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CMVNo_Tomorrow915/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:53 PM
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The fact that you equate an off sexual opportunity to winning the lottery is ridiculous. You act like women should be happy their boyfriend cheated and feel selfish for expecting him not to. The only pussy you should put on a pedestal is the one that has been there for you, treated you right, and/or carried your child. Not some one off. This is why you don’t date guys that have an active interest in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:18 PM
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You know you’re probably not wrong on some level lol but at least in these cases as a women you won’t have to beg the guy to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:22 PM
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That’s true. But when you reach that point of only thinking about having a gf, that’s when you gotta start seeking therapy or participate in hobbies that have in person communities. Having a community will ease the no gf pain a lot. I doubt it ever truly goes away, but since finding a partner is always and uncertainty, finding a sense of community and building your character through your contributions and hobbies will help give you a sense of purpose and life satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:19 PM
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Some women are small people. And some people just want more attention from their partners and instead of asking for it they become abusive about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:13 PM
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23, almost 24. I don’t think there are many virgins but I think there are many that have only been with 1-2 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:12 AM
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You must be suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:20 AM
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You don’t get hobbies to attract women you get hobbies to get more from life other than women. Through hobbies you will find other purposes and you will learn to build your character, and these things, especially if you stick with a hobby and become good at it (especially a physical hobby like mountain biking or climbing) you will ultimately be a more attractive person, because you will be a more developed and interesting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:19 AM
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No but i see women with option pools that are significantly larger than her partners pool, and not just for sex. For commitment. That said a small increase in attractiveness can drastically increase your pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 12:16 AM
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I thought I read somewhere the happiest couples were when the woman is more attractive than the male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 10:14 PM
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Meh idk. I think people are weirded out by n-count preferences because they assume not that the person is shallow, but that they are in some way creepy or controlling or misogynistic. Most people don’t realize that there is a problem with being promiscuous or that this is a relationship with promiscuity and inability to have a healthy, monogamous relationship. Further more, there a plenty of women that have mostly had sex within a relationship, but have had the odd one night stand here and there…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:25 PM
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Women are always shamed for their shallowness, especially when it comes to materialism and hobbies. They are often dismissed as being lame and uninteresting and only enjoying superficial and unchallenging and impractical things. It actually gets to you over time constantly seeing your gender presented as shallow and stupid like that. Height is actually just one of the many things that I’ve seen women shamed for in terms of shallowness. But usually it’s out existence being shamed as shallow rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:11 PM
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Have you ever been in a serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:11 PM
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It so does. If your partner cheats on you emotionally there is a good chance they will leave you for that person. It’s incredibly naive to not be concerned about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:43 PM
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It’s so important. I was just talking with my bf about how much I love that we just tease each other and flirt. And sing the goofiest songs to our dogs. And just overall make weird noises. I’m sure our neighbors love us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:35 PM
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I think that consensus is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:43 PM
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Sex is important to most men on a fundamental level. I agree it is not good to center a relationship on sex but it’s like a love language for many, if not most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:03 PM
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Why wouldn’t a man see this as a red flag? If it has no value, why wouldn’t you cheat given the right opportunity and situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:43 PM
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Nothing. If you and your partner are happy that it doesn’t matter what I or others say, but I at the same time I would encourage others to do the same because “hey it worked out for someone”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:36 PM
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No they haven’t. It’s like food. There is an abundance of food in the world but most of us are still possessive over our leftovers and eating someone’s left overs especially without asking is a good way to lose favor with that person. do I believe the studies Not necessarily. I think people that don’t understand or appreciate the value in preserving sex for someone that is important to you are more likely to engage in casual sex from the beginning and that is what makes them more likely to cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:45 PM
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You can “remove” the mistakes but it doesn’t change the evolutionary role of sex and bonding and how it has imprinted our biology. Sure she doesn’t have to worry about pregnancy. She doesn’t have any obligation to a man after sex, nor any reason to try and make him stay or make it work. Whenever things get tough, she can just leave. She has no need to invest in a man or build a relationship. Everything will just be easy and casual. She has taught herself immediate gratification is easy to get an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:32 PM
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I believe that promiscuity makes anyone have a harder time developing truly meaningful and intimate relationships and connections with other people. Casual sex devalues sex, and just because we hae contrapceptives doesn’t mean that sex has not had massive implications in the past, and you’re mistaken if you think that hasn’t presented itself in our wiring somehow. Sex is the most vulnerable moment for a woman and the most powerful moment for a man. It represents the submission of your body to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:05 PM
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I mean compete with men in a literal sense. Sports, high level games, and societal/career/monetary success. Also I’m not a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:04 PM
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I think it’s poor feedback, but I also think there is biological/evolutionary basis for this. Men that show emotions appear more vulnerable and will be seen as less able to defend a women and more likely to be dominated by other men. Women weaponize emotions because we have to. We can’t manipulate people physically, so we have to do it emotionally. That is our strength. Like men have the ability to inflict major bodily damage upon women, we have the ability to inflict major emotional harm onto m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:38 PM
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Most of your comment actually doesn’t make sense, but I will try to respond anyways. I think men have a truly hard time understanding themselves because they struggle with ego and emotions. For women it is easier to accept and understand our emotions and lay down our egos due to our inherent vulnerability. Men*** have a lot more to lose if they put down their guards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 07:03 PM
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Yup I think you’re right. The harsh truth is that women can’t compete with men, and neither can most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 06:58 PM
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I agree with this. I think it is just hard to admit as a man. But when you want something so badly, and recognize your dominance or position over something i think it would make sense that you would feel entitled to it. On the opposite end of the spectrum I think women have a sense of internal female obligation. And that’s why we are sensitive to male entitlement because we feel a sense of guilt and discomfort with having to reject or say no to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:57 PM
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Why. If there is a will there is a way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:50 PM
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I genuinely think a man’s ego can prevent him from having a good relationship with a good woman. I think that in many ways misogyny and sexism are inherent in men since they are stronger and, as a whole, have a more dominant position in society combined with a biological fear/disgust with displaying emotionality (because it represents weakness in a man) makes it very difficult to take what a woman says seriously or to see the value in what women have to offer because emotional/psychological gain…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:44 PM
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That actually described my experience as a woman, except for me doing the indoctrination. I liked video games growing up. Other girls thought I was weird for it therefore I thought it was weird. In highschool I made a comment on a tomb raider post on 9gag (Facebook linked) and the number of friend and marriage requests were insane. From that day I realized how good attention and flattery felt and went down the “not like other girls” hole and was addicted to attention and validation and it really…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:47 AM
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I like to think that I am, and my boyfriend thinks so. I usually find that men don’t share my sympathy’s for women and women don’t share my sympathy’s for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:53 AM
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I’ve had it in the past where I had guy friends that were crude/crass and kind of just assholes but they were good fun to talk to and attractive. Then others in the past that were redpill and another was “nice guy” and I genuinely enjoyed talking and debating with them and had some other overlapping interests. RP guy was physically good looking too but as with all of them there is not a chance I’d be with them in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:12 AM
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Certainly, but desire doesn’t equate to temptation. I can see far enough into the future not to indulge or entertain thoughts with someone that I wouldn’t be good with long term
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:52 PM
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Friendship personality is if they aren’t into health/fitness, have 0 relationship with nature, into casual sex, and/or they aren’t sympathetic to womens issues and aren’t genuinely kind. I need those things from a partner but will befriend pretty much anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 10:37 PM
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Women are decent at faking being genuine and men are bad determining whether a girl is interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:49 PM
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Why does it seem you’re trying to use her being upset as some sort of “gotcha”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:30 PM
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Yeah I would agree. I’d say taller than 6ft you got a complex, shorter than 5’6” you might also have a complex. But I’d still rather have the 5’6” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:31 PM
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First bf was 6’3” and I didn’t even notice until he said something. 2nd/current bf is 5’8”. I much prefer it. Holding hands is better and he doesn’t have an annoying complex about it unlike tall guys do. They really think they are Gods sometimes, despite it being the only thing they’ve got going for them, it’s pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:06 AM
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Any way you lean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:36 AM
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I’ll give you one too if ya want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:33 AM
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Now what is everyone’s respective pill
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:19 AM
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The women are average to tbh. Only the men posted less angled and less filtered photos. All the girls pictures were pretty selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 04:11 AM
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But also I want to ad your coworker is wrong. How you refer to people is incredibly important and he is socially inept on some level for thinking that is acceptable. Names are important. When you miss pronounce someone’s name or refer to them in a way that they don’t like it’s just straight up rude and inconsiderate, not to mention unprofessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:49 AM
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I like when other women call me those things but not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:46 AM
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That’s fair. I think it’s safe to say that something around half the comments here are satirical, especially if it’s something outrageous. I’m intentionally being shallow because I couldn’t be bothered to type out a serious ones. Serious or joking, shallow or nuanced, kind or rude you will always be met with the same amount of vitriol or lack of understanding on this sub, so sometimes I try to have fun with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 08:21 PM
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It’s not that women are more emotional, it is that we are more vulnerable and empathetic. We do not compete with men, therefore our emotionality is not a detriment. If we show others we are vulnerable it can actually work in our favor as others might aim to protect us. A man that shows vulnerability, however, may be seen as weaker and less fit to protect a woman from harm (or other men). A woman’s emotions and empathy also allow her to better read others and relate to them. Men can take advantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:44 PM
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I’m afraid you take me and probably most other things far too seriously. It would be truly awful to be a man and have such a limited ability to enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:36 PM
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Sure you can definitely consider that cheating, but let’s assume a man only watches porn while single, I would still rather he have watched porn occasionally while single than indulged it a bunch of one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:15 PM
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I’ve been here on an off for the past maybe 6-7 years. I have been using it as a tool for procrastination and am finally done with my education so I would like to leave and never come back. PPD had never added anything to my life it is all just self-indulgent and validation seeking and makes me focus more on negative hypotheticals rather than all the things I have to be appreciative in my real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:08 PM
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Yup! That’s I guess what you could call “toxic femininity” . And a lot of women just want to have fun without any consequences or forward thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:04 PM
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Men make living practical women make life bearable. They are both important roles. Like men building the shelter and women decorating and organizing it. There are many psychological advantages to “fun” and for women it is actually a mating and survival strategy. Being fun and playful actually makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. You can also argue men take shit too seriously and women not enough. If both learn from the other there can be balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:29 PM
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No the whole process is not fun. That’s why many women will opt to make out and flirt with other straight girls rather than have to sleep with someone they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:53 PM
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I guess it’s a fair comparison though I still think casual sex is worse in some ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:02 PM
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I don’t know man, I’m not sure the two are comparable. I really don’t like porn or casual sex, but I think would rather date someone that watches porn in moderation (maybe 1-3 times per week) than someone who has had a ton of casual sex. That said I think porn consumption and casual sex in men who don’t approve of casual sex / sluttyness in women are hypocritical. Porn is bad imo for many reasons, but honestly it’s having your cake at eating it too. It’s wanting women to exist as sexual objects …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:50 PM
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More like “dance with me”. And anyhow if you provide us with enough fun we will want to dance for you later, but with less clothes. This is just the red pill truth. We will never love you, but we will always love fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:00 AM
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If men could just understand this one simple thing. In the modern age you need not provide us with fresh meat from the hunt or physical protection from other men, just provide us with fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 05:52 AM
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I do gay stuff with my friends / girls because when I get drunk I get horny but not “I wanna have sex” horny just “I wanna make out and flirt” horny. If you do one with a woman there is never any pressure to do more. There is no threat, I’m not called a tease, I’m not pressured or groped, it is all light hearted fun. I flirt and get “sexual” with women because I want to flirt and get sexual but men ALWAYS try to take it too far. Their end game is always sex or as far as possible. Most women don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:04 AM
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It’s okay, bud. It’s why most people are here in the first place, (not me, of course), so at least you’re not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 05:32 PM
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I think you are dead wrong about “more intelligent men have less casual sex”. I think it’s more likely that those who are educated tend to be from more emotionally and financially stable households and therefore have experienced less trauma and require less validation through sex. Plenty of intelligent men I know who can’t get enough casual sex because their daddy’s never loved them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 12:09 AM
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Well I’ve only had 2 bf’s and yeah the first was shit but the second has really made everything better. I was raised in a secure environment so I was used to being able to trust. A bad friend and a bad boyfriend damaged that trust, but a good boyfriend has helped me to return to a more trusting state. I can kind of get what you are getting at, though. It’s hard to date anyone that began pure and has been betrayed or hurt by the carelessness and cruelty of others. It can be a lot of effort to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:29 PM
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Lol. You couldn’t be more wrong. Here is a message from 16 yo me to 12 yo me. High school will fuck you up as a teenage girl if you have even an ounce of values or self awareness. I am infinitely happier and far more hopeful and less jaded now that I am 10 years older. “ Dear 12 year old me, Just days until I finally graduate highschool. My teacher gave me that letter we wrote to our future selves. I had no memory of what you wrote except for a few bands that you liked, but wow. I had know idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:27 PM
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What kind of engineer? Maybe try a new company, friend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:20 PM
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Most men in their 30s dating women 18 y/o have been dating 18 y/o and 20s aged women since they were 18 themselves. The fantasy of a man turning 35 and getting to make up for all the lost pussy is just that; a fantasy. And if you are 35 and so wrecked by years of rejection that you are caught up in redemption and finally getting that sweet validation by bagging 18-20s women, it’s a bit sad TBH. Pussy is just pussy, stop putting it on a pedestal. What you’re really after is that validation of hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:37 AM
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Yup. Wanting someone stupid can be easily interpreted as wanting someone who either won’t expect much or who can be easily manipulated. I can understand why the fantasy might be appealing for a man, but for the love of god don’t act on it haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:24 AM
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IMO the wall is when you let yourself get fat. Older women can still be attractive if they take care of their bodies. And looking old doesn’t equal being unattractive. Of course you will get to an age where the only people that find you’d sexually attractive are the ones closer to your age. But as a woman, if you don’t want older men ogling you it’s kind of a plus. Older men that want sexy play things will pass you up or easily out themselves and your only challenge will be determining if the gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:44 AM
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Meh. I get what you are saying but you can certainly feel romance in non sexual scenarios. Growing up I’d spend nights under the full moon in the field of grass and I’d treasure those moments and refer to them and times I was romancing with the moon. I feel this way in a lot of my time in nature and I feel a deep love towards nature that I feel is romantic, but not sexual at all, obviously. Yup, nothing weird here guys move a long. I’m not making a face, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:29 PM
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In my experience men like it when their partners are entitled as well, but in different ways. It’s validating and makes us feel secure to know our partner wants and needs things from us. It just expresses itself in different forms, perhaps. But yes you are right being assertive and respective boundaries at the same time is a good way to keep a woman around and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 09:03 PM
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Well remove the word inherently and I think it’s not a bad thing at all. That is what should make a relationship special. You get special privileges and treatment from another persons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:59 PM
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Entitled to my time, my affection, my attention. I think it should go both ways, when you are involved with someone ideally you will feel not only a sense of obligation towards that person, but a sense of entitlement. I get that the word “entitled” is often used as a bad or negative term, but it really shouldn’t be. It’s natural and normal to feel entitled to certain things in a relationship, and just as naturally to feel obligated. The problem is when you do things by force to or demand them cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 07:54 PM
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I think all rapists should be prosecuted equally. I also think that nature is sexist and depending on your gender, the gender of your offender is going to have a different impact on you. Both are going to fuck you up. I also think to some degree we are biologically inclined to fear men, no matter if you are a man or a woman, so hearing about men raping and the thought of being raped by a man triggers something more visceral.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:51 PM
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I think a tricky thing in relationships is that to some extent we want to feel that our partner wants to be entitled to us and we also want to feel like we have some entitlements. However, if you are too entitled it becomes abusive and if you aren’t entitled at all it’s like “do you even care?”. I think most women would interpret the over entitlement as caring and would easily prefer it. I’ve noticed a lot of nice guys that have issues with women really care about their girlfriends but their beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:52 PM
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2 years with my guy and it’s everything I’ve ever wanted. My ideal relationship is someone I am attached to the hip with. I want a best friend, companion, and lover all in one. I want someone who takes an interest in me and what I care about, but also has interests of his own that I can learn about. I want some one who will listen to me talk nearly every subject to death. We watch a 1.5 hr YouTube video and it takes us 6-7 hours to complete because of how much we talk in between. I was drawn to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 08:04 AM
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It was not a fantastic rebuttal. It was cheap and intentionally missed the point. I wasn’t attempting a scientifically accurate statement. What if I had said you might be able to convince yourself water doesn’t make you went, instead? Would his rebuttal still be amazing, especially to someone, fully dressed, that stepped out of the ocean? Technicalities don’t matter when your hair is dripping and your clothes are saturated. You can try and dismember feelings and experiences until they are just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:14 PM
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Well, I see that you’re not open to the possibility that you are wrong, nor in trying new things, nor are you trying to understand me. You completely, and intentionally miss the point by trying to take something metaphorical and make it technical. It’s also cheap. You aren’t stating a reality, you aren’t stating facts, you are being nihilistic in the same sense as a person who claims no one is “selfless” because we do things for others because it makes us feel good. You don’t even understand you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:44 PM
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You say that because you’ve never been desert trippin on lsd making love in the setting sun with your honey. Because you’ve never held and been held by your partner while you cry together over the thought of losing the other. Because you’ve never grown with another person in such a way that you’ve been bonded to them. Because you’ve never had a lover, a best friend, and a companion all in one person. You are born into this world alone and you spend every minute alone, because each experience is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:49 PM
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Yeah that really sucks. I don’t know what advice to give but for others a good preventative is making sure that you and your partner both value physical health and that you both believe love is work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:41 PM
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Love can die when you stop putting in effort. At the very least it sounds like your wife has. Maybe both of you over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:28 PM
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Literally same. Before I ever had a serious relationship I would be like “wow I can’t imagine loving the same person for my entire life” and then I’d look at my idiot dog and I’d be like “oh”. 10 years with my dog and I still can’t get over how much I love her. 2 years with my boyfriend and it’s really the same thing honestly. Passion gets replaced with sentimental value and compassion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:23 PM
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Haha no I mean I’m sure back then it’d be a turn on but wow have things changed. Now the standard is just like if my dog likes you that’s pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:48 PM
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Killing three bears would be such a turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:59 PM
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Yeah but in the case of only fans I think the performers are a lot more predatory. I would never do prostitution or OF, but there is actually some temptation with idea of OF because it who doesn’t want money and attention. The idea of being a prostitute, however, is straight up repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:51 PM
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I mean in some ways it is predatory if you are pursuing someone for your own benefit at the other persons expense, no? Like literally if you will live longer despite the other person living shorter or a less quality life, it’s kinda selfish no?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:59 AM
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That is all such terrible advice lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 12:57 AM
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I think it is just technology and materialism in general. We can do better by building a connection with nature as cheesy as it sounds. Let yourself be humbled by the vastness of space, the power of the oceans, your exceedingly small existence in time. The more we disconnect from technology and empty consumption , the less disconnected we will be from reality, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:40 PM
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Some melons be lookin kinda thicc tho
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:11 PM
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Haha gross you’re right. We are truly a depraved species.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:38 PM
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It’s really not that interesting and is kind of common sense haha. If you are an attractive model, and you ask me to “fornicate” well then I am impressed just due to that fact (still not going to tho). If you are a homeless man that is 20 years older and hasn’t showered since March of 2019, I am repulsed. It’s just the whole social song and dance we do. For jobs, friendships, neighbors, and romantic partners. We are always trying to impress others so that we can maintain good social standing and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:31 PM
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The real prize is not a person, but the relationship you are describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:17 PM
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You can still be a participation trophy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:16 PM
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On some level yes, but tbh it depends on the guy. Id get the feeling of being insulted because there is clearly no effort to impress me by being so forward or because I’m put off by arrogance (and it would possibly come across that way).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:12 PM
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Most older men I’ve met that pursued me when I was young were either clearly never good with women and would be unable to get someone their age, or jaded from divorced and probably too emotionally tainted to desire forming another emotional connection with a women. That leaves the only motivation dating to be sex, so kinda makes sense I guess to go for younger more manipulatable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:08 PM
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It’s not a compliment because on some level we know a lot of men will fuck anything. Not even certain fruits are safe. I feel far more flattery when someone is clearly interested in dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 03:04 PM
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Of course not. Some men will choose to die defending a women maybe because they remind them of their own mother, wife, or daughter. Some men will choose not to defend a woman because they want to get back to their own mother, wife or daughter. No one is entitled to anything but in times of war we often band together and men will feel a sense of purpose protecting “their own”. Whether it’s their family or fellow citizen. You can also argue women are utilitarian as well, but as sexual resources an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 07:40 PM
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Yeah but what can ya really do other than hope some of them grow and learn from their ways, which I am sure some do at least eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 05:10 PM
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I certainly wouldn’t take a risk on them, but lots of fucked up people can have each other
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:40 PM
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Or I don’t know… pregnancy??? And men not wanting to be involved with women that are involved with other men so they don’t have to compete with/fight those men ??? Like wtf. Women should not be owned like property but the reason we were treated like that for a time is because possessiveness over women is inherent in men and for a practical and evolutionary reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:14 AM
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I think so. You can love someone but also be a shitty person and have low impulse control or justify an action during a “hard time” during a relationship. Like you I could never fathom doing that to my partner nor could I fathom recovering from having my partner do that to me, but some people literally have so many internal issues and insecurities that cut so deep that just because you have a partner you love, doesn’t mean those deeply unmet needs for validation and acceptance from the opposite …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:01 AM
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It definitely affects women. Probably more so in terms of insecurities and valuing themselves for sex and contributing to an unsatisfactory sex life then addiction. Women are more addicted to shit like social media and attention whoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 03:54 AM
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Not slaves to their libido. Sex is validation for men. It’s approval and it’s an intimate act and you can use it to build an emotional connection to someone. The manipulation is emotional manipulation, sex is just a tool some women use to accomplish that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:03 PM
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You most certainly can. Women use sex to curry favor and manipulate men’s emotions all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 08:50 PM
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Nah. You can judge. Big difference between a transaction of affection and one of money. Sentimental value vs paper. You can say they are both transactions but they are entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 04:47 PM
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Sex is one of the most vulnerable moments for a woman and the most powerful moments for a man. Living in modern times with advanced medicine we forget that sex is a massive risk for women because pregnancy can be a death sentence. Sex is not casual. It’s natural but it’s not “casual”. If sex didn’t change things between two people and make us feel more obligated to the other person we would struggle to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:19 AM
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Yup. Natural to feel put off by the thought of your partner being with other people, and knowing the number is high makes it worse. Not caring is naivety and illogical in most cases imo. It’s my opinion that you shouldn’t be thinking about your life partners desires and needs (assuming that’s what you want) just once you’ve met them. Thinking before hand shows consideration, compassion and self control. That said you shouldn’t be ashamed about the desire for casual sex because that is a natural …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:29 PM
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I think women have an easier time experiencing and accepting their emotions because we are inherently vulnerable. Life is infinitely more enjoyable when you have the ability to understand and feel your emotions. I’d much rather deal with people that don’t understand their emotions than be someone who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:13 AM
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I’d be an incel lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 01:09 AM
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Yup. I was always shy and quiet growing up, but when I was around men, especially ones I was attracted to it would get to the point of being practically mute. For example, in class if I sat next to a boy I thought was cute I would not speak and I would be very still. If I sat next to another girl, however, I might actually talk to her some or behave less awkwardly in general. This behavior extended even into high school and college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:51 PM
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I am not sure there is really any way to tell, tbh. This may be a massively unpopular opinion, but I think most women will be interested in ANYONE that can manage to make them feel special. The trick is what makes a particular woman feel special is different for each woman. The burden for men in attracting a woman is knowing how to make her feel special. The burden for women in attracting men is building character and depth so that a man wants to make her feel special. Women that lack depth attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:16 AM
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Thank you that is very kind to say. We are 2 years in and still have trouble getting to sleep because we can’t stop talking. We have both had to learn how to put our egos aside and understand our insecurities and how to ensure the other person feels loved and appreciated. It is a huge flaw of western society to place so much importance on being “independent” and not changing for anyone and completely undervalues how good it feels to actually be able to depend on someone and make compromises for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:54 AM
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To some extent I think it’s more likely that dating apps attract the “bad boys”. I think there will also be similar experiences where the “good” guys she swipes on are over shadowed by the persistence of men with poor boundaries. They may very well naively believe that the men that scream the loudest are the most interested in her and give those guys a chance over the ones that are more kindhearted and respectful (the ones that don’t continue to dm her after she’s stopped responding once). So it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:33 AM
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Yes. I used to be one of those girls. Shy, slow to open up, and a bit cold. I never had confidence to pursue guys that I liked and feared showing interest because I didn’t want to be used for sex. Normal decent guys see my behavior and interpret it as me being not interested so they leave me alone and I never have an opportunity to be with them. Abusive guys that have no respect for boundaries interpret my behavior as a challenge or prey upon my shy/quiet and soft spoken demeanor and persist. As…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:19 AM
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Hey I did not consent to that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:38 PM
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Maybe the equal opposite for age gap would be attractiveness gaps. I feel like whenever I’ve seen a super abusive situation where the girl is the manipulator, she’s like a good 5 points better looking than he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:10 AM
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Lol I’m the opposite. If I’m in a night club I’d be most attracted to the guy who I can tell this is not his thing but got dragged out by his friends, as that would be the only reason I’m in the night club. He’s the quiet guy hanging by his homies not trying to interact with anyone and thinking about how he’d rather be home with his cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 03:08 AM
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So is it the mental health issues or the lack of self awareness that makes a man less* attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:18 AM
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What actions??? How am I hurting other women pls tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:54 PM
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I mean everyone wants to be validated with the approval of attractive people, but yeah too much objectification and lack of real connection makes you confused as to what is most important. Society kind of makes women value themselves for their sexual appeal and men value themselves for the sexual appeal of the women they can obtain. I would say throughout my life I have felt it more important for me to be more attractive than my partner than it is to have an attractive partner and I think I know…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:06 PM
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Most people don’t suffer from such a low level of attractiveness for it to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:03 PM
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Nah because when you have a strong connection with someone the attraction becomes more than just physical. Like real lot for most people a basic level of attractiveness can be enough and then the connection can seal the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:58 PM
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Oh I know most lack it. I’m just saying if you are one of the lucky few able to overcome it you’ll feel a lot better/happier. Similar in concept to if you can actually consistently get a full nights rest on a good bed, you will physically and mentally feel so much better vs get mediocre or poor sleep and filling in the gaps with caffeine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 03:13 PM
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Male urges are natural. Desire for casual sex is natural. So is desire for another slice of pizza… but let’s be real, sex is a lot more serious than eating an extra slice of pizza. It’s baby making, with the intention to bond two people together so they can be there for a child. But we make it casual and pretend that won’t impact our mental health at all or our ability to actually form meaningful bonds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:19 AM
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Those who keep their urges in check are rewarded. Much more greatly than those who don’t. Life satisfaction, personal fulfillment, meaningful relationships. It’s like being a part of a secret club where you finally “get it” and it feels like being free. Like you escaped the noise and now you just have peace and a person to share it with. The only thing is a lingering fear of “what if it sucks you back in”. You have to constantly humble those urges (though it becomes very little work over time) b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:16 AM
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Yup, I do always want to get something out of sex. Whether it’s the affection and attention I crave from him or simply the satisfaction I get from being reminded that I am his or to satisfy my own hormonal desires or one of so many other reasons. In a secure relationship where your partner is your best friend you don’t have to obsess over sex or manipulation because through building trust you eventually learn that the other person isn’t going anywhere because they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 11:03 PM
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You really don’t get it and it’s sad. Lizard brain and desire for many women and ownership over women comes with more “dire” situations. That is, when you don’t have sexual and emotional security, these things become more attractive. Male lizard brain is wanting ownership over women and in less secure environments this is slavery, multiple wives, arranged marriages etc. female lizard brain is want to belong to someone (because it means you are under someone’s care). When you find yourself in a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:22 PM
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