garbage food can be my girlfriend I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:29 AM

If you can't have it it's torture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:26 AM
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Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 10:15 PM
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Subtle manipulation still.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:06 AM
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When heroin addicts buy heroin they know what they're getting into also.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:06 AM
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I want a misandrist gf that I can teach to not hate men so she can teach me how not to hate women. It's very romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:00 AM
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"I got a blank space baby, and I'll write your name."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:49 PM
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String her along and don't marry her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:43 PM
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Maybe she's starting to like him despite his autism. If you fuck someone that's not disgusting enough times you would have to be a complete psychopath to not start to care about them a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 11:39 PM
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You would have to take away women's rights to fix this, and also get rid of video games and porn for men. Nothing can be done, short of deliberately removing sex education from any curriculum, and showing everyone how to live like a feudal European serf that has nothing better to do than make babies. Not saying babies are bad, but most people now would rather have a few at an older age rather than as many as possible at 20 years old to help on the farm or whatever. People invest more into one ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:56 PM
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Look at female vs male podcasts in general. Women are just not interested in deep or philosophical conversations generally. There's your occasional dorky female like JustPearlyThings who is clearly feminine but also autistic enough to be interested in stuff like this, but it's mostly dudes. Women are not too stupid to engage, look at PPD, they just generally don't gaf about any of this, they're too busy watching little women of LA and looking at Instagram or whatever. Men and women talk about di…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:48 PM
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They deserve it. How does it feel to be on the bottom? Does it sting? Do you feel worthless, do you feel like a used tissue crumpled up in the trash? Good. The tables have turned, it's your turn to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:00 AM
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The simple solution is to lie. These desperate 30 year olds are so easy. "Oh yeah, I love you" then you immediately dump her as soon as you get your nut off. The revenge is sweeter than the sex, honestly. It feels so freeing, to finally make the women feel like compete dogshit, like they have to you for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:58 AM
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My parents are 10x the people these worthless whores are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:52 AM
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They're all the same women. The follow their biological urges above all else. It's their turn to be on the bottom for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:49 AM
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They don't deserve compassion. The anger and pain eats you alive. It consumes you. It's not something someone like you could ever understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:48 AM
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Give those bitches hell. God knows they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:47 AM
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How am I supposed to not HATE them? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:44 AM
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This is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:24 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:55 PM
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I don't think that's a fair response
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:53 PM
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Well it's both. I don't want to fuck around on a potential gf as long as she is a loyal person who wouldn't do it to me, and even if I did want to, I couldn't. I get what you're saying now, it sounds like I'm saying the only reason I don't cheat is because I can't, but I don't want to anyway. My question is, if I got ripped, got better social skills, and cleared up my skin, would I still be loyal? I would hope so, but I don't know. I've never been a fuckboy, maybe I'm only monogamous to cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:55 PM
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I don't think you realize what I meant lol. I'm talking about catching a charge. Honestly though it's not worth it over a whore, just bring up roast beef and leave. "I want to fuck a woman that has a tight vagina, not a loose one." That kind of deal. Just be as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:46 PM
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Cuck mentality. Okay, keep hating yourself cause of what some whore said, it's not my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:27 PM
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True to an extent. Cheating is a rape of the soul however, it takes a part of you away. Granted, I would rather be cheated on than raped, but I still there is a parallel.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:27 PM
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Of course I'm not? This is the internet, I'm here to use women as a lightning rod and a scapegoat for all my problems. That's like half the reason the internet even exists, and the other half is for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:33 PM
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What? I think you misread what I said. I am not charismatic enough to get laid on a regular basis, or at least too anxious to show any charisma I may be aware of. I can't even get 1 girlfriend, let alone juggle multiple women at once. I hate cheating, but to me it seems like women prefer an attractive fuckboy over a dork like me. It's better to be the guy they want, even if it means being a philanderer. And women want guys that are faithful because they have many options and choose them, not a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:31 PM
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I'm describing how it is. You think I like it? No, the fact of the matter is, women don't want a pussy. Trust me, I'm a sensitive little fucker, it is not attractive. Women want a charming guy to seduce them, not a guy that listens to sad music and cries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:29 PM
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I think the same about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:27 PM
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Whoreshit. Women are attracted to the kind of man that can and will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:32 PM
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Women can replace you easier than the reverse. I don't have the skill to cheat anyway even if I do get some. I'll just have to find a non toxic person somehow that won't take advantage of her leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:29 PM
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It's not misogynistic to not want to get cucked. T
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:27 PM
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Whoever has the least leverage is hurt more by creating. It's usually the woman, but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:09 PM
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They're not unfeeling narcissistic harlots with no regard for anything but themselves? Are you sure you're talking about women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:08 PM
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I would agree. Cheating is just selfishness and horniness together. It's simple, and I think the real reason men and women are different is that men are easier to replace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:03 PM
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Your sexuality doesn't control you though. I mean, if we can't control our sexuality, then it's not our fault if we rape. See how screwed up that logic is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:02 PM
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It could be because it's harder for men to replace their gf than the other way around. Think about it, you think Chad cares if he gets cheated on as much as Billy Beta that can't get other pussy easily? Or a grown man with kids and a family?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:01 PM
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Not for me it's not? I don't have the charm or charisma to get laid constantly, I want to get a girl and lock her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:54 PM
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Bro that's why you hit one last time and leave. I'm no alpha, but a very easy form of deceit is to pretend you still like someone and are a doormat when really you want to hit them with a hammer. Just be your typical weak self and run in the rare moment you are on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:48 PM
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I can't do that. When I get cheated on I HATE her. Like, see her die in a car accident and start laughing out of genuine glee hate. I don't understand those guys, doesn't it rip them apart?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:46 PM
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Most guys aren't looking for that. You're just going for guys out of your league that have leverage so they can treat you that way if you let them. It's the male equivalent of a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:44 PM
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Good men are weak. Sensitivity and empathy don't get you laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:43 PM
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They're not even people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:19 PM
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Women are just shit honestly. Just literal trash, not even worth loving, they don't get the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:12 PM
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Honestly I don't think I would be able to control myself if I heard that. Kudos to you but I would make her famous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:11 PM
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Yeah, there's a word for her. Imaginary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:17 AM
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Chad doesn't need fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:16 AM
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All this defense of women and handwaving of their many flaws grows tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:15 AM
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No, she's going to keep putting out or I'm dumping her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:13 AM
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Educated and accomplished? They're women, they floated through.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:12 AM
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Well they're women, that's a given. They have a vagina, nobody cares if they're nerdy or weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:10 AM
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I don't find the science so interesting. Some of us don't have the luxury of looking at this in such a cold detached way, because it's our life. Every fucked up thing people say on this sub is a part of their life, some sort of trauma has convinced them that they have to act in a toxic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:09 AM
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Working, on Instagram, making dick appointments, going to parties, having wanton casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:06 AM
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Reading is cringe. Fry your dopamine receptors playing video games and jerking off like a normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 06:05 AM
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Just another fucking grifter. Chad doesn't have to ask for help, by the way, and he DEFINITELY isn't paying for it if he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 05:57 AM
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Without a physical connection, there is no emotional connection. Not a romantic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:41 PM
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What a massive stinking crock of shit. Women will really come up with any sort of self-justifying bullshit to make themselves the good guy in every scenario. It's exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:39 PM
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You mean all? It's always been like that, women are biologically incapable of having integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:31 PM
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Oooh looks like the harlot has been scorned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:31 PM
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It's not weird bullshit though, women lie constantly too. "IT DOESN'T COUNT, IT WAS IN COLLEGE! WE WERE JUST TALKING WE WEREN'T DATING THE GANGBANG DIDN'T COUNT!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:30 PM
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Women lie about their body count. Most promiscuous people have herpes, and she is threatening my bodily autonomy by not telling me she fucked half the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:23 PM
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True, but realizing you don't know what you're doing 10 seconds in is different than before it starts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:19 PM
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Why would you post a picture of yourself on here? There's a bunch of creeps hanging out here, including yours truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:12 AM
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Cut the condescending attitude, you're tall and white. I'm not reaping shit, I'll drag on women all day if I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:59 AM
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I don't really look up to or admire anyone to be honest, it's a bit cucked to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:16 AM
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Women don't care about your struggles. They care about results. You don't perform, they don't fuck you. Get to dancing you fuzzy little monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:52 AM
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Implying that being gay is the result of misogyny is homophobic in the same way that saying women are less rational is misogyny. Just because there's no direct hate doesn't mean it's not harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 05:07 PM
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Call it edgy, it's the truth. You are replaceable. We all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:23 AM
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Fuck court. Of course a human would put another human over an animal. We're the smartest ones but ultimately no different than a common insect when you get down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:18 PM
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I think you misunderstand. A lot of them have no sex at all aside from their hand, and they're closed out of a core human experience. Of course they feel that love is purely physical, they're completely detached from a human part of themselves. Whenever anthropologists talk about sex as this spiritual connection I laugh, because in reality sex is raw capitalistic competition, nothing more, nothing less. If you're not good enough, you don't get to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:15 PM
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How naive can one individual be? Art is mostly worthless nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:05 PM
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Homophobic ad hominem is great. Women are not capable of love like that for a man forever unless he's essentially perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:00 PM
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That's the truth though, romantic love is transactional. That's why ugly and poor people struggle to get anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:59 PM
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That's called hormones. If he died you would find a new dude by the end of the month
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 PM
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No. Anyone that does is delusional or attractive, though those usually are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 PM
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Can't. That's why I need to keep a girl in my basement until she falls in love by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:55 PM
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And yet you're still a druggie, and 40 partners is much more than the average person. There's nothing wrong with it but it's in the "a lot" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:53 PM
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Average PPD poster, resorts to ad hominem B.S and simply doesn't answer my statement. I said anyone can cheat, didn't specify women, but go off I guess. And yeah bro, you're a heroin addict, sure you got mad bitches or whatever but it's not hard when you're doped up and so are they, no actual thinking is being done, you're just using nonsense buzzwords. Also, if you're attractive, your personal experience is completely worthless because you live in a bubble anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:50 PM
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Yes you are, but you also have to play the numbers game for that. The first girl you like may not be interested, or the next 5. You have to be persistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:49 AM
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They're illegal in America. Like feloniously illegal, getting caught with a prostitute is like getting caught with a baggy of heroin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:47 AM
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This whole cuck thing betrays a complete lack of understanding of biology, evolution and race, but yeah that is the idea
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:46 AM
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All people will kill someone under the right circumstance if they have the ability. For example, if their own life or a family member's life is threatened. Cheating is the same, all it takes is one big argument and alcohol and next thing you know, she calls you crying the next morning saying she's "sorry".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:45 AM
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Women like no strings casual sex with hot guys though? I mean they do it constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:43 AM
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ALL women will cheat in the right circumstances. Every single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:19 PM
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The idea that black genetics are superior is very funny to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:57 PM
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"better half" I think you spelt "retarded half" wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:53 PM
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True. Some people really do reach for the stars and get mad when they don't make it, but I feel like a lot of guys are doing the number thing because if they want to get laid and most women are not attracted to them, they're going to have to get used.to swinging and missing 20 times for every homerun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:52 PM
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I don't understand. Like chores? Or are you saying that men expressing normal human emotion makes you feel like their "mom"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:50 PM
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You sound like a very obnoxious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:48 PM
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Their natural drive for sex was still the driving force behind the conquest. Even if it was aimed in a direction that biologically it normally doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:48 PM
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It's either that or never get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:47 PM
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I don't think that's a fair statement then. Many spergs can function with basic social interaction, paying taxes, a job, etc, they just have trouble with more advanced tasks like making many friends or getting laid/ a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:46 PM
1

Not being rude, but what is the difference between those two things? Are pan people attracted to non-binary people too or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:45 PM
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All the downvotes, and zero evidence to the contrary. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:44 PM
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Sure, I can recognize that. I just don't give a shit. If you really love someone you won't be able to let them go by choice. You view love differently than me, that's fine. My parents for example stuck together through thick and thin. I don't care if "they would be better with someone else" they're my family. Plus, it hurts way too much to be friends with someone I love and watch them be with other people. I just can't do it, I can't associate with that person anymore. It hurts too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:41 PM
0

Some liberals. A lot of liberals are too busy talking about trans rights or other esoteric nonsense instead of important policy. I mean, Joe Biden is basically worse than Trump even from a liberal perspective because he's senile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:36 PM
2

You have to play the numbers game just to get a 5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:40 AM
2

Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:40 AM
2

They want to know you're attracted, that's why they push for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:38 AM
4

Yeah, don't listen to a clinical psychologist listen to randoms on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:37 AM
2

There should be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:35 AM
2

Because a connection doesn't matter if she doesn't want to fuck you. That's why. It's better to focus on that part first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:29 AM
8

Sugar dating is a scam made up by broke bitches. No ass, no cash
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:24 AM
1

You need to play the numbers game to get a girlfriend? You can't just walk around befriending women that aren't attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:21 AM
1

Not everyone is exactly like you. Some guys don't like the chase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:19 AM
11

You fuck Chad right away though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:17 AM
6

Like half the population are introverts and socializing feels like a chore to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:16 AM
1

Bro you need adderall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:08 AM
2

Yeah bro whatever, my wife isn't fucking someone else. I'll leave her right then and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:06 AM
1

Then I guess men can't truly love. Either way, love is conditional, and the condition is you don't fuck ANYONE else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:06 AM
1

What does well socialized mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:03 AM
8

The people here are by and large bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:02 AM
3

I don't believe you unless you're secretly bi. You don't find height attractive, or musculature, or low inhibition sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:00 AM
2

What the hell is this "be a mommy" shit you women are always talking about? What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:58 AM
3

Men have to show empathy in more subtle ways. Listening is a good one. It looks to you like we're just blankly staring like a moron but by not interrupting or judging we are communicating that we also understand the feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:54 AM
5

Being based has it's price. Wish I didn't have to pay it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:52 AM
2

The thing is, men are stronger than women. So if the strong should dominate the weak, how do even weak men get "bred" out if men are stronger physically than women? Rape is horrible, but in nature it happens a lot, so I don't understand how this strong weak dichotomy applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:49 AM
2

Not all men are ego driven assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:48 AM
-4

It's true lol. Pussy is behind everything when you break it down. Every war, every conquest, money, power, it all circles back to pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:47 AM
9

Because those women aren't having sex with them. A nice girl is a girl who has sex with everyone, a whore is a girl that's having sex with everyone but me .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:45 AM
0

Mansplain: when a woman is wrong but can't admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:41 AM
2

So are the majority of females, they just have a vagina lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:41 AM
2

I've never had a girlfriend, what are these "exes" you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:38 AM
2

Women are settling? They're just dating guys until they can upgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:36 AM
7

Only the fortunate and the foolhardy believe the natural world is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:14 AM
8

Exactly. All women have to do is show up pretty much. Exist and have a vagina, boom, worthy of love. Men don't get that, unless maybe if they're the Chaddest of chads
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:09 AM
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I see skinny druggie Chads fuck women that pay their rent, so I'm going to call B.S on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:45 PM
24

What game? They have a vagina, there is no game for them, they just sit at the finish line and fuck the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:44 PM
26

What is with people on this subreddit taking ancedotal evidence from a small heavily biased subset of the population, and making vast sweeping generalizations based on essentially nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:43 PM
1

I don't have a girlfriend, never really have had one for more than a couple days. I wouldn't take every opportunity to cheat, but I've also never had women throw themselves at me or come onto me, so who knows if I'm actually a good person or just an insecure guy that can't get laid. Most likely the latter. I love to think I wouldn't betray someone I loved, but most cheaters probably also think that at first. I'm monogamous because I'm insecure and protective of a partner because they're rare for…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:41 PM
1

Well yeah, a bad boy phase only takes a couple years. You railed the football team in highschool and freshmen year of college, then you settle down with some dork you don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:32 PM
1

Anyone can cheat under the right circumstance. Even otherwise loving or loyal people. Women tend to turn into literal psychopaths when they resent you. They'll destroy you emotionally and not even bat an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:31 PM
1

No because zero abusive women would be put on that list, and some innocent men would be falsely put on it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:13 PM
1

What if a hot girl threw herself at your husband. You think he wouldn't do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:43 PM
1

Women are just as horny as men but your standards are higher. You wouldn't be horny for someone that was 5'8, or 190 lbs for example, whereas men are less picky about height or weight
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:42 PM
1

Only if the guy is fuckable. If the shoulder to cry on is beta they won't fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:38 PM
1

If the guy is hot enough, any girl will cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:37 PM
1

Because anyone will leave if they meet the right person. Every woman has a sex drive, right? Every gf I have is attracted to other men, right? This means that in the right circumstance, i.e she's mad at me, or she's wasted, she may cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:35 PM
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It's literally physically impossible that she liked his body better before. Like, biologically impossible. She may have "preferred it" and still wanted to fuck him, but she definitely finds him hotter now, he just acts like a different person because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:27 PM
1

*if you're attractive But seriously, most edm clubs are so loud and chaotic that you can't see it hear someone 10ft in front of you. How can you run game when they can't hear you, unless you're noticably more attractive than everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:20 PM
2

Virtue signalling is all emotions though, and liberals love it way more than fixing problems
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:15 PM
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Yeah, a manipulator would use it as an opportunity to love bomb, but I feel like that's not most people. I would hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:09 PM
2

Yeah they settled for people they didn't originally want lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:02 PM
2

Dawg I accept reality plenty. That's why I'm so pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:01 PM
1

That last line is utter bullshit. Men don't care whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:59 PM
1

Well yeah because social awkwardness and anxiety are not negative traits for women are all but they are negative for men? This post presumes women and men are attracted to the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:57 PM
0

It's not bad it's reality. Sex is super easy to have for women, it's statistically likely she is fucking one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:54 PM
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What? I think some screwed up people have wrecked your brain on this one. He wants them to commit on the first date so he can commit on the first date. It's that simple. He wants a monogamous relationship right off the rip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:51 PM
1

It's all fun and games till the shit actually starts happening. Once the birth rate falls below replacement the country is going to go down the shitter
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:56 PM
1

You don't understand because you've never been in their situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:50 PM
2

No, what you don't understand is that THERE IS NO SOLUTION. YOU WILL NEVER BE ENOUGH. It's simple fact, no amount of whinging or therapy or whatever bullshit coping mechanism is going to change that. It's better to know the truth than to believe in a lie. Women are going to treat you like shit your whole life and you will always want to know why. This is why, because women think you're a pathetic loser. Maybe you are, but knowing the truth at least makes you less pathetic than some poor naive fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:47 PM
1

People still are violent towards threats? 99 percent of people think you should hit back and that the beta way to stop a school shooting is to run in there like Rambo and waste his ass instead of stopping the whole thing before it happens with mental health awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:25 PM
1

Should doesn't matter, you can't negotiate attraction. People should be attracted to a good heart and strength of character, what they're biologically wired to find attractive are hard bodies, chiseled jaws, or on the other side, soft skin and a cute face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:23 PM
1

Your brain is a fluke, or you perhaps were just smarter than the people you were interacting with when young and now you have a permanent mental connection between social interaction and frustration/boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:14 PM
1

Online dating is literally a dumpster fire with 10x the amount of women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:12 PM
1

You literally just said that you cannot change introversion scientifically, then in the next line you blame introverts for their unchangeable personality traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:11 PM
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It's not even funny it's fucking sad dude. This internet shit is straight convincing lonely people that love doesn't exist and that we are spiritually bankrupt immoral animals and that if you disagree you are somehow childish or immature. Like what the hell man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:05 PM
1

You have to be a really good fucking liar if you aren't Chad. Like, Machiavelli level master manipulator / gas lighter. You have to have CIA-level subterfuge skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:01 PM
2

Wow, it's almost like you don't care because it benefits you or something. It's like being rich and saying "ITS NEVER OTHER RICH PEOPLE THAT ARE JEALOUS, ITS ALWAYS THOSE DAMN POORS"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:57 PM
4

There is not nearly as much pressure against tall women as there is on short men. Most models are tall, remember that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:55 PM
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This is true, but there's one glaring issue. Not everyone has statistically dated hotter people. If you're not a particularly social or attractive person, it's easy to simply be single for long stretches of time. If you hit age 30 with 3 gfs while everyone else was running around racking up bodies you are always going to feel insecure. Your statement only works if you both dated around, had casual sex, and settled down, which is not how it works for many men and some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:52 PM
1

Good game is also reciprocal. If you "have game" women are responding positively to it. If women think you're creepy that's because you have no game, you're awkward, nervous, jumpy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:36 AM
1

There is cheat codes though? Being tall for example, getting buff, becoming superficially charming, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:35 AM
1

She likes you because you are attractive. That's the transaction. If you got in a car accident and burnt the fuck out of your face then she wouldn't want to be involved in the transaction with you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:31 AM
2

No it isn't though. Every person ever is young at some point. Most men will never be tall. Like I said, 500 years ago it wouldn't have really mattered what a woman thought about her mate because society would force her to settle for a beta whether she wanted to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:03 PM
1

I can't separate sex from emotions even if I don't particularly like the girl. Guys are just better at pushing shit down because society teaches them how to from a very young age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:30 PM
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Right, but in nature what women want is completely irrelevant because men are stronger than women. Also, every woman ever is young at one point, not everyone is tall at any point. I understand fairness is irrelevant to biology, but I'm just saying it's a false equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:20 PM
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It's not biology though? Your average 5'5 or 5'6 man could easily overpower you, biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 07:27 PM
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That is all that matters, but you're making it seem like he's dating conventionally attractive woman. Also, let's say you're right, it's not my fault if I'm not attracted to ugly women, whether I myself am ugly or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:15 PM
1

Oh. Well a woman wouldn't like that scenario either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:12 PM
1

Imagine if your husband used to date hotter girls than you and he bought them flowers, cuddled with them, and slept in the same bed, but now he's with you and does none of those things. That wouldn't bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:37 PM
2

He's obese but he dates people "in his league" that are "cute"? Fat girls aren't cute. I always hear women say this sort of stuff. "She has pretty hair and a big butt? What do you mean you're not attracted to her?" Every obese person has a big butt and nice hair itself doesn't matter if you don't inspire lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:35 PM
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I've seen a couple women say something similar to this reasoning, but I like pussy, and I like hugging women, touching women, etc. This requires social interaction, i.e touching grass. I don't like social interaction or touching grass particularly, but waiting around for my government mandated gf to show up at my door for the past 10 years hasn't been working out so far so I have to venture out of my cave to search for it. If I find a woman that would accompany me to my goblin cave and live ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:18 PM
4

Yeah, they're constantly fucking Chad. Women would rather be apart of a hot guys soft harem than an average guys girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:11 PM
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As stated, tall buff charismatic guys with chiseled jaws blow right on through "inhibition". The point is these "inhibited women" are not inhibited whatsoever with Chad, and yet they're inhibited with an average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:06 PM
0

Chad lives a harem anime lifestyle though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:05 PM
4

That's because it's difficult to be a sexually successful man and required no effort whatsoever to be a sexually successful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:33 PM
1

What? Happiness isn't relevant here, I'm just speaking facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:47 AM
1

What sort of meds? I was thinking getting help for the low self esteem, but since this whole things ties into it maybe I can fix it all with help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:39 AM
1

Most people are not like that though. Many senior citizens are depressed in their old age, granted if she's in her 50s she has a good few years of self sufficient left still.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:37 AM
1

I've also wasted money on that which really fucks with me. For a while there I was paying women to degrade me, and I almost got in trouble for that because someone unrelated found out and blasted it all over Facebook and all these people were talking about it and shit and how they were going to go to the police. The whole thing was stupid, and some of what I did was wrong. I would feel compelled to do it, then as soon as I orgasmed I felt serious regret. There was this one bitch with no job that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:31 AM
1

It's a little different. I'm young and saving for college, and I've always been known to be frugal and smart with money, and I've just trashed a bunch of it. And the issue is I can't stop, I keep saying I'm done and I go back. I think it's such a good idea and then when I'm done it's like fuck man. All that money down the shitter. It's fun but I keep doing it. Then I have some "friends" who used me for money so they could gamble too and the whole thing has me angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:18 AM
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Thinking patterns are what happens when your brain develops a natural response to trauma, which is valuable in the traumatic situation but not valuable elsewhere. I'm not against drug, but I was medicated for ADHD when I was younger and it fucking sucked. I walked around in a haze all day like a zombie. I'm weary of meds, I don't want to have to rely on drugs just to make it though life. That being said, I have some very unhealthy coping mechanisms. I've lost over 1000$ in the last 4 months gamb…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:05 AM
1

Depression is sometimes a result of chemical imbalance but it's typically caused by negative thinking patterns, and that chemical imbalance itself typically has a reason. Some people are unlucky and just have a fucky brain by default, and my heart goes out to them, but I'm not sure just drugging myself up will fix my core problems. Anxiety medication may be easier than just brute forcing it but doing it the hard way does have benefits. Every time I do something I get a little less anxious about …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:56 AM
1

The vast overwhelming majority of women are submissive. There are far more submissive men than dominant women, and there's always the risk she'll get a wild hair up her ass and decides she wants to be dominated by some other dude if you won't. It has nothing to do with AWALT it's just fundamentally basic human sexuality. Women don't really like to dominate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:53 AM
2

What reason do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:51 AM
1

Sometimes sure. Or maybe they're only loyal because they want it to be reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:51 AM
2

It's not a foreign concept, but if you need a serious amount of experience to not raise your voice or swear at someone during an agreement then you're borderline retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:50 AM
1

It sounds vulgar and unnecessary, but I find sometimes making yourself a hard target by retaliating is the right choice. There's not enough time for a witty quip and even if you could pop off low IQ normies won't laugh at it because they won't understand it. They'll just think you're a dork. Granted there's potential to get attacked for it but at the end of the day words are words. If you're getting bullied by literal gang bangers and drug dealers this might not work though because they're cowar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:56 PM
1

You have to be attractive to make her cum. That means following the male role, dominating. Besides, I only get the opportunity for sex once in a very great while. Every couple years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:47 AM
1

That's the unfortunate truth. No, you won't be successful being human. What's the point of a relationship at all then? They can't answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:41 AM
1

Fuck the sky. I hate the sky.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:36 AM
1

Come on dude. There's an undercurrent of bitterness to the manosphere, don't pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:33 AM
1

This question gets asked every other week on this sub. What is so confusing about this? Sour grapes. They hate men or women either because they are projecting their insecurities "Women think sensitivity or weakness makes you a worthless pile of dogshit and a pussy so they won't fuck me unless I wear a mask" for the gentlemen, and for the ladies "Men only see me as a useless cum rag and will abandon me once I get old, they only want hot girls".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:32 AM
1

Yes. Sex is a vehicle to experience masculinity through the act of penetration (sexual domination), not a fun thing or a way to bond. It's the way to show that you are worthy and valuable. You get no pussy, you have no value, you get hot pussy, you're great.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:27 AM
1

You can't find a woman that's powerfully attracted to you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:25 AM
1

No they're not though. Women are not better people, they're weaker people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:26 AM
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Women are disgusted by weakness and they literally fuck narcissists, drug dealers, and criminals because it makes their pussy wet. To say that women are morally superior is wrong, you're blatantly just too physically weak to hurt anyone most of the time, which is why the ways you hurt are manipulation and deceit rather than physical violence. All women care about is Chad cock, they can't invent things, can't write things really, and can't think ahead. Their whole life is all based on how they fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:26 AM
1

You don't understand because you're not coming from a desperate perspective. You don't hate yourself and you haven't gone years without feeling the touch of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:23 AM
1

I'm still blackpilled but I learned that bitterness doesn't get you anywhere. I kind of knew that all along and I've been mostly socially stagnant since highschool but I'm realizing that it really doesn't feel good to be mean to people because you're hurt. You did it to "win" but at the end of it all you're still missing something deep inside. No amount of ranting and raving about how I hate women will fix that hole. What's the point of it? Be mean to hot bitchy girls? And then what? They won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:20 AM
1

Maybe he's just disagreeable? I've met grown adults that have been in many relationships that turn into monkeys throwing shit during arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:15 AM
1

Why don't you find it implausible? Yeah, it could happen, just like there are actually some honest politicians, but it's exceedingly rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:01 AM
1

As a gay man you are outside the realm of normal society constraints. Your value isn't based on how much pussy you get because you don't want any, so you are outside the normal dominance hierarchy. There's no real reason for other men to dominate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:31 AM
1

You can't just beat the shit out of people though that's illegal as hell. Unless Chad is Chaddington Chadsworth the second and can afford a rich lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:04 AM
1

You're delusional. None of the chads ever beat my ass because they thought I would shoot them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:39 AM
1

Women fuck dominant bullies. That is true regardless of where you're at, they're literally wired to be DISGUSTED by weakness. Women are the abuser enablers, and red pill men have simply had enough of being on the bottom. TRP just makes women reap what they've sown.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:38 AM
2

Girls do like when you defend them though, it's not whiteknighting. A lot of dorky girls have an "us against the world" fantasy where an edgy loner is somewhat attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:33 AM
1

Fuck bitches. They're not going to let you fuck anyway so whatever. Just be a cocksucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:31 AM
1

You won't get pussy but you can push those cunts back. Simps, cucks, white knights and bitches will get pissed but you can stand up and say "You fucking whores aren't treating me this way. Fuck you, bitch."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:13 AM
2

"you're just a misogynist" You're god-damned right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:10 AM
3

People make those comments for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:52 AM
1

Calling someone a bitch isn't dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:54 PM
1

By denying me sex they are denying me the ability to fulfill the male role and be a complete person. Ideologically I am in the wrong, I'm aware, but what else do you expect me to do? Not be bitter? Lay down like a good little beta and take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 10:46 AM
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Nooo they didn't. You're delusional, getting cause and affect mixed up. It's not that incels can't get laid because they hate women, that's just absurd. Hot guys that hate women get all kinds of pussy. It's the other way around, they hate women because they're alone. 90 percent of all incels would turn into a pretty normal dude if they got some normal average girl to love them. I'll bet on it. Incels turn into simps the moment they get some, I've seen it myself. Hell that's me, I'll go on and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:30 AM
1

And what is "getting better?" Fucking hot young pussy? Doubt that I could, and even if I did, like you said, it wouldn't make me feel complete. Nothing can. I would like to fix it, but I can't. I'm too weak, if I was was strong and good enough to successfully alter my personality or create a mask through effort I wouldn't be on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:25 AM
5

An ugly person may be a good person because they've seen how shallow people can be, or they may be a bitter asshole for that same reason. An attractive person may be good because they're naive because of good treatment, or bitter because they know people only like them for their body. I think on average self confidence is linearly correlated to attractiveness. Attractive people are more likely to be confident and charismatic, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:04 AM
1

Therapy doesn't work. The whole industry is so fucking corrupt it's not even funny and most therapists are fucking quacks. Insurance doesn't cover it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:02 AM
8

There is a correlation. It's not binary but it is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:07 PM
2

Women like hot guys and guys like hot girls. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:06 PM
2

I don't really believe you tbh. He must've been tall or secretly had a 12 inch cock you're not telling anyone about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 09:01 PM
1

Women like Chad. News at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:59 PM
5

They're talking crazy cat ladies though. Married with no kids is not the same as old bitter spinster.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:57 PM
7

That's probably because she had other family, she wasn't living with some randoms at 50 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:56 PM
9

Hot guys use Tinder for pussy if that's what your asking. Looking for a gf? Only if they're a fucking idiot. Online dating is the freaking Wal Mart bargain bin of dating. Single moms, whores, fuckboys, catfish, literal crazy people. There's some attractive hip young people but that's only one chunk, the rest are so hit or miss it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:56 PM
1

Fair enough. They see themself as a pile of dogshit so they're going to act like a pile of dogshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:46 PM
0

She literally went on a date with me and kissed me several times?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:01 PM
1

You can only understand it on a theoretical level.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:56 PM
1

Of course. Women live in a bubble, so reality does seem like another planet compared to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:55 PM
2

You're one psycho bitch for that but it honestly sounds kind of hot so just don't murder any small animals and you're good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:54 PM
0

And women deserve to be hurt for hurting them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:48 PM
8

Online or irl? Most guys see misogynistic comments and beliefs as funny or true but will make fun of you for being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:47 PM
0

I know because we dated later on, then I found out she was talking to like 10 dudes at once
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:43 PM
1

Nothing, I'm just saying women's behavior is pretty shit whether it's natural or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:22 PM
0

You're just assuming stuff now. Because you've never rejected someone for that it's never happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:21 PM
1

I'm not saying you should hurt snakes, I'm saying that whether their behavior is "justified" and "natural", it's still harmful. Whatever excuse for the snakes you have doesn't change the fact that I don't want them in my yard trying to bite me, and the fact that it's "natural" for them to do so is completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:20 PM
2

Never said that. I said "in my experience". Have you considered that because you're a woman, your relationships with women are going to be different than a man's?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:19 PM
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You have zero sympathy, that much is clear. Most of these guys do not worship a murderer. I'm going to assume you're a woman judging by your disgust for unsuccessful men. I apologize if I'm wrong. It's very clear you are painting all of them with a broad brush not because you care about random people's lives, but because you hate low status males, and you hate that they're complaining. You think they deserve to rot because they're ugly and weird, it has nothing to do with moral character. You th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:14 PM
1

I kill snakes when I encounter them on my property. They follow their instinct, and I follow mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Male friendships a good 7, female friendships a good 4 or 5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Women don't like low status guys either. All women talk about in my experience is Chad's cock. "Oh Bradley has abs but Jake is taller? Who should I fuck?" That's what they talk about 90 percent of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:08 PM
2

What a quirky little reddit zinger! You're so heckin wholesome chungus 100!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:04 PM
2

That goes completely against my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:02 PM
1

You can do all those things with men without accidentally falling in love. You're so focused on shitting on men that your missing the entire reason men believe in the friendzone in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:58 PM
0

Sometimes acting like a friend (beta) will make a woman lose attraction she may have had though. It's happened to me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:57 PM
1

Because MBAs are usually good bullshitters. Charismatic retards run the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:35 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with snakes biting people either
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:15 PM
2

The way I see it stuff like this is justification for misogyny. Thank God I'm too paranoid to try for a relationship. Being an incel is way better than being a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:12 PM
0

You'll still be attractive, just not as hot as the next generation of fresh young people. "The Wall" is not a hard and fast rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:09 PM
0

Lives are lost over socially disconnected men not being able to live fulfilling worthwhile lives. "not getting laid" is a very one dimensional childish way to put it. When you have a group of people being pushed into a corner, the crazy and unstable ones are going to do crazy unstable shit. You wouldn't blame all of Islam for the actions of a few wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:03 PM
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Right but that's such a tiny percentage of incels. You're more likely that die in a car accident than an incel attack by a factor of like 1000x times
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:58 AM
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If dating is simple your life experience is such that you would never understand those groups no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:53 AM
0

He was mentally ill, most incels are too high inhibition for violence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:51 AM
1

"turn on" You mean like, for fun, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:45 AM
1

Sounds kind of kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:44 AM
2

This feels like bait but I feel like calling it out just ruins the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:31 AM
0

That's not soft you're literally female in a first world country literally most privileged demographic on the entire planet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:30 AM
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Most women are not going to be top dogs either though? Like if you're overweight at all out, bitchy out, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:29 AM
1

LARPer detected
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:23 AM
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Damn bro you're real scary and badass, wouldn't mess with this redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:22 AM
0

"it's a myth made up by inkwells!!!!" A 20 year old is almost always more attractive than a 30 year old because most older people let themselves go. Look at obesity rates between 20 year olds and 30 year olds and you'll see that the wall is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:21 AM
1

To be fair I do the same exact thing so my criticism is hypocrisy. It won't ever change if you don't accept the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:06 PM
2

Totally true. Non committal hot fuck boys are going to act like assholes, it's common sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:05 PM
6

Must be nice being a woman, not having to put any real effort in and being an object of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:04 PM
2

You're dead wrong. They value ROMANTIC human connection which has sex as a pre-requisite. People are not romantic towards people they don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:02 PM
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It's like that with women too though. They want to fuck random hot guys and use the rest of us for a free meal ticket / someone to move their couch and pay for their clothes. Connection is scary and hard, I know I'm bitter as fuck and I'm only like 20 years old. I feel like some bitter divorced uncle that hasn't touched a woman in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 04:01 PM
2

Too be fair men are the same with dumb bitches or annoying bitches. They'll still smash even though they don't agree with their astrology or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:59 PM
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Fair enough. I don't for lack of ability. That being said, it's kind of a choice to not try. I've awkwardly stumbled my way into pussy once or twice so anything is possible. I would say trying but not improving yourself is better than improving yourself but not trying. Obviously you should do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:58 PM
4

The main issue with feminism is that they see something that men do, and extrapolate based on their pre-existing ideology about why they do it, and they're usually wrong. Then, if they listen to men at all when we tell them why men do that, they go "no you're wrong it's actually because you're an evil rapist that hates wimin's!!!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:54 PM
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I feel like that's the way almost everyone acts. The issue with trp is keeping the misogyny in check. You can say "don't hate them it's in their nature" all you want but that's dehumanizing. You're saying they're too primitive to make decisions, even though men are similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:35 PM
4

On aggregate. I've know some pretty vicious cunty female teachers in my day and some compassionate male teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:32 PM
1

On aggregate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:31 PM
5

You don't "need" anyone. You live in a first world country. Question is, are you really okay with being alone out of fear?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:30 PM
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There's nothing a man can do to ensure that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:29 PM
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The same thing with women though. There are honest women as well. The question is, do you want to risk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:28 PM
1

I can't see them as people, not really. More like parasites, and psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:13 AM
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You don't belong here if you're a natural really
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:12 AM
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They're disgusted by weakness. Like animals, bloodhounds if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:08 AM
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You are delusional. I'm sorry your stepdad touched you in your no-no place when you were 8, he's a sick bastard, but it's time to grow up and be an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:07 AM
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You would be single if you were male, I can tell by your personality. It's so reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:05 AM
2

Yeah that's definitely an odd thing to say. I thought TRP didn't like fat girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:00 AM
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Expecting normal intelligence and introspection from women doesn't work either, you can't even admit that you want Chad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:58 PM
0

It's not fear, it's certainty. I KNOW I will fail, so I don't even attempt. Learned helplessness, the "I can't" demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:50 PM
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I'm always afraid to compliment female (and make to an extent) cashiers, but I find I can push through it if I'm in a good mood. If, however, I have acne that day or I didn't get enough sleep, or anything else that makes me feel like a grimey bum I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:44 PM
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Because we have to feel entitled. Because life without sex or love is hardly worth living, and if you don't think you deserve it then you won't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:40 PM
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I hate attractive people, but even I recognize that many of them have a better personality because they've not been shit on their whole life. I feel bad for ugly people that are bitter after being treated like shit, but bitter people rarely keep their moral compass in tact. Your Chad is probably a good person because he's been treated well his whole life. You referring to ugly men as "bitch boys" and some hot guy as "a God" with capitals kind of makes me want white sharia, but I get what you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:07 PM
1

I wouldn't say that, I'm sure you'll find other material. 5-10 years ago you could've just said "black guys be like" and then "white guys be like" and the crowd would be roaring, your shtick is funnier than that at least
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:58 PM
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A bit of fun of you're attractive, and a measurement of your worth if you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:36 PM
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So they don't get cucked by Chad, essentially. That's what it's about. I'm insecure as fuck so I know
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:32 PM
2

Nobody likes community dick, except they do because that's how it became community dick. Women don't like virgins either typically cause most virgins are that way for a reason. Shy, quiet, anxious, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:24 PM
2

How are older people supposed to be friends with the opposite sex then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:19 PM
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They see friendships one sided also they just get away with it through typical female deceit, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:04 PM
1

What if you don't fall in love with her till after you are friends? Like you're attracted to her at first and are okay with just being friends and then later after sharing experiences and deep emotions you fall in love with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:03 PM
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Not funny didn't laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:52 PM
1

It's only if the guy is beta. If he's hot and masculine they love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:50 PM
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No different than women using some beta for stability and resources when they're in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:18 PM
1

Then why do people blame guys like me for being bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:15 PM
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Some guys want a woman that's tired of the bullshit more than they want a fun party girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 02:14 PM
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I'm not a woman and I don't think your dangerous. I'm an incel that thinks the pills are unhealthy, not dangerous. They work, at a cost to a part of your humanity. You can never have a loving relationship with TRP. Always having to be alpha and never being able to make a mistake is no way to live, not for pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 01:17 PM
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Why are you people so defensive? I attacked FDS as well. That's not what I'm saying. What I am saying is not "trp bad" what I'm saying is that while some trp concepts are true there is a lot of bias based on painful past experiences. I know, because I have made biased statements about women based on my own negative past experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:53 PM
1

No, just 99 percent of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:27 PM
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Most women don't wait lol because attractive guys won't stick around for that when they could find a girl that will put out on date one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:11 PM
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Ok? Once the guy gets some pussy it doesn't matter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:56 PM
3

Fair enough. But I see a lot more complaining than implementing online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:03 AM
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I always feel like a pretentious douche canoe whenever I write anything like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:02 AM

You only need to have a perfect mask for a day to get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:01 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 07:00 AM
1

Fair enough, this post was mostly meant to challenge how much vitriol people throw each other on this sub and then whenever you call people out they just say "no trust me I'm in a happy relationship I'm not bitter" or "no dude I'm an alpha who gets mad pussy wdym". Like people pretend to be above it all then go on about how men are trash and women are cunts in far too many words instead of just outright saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:58 AM
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TRP is trying to become that guy because being a good little dork results in zero attention from women, and manipulation and exploitation. They do this by "exploiting women back". FDS has the goal of avoiding that because they themselves have been hurt by it. They're not equivalent but they're based on the same feelings at the core.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:56 AM

Fair enough, but the point is you could get raped at any time. Short/skinny guys rape too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:54 AM
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I'm not simping dude. Hating women is not productive for any sort of healthy relations with them. Trust me, I know from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:53 AM
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Fair enough, I'm inclined to agree. Using negative emotions to fuel you is productive but those people are still bitter in a way, they can just hide it well, compared to a natural attractive extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:52 AM
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I'm not beating anyone, I'm just trying to be optimistic. It's not realistic for humans to be that way, I just wish we were. I wish we cared about character more than looks but biologically that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:50 AM
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My view has changed a little cause I realized not all TRPers or FDSers are bitter. That's short sighted because I myself am / was bitter. Would you say most red guys are like you in that regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:48 AM
2

Not really but now that you mention it, sounds like a good idea...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 06:46 AM
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You can. But did they come to the conclusion because they were correct, or did the bitterness bring them to the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:09 PM
1

I thought India though it might be racist to say they are similar. Like the U.S and Canada kind of.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 07:08 PM
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Anxiety is literally a killer. How many of those guys have gfs, 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:55 PM
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All women have a sexuality and nature that makes them leave you if you can't hold frame? And most of the people saying "it's just a debate sub I'm not angry at all" are posturing. Not saying that's you, but it definitely occurs relatively frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:49 PM
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That's very interesting and unique. I'm not asking you to dox, but is it an Asian country? Would you say you were depressed before TRP, or bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:48 PM
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I see TRP men saying FDS are the bitter ones, and FDS women saying TRP are the bitter ones. My issue is I'm generalizing. There are very bitter people on both sides, but maybe they're just the loud ones and not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:46 PM
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You're not getting what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:45 PM
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I believe in TRP cause I'm bitter. I see people running around screaming AWALT and arguing with FDS on this sub all the time. If that's not bitterness, then what is? Maybe that's incels hijacking, but I've seen people with red flairs do that quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:45 PM
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Anger phase? Maybe they aren't real rp then, I'm talking as far as this sub goes and most trp spaces I see a lot of bitter guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:43 PM
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No I didn't. I said it was logical, but he didn't come to the conclusion from logo, he came to it from personal experience. His conclusion was logical, but he didn't use logic to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:32 PM
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You're talking about children, some of whom have anxiety, some of whom have problems at home, and your sole response is, "fuck you loser i got mine". Christ, it's a wonder why they hate women so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:31 PM
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Why? What benefit does attacking the weak provide? I dare say doing that means you deserve whatever they decide to do in retaliation. Don't poke a cornered animal, anyone with half a brain in their head knows that. You're assuming they're going to change their behavior, but tough love doesn't work that way. These kids have issues that they need to be guided out of, shitting on them constantly just makes you a coward. Bullies never pick on people with social proof or muscles even if they're sperg…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:28 PM
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Then you're not really an introvert, you're just someone that likes alone time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:25 PM
1

Maybe not. But that's just it, the way you see it. Is it really objective truth, and how do you know that? Or did it come from your subjective life experience in what works. I'm not saying your wrong, what you do might work, but is it the best way for every single person in every single context?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:24 PM
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If you're that narrow-minded then don't be part of the debate. People have a vested interest in pretending they're above it all, and you might be truly above it. Or you may be mad that I'm right. Either way, I maybe should've clarified that there were exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:21 PM
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And those people deserve it. What, you think those assholes are going to "mature" and "grow"? No, they're just going to end up one more arrogant cocksucker. It's not worth it to go to prison over them though, that's the part where I feel bad for the innocent guy that was pushed to the edge by society. Poor little victim gets shit and pissed on and when he fights back he gets demonized. Treat people a little better, maybe he'll let you leave with some edgy statement 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:15 PM
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I agree with you. In my opinion, it is useful yo compare because people have a vested interest in pretending that they are not bothered by it to protect themselves. The ideologies may work, if you actually internalize them to change behavior, otherwise you're just the same bitter fuck with more knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:12 PM
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You're more the Tradcon type TRP though, like a conservative. That falls into the non bitter group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:10 PM
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It's logical, but you're getting defensive because you didn't chose the logical choice because you are some analytical super genius, you chose it based on life experience. That's okay, but it's not the objective truth. The way you guys are saying it makes it obvious you feel you are just giving back what you're given. That's not bitter, but it's based on reciprocation, not logic. Now if you truly deep down just want pussy, some guys do, most people lie to themselves about that but let's say you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:09 PM
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I mean divorcees are usually bitter on some level. Also I feel like trp advice is to run around and acquire "plates" enjoy the decline type of thing. Those guys are MGTOW which are different from TRP in those key ways. Some of those guys just say they're okay without women because they're angry, but some are actually fine. TRP promotes chasing after pussy, MGTOW really doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:05 PM
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Fair enough. It's my bad for using "bitter" because it's a loaded word. Is it fair to say you wouldn't have found TRP had you not been exposed to such toxicity?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:03 PM
2

Thank you for that. I know a bit about slow healing, I literally used to walk around pissed for a few hours daily, I had to get away from people my age to heal because I'm not ready for dating right now. I would get angry when women talked about hot guys or flirted with other guys around me, and I realize that's not healthy. I paid for the self awareness in full, by trading my youth in pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 05:21 PM
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I'm not really sure how this is relevant. They are bitter or at least jaded by past experience which influences their ideology. You're definitely correct, but whether people are justified in feeling bitter is irrelevant, the fact is most people will be bitter if they're hurt, even if they "deserve" it for being foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:59 PM
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That's fair. Partially true. I don't believe the truth comes from a place of logic. It's more just a coincidence, you sit around angrily talking about how shit men are or how shit women are you're bound to get a few things right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:57 PM
1

I usually hate grammar Nazis but I'll be a grammar Jew in this case if it's necessary. Edit: Unfortunately I'm a phone poster and I can't indent without just tapping space a few times, and that changes the font.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:54 PM
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You're not super bitter, but I can tell from the way you're saying this you feel women should be different. Bitterness is the wrong term, but it's not exactly a decision based upon logic, it seems kind of like a "fuck you bitches" to me. Like you think they should be better and you're not because they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:53 PM
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Fake tits still look nice. Fake charm works the same if you're good at it. It's better than being a loser and getting nothing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:42 PM
1

I'm spending it how I can, not how I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:41 PM
1

"Just be confident bro! Worked for me, and obviously every single person in the whole world is exactly the same as me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:20 PM
2

All women will lose respect and attraction for you if you don't "hold frame" (i.e act confident and self assured all the time, show real vulnerability, insecurity, or weakness.) They won't all necessarily cheat, but they all have the capacity to and will deep down be motivated to leave weak men by their biology. They might be loyal to you, but their pussy won't get wet for you if you act like a pussy too much. You always have to be alpha, if you let down the mask, she'll want to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:56 PM
1

If you're going to game do not play deep immersive single player shit or shit that requires hours of attention at a time. Play something round based so that way you can stop at any time, something without commitment. Otherwise you're wasting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:52 PM
1

What if "ugly people" are socially constructed. 10,000 years ago, when everyone was fit, who is to say that women prefer Chad over an average guy? Blue eyes and blonde hair are more attractive for cultural reasons, and I assume height is too, because size matters in combat but humans have always had the ability to do controlled throws. Any other ape doesn't have the dexterity to throw a spear like we do, and ranged weapons nullify a size advantage typically. Also, bigger people do have their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:32 PM
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I forgot what it was from, I think it was Bill Burr? "Imagine you're walking around with a box that has 1 million dollars in it, and half the people you interact with on a daily basis are NFL linebackers?" Talking about being a woman. At any moment, some evil fucker could decide not to care about the law or morals and just tackle you and rape you. It's not super likely, but there's always the possibility. There's also the possibility you will get assaulted as a man, but only if you're carrying f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:26 PM
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Since most women are not FDS (not intelligent enough or bitter enough to avoid fuckboy Chad), the "we" only applies to FDS. Normal women will fall for TRP tactics as long as the guy isn't being a sperg about it. Here's my question, how can you dislike attractive LVMs? I suppose it's the same way I can dislike attractive women that lie and cheat. I feel like biology outweighs personal decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:20 PM
1

If it's not a choice, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:16 PM
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I'm a bitter and insecure "red piller" though. I find it interesting that you believe TRPers are arrogant, because if they are, that's only a mask to hide the soft core. Naturals (Chad) don't have to try ever so they have no insecurities. For us normal men that want to become players, we essentially have to have an alter ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:09 PM
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Who is "we"? If he's attractive women think he's a HVM, if he's ugly he's LVM. Since you don't have a picture of him, you don't know which one he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:07 PM
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As we see, the wild FDSer is triggered by the passive aggressive comment and begins to take on aggressive body language to scare away predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:07 PM
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Dude be real you don't give a shit about intelligence. You care about how hot the guy is and if he can give you tingles or not, the only intelligence you find valuable is the kind that leads to money, as long as he's not a dweeb because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:04 PM
1

Is he misogynistic? The only difference between naturals and trp guys is that, but let me let you in on a little secret. There are TRP guys that had to build themselves into an attractive guy that don't hate women, and there are naturally hot charismatic extroverted Chads that have mommy issues and hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:03 PM
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Pardon my language, but these mfs are straight up retarded. If a hot girl talks to me I wonder what I did to have the CIA after me. Then again, I was also paying money to be degraded over voice for a while so I'm a sucker of a different stripe but at least I was aware of being screwed over and it was part of the whole "game" to get used for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:01 PM

Ah yes the passive aggressive little come back women love to do when they're wrong. "I know you are, but what am I?!" Oldest child in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:09 PM

You're literally proving red pill right. "Guys who do it naturally". Your female nature means you are disgusted by weakness. You want a natural alpha. That's why you hate TRP. It makes your skin crawl to think that a supposedly inferior man, a weak man, a faker, a liar, can get one over on you and you are disgusted because you only want natural Chads, not Chads that had to fight and struggle and claw their way there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:05 PM

Why does it seem like all the hot ones have BPD? Like all the attractive ones like this I don't give a fuck about you bitch attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:01 PM

Are you tall and muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:00 PM
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Not to be that guy, but many men do plan for the future or a family but you don't like the because they're beta. Unassuming, not charming, they just put their head down and work and get ignored by women because they're high inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:52 PM
1

Men would be a whole lot meaner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:51 PM
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Yes, but with a caveat. Women will still fuck men they're not attracted to for betabux even if they don't really want to fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:50 PM
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Let's be honest, don't ask out Stacy or Chad then. Attractive people don't need to develop a personality or moral compass because everyone covers for their pretty ass. It doesn't mean they're all assholes but there's a much greater percentage of assholes in the attractive people group. Like with rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:48 PM
2

"many women don't like muscles" No, all women love muscles, some women don't like what it takes to get muscles though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:45 PM
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11. Not changing your ideals doesn't make you an idiot. You also are making several objective statements while also saying that every perspective has value, and I find that confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:44 PM

Perhaps. There are good reasons for women to only be attracted to alpha males, but I don't much care for nature's path. It's cruel by default. Survival of the fittest is only great when you're on top. Guarantee all these people bragging about genetics and survival of the fittest wouldn't kill themselves if they became disabled, making them internally inconsistent hypocrites
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 08:06 PM
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They're only sexual creatures for hot guys, not betas. They reluctantly allow average guys like me to have sex, but they long for alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:07 PM

People have self control but anyone can cheat in the right circumstance, and people are amazing at convincing themselves they're the good guy when they're not. The fact she has to exercise self control to not fuck him means deep down on a biological level she wants to fuck him more than you. "Love" can't compete with natural selection. That trifling whore mother nature always wins in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:06 PM

Oh, so they won't literally throw it all away for some fuckboy cock, they'll just fantasize about it and think about it constantly. That's so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:42 PM

It's reality. It's the only way to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:06 PM
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No, but some of them see it as abhorrent and some of them see it as foolish. I suppose there's not much difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:06 PM

Why would you want to trust a woman? Why would you want to "connect" with a woman? So she can throw it all in the trash for some sexy bad boy with a big dick that makes her pussy tingle the way you never could? So you can be betrayed the second you show weakness and vulnerability? AWALT protects you from that at the cost of other things, but it's the only way to protect yourself completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:54 PM

So it's okay for women to lie to beta males and pretend to love them for stability and money, while she's thinking about fucking her ex boyfriend the whole time, but men can't lie for pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:49 PM
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I feel like you see trp as some tradcon shit which I don't feel like it's true. There's two sides of trp, there's the boomer fucks that always go on about traditionalism and good women and then there's the darker more blackpilled trp where you just fuck shallow sluts and laugh while society falls apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:31 PM
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You're going to find a lot of transphobes or libtards here. To be honest this is the last place to discuss non binary people which is a real shame because it's relevant to this discussion. Like I said, a good half of people think of trans people as a group of victims that need to be protected, and the other half think they're mentally ill degenerate freaks, so it's not conducive to discussion. What I will say is that they have found evidence that there are brain differences between men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:29 PM
1

Everything you said and nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 12:01 AM
2

By definitely being alone is not your fault typically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:43 PM
1

Very cheeky of you but I have a life I have to get back to so stop responding
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:01 AM
1

I guarantee you're one of said fat girls and you found one Chad that likes cottage cheese but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:33 AM
1

They would probably see you as a unicorn actually. Trp speaks of what women are typically at their core, not of how they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:17 AM
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Not an incel though. I get plenty of attention from unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:11 AM
1

You're the horse girl here. Sorry daddy didn't give you enough attention so you had to go get it from an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:10 AM
1

I am loved by my family. Romantic love doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:08 AM
1

Now you're just saying random semi-insulting nonsense. Love is a temporary feeling inspired by attraction, it isn't even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:05 AM
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You didn't prove anything. You don't want to argue because my claim is unfalsifiable and you can't prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:53 PM
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You're just spinning the hamster wheel at this point. I'm telling you, you would've fallen out of love right quick if you saw him and he wasn't hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 11:16 PM
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I don't know everything but dating and sexuality is all simple biology dressed up to be something that it's not. He likely came across as charismatic over voice chat and when you actually met him and saw what he looked like it cemented it. I hate to right about this shit I really do but I end up being correct 90 percent of the time. Like I said, if when you met home you had instead found a short balding guy instead of a tall pretty boy, you would have stayed as just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:42 PM
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You're confusing cause and effect, they aren't exactly going to be popular with women no matter what they do so they just be an asshole. These guys could be positive and nice and the best they would get is some fat old bitch reluctantly settling for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:39 PM
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The issue is you're going after hot Chads. Guarantee there's some dorky fucker that would treat you like a goddess but you don't want him because you think he's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:37 PM
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Women are not more mature that's just blatantly a crock. The average woman would commit suicide if she had to live the average man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:35 PM
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Those same women treated me like dogshit do forgive me of I have no sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:33 PM
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pick up autist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:28 PM
1

Women literally shop for men based on cock size, height, shoulder width, jawline, abs, etc. So I don't even want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:26 PM
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"I like Chad with 5 lbs of body fat"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:22 PM
1

Not everyone lives in the city. The only girls around here are fresh out of highschool, and most are pregnant already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:58 AM
2

You're so based I almost want to simp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:36 AM
1

To be perfectly honest, this kind of stuff makes me think bad things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:34 AM
1

Don't be naive. For literally any woman being on better shape will make a larger difference than any pseudointellectual rambling ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:33 AM
1

How can you infuse the blackpill with determination. I hate to be negative and shoot it down, but the whole thing seems like a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:28 AM
1

Wtf is white pill? Sounds cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:20 AM
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No, your best bet is to never get married and move to Amsterdam to become a whoremonger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:44 AM
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STEM guys get treated like dogshit by women their entire life, and you're surprised they end up a little misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:35 AM
2

Actually their supposed arrogance is usually just a front to defend themself after getting shit on their entire life, like you're doing currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:32 AM
2

If he was just as smart but ugly you wouldn't have gotten the chance to get to him know originally
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:14 AM
1

Since when is not eating pussy red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:37 AM
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He'll be muscular, charming, and attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:36 AM
1

"If you want a normal life, why not completely uproot everything including your job, friends, and family to go move to some third world shit hole where you will always be an outsider all so you can marry a gold digger!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:21 PM
1

Women are not anymore content with their looksmatch than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:37 PM
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You have to act like a Chad as well. Men don't care about a girls personality if she's hot, women still want you to act like a cockyfunny life of the party alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:35 PM
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The issue with this is that people slip through the cracks. I have a fairly "alpha" face, with blonde hair and blue eyes. I have broad shoulders as well, but I'm only 5'8. I am physically attracted to women that are physically in my league, the issue is I'm an antisocial sperg and can't get those Stacy lites because they have normal interests and social skills and I don't. I like 90s rock and video games they all like Travis Scott and Instagram. Nothing wrong with that, but it's frankly just not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 09:33 PM
1

I doubt fat ugly people are happy with each other. Both sides want something better. Fat dorky men want Stacy, and fat dorky women want Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:02 PM
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Fair. It's hard but I can control them. If they cheat, I'll just have to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 08:01 PM
1

So it's possible, if unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:57 PM
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What if they cheat? Love doesn't last forever, so why bother. Not to be annoying and negative, that's just what my brain jumps to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:51 PM
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How is that false? Everywhere I go I see tall emotionally distant fuckboys raking in attention, and sexual losers like me settling for each other. That's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:49 PM
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It is for me. Maybe some of the people on here are dicking around, but this is my life I'm talking about. Nobody I know believes me when I say love is a transaction, and the fact that it is true causes me to suffer. Not to sound dramatic, I'm just being honest. The truth hurts, a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:47 PM
1

"source durr hurr" No but for real I have a hard time believing it. I don't really want to believe in TRP but what they say rings so universally true it's not even funny. You can apply trp to every single human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:44 PM
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Men don't care if women are insecure though. Girls getting jealous of you talking to other girls is considered funny, whereas if you're a guy you're considered an abusive piece of shit for being insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:42 PM
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So basically, either run around and get pussy, or just give up. That's productive, if soul crushing. Going without a woman's touch your whole life is suffering, but I'm too lazy to go to the gym and hold frame, so I think I'll just have to pretend to be a beta provider and then rip commitment out from under them once they put out. Pretty twisted, but that's my best strategy under the sociopathic biological attraction conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:41 PM
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The issue is, your love is still based on attraction to an extent just like everybody else's, which makes it conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:38 PM
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I have a hard time believing that but I don't think you're lying. It's just rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:38 PM
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Exactly. They can't love. I don't think anyone can except for truly attractive, charismatic, good people. Most of us will fail to build any serious long term relationship that isn't built on a lie and settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:37 PM
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You have to hold frame or she will leave for someone better most of the time, or she will at least want to which doesn't bode well for the longevity of the relationship. Holding frame, i.e, being alpha, is draining for some people to keep up all the time, and they will usually eventually slip up, which invites branch swinging. That's what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:35 PM
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I'm sure the vulnerability will strike a chord, but not sexually. Women want a strong dominant man with a big dick to choke them and pound their cervix, not some shy guy that will "make love to them" with his 4 or 5 in her. At least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:34 PM
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Nonsensical reply but alright good luck to you too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:32 PM
1

I feel like it's impossible unless you somehow luck into it, because therapy is mostly a scam based on pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:12 PM
1

I resent nature and evolution greatly. I often wish mother nature had a physical form only so I could spite that cold, callous bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:10 PM
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I have a hard time believing in dominant women because I've never met one. Every woman I have ever met expects the male to "be the man" in the relationship. If what you say is true, I have hope, but I still have to find a woman like that, and one that's attracted to me. 1 in a million, a unicorn if you will, but like a strong alpha unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:08 PM
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I'll lay down if I want. If I ever do get more alpha, it will only be to shatter hearts for revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:04 PM
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I feel as if it's not worth it if I have to put on a mask, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:04 PM
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That's what I want, but women do not want to be part of a transaction with a beta like me, who is vulnerable and neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:03 PM
2

Where is your proof that you can change neuroticism? And sensitivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:02 PM
1

Okay so you and a couple other people are doing this thing where you're trying to defend trp, like I'm attacking it. That's not even the point of the post, the point is that as a true beta, i.e, vulnerable and neurotic, dating is not worth it because nobody will love you. You guys are getting triggered and rushing to defend trp without actually responding to the CMV, you're just saying "that's not TRP" ad nauseum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 07:02 PM
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That's fake vulnerability. "My puppy died and I was sad" is what women find attractive. "I'll never be enough" is disgusting to women. It dries out their pussy instantaneously. Real vulnerability is extraordinarily unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:57 PM
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I'm not misinterpreting anything. People say women are like snakes, you can't hate a snake for biting you, it's in it's nature, you can't blame a woman for alpha chasing, it's in her nature. But a snake almost killed me one time, so I fucking hate them with a passion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:56 PM
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That's not love in my opinion, just a facsimile inspired by lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:54 PM
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That's why I said, "if he is looking for love", assuming a vulnerable beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:47 PM
2

What? Then what is trp? Alpha fucks beta bucks is trp 101. Not showing vulnerability is a trp staple as well, holding frame always is another staple of trp. Are we reading the same subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:42 PM
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It will be good enough for the guys that are good with it. I feel like there are alphas with the beta mindset of love and vulnerability, and those guys probably won't be truly happy long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:31 PM
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There's this idea that men don't ever get attached to plates which isn't true. Men are taught how to kill of emotions from a young age through conditioning. Fuckboys aren't psychopaths, they just know how to kill off their emotions because they're afraid of connection. This is why they will do shit that seems incongruent with someone who's lying to you for pussy, because deep down they desire intimacy but they're running from it. That's my idea at least, I'm not alpha enough to be a fuckboy but …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:56 PM
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Some people cannot be the sexy alpha bad boy, and can only barely manage "cute dork". If they want sex with lots of different women, their options are become alpha by putting on a mask to hide your real personality, or play on the beta game by pretending to be a nice sweet guy then dipping once the girl gives him what he wants via having sex with him. These guys usually feel bad, but they justify it to themselves in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 05:46 PM
1

Pregnancy is no excuse to become a fat fuck though. You'll never look the same but that doesn't give you license to balloon up to 200 lbs when you're 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 04:23 PM
1

It depends on how much weight. I'm overweight and a sedentary person naturally, but there's a limit. I have lost weight before, and if it gets to a point where you have a hard time with stairs, you need to change it. I'm obviously not some super fit alpha male, but I'm not going to stay with someone that completely lets themselves go. I'm fairly out of shape, so any fatter than myself and you are straight into obese territory. I keep myself below the line, and they should too. For people like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:42 PM
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Okay, so I found this whole thing super odd because of the infantilization of 16 year olds. I was a 19 year old incel virgin and I hooked up with, (almost fucked, she kept asking for me to put it in but I had no condom so I didn't want to, she just touched it and sucked it until I finished) a 16 year old who has had sex with 4 different people already. She took the lead and even though I'm naturally a very mature person for my age (I.E borderline autist) she was more more mature than me in the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:24 PM
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For both genders it's because it is a betrayal, an ultimate lie. I can't speak for the female side, but on the male end obviously deep seeded genetic fear of being cucked. This makes sense, if some hot alpha fuckboy runs up and fucks your woman, you are now unlikely to be evolutionarily successful. Natural selection selects for men that are not okay with being cucked. It's basically castration anxiety, because being cheated on is the ultimate form of emasculation. You are metaphorically castrati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 07:48 PM
1

White men turn wokeness into a competitive form of virtue signaling. Ironically enough I've seen more nuanced takes on police brutality from 4chan that are fair and show a better understanding. The problem with any issue as serious as police brutality is that people understandably have strong emotions about it and it is very hard to have a cool and rational discussion when the issue directly affects or is said to directly affect you. Now as to why white people care when it doesn't affect them it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah you shouldn't have kids. Last thing we need is another black single mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:23 PM
2

I despise women as much as the next blackpiller, but how is this any different than guys going for promiscuous manic pixie dream girls with a habit or two, thinking they're going to have a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 07:07 PM
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Sounds like she has a rape fetish to me
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