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| 5 | Popular fake news debunked : men leave sick wives, college educated women divorce 90% of the timeThis isn't the same study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageKids is a big factor for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageI think that a majority of my generation will eventually end up marrying and having kids, perhaps later than previous generations. I do think that there will be a significant decline in marriage rates as compared to previous generations, though that’s just speculation. Exactly. And yes, people with more education tend to marry more but they do so later. As for when you'll meet your partner and how fast you'll pull the trigger it's something that's really hard to predict when you're in your early… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageCollege educated men with high paying white collar jobs are becoming increasingly disinterested in marriage, the type of man that women seek out for stable LTRs They do but at a much lower rate than men without a college degree and high pay. While the marriage rates are declining across the board, upper classes are the most likely to marry still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageI don't think it's an echo chamber but you do have to realize that the number of kids who say they'll never marry at 20 in year N is vastly different from the number of adults at 50 in year N+30 who actually never got married. I'm not saying you will and I hate to sound dismissive but saying you'll never get married is an incredibly common thing to do for young people, much more so than actually going through a lifetime without marrying. With that said, the marriage decline is real and people do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Unmarried, especially perpetually single, people do not know what being married is like.Some couples have a marriage-like relationship without technically being married. I would argue that those people understand what marriage is as well (insofar as one can understand what marriage is, since I agree that one marriage can significantly differ from the next, especially across time and culture). I can only speak to my own personal experience but I did know what being married is like when I was unmarried but partnered, but I didn't when I was single or just dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | How is expecting guys to date "sluts" different from expecting women to date "nice guys"?I have already addressed this: "justified for TRP, unjustified for feminists but that's not the point, the point is that it is a case of double standard". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/15 12:54 PM |
| 3 | How is expecting guys to date "sluts" different from expecting women to date "nice guys"?So personally, I don't have an issue with men who don't date sluts, though I would be incompatible with most despite having a low count myself. It's an acceptable preference. That being said, the difference is whether there is a double standard: those men are called misogyn / sexist because they won't date female sluts but they are themselves self-admitted male sluts. That's a double standard (justified for TRP, unjustified for feminists but that's not the point, the point is that it is a case o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/15 12:06 PM |
| 3 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMAInteresting. I didn't know that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 01:58 AM |
| 5 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMADid the title got translated differently in Netherlands and Japan because they hated it? Or in other countries for that matter? IIRC in French it was translated to 'submissives wives / women'? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/15 12:20 AM |
| 5 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMAThank you very much for having taken the time to write such a detailed answer (to me and each of the person who posted in this thread). It's rare to see people in AMA's do so to the same extent. I don't share your view but it was very insightful and it is always interesting to hear other's people view. I sure get lots of emails from men asking for help, and I have not yet found a way to serve them, although I wish I could, unless his wife wants to talk to us. It must be frustrating to get asked … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 07:33 PM |
| 4 | I'm Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife. AMAI understand you speak for women in a relationship with or looking for a man because you are a woman yourself and give advice based on your personal experience but do you think the majority of your advice could be successfully applicable for a man who wants to improve his marriage? Or to people in same-sex relationships? Or do you think they are advice that apply only to the woman in a male-female dynamic? Why / why not? I am thinking in terms of the general idea of acknowledging you can't chang… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/15 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How many of you have children? If you don't have children now, do you anticipate that you will have children within, say, the next 5-10 years?0 and yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/15 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?Something which I have never seen denied by redpiller. In addition, in the movie, as I said, he has the physical appearance of a 31 years old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/15 01:53 PM |
| 3 | "A woman can never love a man the way he desires to be loved." Tell me males of Red Pill, what kind of love were you daydreaming of when female love failed you?The question still remain if you phrase it differently. Does your son get 0% of your heart? 0% of your "attention/focus/doting/priority/whatever"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 06:32 PM |
| 3 | "A woman can never love a man the way he desires to be loved." Tell me males of Red Pill, what kind of love were you daydreaming of when female love failed you?Did you ever give her 100% of your attention and doting? Yes. So you give your son 0% of your attention and doting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 04:24 PM |
| 17 | Red pillers, why is Christian Grey only 27 if women are supposed to find men in their late 30s and 40s more attractive?Christian Grey is 27 but he has the status, money and confidence of a 37 or 47 years old and in fact, way more of those than 99% of men in their thirties or forties. Increase in those characteristics is the reason why men peak in their thirties according to redpill theory. Besides, despite a claim of him being 27, he actually has the physical appearance of a man in his thirties (I just googled it and Jamie Dornan was 31 when cast). Plus Fifty Shades is often referred to as "mommy porn". So I am … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/15 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Women: Is it true there are guys you would only sleep with (but not date) and vice versa?Answering for myself, short answer: no. Long answer: Yeah, most guys fall into that category as they are not physically attractive to me. No, I haven't had casual sex. I have only had sex in exclusive relationships. If I did, the guys in that category would probably be the attractive strangers around me that I notice as attractive enough to sleep with but might or might not be a good date for me. Once I know a guy is a jerk, I am not interested in sleeping with him anymore. No, I don't have rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/15 04:13 AM |
| 1 | In defense of not marrying 30 year olds.That's a straw man. Rates of divorce for people who start cohabiting or get married is already lower past age 25, an age at which most redpillers don't consider women "post wall hags". Especially if you factor in the fact that to marry or start cohabitation with her at 25, you likely met her when she was at most 24. You also do not seem to consider that the benefits are short term while marriage effects are long term. If you marry a 20 year old, you benefit from her youth for 5 years, at which p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/15 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Any Pill: Should men's SMV include fertility?No, I don't have any study at hand and don't really feel like looking but you can google the link between weight and infertility for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Any Pill: Should men's SMV include fertility?There are however indicators such as health, physical appearance and age that correlate with better fertility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Any Pill: Should men's SMV include fertility?Fertility is not something that can be directly known, which is why you can't directly use it for SMV/RMV. There are however indicators such as health, physical appearance and age that correlate with better fertility. Those indicators are part of the SMV/RMV. An analogy could be made with the age at which the man will die. Early post-wall widowhood is a big issue if a woman needs to secure a lifelong partner at a young age. However, you wouldn't suggest making that a criteria for SMV/RMV. Health… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I navigate this?Law students are usually appreciated for a varsity of positions outside law firms at least where I live. Government / public administration jobs for instance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/14 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I navigate this?it would be an easy job to move with She would have to get registered each time they move though, which might not be so easy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/14 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How do I navigate this?It might not be a job that is easily moved across borders though due to regulations and language barriers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Balancing my fiance's dietary needs with my ownTo help reducing your portions for the main, you could start of with a very simple entrée for you (tomato with mozza and basil, cucumber salad, grated carrots... in the summer or a soup in the winter). | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Verbal Abuse in MarriageShe is very clear that women ALWAYS have a part in it: That’s because in my 15 years as a relationship coach I’ve never met a married couple that didn’t match. Water seeks it’s own level; verbal abuse in marriage is always a two-way street ("always": she couldn't be clearer) To my surprise, that’s been the case for 100% of couples where the wife complains about her husband’s verbal abuse. If you have been the recipient of a litany of curse words and insults, consider this: You are looking in a s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/14 05:00 PM |
| 6 | Dating a guy with a kid?(1) He has squandered his commitment on a low quality woman or was not able or willing to maintain a relationship with the high quality mother of his child. (2) As a result, he will divert resources that should go to your own children to some other woman's kid (your and his money, time and energy). | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend's mom is trying to use him as an emotional sponge and I'm worried it will affect him. (Long)1/ Treat him to a small getaway. 2/ Cook him something that's great and healthy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 03:51 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you have for a woman that has hit the wall, and is still single?I know but you are still not going to try for a baby the day after you meet the guy and with both parents so old, it will take some time between the moment you decide to try and the moment you actually have a successful pregnancy. And even if you could get pregnant on the day you meet the guy, 50 years old is already pretty old both biologically and otherwise, as you pointed out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 07:03 PM |
| 3 | What advice do you have for a woman that has hit the wall, and is still single?True, and if we take for instance autism, a woman at 35 brings more risks of autism to the table than a man at 35 does. But a woman at 35 still brings lesser risks of autism than a man at 50-55 and if the older woman and the older man conceive together, they don't get only the risk level of the older parent; they get an even higher risk. (source) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 11:21 AM |
| 6 | What advice do you have for a woman that has hit the wall, and is still single?Meeting a man who is already over 45-50 might not be the best bet for someone who wants healthy children though, especially once you factor in the time from meeting to being ready for kids and the time from 1st try to 1st baby. Unless he already has some children the woman would be ready to take care of. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/14 01:17 AM |
| 3 | I found an old post of mine where 2X was incredibly supportive of my desire to have an "old school" arrangement with my spouse.I know that lots of people are going to pin down the explanation on you not mentioning the red pill and it's certainly a part of it but another thing is that your post is very personal. It's "I like this, I prefer this, I am happy when, this is what works for me". Those posts tend to be very successful on TwoX. The red pill is viewed as saying women like this, they/we should do this, it works like this for everyone. There is a big nuance here and those posts tend to be much more controversial, e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/14 04:47 AM |
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