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| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.What is with Reddit that it does this? Half an hour getting stats and it's all gone. No time now to do it again, sorry. Fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Women are also giving up on dating, esp OLD. I agree that meeting in real life is the way to go, I don't know why people bother with OLD. Gee I just did the research and constructed an argument and its all been lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:55 PM |
| 0 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Women are also giving up on dating. I agree that dating IRL is better than OLD. "To better understand possible reasons for rejection we have additionally analyzed the profiles that were rejected the most (by more than 90% of the participants). In the majority of those pictures (61.5%), a man’s face could not be seen clearly, which supports previous findings. " In 61.5% of pictures, the man’s face could not be seen clearly. 61.5% Just getting a friend to take a photo that shows your face clearly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Men can get a vasectomy a lot easier than women can get their tubes tied. EVEN TODAY, young women wanting a tubal ligation have difficulty finding a doctor to do it. Women started refuges and shelters for other women fleeing DV; govts only do that now after women led the way. Women started the first repro health clinics for women and govts followed later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Men can get a vasectomy a lot easier than women can get a salpingectomy or hysterectomy. And many of those advantages that women have were fought for by women. If men want things to change, the start needs to come from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.So it easier if a man goes to the trouble of getting a decent photo taken by a friend and use that. He can easily increase his odds that way. Next step is to engage with her in a convo via text, another thing men apparently don't do much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 08:54 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.One of the major themes of the interviews was the evaluation criteria of the male profile. First, most women mentioned that they are looking for someone close to their age and automatically “swipe left” if the age difference is too big (from 2–3 years for those in their early 20s to around 5 years for those in their 30s). Second, women need to see a face of a man to make a judgment, thus they reject most of the profiles where the face cannot be seen clearly, such as presenting pictures of a man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Yea the US sounds pretty shit all around. And I am all in favour of people only having kids if they REALLY want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.I think its only some women who have 'incredibly high standards'. Men are notorious for presenting themselves in a bad light on OLD profiles. I just wish I could find that article now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Women who have kids and have had a career break to do early childhood care DO suffer more in terms of income after divorce. They basically never catch back up + if the father doesn't pay child support they are left with all the costs of raising those kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.??? "One thing those studies apparently consistently fail to mention is that men's divorce rate prior to divorce is 4x higher than women's, and after divorce it skyrockets to 9x higher than women's suicide rate. " How can it be higher before it happens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:25 AM |
| 4 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.for on line dating yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Ha! Bad at pics. He took a selfie in a bathroom mirror, no head just his torso with his hand clearly wearing a wedding ring. Nah. We block those without ever bothering to send a msg. Pond scum squelching between the toes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 01:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.This is true. Many women have decided (esp as we get older and have experienced a few relationships with men), that it is just not worth the hassle. I have my own home and a small income from investments. If I get involved with a guy I might be putting that at risk. He could have a claim on it as de facto and I could end up having to sell to pay him out his 'half'. That would leave me very badly off. I probably wouldn't find another job, certainly not enough to buy another house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 11:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.I don't. I'm simply making the point that women aren't being 'overly dramatic'. Women have lots of guys to choose from but most of them seem to be pond scum and having lots of pond scum to choose from is not an ego-booster. Most of those women are asking for honest, direct info from prospective matches who want to meet, and have to wade through icky 'jokes' or repeated messages from guys who seem not to want to actually meet but just keep on messaging. Also if he just wants 'Coochie' maybe a dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 11:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.Guys who start by complimenting a woman's bum. Guys who start by listing all their demands which include things like her not talking much, her being submissive, guys who post photos of their torso without their head, guys who make jokes that are sexist or threatening in subtext. Guys who start off their first message (this is a recent one) by announcing that if they are compatible he would marry her, he has a car and is willing to relocate to be with her. He's 67 and says he's on his way to The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 11:20 PM |
| 9 | CMV Women are overly dramatic about viable dating options.I signed up for the Burnt Haystick Dating Method last week because I'm thinking of dipping my toe in on line dating . The method promises a way to winnow most of the duds quickly and easily off their profiles, instead of having to actually meet them. I'm now thinking I won't bother at all because most of the profiles I've seen are seriously ICK and so many of the others are flying red flags. Yes women have lots of guys to choose from but most of them seem to be pond scum and believe me this does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Not in my experience. My husband and his friends used "big dick" as another put-down but it was a different 'bad'. They didn't and probably still don't consider 'big dick' to be a good thing in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Np I am explaining that it has NOTHING to do with actual dick size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 03:50 AM |
| – | Dating for women is a swamp. Dating for men is a desert. Neither can ever sympathize with the others complaints, because we (say) we want want what the other has.Well you are the one who says "Unfortunately, those really are the only 2 options. With how the discourse is going. So...which one? And why do you leave us those only 2 options?" You tell us we have only 2 options and then ask us why we leave you only those options. I'd argue that those of us who wander into the desert are at risk from other predators. It's not just crocodiles to beware of. Also the desert and the swamp are extremes (do you think all women are feminazi sluts? - nice). The ecoton… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 11:05 PM |
| -1 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menHow would they know? Women don't decide to date or not on the basis of his virginity/lack of. Women choose on a whole lot of other factors. If he is a virgin, it's probably because of some of those other factors and she's choosing not to because of those factors. As https://www.reddit.com/user/Kind_Mongoose_4730/ says "socially awkward or are lacking physically (may be due to hygiene, lack of effort, unfortunate looks)" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?It's like calling someone "a Karen". It doesn't mean her name actually is Karen. "Karen" just encapsulates what we all know to be "a Karen". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?No, the exact opposite. Dick size is not a factor. "Dick size" is just a shorthand way of describing his attitude. We can say he has 'small dick energy' without knowing anything about his dick size. 'Big dick energy' is also offputting but for a different reason. Who wants to be with a guy who is arrogant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?I've never been a radical feminist. It opened my eyes to the abuse I was suffering with my first husband and enabled me to survive as a divorced woman and then to make a much better 2nd marriage. It's also enabled me to support my nieces through their turbulent lives inc one with 3 small children who is married to a problem gambler. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Yep, he has no idea. Which makes it very difficult for him to figure out what he is looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Men are frightened women will laugh at them and women are frightened men will kill them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:32 PM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Well how many times do you think women do this in real life? What % of women do it? Because I don't know any. Also "women typically insist that it has nothing to do with body shaming because "we're just talking about personality" but seem to fail to see how attributing the worst personality traits with men who have small dicks while also atteibuting the best personality traits to men who are well endowed." No women don't attribute the worst faults to men with small dicks. Women use the terms in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:30 PM |
| -5 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?No. Small dick energy means he acts insecure. Nothing to do with how big or small his penis actually is, it's that he behaves as if he has a small one and feels insecure because of it. Big dick energy means he acts arrogant. Nothing to do with whether it is big or small, it's about his behaviour. He acts as if he's got a big one and has an abundance of confidence. Nothing to do with actual size. All to do with how he behaves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Of course you don't know them well, that's why you are dating. To find out more. I gave an example before - how would OP feel about dating a 60yo devout Catholic widow? Presumably there are other factors besides not fat and dresses nicely and doesn't talk much that he is sifting for. He could usefully add things like age bracket, religion or no religion, marital status etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:21 AM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Ha, well my husband and all his mates used it to refer to men who were arrogant and conceited. And no it was NOT a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:18 AM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?AS I said, I don't and neither do the women I know in real life. I'm not denying it may happen very rarely, just that it's not common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:13 AM |
| -3 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?Probably if that is what happens but generally small dick = insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 06:12 AM |
| -3 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?small dick energy =/= moral failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:18 AM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?I wouldn't say 'no women have ever done this' but certainly its not common in real world. It might be on-line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:17 AM |
| – | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?I don't talk about penises and I doubt most women do in day-to-day life. Maybe they do on-line. Also big dick energy and small dick energy don't mean best personality and worst personality traits. Big dick means arrogant, small dick mean insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Did anyone else go into Nesting Mode when their frontal lobe developed?I went to Uni as a mature age student at 27 and became a feminist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Well you don't go out with someone if you don't know them at least a little bit. lol. That is stupid - you have no idea of who he is, where he works, where he lives. You will potentially be assaulted or worse. That's why you don't accept a date from someone who approaches you cold. It's why OLD is so dangerous and requires so many safety mechanisms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?No. If you are happy to be single, your current method works just fine. If you want a long term partner, you'll have to switch it up. Don't forget, a lot of 'dating tips' for men are for those who only want ONS, not LT partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Yes thank you. I understood what you were saying and thought I should chip in and say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it.Basically I'm agreeing with you. Same tactic women are using. Don't get too attached or too invested. Know what you want and what you can tolerate and walk away at the first sign of a mismatch. Saves you the effort and will make it easier for the women too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?I think your work colleague was trying to help you. Lets say I'm a white 60YO devout Catholic widow who dresses modestly. Lets say I am at the gym and approached by a guy I don't know and asked on a date. He's 20yo, dark skinned with Maori style face tattoos, multiple body piercings and the build of a wrestler. What do you think I am going to do? Accept or decline? And on what basis do you think I might make that choice? There's a lot more to choosing to go out with someone, or not go out with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?What I mean is if you go on a first date and she or you decide after that, there's no future, then there's no more dates. If you don't use more filters before dates, you are likely to end up going on a lot of first dates. Is that all you want? Or are you looking for a longer term relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 07:38 AM |
| 6 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?She asked you what your IDEAL partner would be or look like. Not "at starting point" but ideal. People are getting confused because you keep saying 'starting point' whereas you were asked about 'ideal'. her goals, her aspirations, her dreams, her job, her beliefs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Character and personality come before a decision to date. If he doesn't meet the character and personality tests, he'd not getting a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:48 AM |
| 11 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Thank you. I was wondering that. My late (beloved) husband would talk under wet cement. Talk about anything, everything and nothing. Drove me up the wall. Now if OP wanted someone who talked less than my husband just about anyone would meet that requirement. OTOH if OP wants someone who talks less than say Marcel Marceau when he was performing, that's going to be a problem. OP needs to define ""don't talk as much" as much as what exactly." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?If you are looking for lots of first dates, sure. That will narrow it down. But then what? Are you just looking for ONS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Your view of men who typically have low preferences in women?Agree! His standards are um odd. Fine for first date but no long term prospect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 01:28 AM |
| -2 | Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it.Women are now using the Burnt Haystack Dating Method because there are so many poor quality men on line, trying to get with them. If you can burn a man out of consideration early, it saves time and effort. Maybe something similar is happening in real life too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishThank you, his comment has been deleted. That's why I could find it! In response to the guy who said we know women feel no pleasure from sex Men : sex = intercourse = climax Women : sex = foreplay = climax. 85% of women don't climax during intercourse, not matter how turned on. A small % find intercourse painful, no matter how turned on. You (whoever he was) need to clarify what you mean by 'sex' because I'm pretty sure that's where your error in logic is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishMy previous answer (to one of the sub comments) was lost so here's the short version. Men : sex = intercourse = climax Women : sex = foreplay = climax. 85% of women don't climax during intercourse, not matter how turned on. A small % find intercourse painful, no matter how turned on. You need to clarify what you mean by 'sex' because I'm pretty sure that's where your error in logic is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same.Yes we're in agreement. What downvote? I didn't down vote you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:37 AM |
| 2 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same.Then you should prob explain that to the PP who asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same.Personally I think both are good things in and of themselves. MGTOW gets a bad rap because the guys seem to be vocal about how they are being MGTOW while at the same time complaining about how awful women are. It comes across as "methinks he doth protest too much" I have heard of but not heard from 4B so they come across as actually practicing what they preach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same.and also a good 80% of women's problems. I'm all in favour of men and women concentrating on their own lives and coping abilities and resource building. My late husband and I were in that situation for most of our lives until we met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:02 PM |
| 2 | 4B and MGTOW are the exact same."I had a GF attack me in my home because I wouldn't let her go through my phone because I had confidential information from my clients on it." I think this is what is being referred to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishHe clearly has no idea. No grasp of reality at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Women mentally “check out” of a relationship long before the actual breakup occursGenerally men have someone lined up before they leave whereas women are more likely to leave and then look for another man. This is esp true if she has children to think about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 08:08 AM |
| 5 | Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young?How is youth 'wasted'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 07:01 AM |
| 5 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishFool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishWell my husband has been dead 4 1/2 years and he never earned 6 figures. So there's that. Where do you live and what do you earn that you can afford to pay a 6 figure allowance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishLets pull up right here. How are you defining sex? Intercourse? Because guys think sex = intercourse, it's their holy grail. Well about 85% of women can't climax during intercourse, AND a small proportion of women find it uncomfortable/painful no matter how well aroused they are, AND quite a few % more complain if their partner doesn't bother trying to arouse them. For most women, foreplay = sex = climax. So maybe you need to back up and reconsider your words and definitions and actions. Hint: t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishWomen get turned on by BEING the turn on. Women are not turned on by seeing a fit, attractive man's body. I have never read that, here or elsewhere. I know women who do get turned on by men's bodies, and honestly I've never heard a woman say she gets turned on by being the turn on. I don't know where you're getting this sh^t from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:34 AM |
| 3 | Female Sexuality is innately Selfishyou aren't aroused by the male body Well what do you want us to do about it? It's like men can't stop being turned on by seeing attractive bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:30 AM |
| 9 | Female Sexuality is innately Selfishwhere are these women? I don't know many men who even earn 6 figures a year, let alone pay an allowance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishWe've got a live one over here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Why do you view male sexuality as inherently objectifying and degrading?A lot of women claim to hate being cold approached for the same reason, since they know they're approached for their looks. If some guy cold approaches you for a date (say you are both at the bakery section of the supermarket and he turns and asks you to go out with him), you've got to think 1 of 2 things. Either he's attracted to your body, or he's basically so desperate for ANY warm body that you being able to fog a mirror is what he is attracted to. Either way, he sees you as a sexual object.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.That doesn't change your generic interpretation. When I was young we didn't have any places to go to meet 'high value' folks. Assuming you're talking the famous 6,6,6 definition, there aren't any here, never have been. I mean, how many towns in the US do have 'high value' folks. The so-called high value people move to the few big centres. Most places in the world don't have any 'high value' folks. Some, few, high density places have but most of us don't. And TBF in those places where there are '… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.To be clear, no, not everywhere in the world has places where 'high value men and women go to get lit'. Surprise, surprise, not everyone lives in Miami, London, Cleveland, and LA. And not everyone on Reddit lives where there are places where 'high value men and women go to get lit' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.No. I'm talking about those of us who live in the bulk of the world, where those things (going where other hot drunk high value men and women go) don't exist. And I'm not on dating apps which are artificial, and I am on social media but for useful things and for keeping real world friendships and family connections going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute.Not many women do have those options you listed. Those options are only available in small subsets of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Women's attraction is relative, Men's attraction is absolute."Women’s attraction, though, is more relative. He has to be comparatively more attractive than other men in the space. He has to be funnier, more charming, more dominant, more ambitious, and more socially skilled than his competition. Usually, he also has to make more money than her (and sometimes more than other men around her too). Women don’t want a guy who is "good enough." The guy has to be better in some way." Who are these women? Where do they live? Most of us are just happy to find a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Fair call! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Different person, Random-radishes said "It’s clear you’re just looking to be offended. " and then alwaysright0 decided to get involved. Read the whole thread. I was simply pointing alwayswrong0 back to the top of the thread and explaining what was originally said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?Go up thread. The convo had originally been between Random_radishes and Odd Book 9024. You inserted yourself and claimed Random-radishes was ashamed. Random_radishes in response to you first said "It’s clear you’re just looking to be offended. " Then you responded with "Why would I be offended ... ?" which is you trying to live vicariously by taking the opposing part in the discussion. "She means you are just looking for an excuse to be offended." That was me trying to explain to you that Random… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 01:25 AM |
| 7 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?No, what are you going to give HER by way of reciprocation? Elevated commitment to your relationship with her? You've confirmed your relationship to the kid but in the process cast doubt on her relationship to you. (Personally I think paternity test should be compulsory part of the standard panel at birth, so the correct sire can be ID'ed and the registry be reliable). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?She means you are just looking for an excuse to be offended. Not offended by her, just for an opportunity to clutch your pearls and shriek. ie you are living vicariously by trying to insert your presumption (of shame) into her response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 10:10 PM |
| 11 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?A paternity test proves who the child's father is. It proves NOTHING re the woman's sexual history either side of conception. A paternity test matters re finances going fwd next 18 years. So what is he worried about? That their relationship is good and she is honest? Or that he's going to be on the hook for $$ for 18 years? Or do you genuinely believe that if he gets one he doesn’t trust you at some pretty significant level and the relationship is doomed? Not necessarily doomed, but there'd be s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child?You're looking for an opportunity to be offended. And living vicariously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 09:44 PM |
| -1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?this must be an american thing - another dysfunction from the states | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Missed the point, didn't you? My niece has also experienced her husband taking her savings and gambling them away three times. Those of us who've experienced financial abuse/Sexually transmitted debt do tend to become "obsessed with financial status", both our own and that of the men we let into our household. If men were less inclined to do this, we'd be less inclined to worry in advance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Missed the point, didn't you? My niece has also experienced her husband taking her savings and gambling them away three times. Those of us who've experienced financial abuse/Sexually transmitted debt do tend to become "obsessed with financial status", both our own and that of the men we let into our household. If men were less inclined to do this, we'd be less inclined to worry in advance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 03:39 AM |
| -4 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?Well I was certainly obsessed after my first husband tried to take it all in divorce inc my inheritance. After I had contributed the bulk of the deposit on the house. And I certainly won't be getting involved with anyone who has less in assets than I have now. I'm not going to support a grifter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Accepting money from other men other than my boyfriend?Random men are giving you money? For no reason? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/25 11:37 PM |
| -6 | Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women?"Women openly mock men for their height, financial status, or even manipulate them in relationships," Never seen or even heard of this among my friends or even acquaintances. Maybe it happens but I doubt it happens often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Men make women miserable. When given the choice, women will always walk away from men and be happily single. Men should realize this and live their lives accordingly.Drawing a long bow there "Every woman inherently doesn’t like men at some level, the only difference is some are more willing to speak out about it. The vast majority of women walk around with a deep-seated contempt towards men, and are living a lie everytime they act positively towards them." Also in this matter "there is a larger variety of maternal DNA than paternal DNA in humans, meaning far more women reproduced in history than men". Yes. And you know why? Lots of women died in pregnancy or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 11:14 PM |
| 2 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?Ditto for me wrt a potential husband. If he has a history of hookups and casual sex I would categorically dismiss him from any consideration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 09:47 AM |
| 3 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?What exactly way she saying/doing "for the entire evening" that constituted disrespect? Was she openly laughing at you all night in front of a group of work contacts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?Just like women aren't an homogenous mass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 09:35 AM |
| 2 | What are the differences between hookup material, girlfriend material, and wife material?and how do we identify an 8 from a 5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/25 09:32 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcSo then don't complain. (what about a slim career woman?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 09:58 PM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcI am showing that I was tolerant and genuinely committed and it MADE NO DIFFERENCE to the quality of the relationship or the outcome. So no it's not that "women have a very low tolerance for problems in relationships". Also note that I brought more to the marriage than he did and upon divorce he wanted to keep almost all of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 09:57 PM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcNor am I talking about putting up with crap off women. No one has to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???I can't see the full thread above this comment. He was saying people have told him he must not be biassed against single mothers and I said that is fine because it's not just his preference for looks or body shape but additionally he would be taking on a parental/step-parental role. It's not just a preference. I am telling him to understand he should not just include it as a preference because it's not just a preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcMy point is what the OP stated : "many in the manosphere claim women are financial leeches on society and take everything from men in divorce. Yet, at the same time, these same men look down on or even resent women who strive for financial independence—women who would be far less likely to “destroy” a man financially in divorce. It seems like the ideal scenario for the manosphere is for women to be “traditional”—either not working or only holding low-wage jobs but still receive absolutely nothin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:58 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etc"Child rearing is the wife's responsibility" That'd be enough for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:56 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcAh see this is what I see too. Men are wanting mothers of potential children. Not so much a lifetime wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:51 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcso then don't complain if you divorce and have to support her and the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:44 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcDoes this happen now? let's say there are no kids and they are both working. They both are making their money. Why does he have to pay her extra when she's making her own money? Just because he has more? That's greed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:43 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcMy first husband wanted both houses, all his superannuation and a fair chunk of my inheritance. So he wanted my money - not just his but what I'd brought with me and what I'd contributed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:39 AM |
| – | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcI tried for 11.5 years and was nearly suicidal when I left. Emotional and financial abuse. Later I discovered he was closeted gay. Nothing I could do about that. Should I have not divorced him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Yours counts as much as mine does. 20 years of it in offices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Same deal. You don't take them on if you don't want to be in any sort of parent role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???WTF does this mean in plain English? "constantly use community and inclusion to maintain power and influence over other men and women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???IF you want to marry. And if you are wanting to marry then def things like potential step kids are def a big factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???I don't think most women are on edge about it. Most of us who are not mothers (there's a lot of us) would probably sympathise (I would not date a single dad for instance) and those who are single mothers are probably anxious about the possible negative impacts of having a man around their kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Agree. I suspect it's a bit more nuanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Looks and body shape are not really going to help if you get into a long term relationship. You are entitled to your preferences, though basing a woman's value on your preferences is clearly wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???Well you shouldn't be perpetuating unfair or unhealthy beauty standards But you are entitled to your preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 8 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???In all my years working for govt I never heard anyone talking about tall rich guys. I do recall one brief convo re a good looking male colleague. I worked for the state govt; where do you work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???You've taken a big swerve here. We're not talking about physical or emotional attributes of the woman. We're talking actual LIVING children. Of course you don't take on step kids if you don't want to be a parent. That's not a preference for weight or body type, that's messing with youngsters upbringing and lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do women feel single childless men are obligated to date single-moms???We don't. SOME women might. Same as men thinking all women are obligated to marry some dude and provide wifely duties for him. We aren't obligated to marry. None of us are obligated to date or marry at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 09:07 AM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Well I'm not out looking for a man, I keep to myself, and I never have been a party person. I've made this point before in other places - it's not that all women get approached because there are enough of us out here living quiet circumspect lives who most men seem to not know exist. For example, I have 1 friend who has had 2 relationships in her life - 1 engaged, 1 FWB many years ago. Another friend has had 2 relationships - 1 marriage, 1 LTBF. I have had 3 relationships - 1 bf and 2 husbands. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.You are right. He was talking to you personally. Not the Royal WE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcIt shouldn't if there are no kids. I'm not saying it should. BUT if a man deliberately chooses a woman with low income/low earning potential on that basis, he should realise what he's setting himself up for. If you don't want to 'lose a lot in divorce' then marry a woman who will contribute about equally during marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 11:00 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Actually I did have 3 men make eyes at me between 1996 and 2004. One was married and I ain't going there. One is the local 'eccentric' with rusty car bodies in his overgrown yard - nope. One was, I'm not sure how to describe him. He was older and well educated and employed and polite but somehow gave me the creeps. No rational explanation for it but I just couldn't feel quite comfortable with him. He should have ticked all the boxes but he didn't. He tried the 'friend' thing and we met for coffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.How would other men see my reaction to his unwanted 'visits'? Do they have spy cameras on my private property? You said "All women get approached." which is why I said "Thankfully I do live somewhere that doesn't happen hardly at all." I'm not interested in him or anyone else, and I think you need to rethink your theory that All women get approached because I went plenty of long times when I wasn't being approached and life was peaceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 10:49 PM |
| -1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.So they are not supposed to be choosy then? I don't know the sub you're referring to, but why is 'being willing to have sex without being choosy' a solution to 'being alone forever'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 06:39 AM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Why do I want to have sex? I mean, why do I want to have sex with some guy, just because HE wants to? Why wouldn't I be choosy about who I have sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:07 AM |
| 0 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.All women get approached. Men chase, Thankfully I do live somewhere that doesn't happen hardly at all. Since my husband died (over 4 years ago) I have 1 bloke turning up occasionally on the pretext of 'making sure you're alright'. "Yes I'm fine" and short of telling him not to come back I don't know what else to do to give him the hint. He was the odd job man when husband was alive and I've already explained I'm retired and have the time now to do the work myself. Last time I stood with my back … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcI know of some young women who are/were wife material. Clean living, well mannered, hard working in caring professions, modest etc. I also know of young women who are providing a home and financial support to no-hopers who are sponging off them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:27 AM |
| – | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".That's what I said - he'd have to be a hell of a catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcWe're talking about the Manosphere. ie MRAs, Incels, PUAs and MGTOW MRAs are about the only ones in the manosphere who might have experience of "paternity fraud, dead bedrooms, financial ruin at the hands of wives". Those guys might be "well balanced ,kind,empathetic" or they might not be. The Incels and PUAs definitely are NOT well balanced, kind, or empathetic. Incels are guys living in their mum's basement, who "hate on career women, claiming they are masculine and make bad wives or mothers. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:23 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcNot talking about kids and a SAHM. Talking about the difference between a man choosing to marry a low pay/low earning woman vs a woman with a career and earning good money, and THEN turning around and complaining about the 50/50 split. You choose to marry her, you expect the consequences if you divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women in this subreddit are always confused about 'high standards'.I've asked but never had an answer yet to what makes a high quality man. None of what men say about what women supposedly want makes a man high standard in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 01:16 AM |
| 12 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcBecome a better PERSON. Well balanced, kind, empathetic. Better manners, treat others as equals, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".He'd have to be a hell of a catch. You want me to work full time AND do all the household stuff AND raise the kids AND be wildly enthusiastic about having sex three times a day AND all without any sort of commitment? What did your last slave die of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 12:44 AM |
| 4 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".So either way, he is setting himself up for her to walk away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 12:40 AM |
| 4 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".The OP is assuming all women begin a monogamous relationship and then switch to a dead bedroom. "The moment a man a man agrees to fidelity the chase is off for women. She no longer needs to worry about competition. ... This eventually leads to dead bedrooms." "keeps your female partner in the competition loop. She never knows for certain that you aren't banging someone else." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 12:39 AM |
| 3 | A man should never publicly commit to fidelity to his SO, even if he is committed because women will lose respect for a man they don't need to "work for".Then she has to assume he's answering honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 12:33 AM |
| 14 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcReal work to improve their chances with women who might want to be with them, not have to be financially dependent on them (ie make themselves better husband prospects). You don't know what circle jerking is? Heck even I know what that is. You don't know what victimhood is? "circle jerk their victimhood into each others mouths" In this case it means reinforcing their own perspective; it's a form of group think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 12:25 AM |
| 4 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcI agree. I have seen that too and I have pointed it out in other places (eg FB). Makes no sense to me. "She took half of everything I had." No, she took her half of your jointly earned assets. OR "I worked and she never contributed and now she wants half". Well, why did you marry a woman with little / no earning potential? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Most “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave”How is this even a debate? Manosphere “I want a traditional woman” claims translate to “I want a woman who can rely on me so she won’t be able to leave” I don't think there is an opposing claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | MIL made my engagement ring from old jewelry. Not sure how to handle thisIn the old days, a man would ask his mother and/or sisters to hand make gifts for his future wife. It was a symbol that she was welcomed into the family. Oftentimes it would be lingerie or bedroom linen; personal items, not household items. You might not like it aesthetically but you should consider this a token of how she feels about you. She put time and effort into it. Be careful how you handle it; this is not about the ring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The Final ExamSo the content has been debunked? We should just ignore it? Has it been updated? Where can I find current info? As for 'the venue' - I've been telling guys that for years. So no I don't think that piece of advice is outdated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | The Final ExamThe venue you meet in a man - how does a man have a venue in him? Also it's a "Theory" post, aren't I allowed to follow old links to theory posts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/25 09:33 PM |
| 1 | The Final Exam"The venue you meet in a man in has a lot of impact." Makes no sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate?I don't think bleach would have helped ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 03:02 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate?we all do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 03:00 AM |
| 9 | What do you think about a man that uses a sex toy to masturbate?The TLDR is that someone was using a coconut as a fleshlight, and it began rotting and he got maggots all over himself. The long version of it involved a week of regular use, butter as lube and very hot humid weather in a tropical country. You connect the dots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 10:16 PM |
| – | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?I know what the title is. The OP started the whole post with "Ladies, I'm interested in making this thread something that feels like an introspective conversation rather than a Redpill lecture. Now that that's out of the way, shall we..... Have you ever looked back at your dating history and noticed a shift in the kinds of men you were drawn to?" I had already given my direct answer but in keeping with OP's request I replied to yours because you said "There were also plenty of non-bad boy option… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?NO. The question was "Have you ever looked back at your dating history and noticed a shift in the kinds of men you were drawn to?" NO my preferences did NOT change. The OP is looking for answers to "have fun first, then settle later" and my answer is NO I did not chase bad boys and then change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 09:40 AM |
| 3 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?The question asked of women is "Have you ever looked back at your dating history and noticed a shift in the kinds of men you were drawn to?" I am a woman and my answer is I did not. You then said "There were also plenty of non-bad boy options that women chose not to engage with .... they had to control themselves around the nice guys .... This is not at all how women select to date." My answer is I did choose not to engage with bad boys, and I did choose the nice guys and I am a woman and this i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Yes SOME of us do. Your title is "Its very rare for a man" and you then went on to claim "It's all about what the man can provide and do for women. It's rarely ever about the man as a human being." I can immediately give you 2 examples to rebutt your claim. Off the top of my head. Without even thinking about. So maybe rethink your extreme claim. I don't doubt some men do have that experience, but we aren't as rare as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.People don't take on a mortgage (and everything else) by buying a house unless they are able and intend to cover all costs themselves. Their bank won't let them either. If a woman buys a house on her own, she does not need a provider. Now she might be keen on getting a lover/husband but it doesn't necessarily mean she wants a provider. And if she does get a lover/husband, she's gunna ring fence that property. My first husband expected to get the lion's share of the property when we divorced desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.I don't know if SOME men are loved unconditionally, because I'm not and never have been a man. (I guess SOME of their mums love them unconditionally) I can absolutely guarantee you that No, not all women, not all children and not all dogs are loved unconditionally. I also suspect that 'unconditional love' is a unicorn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?Funny. I did in fact not date bad boys. It's how this woman selected to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?Might have mistaken her for Addings0 who IS a man. That's what I thought anyway. 0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Do women change preferences organically or is there something else at play?I never dated any wild ones. Didn't really date at all as a teenager. Only went for sensible ones from the start. Don't do romance novels either so can't help you there either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Your own personal experience doesn't negate reality. Plenty of women marry (and stay together long term) for reasons other than his "ability to provide". Many of us "genuinely like him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Read before you respond. The article is showing women are the ones supporting themselves, and being reluctant to get involved with a man if he can't support himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | I'm trying so hard not not resent men but the internet is making it difficult. I'm starting to regret ever standing up for them as a conservative woman. How do I get over this feeling?Where these comments made here or elsewhere? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.Skills can be kept honed. Achievements - depends on what you're talking about. If I invest to give me a self-funded retirement, that's an achievement that continues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.so this is the reason men want women who will birth their babies - immortality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.I'd like to give you a thousand upvotes for this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.SOME women, SOME children and SOME dogs are loved unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.“Women do not typically invest in long-term relationships with men who have nothing to contribute economically.” This much is true. Women don't want to be supporting a moocher. https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2025/02/america-marriage-decline/681518/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Its very rare for a man to find a woman who genuinely likes him for who he is as a human being, instead of what he provides.BS. Have you even met any people? My husband was invalided and living off a modest pension when I met him. I brought more in assets and income to the relationship that he did. He was a wonderful man and I didn't want his money, I loved him. My sister, ditto. She went against family and religion and they are still together 40+ years later. He never earned much money - then or now - and they struggled with $$ raising 4 kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?Nope. Never have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually?You're weird. I never had a "pumped’n’dumped phase;" as you call it. Not every woman does, and if you assume such, you must be missing a lot of women. Maybe change your hunting ground to where the women you want actually are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersMumsnet, Dr Upton, heaps of threads there. Also that's not how you spell 'girl'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 01:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: divorce favors the maleWhy not? Aren't I allowed to clarify a side issue that comes up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 12:32 AM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersMany of us don't, no. Many women don't, even once they've had the surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/25 12:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: divorce favors the maleNo I don't want to talk about the article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: divorce favors the maleThe OP was about divorce favors the male. They linked 1 old article. Why would I bother reading the old article. I did go back and read up to your original comment. I copied and pasted it in my other response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersLook up Dr Upton on Mumsnet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersI agree. But in other places I am howled down for saying MTF trans who have had the surgery are OK to allow to use women's spaces. See the Upton trial in the UK and discussions online re the implications. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: divorce favors the maleYou asked "if women are getting such a raw deal in divorces, then why do they initiate close to 80% of them at least in the US?" and got the response "Because they’d rather be poor than miserable." One woman complaining in a 16YO article is hardly telling us anything about the vast majority of US divorces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: divorce favors the maleI didn't read the article. I was responding to the poster and the comments above here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: divorce favors the maleWho said they were complaining? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI'm intrigued that you, a man, claim you have access to this "women's only spaces (like twoxchromosones)" according to malpaiss (below) and you are so heavily interested and involved in the content. I'm a woman and I don't do or want to do any of these things. I don't watch porn, or MSM of rough sex, or read erotic novels. Hair pulling, spanking, light choking, etc. would be an instant relationship killer for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI'll tell you what you sound like to me. You sound like someone who is begging for agreement that women enjoy being beaten and I suspect that if you get that agreement, it'll turn up as your defense one day in court. "But Your Honor, I was told all women enjoy that sort of thing." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesWTF is twox? Some women do but not all. Don't assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesAs a woman, I don't want to be dominated, or experience rough and degrading sex acts. Some women do but not all. Don't assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesAs a woman, I don't want to be dominated, or experience rough and degrading sex acts. Some women do but not all. Don't assume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 1 | The biggest threat to modern feminism is positive misogyny from women toward themselves and othersA lot of women are concerned about MTF trans being allowed in women-only spaces. No-one is doing anything to protect us there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Valentines Day is for Women not Men.I'm a woman and I don't care about Valentine's Day. A card and maybe a box of chocolates is all I've ever got and all I've ever wanted. My 2nd husband would have spent more of his money on gifts for me but I kept telling him No don't waste it, use it for something worthwhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenWhat? We were talking about whether a doctor-type (ie educated) would marry down. The notion was if they married a fellow college-educated woman she would be more inclined to divorce. Someone said it would be expensive for him if she did and I said no, she would have contributed so they'd have more, so all she would be doing would be getting back her share. Which would be what she put in the pot at marriage, plus her half of the community property. I don't know why you've now changed the scenari… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenI don't disagree that some below 100 IQ women successfully go to Uni nor that many above 100 IQ women don't have the chance. I myself was one of them, I made it to Uni as a mature age adult who never graduated high school. My IQ is 128. That doesn't change my response to whoever it was who said Uni is just like high school. It's not. It's nothing like high school. Anyone who goes to Uni thinking all they have to do is memorise and regurgitate probably won't do well, as in fact the whoever said i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenAnd? How does that relate to what I said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenDiligent rope had said "I am a guy, and I do care, I have always been attracted to women who are educated and who are career women. " and then you replied “And much more expensive in a divorce, which, if I recall correctly, is more likely.” College educated folks are less likely to divorce but yes if college educated she has contributed more (than if not) and so they have more to split and so she should get more back than if not educated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenThey each get back what they put it. They halve the community property. I can't find the original comment I was replying to. Someone was saying in the event of a divorce she always gets back more than she should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenReally? How does it operate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Obamacare was signed into law on March 23, 2010 and the major provisions came into force in 2014. It is a for profit, employer based, health care system that does not cover a significant percentage of its population. Australia has a single payer, universal health care system. It started in 1984. Australia also has a pharmaceutical benefits scheme which negotiates with pharmaceutical companies the price the PBS will pay for medications. This essentially reduces the price of medications in Austral… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?We are seen as a threat so we are stigmatised. And the word is marITal, not marTIal. Married mothers today are not so worn down but many women in 'the good old days' were. Those of us who are single and childless usually have more spare time and energy to put into questioning the status quo, and again we are thus seen as a threat, and thus stigmatised. Also you're not the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:41 AM |
| 0 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Most other developed countries already have those things. And have had for a generation or 2. We are often shocked by just how backwards USA is in many respects. WTH have the Democrats been doing all this time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Democrats only appear to be left wing in comparison to the Republicans. In fact, elsewhere in the world they'd be considered centre-right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?The Democrats aren't a left wing party. They may be left of the Republicans but they aren't left wing. Anywhere else, they'd be a centrist right wing party. The Republicans are far right so it doesn't take much to look to be left of them. I didn't say childless unmarried women have enough clout to change the prevailing social order. Only that our existence is a threat to it, hence we cop some social stigma. I didn't say single/childless/unmarried women do a better job voting or behave more intel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenWho says she can't date a man making less than 80,000? I married a lovely man who had been pensioned off due to disability (a road accident, not his fault). I worked, he could not. I earned much more than he and I had more assets already than he. And I am widowed and alone with no kids but I have a home and an income and I would not settle for a man less than my late beloved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?I'm sorry, my mistake. I responded to the wrong poster. You may not notice it but others see it regularly. It's not imagination, it pops up regularly in some places. "Many single childless women, are seen as a threat to other women who are already paired up. As though I wanna sleep with their man...get real. No one wants your man. Men in general think we're old whores. Apparently our vaginas are all blown out from our high n-counts. Also, CHAD was our first. After that, everything went downhill.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:31 AM |
| 5 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Agree with that. But my point is the disconnect between what your headline says and what you have fallen back to now. You claimed "unmarried childless women way more stigmatised" and now you have backed off to just 'the wall is real'. Let's say the wall is real (for having babies it is). That does not translate to "unmarried childless women way more stigmatised". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 03:23 AM |
| 9 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?Ha ha ha you must be joking! traditional society doesn't expect much from women beyond looking good and having kids, so she's viewed as deserting one of her very few assigned duties. Women do vast amounts of work in traditional society - cooking, cleaning, child bearing and raising, farm labor, field labor, fabric manufacture, clothes making, community rituals and social cohesion, etc. One of the reason so many joined the great nunneries and abbeys in historic times was precisely because the lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:49 AM |
| 13 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?and in the rest of the world? The greater part of the world where 'Dem' doesn't mean anything, and all the conservatives are like the US right wing party The Democrats. Unmarried/childless women are a threat to the economic and social order that prevails. We aren't worn down by childcare and marital labor, so we are free to think big and think systemic, and we vote accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?and yet you're doing it - you imagine we are being bullied mercilessly "unmarried childless women bullied mercilessly all the time" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?and yet you're doing it - you think we are being bullied mercilessly "unmarried childless women bullied mercilessly all the time" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?So what you really mean is 'the wall is real', and your headline "unmarried childless women way more stigmatised" is actually hyperbole? The wall only matters if you want to have kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Why are unmarried childless women way more stigmatised than unmarried childless men?There are lots of memes on FB like that, true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 02:27 AM |
| 8 | These are the women high value men choose: how does this/should this impact the kind of women average men think they can get?this ^ the best course of action for average men is to work on being boyfriend material, strictly pursue low maintenance women, and reassess their needs for women who are 10’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenRight from year 1, memorise and forget was NOT a thing. Yes you were expected to know some things, yes you had to memorise the details eg of the nervous system, plant cells, the ATP, but these things weren't just regurgitated in exams. You had to interpret eg what you saw down the microscope in a prac exam, or what the situation was, or what the problem was, eg what characteristics of a plant you had to design for desert environment in an exam. None of it was regurgitation; you had to know the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenDefinitely. Guys on FB saying they don't care, they just want a hot young fertile thing working a low pay job, because "her career doesn't matter" - have a look at who they are. Nobody, with no prospects and the photos they put up of the hot young fertile thing working a low pay job who they claim all men want to marry - she won't look twice at them because she has much better options. I wish I could find that FB post now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenNo, she has contributed more so they have more so she gets more back. Higher % of divorces in the college educated are initiated by women, but lower overall divorce rates among college folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenTell me you nothing about university education without telling me you nothing about university education. "Just cause someone memorized a bunch of bullshit and regurgitated it on some test 500 times." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenSo you'd prefer a gold digger / potential gold digger then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenDidn't you just say "in the west lower socioeconomic status is more associated with promiscuity and drug abuse"? So now you say "Less maintenance, less investment, higher success, more likely to adhere to traditional gender roles" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:36 PM |
| – | A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships?But there simply isn’t enough abuse and cheating to be explain the drop in marriage rates and general abstention from the dating market. Oh yes there is. Too many stories of women who thought they were in a happy marriage to find out he cheated a lot, and too many who eventually realised they were being abused, albeit not beaten up. DV is sadly common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:23 PM |
| – | A significant cohort of single childless women are about to hit their 40's. How do you think it's going to affect the conversation about navigating modern relationships?This^. I'm not a people person, I like my own space and peace and quiet. I didn't enjoy my childhood because I had to share with noisy siblings in a noisy house. Living like that didn't change me, it just stressed me out and I had a miserable childhood, though not abused. I have been able to fix that as I get older. Not be becoming a people person but by arranging my life and living situation to suit who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 10:19 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyI read it slowly and carefully twice. 1 You're assuming women are a monolith. 2 You're conflating chivalry with 'treating women well'. 3 Valentine's Day means nothing. 4 Consumer surveys mean nothing. 5 Benevolent Sexism is BS (yeah that bit is right). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 01:15 AM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societyYou're connecting dots that are not on the same page. Your post makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:27 PM |
| – | Women don't really want equality relationships as evidenced by women in societywhat tf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statisticsfriend-zoned =\= friend. This is what men don't get. A woman may have a guy as a friend but the guys all think friend-zoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsThere's no system to protest against re asking men out. Women can ask men out if they want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsMaybe where you are. Where I am it's how things are. Going to college is not easy or cheap here and it does say a lot. And yes some blue collar workers are like that but some aren't and the mines workers I am talking about are a real thing. My neighbour's son was a high school principal. His house would be rocked and pelted with eggs at night because he advised kids to stay in school and the kids laughed because they could quit school at 15 and get a job next day paying more than he earned. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsSo stay single. Plenty of women are choosing to stay single because we aren't impressed with the men available (I'm past marrying age too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsYes you can. But that does not tell a prospective spouse anything about your ability to choose (career or spouse), plan (study or family) and carry through by long term actions towards the goal. Guys can earn a lot here working in mines. They leave school before completion of high school, spend their high income on flash cars, drink and drugs, and basically are not good marital prospects. A college degree usually signifies an ability to stick with a long term plan and juggle competing priorities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsMen don't have to protest, they can just apply for Air conditioned Teaching and Nursing Jobs. Nothing stopping them (except for qualifications and there are mature age access options too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsNothing stopping any given woman from asking out any given man. Protests were to change the systems that kept women as SAHM. No system to protest re asking men out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsWomen work plenty of low paid, backbreaking jobs. Nursing for example. Long hours, low pay and physically demanding. Bricklaying isn't the only physically demanding job out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsAre women being discriminated against when applying for bricklaying jobs? Or they just don't apply? Why would they apply for a job they don't want to do? Are there man men who have to be bricklayers who really want to be eg aged care nurses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsMen can feel all those things too and still have to approach Men can feel all what things, sorry? not physically unattractive, like walking question marks, lower sex drive ??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsTrue. But how many child-free women are SAHW? Today most women work because the family needs the money, so most divorced mothers both need the money and contributed to the asset base. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsTrue. But often they don't have aspirations, they just kind of drift along and are surprised when a pregnancy happens and then they're married and wake up one day and find there's 3 kids and a spouse and no money and no obvious future and panic and divorce. Not a good marital prospect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/25 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The Statisticsand her career never recovers and she will take 'half of everything that's mine' if they divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:18 PM |
| 5 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsThe men will then complain you've friend zoned them, not realising you are maybe sizing them up as a potential partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsAnd this is why Fancy Statistician is right about divorce stats. Often a marriage happens cos someone got pregnant to the guy she knew in school, they have no money and no plans and no coping skills and divorce seems the better option all things considered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsTrue. But a lot of these discussions involve men who whine that they supported her financially all through the childbearing and child raising hence 'she took half of what i had'. The discussion needs to be defined first up as to are we talking primary earner/ SAHM or DINK? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsThe prenup is made before marriage, in anticipation of marriage. You specify BEFORE you marry how you will split stuff later IF you divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:07 PM |
| 8 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsChoose better. It's not hard to figure out which women make good marriage prospects if your divorce payout is what you're worried about. The problem is those women are not ATTRACTIVE to most men so we are overlooked. The ones men want to marry oftentimes are high maintenance and going to spend $$ on clothes, make up, hair, whatever. Choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:05 PM |
| 5 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsSome women. Not all women. Again with the 'women as monolith'. Why would I ask a man out, ask a man to marry me or buy him a wedding ring if I'm happy alone? When I was engaged I told him not to waste money on a ring as I don't wear them and don't want one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Heterosexuality is not sustainable by red pill logic.Who is 'they' in this situation? Heterosexuals? Men? Women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutAs I said up further, the problem isn't time, it's the mode used. OLD meeting is very different from IRL meeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutTrue. But then again they might be relevant. And also not everyone is dating online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutSo we DO have to be experienced on-line dating gurus to have anything worthwhile to contribute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutWell that is what I do. Speak from experience I have. You said "I would venture to guess has never randomly dated someone, they just met through work and social circles, started dating a few people in then end up in a long term relationship." That implied to me you were focused on online dating because of your ref to "randomly dated someone" as opposed to "met through work and social circles". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:51 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?How do you think birth control pills and IUDs work? Medical intervention. Tube tying? Medical intervention. Or are you wanting to be daddy to numerous kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 01:46 AM |
| 1 | You Can Never Trust a Woman Who Doesn't Have Intense Lust for You Nearly ImmediatelyI've never instantly lusted for a man. I've been married twice, 11 n 1/2 years (divorced) and 6 years (partnered 16 years all up, widowed). When you lose your job and stop providing what you can give her, nah First was employed but an AH. Second was on permanent disabled (low) income due to injury and I was always the bigger income earner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Most of The Commenters on This Sub Have Basically Zero Experience In What They Are Arguing AboutSo do we have to be experienced on-line dating gurus to have anything worthwhile to contribute? Widow, last relationship 16 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:36 PM |
| – | What are your thoughts on vasectomies?Its just a snip of the vas. Doesn't destroy anything. Still produce Testosterone. Women prefer vasectomy to their ongoing responsibility to tamper with their body/menstrual cycle. All those chemicals and internal devices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesYour first source is also questionable, in my opinion. "The sample (n = 1,392) of adults in the United States was collected using Amazon Mechanical Turk and included a much wider age range (ages 18–73) than in typical pornography research. Using all modalities of pornography, 91.5% of men and 60.2% of women herein reported having consumed pornography in the past month." That seems a small sample and I'm not familiar with AMT (crowd sourcing?) as a collection method. I can't access the full artic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesWell your second source is dubious. For one it's from an anti-porn site and it's critiquing research done by a pro-porn site into customer numbers. The original research is to normalise porn, the critique is anti-porn. Neither is uninterested. "the site’s total porn viewers are comprised of 23% women and 77% men" "women are more likely to watch porn—especially the more hardcore categories—when they have suffered sexual assaults and psychological violence at the hands of their families." So we mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 11:06 PM |
| 0 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesIt is a well known fact that around 60% of women watch pornography and are more likely then men to watch degrading and rough stuff like gangbangs. In fact, women are 113% more likely to seek out rough pornography then men. Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyYou asked me "Don’t you think that women are innately hypergamous?" If it's innate, it's not created by modern society. So my age is irrelevant. Also what about those "young UN attractive women in the West, I can tell you they are picky as hell." Maybe the attractive ones are picky but many can't afford to be picky. You even go on to say yourself "less than 5% who qualify but young women don’t care because they have their hypergamous standards" implying it's all young women, not just the attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?BS as a woman I call BS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?BS as a woman I call BS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?What is OLD? It's not in the jargon list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do men believe virgin men are unattractive to women?quit presuming how women think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenYeah it's like all the blokes who complain they can't find a woman with low body count on Tinder. "You think maybe you're looking in the wrong place?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyThey might not tell me that's what I should look for but they'd bloody talk about it! No I don't think that women are innately hypergamous. I think women - now we are free of economic restrictions - are happy to find a bloke who meets their expectations eg a decent paying job, good manners, well behaved, etc. Some women have specific requirements eg some women want to move away from their hometown, etc but most would be happy to find a decent bloke who treats them well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenAgree. People talk about 'women' and what they say does not resemble in any way any woman I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Social Media Teaches Women They are Better Than MenI follow very few people and that is based on their interests, their posts and comments - nothing to do with looks, sport, dancing or such like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyI'm retired and widowed. Why do I want a man? For companionship? No way would I marry again, I have my home, my income and my peace of mind. I won't be someone's nurse or purse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyHonestly I have never had a conversation with friends where that was said. Or family. Family always advised to find someone you got along with and shared interests with. I do know one friend who had a conversation with someone she thought she knew who said she would never date a tradesman, she wanted someone 'better' than that. My friend was appalled but that was not why their friendship ended. I'm high IQ so no point in me looking for someone smarter than me - I do expect people to be reasonabl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyAwareness of physical and financial threats is the reason I won't remarry. You think I'm gunna put all this at risk, just for a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyGovernment scientist (20+ years), published author, self funded via investments, retired and living on historic estate. Conservationist and habitat restoration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyWhy would I (irl) answer those questions? I'm not telling some stranger those details. My n count is 3 (1 bf and 2 husbands), I never date (I met all 3 through contacts) and WTF does "choices in dating in general" mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyNo, plenty of men say they don't care if a woman has a career or not, all they want is young, pretty and fertile. Time and time again I've read this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:13 PM |
| 24 | Why Men Are Doomed Due to Hypergamy in Modern SocietyThe Disparity in Relationship Expectations: Women today are more empowered, and while that’s fantastic, it has shifted relationship dynamics. There’s often an underlying notion that women are “expected” to find someone wealthier, taller, smarter, and more successful than them. Meanwhile, men are expected to accept partners who don’t meet these same societal standards. This imbalance makes it even harder for men to navigate relationships without feeling inadequate. I never got told this when I wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about?Well how would YOU tell me apart from them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about?I'm a woman, fit, with a house, retirement fund, modest salary. Body count of 3. Not triple digits, just 3. Where are all the men who don't want gold diggers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Do guys in the top 10-20% act similarly to these women people complain about?I still want to know where the 1-10 levels are defined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenI've had pets for 50 years. Before, during and after both my marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Every Guy I Know That Dated Around a Lot, Enjoyed the Idea of Soft HaremsI thought I was going crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Women and their Disgust for PrenupsThis ^ I see it a lot on Facebook pages too. But too many men on here go on about how she took half HIS stuff in a divorce and I’m sitting here like…well half was hers so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 11:47 PM |
| – | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?It's one of the first things I learned about women with autism, about 20 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:59 PM |
| – | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?No I did not say that. Frivolous spending is one of the ways autism is expressed in (many, not all) autistic women. Frivolous spending is over spending on products which they then regret and often want refunded the next day. Shoes, handbags, etc. It does NOT include consumer spending on necessary items like groceries, health care etc. Women often do the bulk of shopping for necessary items but that is NOT frivolous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 11:51 PM |
| – | Why is it so rare for "HVM" to be childfree?You said "The vast majority of people who violate norms are ... scummy lowlife criminals and dropouts." I know plenty of people who don't have kids who are not "scummy lowlife criminals and dropouts". What is your understanding of "vast majority of people"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:41 AM |
| – | Why is it so rare for "HVM" to be childfree?Speak for yourself. I am high intelligence, community-minded, law-abiding, retired early and never wanted kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 01:04 AM |
| 2 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?autism in women is often a cause of frivolous spending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.Lots of nuances. My brother is estranged from us. He is probably lonely. It was his choice to cut contact because he would not behave reasonably and we could no longer stand his irrational behaviour. I have 3 friends with similar relationships with their respective brothers. All of us experienced obnoxious domineering behaviour where his concerns were all he would talk about (ad nausem), and he wanted all the money left by the last living parent (in 1 case, before she even died). In my case he h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 4 | women don't like men dating within their social circlesagree, that's my successful option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Most men don’t really have an effective way to quell loneliness outside of a romantic relationship.Start living in group houses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 12:32 AM |
| – | why won't women engage with men?Well what do you want me to do about it? I don't wear make up and I don't use online dating apps. I'm only telling you what has been reported re men's online profiles. A lot of men shoot themselves in the foot. Maybe you just have to accept most women like most men aren't in whatever is the top 10% and go with reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 06:44 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearTrue. I like your idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearNo I was never hit on much. I'm ND and I might have missed a few because I didn't pick up on the cues when I was 15 - 35 or so. I was happy with my husband but I was single (no hooks ups) for many years before that and I don't expect to repartner again now. I am happy being single, so I guess your situation is very different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:24 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?If you are talking about online engagement, many men fail themselves by not having a decent photo on their profile. This has been looked at by researchers. Clean, tidy, pleasant, head and shoulders, taken for this purpose - not one of your guitar or car or dog or looking unkempt or a blurry one with the boys on a fishing trip etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?So you expect women to just engage for dating by you randomly approaching them? You see a woman on the street and just approach her? She might be involved already, she might be a lesbian, anything else. Many women won't be interested until they get to know you better. That's what you call BS. Sorry, I have no good news for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:17 PM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?Of course we know attractive guys can be creeps - most are TBF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what does a society that prioritizes men do?what is Title IX? what is the Duluth model? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADOh well I didn't think I was. I was asking how the 1-10 classification works. Maybe I used looks as a part of that? I don't remember, all the post is gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:40 AM |
| 3 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearHa. At 62 a cute selfie is out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:39 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?Nah. I disagree. Not my experience at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | why won't women engage with men?are you quoting someone here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?at different times yes, all or none or any of the above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:29 AM |
| 7 | why won't women engage with men?"Why would a woman engage nowadays for dating with a guy she is not physically attracted to" IF she is on a dating app, you might be right. For the rest of life, no. We meet men in lots of ways, and engage with them, and it's got nothing to do with how physically attractive they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:27 AM |
| 6 | why won't women engage with men?very true its why I find these convos so confusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:24 AM |
| 12 | why won't women engage with men?Eveleaf said "It's far sounder to make a lot of friends and get to know them" and yet many men keep saying they aren't interested in being friends with women, they just ghost woman as soon as she indicates she's not "offering sex to" him as DenyDefendDepose_117 said up higher. Also note many of us end up getting to know a guy through day to day life, not through romantic fishing. If we don't like him, we don't like him. If we do like him, he becomes a friend and maybe later a romantic partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | why won't women engage with men?AGREE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?Agree, except I don't start with looks. I want to hear his thoughts, values, POV on various things etc. The way he treats me and other women esp older women in his life. Is he knowledgeable in the ways the world works? Does he have tunnel vision? Can he bring new POVs to my life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | why won't women engage with men?AGREE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:59 AM |
| 4 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to Fear"close friends with countless women" BS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearThat's how I live now! And have for many years. I have no dating apps and a closed FB page. No men who are strangers approach me and the guy who I know in real life who keeps holding out hope is a creep I don't want near me. My MH has never been better, though it did take a long time to grieve after my husband died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearMyself and my 2 closest female friends - no to "FWB or sneaky link", but we are all 60+ so maybe its an age thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearWhen I was in that age bracket I was married miserable and no sex, then separated no sex (who goes back to an ex for sex???) then divorced no sex, then finally new relationship and happy (from age 42) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearNo one tells me I'm brave. Never have. I built it all myself, against the flow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:41 AM |
| 2 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearNah. Not me anyway. I like being alone, my MH has skyrocketed since I retired. I don't get opposite validation from my social circle cause all my friends are women. No men out there that are the least bit attractive to me. One guy turns up periodically 'to check on' me supposedly I guess cause my husband died 4+ years ago but I never liked him and keep trying to give him the hint I'm not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:40 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearFunny, on the women's pages they all say dick is in abundance ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearAs a woman, I support this view. I have wondered before about all these men desperate to find a woman so they could have kids. Like the woman is a gestator, not someone he's interested in. Also note that just because there's many men who are "readily available" doesn't mean they are going to make it on to a shortlist of desirability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 01:31 AM |
| 3 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHow do I contact the admins? I put up a carefully worded question and it seems to have been rejected and I'd like to know why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 10:15 PM |
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