| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | What is something in a woman’s control that makes her higher value to you?I wonder why this is. We constantly hear rhetoric from redpill/manosphere types that "a woman's career doesn't matter" but I think it does to a lot of guys regardless what "pill" they identify with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 12:32 AM |
| – | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipHow about just having a first date that doesn't cost money? Ex: Walk in the park, coffee shop, museum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 10:32 PM |
| – | Debate: The idea of men fully financially providing for a wife is more popular online than it is in the real world.Yeah, it's def not impossible. I personally don't want those things, but lots of women (especially younger ones do) and they're often in the same age bracket as these guys who say they want to fully financially provide for their wives. Growing up, my mom never worked and my dad's salary was able to provide for us. We went without some stuff but I'd say it was worth it. And also, the economy looked a lot different in the US when I was growing up vs. what it is now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 09:50 PM |
| – | Debate: The idea of men fully financially providing for a wife is more popular online than it is in the real world.I think this can work in some countries outside the US. We have a VERY high standard of living compared to the rest of the world and a lot of the things we consider necessities are things that people easily go without in other countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/24 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Why is it mostly other women behind the trad wife backlash?1) It's not actually traditional. The "trad wife" stuff largely represents what women did in the 1950s. The 1950s was an anomaly in world history and prior to it, the majority of women always worked unless they were aristocrats. So, it's a bad historical context to start off in for one. 2) By putting themselves online, these women are not following their own definition of "trad wife". Women make money from making these tradwife vids and many of them have online shops, ebooks, courses, etc. Also,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.no, she's not a doormat which is my point. Redpill guys don't want her bc she isn't a doormat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.I never said she was a "high value woman". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Because it proves how much of a grift TRP is. If they genuinely believed in what they were saying, you'd think they would obviously date a girl that props up what they're saying and even goes as far as to put down other women who reject it..but instead they date girls that are sometimes feminists or who just don't really care about redpill stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:20 AM |
| 6 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Pearl? Literally she's like at the center of TRP movement irl. It'd be hard to be redpill and NOT hear of her...how come more redpill men aren't dating "pick mes" like Pearl then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:15 AM |
| 4 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.I don't rlly keep up with their dating lives since they have a new girl every month it seems. Idk tbh. I don't like watching her. It's just odd that most redpill guys aren't trying to date girls like her when they champion the same talking points. Again, don't know. But enough to where you'd think some of these famous red pill guys would be dating them. And yeah she def does. And the terms "chad" and "stacy' are soo cringe..like have you not left high school? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:14 AM |
| 0 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Okay..then how come red pill men aren't dating Pearl if you like what you say you like? pearl makes it pretty clear that she agrees with all of your talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:13 AM |
| 6 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Independent as in not depending on another human for income/sustenance/way of living. And you can be a good partner and be independent. They're not mutually exclusive..you can make your own money while still being in a loving relationship with someone. Idk why you're bringing up war and economic collapse (which we're arguably experiencing right now). Seems like kind of a strawman when we're talking about independence. Of course people would have to rely on each other more so in those events, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:12 AM |
| 3 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Exactly. She wants male attention..and redpill guys want girls that want attention and you would assume have the same beliefs as they do.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:09 AM |
| 1 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.There's other women though who are physically attractive and who act like Pearl and have the same viewpoints as her, but these redpill guys aren't dating them...also the entire redpill movement is a grift, lol. It's all about materialism and external appearances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.Ah, so she's not your version of redpill, so therefore she's not actually redpill...her talking points align with all of the redpill guys...that's why they literally repost her stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.I know. That podcast is cancer. It should be removed from the internet. The only person on it I can stand is the Chase guy because he's a Christian (although there's a lot I disagree with him theologically on)..I wish they would just remake it with Chase and Brian having debates over topics instead of just a couple of guys yelling at college girls for a living. Albeit, I think it's noble what Chase is trying to do...Brian on the other hand, yeah no way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The reason redpill guys don't date women like Pearl that agree with all their talking points is because they like the idea of "breaking" an independent woman.How do you know, though? There's also other women that have her POV online and behave accordingly, but yet I don't see a line of redpill men lining up to date them. They rarely get with women that have the same views as them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 12:04 AM |
| – | Q4W: How do you feel about S.I.M.P.s?Absolute no. I want a guy that can think for himself. I'm not an infallible person. I'm going to make mistakes inevitably and poor decisions. I need someone who can call me out and tell me when I'm in the wrong. That guy you're talking about also doesn't seem very genuine too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:52 PM |
| – | Do you think many women prefer to date men they pity? Do you prefer the wounded bird over the guy fortunate enough to fly?Lol, I would assume it's because they are into that whole "I can fix him" mentality. You wouldn't catch me dating "the wounded bird" in a million years over "the guy fortunate enough to fly". Nor would I be dating some successful dealer and/or conman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?Exactly, lol. Saying otherwise is a cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?I mean if that's what you want, I can't stop you. I would just ask you to consider how compatible Red pill ideas are with biblical ones, though (based off your post history, it seems like you're a fellow Christian)...TRP ideology is about as compatible with Christianity as feminism is (horseshoe theory, really). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 03:22 AM |
| 10 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?Same here. I can't believe the Red pill men in this thread think that their way of thinking matches up with reality, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 02:35 AM |
| 8 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?But most families wouldn't be okay with their kids just sitting at home all day. I know I certainly couldn't do that. And that's not "living for emergencies". That's just being practical, lol. A lot of the TRP is just a fantasy world and not reflective of actual reality and/or human nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?What’s the difference between having a career and having a job? I always thought those words meant the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 01:00 AM |
| 7 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?Hit the nail on the head. Like I said in my comment, the kind of setup in which "Sarah" has is NOT the norm for modern, western society.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?.....Okay, first of all, if you said out loud the first two paragraphs of your comment to the average man or woman fifty years ago, they would look at like you had two heads.. I don't mean a woman that has a career and is a mother at the same time. A mean a woman that has a career, but when she has kids, focuses on that solely. Yeah I would agree that it's hard to do two full time things at once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:35 AM |
| 15 | Why do feminists and red-pillers make it seem like it's either one extreme or the other when it comes to a woman having a career or a family?How is Sarah making a living, though? Is her family just letting her live there rent-free? And don't forget, if she doesn't have any education, even if she marries a wealthy man, emergencies can happen (I've seen this in my personal life) and not having a degree to get a job can be detrimental in a situation like that. Also, I specifically said my post was about women who don't devote themselves fully to their careers. The Jane girl sounds like it's her whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men?No. I'm younger too, so if a guy my age had a body count in the triple digits (or really even the double digits) that would cause me to raise an eyebrow. I'm also Christian and I hope to marry a guy that is also Christian, so him being a virgin/having a low body count could be a sign that he takes Christianity seriously, which is a plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's wrong for inexperienced men to hide that fact when they're dating?No. I'm Christian. If a guy told me he was inexperienced, that would be almost encouraging to me as it would maybe hint that he is Christian as well and takes his faith seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….What is a top 2-3% man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Describe your perfect partnerI don't have a specific region/ethnicity of parish that I'm looking for. There's Russian, Greek, Arabic Orthodox Churches. Really, the ethnic identity associated with the name of a particular church usually has to do with the country the immigrants who built it here in the US came from. I've seen Greek Orthodox Churches near me with a large amount of english speakers and Americans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Describe your perfect partnerAhhh gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Describe your perfect partneratheist with a catholic background and family That's oddly specific. Any particular reason why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Describe your perfect partnerEven though you said this is for men, I'm a woman and still wanna answer. Generally don't really have a preference. I'm not a fan of dyed hair that is a non natural color though (blue, green, pink, etc.) Same as last question. Don't have a preference Ideally, at least 5'10 I like muscle (not Arnold-like builds though). To me, Steve Reeves is the peak of male physique. It would be super unreasonable to expect guys (especially in the modern world with so many factors working against them) to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:22 PM |
| – | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?Even if those things are guaranteed, a lot of attitudes in the "red pill sphere" are VERY anti-Christian in nature (promiscuity, viewing marriage as a transaction rather than a covenant, instant gratification). That guy you linked I would definitely reject. Not only is he physically speaking not really my type, but I'm not someone who likes to travel and be on the go 24/7. I doubt I have most things in common with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 12:25 AM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?That’s true tbh. Men tend to be more conservative on average than women (just look at the last few presidential elections if only men voted vs. if only women voted). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?I agree with what you said. Currently I attend a non-denominational church, so ig Im not really in one denomination at the moment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?Rule 14. You lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:07 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?The Orthodox don’t view the pope as an infallible authority and they don’t elevate any one man (except Christ of course). Also, the Orthodox Church is 1000+ years older than the Catholic Church and has remained intact ever since its existence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 09:06 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?I don’t see the papacy as biblical and a lot of historical and theological research doesn’t support the Catholic church’s claim of being “The One True Church”. However, I still love my Catholic brothers and sisters in Christ and see it as a legitimate form of Christianity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:58 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?Uh…no? If I wanted someone to pay for my stuff, I would’ve listed an income range lmao. And Mormons aren’t Christians. May be time to brush up on some Theology and common sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:34 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?This is the exact kind of comment I was looking for. I have a lot of attachment, personal and otherwise, to the US and it's the only home I've ever known throughout my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 08:10 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?I'm in a non-dom church as of now, but am considering converting to Orthodox Christianity, so you may be right in that other parts of the world may be better in finding a partner in the same denomination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:47 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?It's a pet peeve of mine as well and it reaaaallly gets on my nerves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:39 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?Rip :( I love your flair btw though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:36 PM |
| – | Passport dating...for women?Someone who loves God above all else, has a provider mindset, and has a firm game plan. I also want someone who dates with the intention of marriage, not just to screw around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 07:36 PM |
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