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I agree but the last 6 months I've lived a soul crushing job and my social life has evaporated. And my self esteem has taken a hit temporarily. But you're absolutely right
/r/seduction17/07/26 01:03 PM
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I love dating while traveling. I want to end up with someone foreign. There's something so erotic and charged about the unknown. At home I definitely fall into routine. Most sex I've had was traveling.hard to separate the 2 for me lol
/r/seduction11/06/26 04:09 AM
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Lost my virginity at age 25 5 years ago. I don't feel behind or lacking in experiences any more but it took some time.
/r/seduction25/04/26 08:01 PM
1

Women have countless options on apps and have the power to be more selective. In person is a night and day difference. A lot of women go off vibes and that's something that can't be replicated online. I date objectively beautiful women and I'm a pretty average person but it's because I know my niche and best qualities very well. I don't like approaching I like putting myself in environments where there's constant exposure and I get to know someone over time
/r/seduction08/04/26 03:33 PM
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Turning 29 gave me all sorts of weird anxieties of the same sort. I ended up using that year to solo travel and dated as much as I could with women from all over the world. I'm so glad I did that and I learned a lot about myself. I just turned 30 and the fear of aging has lessened. Give me a sexy and compatible 27 year old instead. I can leave that behind me now but the only way I could was experiencing it for myself. I dated early 20s women and it was fun and validating but left me with nothing…
/r/seduction02/04/26 02:56 PM
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That's hot I prefer a confident woman that knows how to communicate. It's fucking annoying trying to read someone's mind.
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:25 PM
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The fact that some women are literally dominatrixes makes me question this. I think a lot of sexuality is socialized and tbh I think a lot of people (both men and women) oscillate between fantasies of domination and submission.. understanding the broader aspect of sexuality actually made my sex life improve because I felt less like I had to impress or act a certain way in the bedroom and could just be more myself.
/r/seduction13/03/26 10:20 PM
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Wow, you must be an expert! Good for you! You must know the most about this subject!
/r/seduction10/03/26 02:18 AM
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Yes mid 30s is too late to do anything in life or have a family. No one has ever found love or has a family past the age of 35
/r/seduction09/03/26 04:26 PM
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No, that's simplistic. Culture really does play a role.
/r/seduction09/03/26 04:23 PM
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I wouldn't because sleeping with someone that thinks you're into them will hurt both of you. Honestly I'd rather pay a hot escort. You'll get the same experience but it will be way more honest and clean. And she can be hot.
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:38 PM
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Not always true. I had a 19 year old interested in me at age 29. Cool girl and very mature for her age. Her dad was 10 years older than her mom and her ex was 28. She preferred older guys. Nothing traumatic about her life as far as I know. She was very grounded, independent, and already had years of work experience. Seriously you guys need to stop generalizing women. Everyone is different. Some women like chalamet types and others like Henry cavill. Some women like pegging dudes and some women l…
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:27 PM
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Whatever this guy's generalizing. A confident person will go after what he wants.
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:23 PM
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Don't listen to this guy all women have preferences. Now that I'm older with a Babyface I get more attention from young women than my friends. I can't grow a beard for shit but I look young, approachable, cute, and clean. Have all my hair and know how to communicate and express interest. It's so much easier these days.
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:19 PM
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I'm 29 and this last year I dated 29, 28, 23, and 22. I actually ended up falling in love with a 35 year old friend of mine but the feelings weren't reciprocal. Considering your lack of relationship experience I'd actually recommend the younger ones. They're usually more open-minded and adventurous which I personally love. But at the same time I'd rather be in a relationship with someone my age or older because the conversation and relatability feels more grounding. But 28 is probably the perfec…
/r/seduction27/02/26 04:14 PM
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You're 28 and young. I felt the same way a couple years ago . I lost my virginity at 25 and had some success for a couple years. But when I was 28 I had a 2 year dry spell. Anyways, if I had a recommendation it's to maximize your social life. That and having female friends helped me tremendously. So I would consider long term moving somewhere that gives you more opportunity. And the more opportunity you have the more confidence you will have. I'm 30 now and the last year I made some significant …
/r/seduction19/02/26 09:25 PM
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Shanghai and Hangzhou area. There are so few Westerners especially now in china and the state is so authoritarian that I think it makes people sexual freaks lol. It's definitely more of a fetish thing I believe. I literally had one woman begging me to meet her on bumble lol.
/r/seduction15/02/26 07:14 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction11/02/26 02:44 AM
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Lost my virginity at 25. I'm almost 30 now and it got way easier in my later 20s. I think you should find ways to make female friends, it helped me immensely. And tbh it's taboo in the USA but maybe meet an escort. There is so much shame around paid sex but if I could go back in time I would've done it way way earlier.
/r/seduction10/02/26 06:50 AM
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Unfortunately I don't think there's a country that worships Caucasians quite like the Philippines. There's some weird complex with their colonial history. That's probably the biggest reason to be honest with you. But I also think when you're a traveler you can offer local women a different idea of a future or lifestyle that she would t get by marrying a Filipino.
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:22 AM
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Tbh I can't remember but I downloaded and paid for 2 premium ones before going just in case so I guess it's best to hedge your bets.
/r/seduction08/02/26 12:01 AM
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Just tinder/bumble. Most Chinese youth have vpns and those are still the best apps abroad. And you'll meet more English speakers.
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:13 PM
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Idk I knew an extremely rich Filipina who would go on yachts and travel to Switzerland all the time and she was super into me just like most other Filipinas 😅
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:59 PM
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Korea is hard because they have so many rules around dating and a lot of stigma around online dating. Add the language barrier and shame culture and it gets real complicated. That being said I found Korean women generally easy to ask out on a date in person and they were usually very receptive to me. It's nice because they like well groomed and youthful looks — I never really fit the masculine ideal in the west so to speak. Kind of related but China was completely different. I had women wanting …
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:55 PM
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That does sound exhausting. Honestly if I get laid every few months I'm satisfied 😅. Good for you though.
/r/seduction07/02/26 04:50 PM
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Sounds like an exhausting and stale life after awhile
/r/seduction03/01/26 09:19 PM
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🤢
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:31 AM
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Visible abs 😂
/r/seduction28/12/25 04:20 AM
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Absolutely but hurry up that baby face won't last forever I have the same "problem" haha.
/r/seduction17/12/25 07:27 PM
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I'm sure many do but there should still be many mid-20s and late-20s putting 32 in their range right? I'm not in the US right now as well and that definitely changes my perception. Seems like in the USA people are way more critical of age differences. Still, when I was 23 I remember my 23 year old friend was hooking up with a 33 year old and she was a college chick. Either way apps are terrible in the end. I met way more receptive and attractive women in person. My advice is to find some close f…
/r/seduction17/12/25 03:52 PM
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Wtf dude you can pretty much date early 20s to whatever age easily. I personally feel like late 20s-early 30s is probably the widest range for men to date. You're being silly if you think you're old I feel sorry for you. I'm slightly younger at 29 but I basically date early 20s to late 30s it just so happens that I prefer women closer to my age for a relationship but the younger ones are way more interested in sex. And yes I think it would be way different if you were 39 for example.
/r/seduction17/12/25 03:03 PM
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30s is a big range. Like are you 30 or 39 lol?
/r/seduction17/12/25 05:32 AM
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I lost my virginity at 25 and I'm 29 now with 7. But that really shouldn't be the goal. You'll hopefully realize soon that it really doesn't matter. And also you'll start doing better in the next few years. Also, why are you approaching so many people? That's such an unnatural way to meet people haha. 75 people wtf.
/r/seduction16/11/25 11:41 AM
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Honestly you don't even need to be "that" good looking but sure definitely put some effort into your appearance. I would say what worked for me was putting my foot out there more even when I was scared of rejection. That habit made me more confident. Also having female friends is crucial
/r/seduction06/11/25 06:47 AM
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This is so funny haha. I guess because I'm probably older than you but when I meet girls it's because I can tell based on the mutual vibe that we are likely compatible. I don't really make a move often but when I do it's because I can already sense the chemistry. Last 3 girls I dated I met in person and it was my only approach in the evening.
/r/seduction29/10/25 08:13 AM
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Ugh I hate hookup culture. It makes me feel empty. Like what's the point of experiencing something so intimate and not taking it deeper. It's just validation and pleasure addiction. Feels like doing drugs. Fun in the moment then a hangover. I really relate to this aspect. Why can't something be short but sweet? It's weird how people compartmentalize their emotions like that. Seems unhealthy.
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:38 AM
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I recently experienced an extremely intense night with someone and it was beautiful. Since then, she's been acting distant and cold. I know what you mean. How can someone experience something so intimate then nothing.
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:31 AM
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Been really thinking about #11 recently and it's something I'm trying to work on. Especially when moving to logistics I still want to keep the flirty banter going.
/r/seduction04/09/25 05:16 PM
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When she made a joke about you domming her it's almost certain that she has a kink towards older men. She's probably very attracted to you and expects you to have confidence and experience and leadership in the bedroom, based on your age difference. Lol I feel like you already know this haha.
/r/seduction30/07/25 07:05 AM
2

LA has everything except beaches? Dafuq
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:33 PM
0

And maybe look for late 20s as youngest.
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:42 PM
3

Go to the Philippines
/r/seduction25/07/25 05:41 PM
1

And some people stay in this space forever which I find tragic
/r/seduction29/06/25 09:17 PM
1

This resonates with me deeply. With greater self awareness I realize what's actually important to me and can separate the physical from the emotional. I think we all go through a phase looking for quick pleasure and validation but after awhile not being honest with myself to "achieve results" wasn't fulfilling a deeper need. I'm all for short term as long as it's intentional and honest but most people are too scared to actually be vulnerable.
/r/seduction29/06/25 09:16 PM
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Stop chasing validation and really question why you're here, go deep. That will set you free in a way that sex never will. Trust me.
/r/seduction23/06/25 11:41 AM
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So what you fucked her and then never saw her again. What's the fucking point of casual sex anyways
/r/seduction10/06/25 06:08 PM
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Girls love young looking men I don't know why men keep trying to look older.
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:38 AM
1

I guess what are you into and passionate about? I would probably start there. And yeah within that community you probably have the best chance. Honestly I'm not the best to ask this but unfortunately I think it's a numbers game. There's a reason these things are rare.
/r/seduction26/05/25 05:32 PM
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Why would you even want to sleep with that many unless it was rooted in a deeper quest for validation. I'd rather have quality over quantity. You do realize that the average number of sexual partners is less than 10 in a lifetime. I could sleep with many more if I wanted to at this point in my life but I choose not to. Last time I hooked up it was 2 different women 2 nights in a row and after that I realized I'm pretty much done with casual sex. Was emotionally exhausted and didn't get what I ac…
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:21 AM
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If you think bulking up and taking steroids will help you, especially long term - makes me feel bad for you. I lost my virginity when I was 25 and 4 years later I've slept with 8 women and honestly I don't even care anymore. I just want a girlfriend now. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm a skinny fuck but as I matured into my later 20s the maturity and confidence have come in and women respond better to me than ever. I don't look as good as I used to because I barely put effort in my appeara…
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:35 PM
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Learned that commiting to one woman is the best path. There's very little relationship advice here just how to get laid.
/r/seduction19/05/25 10:15 PM
3

Imo no but I look very young for my age older women think I look too childish
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:44 PM
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This is a bizarre post and rooted in insecurity
/r/seduction03/05/25 02:33 AM
1

Thanks for the response. I think I'm in need of more of a male role model right who's a bit older it's hard sifting through these negative comments
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:16 PM
1

I did this when I was 25 and it changed my life. I easily got a job in a relevant field after returning from 6 months of travel. It was the best and I think I fell in love multiple times. Had tons of hostel sex and fooled around with lots of travelers and foreign girls. But I've always been a traveler at heart. Have read countless books on history and am fluent in Spanish now. Studied international relations in uni.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:54 AM
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What age did you start feeling older or out of place in younger scenes like hostels for example? I'm 29 but look 25 and in a bit of crisis over the big 3-0. For the record I quit my job too as YOYO like you said.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:51 AM
1

I lost my virginity in a dorm haha
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:16 AM
1

No, everyone will decay and die eventually. It's part of life. Try to be grateful and appreciate the impermanence of it all
/r/seduction23/02/25 07:18 PM
1

No wtf
/r/seduction23/02/25 07:16 PM
0

Looks fade and we all age FAST, try to think of the long term reality
/r/seduction23/02/25 01:57 AM
2

Toxic mentality there's something seriously wrong with some of these comments
/r/seduction15/01/25 11:28 PM
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Toxic thinking what the hell
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:13 PM
1

When I told the woman that took my virginity that she was my first she kissed me on the cheek and I've never felt more loved and accepted in my life since. She actually got more attached to me. Women aren't a monolith, a worthwhile woman that truly wants you for you won't give a shit
/r/seduction30/12/24 09:12 PM
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I went on a date with a woman 13 years older than me and she basically told me if I want to be attractive to younger women when I age I have to be rich and have hair lol. Certainly, women aren't a monolith and every women will have their preferences. Interestingly enough, she told me that above all else, a genuine connection still trumps all. Personally, I'm not so focused on money as I want a woman that loves me for me and not my material status.
/r/seduction27/12/24 07:21 PM
1

Curious what cosmetic surgeries you had?
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:03 AM
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I lived in Mexico for a year as a blond dude and traveled all around the interior and you have to be making shit up with this story
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:28 AM
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