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This is genius. Wish I had the forethought to plan this when I got married. But I didn't believe it would happen to me. I ended up living in an RV for a while...
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 03:55 PM
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Yes, you'd be a fool. And once you go through that door, it's a long way out. You could spend years trying to break the cycle. And once you do, you can spend years kicking yourself for lack of dignity. Move on and don't prolong your misery. Speaking from experience.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 01:23 PM
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I feel you man. It was the worst part for me too. Try not to beat yourself up too much. He's going to need his old man to hold it together.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 11:34 PM
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I think it's more of an issue if you've purchased a home that will be contested. You can be accused of abandoning the home / family. I'd stick it out and stay regardless - just to be safe
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:32 AM
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Nope. I want to be left alone. I want to buy stupid shit, guns, cars and fishing gear without someone bitching about it. I love peace and quiet. Also, I've already had kids. I obviously have poor judgement - I wouldn't want my kids to end up with a wicked step mother lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 04:26 AM
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988 my man. Don't let those thoughts fester
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:17 PM
2

It's all good. It's been 8 years since the divorce. Doing much better now and like I said - just 5 years to go haha
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:08 PM
4

Long messy twisted story. We started out 50/50. She remarried and moved an hour and a half away. I tried moving closer and commuting to work but it didn't work out. I could only do weekends and had to modify.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:01 PM
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Signed an agreement - basically I pay the states standard 20% of net for one and 5% for each additional kid. I didn't really have faith that I'd get a better deal by going to trial. The mediator was $750. The trial would have been a lot more than that.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 06:50 PM
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I make a little more than half of what she makes and yeah- she has full custody. As in, I get them on the 1st, 3rd and 5th weekends.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 05:30 PM
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Yep...
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 05:26 PM
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If you make more money, she can ask for more money. It's just a big chalky bitter horse pill we have to swallow till they're 18. My ex makes $300k/yr and I'm just under the state maximum allowable amount paid. It sucks. 5 more years...
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 05:05 PM
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When I realized that it takes two people with the will and effort to make it work. She wasn't going to change. Didn't matter what I did. But admittedly, I was doing it for the kids and not necessarily just to keep her. We were pretty much done.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 11:58 AM
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This. Anything they don't want to hear is verbal abuse. Cracks me up
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 01:59 PM
5

I feel you.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 06:26 PM
2

Great news - congratulations. We don't get to hear about this enough
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 09:09 PM
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I hate seeing people going through this. Buckle up and find a good attorney. Don't move out and make sure she can't move the kids away. As for how much - not sure what the standards are in Utah. Here in Texas, it's 20% of net income and an additional 5% for each additional child.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 03:01 PM
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