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🎯 Loads of miserable wealthy people out there Hot people who are unhealthy in other ways Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:06 PM
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I wonder how much of it is that many women want to see their man as masculine, "alpha", etc and they associate any kind of perceived homosexuality with femininity / weakness. I do think homophobia is an extension / reflection of internalized misogyny and patriarchy. It's a fallacious wrapping up of gender with sexuality. "No REAL man could ever be gay!", and these women would see themselves as kind of gay for being with a bi man, because for them that bi-man isn't fully/truly a man. And so they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:09 PM
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Heterosexual women being more particular in partner choice than their male counterparts is the direct result of the greater risks they face from sexual activity and in no way implies that women "want it less" than men. In fact, the modern scientific understanding of human sexuality strongly implies that women typically have sex drives that match men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:26 PM
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Supply and demand; younger women are more sexually liberated than are older; younger women are more comfortable with and better educated about sex and sexual health, generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:03 AM
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Most women do want sex, in fact, the majority want it just as badly as most men do. However, for heterosexual women, the risk:reward calculation is extremely different. Hetero women also typically have far less satisfying sexual encounters than their biological male peers do. These factors must not be overlooked in an analysis of apparent disparities in sexual desire between men and women. https://www.psycnet.org/buy/2024-52981-001 The risk:reward calculation for heterosexual women includes a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:56 AM
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Lolllll 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:26 PM
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The United States presidential election, for one. Lotta men 18-29 voted red.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:24 PM
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Brilliant 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:54 AM
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That's the funniest shit I've read all day. Gonna host a party with door vibe check, any man above 5'8" or without a wedding band on isn't getting in. Lesbians will be a bit trickier to screen for but we'll figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:46 PM
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Cite your sources. Where is the data to support your claim that only a small fraction of men are desirable to all (or even most) heterosexual women? Women are not a monolith. If what you claim were true, only a tiny fraction of men would be in relationships. Yet 73% of men 30-64 years old are in relationships. How do you explain that? https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:09 PM
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Reread what I wrote: "why do some men assume every (or even many/most)" The poster I responded to used the word "typically" (ie most often) taken to mean, and then went off about how women think of men as security blankets they'll settle for in exchange for financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:04 PM
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"Numerous horror stories" sure sounds a lot like a collection of anecdotes you've assembled in your mind and used to construct a narrative about women. I bet you wouldn't like it if women were doing the same to men. In fact, I bet you'd label it as misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:03 PM
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How is that even remotely related to what's being discussed, which is that most women don't want to marry someone who they're not attracted to? What's your point here? Some women cheat. And that's shitty. Some men cheat. And that's shitty too. Relationships involve emotional risk , they involve trust. Sometimes we get hurt, we chose to place our trust in a person that wasn't worthy of it. Move on, find a better partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:20 PM
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K but no woman is going to ever say that unless you're already sexually intimate with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:57 PM
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Why do so many men assume every (or even many/most) women want to marry a man they don't feel passionately about attraction wise? I can't speak for all women but sexual chemistry / "spark" is one of my baseline pre-requisites for even considering a long term relationship, let alone marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:56 PM
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Why are we assuming they've not in their 20s? Why are we also assuming these two hypothetical people have known each other since their 20s? Why are we also assuming they didn't hook up in their 20s? Reflect on why you felt the need to immediately put yourself in the sexually frustrated 20-something position.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:55 PM
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These things are not mutually exclusive. Masculinity is not a zero-sum game between being attractive, sex and cool and being kind, loyal, gentle, and dependable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:51 PM
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She shouldn't have been murdered with or without a trial. I'm not trying to justify extra judicial executions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:24 PM
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Okay, and? I'm not condemning the kid to jail here, just stating the public evidence. There were love letters written. And the kid lied to the police. OJ Simpson also wasn't proven guilty in a court of law. Everyone knows he did it. At least 200 people have been exonerated from death row in the United States since 1973, according to the Death Penalty Information Center (DPIC). This means that for every eight people executed, one person was wrongfully condemned to death. The justice system isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:06 PM
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In porn, they make you do these recorded exit interviews as a stipulation for payment. They do this because they very often mislead these women about what sort of things are going to happen to them, they don't stop if the women ask, they don't care if she's sore. It's very close to, and in many cases IS rape, as the woman has been both coerced and misled. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-58346125 https://www.ctvnews.ca/business/article/behind-the-onlyfans-porn-boom-allegations-of-rape-ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:18 AM
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It's every sane woman's reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:14 AM
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The woman you linked was a pedo involved in a relationship with a teenage boy that was her student. That student is very likely the one who murdered her, in a crime of passion. So maybe not the best example for "falsely accused" of (statutory) rape. https://beavercountian.com/content/cops-courts/rachael-deltondo-stalked-by-jeter-love-letter-lied-about-location-during-murder-changed-clothes-after
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:10 AM
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So glad we have you here to tell everyone what our views REALLY are by shoving a pill down our throats. I don't do pills, I do observation, data, and analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:50 PM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:48 PM
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Misogyny and objectification.txt
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 03:05 PM
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That's fine. Others will.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:09 PM
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Seems like you're mistaking assertiveness for entitlement here, chief. "Taking what you want" is an action reserved for those in positions of power over others. Speaks volumes about your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 PM
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I'm a loyal, kind, compassionate woman who has never once cheated in her 38 years of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:28 AM
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Both men and women dislike monogamy? So why are ya'll still doing it? 😆 Polyamory is right there! we do, because it's easy So is drunk driving, being a deadbeat parent, beating your wife, abuse of power as politicians or police, I could go on... No we don't, because despite your inaccurate misanthropic worldview, most human beings are NOT total assholes most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:50 AM
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Two things cannot be the "most pathetic" at the same time. So which do you feel is the more pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:49 AM
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So you don't think "blocked and reported 😭😡" is the most pathetic way to comport oneself in online discourse? What we have here is red pill / incels circling the wagons to protect their wounded, folks. Nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:32 AM
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Lmao just the absolute thinnest skinned crybabies imaginable out here calling for the most toxic, selfish, cowardly behavior in response to the slightest inkling of blue balls. THIS IS WHY WOMEN WON'T FUCK YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE. GROW UP! Look at the ZERO karma of your OP and take a hint. Fuck's sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:15 AM
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are you in favor of duty sex? I'm in favor of mutual enthusiastic consent at all times from the first kiss to the last cummies. If that consent is lost at any point during sexual activity and the other partner doesn't stop, we have a word for that. That word is rape. it's propaganda Yes it is. In fact, all writing is propaganda by definition. That word literally just means "that which propagates", so any information qualifies. More to the point, everyone has a worldview, everyone has an agenda. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:11 AM
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Jesus Christ, you hate women sooo much my guy. "Punishment"? They aren't slaves. They're partners in a relationship, and that should involve mutual respect, trust, and compassion. Without those 3 things what you have is a toxic/abusive relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:50 AM
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Very few men are with women who match their libido, I suspect. Many men in happy relationships still use porn either occasionally or regularly. Your argument would give every one of these guys carte Blanche to cheat on their partners, placing them at both emotional AND physical risk (STIs).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:49 AM
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Cheating is a cowardly and selfish act. No one should cheat. If ANY of your relationship needs aren't being met, that warrants a conversation. If it continues after that conversation for long enough, end the relationship like a grown ass adult. This is called integrity. This is called basic human decency. We don't go around stabbing each other in the heart because we're unhappy in a relationship. We communicate, and when necessary, we compassionately and respectfully end that relationship. I swe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:46 AM
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I never claimed that it must be true by virtue of being online, that's a strawman argument. It is true because it is true, and you have just as much ability to confirm its truth with your own research as I do. We have nearly the entire compendium of human knowledge at our fingertips 24/7. Use it. https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/is_there_science_behind_the_five_love_languages Gary Chapman is a Southern Baptist Pastor pushing a conservative agenda through a misleading book. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:18 PM
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Love languages? Oh here we fuckin go again. 🙄 https://medium.com/belover/the-love-languages-are-a-hoax-by-a-southern-baptist-pastor-cc9cd0e4b340 Cope and seethe more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:53 PM
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It doesn't, because you didn't know that until I said it. Also, imagine quoting the hypocrite and phony philosopher Ayn Rand and expect to be taken seriously in online discourse. 💀 She constantly preached an ethos which she believed to be “good” for others, while doing things that violated that same ethos when it came to her own personal well-being and benefit. Since no one was likely going to know about her receiving government benefits until after her death (if ever) she simply did not care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:23 AM
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This isn't a country, it's a worldwide social media site. But let's set that aside for a moment. Freedom to write in a deliberately misleading way online does not shield a poster from criticism, skepticism, or debate. Nor should it. "We feel free because we lack the very language to articulate our unfreedom." -Slavoj Zižek "America touts itself as the land of the free, but the number one freedom that you and I have is the freedom to enter into a subservient role in the workplace. Once you exerci…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:40 AM
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It's not one topic, it's two. That's my point. OP is almost certainly deliberately grouping them into a single package for the sake of pushing a narrative, as so often happens on this sub with black and red pill men constantly attempting to conflate sex with intimacy and connection. I will continue to call this misleading behavior out every time I see it whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:46 AM
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I'll say this: I think it's a bit problematic that OP chose "sex/intimacy" being gtmrouped as one tor the hypothetical, as those are two very different issues. If all intimacy is removed than yes, that would be terribly destructive to all opposite sex relationships, including friendships. My response was specifically addressing the removal of only sex as the hypothetical, because I thought it unproductive to try and address both at once. It should be obvious to anyone that no meaningful and last…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:15 PM
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Counterpoint: without the risks and pressures of hetero sexual dynamics, friendships between opposite sexes would be simpler and lower stakes. Women would trust more easily and men would be more authentic and vulnerable around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:12 PM
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I'm not jealous of anyone honey, you're just projecting now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:16 PM
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Willy Wonka's chocolate factory, with the Oompa Loompas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:07 PM
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Santa's workshop
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:23 PM
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5'7" men ARE taller than nearly half of men by statistical definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:50 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy. If you're that sex-driven, you could always opt for a sex-change operation to become a woman yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:47 AM
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This is the way. I don't do yoga to get good glutes and a small waist, I do it for me. For my emotional well being. That other shit is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:11 AM
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I've dated plenty of guys 5'5ish -5'7"ish. I assure you that your defeatist attitude about height is 100% just as self-inflicted self-sabotage as anything else mentioned above. I could understand it a bit more if we were talking about 5'0 and below, but 5'7" is literally ONE INCH below average male height.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:09 AM
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You're missing that a ton of guys are treating these women as side pieces with little or no meaningful commitment. It's strictly about getting their dicks wet more often than they otherwise would in a more competitive dating market. It's often friends with benefits. Most of these guys wouldn't be down if being with these women meant they couldn't also pursue more attractive partners at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:21 AM
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The only point I disagreed on is your claim that cheating was illegal, not that I agreed with cheating. Ethics and law are two very different things. There's some overlap some of the time, but they are very much not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:41 AM
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So 6 states out of 50. None of which I live in. All of which are ass-backwards conservative bible-thumping strongholds legislating from outdated and throughly unscentific legal philosophies. Nor am I (nor will I ever be) a member of the armed forces. Nor would I ever let the law impact my behavior in a relationship, for better or worse. I don't cheat because it's selfish, immature, and deeply hurtful behavior. I pity anyone who requires the fear of legal consequences to make them behave ethicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:31 AM
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It's not a CRIME, it's not addressed in criminal court. It IS a totally selfish, unethical, and cowardly act. It IS deeply hurtful and completely inconsiderate of the feelings (pain) you will cause to someone you claim to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:44 PM
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That's just normal / no pill. Not wanting to change implies your needs are being met, which means you don't HAVE to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:22 PM
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This sub is 100% a redpill / incel hub, and the mods not only tolerate it but encourage it and harass folks who push back with repeated warnings about 'contentless rhetoric' from an anonymous "mod only account", which prevents responses to itself, if you dare try to inject some much needed humor or whimsy. It's a hate sub for misogynists that also happens to have a small minority of reasonable posters genuinely interested in meaningful dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:52 PM
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Lol yep. 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:29 AM
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We are not going to fix a culture of lying by throwing more lies around at each other. We have to go in the complete opposite direction if we want to arrive somewhere sane and healthy. That's going to take a tremendous amount of patience, honesty, courage, compassion, introspection, and discipline from all of us, no matter where we may fall on the gender identity or sexuality spectrums.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:13 AM
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40% of new york residents age 23-65 have roommates in 2025. That's 3,200,000 people with roommates in one of the wealthiest cities on Earth. A city with 577 BILLION dollars of gold 50 feet below ground in lower Manhattan in the New York Federal Reserve vault, by the way. Maybe you didn't get the memo, but we're on the fast train to mass serfdom in this country now. You best start believing in cyberpunk dystopias, Mr. Zelingman. You're in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:57 PM
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I respect it. It's a futile philosophy, but there's integrity in holding to your ideals in the face of their collapse in society. I agree romance, dating, and relationships are all in a sad state for affairs today, although I suspect we might disagree about the root causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:47 PM
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Unfortunately, your potential partners aren't going to care what you think about their relationship decisions as both men and women continue abandoning and avoiding marriage in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:32 PM
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"I'm talking about real commited monogamous relationship." proceeds to admit this idealized monogamous romantic relationship hardly exists at all in actual lived experience 2025 Interesting choice of words, but I feel like maybe you don't know what the word "real" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:41 PM
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Tell me you've never lived in NY (as a non-trust fund kid) without telling me. Everyone here has roommates. I know a profesional chef making close to 6 figures who lives in Brooklyn. Two roommates. Also what you are saying about romantic partners is untrue. Not every partner will choose you over career advancement or even LESS impactful life decisions. That's before we discuss the growing poly community. You're thinking of a healthy and strong-founded marriage. Let's not even look at sky-high di…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:27 PM
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Muddying the conversation is the whole point. These people are doing this deliberately OVER AND OVER (on this sub in particular) with tacit Moderator approval, which makes me feel strongly that r/PurplePillDebate is just redpill bullshit thinly veiled as a place for open and honest exchange with the aim of pushing a toxic narrative down our throats. It is intellectual dishonesty at its worst, and we have an ethical duty to call out their bullshit. Thank you for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:24 PM
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How do you wipe an IDEA off the face of the Earth? We're in 2025, not even the nazis could totally control ideas. Nor the chattel slave owners of the American south. Nor the puritans long before we had telecommunications of any sort, at a time when religion had a near total lock down on the boundaries of acceptable ideas, at a time when having the "wrong" ideas usually meant being burned alive and/or otherwise tortured. Jesus Christ, so many people on this sub have zero capacity for logical thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:16 PM
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If feminism has made a man weak, I'm gonna go ahead and say he wasn't strong to begin with. 🎯 Source? Narrator: No sources were provided, and OP was never heard from again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:12 PM
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100% agree with everything you wrote with the important exception of labeling all male feminist as "simps melding for female attention", which is most definitely an unfair generalization, knowing some actual male feminist allies from left community spaces (I don't mean online). Also I wanted to add that what you described above really fucks up trans folks mentally. Imagine having aspects of both genders and it being drilled into you your entire life that masculinity and feminity have little to n…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:05 PM
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I understand where you're coming from but this unfortunately veers into very dangerous territory in terms of our legal system. If a decision you made about career sacrifice for the sake of child rearing, 5, 10, 30 years ago could be used in a divorce case for additional compensation, what COULDN'T be? Divorce is already messy enough, let's not go trying to use our regrets to extract more money from men. Why? Many reasons, one of which is because that's how you get an entire country of men uninte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:14 PM
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"Philosophically considered" doing a galactic singularity's amount of heavy lifting above.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:55 PM
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Socioemotional needs are the psychological, social, and emotional aspects of a person's well-being. They include the ability to form relationships, manage emotions, and be resilient. Examples of socioemotional needs: Self-awareness: Recognizing and understanding your own emotions Self-regulation: Managing your emotions Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others Communication skills: Expressing yourself verbally and navigating social situations Resilience: Handling challenging situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:14 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:07 AM
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The algorithm heaved this trashpile upon me, because it knew I'd engage. They're designed to do that across all social media, btw. I take zero responsibility. And after multiple warnings on the previous thread, whilst my opponents got none for espousing ignorant and hareful rhetoric, i will make it my personal mission to shutter this shitheap. These mods suck shit and should have no power anywhere ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:28 AM
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By this definition a $6000 new gaming PC is a need. I now demand your tax dollars pay for it. If you disagree, you are logically inconsistent (hypocritical).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:24 AM
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That mods are letting this SECOND topic stand after this was already hashed out here less than 24 hours ago is revealing. Might be time to shut this misogynistic sub down if it's just red pill bullshit thinly veiled as debate. Paging r/AgainstHateSubreddits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:21 AM
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Only if you have no hands and can't get yourself off. Lack of sexual release is what can become uncomfortable, for both men and women. Lack of sex itself is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:31 PM
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You can remove the (imo) from your post, because you've just stated a plain fact. Sex is a need FOR WHAT? Survival? No. Pleasure, sex is a need for male pleasure. It is neither intellectually honest nor accurate to draw a comparison to blood transfusions or HIV treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:34 AM
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The point is that he was attempting to compare men's DESIRE for pleasure (lust) to physiological survival needs such as blood transfusions. It is deliberately misleading by use of an incomplete thought, "sex is a need." A need for WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:32 AM
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English has a word. Lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:29 AM
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Ahh, of course you'd resort to desperate cherry picking when confronted. More intellectually dishonest incel behavior. I welcome you to address every point I made above, any single one of which pokes huge holes in your original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:27 AM
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Tell me you don't believe asexuals exist without telling me. 🙄🤦‍♀️ Anyway, yes, I'm well aware "sex is a need" was a deliberately incomplete thought on your part. A need for WHAT? Survival? Certainly not, countless men have lived entire lives without sex. Pleasure. That's what this is really all about. By attempting to draw a comparison between a need FOR PLEASURE and the two needs FOR SURVIVAL you used as examples, you are being intellectually dishonest. No man on Earth has ever died from blue …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:14 AM
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You didn't state it explicitly. However, you did very carefully, cleverly (or so you thought), and very strongly IMPLIED it, by drawing comparisons to blood transfusions and HIV treatment, which ARE needs. Those two things are absolutely life and death for those who need them. You don't get to couch your argument in implication and then pretend like you never went there. You did. And the implication is just as bad, just as dishonest as explicitly stating it. We see this behavior from conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:50 AM
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You're right, he didn't state it explicitly. However, he did very carefully, cleverly (or so he thought), and very strongly IMPLIED it, by drawing comparisons to blood transfusions and HIV treatment, which ARE needs. That is not how this works. He doesn't get to couch his argument in implication and then pretend like he never went there. He did. The only one being dishonest here is him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:48 AM
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You didn't state it explicitly. However, you did very carefully, cleverly (or so you thought), and very strongly IMPLIED it, by drawing comparisons to blood transfusions and HIV treatment, which ARE needs. Those two things are absolutely life and death for those who need them. You don't get to couch your argument in implication and then pretend like you never went there. You did. And the implication is just as bad, just as dishonest as explicitly stating it. We see this behavior from conservativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:45 AM
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Yikes. Today I learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:08 AM
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Hawaii raised its age of consent from 14 to 16 as recently as 2001, all 50 states recognize 16 as a minimum age of consent, with more than half of states approving 16 as the legal age. Child marriage still happens in many states to this day! Just need parental permission. Less than 50 years ago, like half or more of US states had 12-14 year old ages of consent, we're not all that much better if our starting point is comparing ourselves to fucking IRAQ. Funny how Americans always do that, rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 11:27 PM
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Robots capable of and "attractive" enough for satisfying sex are at least 50 years off, and when they do finally become available, they'll be totally unaffordable to 95%+ of the men who need them. Wealthy men can already get laid, even if they have to pay for it. This will never solve the incel problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:07 PM
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The book and its findings have been attacked systematically because of politics. Many people don't like the implications because it means they've been wrong their entire lives. More importantly, because this books findings represent an existential THREAT to the structure of our society and those at the top who benefit from it. Capitalist society demands and depends upon our relative isolation from one another and lack of community. It's a propaganda war, nothing more. Remember, they tried to pul…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:31 AM
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Many poly folks make no meaningful or deep commitments either. It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:09 PM
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You're describing long outdated and disproven theories about human sexuality in the pre-historic era. Read Sex At Dawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:34 PM
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That's just polyamory lol. You don't need to invent weird ass phrases like "soft harem" when we already have the language to describe this. Also, a harem of any kind would imply these 3 women are ONLY sleeping with you, which as a woman I very much doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:32 PM
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Complete and utter delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:14 AM
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"Focus on"? It's a real problem in modern dating culture, which is what this conversation was about. Why do you insist we avoid this particular problem in discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:27 PM
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They're just making a valid point on the internet. No one is flipping over keyboards here. Also , they're 100% correct. No call / no show is extremely inconsiderate of another human beings emotions and time. This is 2025, if you can't take 5 seconds to send a simple text to spare someone some pain and frustration, than you're a selfish asshole. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:16 PM
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I'm not making any statement about what other women should do with their romantic / sex lives. That's none of my business as long a everything is consensual. Honestly, if I understood men to the extent you're asking, I'd be doing some kind of couples counseling for a living. All I know for sure is that men are not a monolith, and we shouldn't treat them as such. Some women are gold diggers, and that's perfectly alright, we live in a system that tortures and kills people daily for the crime of be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:32 PM
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Average men don't want to date her, they just want to fuck her repeatedly. The relationship isn't substantial at all. It's transactional. The typical guy would fuck most women at the end of the day. So no, both types of men are not chasing the same league of women. Some guys are just delusional about their prospects until reality beats them over the head a certain number of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 06:23 PM
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100% agree, those are all things I look for too! But for most people, those are things that end up getting evaluated WAY after career, wealth, status, and looks. Not even due to some nefarious reason, just because all those things except confidence and (somewhat) humor take time to discern.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:08 PM
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Rich men don't end up in nursing homes lmao. More to the point, are you seriously arguing that hot young women don't seek out older wealthy men? You cannot be serious! My brother had minimal interest from most women until he got rich as a business owner. Now that people in his smallish local community know who he is, he is bachelor of the fucking year. Big fish in a small pond I guess, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:30 PM
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Maybe physically. But who cares about that? Sure not women! Defining male peak this way is missing a massive part of the masculinity and male value puzzle which is WEALTH. Men actually peak when they have enough income / wealth to support themselves and a family. That's the single most attractive thing you can have / be as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:35 PM
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It's called deductive reasoning, and that you did not dispute my observation, but rather dodged it in a , "no u", is unsurprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 06:56 AM
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Except you're not being honest now. Because you don't mean retired, you mean poor. A retired millionaire would be no problem for you. It has nothing to do with them having a job, either. You wouldn't date someone making minimum wage or near to it anymore than you'd date the unemployed guy. You're a golddigger, but go off about how those men are all "losers" because they can't pay your way. Enjoy aging sis. You're in for a rough ride with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:19 AM
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Oh, is it incel story time again already? 🕐
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:00 AM
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It lives on bc if your man isn't Henry Cavill, is he really even a man at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:48 PM
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Ok fam, we cool now. ✋️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 11:44 PM
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Shit, I better obey, the dictator has spoken! Don't wanna get disappeared by the ultimate male leftist!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:08 PM
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"I went so far left i came back around the other side as a dictator!" 😆 🤣 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:07 PM
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And not a single one of you is an actual leftist. This is just like neo-fasc trumpets calling themselves "conservatives".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:28 PM
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Valid points and keen insight. 👏 I will say this: We are all best served in life by focusing our energy on things that can be influenced or changed while doing our best to accept anything that's beyond our control. We can't control our feelings about things. Our emotional responses to painful experiences are what they are. The best we can do is learn to regulate our emotions well with healthy coping skills and stress management strategies. What we CAN change is our behavior. In this way, going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 06:49 AM
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What if you tried it but didn't like it? What if it was a phase and you're no longer into it? What if there's a medical reason? Etc etc Being upset about something like this is ridiculous and melodramatic as fuck. Your needs are either being met or they're not in any relationship. When they're not, you leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:23 AM
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Previous sexual acts performed or not performed is utterly irrelevant to matters of consent. It's your body, not your partner's. Nothing can change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:11 AM
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The claim made: Men must be top tier in at least FOUR different categories to be desirable or secure a mate. I disputed that claim with an example from my own life. Your response above is called moving the goalposts, even though you are doing it on behalf of another poster.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:27 AM
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🎯 You nailed it. This is a fixable problem if they're simply willing check their ego, swallow their pride, and put the work in. "We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons." -Jim Rohn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:05 PM
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It's not, I was born and raised in flatbush, Brooklyn. See my last comment before this one. And you should!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:51 AM
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Tell that to the 240 lb 6 ft 3 guy who assaulted me on the brooklyn-bound L train in 2019. He spent the next few days in the hospital, and will never walk without a cane again. He got two punches into the side of my head in the time it took me to rip his left knee out of its socket. Until that day, I didn't know a man could scream that loud. And I was only a nidan then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:38 AM
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Tell me you don't know anything about BJJ without telling me you don't know anything about BJJ. Founder of the Gracie Style of Jiu-Jitsu, Carlos Gracie was the smallest and skinniest of the Gracie Brothers, but he was never defeated, not even by his stronger and larger younger brothers, who were also extremely proficient in BJJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:28 AM
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I'm a rokudan in BJJ. Your size will not help you, it will only make it easier for me to wrap myself around one of your joints or your neck. The skill-gap here is a chasm you cannot cross with size or strength. Your physical advantages will not protect you against an opponent like me. I've watched guys bigger than you tap out against people smaller and far less skilled than myself many, many times. The fight would end very quickly, and you would be in a world of pain or , if you're lucky, passed…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:16 AM
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I practice power vinyasa yoga at least 8 hours a week, and brazilian jiu-jitsu another 8. I'm in the best shape of my life and could probably make you tap out or nap out within 30 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:04 AM
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My boyfriend is 5'8" and makes only 2/3rds of my income, which itself isnt very high (he's an adjunct professor). I love him, and he's attractive to me physically, intellectually, and emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:51 AM
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64% of men haven't had sex in at least a year If you want to be taken seriously in the realm of online debate, you should cite your sources so others don't have to do it for you. I'd also recommend understanding what you're reading so you don't end up being made a fool of. Seeing as how even the most undersexed demographic of men (18-24 year olds), only 31% of them have NOT been sexually active within the last year. https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2767066 (...)decrea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:21 AM
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Only men could get them without permission from a man. Great work deliberately dodging the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:13 PM
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Men crave women's validation and affection because most men don't have deep emotional intimacy with their male friends. Most women DO have that, and that's why it's easier for us to handle being single emotionally. It is absolutely our privileged position as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:01 PM
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Tell me you have never read about women's history without telling me you have never read about it. Women in the US couldn't even get credit cards in their own name until the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:52 PM
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Men aren't assumed to be more likely to be violent abusers, they ARE more likely to be. That's just a statistical fact of our reality. It's the inevitable consequence of living in a violent, patriarchal culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 12:10 PM
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Freedom, sexual liberation, women's rights? Not being forced or coerced into marriage with a man we may not even like or be attracted to for the sake of family wealth, child-rearing, or politics? Not being forced to be little more than a baby-making machine for a man who sees us as little more than property? Not being raped without recourse. Not being committed to an asylum for life and/or lobotomized because our husbands got sick of us. Not being sold into sexual slavery because our parents nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 11:32 AM
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What's this got to do with anything? Give anyone a high level of autism and most people would have a hard timecin the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:20 PM
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No, because not everyone follows this twisted incel logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:13 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:29 PM
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Maybe, but that just means he starts at -50. Henry Cavill gets +50 from looking the way he does, another +50 for being rich, and another +30 for his British accent. Unfortunately, he loses 10,000 points for being a Trump supporter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:15 PM
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Bingo. 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:55 PM
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🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:55 PM
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Did you just write 3 paragraphs debating against a claim I never made? 🤦‍♀️ In fact I wrote almost the opposite, when I was arguing that charisma is a learned and practiced skill? It seems like you're far more interested in being right than you are in having an actual, intellectually honest and sincere dialogue. Typical male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:48 PM
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There is a base level of smoothness required, and to get it you need massive action. Would you mind elaborating on this for me? How does this work? Do you think that each time you get laid, your charisma stat gets a +3 boost like some kind of videogame? Because that's not how anything works. And if you believe 90% of men aren't getting any dates through social activities, you're almost certainly in the bottom-performing 10% of men who actually aren't. I would suggest developing better social ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:39 PM
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A high skill cook is already a 6/10 for most women before we set eyes on him. A Warhammer collectibles nerd starts at -50. So you'd be wrong. Btw, no one is born with charisma. It's a skillset that is learned, practiced, and mastered. Barack Obama was not born with strong speaking abilities or constitutional knowledge, either. Incels are seen as immature and generally not taken seriously because they fail to take any responsibility for their situation whatsoever, have no desire to change, and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:32 PM
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Not to an incel. For them, a hobby, like everything else, is a tool to increase their likelihood of getting access to sex. I use that phrase deliberately, because these "men" aren't interested in an actual relationship with a woman, and lack the emotional maturity to maintain one anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:30 PM
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Yeah, I'm gonna have to call BS on this one chief. If you were really the sex-machine player you claim to be, you wouldn't need to waste time and energy debating the merits of various dating strategies on fucking reddit. You'd be too busy actually getting laid. You also wouldn't be crying about "charming fuckboys are stealing all the pussy for themselves!" Because you'd be one of them. Something you should know is that many women can sense confidence, and we can also detect false confidence beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:24 PM
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Oh no, it won't be appealing, I might even get downvoted too! Who cares, seriously. This is the internet, short of doxxing they cannot hurt you. The lion does not concern itself with the opinions of sheep. Also, do you actually believe everything revolves around sex, or were you just playing devil's advocate there, too? The problem with someone arguing from a Devil's Advocate position is that they are free to assume any absurd chain of "logic'' they wish in order to continue an argument, any abs…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:13 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:11 PM
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I had no idea this was a right-wing sub, and I don't care. I'm a big fan of Emma Goldman, she was a brilliant woman who was way ahead of her time. You sound like the type of person to avoid listening to a musician you love because they have different politics than you. Weak indeed. And foolish. Also, outside your tiny subreddit echo chamber, the opposite is true on every dating app. Right-wing men are seen as a red flag and avoided by the majority of women online. https://thefirstdatefix.com/f/c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:09 PM
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Yeah, and? You think her politics discredits that statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:13 PM
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Holyyyy shit the victim mentality is off the fuckin charts. Yes, all women are 10/10 "dating-millionaires" and all men are ugly unlovable gremlins. Get a grip. Many women struggle just as much as men in dating. Older and overweight women have it rough. Loads of women have given up entirely! And men's attitudes and expectations about dating and women is no small part of the reason why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:14 PM
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"The detriment of negative events in the dating realm from women toward men" read: OP was rejected If the roles were reversed in that sentence, we'd be having a conversation about harassment, rape, etc. That's why women don't take you guys seriously when you talk this way. Just the thinnest skin guys imaginable crying out for validation online, and all the other reddit dudes with self-esteem issues can't even save them from the downvotes. Says it all. I'm comfortable letting the votes express th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:50 PM
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Yes, I would. The sus part isn't about his gender, it's about the deliberate choice OP made to accuse a person of cruelty whilst failing to provide details of how the interaction went down. That tells me he probably knows that if he spoke about it plainly and honestly, he wouldn't get much sympathy even from men. There's almost always a reason when someone is vague like that. Everyone knows details matter, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:23 AM
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That story doesn't involve any such thing, because ZERO details of what this woman allegedly did wrong were provided by the OP. When someone deliberately glazes over the most vital details of an interaction, whilst also trying to garner sympathy, it's sus. And that has nothing to do with the gender of the poster, by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:19 AM
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I'm not willing to believe an anonymous internet stranger who deliberately glazes over the most vital details of their story whilst also seeking sympathy and validation after being rejected. Because that is characteristic of a made-up, exaggerated, or emotionally skewed story. Gender isn't even a factor there! Even if I wasn't familiar with how poorly so many men handle polite rejection, that post would still be mega-sus. That said, I've been called a stupid slut to my face after saying, "sorry,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:15 AM
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Okay, and? You have every right to your feelings. It only becomes problematic when men take those feelings and use them as justification to make women (usually their friends) feel uncomfortable. You are not entitled to nor owed a girlfriend, just as I am not entitled to nor owed a boyfriend. Does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 09:58 AM
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I just think it's super sus when people deliberately glaze over the most important details of an interaction, call the woman's behavior cruel, and try to elicit sympathy for the man's poor bruised ego. What exactly happened? What did she say and do? How did she respond? Context matters! I would LOVE to hear her side of this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:47 AM
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A woman not being attracted to you isn't an attack on your identity or personhood. It's them being honest about their feelings. They didn't friend zone you, you girlfriend zoned them. That's why it's weird and you're getting told to work on yourself. Unless I'm missing something here, you didn't give us much to go on with your vague description of cruel rejection. I have a feeling the cruelty was a very subjective experience on your end...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:36 PM
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"Poor human nature, what horrible crimes have been committed in thy name! Every fool, from king to policeman, from the flatheaded parson to the visionless dabbler in science, presumes to speak authoritatively of human nature. The greater the mental charlatan, the more definite his insistence on the wickedness and weaknesses of human nature. Yet, how can any one speak of it today, with every soul in a prison, with every heart fettered, wounded, and maimed? John Burroughs has stated that experimen…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:58 PM
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Good luck honey, take care of yourself and remember you are the prize! We don't chase, we attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:41 AM
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It is NOT all you can see. Dating apps all have a written profile section and/or stats or Q&A! Very few people will read any of it if they're not immediately attracted to your pics, though. Appearance is also the first thing anyone sees IRL. It isn't exactly the same, but it's pretty similar. You can make a great impression with your dating profile writing or with your words in person, but you're still getting judged and evaluated on your appearance in both cases. If you're terrible looking irl,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:34 AM
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Nailed it 🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:08 AM
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Most men swipe to match on 80%+ of the women they see on dating apps. Men like to rate women, but when it comes down to it, most of them would be grateful and lucky to have a 5, considering the vast majority of women reject the bottom 80% attractive men. In other words, it's all hot air. Men like to talk to other men this way because they're posturing with each other for status. The guy that can pull the "8 or 9" earns respect from his male peers. So they all claim to have high standards because…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:54 AM
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https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research The data does not support your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:52 AM
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If this were true, how do you explain all the data showing that attractiveness is by far the #1 deciding factor on dating apps. This holds true on hookup apps like tinder and more serious relationship apps like occupied, match, and hinge. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/women-more-selective-80-men-unattractive-on-dating-apps-recent-research
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:51 AM
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Yeppers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:14 AM
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They're right though, it's crab bucket mentality by design. They want us divided, that's why "middle class" was invented as a social construct in the first place. If the rest of us ever figured out that the United States is truly divided between the owners of capital and their interests , vs the rest of us, well, we might get some strange and dangerous ideas about the distribution of wealth and power here. "I want to say to you as I move to my conclusion, as we talk about “Where do we go from he…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:52 PM
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Red pill man. I'm impressed two wolves weren't mentioned, frankly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:34 PM
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I'm not sure about 'innate' because it sounds like you're talking about human nature here. Everything about status and money is socially constructed. None of that is natural or innate. We recreate this society each day anew, a prison of our own making. Most men being attracted to certain physical characteristics IS natural. So it's different, that's all I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:18 PM
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Wait, you think men don't chase money and status as much as women do? Women are outperforming men in higher education by a wide margin now. And fewer women than ever are interested in having children, at least in the developed world. Almost everyone chases money. Almost everyone wants status.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:09 PM
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The difference is women do figure men out. Usually within 5 minutes of intimacy, unless the guy has some sort of intimacy issue. Men can't fake orgasms, as there's almost always evidence produced when they finish. More to the point, men don't have to fake orgasms because most men cum within 2-5 minutes of sex! A man is a Honda Civic with an automatic transmission. Whereas your typical woman is more like a Pagani Zonda with a 7 speed manual transmission.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:33 PM
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"This kind of breakdown" was referring to ten years of bad sex for that poor women, not the lies she told to enable it. They both fucked up. He had ten years to learn how to please her and couldn't get it right. There are some men who can figure you out in ten minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:36 PM
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It takes two to communicate. And it takes trust. You'll have to learn to forgive women for their trust issues with men, most of them have been hurt because so many men don't treat women like human beings, like equal partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:34 PM
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You still don't get it. I'm not dismissing anyone's pain. My problem is in the comparison and the nature of the kinds of pain. One involves a person's consent being violated and their ability to make a serious health, intimacy, and potentially life-altering (pregnancy) decision being TAKEN AWAY from them. Loneliness is NOT the same as that and should never be COMPARED!! The ONLY time loneliness could reasonably be compared to rape is if one's spouse was murdered before their eyes. THAT kind of p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:52 PM
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No offense, but you being a rape victim isn't relevant to this discussion. But for the record, so am I. I was sex trafficked as a child from the age of 9. That doesn't matter. It's at best a meaningless anecdote and at worst, an appeal to authority fallacy. You've moved the goalposts without realizing it, and in having done so, you've constructed a strawman argument. No one is being FORCED into a lifetime of loneliness. That outcome is the result of millions of individual decisions each of us ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:06 AM
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Do you think people on reddit can't be funny? Or that there's not good comedy to be mined here? The own isn't comparing them to Carlin. The own is that they were extremely lazy and uncreative in crafting that "joke" . Of course, calling someone a chatbot because they said something you didn't like is actually just thinly veiled bullying, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:37 PM
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Carlin would've hated and mocked you to the point of tears if you ever behaved the way you do online at one of his shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:17 PM
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Got a citation for that 80% number, or is this just a case of "trust me bro"? Because Google doesn't know what the fuck you're talking about. My sister works as a therapist and has never heard this, either. Loneliness can certainly be a contributing factor, but to lay 80% of male suicides here seems totally disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:11 PM
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You say freaks like it's a bad thing! Honey it's 2025, lighten up. Live a little. Get that doctor with a baseball bat dick and fuck him so good he forgets about Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:38 AM
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Ahhh, now I understand the problem. You don't know what the word comparison means. Because this thread title is definitely one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:19 AM
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No but seriously you haven't responded to a single one of the points I made in my last serious post. You just threw your hands up and claimed I'm "incapable of having this conversation", which is basically just declaring yourself the winner without any evidence to support this claim. That's bowing out. And that's fine, there's no shame in it. No shame in being wrong, either. Happens to the best of us, we're only human. Just be honest when it happens. People will respect you more for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:15 AM
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Yeah, that's about the only thing getting to completion when you're "laid out".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:12 AM
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🥱 Society used to produce comedians like George Carlin and Bill Hicks. Now we've just got dorks like you parroting tired old memes and thinking themselves clever for it. Derivitive, uncreative, uninspired trash. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:09 AM
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You know, somehow I think readers of this conversation are going to come to a different conclusion, seeing as how you're the one turning tail and running after being schooled like an 8th grader talking to a college professor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:05 AM
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I'm not your dude. Or a dude at all. How many ways do we have to explain that this comparison is repugnant and awful on its face? SEVERITY? This implies that the suffering of incel men is simply somewhere lower on the same spectrum as that of a RAPE VICTIM. THEY AREN'T IN THE SAME UNIVERSE AT ALL. One is a lifetime of trauma, difficulty with intimacy forever in all future relationships, therapy, anxiety, depression. One is a violent act, the other is some guy with blue balls who can rub one out …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:02 AM
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How many ways do we have to explain that this comparison is repugnant and awful on its face? SEVERITY? This implies that the suffering of incel men is simply somewhere lower on the same spectrum as that of a RAPE VICTIM. THEY AREN'T IN THE SAME UNIVERSE AT ALL. One is a lifetime of trauma, difficulty with intimacy forever in all future relationships, therapy, anxiety, depression. One is a violent act, the other is some guy with blue balls who can rub one out any fucking time he pleases. Stop com…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:00 AM
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What are you even talking about? Straight to fictitious personal attacks already? You must feel really intimidated by me, jeez. I'm not even poly, I just think the state of monogamy is in shambles these days. And I think guys who think like you are a large part of the reason it's all so toxic. Not saying women don't play into the problem too, because they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:54 AM
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Women lying to men is a communication problem. Many women will tell you they've given up on honest open communication with their man on certain issues because he doesn't listen. Which is really to say he doesn't change his behavior in response to feedback, which is to say he doesn't care. It takes two people to have this kind of breakdown, and it takes two very stubborn, unpassionate, uncreative people with terrible communication to keep a lie like that going for ten whole years. Guys are up vot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:49 AM
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Did you just argue that RAPE VICTIMS are being called below average and abnormal? What in the hell? This isn't even about statistics. That doesn't matter. THE COMPARISON IS RIDICULOUS AND INSANE.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:40 AM
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It's so disturbing when you lay it out like that, but you're not wrong. It's dehumanization. It's not another human being to connect with, to bond with. It's a pussy vending machine. I hate our culture so, so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:28 AM
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"My partner may not meet some of my needs for long periods of life, and i also won't be able to satisfy those needs elsewhere. That's why we tie each other together by intermingling every aspect of our lives, otherwise the whole thing would collapse out of misery!" Is honestly such a sad but real statement about monogamy as it actually exists in people's lives. If needs aren't being met for any reason for long periods of time, a relationship should either adapt or end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:18 AM
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Yikesarooni, you should delete this OP. Men not being able to attract a mate is VERY fucking different from the lived experience of RAPE VICTIMS. I can't believe I have to explain this to you. Men have the biggest victim complexes I swear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:02 AM
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Sorry but this SCREAMS bedroom insecurity. Whatever is going on here isn't about women, it's about the idea of women in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:58 AM
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