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When you get more better at game one thing that you get good at is being physically dominant over your environment, imo this is key to communicating boundaries to other males. I remember being in similar situations in the past and didn't know what to do (although I enjoyed hearing my girl reject the clown), but at some point being dominant over your environment should be enough to communicate the boundary to other males. Even if you tell your girl to mingle in the social space no male who gets i…
/r/seduction23/06/25 03:14 PM
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Always go for more than you think you can get. It's on her to accept or reject, and it's on you to create a safe environment for her to do so without feeling pressured.
/r/seduction22/04/25 10:12 PM
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I don't want to be negative but expect at least a few near misses before you hit the proverbial bullseye but you can still definitely get lucky! As for guarantees, that's out of your control. The important question is how can you learn the most from the experience? that can only be done through action. So take action and let go of the result would be the winning strategy IMO. Taking her to multiple places like another comment mentioned is pretty solid advice 👍 Best of luck 🎯
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:41 PM
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Cool! I watched your video that's a pretty solid approach. While we may use different ways to understand or do things, from my own game's perspective I can clearly see you subcommunicated your attraction effectively to the girl on the left and she returned it. This is body language, eye contact, deliberate speech pauses 💪 with this type of game you don't even need an opener. I am however not as brave as you to video my approaches 😅 wish I was so I can show you how something similar to "I like yo…
/r/seduction22/04/25 12:33 PM
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Having the gift of hindsight (I too moved to do my degree), what if I tell you it's ok to be the awkward guy? (I totally was) and you shouldn't worry about it much. You'll figure it out gradually, we all do. By end of your studies things will be better and every year from then on will get better. If you want actionable advice to help with general social awkwardness: immersion works great imo. Find the busiest area in your campus and just go there sit down listen to your favorite music and chill.…
/r/seduction22/04/25 10:19 AM
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I share the same dislike for fast one-night stands and I honestly don't know how guys and girls do this regularly. After experiencing it, I was taken aback by a thought that occurred to me the next day: "that sucked, I would have preferred to masturbate by myself instead." Took me a while to process this cause I felt something is wrong with me, like more than a year. This was a conflict because Game literature and TV shows and movies all glorify the one-night stand as the ultimate game flex. Not…
/r/seduction22/04/25 09:58 AM
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There's so much I want to say here, I'll try since I have some time. No, it's not normal, it's not expected; it's a taboo, which is why everyone has this problem approaching because you're doing something uncommon. This is the reason why indirect openers appeared, they allow you to start a conversation with a stranger and build from there if possible. Talking about nonsensical things with a stranger just because you're a social person is something you'll see in older men. You need to incorporate…
/r/seduction22/04/25 09:36 AM
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I'm part of multiple girls groups, but I have this thing that girls do.. once I friendzone a girl she's there forever. And if I'm not careful, I automatically place new girls in the friendzone if I met them through a female friend. I think this might be because I socially hang out with girls a little too much for a straight guy 😅 I tried breaking out of this more than once, it just doesn't go far. Mainly I hit a wall when it comes time to sexually escalate, I just feel self-conscious because she…
/r/seduction22/04/25 07:48 AM
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Warning, this might be a little philosophical 😅 Totally agree everything except the "numbers game" idea. It's easy to absorb it literally and at some point it may become a limiting belief which I thought was holding my wingman back and that was our main disagreement consistently. When I get rejections in a session, I go home and introspect to come up with a change to my approaches that eventually develops my skills. However, if I believed in numbers game literally I may just tell myself: I need …
/r/seduction22/04/25 07:35 AM
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Its one of my worst i approached one in the street asked her name she was so fearful that ignored me and walked so fast that almost ran away she event looked at me if this happened to me now, I'd honestly laugh out loud.. girls are funny man But before a certain point? This would hurt deeply. It's an interesting thing, the rejections that hurt change as you develop. I had a "fuck off" once that was totally not warranted, I wasn't even approaching her lol. Thankfully these almost never happen so …
/r/seduction22/04/25 07:16 AM
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TLDR: Good job, now do the same 5-10 more times. And I'm not joking. The reason why it felt nervous and strange is because you believe taking the IG of a girl you just met is abnormal somehow. I am here to tell you, it totally is normal. If this girl has an active social life, she probably gave her IG to multiple guys and girls that week in addition to you as it's normal for her. This will repeat in every step forward you take: Step 1: do what sounds abnormal now for the first time, feels uncomf…
/r/seduction22/04/25 06:48 AM
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Abandon all game literature. Start going out and evaluating what went wrong/right after every session and what can you do better. Keep doing that until success. And it'll come sooner than you think. When you play the Game, you either Win or Give up.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:51 AM
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Picky? not really. Some might be opinionated due to competition with other females, but that has no impact on their emotions and that's what they really go with.
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:48 AM
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Here's my iterative step-by-step process to approaching: start going out to places you can approach, no need to actually do it. You can do that as much as you want, weeks even. observe other guys approaching, realize its happening everywhere at all times. your brain will start realizing this is actually normal and expected! train your mind to select an approach target quickly wherever you go. once you start selecting targets without thinking, look at her for a moment. Why did you select her spec…
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:45 AM
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Hell yeah! Trust in the ape brain 🦍 it really does know what to do as long as there is a genuine attraction and privacy
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:31 AM
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Nice! My current version: Have a purpose and personal identity, enjoy life for you and share it with your girls. Be in shape and well-groomed for you. Never chase, unless you understand when to make an exception. Always escalate on girls you're attracted to unless they are taken, friend zone the rest. Don't save her, lead her. She wants to be led. Women self-sabotage too, with actions and words. Learn to disarm her self-sabotage. Always hold frame, there is only one reality.. yours. Invest in fa…
/r/seduction22/04/25 05:27 AM
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What you wrote reminded me of this video which legit had an impact on pushing me to finally figure dating out after years of false starts (and I know how silly this is): Solaire the Sun Bro - Git Gud Like you, it always bothered me that a lot of what I read about game felt loaded the same way "Git Gud" is.. while it did help in some ways in my many false starts, I always felt I'm missing something deep, like I can only see the 2D projection of game but never can see deeper. Turns out, the missin…
/r/seduction22/04/25 04:54 AM
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That's a good question. I thought about it for a bit, and I couldn't collapse it into a single event/realization. For starters I'll preface that I don't think having regular exciting activities in a man's life actually give him any additional sexual value, more like social attraction which may end up being a deciding competitive advantage if there are multiple suitors competing for her time and attention which is often the case for higher value girls. Being sexually attractive is still about the…
/r/seduction17/04/25 10:42 PM
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This is one of those where delivery is more important than the words 😅 so it depends I've opened girls with "Who the fuck are you?" (flirty but serious) when my momentum was high. Reality is it doesn't matter what you say in the beginning and you'll get to a point when neither you nor the girl you just hooked up with remembers what you said at the beginning 😂 so have fun!
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:29 PM
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I'll add my vote to the no flowers side 😅 Warning the following is cheesy and weird.. I'm sleepy lol In this day and age, we men are no longer material providers. We are instead sources of masculinity. A girl is like a silk scarf floating in the wind, we are a strong tree she can hang on to for some rigidity and assurance. Think about bringing her flowers, that's not what she really wants. She wants someone to lean on, depend on, and experience life through. That should be your gift to her. I re…
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:14 PM
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First date should never be a dinner date I've never heard this, you must have a story behind it? In my experience, how a date starts doesn't relate to how it ends. You can easily move from dinner place to a nearby bar for example.
/r/seduction17/04/25 01:02 PM
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Game is game. While I'm not a gym bro in anyway, I know that game works the same way under all environments. We project difficulties and complications unto things as part of approach anxiety but that's besides the point.. We do this other thing that frankly sucks, when we designate a particular type of women as more attractive to us based on some metric (fit, tall, asian, etc) we end up caring a lot more about the outcome with those kinds of girls than other ones causing our attractiveness takin…
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:54 PM
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For a man, attraction is a skill not a conclusion. Just like you worked on other aspects of your life to take them from start to success, you need to work on dating too. And it sounds you're in the process 🍻
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:39 PM
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It's ok to f it up to build skill in fact that's the best approach imo, but there's a thin boundary between that and fing it up because of fear of outcomes (success or failure) Best of luck bro 👍
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:32 PM
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One thing I did with money which worked great is get into and do things I enjoy. Hobbies and activities. Usually I schedule multiple every week, that way whenever I meet a girl I'm interested in, it's no effort to invite her to join me. If she shows up, it'll be fun. If she doesn't, I'll still have a blast and maybe meet new girls. Win-win And when she does join, I make sure to have as much fun as I can in whatever the activity is. I learned from experience girls are really into experiencing the…
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:12 PM
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Working out together is not a date. If you like her ask her out to something you enjoy. Wait for a positive note between you two, be serious and direct when you ask to let her know you mean it, don't wait too long otherwise friend zone.
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:02 PM
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Sounds like you placed the power in their hands, how can you possibly win now? You're the man. You let her know you select her and the pressure is on her to accept or reject. Waiting for her to chase is a passive move that won't benefit you unless you're already preselected. Those guys dancing for her? she's the one in control which makes them unattractive compared to a man who directly selects her.
/r/seduction17/04/25 11:54 AM
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