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| 6 | Women's standards are very reasonableIt literally does not matter what the specifics are though. The standard is “makes her happier and more fulfilled than being single”. It could easily be that for some or many women those specifics are so high they remain single. If someone is happy to stay single if their standards cannot be met, then they are reasonable standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Honestly I feel like women (who take care of themselves) have kind of a lot of options throughout our lives though. ofc if a woman wants kids that should be a priority, but I don’t really think a woman has to date an older guy for kids. Plus marrying an older guy you’re not really attracted to feels like kind of a recipe for disaster/a dead bedroom. I wouldn’t want to do that to a guy or for a guy to do that to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 3 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Older men are way more financially established but I’m just so much less attracted to them. I’ve never met an older guy irl I was actually attracted to even though older celebs can be so attractive, it’s weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 01:44 AM |
| 14 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Girl he’s negging you, marriage benefits men way more, studies confirm it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 01:36 AM |
| 3 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isI mean, they may be options, but it’s kind of similar to obese women technically being options for men. They are for the most part not being considered. And based on marriage stats, especially for millennials and gen z, I think 30% is pretty unlikely. Based on marriages for those demographics I would say closer to 5% would seriously consider dating a 10+ years older man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:03 PM |
| 8 | I think we need to relook at what the “ average man” actually isI don’t think y’all understand how much of a hard boundary a man over 5 years older than a woman is for the majority of women. Very rich men find the minority of young women who will get with a rich older man for his money, but it’s very much a small minority of women. I and I believe most women feel a kind of innate repulsion to dating men more than 5-10 years older than us. Repulsion is stronger than the word I’m looking for, but almost the same feeling as to why you wouldn’t consider dating y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 10 | Being a trophy wife is a good thingEtc? That’s the end of the list lmao. And these women still very much operated within a patriarchy, each (outside of Joan of arc) has a story of feeling they had to be more war mongering than male leaders because any measure of mercy would be perceived as feminine soft hearted weakness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 07:37 PM |
| 9 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withneither if that’s an option, absolutely person b if forced to choose. Ive had exactly the relationship described with person A. Best friends, complete each other, don’t find them attractive but not really repulsed. I was advised by many friends attraction could grow, and I tried. It did not. I think it could’ve worked if the situation had been transparent, he was ok with it, and we had a really good common desire to be together like wanting a family. Basically if we had both understood we were s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menLet me get this straight. You think that women are choosing to marry less wealthy/high status men not because for the first time in history they do not have to rely on men for status and wealth. But as some king of widespread hoax to perpetuate the feminist myth that women aren’t gold diggers? Shifting goal posts from that uniquely insane one to: hypergamy is as rampant as ever, only now instead of status and resources it’s whatever random quality you decide it is. That’s not what hypergamy is. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping menWhat? Of course hypergamy exists, up until a few generations ago it was literally required. What you’re pushing is the concept that it’s some biological truth, not socialized. And that makes no sense and is not backed up at all by science. Hypergamy has decreased dramatically in proportion with women gaining their own resources. If you want to understand “female behavioral trends”, and what’s going to happen next, don’t just look at statistics that show women care slightly more than men about re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men“Teaching men the difference between men and women” the shit they sell you in bio essentialism isn’t real. Hypergamy and all the other bullshit is not biological, it’s socialized. You’re entire belief system is built on a foundation of willfully ignorant pseudoscience. I don’t care about the rest of it. If you want to learn to be a con artist, or hate women and want to get back at them, whatever. Be whatever kind of person you want to be. But building your life philosophy around something that c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.People with power use that power to subjugate, and then they justify that subjugation. And that is the whole story of history. There is a reason that voting took the trajectory of rule by king-a very select powerful wealthy few-white, male land owners-almost all white Christian men-all white men of any religion-black men can vote (I mean not really but on paper)-women can vote. It was the order of power. Do you believe slaves were childlike and incapable of choice? I hope not. They, and women, d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.That is not why women couldn’t vote lmao. Do you think that men as a whole said “would you like to vote? You would unfortunately have to enter the draft, but we’re happy to have you”. Women were not given an option, on the grounds that they were childlike and incapable of rational thought. It took 100 years for the women’s suffrage movement to earn the right to vote. Please educate yourself instead of just making stuff up to fit the sad old narrative you’re trying to push. It’s painfully transpa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.I genuinely don’t want this to come off as insulting because I’m ignorant about a lot of things, particularly things that do not affect me. But I do not think you fully grasp how little control women had in the past. Class has always been the greatest divide, but 99% of women absolutely did rely on men financially. Again until very recently women were restricted in opening bank accounts, owning property, even inheritance would go to their husband or closest male relative. And when divorce isn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.Of course women worked, but they were not head of households or breadwinners. Most could not even own property until a little over a hundred years ago. They worked, but they had no control over their financial well-being outside of hoping they and their family chose a husband who would act in their interests. Women say on this sub all the time, and it reflects in every study and poll, that they care less than ever about how much money men make. When you look at the past century, the parallel bet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.This is just what’s actually happening. Over the past 100 years the age gap and income gap in marriages has been shrinking. I’m not sure what you’re arguing with here, this is just literally what’s happening. I’m not sure what you’re trying to say marriage rates decreasing has to do with that, if anything marriage rates decreasing are also because women no longer rely on men for resources/have to settle. I think you’re aware that things are shifting extremely quickly towards men being valued as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.Women are attracted to youth and fertility too, that’s what being an animal is lol. We just didn’t have a chance to go after what we wanted before the past century. Women poll that they care less about money for all the same reasons, hypergamy is socialized not biological. This is what the research shows. Facts don’t really care if you like them. Men are failing so completely to rise to the challenge of treating women as human beings that all men are good for is their looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.The marriage stats are what I’m talking about ofc. They show age gaps are declining in marriages as women working/becoming breadwinners rises. Women control the dating market, they have more options. now that they don’t have to marry for money they can choose husbands based on looks and personality instead, so they’re marrying men their own age. But once Kim kardashian, Megan Fox and other female celebs popularize dating younger guys I bet we’ll see that stat flip to older woman/younger man in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.These statistics are all married couples tho, including boomers and gen x, and they got married in a bygone era. Women in that era were raised to choose a man who could provide financially because it was still very rare for women to be the breadwinner/more educated one. So they’d choose an older financially established guy. But now women are more educated than men even so we can choose more on looks and personality. So statistics that show those older couples are kinda skewing what’s actually ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Is sexual attraction dictated according to certain rules?I doubt it, because they aren’t absolutes. It’s not “the more masculine the better”. Loki is more popular than Thor with women in large part because of his appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:30 PM |
| 28 | Women, how often have you ended up sleeping with a guy whom you were not attracted to right away?I know instantly, on the spot if I have the potential to be attracted to a guy based on his appearance. If his personality isn’t attractive to me that potential never becomes actual attraction. Never had a guy I didn’t find good looking initially “become” attractive because of his personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterWhat you think about evolution is based off of pseudo science, and frankly I’m really tired of linking people on this sub to studies that disprove evo theory. If you want to look up what actual biologists and anthropologists think about hypergamy being a biological drive, it’s easy to look up. I have to assume you’re just being willfully ignorant at this point, and I’m not gonna waste my time with someone whose beliefs about evolution have as much science backing them as creationists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterYou think money can make women more sexually attracted to you, I would worry about your own logical reasoning first lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterIf you don’t meet a women’s looks threshold, you don’t meet a woman’s looks threshold. And that’s all there is to it, it doesn’t matter what demographic she’s from lol. You think women are legitimately sexually attracted to money lol. Tbh I kinda envy the depth of some of y’all’s delusions, I bet it is comforting to live in your own little dream world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Men dont age betterYou do understand that women don’t find money “attractive” right? Like, they aren’t actually turned on by money and status lol. Some of us will trade sex and companionship for money and status, but it is a transaction. It doesn’t actually make us attracted to men we aren’t physically attracted to. Surely even this sub is not delusional enough to think that money and status can make women sexually attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 3 | I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false.You are kidding yourself on the more physically attractive part, hopefully you know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:38 AM |
| 2 | I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false.Dude…come on. I know you can open your eyes and look at 40-50 year old men and understand that they are much less attractive than they used to be. Look at the ok Cupid study, young women want men within a few years of their own age and older women want men a few years younger. Humans degrade with age, it’s called senescence. This is delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | People (women especially) mostly only are concerned about large age gaps when it's an older man.I think it’s mostly because statistically it’s much, much more common. But beyond that, and I doubt you’ll like this but bear with me lol, I think it’s patriarchal thinking. “The patriarchy” as a social tool amounts to women=children/possession, men=fathers/owners. So historically for women, that’s bad if you wanna be seen and treated as a full adult human and have all the full adult human rights. But it’s pretty nifty for getting away with certain things, particularly if those thing stem from b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.Not just looks. I’m saying women and men experience attraction very similarly, and looks and personality/chemistry make up for the way most people seem to experience sexual and romantic attraction. I can’t prove that Madonna’s boyfriend is probably not super romantically/sexually attracted to her, but it seems unlikely. It’s kind of what you are vs what you have. From the sum of my experience in the world, people in general are sexually/romantically attracted to what you are, while what you have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.Yeah, I’m suggesting your last point. That the appeal of wealth/status is not a romantic or sexual kind of appeal, so it increases access but not actual “attractiveness”, if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Is it not simplest to just figure out how much time each person is spending working, and create an even split? If I’m working 40 hours a week and the stay at home dad is clocking 60, I need to put 10 hours in of housework. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.Not the Kanker sisters lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.No one is saying you cannot create access to certain women with status and resources. What they are saying is you cannot make women attracted to you with status and resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:03 AM |
| 2 | It's not a man vs woman thingNot sure what “abundant hypergamy” is, but these studies are extensive. You can believe what you want about hypergamy, but be aware that you are not basing those beliefs on facts. I can’t absolutely disprove god doesn’t exist either, but the fact that there is no evidence pointing to him existing and a lot of evidence pointing to him not existing tells me what I need to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 12 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.This is so funny because very tall, thin British guys with angular faces are the ideal for a lot of women. Like Benedict cumberbatch and Tom Hiddleston are literally the dream. Men don’t understand because they don’t understand how appealing the lanky angular thing is to a lot of women. I’d go on a date w him if he was making minimum wage tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | It's not a man vs woman thingI don’t “believe” it’s decreasing. I know it is based on many studies and surveys from a bunch of different countries. Did you read the study I linked? Edit: Here’s another very comprehensive one https://www.demographic-research.org/volumes/vol44/7/44-7.pdf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 11:25 PM |
| 3 | It's not a man vs woman thingHypergamy has been decreasing as women working/gaining an education has increased. The idea that hypergamy is some kind of biological drive for women really doesn’t make sense. It was literally the only way to gain resources and status for women for the vast majority of history. It’s easy to forget that gen z and young millennials are the first to grow up without majority stay at home moms, or even with moms that had all the same work/financial access as men. When people on this sub and rp talk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?For sure, but enough is recycled to make it worth it. I actually wouldn’t date someone who drove a really high fuel consuming car for no reason. A truck they actually use is a totally different story. Idk if that comes off as being on a high horse but it’s how I feel. It just shows that you either don’t care about other people or aren’t smart enough to put two and two together that you’re needlessly contributing to harm. And that’s a really big turn off for me. I know other people can have hate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Really? I wouldn’t even have a fwb who didn’t recycle. It’s one of the lowest bars of “are you someone who cares even a little about something other than yourself” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on r/redpillwomen?All scams start with “I’m gonna let you in on a little secret”. Redpills entire foundation is built on unsubstantiated theories about gender differences from the least respected kind of pseudoscience out there. Go look up what actual biologists and anthropologists think about “hypergamy” as a biological truth and get back to us on “how things are”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:42 AM |
| 18 | What are your thoughts on r/redpillwomen?I swear it’s mostly men roleplaying with other men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:36 AM |
| 13 | It's not a man vs woman thingThis is literally what this entire sub and the rp boils down to, for both genders. People either have attachment styles/emotional issues that lead them to ignore red flags or even seek them out or Want to “date up” in looks or some way, and ignore red flags because they know it’s likely the only way they will get to be with someone more good looking/rich/young/whatever. And that’s pretty much it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 08:29 PM |
| 4 | If women generally want the best guys, they should be more willing to accept them having multiple wivesMore women are open to polyamory than men…and your second point is a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?I’m a straight woman lol, I meant the studios seem like they don’t care about appealing to women because the women are usually decently attractive and the men are old and unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?I would watch porn but honestly the men are mostly old and unattractive. If they made porn with attractive guys and focused on female pleasure and also male reactions/moaning I would def watch porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What is it about erotica that makes you gravitate towards it vs other kinds of porn?*men in it aren’t attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men.Op’s scared more women are following the celeb trend of getting boy toys lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:22 PM |
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