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From evolutionary psychology female aggressiveness at a young age can mean the female is displaying attraction or trying to attract male attention/correction... she is expecting the male to stand up and do something to show who's boss, basically. If someone thinks that attracting the other means being toxic and abusive towards them then they're NOT going to make a healthy partner.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 09:13 PM
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Often it's in the form of doing things, rather than saying things. Men are more "Solution Oriented" in that they see a problem and need some way to solve it, even if they have to do all the hard work involved in finding one on their own. Which goes with "Doing rather than saying".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 07:01 PM
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How about the same empathy men are required to show for women, hmm?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 05:15 PM
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This exposes the hypocrisy about the need for men to open up, cry, and never feel like expressing feelings will make them less of a man. Except they do. By turning around and saying, "You're putting all this emotional labor on me. STOP IT!" it's essentially telling men to "Man up" in a different way. A more "Passive Aggressive Progressive" way. They want men to open up but disparage their opening up as "Emotional Labor". That's why I look at people who keep yammering about the need for men to op…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 05:11 PM
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These first world women have such a narcissistic victim complex. They so badly want to be oppressed like women in an extremely rural, backwards, severely underdeveloped country like Afghanistan. Almost masochistic in a way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/26 05:06 PM
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But then she said “I don’t think most men aren’t in power”. It's at this stage that you should drop any and all conversation around the struggles of being a man. When someone has already implied, "Hey, you'll be okay. You're privelged and the world is made for you." it's a clear indication that any attempts to convince them otherwise are folly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 02:13 PM
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Fuck equity. There's no need for it to exist. It's equality by any means necessary, including stomping out the supposedly "Privleged".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 04:36 AM
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It's not your fault and you are no less of a man because of it. We already know that. Now what would make things even easier is if people would stop assuming we're taking attention away from female victims. Or that we're privileged because most in the upper echelons happen to share the same color, genetelia and plumbing as us. Allow others to help you carry yours. My pain is too inconvenient or taboo for a world that wants to empower women at any cost.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/26 04:30 AM
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Equality isn't, but resources are I wonder how kindness and treating someone like an individual can suddenly become a "Limited Resource".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/26 10:06 PM
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Idk I can’t gasp this either lol. They would rather empower women at any cost. Including to the point of dismissing their imperfections or blaming them on some external force like "Men" or "Patriarchy" for example. That's the age we live in now: Women can do no wrong and they're being coerced or manipulated when they do, according to our current times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/26 09:49 PM
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Are you worried about good women in your life and just in general are being radicalized by the increasingly common misandry and all men bad rhetoric?? I'll answer with a resounding "Yes". Mainly because I've witnessed a lot of supposedly reasonable people in general become mean-spirited, spiteful, and embedded in their little bubbles, including political ones. It's like what happened? Were they always this way, just better at concealing it, or were extenuating circumstances like wealth inequalit…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/26 09:45 PM
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Acknowledging there’s an increase in violence against women doesn’t mean male victims of violence matter less. No, you just refuse to acknowledge them whenever a woman is responsible or brush it off as unimportant, like what you're doing here: And yeah more men are murdered but it’s men doing the murdering. Who cares? When a woman commits a crime like this, the least you can do is refrain from deflecting with sematics and comparison contests. Women aren't perfect little angels being defiled by m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/26 09:30 PM
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badass This term here. It's been so overrused these days. Including the attitude. Overrated as hell to label anything as "Badass" and to act all "Badass". Especially empowered women. Gosh, I'm getting so sick of hearing that variation. To where I think this label should be put to pasture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 09:58 PM
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Then how do you explain this stuff selling so easily? You'd think there'd be SOME pushback against it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 09:55 PM
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Aside from the women in my social circle, I'm beginning to believe that the majority of the women out there hate men. And the numbers are increasing. Might as well just isolate myself and never make new connections again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 09:53 PM
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What would shift...for everyone...if men had more places where they could receive steady emotional support, friendship, and simple physical closeness, without it needing to be rare or exceptional? For people to start listening to men instead of casting blame on them constantly for their predicament. And this here: In many relationships and friendships, women often carry a significant amount of emotional labor...listening, supporting, helping regulate stress, and holding space for others. Doesn't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 08:44 PM
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And that's what causes me to lose further hope for humanity. We're never going to see the end of this. Just witness it perpetuating for eternity. I really hate being a man in today's times since "Man = Loser" these days and they're buying what the media are selling. Edit: Fucking hell, some of the responses in that Facebook post are really making me loathe humanity further.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 08:38 PM
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They really derive masochistic pleasure from keeping the misandry flowing and the genders divided, don't they? First "Man or Bear?" and now this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/26 08:36 PM
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as true Feminism THIS is true Feminism. Right here and in other areas that have been highlighted. What you see is what you get, no matter how many times the "Reasonable" ones dispute it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/26 06:38 PM
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None because she was never formally charged for what she did to Jimmy Bennett, instead paying him off with a settlement of $380,000 And never meant as a genuine reparation for what she did. It was "hush-hush" money to get him out of her sight instead of face consequences. That's it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/26 03:16 PM
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You made your bed. Now lie in it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/26 05:53 PM
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At what point do they look at themselves to assess what's gone wrong here? Never. They're so happy with their bigotry that whatever critiques people have will travel into one ear and out the other. There's no reaching them. They're lost causes...that are in power.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/26 05:51 PM
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Funny how you're coming out of the woodwork to take umbrage with my tone, bro And where do you suggest I focus and direct all of this anger of mine? Society is bending over backwards to empower women at all costs. Even if it means erasing traumas like my own and turning away whenever a woman commits grievous misdeeds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 03:54 PM
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I'm not going to be civil and rational when it's implied that I have any power when I don't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 03:51 PM
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Right. And I don't see any other solution. You reference Earl Silverman. I'm already familiar with his story. What's worse is the minute it came out that Earl failed to secure funding from the government, people then continued blaming him for the eventual failure of his shelter. "He should've organized fundraisers", "Why doesn't he do a bake sale or something?", "Surely he could've rallied the neighborhood behind him." Why didn't he do this, he could've done that, etc. Then boil the motive of hi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 04:44 AM
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Precisely. No support network, no research. Anyone who attempts to look into this has nothing backing them up should they be met with extreme resistance with a lot to lose if the status quo is changed. Likewise, anyone with such trauma that speaks out is similarly disparaged and vilified. So...what can we do?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 02:32 AM
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I see. Yeah, now I sense what the gap is. It's not so much their actions but the fact they can get away with it, aided by a culture that's looking to empower women while turning the other way should any cause harm. Or, at worst, making excuses for them. A culture that has no room for my experiences and wastes no time making me out to be the villain. Just like they can get away with saying all kinds of derogatory, nasty things about men and there's nothing the OP can do about how it affects him b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 02:29 AM
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If there is no space for us to go to for help, what do they actually think is going to become of us? Yeah. What can I do? There's no-one patient and neutral enough who can help me move past this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/26 01:07 AM
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Oh. Well, it's mostly language like "Male-Dominated", "Patrairchy", "Mansplaining", "Male Privilege" and other loaded terms that cause me to flashback to all those times I was hurt and bullied by females as a child and teenager. Like OP, it's given me a fear of assertive women. Because far too often they take assertiveness further to stomping all over men. and to be hypervigilant about whether she's judging you or being made uncomfortable by you. That hurts even more because then I feel like my …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 10:47 PM
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I don't think his intended meaning is to blame women, but it's definitely bad wording that I won't try to defend. Um...just out of curiosity, how is what I said "bad wording?". I never blamed women. I was look at women's actions. Ergo what they did to the OP. How can that be interpreted badly? Honestly, I'm just trying to understand.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 08:45 PM
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My best friends are men. They just respect women 🤷🏻‍♀️ Uh-huh. So they're only best friends so long as they respect women. If they were to do anything "disrespectful", you'd drop them in a heartbeat. You have been wrong throughout this entire thread so don't try and paint me as being in the wrong. Yeah, it really sucks people like you exist. Thankfully, others are waking up to this ignorance. Good day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 08:41 PM
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I'm really glad you don't have a son. Because god help him if he ever faces abuse and bullying from girls or assault (whether it be physical or sexual) from females. Or is falsely accused of harassment or abuse. Because you'd just to tell him to walk it off and remember that their actions are the result of dangerous men. I mean, god help him. Hope you feel superior and feel like you caught a live one 😜 because unfortunately for me you made me lose faith in men more. 🙏🏻 Like you ever had faith in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 06:02 PM
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but if women being mean Facepalm
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 05:52 PM
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You guys are complaining because women are mean Yeah, you really don't get it if "women being mean" is what's causing men like the OP to suffer from suicidal ideation. But it's not because of women. Women's ACTIONS! Not because they're women. Blah blah blah capitalism evil blah blah blah Once again, intentionally deflecting and bringing in an issue that is unrelated to what we're trying to raise awareness of. A lot of the dangers women are caused by men. How is a girl bullying a boy in school to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 05:46 PM
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But after my 4th or 5th time of having my comments removed by AskFeminist No offense but I think, at this point, you should realize that AskFeminists is not, and never has been, about productive debate. It's an echo chamber where only the most devout are welcome and those in opposition are banned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 05:28 PM
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I was just telling you to chill and not see women as a threat Yeah, you're not here on good faith at all. Because the minute someone suggests that women be held accountable for their actions just like men are, you equate it to seeing women as a threat because they're women. Ergo, we're misogynistic. Throughout this entire thread, you've done nothing but defend feminism and reguritate every single talking point about how women have had it worse since the dawn of time. And doing it in a space that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 05:26 PM
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Ahem I think, the goal is this : you are aware that many, many men are bad. You step up and advocate for women. You understand, many men are bad. But if you work hard to be a good man, then there is no reason for you to hate yourself. Just correct yourself when you notice your behaviour hurting women. 🤷🏻‍♀️ It's not weak. Just don't take it personally - be a good man, correct necessary behaviour when it comes up, and correct other men when you see it too. I don't see anywhere in your advice wher…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 04:34 PM
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Yeah, I can already sense that they REEK of the kind of pseudo-support that's really invalidating pap underneath, emblematic of the kind of "Help" men and boys are receiving today from such grifters. Note - Typical of them. Them: Because of women Me: Women's ACTIONS! Not because they're women. Them: Women being mean Me: It's not about just women being mean Them: Women being mean Me: It's not just about women being mean Them: Women being mean. Facepalm It's like debating with a brick wall. Hell, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 04:27 PM
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You step up and advocate for women. You understand, many men are bad. But if you work hard to be a good man, then there is no reason for you to hate yourself. Just correct yourself when you notice your behaviour hurting women. 🤷🏻‍♀️ You're basically proving his point, you know that? Someone is being seriously affected, mentally, to the point of suicide, over bigotry based on something beyond his control and your solution for him is to suck it all up and accept this form of toxic shaming. Man up …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 10:40 AM
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Yes, yes, please do. In fact, I think there should be a Megathread about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/26 03:57 AM
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Liberal views, if anything, promote mental health Oh really? For your information, those same "Liberal" views promote the idea that every single straight, white male in existence is priveleged over women, has it easier in life, and responsible for the woes of women and minorities. Yes, right down to homeless men. Stop hiding behind the disingenuousness that is your blaming "traditional stereotypes" because that's surface scratching bullshit that won't fly anymore.
/r/MensRights30/07/26 09:15 PM
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Absolutely not. There is nothing weak or pathetic about feeling lost and hopeless in a world where it's permissible to attack you because you're a man. I identify exactly with what you're going through. My perspective is that, unfortunately, traumas like that feel too taboo to talk about in today's climate without being accused of misogyny. The sad truth is that, while I acknowledge the strides, society is still not close enough to letting your trauma become part of the discussion. So, I don't b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/26 08:07 PM
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Unfortunately, at least in the USA and Australia, it is true that men contribute to climate change more than women do, mainly because of men eating more meat due to marketing (yes, this outweighs the effects of women's consumerism). I AM NOT HARMING THE FUCKING CLIMATE, OKAY?! EVEN THOUGH I EAT MEAT! STOP FUCKING JUDGING AND BULLYING ME!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 05:22 AM
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Remember that you are still needed in the general cause of human rights. So that's all I am to you? Some ally for the greater good? Not a man nursing his inner child from the damage and scarring from all that cruelty? I won't be objectified that way. And it still sounds like you're excusing those females, absolving them of any wrong doing because of oppression rather than the fact that they were evil wenches. Period.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 04:36 AM
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In your particular case at least, I agree 💯. Evil is as evil does, and evil really has no gender per se. . Yeah, good luck getting anyone to see that nowadays. I don't belong in these times. Feel like I should just take myself out of the equation for good. Besides, no one's going to miss me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/26 02:54 AM
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Misogyny wasn't involved in the relentlessly bullying I received at the hands of girls and women. And to imply that they were reacting to misogyny removes their agency. Those females were evil, okay? I have to live with these scars for the rest of my fucking life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/26 06:18 PM
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I'm not gay but can empathize completley. It's hard for a straight male like me to exist in a world where you turn on the TV to see yet another girlboss fictional character berating and abusing the supporting male character. It's prevalent in children's shows especially. Movies and music, too. Don't get me started on Sabrina Carpenter for the latter. What adds to the torture is I'm a survivor of horrid bullying and abuse from both genders. Yet what happened at the hands of the girls I have to ke…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 09:44 PM
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A possible fix would be more male teachers in elementary school. I don't know what is currently being done about it. First you'd have to make the environment more welcoming and eliminate this impulse to automatically assume that a man displaying affection towards children is suspect and creepy. Additionally, we need to bring back "Innocent until proven guilty" when an accusation of sexual harassment or abuse is brought forth by a female student or female teacher. Otherwise, you're just dumping p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/26 09:39 PM
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That's BC, Canada, though. I live in an ethno-state. Forgive me for ressurrecting a long dormant thread but I have to chime in and say that you've pretty much got ALL of the Canadian Education Systems sussed out. PM Carney is even in the process of enshrining a bill into law that fights "Anti-Feminism".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/26 10:11 PM
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This is literally what the patriarchy holds. Bullshit. We don't live in a patriarchy. It convinces everyone that women can't be absolute monsters and it can create monsters out of men by forcifully breeding entitlement. No, feminism does it with ascribing all harms and setbacks done unto and toward women as the fault of men as a group. Therefore, in order to achieve equality, girls need to access their hidden "Girlboss" and beat those boys into submission.
/r/MensRights17/07/26 06:50 PM
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The stupid thing about this is that her entire point hinges on the idea that she grew up in a "pretty progressive environment" and that "helped her confidence and good will towards others." I have the sneaking suspicion that she's lying about there being any benefits to the supportive environment she was raised in. Me thinks that she harbors ill-will and resentment towards it, the misandry a form of rebellion. Because if she came away with better confidence and good will towards others, she woul…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/26 02:42 AM
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Yeah, right back at you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:56 PM
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Yeah, not only you lol but you have the gall to pull the whole "you owe me an apology". Pompous as hell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:51 PM
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That's exactly my point. We are living in a period where not only does the culture at large chooses to close their eyes to the flaws and capability of harm females can inflict in the name of "Equity", survivors like me cannot find recourse from supposedly supportive institutions like therapy where this is firmly entrenched. Try telling a therapist that female abuser-related trauma is triggered by assertive women. See how far you get without a roll of the eyes and Toxic Shame.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:49 PM
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What movement? Where are you getting this from? Uh, Feminism. Isn't it fairly obvious with you defending the concept of "Patriarchy"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:44 PM
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None the less, they are useful words to have in our vocabulary to discuss these problems. Not when they're abused and weaponized like they have been against men like me. I completely agree with this, and tbh I honestly have no idea why you seem to think I wouldn't. idk, if you can go back and find a quote where I said something along the lines of "women are incapable of cruelty and abuse" then I will accept your point, but otherwise I think you owe me an apology. You support a movement and a min…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:37 PM
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Don't confuse this with actual academic writing. With the way higher education is compromised by these ideologues, I wouldn't be surprised if it eventually was endorsed by the faculty. Remember, they teach Critical Theory now. No more Critical Thought.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 10:28 PM
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There are so many ways to build up someone's self-worth and confidence without programming them to be a bigot. You don't need to push someone else down to lift yourself up - That goes for everybody. Well, welcome to current times. This is a perfect example of what I've been talking about: Girls imbedded with the message that empowerment means disempowering the "Oppressive Gender" ie, Boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:56 PM
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She should be brought up on Child Abuse charges. No little girl that age deserves to be indoctrinated like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:54 PM
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Feminism didn't do that to you. They certainly didn't help by dismissing my trauma as insignificant compared to women's trauma and insisting that I remember my privilege as a white male. You call that supportive in any shape or form? Fuck Feminism. but progress is being made on unraveling it. Oh really? Then provide some examples of this progress for me. Evidence that the problem of girls and women getting away with hurting boys and men is being addressed by feminism. And no, I will not accept t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:49 PM
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What do you actually believe? I believe in treating women like human beings. That means not only supporting and acknowledging their contributions but also remembering that, like men, they are human beings filled with virtue and flaws. That they are capable of cruelty and abuse as they are of love and nurturing. Unfortunately, society prefers seeing the good and sweeping the bad under the rug in the name of "Equity". That doesn't sit well with me and serves to rub salt in my internal wounds as a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 07:46 PM
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"Feminism as a whole" bro its a roughly 100-150 year old political Look up the Declaration of Sentiments, please. This passage here destroys your argument that it was always about equality: "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." Feminism isn't the reason you got bullied bro, you got bullied because some people are assholes. FEMINISM TREATED MY TRAUMA AS …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 05:35 AM
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Have you tried talking to a therapist? Can't afford it. And the wait lists up here where I live is hell when looking for one. There are professionals out there who specialize in helping folks deal with past trauma and the like. Uh...I don't think so. Last time I had a psychiatrist, when I expressed this fear, he told me that women were oppressed for a long time. Seriously, for your health, one man to another... please give it a try. All snark aside, you deserve to heal. No. No one wants to deal …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 05:30 AM
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No we understand the core meaning. You're just changing the meaning to make it seem less offensive when, in reality, it's offensive to men who have never harmed women and were, in fact, suffered nothing but hardship.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 03:47 AM
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It sounds like you received a very radical, extremist version of feminist ideology. No, it's feminism as a whole that subscribes to such methods of achieving equity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 03:40 AM
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Have you looked at popular culture these days? It's all strong, girlboss female characters who berate the male characters. And male characters who are complete doormats, always being corrected by strong girlbosses. That's what's being fed these days to girls, giving them this idea that boys and men are dumb and dressing them down, being cruel to them, is empowerment. If it makes you feel any better, the dudes who made my life hell in middle and high school never faced any consequences either 😅 Y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 01:38 AM
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Then why say it grants power to men as a group when men like me never receive any of it? Or are you implying that I can easily access this power because it's available on account of my gender?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/26 01:32 AM
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The message that they can be successful? No, that to be empowered, girls have to step all over boys. That's what they're teaching nowadays. Please don't try and paint me as some misogynist. People of all kinds have been bullying others since the dawn of time, I think they bullied you because they're assholes. That's my point. Yet girls are getting a free pass nowadays to be as cruel as possible because it's cool to be a "Girlboss"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 11:02 PM
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You're mixing up the personal with the systemic here. Oh please. Exactly the kind of deflection I'd expect from someone who thinks I benefit at all from the system because I'm a fucking male. You being bullied as a kid has nothing to do with patriarchy, that was just shitty people being terrible to you. Good then stop implying I have any fucking power with that Patriarchy crap, okay? Since I was bulllied and hurt by BOTH genders.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 10:55 PM
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They sound really immature. In the circles I hang out in, folks think that bullying shit is gross and weird. Would that include girls bullying boys as well? I really hope you meet better people, I promise most people aren't like that. Judging by how girls are still getting this message, I have a hard time believing you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 10:44 PM
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The answer for girls, at least outside of conservative circles, was "Girl power! Be anything you want to be, you can do anything!", and we nurtured that so they could grow up to be smart, strong and capable. We gave them inspirational role models and stories, irl and in media, that reinforced those messages. That was a good thing, children should be encouraged and supported in that way. And look at what happened. Now girls have this message instilled in them that in order to feel empowered they …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 08:30 PM
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While the concept is frequently misappropriated in public discourse, the original meaning and use of "The Patriarchy" is a hook referencing the social and systemic structures which traditionally enforced gender roles and kept positions of power reserved for men. Which is complete and utter horseshit because I certainly could've used that kind of power when I was being kicked around as a child and teenager. Where was it when I needed it? That's why I refuse to acknowledge the whole "Patriarchy" a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 08:23 PM
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To people they know... And how do you know that their supposed trusting social circles would hear them out? Hmm? As I've witnessed since 2020, human beings are easily manipulated into turning against you. A person you know can easily become someone you thought you knew.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 08:21 PM
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What's even worse is that the normalization of such bigotry makes it extra difficult for survivors like me to exist on a daily basis. Everytime I'm exposed to a situation where a girl abuses a boy, berates him, then gets lauded and revered as this empowered 'girlboss', it's like sandpaper scraping against my internal wounds. Adding to my feelings of alienation. Where I believe that I don't belong at all in this world that's bending over backwards to uplift women to the point where they can get a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 08:17 PM
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Yes, that too. Though, luckily, he managed to successfully sue the station and everyone involved in the game. Came away with a lucrative settlement. Good for him. That's what I call enforcing accountability.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 07:22 PM
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both genders benefit. I don't benefit from shit, okay? You try and tell me how I benefited at all from patriarchy while I was getting my ass kicked on a regular basis by BOTH genders. I'm an unemployed nobody who is struggling to stay afloat no thanks to this taboo trauma. I can barely even get people to pay attention to my own talents. HOW THE FUCK AM I BENIFITING FROM THE PATRIARCHY?!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 07:19 PM
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Many 'feminists' might believe this but it goes against what feminism No it doesn't. Bell Hooks Like I said, a pox on her and her ilk! She paved the way for this nefarious form of empowerment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 07:17 PM
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Patriarchy isn't a big conspiracy where men subjugate women, that's nuts. That's not what feminism believes. Maybe spend more time telling THEM that instead of trying to convince me of your definition of Patriarchy. Or attempting to dump such garbage on to my head. Patriarchy has NOTHING to do with girls abusing and bullying boys, getting this message in their head that that's what empowerment entails: From their mothers, their fathers, female teachers, successful females in business, media, pol…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 07:15 PM
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Technically (I guess), it is "patriarchy," No. It's cruel females. Period. Stop making excuses for them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 09:01 AM
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I refuse to acknowledge her or Patriarchy. And I advise you not to change definitions to suit your agenda. Patriarchy means "Rule Of The Father". Yeah she talks about this a lot actually, and very sympathetically to men. Have you actually read it? No because gender roles were not responsible for what the girls and women did to me. Those females were cruel and evil. No devil or patriarchal influence caused them to harm me. THEY. HARMED. ME! PERIOD! I mean, how hard is it for you to understand? Wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/26 12:46 AM
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Oh please. It wasn't "Patriarchal Culture" that caused all those females to hurt me when I was a child who expressed and thought differently. It wasn't "Patriarchal Culture" that told me my trauma doesn't count and I should check my privelge as a white male. That I'm taking attention away from women's issues. It's witches like Bell Hooks and her ilk, the current culture that excuses fucking abuse from girls towards boys, women towards men, as fucking EMPOWERMENT! To hell with her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 11:58 PM
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Still, I ask again: There are women who utilize suicide as a means of holding their spouse or lover hostage as well. To exact vengeance on them. What would you call that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 04:39 PM
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I think the reply kind of has a good point in that murder suicide could be misogynistic for various reasons Except women aren't above using suicide to manipulate men's emotions, either. What would you call that? "Internalized Misogyny?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/26 06:55 AM
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Lmao, this has to be ragebait no one is taking her serious. You guys are treating this as if she is advocating to kill people on national tv, you are hurting all men with exaggerations like these. How is flagging and standing up to blatant hatred hurting men? Please, what are the logistics behind your assumption? You are just fueling the right wing propaganda against leftist musicians.... So anything and anyone that dares to resist the scourge of misandry is right-wing, got it. There are REAL is…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/26 02:42 AM
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Thats a claim I would like to see prove for. "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." -The Declaration of Sentiments, 1848 This reaches way back before the first wave of feminism. The hate was there all along. And no one bothered to address it. Just looked the other way and let it infest, evolving into what we have today.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 10:07 PM
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It’s Empire fascism on the Right and Femi-Nazis on the Left. And here we are, stuck in the middle with each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 06:05 PM
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The bad parts are misogyny I've seen the movie. And where the fuck is this "misogyny" you speak of?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 05:13 PM
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Sorry but you don't have a single leg to stand on anymore. Going all over this thread trying to shame people like me because we don't "Rock The Boat", guilt-tripping us Meanwhile, what are you doing? I’m living a normal life like everybody else, I participate in male spaces, listen to podcasts and engage in discussions around these issues. Maybe you should have some self-awareness of how you come off towards others who don't fit your standards of activism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/26 12:10 AM
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I’m living a normal life like everybody else, I participate in male spaces, listen to podcasts and engage in discussions around these issues Oh so exactly like what we do then. Yet, here you are berating others for not doing enough. Talk about hypocritcal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:32 PM
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Especially since I don't consider myself a feminist. I never said you were.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:30 PM
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No, you are one of those activists who have these arbitrary standards of what counts as "Good Enough", and when someone doesn't fit those standards, you guilt-trip them and assume they're not doing their fair share for positive change. That's why I don't pal up with movements like yours because you are very toxic and no matter what I do, you'll continue to berate me for not doing enough. And there's so much of you there it's made your environment unhealthy. If you want an example of why you Left…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:16 PM
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Yeah, keep assuming I'm doing nothing. Good-bye.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:10 PM
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And if I don't rock the boat sufficiently enough for you, what does that make me? You have no right to assume anything about me or order me around to fit your standards. I'm done with this conversation. Go shame someone else, please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:09 PM
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You defended a group that left me in the cold. And continue to do so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:07 PM
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Spoken like a "Man up or you're a pussy" kind of warrior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:06 PM
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You don't know a thing about me, pal. I don't always spend time in echo chambers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:05 PM
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I'm not a confrontational person. So I guess that makes my kind of advocacy worthless to you "Boot Straps" people, am I right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:05 PM
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What do you think is the root cause of modern issues? Getting people to finally recognize that, GASP, women aren't perfect and are capable of abuse and cruelty. Same with girls. Just like men and boys have those sides to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:04 PM
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I don't mean to invalidate what you are going through. Too late. The minute you and the OP start demanding I limit my scope to the genitelia and indoor plumbing of those causing harm because I happen to share the same "features" is when you spit on me as a survivor. What I would argue however is that billionaires no matter their gender pose a bigger threat to the wellbeing of all people invluding men than feminism currently does or possibly ever could. Then count me out of your movement. This is…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 10:00 PM
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Take your demands to "Man up" elsewhere, please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:56 PM
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The suffragette movement wasn’t immediately seen as socially acceptable, Yeah, bombing buildings, putting lives in danger, will do that to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:55 PM
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Are you proposing they take it to the streets with guns ablazing? What more do you activists want anyway?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 09:54 PM
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then it might be time to leave it for another that actually takes misandry seriously. Too bad the existence of those places is diminishing. Those that remain are hard to trust because, sooner or later, they fold to misandry. I don't know what's happened to mankind that made it this way. But it's a sad fact. At least in my view.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 08:45 PM
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I've kind of already accepted this is just another mensrights sub. No duh. Maybe you shouldn't forget to take that left turn at Albuquerque, Bugs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 08:40 PM
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I think you are missing the point. I think I made my point perfectly clear. I think both feminism and certain Mens advocacy spaces miss the root cause It is NOT SOLELY men in power that is the cause. There are way more roots and it all reaches towards the inability for society, the reluctance, to recognize women as human beings capable of HARM along with virtue. Just like men. Reducing it all to "Patriarchy" or "Men in Power" is forcing people to look through such a tunnel vision ridden lens. An…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 08:36 PM
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But it feels like we're overlooking the fact that many of the people with the greatest political and economic power are men. Who cares? Why is it that you people always have to bring this up as yet another one of your gotchas every single time male issues are discussed? I don't benefit from powerful men in positions of government. And I seriously resent anyone who thinks that. Whether it's politicians, billionaires, or business leaders such as Trump, Musk and others, many of the policies and dec…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 07:36 PM
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But you can both have a valid point. Misogyny and misandry can both be real. It is after all, two sides of the same coin. Two faces for the same demon. Every judgement on one carries out a reflection on the other. Here's the thing: When you are told that your trauma is nothing compared to what women and girls go through, how your race and gender means you'll be fine as people with similar characteristics occupy powerful positions in government, and that in the meantime you should "Check your Pri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 07:21 PM
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There are genuinely good feminists. About as real as Bigfoot or The Loch Ness Monster. All feminists, even the "good ones", adhere to many variations of the same core tenant that is "Patriarchy Theory". We do not live in anything resembling a patriarchy and considering the sheer weight of issues men and boys face, it's a severe offense to believe we do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/26 04:38 PM
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real feminists Are not considered feminists by the ones running, and speaking for, the movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/26 02:57 PM
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Oppression, violence and murders are worse. Focus on what matters. How about we focus on what we want to? Like how all that doesn't justify disgusting bigotry against a group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 06:34 AM
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The article was written by an Indian woman, I'm pretty sure her grievances and fatigue against male violence are justified. Are you aware that feminist groups in that country lobbied for the government to keep rape laws gendered, throwing male and boy victims over there under the bus? The next time you support Misandric Indian Women like this, remember those Indian Male and Boy victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/26 06:33 AM
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I can agree with this on a moral judgment base, reality is much more complex and full of nuances. Yeah, well reality sucks. Pardon my french. If then those nuances should creep into the justice system So unless they make up a significant portion of court cases, then "abuse is abuse" is an illogical approach, is that what you're saying?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:22 PM
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Such case should be considered differently from a case where the man can defend itself yes. Then why don't you? Why doesn't feminism do this? Why do you and the movement whip out those statistics as a "GOTCHA!" every single time this issue is brought to light?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:14 PM
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Most of position of power are held my men, it follows that most power is held by men. Not held by ALL men. All right, you say most power. What power do I have as someone who was born with a cognitive difference, bullied and abused reprehensibly for it, was sexually harassed by a girl in high school for doing nothing but helping her out of the kindness of my heart, wanted to commit suicide after compounded bullying in high school, isn't currently employed, and struggles with getting recognition f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:06 PM
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I'm not from the US and what does that change? In this reddit, you act as if Misogyny has never anywhere been a bigger problem than Mizoandri, which is absurd. Absurd according to who? You? I think they're equal. If you have a problem with that, it's not my issue. But I don't think misandry is the biggest factor in these suicides, and patriarchy plays a much bigger role here Disagree highly. Boys don't have the voice to speak for themselves or turn to adults for help not because of macho pride b…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:05 PM
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And did feminist groups over there do a thing about it? Did they rally behind him? Organize campaigns?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 08:00 PM
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This however doesn't change the fact that the SA that I lived through is fundemntally different from the one a woman could live. Why? Why is it different? Abuse is abuse. At any point I could have decided to stop the thing, having the physical strength for it, which is an option that a woman most of the time doesn't have while being raped. That's what makes it different. And what about men who aren't built with the average upper level strength that is cited by sources constantly by you and femin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:55 PM
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Misandria is not good, but you have to face the truth that it is men who kill women in Iran through misogynu, We're not in Iran nor are most of us from that country. And if we are talking about false accusations, they do not even account for 1% of unproven but true reports. Key word is "reports". The majority of false accusations rarely make it to court. Most end up with the falsely accused either taking their own life or going underground for it's their word against the vigilante mob, which tak…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:39 PM
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This post of mine was justifiably deleted so I'll try again and be a little fairer. My apologies. All right. To the OP: Look up The Declaration of Sentiments. This section right here: This history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her. This pre-dates all the known waves. No offense but you're basically speaking for a movement that has accused ALL men, including men who…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:33 PM
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Patriarchy only means that in the social system most of the power is held by men, which is still currently true. There is no conspiracy about it, even tho the current US administration for example would be a perfect point against this actually. You really think that men occupying positions of power in government means that even homeless men hold most of that power socially? That'll it'll trickle down, "Reganomics" style? What about male abuse victims and survivors of female perpetuated abuse? Bo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:24 PM
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Sorry. It's just that these arguments are the same old thing and I'm tired of it as a survivor. Like this whole "Feminism isn't one idea" deflection when its negative actions are highlighted. Everything falls under Patriarchy Theory. If not, they're not a feminist. And whether you like it or not, you cannot sweep away the origins of this misandric undercurrent in The Declaration of Sentiments under the rug like they do. I may have been extra vitriolic in my post but the point still stands: They …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 07:17 PM
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I have four fucking words for you Feminist PR Specialists: The Declaration of Sentiments. You look at this section right here and tell me, with a straight face, that feminism resembles anything CLOSE to equality: "This history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." This pre-dates all the known waves. You're defending a movement that accuses ALL men, including men who …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 06:37 PM
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It's also funny that I see physical differences being used by these types of people as an argument for discrimination Not surprising, really. It's the same argument they pull up when men defend themselves against abusive women. Them: Women can do anything a man can do. Sometimes even BETTER than a man. That includes contact sports. Man retaliates with a slap against a woman who is assaulting him relentlessly in a public video Them: WTF?! HOW DARE HE! HE COULD HAVE KILLED HER!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 06:27 PM
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Yeah...you might want to look at their Instagram Page. It's LOADED with too much of it to be passed off as some "random thing".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 06:25 PM
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Well, at least she's honest. That way it's an instant "Avoid like the plague" for me. Better than getting swindled by "Good Feminists" who claim to be about equality then reveal who they truly are underneath that virtue and tossed word salad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 06:03 PM
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Yes. And take a long look at this part: "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." Baseless garbage since the majority were worried about keeping food on the table and coming home safely when at war. I'll never look at feminism in a tolerant light ever again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/26 12:15 AM
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The Declaration Of Sentiments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 11:46 PM
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So you think Feminism caused the Red Pill/ Manosphere/etc. spaces? When you start a movement purporting to support men's rights and needs only to treat them like a scapegoat for your group's ills, demanding they change for the benefit of your group, where do you think those disenfranchised men are going to go? Maybe if Feminism quit claiming they were about equality and simply say, "We're only advocating on behalf of women. You are free to create a similar movement for men if you wish." and put …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 10:56 PM
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Ups and downs. I take it as it goes, one day at a time. There will be moments where the storm clears enough for the sun to peek through and moments of chaos and instability. So long as I can ride through it, I'm fine.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 10:49 PM
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Hoh boy. And on top of all of that, women hold less power in society (though that is slowly changing). Men still dominate at the heights of the political and economic systems. Plus, many women experience sexual or physical violence in public and their intimate relationships with men. And how in the hell am I, a worthless freak of a man, responsible for all this? Hmm? Sexual or physical violence? I EXPERIENCED THE SAME THING FROM WOMEN AS A FUCKING CHILD AND TEENAGER, ONE BEING FROM SOMEONE I HEL…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/26 06:56 PM
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"The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." https://www.nps.gov/articles/declaration-of-sentiments-the-first-women-s-rights-convention.htm Look for yourself. And I don't want to hear anymore "But it was true" when I already stated in another thread that men AS A WHOLE were more concerned with making ends meet by taking dangerous, hazardous jobs that required …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 09:15 PM
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Even worse: She was banished from the first ever women's shelter she had advocated tirelessly to be built. No longer welcome thanks to the new owner and staff in charge. Her own shelter, all her hard work. Everything. Taken from her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 09:08 PM
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Bullshit. There is nothing redeemable in a movement that thinks one form of trauma is piffle compared to the trauma of women and girls. Read The Declaration of Sentiments. Complete garbage movement from the beginning, otherwise others would've spoken out against that piece of hate speech trash.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 06:12 AM
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Hmm, I get that, but don't you feel that a lot of them are just scared as a response to the fear mongering nature of the internet/social media and echo chambers? Hell. Fucking. No. I have no sympathy for them. After the rancid dismissal I received from feminists when expressing my trauma at the hands of girls and women, they can all go to hell. Scared, huh? Please. They should walk a mile in my shoes and know what it's like when you have no choice but to fucking suppress your trauma and let it f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 01:04 AM
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I quit learning about feminism the minute I'd unearthed the misandric, bigoted undercurrent they work so hard at covering up yet fail so miserably at keeping it under wraps. Once I read The Declaration of Sentiments, particularly that horrifying accusation towards men is also when I accepted the fact that feminism isn't worth learning about anymore. Considering that speech predates even the first wave is evidence enough of how the misandric undercurrent was not only invited in but never opposed,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 12:42 AM
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Despite evidence of male victimization in intimate relationships, Canada, like many other countries, lacks institutional support for men who experience abuse. Gee, I wonder why? Likely because that cunt Carney (current PM) is expanding all his energy into kissing the rear of end of women and girls instead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/26 12:38 AM
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They earned it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/26 06:03 AM
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Basically, yeah. If it were up to them, they'd gladly assist in that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 08:06 PM
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UN Women: We support all victims of the terrible Earthquakes in Venezuela. Male Victims: Great. UN Women: Get lost.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 08:05 PM
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“Original sin” is “gender norms” and “internalized misogyny”. Except religion also has "Hate the sin, not the sinner". This religion, it's okay to hate BOTH.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:56 AM
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"misandry doesn't have a body count" coughMale Suicidecough
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:54 AM
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Yeah, exactly. Sorry, I deleted the post but I'll say it again: It's not just the portrayal of men, it's also the film industry getting away with exploiting child actors. As before, the child version of Jill twerks her rear suggestively after expressing her exhilaration at having her first kiss to child Isabelle in their bedroom. Then when child Isabelle is in the hospital, child Jill communicates by cell phone while she's at a dance. She starts dancing to a song and this spurs Isabelle to stand…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/06/26 01:20 AM
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It's not just that. Another disturbing aspect of this film is that the director apparently had no qualms about allowing a minor to suggestively shake their booty in a lurid way on camera (this in the opening scenes where she first kissed a boy and found it incredible. She expresses to her sister, her sister cheers her on, and that's when she starts twerking). Another is when the sick sister is in a hospital bed, on the phone with the MC The MC's at some school dance. The MC then starts dancing w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 11:58 PM
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Tbh maybe what we need right now isn't just egalitarianism but a male equivalent to feminism (masculinism??). It's not like men haven't tried. But look where it got them then. Look at where it's getting them now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 08:35 PM
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They have a term for the former on YouTube now: Preppies. GRWM content. (Get Ready With Me)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 07:50 PM
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Whistler said the same thing in a deleted scene from Blade 2: "Never underestimate the power of the pussy, boys. One cunt hair off that thing can drag a freight train a mile uphill."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 07:49 PM
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I'd also add, though late I may be, that speaking out against it comes with major consequences on a social (and even career) level. Men lack recourse from institutions that are supposedly about equality and battling hate. Look at Reddit's Community Policy, for example, where white men aren't considered a protective minority so everyone has free reign to say anything toxic about men as a group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 07:47 PM
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reverse prejudice It's prejudice. Period. Not reverse, not reflecting something back. For my part, I also think that working to give people what they need right now (without prejudice or discrimination) i.e. policies that take care of people's basic needs and allow them to exist and progress in a space free of discrimination/prejudice is how we actually get to a fair, balanced, and for lack of a better word progressive society. Exactly. No more seeing only collectives but the individuals within …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/26 07:39 PM
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All abuse is bad and no one should get a pass for it because their gender / sex is seen as more sympathetic. Sadly, society believes otherwise. You deserve to be heard and to be vindicated, but as you know life is often not fair or righteous. Sadly, I don't think I ever will be heard in this lifetime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 04:09 AM
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I was thinking more access to the labor market and capital for survival and to an extent at least a little more access to power Having little choice in the job market where the only way to be paid enough to make ends meet was to take jobs that require operating or handling dangerous equipment, long hours, and leaving them little room for rest and pleasure when at home before the next shift disputes that. As far as access to power, I just said that men who didn't own land were exempt from that le…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 03:28 AM
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Anytime a man says or does something wrong or harms a woman its not enough for us to call the man out.. No.. we are at fault because we failed to prevent that man from doing what he did. Yet they balk whenever they're asked to call out Misandric women and remind us that women are not a monolith. Same thing with feminists and feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 03:14 AM
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I commend you for calling out misogyny. I repeat: I'm not anybody's "Ally". If you're going to talk to me, you talk to me as a person. Not as your mouthpiece against misogyny everywhere because I call out men AND women. Not audibly, not in the public sphere, but I have my own methods. I hear what you are saying about the limitations and even risks of being an ally (and often stay quite for this reason) and also understand how toxic shaming can become. Thank you. In that we agree: It's a fine lin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 03:12 AM
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At the risk of sounding like a simp, do we call out misogyny ever? Maybe we just assume that we cannot influence the men who act in misogynistic ways Exactly. You can't. As much as its tempting to be an "Ally", I only have control over so much. If a man is misogynistic and I call him out yet he CONTINUES to act as such, what else am I expected to do? Grind him into hamburger meat? And even then, calling someone out has its risks as well. Where a strong man can grind ME into hamburger meat consid…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 12:13 AM
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Men had collective privilege over women Men were out there breaking their backs, supporting themselves and their families through dangerous, hazardous jobs while others were praying that they make it back home alive when at war. And not many men owned land. Therefore, they were exempt from the vote alongside women in the same conundrum. Where is this privilege you speak of?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/26 12:08 AM
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Its always “They arent real feminists” until you ask “Why is there NO ONE speaking up against these fake feminists then?” After that it becomes “These women are just venting.” They also respond with, "We can't be everywhere at once, you know? Busy lives."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 10:57 PM
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The irony is that you’re asking for empathy No, empathy means leaving all that structure stuff behind and addressing males as individuals. You’re right i’ve had enough. I won’t be engaging further. Your loss.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 03:15 AM
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I think it is patriarchal. No, otherwise those male victims would've received support from the law and those feminist groups would be shut down immediately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 01:41 AM
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Then stop talking about those structures because that is disrespectful of those male victims and their feelings. We've had enough.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/26 01:40 AM
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Acknowledging a social hierarchy doesn’t mean every individual man is powerful in every interaction or that men can’t be victims of abuse. Obviously they can? Individual exceptions don’t erase broader structural patterns. A man being abused by a woman is still a real victim and deserves support. But that doesn’t disprove the existence of a wider gender hierarchy any more than one wealthy woman disproves sexism or one poor white person disproves racism. How about you shut your mouth about hierarc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/26 04:05 AM
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The difference isn’t that “I hate men” only hurts men’s feelings while “I hate women” somehow does something magical. It’s that those statements exist within completely different social contexts. When a group already sits lower in a social hierarchy and has historically faced discrimination, harassment, or violence, hostility toward that group carries different weight because it reinforces existing patterns. That’s why people talk about the difference between punching up and punching down. So AL…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/26 11:01 PM
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Uh, yes it does because then their lobbying wouldn't have made such an impact and would've been shut down immediately. The fact is they were successful in keeping rape laws gender specific, to serve female victims only while throwing innocent male victims of every age under the bus. Though I wouldn't be surprised if you harbored hatred towards those male victims as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/26 10:59 PM
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I consider myself a progressive guy in the sense that I support equity for women (for eg menstrual leave at workplaces), Equity is equality by any means necessary. Through enforcement and conformity of thought. Including exclusion of white men. Never support that. I think men should be taught more about consent both implied & non-implied, Women also need to be taught the same thing as adhering to consent isn't a gendered issue. Too many times, women get away with imposing themselves on a man's p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/26 10:56 PM
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After all, the cultural mindset or rape culture of Saudi Arabia or India has no bearing on the US or UK. Uh, India has male and boy victims of female abuse. But thanks to feminist groups over there, they aren't recognized in rape laws.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 04:21 PM
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I am a male victim of abuse, myself, so you can eat a dick lol. That doesn't give you an excuse to spew ignorant, hateful comments like this: the very real and pervasive threat that men as a group are for women. In other words every man, including those who are sensitive and not strong, those who are socially awkward and even those who have never hurt a woman in their life but spent their lives getting hurt by both genders (like me) are a threat to women. Oh yeah, you're also including boys as w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/26 04:19 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-45253993 I know that you shouldn't take allegations at face value but the problem is we have to "Believe All Women" with every allegation. Well, this one really put a kink in the movement's stalwart armor if we're going to go down that route.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 09:35 PM
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What might you forsee happening if the first female president came into power (and it doesn’t necessarily have to be Harris; it could be any female president)? A metric ton of "PROGRESS! PROGRESS!" calls all over mainstream and social media. "NEW PEACEFUL WORLD!", "NEW ERA OF PEACE!" , "WOMEN ARE THE MISSING PEACE", etc. Hey, people still think if more women were in charge, there'd be no war so that will leak into the celebrations. Meanwhile, us men, especially male survivors of abuse like me, w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 07:48 PM
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Oh, sorry, I meant controversy! Nothing on their website looks too shady Uh, you might want to look into what the prominent spokeswomen of the movement did that justifies the pushback. Additionally, when male survivors tried to join, they were lambasted collectively, accused of stealing the spotlight, and told to wait their turn. Sure, if they were SA by a male, they could receive support. But overall, they needed to know their place. Otherwise, they're out the door.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 07:43 PM
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Well, mission accomplished to them. I already feel demoralized. Scared? Not really. I've learned to just let my trauma circulate inside me until I die of health issues down the line.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/26 01:09 AM
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healthy masculinity Oh let me guess: Being in touch with their emotions and believing it's just as manly to express them. Here's a little dose of reality for you: Women do NOT find men who are in touch with their emotions and not afraid to cry attractive. No sir. They want assertiveness and stoicism where convenient. Otherwise, they're out the door. There are exceptions, yes, but those are really rare. If you want "healthy masculinity", maybe start adjusting your dating preferences. If that sudd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/26 07:09 PM
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I don't condemn feminism wholesale until I can see a broad pattern in misaligned goals to the 'original goal' of gender equality. Just look at The Declaration of Sentiments for goodness sake. It's all in there, that misandric undercurrent. Do you really need a percentage of citations to meet your approval when that speech right there demonstrates that not only did this undercurrent formulate and fester for a long time, FEMINISTS DID NOTHING TO COUNTER THAT?! THIS is why we are where we are today…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/26 07:04 PM
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I genuinely don’t understand why the feminism movement needs to cater to men and boys as well. They're about equality, aren't they? Isn’t that what men’s rights activists are for? Feminism: Make your own movement. Also Feminism: You don't need your own movement. We're about EQUALITY! I’ve heard the women around me embrace feminism because it made them feel better about their own self. Oh really? So it makes them feel better to have a scapegoat for all their issues they can turn their ire on whil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/26 09:20 AM
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Which makes fear of it pretty illogical since whatever it says and does is only according to what the programmers put into it as well as users. It's not sentient in the slightest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/26 04:51 AM
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Don't bother looking online. With Google now ceding all operations of its search engine to A.I, you're only to get results that are heavily skewed in "popularity". Hence, why you're constantly running into articles on Misogyny and Women's Issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/26 12:00 AM
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Remove "patriarchy" from the discussion, and there are remarkably few accepted frameworks for examining the cultural conditions that may have produced those internal pressures in the first place. Uh, I'm afraid I'm going to have gently push back on this because you don't need the "Patriarchy" framework to explain what I'm going through. Rather, "Women Are Wonderful" effect. And there is zero connection to patriarchal frameworks of any kind to it as it makes women not only default angels but also…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 08:54 PM
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Thank you all for the support. I'm starting to come out of this moment a bit. But still, honestly...is there truly a place for me in this era?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 06:43 PM
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Thanks. Truly. It's been a rough few days since. Constantly questioning my worth in this era. It's never going to end.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 04:13 PM
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As I made clear. Some feminsts do shit like that and they miss the bar in that regard and they should be scrutinized. However I won't condemn the movement at its core until I see a study or similar outlining that its like atleast 30 percent of self proclaimed feminists that have a different goal in mind. So you're not interested in doing the right thing, then, unless someone gives you something that makes it worthwhile. Yeah, real tolerant you are. Another example of feminists only looking out f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 03:51 PM
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i very much understand where misandry and man hating comes from, i feel like it’s a predictable reaction to oppression to generalise the group who are oppressing you, but i do think it can be rather counterproductive and damaging. i’m not sure if you’re familiar with the concept of gender essentialism, but it’s the idea that men and women have “inherent” traits, often used by radical feminists. the radfem version of it is stuff like men being inherently violent and selfish and women being inhere…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 09:26 PM
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Some White people do get offended by anti-White hate speech, but I mostly don't, because I understand that Whites as a group of peoples have done terrible things. Yeah well it hurts me. I'm glad you're made of sterner stuff but goddamn it, please stop making it worse for people like me who have never harmed a single fucking minority in their fucking life. I guess that means I'm an insecure white guy who should check his privilege right? I'll be sure to note that while I struggle to find a reason…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 09:21 PM
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if you are of the belief that women face no oppression whatsoever right now, then i don’t think we’re going to get anywhere with this. i’m cautious to say “what they’re feeling about you is not justified” because women have so many reasons to distrust the men around them. No they don't, period. You're basically excusing my bullying by girls and women when you say this AND this: misogyny did not just disappear when women gained legal rights, it is imbued into culture and societal attitudes. I wil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 06:29 PM
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Bc why you come out the gate like this? Because you're part of a movement that's part of the problem. That's why. Anyway, I'm not in the mood to expand on this as I've already dealt with enough "tolerant feminists" on here who claim to be about it then display passive-aggressive tendencies that beligh they're anything BUT tolerant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 06:22 PM
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I'm going to say something that's going to sound a mite controversial but bare with me because I'm an autistic individual who has been around the autistic community for some time. These are my observations: There were early warning signs I'd sensed about all this social justice stuff eventually infecting the community. Patterns I'd noticed. Autistic individuals talking about how they have male and female brains, no matter their sex. I understand feminine and masculine sides, no issue there. Howe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 06:12 PM
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Feminists care about men too, Uhhhhhh...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 05:56 PM
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I asked what hurt his feelings. I didn't deny his feelings. It's pretty clear what the issue was: Unfair, unjustifiable hatred towards him as a man. I don't ask men in general to open up to me. I do believe that men need to have emotional intelligence and it helps men become well rounded humans. I believe all of us need some sensitivity and understanding of how to emote depending on the situation. Good, then how about women do the same whenever they make malicious remarks about men? Would you be…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 05:53 PM
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You know you're merely proving OP's point that your movement has no tolerance for sensitive men pointing out the issue of unfair hatred when you lead with "Awww, who hurt your widdle feelings?" as if every sensitive man is insecure. You wanted men to open up about their emotions yet you berate them for doing so in a way you don't find tolerable? So which is it? Getting in touch with our sensitive side or packing it up into our little manbox because it doesn't fit your standards? If it's the form…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 05:44 PM
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what on earth is happening here 😭 my entire point is that men AS A WHOLE have oppressed women for centuries which led to a general caution of every man regardless of individual actions. THAT DOES NOT JUSTIFY ABUSE AT ALL! i’m sorry you went through what you did but to put it plainly your comment has absolutely nothing to do with what i said. in fact, it seems like you’ve interpreted a completely opposite message. maybe actually, like, read my comment and stop projecting? how do you expect to eve…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 05:30 PM
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i very much understand where misandry and man hating comes from, i feel like it’s a predictable reaction to oppression to generalise the group who are oppressing you And how in the hell am I oppressing women? I'm a depressed, worthless, trauma plagued nobody male who received enough bullying and harsh treatment to bring me to suicidal ideation at age 15. And I can't even talk about that trauma because it involves girls as well as boys. And that's a major social no-no now since everyone and their…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 04:08 PM
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I would've replied to her question, "I would provide some help but since I'm a man I guess that makes any form of advice I'll dispense problematic to you."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/26 04:03 PM
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Try not to make an enemy out of people that think straight. Can't believe you're defending that slime bucket with such outdated, largely debunked, not to mention misandric, views. Try to control your emotions. We all need to try. Its a very sensitive subject to alot of people. Trying to police others emotions here too, aren't you? You're really something.
/r/MensRights13/06/26 06:36 AM
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"Benevolent misogyny" is when women and girls are unfairly given the benefit of the doubt because they're seen as harmless based on an underlying belief that women and girls are less capable. Yeah, you know jack shit. It's all based on the fact that girls have it instilled in them that boys and men are horrible and they are better in every way. And they pull their sources from YOUR FUCKING TEACHINGS! Feminism is responsible for it. Liberal, radical, whatever. You're cut from the same cloth. YOU …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 02:38 AM
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Traditional sexism is the keyword here. It isn't anything of the sort at all! What I'm talking about is a result of instilling in girls that they can get away with abuse and harm so long as we call it empowerment. Your fucking traditional sexism charge is a goddamn insult and frankly another perfect example of the utter blindspot you have when it comes to equality. For fucking decades, you fucking dared to blame men as a whole like you're doing right here: Part of this is because women have been…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 02:14 AM
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sexism levied at women is worse than that levied at men, and that men hold the vast majority of positions of political and structural power even in the places where it is weakest. See here, everyone? See it right here? A perfect example of the kind of apathetic dismissal of a serious issue I just pointed out in a previous post that remains prevalent and in serious need of remedying. And feminism once again proves it doesn't give a single shit about it. I repeat, straight from the horse's mouth: …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 01:50 AM
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It's to remove the very structures of patriarchy We don't live in anything remotely resembling a patriarchy. The way things are going with men right now obliterates your theory that's become so corroded and rotted beyond time yet you keep pulling it out of the mothballs. Ask all the boys and men being abused, berated, and belittled by girls and women while having no recourse whatsoever. All because people bend over backwards to excuse it or call it "Empowerment" Ask all the survivors, too, while…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/26 01:36 AM
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This is not entirely true. Plenty of radical feminists were explicitly trans-inclusive, Please. You're not inclusive of anyone so long as they don't tow the line and refuse to adhere to every tenant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/26 11:44 PM
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It's the classic Principle Skinner "Am I out of touch? No, it's the children that are wrong." argument.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/26 01:31 AM
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Your opinion is allowed but this attitude of yours that its without blemish or flaws isn't. Back to the topic: What is so obnoxious about men enjoying sexy and sensual fictional female characters? And would you be okay with policing people who offer sexy, sensual fictional male characters with exaggerated muscle proportions for women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:51 PM
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You might want to have a look at The Declaration of Sentiments. Mainly this passage right here: "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." This predates Women's Suffrage, the right to vote, and everything associated with the first wave. That misandric undercurrent had already taken form and residence in their tent. The fact that there was no pushback says it…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 10:06 PM
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Have you seen the state of higher education these days? It's entirely staffed by people like this. And students are no longer taught critical thinking but critical theory instead. This is what the current generation are getting weaned on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 09:33 PM
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You...are aware of the atrocities Stalin committed against the common man, right?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 06:30 PM
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It’s like reverse patriarchy. The historically oppressed oppress the historical oppressor. No. Just NO! This is like calling racism against white people "Reverse Racism" when it's clearly anything BUT that. Same applies here. This is straight up misandry. Blatant hatred. And what this "Good Feminist" fails to understand is that it didn't just emerge out of nowhere. It dates back to The Declaration of Sentiments. WAY before the first wave. There's been misandry brewing within their tent since the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/26 06:23 PM
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Male suicide is not a competition with female suffering. Tell that to the people who turn it into a competition. THEY'RE the ones screaming about how issues like this steal the spotlight from women's issues. The real issue is that millions of men grow up being told to stay silent, suppress emotions, and carry every burden alone. Well, when you're constantly told that your trauma and problems are nothing compared to what women and girls go through then see all that abuse from girls and women towa…
/r/MensRights07/06/26 05:59 PM
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It's the root of my depression. And no amount of talk therapy or medication is going to change the fact that the abuse I went through is being passed off as "Empowerment" in all forms of entertainment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 06:02 AM
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Yeah, that's the one thing about the movie that stood out like a sore thumb in an otherwise very good independent horror story. Apparently, a husband talking about the very universal struggle all men face when it's THEM doing the heavy lifting, working a dead-end job to pay for their spouse's choices in life while lamenting how their dreams failed to become reality, means they should pull those bootstraps up a little higher and tighter this time. I swear, if it were his wife in his position, she…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 05:54 AM
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The worst part of it all is living in an era where that kind of trauma is considered politically inconvenient or socially taboo to mention that there's no other choice but to bottle it up and let it circulate through you. That's an entirely different form of slow, painful death. You're at the point where you don't think you deserve self care. Next thing that happens is you neglect your health; poor diet, sleep patterns, isolation, etc. All as you witness a world that refuses to recognize abuse f…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 03:29 AM
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Let me put this to you very simply: I'm not giving anything that detests me, attempts to induce self-guilt, over characteristics beyond my control my money. No matter how daring it is in style and storytelling. I'm a survivor of abuse from both genders and, frankly, my limit to watching fictional iterations of the very girlbosses who hurt me when I was a child and teen on the big screen has been reached.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/26 01:33 AM
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I call myself an equality feminist. Doesn't matter. Equality, Liberal, Sex-Positive, Sex-Negative, Apple, Mineral, or Vegetable, it's all under the same umbrella with the same tenants. I would've called myself equality feminist, too. But The Declaration of Sentiments, how feminism looked the other way and allowed such misandric bile to foment and grow, turned me off entirely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 11:16 PM
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It's important to a lot of women Their loss. Better to be who you are than suppress it, reducing yourself to an emotionless doormat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 11:13 PM
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It was certainly advantageous to be a man (in many ways) You keep forgetting that those advantages came with STEEP prices.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/26 10:58 PM
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Answer my question.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 08:54 PM
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Like genuinely what? How much empathy for them do we have to extend that will fit what YOUR standards of empathy for female victims?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 08:51 PM
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Just fucking insane that that person’s heart aches for men in that specific situation but apparently it doesn’t ache for the rape victims or the impact of this news on women’s psyches. "Oh won't someone PLEASE think of the women". Listen, what makes you think we DON'T think about them. We do. But we also think about what those women will do to poor innocent men and boys who HAVE NEVER VISITED THE SITE NOR HARMED A WOMEN OR GIRL IN THEIR LIFE! MEANWHILE THEY'RE ON THE RECEIVING END OF SUCH TOXIC …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 08:48 PM
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Because it serves as further ammunition to weaponize against men as a group. Treat innocent men and boys with contempt like what's been happening for awhile in our culture.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 08:41 PM
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I feel you, man. My gosh how every single word of your post spoke to me on a deep level.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 02:10 AM
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Hi, OP. While I applaud your efforts, me, personally, I've elected not to participate in Pride Month or any other special celebration. Not this year for now. Because I associate it with being made to feel ashamed for my gender, sexual orientation, and ethnicity. I'll basically be offering my support behind-the-curtains in solitude instead. I'm so demoralized.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/26 02:03 AM
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Wikipedia has a well deserved reputation as one of the most unreliable online hubs of information and facts considering anyone, including those with their own biases, can go in and make alterations at their leisure. So it's not surprising.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 06:05 AM
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but we as an overall group do have a reputation that isn't unwarranted. Speak for yourself, buddy. I've endured a lot of shit in my life at the hands of both genders and have found little to no support for what the "Fairer Sex" did to me as a child. I don't need people like you, MEN like you, making it worse for me by attempting to passive-aggressively convince me into shouldering unnecessary shame and blame because some men are assholes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 10:30 PM
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If they're on YouTube, I'll take the links since they've been utilizing autodubbing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 08:29 PM
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Oh right. Thanks for the correction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 05:55 AM
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but pretty often I see women, even feminist calling out this behavior, Really? You might want to provide some examples because, from where I am, I haven't heard a peep from these so-called "enlightened" Feminists except as contributers to the noise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/26 01:10 AM
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It's ALWAYS been like this. Go back to The Declaration of Sentiments and you'll see the humble beginnings of that Misandric underbelly of Feminism and female advocacy fully formed. It paved the way for misandry to grow and prosper into what we have now on social media.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 10:32 PM
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Blocking still implies engagement in accordance to the algorithm. I should know, I keep hitting the "Not Interested" option on Facebook Posts on my homepage clearly designed to induce a tribal reaction and yet I STILL keep receiving stuff like it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 10:29 PM
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It's because, to this day, men are assigned hypo-agency. They can't be victims of circumstances, bad luck, or oppressive systems. Whatever their struggles, THEY are to blame fully and are shamed if they can't pull themselves out of it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 10:25 PM
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The ultimate irony is a majority of these leftists claiming this as such come from opulent, privelged backgrounds themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/26 10:22 PM
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I wrote a whole analogy about this before but the short version is that feminists are mad at the ceo while only being able to yell at the receptionist. Another way of putting is they look at the glass ceiling and dump all over the men that occupy the glass cellar. Like Garbage Collectors, Sewer Workers, men who work dangerous jobs are no different from the Male Ceos and Politicians to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/26 10:07 PM
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Hello. Can anyone see me?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/05/26 06:24 PM
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Or people with autism? If you're male and Autistic, you're fair game to be called every slur in the book in addition to creepy. Autistic females, however, well now their issues are being pedestalized. Some are even swallowing the "Women are wonderful" tripe being propagated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 08:02 PM
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and that's because we've been failing young men and boys Understatement of the year. You're ABUSING young men and boys with your toxic assumption that they're born monsters. And please don't give me any of your dismissive "I'm not talking about those who never harmed". YES YOU ARE! You approve of programs that flagrantly employ messaging that treats boys as if they are bad by default and, therefore, in need of immediate intervention, you're including boys of toddler age as well. That's child abu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/26 09:22 PM
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I don't know anymore. I can't exist in this world. It's not compatible with me. Where my trauma is considered politically inconvenient or too taboo to share.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 07:43 AM
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when they say men are the problem, its referring to male perpetrators as they maintain a statistical majority in most of social, psychological and anthropological data. but it does not mean and SHOULD not insinuate every single man as a perpetrator. Too bad. They continue to do so, insinuating that I'm the problem. Spewing that data out as a semantic "GOTCHA!" against me. i get it because one of the first people who hurt me was a woman and i always blamed myself for not getting along with other …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 07:22 AM
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considering women are half the population and have been underrepresented for centuries, specifically in health spheres (lack of research funding into female health conditions and reproductive knowledge) which is one of the worst aspects of patriarchy in my opinion, elevating women's issues isnt inherently bad. It is when I'm constantly told my fucking trauma doesn't compare to what women and girls go through. You try getting told by ideologues that your privilege negates your suffering. You try …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/26 02:19 AM
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Unfortunately, with the way society is still bending over backwards to elevate girls and women's issues, the only thing left for me is to repress my trauma and maybe die from a health issue in my 60s. I don't see any other way through it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/26 08:04 PM
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I SAID SPARE ME! You and your ilk have no right to dictate what I can and can't do. "What's best for the world". Over my dead body are you going to have power over me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/26 01:31 AM
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yes. anyone who abuses someone is working out their rage or issues on them, its unacceptable. did i say its justified? no. but its definitely political. Or maybe perhaps they're fucking evil. Either way, they get no sympathy from me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 11:26 PM
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Just because you can doesn't mean you should. Like it or not, eating animals is terrible for your health, the environment, and the economy (since your choice is only made possible by subsidies from taxpayers). Spare me, all right? If there's one thing I can't stand is lectures from people who think they know what's best for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 11:25 PM
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i think for your own wellbeing, understand that without a system to dismantle male violence, women have no other way to condemn it. So you think all that bullying and abuse I endured at the hands of girls and women is because they're just working out their rage on me? Look buddy, NOTHING JUSTIFIES THAT! And I don't care about how all your apologetic drivel attempts to dispute it. You and your ilk make it difficult for survivors like me to exist. I hope you realize that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 08:50 PM
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It means that we need to help men liberate themselves from their social pressures of masculinity rolls eyes Please stop. while teaching them that eating animals is terrible for their sexual health I'll eat whatever I want, thank you. You have no power over my diet. and that women want emotionally intelligent men who aren't insecure about their masculinity. So in other words you want men to be doormats for women. Women aren't perfect angels. They're capable of harm and abuse just like men are. An…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/26 08:34 PM
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If you're not about female supremacy, rather staunch advocates for equality, what is your ideology doing to address such huge discrepancies listed above? I would add also that girls are increasingly being fed the message in popular media that empowerment means stomping all over boys. This emboldens them to berate, demean, and even physically assault them while hiding behind the cover of "Girl Power". How exactly is feminism combating this? Or are they ever going to bother at some point?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/26 07:39 PM
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It's such a bleak picture painted in really dark overtones. How does one even remain hopeful considering the direction we're headed in and nobody seems to care about the cliff looming ahead?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/26 04:18 AM
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Which makes me wonder: What changed? Or did anything change? All these people who are so neutral, fun-loving, apolitical, and wanting to share their world now experiencing a complete turn around where they are adding to the political polarization by investing in rage bait. The IG girl and the metal tatoo'er girl, their sudden shift into hate-based, misandric insults and slurs are two of many examples where everyone seems to be abandoning kindness, compassion, and connection in favor of meanness.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 09:29 PM
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Right. I forgot about that. Thanks for the correction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 07:18 PM
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You're assuming I wouldn't care because I'm a woman No, you wouldn't care because you're a feminist and your ideology has not put in any effort whatsoever in correcting the scourge that is girls and women, today's generation, now hiding behind "Empowerment" while bullying and hurting boys and men. In fact, further down this thread, you kept claiming that whatever effort issue happens to men isn't important compared to women. So, no, you've already revealed your apathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 07:09 PM
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I'm not denying it doesn't happen but I don't imagine it's on quite the same level :) Who gives a flying fuck, other than you, on whether they're on the same level? It happens and should be spotlighted. You know, you're really showing how little you care about abuse towards men from females the more you continue to downplay it via semantic arguements.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 12:08 AM
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However what i have seen recently is a shift to more misandrist views and not really wanting equality. It has NEVER been about the consideration of putting men on equal footing. Look up The Declaration of Sentiments for fuck's sake. That predates even the FIRST WAVE that brought the right to vote!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 09:12 PM
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While I won't downvote you, I cannot ever forgive feminism for refusing to clamp down on weaponized Girl Power where it shields female abusers and bullies from the consequences. But coming from an ideology that formulated The Declaration of Sentiments, it's par for the course. Why do girls have to bully boys in order to feel empowered? Is this ever going to be addressed? Seriously, give me some answers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 09:03 PM
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Toxic masculinity is hurting and killing women all over the world, its a whole systemic issue, it rears its ugly head in many places. Toxic women / misandry? Not so much. I was bullied and ridiculed by BOTH genders. BOTH of them. Yet only ONE part of my trauma is allowed a platform across social media, traditional media, and institutions. Meanwhile, the other part is barely even acknowledged at best and flat out denied at worst. I'll give you a hint as to which: It's not what happened to me at t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 08:58 PM
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I really dislike the manosphere eg tate etc. However there are just as toxic females. It's called the "Femosphere", female equivalent of the Andrew Tates of the world. Except, unlike the manosphere, they're given empathy and support.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 08:53 PM
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Feminism is responsible for the amount of girls that get away with bullying boys, hiding behind "Empowerment". They're also responsible for making it difficult to talk about. I will never forgive feminism for that considering I have to keep what happened to me bottled up lest I be attacked for taking the spotlight away from female victims, priveleged white male that I am. Fuck feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 08:13 AM
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Not just 'end of the world' but also toxic shaming and blaming innocent people who are scapegoated as the problem. Regular, everyday people I might add. It's what has turned me off completely from issues like that because I'm been bullied, judged, shamed, and guilt tripped enough throughout my childhood and teen years. I'd rather not deal with it again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/26 12:19 AM
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But also getting drunk and trying to jerk off with the door open is stupid. Yes, it was stupid. So what? Why are you so insistent on penalizing someone's personal choice that he acted on in his own home, which he has every right to regardless of whether it gets your panties in a bunch, over accepting that we have a clear cut case of a woman entering the grounds without permission instead of following instructions to leave the delivery on the porch then choosing to post a recording of the man nak…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/26 07:03 PM
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Yeah, good luck getting that off the ground. No offense but that's an uphill battle and its a very, VERY steep incline.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/26 07:22 PM
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People say the same thing about MRAs or male advocates because, unfortunatly, there are a lot of shitty ones, and that vocal minority is what most people see. Difference is I don't see a male equivilant of Mary Kay Ross consulting the CDC and recommending that female victims that were raped should label it "Sexual Assault". Nor are is there an MRA equivalent of The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence that presumes all women are the primary aggressors in domestic violence situations and should be t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/26 07:11 PM
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No, most feminist are good people who care about men and women alike, Okay, what are they doing to address this pernacous scourge that is allowing abusive girls and women to bully and hurt boys and men by calling it "Empowerment"? How about the women who get it in their head that in order to feel respected, they have to turn the girl boss up to eleven and grind men underfoot? ALL men, mind you. Even the ones who never harmed her, or even KNOW HER? There are so many issues like this that have yet…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/26 07:09 PM
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What a time to exist as a man. I paraphrase a golden oldies song: "Slurs to the left of me, accusations to the right, and here I am stuck in the middle with you."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 10:43 PM
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You’ve also elevated the aggression to new heights and I’m not going to put up with that. Gee, I wonder why that is? Could it be that when a person sets out to present one issue as incomparable to another, dismissing it as "men getting offended" without even bothering to dig deeper than surface level ignorance, it tends to get pushback? Especially when said person continues to miss the point repeatedly? Welcome to reality. You don't want to put up with that? Too bad. Next time, don't come in her…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/26 04:36 AM
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I’m not going to argue with you about me supposedly deflecting against male suicide victims You were the one that believes misinformation leading to innocent men feeling hurt and persecuted for the men who commit these crimes is of low priority compared to the victim of these crimes. I fucking pointed out the grievous error in your mentality with male suicide, where one of the causes is the environment where news articles like this are fucking weaponized against them. Employed as toxic shame. I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 11:44 PM
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Jesus Christ you’re such a hypocrite. Now you just hold it right there. There is no hypocricy in calling you out on your minimization of an issue, deflecting with the same old ignorance and apathy. The only rancid as shit hypocrisy I can smell from miles away is you claiming to care about female victims when you clearly are in it for the virtue signaling and wanting to be one of the "Good Men". Need I remind you of what you said earlier? I’m not saying it’s nice for men to feel bad about themsel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/26 05:55 PM
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So you don't give a damn about men, then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 11:56 PM
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There you go, driving the whataboutism train full speed ahead. Why am I not surprised that when you minimize a serious concern that is male suicide and I push back against it, you immediately follow it up with "What about the FEMALE VICTIMS?!" This goes to to show you don't even give a damn about female victims except to use them as a talking point to push your apathy for men and their issues. Typical. I know this is a waste of time to someone who is pulling the equivalent of "Toughen up and be …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 11:51 PM
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The consequence of people not reporting statistics accurately is wider spread fear which already exists because of other, correctly reported, incidents, and men feeling bad/attacked. I’m not saying it’s nice for men to feel bad about themselves, but that is the lesser consequence. Tell that to future men who will contribute to suicide statistics after offing themselves from having to endure more hatred from people using this "Study" as leverage. Also if men get offended at people saying “men rap…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 08:47 PM
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-7: Why Feminism Must Drop the Label to truly be about equality Hell will freeze over and pigs will fly into orbit before you'll be able to convince feminism as a whole to drop the core tenant that has been their bread and butter for a century. Best not bother.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 08:37 PM
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For me, I prefer the "Wargames" philosophy: "Strange game. The only winning move is not to play." I refuse to bother navigating a world that prefers polarization. Let them all eat each other into oblivion while tightening their tunnel vision through constant social media use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/26 02:09 AM
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Oh wonderful. Doormat AND a rapist. Two kicks to the groin. Two reasons to count me out of that discourse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/26 08:31 PM
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Yes, but what example does it show those innocent children when the world allows a pedophile rapist remain in power? Yes and there were also celebrity representatives of the infamous #Metoo movement like Asia Argento who sexually assaulted 17 year old Jimmy Bennett and got away with it. Age of consent in California is 18 so that would make Asia a child abuser. That tells you something, doesn't it? Both that those in power can get away with crimes like that, regardless of gender and how you are s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/26 06:19 AM
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“Men and women are equally violent in all ways” → also misleading Oh will you stop with this? This isn't misleading, it's basic human fact. No one gender has a monopoly on violence and harm. I don't know why you're trying to push back against this. Just what exactly are you intended to gain from erasing people like me who have experienced the dark side of females as a child? Huh? Seriously, I'm sick and tired of such caveats being forcibly inserted into something universal. Women aren't perfect,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/26 08:25 PM
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Feminism has been a driving force in the quest for parity. Right. That's why we are now looking to solving the issue of women and girls getting away with hurting, bullying, and berating boys and men while hiding behind female empowerment. Oh wait... Parity my ass. And as another rebuke of your rose-tinted reverence about the ideology, I have two words for you: Duluth Model . And what's interesting is that feminism isn't this violent movement, in fact its most notable quality is the degree to whi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/26 05:33 AM
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still think patriarchy exists And I still find that very offensive and dismissive as someone who was hurt by females when he was young. Patriarchy didn't make those females hurt me. THEY WILLING DID IT OF THEIR OWN FUCKING ACCORD!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/26 04:41 AM
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As long as you see women as the enemy Having an issue with feminists doesn't equate to making women as a group the villain. Not all women subscribe to feminism. In fact, some of the most vocal critics happen to be women. Particularly women who are married with sons. You keep forgetting that woman = sex/gender and Feminism = Ideology. I wish you'd make that distinction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/26 04:38 AM
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The internalisation of being perceived as a "perpetual suspect" from the age of ten combined with the lack of agency and social isolation during the night-time curfew would lead to enhanced levels of depression and suicide. I'd argue we're already long into that crisis in real life without a curfew.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 03:33 PM
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Please can this "Patriarchy" talk, please. We don't live in one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 03:17 PM
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Translation: "I don't care if you've never partaken in the oppression of women, you share a collective responsibility for it based on your gender and will pay a restitution." I really hate being a man in today's world since THIS is what people in positions of power believe, pushing ideas like a gendered curfew.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/26 03:13 PM
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Because society wanted it that way in the name of progress and equality. Well, they made their bed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/26 05:31 PM
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Not taking away from the fact there's many violent males and many female victims of said male violence, Why oh why oh WHY do posters like the OP always have to shoehorn such a caveat into every single message in support of issues like this? Look, OP, no offense, but what do you have to gain from such overcorrection? Other than that, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/26 10:43 PM
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How?? For most of recorded human history men have been in positions of power They controlled female sexuality, forced them into arranged marriages, viewed them as commodities to be bought and sold in marriages and forced them into relations of dependants to men For the last time, men like me have never held that kind of power. I, as a man, was born with disadvantages that have brought me ridicule, belittlement, dispargement, and villification. All the way from childhood to now. And here you are …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/26 01:59 AM
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It's expanded beyond the world of gender politics into politics in general. Now, everyone is expecting you to be concerned about the latest injustice or say something to denounce it. If you so much as utter "No Comment" or infer that you're staying out of it through body language, they will now take that silence as you in support of said injustice and destroy you. No longer "Agree to disagree". We've now gone full "Agree OR ELSE!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/26 08:38 PM
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If feminism were about equality, there wouldn't have been a universal acceptance of The Declaration of Sentiments. That was the day Feminism exposed its true colors, a day that predates the first wave. Since then, it's done nothing but let that contempt for men as a group grow and foment. They had the chance to speak out against it. Cut it off at the pass. They didn't.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/26 09:51 PM
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Evidence please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/26 09:49 PM
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But, we are the problem. I've never harmed anyone in my damn life. Instead, I was the one on the receiving end of cruelty, bullying, and one time sexual harassment from a girl in high school. I've even had FEMALE counselors and therapists treat me like trash as a boy. Please stop laying the guilt trip on me, shaming me for things I never did. It's scum like you that force me to keep my trauma buried, poisoning me. Because you just can't help aid and abette the narrative that men are the problem …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 08:41 PM
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If that isn't a back-handed compliment, I don't know what is. Know that these women are only hurt. Well they're only creating hurt men in the process as collateral damage. Men who are literally strangers and barely know them. Men who have never hurt a woman in their life. I can’t fix your own brain but I will say thank you for being a decent human being with a heart. Considering what you said earlier in that paragraph, I doubt this is sincere at all
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 12:28 AM
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I feel you OP. It's why I prefer keeping silent with my own trauma. Because it's not politically and socially convenient to broach in the current climate. Sure, it festers and eats me alive but what else am I going to do? What choice do I have?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 12:19 AM
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I recommend you to keep tagging these kinds of post as “not interested” No, he needs to go further than that and straight up mute them. "Not Interested" would be defined as "Not at the moment" for the algorithm and they'll take it as future interest, offering up the same toxic recommendations. Mute. Period.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/26 12:17 AM
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So it's for people who won't be affected by the Toxic Shame that comes with these ideas. Exactly. It's harmful for men, especially those like me, with their own set of challenges to internalize that they are responsible for the transgressions and harm wrought by men in the past. You not only drive those men away but end up reinforcing their belief that NO ONE wants to make room for their issues or trauma. Force them back into their little man box even as you decry it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:48 PM
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That is NOT getting their tubes tide. And attempting to equate such things on the same level doesn't help your arguing in favor of this malicious garbage, which it is. You know full well that if the genders were reversed, the "satire" label wouldn't fly at all so stop pretending otherwise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 09:52 PM
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Uh, last I heard Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson weren't calling for women to get their tubes tied.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:20 PM
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Sorry to be the one to cast a shroud on your idealism but I'd argue that has been the true face of Feminism even in its early, supposedly "Egalitarian", phase. Additionally, you reach back further and detect the true face of feminism by simply reading The Declaration of Sentiments. And I don't care about the typical "Times were different then." attempts at deflection. Women weren't granted the right to vote, yes, but men who didn't own property and failed to pledge their allegiance to the govern…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 07:18 PM
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Have you considered that history has afforded you the opportunity to heroically live as a persecuted minority? Yeah, but I'd rather not fall into that pit either. The temptation is too strong and I've seen the results of that philosophy envelope and swallow individuals whole.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 06:05 PM
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I think the part that most will not notice in your comment is the unspoken staying true to egalitarian values and not be consumed with hate towards women and the world. Oh I try. But it's so agonizingly difficult at times with this mental poison circulating within me. Knowing I'll never have a place for my trauma to be received without invalidation or dismissal. Meanwhile, everyone's falling over themselves to treat women as flawless angels that are going to end violence, solve hunger, and usher…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/26 05:04 AM
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Reading this article stirs all kind of rage inside me. I hate this culture. I hate the current generation of people in it. Such a vile, revolting time. Get me out of here so I don't have to find myself enduring inner torture constantly with society throwing the "Women are wonderful" effect in my face and supporting the girls and women who hurt me in my past. Endorsing them. What do I do? What the hell do I do? How can I possibly stand existing if this keeps up?! :(
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 11:43 PM
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Fuck him. He represents the very culture that invalidates my own trauma, forcing me to keep it buried within, eat me alive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/26 03:59 AM
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"Benevolent Sexism", in other words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/26 07:59 PM
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That might be how revolutions happen but it is an illusion to believe a revolution can happen or should happen. Why shouldn't it? Feminism is purported to represent equality, right? So if there's those within the movement carrying goals that work against the definition and have taken the reigns, then maybe the solution is to reclaim those reigns before any further damage is dealt. Though I argue it's already too late. Or is feminism only about equality where it's convenient to women? Fine. Just …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:43 PM
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You can extend this to ALL social media, even mainstream outlets like Facebook. Social media is a lie. There's nothing social about it. Only ideologues and the algorithms that promote them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 06:30 PM
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Okay, that's it. Gloves are off. Are you absolutely insane?! Especially with this here: Motherhood not respected and single mothers castigated Yeah, Motherhood so disrespected that many consider it the hardest job in the world. Even moreso than the most dangerous, hazardous jobs out there men undertake in order to keep the very mechanisms that allow our cushy lifestyle functioning. Yeah, motherhood harder than an hydro worker on call, climbing electric poles to handle loose wires torn apart by t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 06:26 PM
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That's exactly what they're saying. No pretense at all about it. Not only that women's issues and female victims are a greater priority but they're also of the belife that if women attained all power in the social, corporate, and government there would be no more violence. No more harm. I mean look at this portion of another response post they made: Men harming men may play an instrumental role in many hierarchies and replacing the capitalists with women as the head would solve police brutality …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 11:04 AM
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Men harming men may play an instrumental role in many hierarchies and replacing the capitalists with women as the head would solve police brutality or men dying in dangerous jobs Ah so it finally comes out. You believe women can do no harm and have this innate goodness inside them enough that if they took the helm in all social, corporate, and government spheres, the world would be all sunshine and rainbows. Women, children, and other vulnerable groups free from harm. Once again, as someone who …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 08:11 AM
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You don’t believe men in general have more power? Really deplorable for you to imply that I have any power whatsoever simply because of what's dangling between my legs. When you can't even talk about your trauma, when you're denied the chance because women have it worse, that's not basking in power.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:40 AM
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Okay, apparently you're just going to rebuke with standard, pre-packaged talking points that dozens of others before you have employed. Got it. You're not worth the effort.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/26 01:24 AM
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I know you're just in it for the pleasure of riling people up but you're basically asking male survivors of female abuse of every age, race, color, and creed to simply "Man Up" and "Walk It Off" until statistics reflect the need. You're no different from the misogynists you claim to abhor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 10:46 PM
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Yes. Why is it always on boys to defer to women? Why don't we instill respect and compassion towards boys from the opposite sex?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 10:40 PM
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There was a feminist in another thread that pulled the same "Men are in power" argument, too. I'm so beyond fed up with these people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 08:00 PM
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Perhaps this sub has re-defined "Patriarchy" to mean that all men have power over all women? or that men are all part of a club where we look out for each other? No one else I know uses the term this way. If that's what we are defining patriarchy to be in the context of this sub, then I can find another word. No, your goddamn movement is responsible for this. YOU MADE IT THIS WAY! OTHERWISE YOU WOULD BE DRAWNING ATTENTION TO THE ISSUE THAT IS GIRLS AND WOMEN GETTING AWAY WITH HURTING BOYS AND ME…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 07:54 PM
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I think that the conversation around Patriarchy today erases the all too common experiences you had has a boy and as a man Yet you keep doing it, like you'd done just now. However, if we look at who dominates positions of power today: it’s men. Just what in the fuck are you insinuating here? That because men are in power that my experiences are null and void? You've just provided me further affirmation that talking about my trauma is taboo and politically inconvenient because I happen to have ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/26 06:29 AM
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The connection is that Patriarchy pushes men into roles of power. Funny, I don't remember being pushed into any power systems from when I was young nor benefitting from them even at age 48. In fact, I was pretty powerless. Kicked around from all directions, bullied, ostracized, and made to feel inferior by BOTH genders. That INCLUDES women. I also had my trauma minimized by feminists who tell me that I'm priveleged because of the color of my skin and gender. Because I'm a man, I should check it.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 08:11 PM
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Like all movements Feminism has it's flaws. That's...putting it mildly. Feminism also has fatal blind spots that endanger innocent men and boys. Duluth Model for example.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/26 08:00 PM
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it curdles into anger, bitterness, numbness, or shame Also Mental Poisoning. It festers, circulates in your system. Your mind. Fairly soon, you're coping with it through unhealthy habits like poor diet and sedentary lifestyle. Until eventually you die of a health issue in your senior years. Except you're ambivalent to the rot on a subconscious level. No one's going to bother showing you support or kindness, no one's ever taught you self-care and self-kindness, you don't feel worthy so why should…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/26 12:27 AM
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Yea I understand, the only thing I can say that might gives some hope is that can serve as a wake up call in some ways. They already had their chance for serious introspection the minute Trump officially began his first term as US President in 2016. Since then, there has been nothing resembling that except to double-down and blame it on any and everyone who voted for him. That's it. I don't see any hope for a more humble, egalitarian perspective to formulate soon. Just a further sharpening of th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/25 08:31 PM
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What’s that model, and they haven’t brought it up since 1. Feminism by definition means equal rights but in practice it obviously focuses on women’s rights Look it up yourself. It was domestic violence procedure for police to employ when facing domestic violence situations where it labels the male party the abuser and must be arrested, regardless of whether the violence is mutual or he is the victim. Frames all domestic violence as a tool of the patriarchy, as men exercising their patriarchal po…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 04:46 PM
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Why stop with boys respecting girls? Why not extend it to all children? Girls respecting boys as well. Like seriously, why is it only boys who need to be taught how to respect girls? Because they're more invested in pushing girl power to care, that's why.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:04 AM
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So we can expect that girls will be taught to respect men as part of the curriculum. Lessons will cover how to challenge misandry, and teachers and parents will be helped to spot if children are being radicalized against boys and men. You know the answer to that. Society is lost. The rot continues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 08:02 AM
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Feminism means striving for equal gender rights Explain The Duluth Model and the fact they haven't lifted a single finger to address the issue of girls and women abusing/bullying boys and men. Especially boys in the school system. They have a major blind spot where this "Girl Power" is concerned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:51 AM
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I'm for Women's Rights. I'm not for: 1) Thinking every woman is flawless and incapable of harming another, including boys and men. That goes for girls, too, with this brand of girl power they're selling nowadays. 2) Claiming that women have it worse in every part of society 3) Blaming men for the woes women face in life That's what feminism is. So, no, I'm not a feminist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:49 AM
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Anyone I’ve spoke to who is informed uses the term feminisms. Doesn't matter. Whatever flavor, every ingredient is the same. The core tenants being "Women have it worse" and "Patriarchy Theory". I don't subscribe to that and no amount of "But feminism is no monolith" will convince me otherwise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:44 AM
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Look, let's just call it what it truly is now: Child abuse. Because it doesn't stop with respect women. It ends with disrespect of themselves. Subjecting boys to such self-esteem killing degradation and conditioning shouldn't be allowed. People need to be sued, parents need to raise a major stink and tell these predators to get lost. But who am I kidding, parents want this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 02:20 AM
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Yeah, this is the very reason why I bottle up that part of my trauma that is a byproduct of all the meanspirited females that treated me badly in my youth. I'll get a lot of support for what men did, considered an "ally" and all the claptrap. But even one little word from that other side of me will still get me belittled and, in some cases, reemed. There's no place for that part. No support whatsoever. And I don't think there ever will be in my lifetime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/25 07:27 PM
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Then what the hell are we doing here? What's the point? If this is how life is and forever will be, that everything is going to be constituted as hate, even when you're trying to highlight an issue that is in need of examination, why even bother existing in it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/25 08:11 PM
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This place is lost. In fact, I feel like society as a whole is lost. If I can't deal with my trauma from both genders, pointing out the lack of mainstream resources and support for what happened at the hands of females/girls, if society won't offer a place for me... ...if that constitutes "Hate" based on Identity or Vulnerabilty. I don't want to live in this world anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/12/25 09:41 PM
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My recollection from both trials is that Heard and Depp both engaged in behavior that is/was pretty goddamn abusive. What abusive behavior? The worst he ever did was slam kitchen cabinets shut while intoxicated in front of her as she filmed him. Of course you'd focus on that without realizing that: A) He'd recently lost his mother at the time and was in the throes of grief. B) He told her to stop filming him. Yet she continued anyway. I really don't understand this mentality attempting to equate…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/25 09:27 PM
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Has no mental health issues and isn't nureodivergent I happen to be what current movements would classify as "Nureodivergent". Yet for some reason whenever I bring up the fact that my tormentors were girls as well as boys in my youth I either get: A) Crickets B) Orders to cease and desist because my prilevelge disqualifies me from deserving any support whatsoever. Additionally, I should be supporting women and not making it all about myself. Finally, that on the basis of my skin color and gender…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/25 09:47 PM
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is that a lot of women are terrified that if men see women as evil something very horrible will happen to women on a large scale at the hands of men, So seeing women as human beings, capable of both heart and harm, is "evil"? Is it any wonder men are hesitant to speak out? Even male victims of abuse? This very narrative that continues to persist, that it's evil to suggest that women are flawed as well as fair, is nothing but detrimental to true equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/25 09:46 PM
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No offense but fuck Bell Hooks and all infamous Feminist Authors like her. I refuse to entertain any talk about Patriarchy, how it's the go-to scapegoat for gender woes. These are the same feminists who'd shut their eyes and stick their fingers in their ears whenever the issue of female violence, abuse, and bullying towards males of any age is brought up. Or they'd blame it on patriarchy before sticking their fingers in their ears and shutting their eyes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/25 01:04 AM
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If they don't want a gender war then they should stop doing things that would potentially incite one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/25 12:26 AM
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I have worked with women that want to often get the last word It's not just that. Sean Connery actually put it best in an an old interview. What he describes can be perfectly applied to the "Girl Boss" personality. "They can't leave it alone. They want the last word and you give them the last word but they're not satisfied with having the last word. They want to say it again and get into a provocative situation."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/25 06:26 PM
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Please stop it. We don't live in a patriarchy. Nor in a climate where the benefits of men in power trickle down to men in general because of characteristics beyond their control. Using that term is alienating to men like me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 08:13 PM
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If the patriarchy theory is fundamental to the feminist ideology, then I can't associate with any feminist what-so-ever, because unconsciously, I'm gonna be the patriarchy to them despite not being a powerful person myself. Gosh, how I relate deeply. That's the very reason I just can't get behind Feminism. Not simply because of disagreement but also that I could be the most supportive "ally" but it'll never be enough so long as my white skin and male gender remain a liability. I also can't toler…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 08:05 PM
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Blah blah blah. What's feminism doing to address epidemic of girls and women hurting boys and men? Blaming it all on patriarchy. Until I see pushback in this arena from them, until it starts treating women like human beings, capable of causing harm as well as harmony, I'm not touching feminism with a ten foot pole. Considering how feminists minimized my experiences of being bullied and hurt by girls and women, I'm not dignifying the existence of the movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/25 04:07 AM
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There are more accurate and scientific versions of feminism Ones that DON'T subscribe to Patriarchy Theory in some way? I'll be surprised if there are because I'll bet even the more accurate and scientific versions find some way to imply that men as a group are to blame. Or think that because men are at the top that means men at the bottom are benefiting from it. So pardon me for being skeptical since I was hurt by feminism in the past as a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/25 10:28 PM
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misandrists and patriarchy. We don't live in a patriarchy since misandrists and misandry are allowed power in the public sphere. Patriarchy would've shut that down immediately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 03:48 AM
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Like who would describe Jordan Peterson as loud and aggressive. What's so funny, yet shows their complete disrespectful ignorance, is describing Jordan Peterson as loud and aggressive when he's one of the most emotional men in his profession. I've seen past interviews with him describing the plight of men all teary eyed and genuinely upset. Someone even made fun of him for being so overtly emotional. Sure, you don't have to see completely eye-to-eye on his philosophy but labeling him this stunte…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 04:19 PM
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Rorschach in the comic book literally reads a far-right pro-KKK newspaper. That does not make him a Nazi. Show me where, in The Watchmen, he expresses sentiments similar to Nazis. Aside from his suspecting Veidt as being Homosexual and lamenting the lack of American Love when walking down the street while offered sex from foreign prostitutes, I don't recall anything remotely resembling the tenants of The Nazi Party. He isn’t just a right winger. Who had principles and cared about saving his frie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/24 01:37 AM
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Cassie included the scene from The Matrix in the documentary. If you've seen the scene yet continue to associate the title with The Red Pill Movement is not Cassie's issue, it's yours.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 04:33 AM
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Red Pill culture The documentary has nothing to do with Red Pill Culture despite the title. It is a reference to The Matrix where Neo is offered a choice between The Red Pill (waking up) or The Blue Pill (staying asleep within the system). They even include that specific scene in the documentary.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/24 04:30 AM
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And there are a lot of men either still justifiably afraid to push back or too beholden to the expectation of pleasing women at the expense of their own independence to stand up for themselves
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:35 PM
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These women claiming to "stick it to the men" are soon going to predictably lament the lack of decent men their lives, bitterly jealous over those men in happy, healthy relationships. Always happens these days.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/24 10:30 PM
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It's not radical feminism, it's feminism as a whole. Some may appear progressive and genial but still adhere to the central tenants that have led to where we find ourselves today.
/r/MensRights04/11/24 03:36 AM
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So I'd like it very much if Democrats stopped spewing their hate on men. I'm afraid that's a pipe dream. Remember, this is the same Obama that, on Father's Day, shamed fathers and demanded they step up their game.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 09:23 PM
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The brave firefighters saving someone’s child, the soldiers doing something heroic, even the random civilians risking their lives to save women and children. Construction, Garbage Collection, Recycling, Hydro, Telephone/Cellphone, Internet, Road Maintenance, Plumbing, Running Water, any essential service that keeps society from collapsing into chaos. All male-dominated jobs, many of them hazardous and requiring employees follow safety protocols at all times. And this is the backhanded "Praise" t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/10/24 05:47 PM
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But it's also a disturbing reflection of feminism for her to say "I feel like my tribe is going against me here". No blame to her here, but for people to be aggressive or hostile because she has several boys? Disturbing What did you expect? Feminism exhibits cult-like behavior, especially towards people who deviate from the central tenants or express criticism of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/24 11:39 PM
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I care about women's issues and rights. You can advocate for Women's Rights without Feminism. It doesn't matter if other feminist dislike what I say. They can't gatekeep who is a feminist. Unfortunately, as you're learning, they have certain expectations that fit the tenants of Feminism. If you so much as express even a modicum of skepticism against either one, you're no longer welcome under their tent. Look what happened to Erin Prizzy: The minute she found that domestic violence could also be …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 05:56 PM
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Menslib has a history of invalidating and gaslighting male victims of female rape/domestic abuse. Years ago, a male victim posted his story and was soon ganged down upon by both the users and mods. Additionally, you mustn't forget when they invited a proponent of the Duluth Model of Domestic Violence onboard for an AMA period. To disastrous results. Menslib are unflinchingly loyal to Feminism and all its tenants. They're only for Men's Issues so long as it serves the ideology. Anything/anyone in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 05:45 PM
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Women aren't recognized as rapists in UK law. Now they won't be recognized as common criminals in UK law.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 10:46 PM
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I keep seeing men here complain that feminists aren’t including them in their fight for...women’s rights. Then they should stop proclaiming that it's inclusive of men and that men don't need another movement.
/r/MensRights15/09/24 07:23 AM
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They especially turn their nose up at Female Victims of Female Perpetrators and Lesbian Victims of Domestic Violence. Just their very existence blows their whole theory of violence and rape being an exclusively male crime, a tool of the patriarchy against women, out of the water.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 02:04 AM
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Yet they're allowed to intrude upon any conversation around the topic of Male Victims of Sexual Assault, playing it off as nothing serious or that it's mainly men raping other men/putting systems in place that prevent them from speaking out? I recall the time when a Shelter for Male Victims opened in Italy, a whole swath of powerful Feminist organizations swooped in to denounce it. Same thing when it came out that Johnny Depp was incurring the majority of domestic abuse from Amber Heard, the lat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 01:41 AM
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the concept of soft power When you have government institutions and media at your side, ready to scapegoat others into the role of obedient protectors, destroying anyone that dares speak out against it, that's not exactly "soft" power.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 08:56 PM
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Yup. When women kill, there's always an explanation that makes her a victim of circumstances. When men kill, it's assumed to be simply the nature of the beast.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 08:32 PM
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Or they simply pass it off as the product of "Post-Partum Depression".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 08:30 PM
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But men DO need to call out SA How about no? I'm sorry to come off callous but this message has been hammered into me by the usual suspects that comprise media, politics, AND entertainment to where my tolerance level has worn down. Why is it on ME, on MEN alone, to call out SA? How about WOMEN start pulling their share of the weight and advocate on behalf of MALE victims of FEMALE perpetrators alongside other men in addition to the reverse? Protest audibly against blatantly misandric domestic an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 06:30 PM
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Makes me fucking see red every time. No, that has not a single fucking thing to do with it. Seeking help or even just talking about it is traumatizing, because most of the time people will play mind games with you to justify viewing you as the perpetrator. Throwing in that your situation is so rare as to be an insignificant blip compared to what female victims endure and the systemic challenges they face when seeking justice. This is what boils my blood the most about these charlatans assuring m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/24 01:24 AM
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More and more men are becoming cognizant of how much of a "damned if you, damned if you don't" scenario they're trapped in in every aspect of society. In response, they're staying on the fence. And yet still aren't free from vilification.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 10:38 PM
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This may sound insensitive and maybe a little macabre but I can't blame those men. Imagine living in a country where women are free to physically and sexually assault you, even as a boy, without legal consequence. Where rape against men is still not recognized. On top of all the non-stop anti-male messaging pumped out by governments and corporations, and everything being tailored to women's issues, fighting misogyny alone (the recent deliberation on designated it a terrorist act), it's easy to s…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 09:52 PM
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That user response recommending that he let it go as an option. Face Palm A random stranger assaulting you in public without provocation isn't something I'd let slide and treat like a trivial one-off. The only answer is confronting them and involving the authorities. With equal, retaliatory offense if you're dealing with a stranger intent on causing lethal harm. They only offered this option because she was a woman and would've chastised the OP for refusing to kick his ass if the assailant was a…
/r/MensRights31/08/24 09:33 PM
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These drama subs like AmIOverreacting have mostly women as members. So they create an echo chamber where they defend their in-group and villify the out-group That and Reddit higher-ups have explicitly decreed that "Straight, White Men" aren't a protected group in their policies. So these women are afforded the freedom to say and assume anything toxic about husbands, boyfriends, and men in general that would've netted them an insta-ban otherwise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 04:49 PM
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"Rape is caused by patriarchy" is such a vile way to respond to a person's trauma. It perpetuates the notion that rape is intrinsically male coded AND that women raping men is somehow men's fault. Equally insidious is when feminists scapegoat Patriarchy for when girls hurt boys in school/bully boys. The rebuttal to this baseless claim is that the elementary school system is female dominated. THEY now set the standards, THEY are the ones baring witness to these incidents, and very few, if any, to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/24 04:16 AM
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It's just that their actions never matches their words. Im done trying to be as soft as I can be in certain posts about feminism, because of "fear of generalizing women". Please remember so as to ease this unwarranted burden: Women are women. Feminists are feminists. Not every woman is a feminist nor do they agree with feminism's aims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/24 09:26 PM
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The fact that you’re defending the men of the 1840’s Yeah, I am. Somebody has to speak for those who had no voice as well. The fact you continue to lump them in with the men at the top, saying they benefited from Patriarchal Power, shows me for the psychopath that you are. Yeah, fuck you right back.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 03:43 PM
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Just that statement told me everything I need to know about you Uh-huh. considering the declaration of sentiments was a demand for women to have the same RIGHTS as men. Without the women who signed that declaration and Frederick Douglas, women would still be property. “Animosity towards men” my fucking ass. What do you call this then, you heartless little ignoramus? The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman In other words, making it …
/r/MensRights28/08/24 06:09 AM
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Those “feminist” (disgusting that they call themselves that) groups should be disbanded, that is so horrifying to see. Then go out and advocate on that issue instead of spending it here, defending an indefensible ideology that has always fostered unbridled animosity towards men since The Declaration of Sentiments.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 04:30 AM
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Remember, feminist groups in India audibly campaigned against the Indian government's attempts to make rape laws gender neutral. And the government caved. Cases like these aren't uncommon.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 04:27 AM
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Privilege isn't a gender, nor racially, specific thing. Now I'm not saying male privilege is real. I'm sure there is some truth to male privilege. No. There are certain men born into privilege (rich men, mainly). But otherwise, not every single living male is priveleged. If this were the case, men wouldn't make up the majority of suicide statistics and homeless populations. Nor would non-rich fathers have difficulty obtaining full or partial custody of their children in Family Court. Finally, if…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 11:09 PM
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tribal lizard brains So much for your claim of inquiring in good faith. Maybe next time, don't resort to name-calling when people are skeptical, especially towards someone whose frame of questioning feels like a trap to others as per their experience dealing with critics and the just plain ignorant contingent of society. I'm definitly seeing some interesting things about men's rights here. There are some cases I'd agree men are being treated unfairly, and some where I think commenters are exagge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:28 PM
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While I don't agree that even feminism in its infancy was about equal rights and "Patriarchy hurts men, too." (How do you explain girls hurting/bullying boys in school without repercussions, hiding behind "Girl Power"? How about media promoting the same message that in order to empower you've got to disempower the opposite sex?), your personal journey reminds me of Cassie Jaye. She's a documentary maker and former feminist. Years ago, she'd been reading smear articles online about the Men's Righ…
/r/MensRights23/08/24 03:16 AM
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And I say "Good. Why would I want to join an ideology that requires total purity yet won't hesitate to constantly scapegoat me for all women's' woes?"
/r/MensRights20/08/24 09:08 PM
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"We are a generation of men raised by women." -Fight Club
/r/MensRights20/08/24 09:02 PM
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I just can't bring myself to be shocked anymore with this motion. The UK had already begun its non-stop, express slide into a police state, what with deeming "hateful comments" on the internet a criminal offense. Male victims of rape from female offenders still lack recourse from the law as the authorities constantly cling to a gendered definition of the crime. Same with domestic violence. Now misogyny labeled a threat akin to terrorism. How straight, white, UK male citizens can even prosper in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/24 04:58 PM
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Not just parenting. Women make up the vast majority of elementary school teachers and they still proclaim it's men shaping the minds of boys out in the public sphere to the detriment of girls and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 11:19 PM
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UK is notorious for its refusal to recognize sexually abusive women as their laws define rape as involving penial penetration so I can't be surprised she was spared from serving jail time.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:59 PM
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"I'm a girl. What's your superpower?" "Girl Boss" "The Future is Female" So many of these rephrensible slogans designed to uplift girls and demoralize boys.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 08:16 PM
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Still pushing that, are you, long after it's been proven a complete mis-quote. I'll remind you, for the umpteenth time, that Trump was talking about celebrity status in that women fawn over male celebrities so much that they'd allow them to grab their pussy.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 08:11 PM
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Equal opportunity “man-hater” here! And oh so proud of it, right? I have a pretty amazing dad who I love a lot and I idealized him for most of my life. Now, as a grown up, I still love him but I can also acknowledge the ways he can be misogynistic and I call him out when I see it. I weep for him having to deal with such an ungrateful daughter after having worked his ass off to give her a roof over her head, food on the table, the shirt on her back, and never raising a hand to her.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 08:49 PM
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Yet, you'll find some pretty high domestic violence rates amongst Lesbian Couples.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 08:45 PM
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Uh, Miss Rowling, remember how outraged you were when you found that they were letting these Transgendered men masquerading as women into vulnerable women's spaces like Female Domestic Violence Shelters and Female Bathrooms? This is the logical conclusion of letting Transgendered men masquerading as women compete with biological women in sports. Yet you channel your outrage into bigoted remarks about men. Fuck. Off.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 08:36 PM
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You know, I'm glad the Harry Potter mystique ultimately had no effect on me so I won't have to worry about separating the art from the artist.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 08:31 PM
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Feminism NEVER had empathy for men in general, let alone working class men. Never will. Factoring in Male Privilege Case in point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 04:05 AM
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I've long noticed this, it's just bad writing. Speaking of bad writing, I finished Book Three. Here's some dialogue from the Wood Elves. The leaf horned elf sniffed. "We have long known that humankind is brutal. Once, at least, humans were ignorant. Now we would keep knowledge of our existence from you to protect ourselves." "You cannot be trusted. You cleave the forests." Lorengorm scowled and his eyes flashed. "Poison the rivers, hunt the griffins from the skies and the serpants from the seas.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 08:05 AM
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Thought I'd add an update: Just finished reading a preview of the third book. In addition to Mallory making Jared drink soiled water from the tap in order to prove her point that weird things have been happening since Jared insisted on keeping The Guide, possibly fucking POISONING HIM, here's an exchange between them regarding the possibility of surrendering The Field Guide to the Goblins. "What if we give back the Guide and they keep coming after us?" "Why would they do that?" Mallory demanded.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 05:29 AM
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Anti-Feminists: Stop Using Tragedies to Say Feminists 'Don't Care About Important Issues Oh the irony.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 03:20 AM
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I think it’s less of people assuming it’s deserved Uh, yes it is. The primary impulsive thoughts that intrude within people seeing a man assaulted by a woman is always "He must've done something to deserve it.", brainstorming justifications. more of the idea that ‘he can handle himself’ Oh please don't pull this "Toxic Masculinity" bullshit, like those who study men witholding their emotions tend to do. With the "Women are Wonderful" effect still the prevailing mentality plaguing society, especi…
/r/MensRights31/07/24 03:16 AM
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r/askfeminists is everything feminism is. Fixed. Remember The Declaration of Sentiments. They’re just misandrists, not feminists. Repeat: Declaration of Sentiments. And I strongly suggest you don't pull the "It was a different time! Women were oppressed back then!" or "They don't mean ALL men" kind of deflection many apologists are wont to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 12:39 AM
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Even a former president of the United States was lambasted for admitting his reluctance to share company with a female alone.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 04:48 AM
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In fact the story of the animal farm matches the story of feminism. It can also be summarized in this quote: "All animals are equal but some are more equal than others."
/r/MensRights29/07/24 12:32 AM
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I faced similar tactics of deflection when drudging up evidence of feminism's underlying misandry from The Declaration of Sentiments. Always, an apologist comes forth with "Times were different then. Men did subjicate women." This only served to inadvertently validate that feminism was never about equality. Only to elevate women while spiting ALL men, stomping them down, including the ones at the bottom rung whom, on record, had serious struggles of their own. Men that didn't own property, for e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 07:53 PM
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Feminists: Men are (insert slur here) Also Feminists to any man who objects: We're not talking about YOU!
/r/MensRights27/07/24 06:56 AM
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There’s no whataboutism - I’ve shown facts. All right, then let's examine them. 1 and 2. Straight people are not thrown from buildings and executed publicly because they’re straight. Straight people are not beaten, assaulted and murdered for being straight. While this is common in places like the Middle-East, you'd be hard pressed, REALLY hard-pressed, to find this the case in well-developed locations like North America and the U.K. 3. Straight people do not have to rally and fight tooth and nai…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 04:10 AM
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You have an absolutely true and valid point. It's bizarre how simply calling out misandry is seen as anti-feminist. Besides, most feminists love at least one man in their life. That would be like an accepting a person's racism because they have one minority friend or a man's actual misogynistic (I mean what fits the REAL definition) viewpoints on women because he's happily married. A loving man doesn't always make a feminist's misandry disappear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 03:52 AM
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The first part, like I remember reading a Steve Harvey post about people on Reddit hating Steve Harvey and one of the comments was like “if he was white he wouldn’t still be on tv.” For example, I’ve had plenty of examples of white racism being taken seriously. So you think one little, random post (a passive-aggressive one that could be taken either way) on Reddit means that society as a whole has finally turned around and recognized racism against whites for what it is? I didn’t know that if th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 01:49 AM
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So, I've read and heard plenty of people speak out against white racism and take it pretty seriously, which I find surprising because racism is taken extremely seriously No, racism against whites isn't taken seriously. And that's only when people pushing it are at their most polite. Otherwise, you're ganged upon, persecuted, and cancelled should you defend white people. By the way, since you're a feminist, you should be aware that your group's Misandric undercurrent dates as far back as The Decl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 01:29 AM
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While I agree with this commenter on the "gray area" of this case, as it wasn't just cops being called on someone merely watching kids on a playground or something but following them I'd argue that, in this case, police intervention wasn't necessary when he followed and interacted with them. If their mother was THAT concerned, she had the opportunity to express it in a firmer manner. Communicate quite clearly that his actions were causing discomfort. If the message hadn't sunk in and he engaged …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/24 06:09 AM
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I've read Watchmen from top to bottom and nowhere is it hinted at that Rorschach is a Nazi. Just because he's "Right-Wing", reads "Right-Wing" material, and has a Black and White definition of justice doesn't make him a Nazi. I also don't care about Alan Moore's little hang-up on people who might identify with one or two aspects of the character. He can cry in a corner for all I care for, despite how talented of a writer he is, the guy's a bitter old baby. Finally, and never forget this, empathy…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 04:18 PM
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I guess You "Guess"? God, the cognitive dissonance and utter pompously dismissive attitude of these feminist activists. With male ones being the WORST! Oh well, let him continue to deny it. To paraphrase Watchmen: "The accumulated rage from all the frustration and anger will foam up about their waists and all the feminists and politicians will look up and shout 'SAVE US!'. And I'll look down and whisper: 'No.' They had a choice, all of them. They could've listened to those advocating real equali…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 02:10 AM
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For the record I think these groups are great for exposing some real shady characters but they’re definitely abused. Haven't learned anything from the "Metoo Movement", have we. Since online carries a great degree of anonymity, it's very easy for these women to lie and exaggerate. So how would you know that events surrounding these "real shady characters" weren't given the same treatment when posted? I’ve never done anything inappropriate / abusive to girls I’ve dated in the past but I’ve had pl…
/r/MensRights12/07/24 06:40 AM
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That is a relatively hard argument to make. No, it's quite simple. Just cite The Declaration of Sentiments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 02:15 AM
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as noted here, we are dealing with a heteronormative Stop. Stop right there. I will never lend credence to ANY group, much less feminism, that uses the exclusionary, bigoted term Heteronormative with a straight face.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 02:10 AM
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In what ways do you approve of advancing Feminism I don't approve of advancing it any further than it has already done by imposing itself into our entertainment, mental health system (look up the APA's new guidelines towards treating men, heavily leaning towards ridding them of Toxic Masculinity), and Educational Institutions. In fact, I'd argue the opposite in that it needs to die off immediately. Since The Declaration of Sentiments, the Misandric element was allowed to prosper, used as a weapo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/24 02:05 AM
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We are not living in a Patriarchy, bro. If it were true, how come men make up the majority of homeless and suicide statistics? How come it's so easy for a women to simply accuse a man of domestic violence or rape while the male defendant is guilty until proven innocent with no anonymity that is granted to the female accessor? Additionally, why is it when the accusation is proven false that the male defendant sees little to no recourse from the law while left with an accusation that's going to ta…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:21 AM
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One thing that truly turned me off the movie (not that there were plenty of other reasons, one being I'm not the primary market ergo have no interest in seeing it) is their depiction of the world outside as this oppressive, Patriarchal counterpart to Barbie World's Matriarchy. Where men are free to, say, slap female strangers on their ass without repercussion as demonstrated in the trailer. To this day, I cannot look at that and roll my eyes so far back into my head since Reality is as much unde…
/r/MensRights08/07/24 03:06 AM
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But isn't "Conservative" in Canada another word for "Liberal Light"? Sure, there are some aspects of the party that emulate American Right Wing but there are others that are indistinguishable from the NDP and Liberal Party. Correct me if I'm wrong, of course.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/24 09:40 PM
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And rightly so Oh yes, of course, excluding a gender from services and support is always justifiable. Bastard ideologues. But unsurprising considering what happened to Earl Silverman. He started the first, and only, Male Victims Shelter in Alberta, funding it out of his own pocket and received zero government financial support as they were firmly entrenched in the "Men abusers, Women Victims" mentality that permeated the domestic violence industry. When personal funding ran dry, he shuttered it …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/24 11:32 PM
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Women can’t get cant get charged with rape ??? In UK law, women aren't deemed capable of rape as the definition involves penetration. The government of India once considered altering their rape laws to be gender neutral but were met with serious pushback from feminist groups. As a result, their laws remain exclusionary to male victims of female rapists. So, yes, women in certain places can get away with rape. Wow, surely they can get charged with SA tho. Doesn't carry the same weight as a charge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/24 09:38 PM
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Fuck off with your NAFALT!
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:26 PM
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They've been denigrating Fathers all the way back to when Obama infamously demanded they step up and do better. On Father's Day no less.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 08:10 PM
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"If they can't handle me at my worst, they don't deserve me at my best."
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:15 PM
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And another character also played by Jack Nicholson, which applies to the article writer, regarding how he writes women so well: "I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability."
/r/MensRights23/05/24 10:23 PM
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It's an explicit indictment against feminism. With none of the self-awareness at how she, and her "sisters", arrived at their connudrum. Complains about being single and childless yet ignorant of the fact that it was part of feminism's design: The destruction of the family structure. Back in the 70s, you had the role of housewife equated with being a prisoner. Motherhood a limitation. Decades on, women began steering their desires towards successful careers with marriage at the very bottom of th…
/r/MensRights23/05/24 10:21 PM
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Can’t we have those conversations while still letting women have their encouraging message? Depends on what you call "Encouragement". If it's to impart that they can do anything if they work hard and learn how to navigate the system to their beneft, I have no objections. However, if it's that they deserve the world on a silver platter because of their gender and past wrongs done towards them, no, that's not encouraging. Doubly so if you present men as their oppressors that need to be taken down …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/24 08:02 PM
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Additionally: He will have to exist in a society that foments and encourages prejudice against his race and gender if he's a straight, white man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/05/24 07:58 PM
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Another vivid example of the "Women are Wonderful" effect at work along with "Women are incapable of causing harm to a man because power imbalance". Covers every minimization tactic in the book. No different from The Duluth Model, working from similar arguments before they half-heartedly changed it yet kept the "Power Imbalance" excuse in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 12:40 AM
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Good luck to them since feminism's key tenants are still deeply embedded in government funding.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/24 08:47 PM
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I do think first, second and the start of third wave feminists were about equality, you know, the right to vote and stuff, Men who lacked property and refused to be cannon fodder for the war generals were denied the vote as well. Sure, the right to vote for women, ON PAPER, sounded altruistic. But when you think of the responsibilities placed on men's shoulders to earn a voice in the voting process these women were now exempt from, it sheds another light on it.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 10:57 PM
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Ik men are silent because they have other things to do: work, feed their families etc. Additionally, if men speak out, they'll lose the ability to work, feed their families. Cancel culture isn't limited to social media and protests.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 10:49 PM
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But the message this male feminist is spreading is about how expectations of males is hurting their self esteem… isn’t that good? Okay, so is he and his fellow feminists willing to listen to these men when they're opening up about their hurts? You know what the answer is based on how feminists have responded in the past. Hence, why men don't bother opening up.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 12:59 AM
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And as a poster mentioned above, if the wife ever got into credit debt, it was on the husband (the man) to pay it off.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 12:52 AM
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Innocent until proven guilty. We need to learn that accusations alone, without evidence and only based around heresy, shouldn't be enough to convince people that the accused committed them. Doubly so if someone comes forward with a claim dating back decades.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 11:02 PM
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Blah blah blah fuckity-blah. All this so you could espouse what's best for this sub-reddit from that high horse of yours. This subreddit has strayed from what it should be. About men's rights. Now it's just anti-feminism. Feminism EARNED it, dolt! Don't act like no actions from the movement haven't revealed the misandric beast that's been lurking underneath since The Declaration of Sentiments.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:46 PM
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(misandry/misogyny) Except Misogyny is immediately shouted down and stifled. Misandry continues to reign.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:41 PM
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Probably shouldn't have become a discourse in the first place. It was a FEMINIST discourse. The original opinion piece penned by your typical, bigoted activist. Nothing good ever comes from feminist discourse. Yet, somehow, it managed to gain traction on social media and here we are, once again reminded of how men are constantly disparaged in one form or another.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:39 PM
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Do boys these days even have a single space where they can go and just be with other boys? Nope. That's unacceptable. Same with anything "Men Only". "Girls Only", "Women Only", however, is seen as necessity.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:33 AM
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If men are upholding The Patriarchy, they're sure doing a terrible job what with men making up the majority of homeless and suicides while women are given supports and programs for highly paid, powerful positions.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:29 AM
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But how long before even THAT is infiltrated? Seems like whenever alternatives are spawned, these parasites manage to latch on and engulf them.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 03:26 AM
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Unbelievable they managed to turn an obviously misandric opinion piece into the latest social media trend.
/r/MensRights07/05/24 09:35 PM
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There is a video of a woman camping trying to reason with a bear that was destroying her camping equipment. While the bear was ruining her things she was trying to reason with it while she videod the whole thing. Seriously? And at no point the bear stopped to attack her while she was pleading with it? She should count herself lucky that her equipment was the only thing destroyed.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:15 AM
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They would rather struggle with a purse, lunch bag, laptop, and tote bag the size of a laundry basket than have a male colleague hold the door open for them. Not necessarily. Some wouldn't hold back asking you, a man, for assistance with their heavy baggage then act like you don't exist when the job is done.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:11 AM
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They say this but I'll bet the minute this scenario plays itself out in real life, where they encounter an actual bear, the first thing they'll do is scream for the nearest male to save them.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 12:08 AM
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5) Because your concerns will be dismissed as trivial compared to the oppression women and minorities face on a daily basis. 6) (Related to 5) We live in a world that caters to the needs of women and minorities while scapegoating men. What man in their right mind would want to seek support in such an environment?
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:48 PM
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And her father was at the top of the industries' hierarchy, enough to grant his daughter a convenient head start whereas other musicians, especially female musicians, still struggle for decent exposure. Sorry if I don't buy her "Oh woe is me!" attitude about criticism nor her tiresome attempts to make it a gender thing when her father, a MAN, was responsible for kickstarting her career.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:53 PM
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Reminds me of how producers tried to get Pink Floyd to make another album that sounded like Dark Side of the Moon so much after its success that they made Wish You Were Here. And when Freddy Mercury of Queen created an album that melded Rock and Roll with Classical Opera (Rock Opera) along with their iconic single Bohemian Rhapsody. Their producer, already having serious misgivings about the concept, was dead set against marketing the latter as a hit single because it was too long for traditiona…
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:24 PM
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If you answered “No” then drop her, If you answered “Yes” to any of these questions; think very carefully about if you want your sons to grow up around her misandristic rhetoric (tik tok is full of bitter man haters) Or add to the population of female Tik-Tok addicts regurgitating feminist talking points should he have daughters influenced by her misandric rhetoric.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:14 PM
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I love her but especially with feminism she’s completely clueless. First mistake is underestimating anyone who adheres to an ideology as toxic as feminism. Remember, it doesn't stop at cluelessness. Your girlfriend's mindset, already outed with her implying sexism in any critique towards Taylor Swift, can easily escalate where she'll use it against YOU in the future. The signs are already there. She uses TikTok and I think she gets a lot of her ideas from that. It’s a shame, I really liked her b…
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:11 PM
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Sharon Osbourne - "I do think it's quite fabulous", followed by laughter. Her on-air non-apology to save face was even worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 03:58 PM
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The Future is Female. 'Nuff said.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 01:40 AM
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Ever notice how men rarely describe their relationships this way but it's almost always women? Because if men ever did, they'd be labeled "Insecure" and accused of harboring misogynistic attitudes towards women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/24 01:39 AM
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Yeah, accusations of bigotry from a simp for women outing their double-standards in this thread. Really funny.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 11:02 PM
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Then you're the one to talk about reactions when you're here just to have a laugh at your own trolling expense. Get a life.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 10:11 PM
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Up yours. You've shown your lack of understanding and double-standards clearly enough. Me: Pointing out a clear example of empathy gap. You: Mental health issues. Me: Only considered when women murder. Either both genders get it or none. You: Mad, bro? Do something about it. Me: What makes you think we haven't? You: REEEEEE! You make me laugh.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 10:10 PM
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Then if they're both worthy, why are you up in arms about our reaction when they're not in the eyes of these organizations and feminist advocates, reflecting in actual policy decisions, hmm? Maybe you should look yourself in the mirror before lecturing us on how to react when, clearly, you've done nothing but bitch bitch bitch 'till the cows come home about our outrage.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 10:03 PM
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You assume men here haven't lived up to your expectations, advocating for exactly that. They still face resistance and backlash from governments and powerful feminist lobby groups colluding together to ensure women get and keep special treatment. There's a god-damn empathy gap going on for decades, chowderhead. Recognize it or get out.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:58 PM
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One last time: If you're going to give mentally ill female murderers such consideration, you should extend it to male ones. Why is the former deserving while the latter is not? Answer me this and quit acting so intentionally obtuse.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 07:51 PM
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Either both genders suffering from mental illness that commit murder get lenient sentencing or NEITHER do. I'm through with such bullshit special treatment afforded to women.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 07:41 PM
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Alright, post that mentally ill male murderers deserve equal consideration female ones are granted in a feminist sub and see where it goes. Don't be surprised the mods ban you.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 07:35 PM
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While condemning mentally ill men committing murder without hearing their story. Don't act like there's no double-standard with feminists like her. Men lack the luxury of avoiding jail through the Mental Health card.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 07:31 PM
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Even if a young man had financial means for higher education, that doesn't change the fact they've become hostile, toxic environments for him if he were straight and white with the neverending shaming from young women and inserted into curriculums by like-minded professors. Additionally, most degrees don't guarantee a stable, long-term career that pays well. Not worth the cost.
/r/MensRights12/04/24 07:57 PM
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Ah, I see. So women are free to physically attack men unless the mythological pay gap is addressed. Is if any wonder no one takes you harpies seriously?
/r/MensRights11/04/24 12:56 AM
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Your size disadvantage doesn't give you free reign to go up and assault someone without provocation. If a skinny, flabby man started hittjng another man bigger and stronger than him then receives a beating in return would you revile the bigger man for defending himself? Funny how you bring up the size difference between men and women when the idea of self-defense for men comes up but express praise for a woman fending off an abusive man. Shows you for the typical sexist you are.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 12:53 AM
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White males of every age, especially straight and devout Christians, are always the go-to targets for every social ill. And hardly anyone is willing, nor wanting, to speak up for them. Not even our institutions. Always sickens me to when I hear of innocent boys getting caught up in this storm.
/r/MensRights06/04/24 07:53 PM
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Here's the problem I have with you "Good Feminists": Your stubborn insistence on presenting Feminism as the benign, altruistic movement it clearly isn't. I'm also tired of you constantly diminishing the atrocities it committed by yammering "But they don't speak for me". It's beyond irritating. Madam, there were enough feminists and feminist groups adhering strictly to the tenants that it paved the way for abuses committed in the name of "equality" against men. Hence, why I find it doubly offensi…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 06:56 AM
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The Declaration of Sentiments was also written at a time where women did live under a patriarchal system. It was written with the intention of addressing systemic inequality at a specific time and place. A patriarchal system implies rule of the father or of the man. None of the men living below the poverty level nor declined the right to vote unless they owned property and gave their services to the army benefited from this power. Yet, there it groups them in with those men in power. If you are …
/r/MensRights05/04/24 03:51 AM
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Although I disagree with you about the true intentions of the movement in question, because feminism is not a unified movement and never has been. The movement's true intentions were revealed in The Declaration of Sentiments that dates back to the 1800s, to feminism's infancy before it became the juggernaut it is now. And you want to attempt to convince me otherwise? Claim it's a "Fractured" movement? You're in complete denial. Despite your flashing the dictionary definition around, let me remin…
/r/MensRights05/04/24 02:32 AM
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I am a woman, and a feminist by the dictionary definition of the term feminism: “the belief in the social, economic and political equity of the sexes.” FYI: Dictionary definitions mean NOTHING when actions speak more about a movement's true intentions. I suggest you look up The Declaration of Sentiments. Feminism's animosity towards men has been present since before The First Wave.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 02:20 AM
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It depends how you are viewing modern feminism. Read The Declaration of Sentiments. Feminism's anti-male undertone goes further back, pre-dating even the First Wave.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 02:13 AM
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It’s a Barbie movie, for girls Here's a radical idea: You can make something for girls that is fun, entertaining and empowering without either putting down men or depicting them as two-dimensional brutes. Funny, I remember how Barbie's message was girls can do anything, not as some anti-male feminist screed against The Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 02:11 AM
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Every portrayal of men in the real world was unrealistically over-the-top. Like Barbie witnessing a male stranger slapping the rear end of a female he doesn't know without repercussions. If this were truly the real world, he'd be accused of rape and jumped by every white knight within distance. That's how I know the makers live in insulated little bubbles if their thoughts are "Men can get away with anything." as demonstrated in that scene.
/r/MensRights05/04/24 02:06 AM
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"The Future is Female"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 07:43 PM
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Only pathetic white knights would endorse allowing women who commit crimes of murder, regardless of the circumstances that lead to it, to skirt the full extent of the law. Women aren't flawless angels, buddy. Either you realize it or continue simpering, kissing the ground they walk on all you want. Just don't complain when you find yourself bearing the blunt edge of a knife or a bullet from a gun by a vindictive woman out for blood and she gets off easy.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 02:33 AM
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Well she was convicted of manslaughter Yet will avoid seeing the inside of a jail cell.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 12:00 AM
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Feminism after 2nd wave is all about hate Wrong. The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her. Declaration of Sentiments in the late 1880s. The early genesis of their adversarial approach to men.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 11:08 PM
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Your answer lies in The Declaration of Sentiments that predates the mainstream waves that would emerge. The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her. The fact that, back then, they believes men as a whole were put on this earth to establish absolute tyranny over women is unfounded hate.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 11:06 PM
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Feminism is but one aspect of a broader Gender Studies. The founder of Gender Studies was a feminist that suggested the male population be reduced in order to benefit women's rights. And you seriously want people to convince such a tainted, toxic system like that to "Broaden their horizons". Yeah, I'm sure that worked well in other situations like Erin Pizzy and her finding that Domestic Violence is often mutual between parties. Feminism and Gender Studies is unwilling to bend their narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 08:51 PM
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A BIT of internalized misandry? If he associates male issues with first-world problems like speedy wi-fi that's as misandric as you can get since he's discounting male victims of rape, domestic abuse, false rape allegations, violent women in general, and all those good fathers that lost custody of their children to toxic mothers thanks to biased family court.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 08:45 PM
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Labour to help schools develope Male Influencers In other words, Misandric Government Mouthpieces to further galvanize the anti-male attitude that already permeates amongst the female population. Is it any wonder the UK has become an unbearable place for any average white male to live in when up against tides like this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/24 12:52 AM
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He is no more stamping on peoples rights than banning KKK members Wow, likening erotic fiction authors and anyone who doesn't have a problem with sex to the Klu-Klux-Klan? Yeah, how very tolerant of you. /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 05:44 PM
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Purity is more important than "muh FrEeDoM". Americans are so obsessed with "freedom". If the people "are under the boot" and thanks to that "oppression" they're equally pure, childlike and innocent, I'm in. OP, I'm beginning to suspect your noble intentions with this statement. Also, it doesn't help your case that a few users from your sub-reddit have barged in here, preaching and shaming. If it's okay to doubt right-wingers when they profess their support for men's rights, I'd say the same thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 05:40 PM
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some folks can get upset at this topic. No offense but screw'em. Most of the time is those with Misandric views on men that express outrage.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 02:08 AM
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Disclaimer: This post is not meant to fuel any hatred nor sexism. I do not intend to engage in any "derailing". I am gender egalitarian and generally pro-feminist. Never fails. Always throwing up this caveat automatically to deflect any criticism from feminism while professing their devotion to the very movement that has contributed to the stigma towards male victims of sexual abuse. I don't hold any misogynistic resentments (you can even perform a background check of my account, you'll see that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/24 02:06 AM
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It's like women who choose to dress in scantily-clad, revealing clothing then demand people quit objectifying them.
/r/MensRights16/02/24 10:31 PM
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I know this is four days late but why is it always MALE spaces like this that need to consider inclusivity while women are allowed to discriminate? Ladies first. Until then, leave men free to their own spaces.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/24 08:37 PM
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As a feminist- no, it’s not. This is silly. The basic tenants of your ideology, however, allow such mentalities to persist.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 09:21 PM
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May not be normal but such a sub-servient mentality persists, pushed on men by feminists and other men like the one in the OP.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 09:18 PM
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If some man makes a dramatic show of respect publicly, how is that suddenly feminism demanding it? What the man in the OP is doing is far from respect, it's debasing himself for charges of oppression he didn't commit yet because of his gender it's perfectly permissible to incriminate him.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 09:16 PM
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Another female privileged elitist, usually surrounded by other elitists, babbling on a topic she knows nada about.
/r/MensRights29/01/24 11:17 PM
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Oppenheimer doesn’t pass the bechdel test You are aware that the Bechdel Test was a joke to begin with and not to be taken seriously, right? It's long since been discredited as an informative gauge of sexism in media.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 10:42 PM
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If society were misogynistic, ALL women would be excluded from the Oscars as a whole, not just denied nominations.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 10:38 PM
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No you don't. Minimizing men's issues includes minimizing male rape from female perpetrators, which is one of many primary issues of the movement.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 02:56 AM
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We're not the ones blaming Patriarchy for every ill.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:43 PM
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Money fuels the Patriarchy The very "dirty" money funding your tour, airhead? But this is the very same woman who can't help composing songs about how her previous relationships sucked long after the fact.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 09:23 PM
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"the examinations of women's well-fare and mental-health", or "all men are barbarians". One and the same since The Declaration of Sentiments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 11:30 PM
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Yet here you are making excuses or trying to minimize domestic violence against men alone. If your mother was neglectful, why leave HER out of the equation?
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:24 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:23 PM
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They won't care, though. Even if they reach that point sometime in the future, they'll simply resort to blaming men again for their predicament. Don't expect any serious introspection when things are breaking down all around them.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:20 PM
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Fresh Prince of Bel Air, too. James Avery's portrayal of Uncle Phil and the writing enabled that rarity of transcendence where it wasn't uncommon to hear people say "Everyone needs an 'Uncle Phil' in their life." He was the ultimate positive role-model father figure and kindly Uncle. Funny you mention Family Matters as there was an infamous end credit sequence where Carl Winslow's youngest son's friend mentioned that Carl looked like the father on Fresh Prince. This prompted James Avery as Uncle…
/r/MensRights13/01/24 06:37 AM
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He's a pretty realistic depiction of fathers. Sure, isn't always the brightest bulb but still brims with intelligence in areas that matter to him. And he's a decent guy that sells propane and propane accessories.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:45 AM
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I'd go so far as to say that The Bundy's introduced the comedic deconstruction of the middle-class, perfectly functional family sit-com trope before The Simpsons.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:38 AM
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Not simply sit-com dads but father figures in ANY genre. I long for the days when the male patriarch in media was driven, passionate, ambitious, determined yet also flawed, made mistakes but was willing to grow as any fictional character.
/r/MensRights13/01/24 12:34 AM
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It's another country you don't want to reside in if you're a male victim of rape considering feminist groups were successful in lobbying the government to keep their rape laws gendered.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 12:01 AM
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It's like Sean Connery said: They can't leave it alone. They want the last word, you give them the last word yet they're not happy with having the last word. They want to say it again and get into a really provocative situation.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 12:47 AM
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I’m glad other people have time to do hours of research to complain about feminism. Because feminism earned its stripes, so to speak, through their actions outlined in the OP. I want to complain like everyone else but I don’t have the time or commitment to make up all these quotes about what feminists say. Too bad. Do your research then to support this counterpoint of yours. Otherwise, accept the "L" and get lost.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 12:13 AM
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Being groped is not as bad as being raped. No offense, different strokes and all, but I find this kind of impulsive need to compare severity between the two one of the reasons why women easily get away with lurid behavior men are heavily penalized for. "Keep your hands to yourself" should apply to women in all forms. If I, as man, am supposed to respect the personal boundaries of the opposite sex then they better damn well respect my own.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/01/24 02:59 AM
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And this is why women aren't still being taken seriously in leadership roles. Demanding respect, believing you're entitled to it, because of your gender is what invites disrespect in the first place.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 12:08 AM
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Seriously? Never thought I'd see any positive actions towards Father's Rights in Britain, much less from a monarch.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 12:06 AM
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Britain has been a nightmare for single, white males for some time now. How they manage to endure it all I'll never know.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 12:03 AM
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Feminists generally care for men’s rights. coughDeclaration of Sentimentscough
/r/MensRights27/12/23 06:08 PM
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You know, if women wanted to get their hands dirty in those essential jobs they're free to do so; Apply, learn on the job, and finally get paid. Here's the reality: Nobody's stopping women but themselves. Not "Patriarchy", not intimidation from "Male Domination", and not "Oppression". This sub is supposedly for men’s rights but seems actually to be anti-woman. It’s frustrating to me bc I fight for men’s rights too. I highly doubt that because the general consensus amongst Men's Rights is that wo…
/r/MensRights27/12/23 06:04 PM
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Power, internet, phones, food, water, sewage, etc. Basically, any service related to those faces immediate shutdown without the male dominated workforce there to maintain it.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 10:05 PM
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Not if you're a man or a boy I'm afraid.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 10:02 PM
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And foreign content filled the void just fine as well. To where even Netflix admitted ordering a backlog of series and movies from other countries as a back-up measure.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 09:57 PM
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And nothing of value was lost nor any occurrences of essential infrastructure breakdowns. Again, if men pulled a strike action en-masse, these women would be the first to support Back To Work Legislation to maintain said structures.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 09:54 PM
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And Iraq War 2. She was one of many who supported the need for Military Action.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 09:50 PM
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She is setting an example for other women By telling them men are worthless?
/r/MensRights26/12/23 12:25 AM
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You're defending their idea, though. Trying to find reason in an unreasonable charge with actual, accountable, and incontrovertible evidence against it such as the examples listed. Especially this response to another poster: In reality, there's a lot about mens issues they don't know, and getting defensive is step 1 when they've experienced mysogyny all their life and the whole world has been validating it as a systemic issue. Men who experienced Misandry are denied that luxury and stomped all o…
/r/MensRights20/12/23 09:48 PM
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Feminists usually do believe in the patriarchy being a system that only benefits men though, you're right. -False Rape Accusations -Male Victims of Female Perpetuated Rape or Domestic Violence -Homelessness -Suicide -Men and boys getting derided and bullied by girls and women, particularly in the school system with no recourse Exactly HOW does this "Patriarchy" benefit men?
/r/MensRights20/12/23 09:38 PM
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How can we be whiny little bitches if we're incapable of opening up?
/r/MensRights17/12/23 11:28 PM
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Funny how as soon as the thought of women working the most dangerous male-dominated jobs is when the idea of making these environments safer get broached.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 11:26 PM
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Equity is "Equality by any means necessary at the exclusion of others (mainly anyone straight, white and male)".
/r/MensRights17/12/23 11:24 PM
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The man in the OP's story received approval from the staff to participate in their games and even had his wife there watching. Apparently, she and the staff didn't have a problem with his displays of affection. If that creeps people out, it's on them.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:07 AM
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And they wonder why men in general don't get involved with anything related to child care. If the first reaction from a person when they see a male with children is "PEDOPHILE!", why bother with the headache of having to constantly explain yourself?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:01 AM
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That's my point: I don't have the luxury of free, unconditional empathy and supports women are granted. Furthermore, they're allowed to fall back on their negative experiences with some men to justify their hatred. I'm not. All hatred should be understandable. Except NO ONE is willing to understand a man's hatred based on experiences with toxic women.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 06:24 AM
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No necessarily. We can't ignore that some Men are absolutely vile towards Women. So, the hatred is understandable <--- a better word for it. Funny, I could say the same thing about some women, too. But outside of this environment, I'd be crucified.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 05:36 AM
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The author was quite literally describing the laws and the world around her at the time - if she worded it harshly, its because she was a second class citizen speaking about her oppressor. So all those poor male peasents whom didn't have a say in how they're governed, required to sign away their bodily autonomy to conscription if they didn't own any property, were oppressing her? You see how ridiculous that sounds? If all you took from it was "i hate men" then there's something you arent seeing …
/r/MensRights14/12/23 05:20 AM
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Male hatred and misandry also reached a boiliing point in the UK during the Sarah Everard case that went public. To where a female member of The House of Lords suggested a curfew for men to make women feel safe since its equal as women are always advised to remain indoors during similar crisis. Forgetting that when serial killers target a specific proportion of the population like women, men, blacks, asians, arabs, or people of certain religions, it's only natural to advise that population to ex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/23 10:03 PM
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is treating feminism and misandry like they're inherent together. They've been interlinked since the late 1800s. Look up The Declaration of Sentiments. Any movement that isn't inherently misandric wouldn't be blaming men as a whole in the speech for the lack of women's emancipation.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 09:52 PM
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I find the Copy/Paste response from Karan Straughn to a feminist about "Real Feminism" works just as best, too.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 09:47 PM
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We didn't do a god-damn thing to you or others before you. Also, might want to address the epidemic of women getting away with harms on men and hiding behind "Empowerment". I was bullied by both sexes as a child. Yet do you see anyone willing to address girls bullying boys instead of hype focusing on boy on boy, boy on girl, and girl on girl bullying in schools? Girls hitting and berating boys then getting away with it, which connects to my point about hiding behind "Empowerment".
/r/MensRights08/12/23 05:29 AM
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And how exactly are Male Survivors questioning the "Women are Wonderful" mentality Misogynistic?
/r/MensRights07/12/23 06:33 AM
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Since Tom, the original founder, was pushed out by the majority feminist-leaning editors and article contributors, it's NEVER been about it.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 06:31 AM
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Of course, always assume Male Survivors who have trouble trusting women vulnerable to misogynistic thinking while Female Survivors' mistrust of men is perfectly valid.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 06:28 AM
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Straight white men are treated as second class citizens but still hold the most money, power, and influence. You people seriously still resorting to this "Guilt by association" reasoning even in this current year? Straight White Men at the top only benefit Straight White Men at the top. You ignore the Straight White Men at the bottom rung who work the majority dangerous jobs, sweating and breaking their backs to keep society running that haven't benefited from any trickle down privilege. Dope.
/r/MensRights04/12/23 10:21 PM
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It exists to level up women at the expense of men. Always has.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 10:56 PM
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It's less about shame and more about the realisation that they've politicised rape. Where if you don't fall anywhere on the scale of women, you're out of luck because people still believe women are the kinder, more put-upon gender, even when they're committing crimes It's the "Women are wonderful" effect taken to it's logical conclusion.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 06:58 PM
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I highly suggest you look up the history of Feminism. Starting with The Declaration of Sentiments in Seneca Falls as there's always been an insidious undercurrent since this predates the first wave.
/r/MensRights27/11/23 06:53 PM
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Unfortunately, it was too late for the founder. They were firmly entrenched to where they eventually attacked him over an article he wrote calling for understanding of the newsletter's original mission statement. Once they burrow in, it's impossible to dig these parasites out without resistance. Tale as old as time. So you're right: Never allow them the chance to infest the foundation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/23 01:15 AM
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The Good Men Project started off with genuinely altruistic intentions from its original founder. He wanted to feature stories that highlighted the perspectives of ordinary men as per the ones he'd interact with on a regular basis as part of his profession. Thus, a newsletter with such a specific focus was born and no, Good Men did not mean "Men who adhere to feminist ideology". What happened over the years, however, tends to contain an all too familiar pattern: He hired editors and permanent col…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/23 10:36 PM
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Anything that specifies women, specifically, in a negative light, What do you say to the opinion that women all too easily get away with abuse and general crime? Would that be considered "Hatred of women"? Because from where I see it, with clear cut evidence like the definition of rape in the UK and India, The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence, Title-IX, and little to no recourse for male victims of proven false accusations, I'd call that an irrefutable fact.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/23 05:33 PM
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Don’t wanna spend money on a women=broke No, it's more "You're a deadbeat!". Like, a man is violating an imposed responsibility.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 10:40 PM
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Equity is "Equality of outcome by any means necessary" even it means excluding people, mainly WHITE people. It astonishes me that you defend such a practice and are incapable of sensing the hypocrisy in it.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 10:28 PM
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10 million pounds is a pittance for the sheer quantity of women that participated in this smear campaign.
/r/MensRights01/11/23 10:24 PM
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Jesus Christ. Feminism doesn’t involve abdicating responsibility for women. I’m a feminist because of and despite the fact that it will end with FAR MORE responsibility for me. Uh, based on the Declaration of Sentiments and actual laws like The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence as two of many examples, I have difficulty believing this. It's all just ensuring that only men are the scapegoat for women's ills. That all abuse comes from the male gender. Otherwise, you'd be walking the walk by advoca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/23 08:52 PM
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Unfortunately, we're coming close to 2024 and yet much of society and culture remains entrenched in the belief that sexism and abuse can happen only one way. We've got pockets of resistance fighting back, achieving small successes but it's going to be still awhile longer before anyone sees women and men as flawed, fallible human beings.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/11/23 08:40 PM
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I've struggled this kind of thinking as well, and I'm perfectly willing to admit its kindled deep anger and even hatred in me at times. It definitely has sandblasted away pretty much all compassion and sympathy I had for women's overall issues and concerns. Honestly, I've fallen close to the narrow, defeatest mindset too on occasion with women. Despite the fact that I have women in my life who are decent, caring and altruistic, even that demographic is prone to succumbing to the misandric narrat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 01:04 AM
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I'm saying it's idiotic to say the stronger, more sexually dominate gender What do you say to: -Men who aren't built physically strong -Men threatened with a weapon -Men threatened with a false accusation You honestly believe they can "Dominate" their way out of a false rape charge from their rapist, getting stabbed, or even SHOT by said rapist if they don't comply? And before you say "Yeah, he can just fight back", clearly you aren't aware of how skewed the laws are against men that even a smal…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 10:55 PM
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I will reitierate again my problem with messages like this. It's not what they're saying is irksom. In fact, I agree wholeheartedly. Expressing ones emotions, letting them out, is beneficial. BUT... These messages never consider another aspect: Invalidation and the weaponization of semantics. We're now living in a time where man's attempt to open up is constantly getting shouted down not for being unmasculine but for attempting to monopolize women's issues. You open up about your issues, expect …
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:04 PM
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OP, I'm having difficulty reconciling your true feelings based on some very glaring contradictions. On the one hand, you believe their comments hurtful, invalidating and disrespectful. But then you say this: For some reason it really hurt. Of course they are allowed to feel that way. So despite how it makes you feel, you're willing to simply let them walk all over you because patriarchy, according to you, is real and sacrifices have to be made. At least, that's what you're communicating here. No…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 06:57 AM
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Small change. Should've gone further and hit those girls and their families in court for every pound they're worth because, from their admittance, it was clearly deliberate defamation of character and mental anguish.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 06:36 AM
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but I think we need to align with liberal feminists. No. They all follow the same core tenant: "Men are priveledged over women by the Patriarchy."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 10:39 PM
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Stuff like this is why guys don't even realise they are being abused even though they know something is wrong. And why they're reluctant to seek help. If such a blasé attitude towards male victims permeates these organizations, why bother?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/23 10:36 PM
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Please stop with this charade. "Boys don't cry". Gee, wonder why? It's not solely due to masculine pride. Look at the world men are required to exist in. Nothing but getting dumped on for all the world's ills and scorned for expressing their feelings because they're taking the spotlight away from women's issues. If I had to choose between selective expression and having me emotions weaponized against me by vindictive idiots, I'd go for the former.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 10:33 PM
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If you're referencing that recording catching him during one of his drunken tirades in the kitchen, the only collatoral damage was a couple of cabinet doors. Not once did he turn his violent lashings on Heard. Additionally, he was still grieving over the loss of his mother.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 10:25 PM
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Australia as well. Iceland, too. God, talk about a country knee-deep in their mission to keep men down and cucked for life.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:53 PM
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Lol. You guys are so timid. No, just prefer to be safe rather than sorry. We're stating a fact. Deny it all you want, claim that it's never happened to you therefore the issue doesn't exist just like feminism with their refusal to accept that male rape victims exist because "Minority percentage = never happened". False allegations are a thing. If you have bad social skills I guess that could happen Ah, so blame the men for their lack of social skills rather than the harpy with an axe to grind. H…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:35 AM
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Doesn't matter. All it takes is just one woman going beyond disinterest into accusation territory and no amount of confidence will save you from ruination.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 11:01 PM
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In a post MeToo, False Accusation Ridden world, men, even those with an edge in the aesthetics department, are quickly learning that the risks far outweigh the benefits in pursuing romantic relationships with women. That includes platonic relationships, too. If a woman misconstrues your words and actions, you can kiss your social standing and career good-bye on allegation alone.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 10:56 PM
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No, you're just employing shaming language, goading people passively aggressively into an expidition for racism where it may not neccessarily exist. This here: Also, it's the people who are not skeptical about why certain races are hired for leadership positions more often than others, who believe that corporate America is a perfect meritocracy, who would tend to believe that certain races are categorically less capable than others. Clearly implies you are referring to any organization who doesn…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 06:11 PM
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I see Feminists trying to tear those down Research The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence, envisioned by a FEMINIST. No, I don't care that she retracted her actions. Damage has been done. Mary P. Koss, FEMINIST researcher. She erased male victims of rape by female perpetrators recommending that it shouldn't be classified as such. Look up what happened to Erin Prizzy when she brought up the idea that domestic violence can be reciprocal between parties. That women were capable of violence having he…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 09:58 PM
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While it's true there are some Men who find it uncomfortable opening up as a result of instilled masculine values, at the same time even when men break those barriers and express themselves, they're told to sit down, shut up, check their privilege. Invalidated because their problems are trivial compared to women's issues. And feminism instilled those thoughts within society. THEY are responsible for the extra hurdle men face in opening up emotionally. Try being told, repeatedly, that you and you…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 09:54 PM
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Well, we were talking about race Just as applicable. When a minority fails to attain a position, why are we so afraid to just maybe, maybe, realize they're not qualified for the job instead of screaming racism and requiring restitution through affirmative action where unqualified minorities are hired en masse? Opinions on this issue clearly vary. Not all people who believe the former are racist, but people who are racist do almost always believe the former. Ah yes, so because someone is skeptica…
/r/MensRights02/10/23 09:42 PM
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"Patriarchy hurts men, too." You can't even bother with such fallacious reasoning. They don't care when it's men who are downtrodden.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 09:39 PM
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Then the only solution is for men to never associate with women again. No relationships, not even in the platonic nor professional sense. They want a world devoid of organic interaction between the sexes? Very well. Let the consequences manifest.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 12:34 AM
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Quotas isn't a truly effective remedy without fixing the hostiity and prejeduice present in these female dominated environments. For example, we need supports for male teachers falsely accused of sexual harassment or rape for all it takes is one student or co-worker with a grudge to turn everyone against him on accusation alone and ruin his career. That doesn't exist. Furthermore, we need to eradicate the toxic fear around men seeking work pertaining to childhood education that permeates in thes…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:45 PM
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Yes, when you achieve the level of success these women have, that grants you power. Don't give me that boulderdash about how a homeless man sleeping in a puddle of his own urine has more power than them. Because what you're doing is enabling their childish delusions.
/r/MensRights07/08/23 07:05 AM
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Women who won't shut up about how oppressed they are despite their success? No, I wouldn't include them either.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:14 PM
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Yes...that's what "banned" means.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 09:12 PM
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The women in Canada Are we talking the same women who elected a tyrannical, intolerant, former blackface toting drama queen of a Prime Minister based on how handsomely photogenic he looks?
/r/MensRights06/08/23 08:56 PM
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She took him to see a movie A movie with the ridiculous notion of the real world being a patriarchy. Anyone or anything that posits such ludicrousness is toxic drivel that NO ONE should be subjected to, boys AND girls as it's destroying natural relations between them.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 08:46 PM
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Imagine having a mother, or any member of your family, who treats you like a threat because of your gender. This boy deserves better and his mother is a bitch. Plain and simple.
/r/MensRights06/08/23 08:43 PM
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And the gumption of a cuck.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 03:16 AM
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And some commercials targeting men are nothing but blatant shaming propaganda about becoming better for the sake of women and women's issues like that horrid Gillette ad attacking male consumers for failing to police their "Toxic Masculinity".
/r/MensRights12/07/23 10:32 PM
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They're hyper-fixated on the glass ceiling while forgetting about...uh...what was that other term propagated in Men's Rights Circles? Glass Cellar? Glass Floor?
/r/MensRights12/07/23 10:27 PM
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Quotas for women in male dominated industries. Yet no quotas for men in nursing or other female dominated industries for example? You have to consider that men choose not to go into those industries for various reasons. The most prominent being how easy it's become for women to falsely accuse men of harassment, violence and/or rape. Teaching, another predominately female occupation, carries the same issue in that men's interactions with children they don't know are automatically deemed suspiciou…
/r/MensRights12/07/23 09:13 PM
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Around the ‘70s some prominent feminists started arguing marriage was oppression. Some dared to even compare it to slavery. Once saw video footage of a feminist claim women were as oppressed as black men in the 70s to none other than Muhammad Ali. Muhammad, thankfully, chewed her out on it.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 07:00 AM
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I don't mind it as much. Everything a celebrity does or says publicly can be considered part of the job sort of thing. That's the equivilant of some Nazi or soldier for a dictator's regime saying "I'm just following orders." Jenny Ortega has guts. She's spoken out before, unfiltered, against Netflix, for example and kept her career in tact. There's no reason she can't speak out against these publicity stunts unless she endorses them on a personal level. Extract the bias before judgment. "The Fut…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:54 AM
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I don’t watch any Jenna Ortega tv shows or movies because I saw her on social media wearing a The future is female tshirt. Oh jesus fucking H. Christ. But that's on me for once again putting faith in some actor or actress. Then again, people in real life have gravely disappointed me, too.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:49 AM
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If many men were not shortsighted idiots, they would start their own movement They already have. It's called "Men's Rights". demand equal treatment That's what they've been doing. the main problem is male feminists and men who do not care. I agree we can be our own worst enemy but for god's sake don't discount women who propagate toxic feminist nonsense as if they don't exist. The OP cited The Duluth Model. Envisioned by a FEMALE feminist, I might add.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/23 12:43 AM
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Men do need to have more healthy bonding and friendships like women do. How do you know we lack those things?
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:34 AM
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Couple of my friends in high school were lesbians. They had nothing against guys, but after some time, they had more resons for hating being next to men. Why? They were quite attractive and many guys could not understand, that they were not intrested in them. Constant harrasing, "joking" about turning them back to hetero by rape etc. I was a witness to all of that. I can understand why some of them are defensive next to guys. I was bullied and abused by women when I was young. But unlike your le…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:31 AM
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Another "Something happens, women most affected" piece of formulaic drivel. From the BBC, no less.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 04:25 AM
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There are better ways to make points. Using extremes like that in such a light manner just.takes away all seriousness I have for people. Apparently, you lack empathy as well, judging by this response. Next time, keep your mouth shut if you're unwilling to walk even a METER in a male victim's shoes. Misandrist.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:51 AM
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He can walk away. What if he were on a plane, a train, or a bus? You expect him to leap out the nearest open window. You also believe this feasible if he were driving a car? Never ceases to amaze me the mental gymnastics you perform in order to justify your misandric double-standards.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 10:08 PM
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To them, the downsides of being a man must have been the most mentally traumatizing thing to experience. But to me...it was Tuesday.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 06:05 PM
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It is based on the very understandable and acceptable idea that just because you and I are grumpy, maybe even discourteous when we have a bad day, we shouldn't be treated as if we were jerkasses, especially if our grumpiness isn't common. That is very fair. No, it's not fair. Someone having the occassional trying day, I understand. Their mood reflects it, fine. But taking it all out on me, demanding I cop to their projection, their fucking insecurities, otherwise I'm not worth the effort? Sorry,…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 06:01 PM
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When they're stalked, there's no supportive outlets as it's not taken seriously.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 04:07 PM
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Old school feminism was about women’s want too have equal rights and opportunities as men then. Sorry but The Declaration of Sentiments disagrees with your rosy view.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 04:52 AM
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Pussy.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 05:14 AM
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I can't continue this when you keep changing the topic and moving the goal posts. No, you're intentionally manipulating the goalposts here. I'm merely suggested that men and women have some things in common that get overlooked. Yeah, shows your privelege when you call ignorance of false allegations and abuse from women a mere "overlook" on society's part. And you seem to have an issue with that. Yeah because you're peddling moist, stinky, steaming piles upon piles of bullshit. And I'm calling yo…
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:36 PM
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How am I focusing on the wrong thing here? Please, don't give me that unsubstantiated malarky about women's reluctance to seek help because if that were true, false allegations wouldn't be a problem and an entire industry wouldn't be established around women's concerns. We're at a point where you can scream "RAPIST!" at a man and he would be attacked in every sphere imaginable. Ergo, you're talking out of your ass.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:21 PM
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The OP specified that constant psychological abuse from the women in his life brought him here. There is little to no support for men in that specific arena. You women have media, politicians, organizations, and an entire ideology that not only allows you to vent but paint every single man with a broad brush. There is no gender parity here. Women have the advantage.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 10:16 PM
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Whether you like to acknowledge it or not. Lots of men's and womens issues overlap. Not in terms of supports in this arena. To deny it is dishonest.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 09:42 PM
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Trying to cut the issue down the middle and making it a "men" thing, doesn't make much sense to me. You have countless support systems and places to go, though. Men have very little if any safe spaces to flee an abusive relationship nor mainstream support structures willing to take them on as clients.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 08:22 PM
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So why is it I only hear about men's rights or male mental health or male victims when it's to take attention away from female issues? Citations please because all I keep hearing are unsubstantiated claims based off your wild imagination.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:33 AM
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You know, I could easily intrude into your circles and ask the same for male victims in a thread discussion on female victims yet you wouldn't have that. So what makes you so special when doing it the other way here? Hmm? Drawing attention to male victims doesn't mean we don't care about female victims. Though it would help if you lot quit making it out to be a one-sided thing and stop gaslighting our contrarian opinions. Ass.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:24 PM
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I don’t think it is the best example someone could use because just him not having a steady job or living at home would be enough by themselves to explain her wanting to break up. You're only proving my point that women abhor the prospect of marrying down. A better convincer would be a guy who hit all the buttons such as high income, 6 pack abs, charismatic, status, etc. Not every man fits that description, though. Where does that leave them?
/r/MensRights05/06/23 08:35 PM
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Don't forget: Men can be assaulted and raped but no one cares. Men can be falsely accused of assault and rape but no one cares.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 03:11 AM
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Anyone else care to claim that women prefer sensitive men in touch with their emotions now? Because if stories like this aren't enough to convince them otherwise, they're hopeless.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 03:04 AM
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I call the majority of their bits "High School Valley Girl Anecdotes". Immature teenagers trapped in adult bodies, except they're given a platform and money for it.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 05:07 PM
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When I haven't seen one shred of activism against the fact that girls are getting away with hurting boys more easily and hiding behind empowerment to further avoid the consequences. Tells me all I need to know about where their priorities lie.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:43 AM
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because misogyny still exists. In what way? I ask this because feminism has redefined misogyny as "Criticism of women". You'll have to give me actual examples of misogyny, pure hatred of women as a group, to convince me that the traditional form of it is still alive and well.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:39 AM
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Like you even wanted to immerse yourself in the first place, tard.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:08 PM
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Radical feminist No, it's a feminist. At least they're willing to take the movement's tenants to their logical conclusion. Nothing radical about them either.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 10:02 PM
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SOMEBODY has to shine the spotlight on an element that 99% of society refuses to do even if it's not the sole root cause of this situation.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 09:45 PM
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Read. The FUCKING. Declaration. Of. Sentiments. I'm tired of repeating myself like a damn broken record.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 08:30 AM
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I know that she was under attack by toxic feminists. No, feminists. Period. Still I'd prefer she lead the change in feminism Feminism is an ideology founded on the notion that men oppress women. It may put on this façade of equality, but its central tenant speaks volumes on how intolerant they are towards the opposite sex. There's no changing it.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 08:17 AM
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What makes me sad about Cassie Jaye is that instead of changing feminism to be more MRA-friendly, she declared herself to be a feminist no more. She could help ending the conflict instead of switching sides. You can't blame her. Since the release of her movie, she's been harassed and had her character assassinated by the feminist movement. Also, her movie was banned from select theatres in Australia thanks to feminist groups. You have too much of a rosy picture of feminism.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 12:11 AM
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Feminism is rooted in equality. Explain the Declaration of Sentiments, then.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:59 PM
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Feminist not misandrist Impossible. The movement was found on the premise that women were, and are, oppressed by men. Misandry has been present since its very inception. The Declaration of Sentiments illustrate it by naming men as the obstacle to women's independance. So, this idea that feminists aren't misandrists? Complete myth. Non-misandrist feminists have been excommunicated by the movement, anyway.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:58 PM
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What did you expect? Enter the lions den, expect to be skinned alive and shredded. Don't bother.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 11:54 PM
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Welcome to the world Erin Prizzy had to navigate and Earl Silverman TRIED to before his unfortunate end.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:48 AM
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Never figured what Ted Turner ever saw in her.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 02:46 AM
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Rosin’s recent comments about how wOmEn dIdN’t aCtUaLlY wIn tHe GeNdEr WaR, illustrates how even she doesn’t think her writing stands the test of time. Yeah, AFTER she wrote it, had it published, and was paid handsomely. No sympathy for her. If her argument didn't hold water, she should've kept her mouth shut.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 01:51 AM
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Fuck u buddy dont die like a pussy Wow, the empathy is off the charts. Seriously, all of this is from the mouth of someone that doesn't know the first thing about depression or suicide. Oh, and fuck u too, buddy.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:15 PM
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Yeah I agree that she didn't word herself well on that. She openly disparaged white male critics so I have a hard time believing it stopped at poor choice of words. I think she meant to suggest that all movies have specific target audiences and in this case, said target demographics weren't represented well in professional film criticism. A Wrinkle In Time, THE BOOK, didn't have a specific target audience except children. Children of all races, colors and creeds, despite majority white character…
/r/MensRights18/05/23 04:09 AM
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The same Brie Larson that believed movies like the last A Wrinkle In Time Adaption weren't made for white male critics? Are we also talking about the same Brie Larson that portrays an insufferable girl boss Mary Sue Superhero that beats up men who ask her to smile? I don't, and never will, trust her.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 01:40 AM
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Firstly, these moralists should know that, first and foremost, Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson's relationship was on a purely professional basis. Between two people whose attitudes and quirks were diametrically opposed. Secondly, fuck off with "bromance". Very degrading. Male bonding will always be masculine in nature. Same thing with Sherlock Holmes and Dr. Watson and other fictional male duos.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 08:26 PM
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"So shines a good deed in a weary world." -Willy Wonka and The Chocolate Factory
/r/MensRights17/05/23 08:23 PM
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The #metoo movement (initially a reactionary movement in response to exploitation of women in media) Sure, let's ignore that men are exploited by the media in equal, if not greater, numbers. In fact, when men share their stories, let's shame them into submission, lecture them on how they're hijacking an important hashtag movement for female victims ONLY! Fuck Metoo and everyone who bought into that kool-aid. It should never have become a movement.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 05:42 AM
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I'm not defending anti vax bullshit They're not "vaccines" so no need to worry.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 08:06 PM
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May god have mercy on your hypothetical son.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 10:09 PM
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Yeah, I'll bet that's what you'll tell your son. Thanks once again for revealing your character.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 10:07 PM
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Yeah, keep sticking your fingers in your ears. One of these days you're going to have a son who's getting bullied by girls. What are you going to do then? Hmm?
/r/MensRights15/05/23 10:05 PM
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I honestly don’t care enough to entertain someone so closed minded 🤷🏽‍♀️ The only one close-minded is the person accusing me of misogyny when it's a fact that girls are getting away with horrid abuse and using "Grrl Power" as a cover, inspired by reprehensible "girl boss" characters in popular culture, goaded on by our educational system that pushes feminist "Oppressor/Oppressed" dynamics and supported by parents regurgitating the same "Being a girl is my superpower" crap. You're just willfully …
/r/MensRights15/05/23 10:02 PM
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In other words, you've got nothing. You lose then. Thanks for playing.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 09:57 PM
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I'll add that the amount of blanket statements about hating feminism/feminists is jarring Feminism EARNED that hate. If they wanted to be seen as a benevolent, charitable ideology then maybe reflect it in their actions, of which they failed miserably. Erasing male victims of rape Duluth Model of Domestic Violence Opposing Shared Parenting Bombing Public Property All done by feminists. And don't get me started on "The Future is Female". A slogan that advocates male genocide.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 08:31 PM
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Prove me wrong then. Balls in your court. Show an example of girl power that doesn't put down boys, both implcitly and explicitly. I'll bet you can't. The only thing misogynistic is the belief that all women are wonderful and incapable of doing grievous harm. Of which is pushed relentlessly by media and education. But again, I welcome your counterpoints. Restore my faith on humanity which is completely fucking shot.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 08:26 PM
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"Girl power" is okay because it allows for "boy power" to exist. "I'm a girl, what's your superpower" is okay because it allows for being a boy to be a superpower also. Boys would get reprimanded and re-educated if they dare express pride in their gender, though.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:17 AM
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I think that’s the middle ground. Empowering women without tearing down men. We don't live in that kind of world, though. 99% of "grrl power" is just a cover up to excuse toxic, mentally deranged females when they're caught abusing a male of any age.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 02:15 AM
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I just think there’s no harm in pointing out that men contribute to rape culture. It’s just interesting that men here are deflecting and going straight to “WELL WOMEN ARE WORSE” instead of just saying “yeah shitty men need to be held accountable” Yet, you won't find any of that in my rebuttal. I've always known men can be their own worst enemies. You'll find no argument otherwise from me there. But I'm also sick of people passing off a woman defending a male victim as some example of how women a…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:29 PM
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OP, just because you found an instant of majority male users invalidating this boys experience with one sole female user the voice of reason doesn't make men the major problem. Granted, we can be our own worst enemies. But don't act like all women are understanding empaths with special insight into the male human condition. For I can point to the infamous incident on The Talk when Sharon Osborne joked about a male victim having his genitals sliced off and the majority female audience laughing. A…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 11:16 PM
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And your posts, on average, are nothing but regurgitated, unsubstantiated garbage. Explain all the male writers, artists and counselors out there if they're only interested in things and objects. Intelligence my rear end. You're more of a dunce.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:52 AM
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Yes, Grammar Nazi, I am. So far, nothing.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 01:41 AM
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White straight males are actually highly priveliged in society. ALL white straight males including the homeless have it better than women?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:10 PM
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Asking for citations when you're within the source itself... I've seen a lot of comments that give off incel vibes. Than it should be simple to produce evidence. Go on, I'm waiting.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 08:07 PM
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Citations please.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 04:12 PM
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I appreciate your willingness to see the other side of the equation with an open-mind. It seems that valid issues women started trying to change for themselves have just flipped sides in a lot of cases and I had been wondering if this was an unfortunate byproduct or swing of the pendulum or if there is an element of resentment and desire for perceived justice which I think has been answered. Again, refer to The Declaration of Sentiments and the passage proclaiming men as the obstacle to women's …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 02:20 AM
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I previously believed sentiments similar to yours (they’re ones I also share) were from a place of misunderstanding feminism due to the loud (minority?majority?) of people spouting hate that we see happen from both sides but hearing stories like your own makes me wonder if I was just searching for parts of it that resonated with me like cherry picking things to help form my beliefs lol. Here's something more to look up: The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence -Framework Police Districts defer too …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 12:42 AM
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All his personal shortcomings are identical to other directors with a gargantuan ego, something that can afflict any gender working in the Hollywood Studio System. Any artist, even.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 12:15 AM
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I’ll be educating myself more on it, I’m not sure why I didn’t dig into it since I try to be fair but I think many messages on the other side were so repulsive The root of my feelings towards feminism stem from my experiences as someone who was mistreated by both sexes as a child and teenager. And feminism's tendency to obfuscate the fact that females are as heavily flawed and prone to cruelty as males considering what they heaped on me back then. They're also informed by feminism's inability to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 10:16 PM
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Saddening since so many feminist groups now seem to be some caricature mimicking the right wing men’s groups I thought I’d found something healthy to relate to and learn from. No offense but feminism's misandric tendancies have been part and parcel of the ideology since as early as The Declaration Of Sentiments.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 09:54 PM
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They sure do. Starting with Robin DiAngelo and Ibram X Kendi. There are scores of other 'woke' activists who spread the same anti-white racism. And this mentality is prevalent in colleges and universities teaching Critical Race Theory.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 09:52 PM
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Wow. And this is someone I found rather admirable in the snippets of videos from his old science centered show. What a bitter disappointment. But I suppose that's my fault for putting people on a pedestal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 09:42 PM
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Dax Shepard on his podcast once said something like "we need to teach boys they are full of what is basically poison." In reference to testosterone. Reminds me of when James Cameron recounted his past, well-documented mistreatment of actors, childish outbursts and extreme working demands, then blamed it all on testosterone. Calling it a toxin needing to be cleansed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 09:36 PM
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"Women are the primary victims of male cancer patients."
/r/MensRights22/04/23 08:58 PM
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That's why I hate when hard working fathers are disparaged for spending less time with their children. People don't realize some fathers have no choice depending on the arrangement. If he's the sole breadwinner and mom's perfectly fine with the homestead life, then he has to make sacrifices in order to maintain it unless mom's willing to work herself, contributing. Same with single or divorced fathers raising children. Somebody has to put food on the table and since mom's out of the picture, wel…
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:33 PM
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You load 16 tons, what do you get? Another day older and deeper in debt. St-Peter, don't you call me 'cause I can't go. I owe my soul to the company store.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:29 PM
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Claiming that she "probably would have over reacted if I offered to help" is an assumption. It's an assumption that's grounded in reality. False Accusations remain a problem and until men can depend on recourse from the law, better safe than sorry when dealing with a woman you don't know.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:45 PM
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Alright, groups. My mistake.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/23 05:44 AM
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Their constant fixation on blaming "Herteronormativity" as the root cause of male issues was more infuriating. Is it any wonder both Feminism and the LGBT+ community are receiving serious backlash? They're quite the toxic absolutist ideologies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 05:54 PM
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For another example of feminist discourse hijacking the Domestic Violence Industry, look no further than what happened to Erin Prizzy, who established the first domestic violence shelter for female victims in the UK. When she discovered that the majority of her clientele were as equally vicious themselves, the violence being mutual between parties, she faced serious backlash from feminist groups, was barred from her own shelter, and had to flee the country when the backlash escalated with no sig…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 05:47 PM
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She also renounced her feminist label after what the ideology put her through during the film's promotion.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 08:50 PM
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So you're only fifteen and claim to know everything about men just like your type tend to brag about worldly knowledge. Here's a little wake up call: You have yet to experience what life is like. Have a little humility and also consider that teenage boys aren't your enemy. Additionally, listen to their stories for they are likely filled with negative experiences of the opposite sex.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 07:03 PM
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Yeah, seems unneeded when all of us have interacted with men as men thus know that men are 200x more toxic to other men Excuse me but don't absolve women's part since they make up the majority primary caregivers, teachers and counselors. I have fucking popped off on other men in voice chats after a game but I can't remember ever feeling anger towards women like I have men, men are just so insanely toxic in any online setting we participate in. Speak for yourself. Your experience may be different…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 07:00 PM
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Some men aren't any better, though, when we've got so many White Knights parroting the "Party Line" alongside them.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 06:56 PM
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So this isn't a feminist thing about her being a girl. I disagree. Sorry about your niece's situation. But there's countless articles written that support her and girls like her when they're bullied. Meanwhile, I couldn't find anything on girls bullying boys. Like the issue was being ignored. It made me feel left out, alone, and invalidated after the harsh bullying I went through. To top it off, I'm surrounded by messages denigrating boys and lifting up girls to where they're allowed to commit a…
/r/MensRights07/04/23 12:44 AM
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The whole situation of someone next to you putting their hands on you, choking you to exert power & control with the intention of hurting you is pretty disturbing. Even if it’s a woman doing it. I could hardly finish the video. Also disturbing is how this is easily swept under the rug because of the penchant to fetishize the positive aspects of girls, promising them the world on a silver platter while condoning such repulsive behavior against the opposite sex. If the gender roles were reversed w…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 08:10 PM
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Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out, punkette.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:48 PM
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Bro what the heck are even on? No, punkette, what are YOU on thinking you can blatantly tip-toe around the documented fact that one of the central tenants of feminism is the existence of Patriarchy that privelges all men over women? I explained very clearly why I used the word feminist to describe myself. Words and definitions mean NOTHING compared to the actions yoru ideology took and the tenants it still follows. You could be sheltering puppies and mentoring disabled children and it still does…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:32 PM
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Then why are you here instead of doing what you claim to practice?
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:27 PM
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It certainly IS a feminist issue because this form of "girl power", where females feel like they're flawless, eternal victims, and need to take down men in order to achieve empowerment is running rampant in society. Girl bullies like this have an easier way out when their target is a boy because if a boy retaliates, they're harangued. And it all comes from looking the other way, thinking only boys are the problem. SOMEBODY has to start teaching girls about responsibility and accountability in ea…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 03:45 PM
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It's implied, though, when you think the root of the issue is men are being taught to suppress their emotions, which isn't the case. They're being taught they are worthless, women are wonderful, and that they can't fight back against abusive females lest the mob comes down hard on them.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 02:01 PM
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If you aren't being sarcastic, read the mother's story I provided in the OP assuming you're capable of reading. She specifically states that this girl stole personal property from him and lashed out when caught. She also assaulted him TWICE on the bus. Must have done something my ass. You don't choke someone to death either way. This was attempted MURDER, a CRIMINAL OFFENSE! You're exactly the reason why nobody takes this epidemic seriously.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 01:56 PM
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How men and boys are expected to suppress their emotions (other than anger) and are often made to feel less important than women/girls when it comes to emotional well-being. Sorry but you aren't trying hard enough by passing men's problems off as due to insecure macho pride. As an autitstic individual myself, I was bullied and hurt by both genders. And found out, the hard way, that there's little to no supports when the perpetrators are female. At worst, I was told to check my privilege and that…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 08:16 AM
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Uh, basic common sense? What parents should be teaching their children since time immemorial? For some reason, girls aren't getting the message so obviously something's missing. I don't know, I've always been taught that you do the crime, you do the time. Why do you think girls aren't imparted such basic morality since they were toddlers?
/r/MensRights06/04/23 06:01 AM
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It's not female power, its female corruption To be honest, I'm having trouble discerning between the two due to being surrounded by messages that women are wonderful and can't do no harm. That's pretty much all being passed down to girls and women nowadays, how they're always better than boys.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:41 AM
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I already stated it: Start teaching girls that they shouldn't feel like they're flawless creatures and to take responsibility for their actions. Come down hard on this "empowerment" they're being fed by feminist thinking and toxic female characters in popular culture.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:37 AM
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Also, the video should give police grounds to arrest the girl for assault and battery. Unfortunately, as we've learned, even video evidence isn't enough since girls have so many ways to avoid consequences.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 05:09 AM
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There are whole subreddits ready to defame us. They'll be defaming us no matter what we say. Autobans for participating in this sub-reddit should've clued you in already. Compromise all you want but appeasement never works. Makes you into a undignified doormat, which is exactly what they want.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:43 PM
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Right, and what sort of clout does she have in the movement? Any prominent positions of influence? I'll bet not. For like Cassie Jaye, Christina Hoff-Sommers, Erin Prizzy, and Warren Farrell, the minute you espouse opinions that go against the movement's tenants, you're immediately expelled and your contributions erased from official history.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:28 PM
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The fact that you're hit with auto bans from other sites merely for participating here should've been evidence enough that Reddit itself has been compromised.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 04:21 PM
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Something that found it’s way through my algorithms is this TED talk by a documentary film maker (who is a feminist) about Mens Rights, and what she learned in the process of creating a documentary (“The Red Pill” - I’ve not seen it though). No, she has gone on record and stated that after what the movement put her through during promotion of the documentary, she no longer considers herself a feminist. Try again. My view is that it’s very easy for both sides of the gender debate to get into posi…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 05:09 AM
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I see you completely ignored one of feminism's central tenants. Proves you're nothing but a preacher looking to impose your religion on non-believers.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 01:54 AM
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Feminists quite regularly say Look up "The Declaration of Sentiments". Research The Duluth Model of Domestic Violence. N.O.W.'s opposition to Shared Parenting. Mary K. Ross claiming it's inappropriate to classify what happened to male victims of female rapists "Rape". Feminism has PROVEN to have a horrid track record when it comes to equality. Nothing to defend here at all.
/r/MensRights04/04/23 01:51 AM
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I repeat: What decent feminists are out there and where?
/r/MensRights04/04/23 01:47 AM
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No, that would be suffragists. Suffragettes were a detestable terrorist group that bombed public property in addition to the aforementioned White Feather Campaign support.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:51 PM
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you want society to see more than just ur income body type and dick size right? It would also help immeasurably if society would stop putting women on a pedestal, assuming they're always wonderful by virtue of what's between their legs, and come down hard on female abusers and bullies of every age, race, color and creed. For too long, I'm having to tolerate this toxic form of "Female Empowerment" in every facet of life where a woman can commit heinous acts against a man and hide behind their gen…
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:48 PM
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With the clusterfuck that's modern day feminism No, ALL of feminism. I'm not surprised that the decent feminists aren't being regarded. What decent feminists? Where are they?
/r/MensRights03/04/23 11:28 PM
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So ALL men are aggressors to you? Whatever.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 07:37 PM
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Oh FFS I’m not ascribing blame to anyone. Uh-huh Maybe if men weren’t the aggressors these laws wouldn’t exist Sounds exactly like ascribing blame to innocent men for these laws when misandric morons like you are the cause. Everything else in your post is a pathetic attempt to wear this false mask of neutrality.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 06:55 AM
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I think that know that women can be equally paid what man are paid Provided their work ethic and position merits it. I'd rather not a woman be handed a salary if the most they put in is merely showing up. it should automatically have gotten rid of alimony Unfortunately, it's still around and people are defending it. This is also why marriage is an ugly legal concept because no one should be "entitled" to anything they didn't earn or pay for. Might want to inform family and divorce court on that …
/r/MensRights03/04/23 12:27 AM
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The alternative is investing your worth in the wrong woman and being left alone without the shirt on your back.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah, ascribe blame on all innocent men because they failed to police other men so your haughty, snowflake ass can sleep peacefully at night.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 11:41 PM
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Staring at someone's ass or boobs Who's staring at those particular parts? Your opinion on men so low you believe them to be horn dogs out to objectify the first women they see?
/r/MensRights02/04/23 11:39 PM
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The same feminists who gaslight you into thinking that when they disparage Men, they don't mean "all men".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/23 02:18 AM
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I could at best tell you some random feminists Ah, coffee table feminists then; simple-minded sheep that have no power, no influence, just loyal "allies" parroting the same tiresome talking points and deluding themselves into believing its about equality. just wrong but not bad. Yet they swear allegience to an ideology that refuses to recognize female rapists/abusers, actively resists any attempts to support fathers in family court (Shared Parenting), and prefers imparting eternal victimhood and…
/r/MensRights01/04/23 10:15 PM
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And not all feminists are bad Might want to cite evidence of "Good" feminists that weren't ex-communicated from the movement. Because, as we've learned from Erin Prizzy, Christina Hoff Sommers, Warren Farrell, and Cassie Jaye, feminism means adhering strictly to their tenants and any deviation is met with severe reprimend.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 07:59 PM
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Because their actions since inception merited such generalizations. They're living up to the anti-male trope that befits such an ideology.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 07:57 PM
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3rd wave feminism and the extremists No, feminism as a whole, in every wave, was detrimental to men. "Declaration of Sentiments". Look it up.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:45 AM
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According to who's standards? Concern trolls like you that, inevitably, turn out to be fresh faces that have never set foot in this sub-reddit? Get lost. Feminism deserves to be tarred and feathered because its actions are certainly not becoming of equality.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:44 AM
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All comes down to risk tolerance. Right now, it's too easy for young women to misconstrue the words and actions of young men in pursuit of companionship in this "MeToo" era of "No means NO!". Lack of recourse for false accusations adds to the fine line young men are willing to walk. Until this is addressed, AI and other alternatives will become dominant substitutes. The "Safer Bet". Besides, what's to say these young men aren't already being stigmatized as perverts or creeps for turning to these…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 05:01 PM
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Lack of responsibility and accountability, basically. Women are taught, from the very beginning, that they're wonderful paragons of virtue and the best at everything. They go through life believing this and, inevitably, a sense of entitlement formulates. Sadly, I don't see this dissipating anytime soon since attempting to point out they're as flawed as any human being, capable of despicable acts, or pushing them to prove their worth will still get you socially harangued.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 08:36 PM
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Simple: "Women are the primary victims of (Insert Crisis Here)" Just like she did for the subject of war, so goes for climate change. That's all the context you need.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 08:32 PM
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What is up with the user kimba93? Every single "Debate" Post from them stays rated zero and does nothing but stir people up in a snarky matter, pulling Uno reverse cards or passive aggressively assuming the person debating them doesn't get it when they're refuted into a corner. Yet they dominate the page and nothing is done about it.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 01:42 AM
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Well, it's fairly obvious: Thinking ALL men are obstacles. Yeah, I'm not going to buy the argument of "They don't mean ALL men" when it's pretty clear that "Men" encompasses men as a group. Including the ones at the very bottom, who by the way lacked a say in the voting process since not many owned property. Men who had the right to vote were also required to fight in wars. Ergo, The Right to Vote wasn't a gendered issue. Overall, though, the minute they labeled every man an oppressor is how it …
/r/MensRights21/03/23 04:04 PM
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Meanwhile, people like me who were treated horribly by females, as well as males, in their youth, have little outlets. For me, there were hardly any articles on girls bullying boys. And society still refuses to recognize female capacity for cruelty while pushing these toxic traits as empowering in the media. To where I abhor girl power in every facet of life since it allows misandric idiots a soapbox for their reprehensible views on men and boys, passing it down to their daughters. That implicit…
/r/MensRights21/03/23 04:06 AM
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"The Declaration of Sentiments" This predates all the earlier waves, stretching back to the late 1800s. Look it up.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 03:58 AM
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Radical feminists (defined as the ones who believe in the existence of a patriarchy...ie most of them) worldview depends on viewing women as victims of male oppression. The philosophy of feminism as a whole is informed by that. Look up "The Declaration of Sentiments". Radical feminists are at least honest about their misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 01:29 AM
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I think moderate women who identify as that because they truly believe that it is the way to equality are the audience I am looking for. They're naïve fools because feminism has NEVER been about equality.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:21 AM
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A large vocal minority I'm going to interject here because this is another predictable deflection many feminists resort to when their ideology is called our for their reprehensible actions. N.O.W is hardly a minority group and they were responsible for eradicating the one and ONLY solution Men's Rights Advocates had to help address the lack of fathers playing significant roles in their children's lives and that's "Shared Parenting". The organization claiming it would allow an opportunity for abu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 11:11 PM
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"Those that can, do. Those that can't, teach."
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:20 AM
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Now we've reached the point where starving innocent boys is permissible as teaching method about the subject of Gender Equality. This is cruelty and the teacher needs to be charged.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:19 AM
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Basically my reaction to your stubbornness.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 11:00 PM
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But if I were arguing women were oppressed, I would point to Afghanistan and Iran and Turkey etc etc etc., Not Belgium Alright, so this assembly wasn't necessary then if Belgium itself isn't on the list. Thanks for once again proving my point.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:22 PM
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Ah, typical. Can't name a single form of oppression against women that is grounds for this level of humiliation these boys were forced to endure. You're right, there's no discussion. Except it's not an impasse, it's you running with your tail between your legs because you KNOW women aren't oppressed and can't name an example when pressed to support your counterpoint.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 04:14 AM
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No, sorry my friend, you lost this battle. I pointed out a mistake and you threw a fit. Bye-bye.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 01:28 AM
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"here is a taste of how it affects the victims... Don't do it on purpose." And how were those boys victimizing the girls or the people responsible for this assembly? What makes women victims in today's times? How are they oppresssed by these boys? I have asked this before but name one, ONE, form of oppression imposed on women by boys and men that necessitates assemblies like this? If you can't stand 5 minutes of discomfort, you're a wuss. So having a problem with being debased for something I'm …
/r/MensRights13/03/23 01:23 AM
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Women may not be disadvantaged much in developed countries, but in non developed nations, the point still stands According to who? India, for example, made their rape laws gendered at the behest of feminists there. Now you will think "Hey, no problem. Female victims get the short end over there." but you forget male victims exist in India. We've even had OPs detailing where they're disadvantaged thanks to these gendered rape laws. Feminism elevates women at the expense of men in even non-develop…
/r/MensRights13/03/23 01:17 AM
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Bruh, the reason why they did it was to show how it feels to be disadvantaged Bruh, exactly HOW are women in current times disadvantaged to the point where they're demanding male children, CHILDREN, stand on their feet while the female children sit down? Name one, ONE, significant form of oppression that is women specific that necessitates vigilante social justice against boys? I'll be waiting to fiercely dispute it because, frankly, I doubt you can come up with anything that isn't gender neutra…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 09:14 PM
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Except there is no ratio of discrimination against women that justifies this treatment. You sparing a shred of understand means you condone, implicitly, the agenda behind it.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 07:09 PM
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I'm only coming in one last time for this: Fucking christ, fine, plural man treated women poorly a long long long time ago. There you happy now. Does it change the point. It proves a point: That your answer to using proper language as intended is to act like a belligerent little baby. You have done this throughout the entire thread and shown you care more about pushing a narrative, sticking your fingers in your ears, and having a meltdown when called out on your attitude. I'm already pushing mys…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 06:16 PM
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I understand that having the boys actually experience discrimination is effective at making the concept sink in Why do you think its necessary to subject innocent boys like these to public debasement and humiliation akin to child abuse? It's not. such activity should be reserved for unabashed bigots who lack enough empathy to "get it" without experiencing it personally. Except this is clearly one-sided empathy. It doesn't take into consideration these boys may NOT be unabashed bigots with some c…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 05:26 PM
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What is playful about it? These people derive sadomasochistic pleasure from making others suffer under the guise of social justice. It's no different from abusers hiding behind religious scripture to justify their cruelty.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 05:19 PM
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And I'll bet some are in families that can't afford the cost of a lawsuit against a government funded institution.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 05:10 PM
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I've already stated that I don't hate women if you'd taken the time to read, thoroughly. Also mention that I will celebrate women in my own way. If that's hatred of women to you both, then it shows how ignorant you are.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 04:59 PM
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Good to see you're triggered.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 08:59 AM
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And how is an interest in sports and video games oppressing women?
/r/MensRights12/03/23 12:20 AM
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Then this disproves the myth that only men start wars. Not a gendered issue.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 12:12 AM
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'rebalance' the company away from it's masculine 'command and control' center Gee, I can't imagine any man having to work for someone who thinks male-dominated industries, and masculinity as a whole, need to be corrected. Speaking at an International Women's Day event Of course. Why am I not surprised anymore?
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:02 PM
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Too bad it's now become intertwined with International Women's Day.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:00 PM
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No one should die. The draft should be illegal. Only because you're complaining about women dying. Where were you when men were dying en masse for their right to vote? Picking your nose?
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:53 PM
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enjoy the thought of women dying en masse. Please. We don't derive pleasure from women dying. Rather, we'd appreciate if they fulfil their obligations for all the goodies that were handed to them. You wish to vote? Sign up for the draft like men are still required to. Oh, so NOW you believe the draft should be abolished since it's affecting you? What took you so long?
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:52 PM
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And yet another example of how much of a farce this day of celebration has become when these grifters and ideologues crawl out the slime to spew this drivel in the name of Female Empowerment. Anyone care to change my mind? Because I certainly would appreciate someone for once, FOR ONCE, not making self-debasement a requirement when revering women in ones life.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:47 PM
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Because that's what it means, dumbass. Qualify your statement or just admit you're a misandrist in sheep's clothing and be done with it.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 08:13 AM
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Men equals plural man. Yeah, dig any deeper and pretty soon you'll end up at the center of the earth if not on the other side. We're done. Keep living in that misandric fantasy world of yours.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 06:10 AM
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Simple fact, men decided women should not be able to vote. That is a completely true statement. No one, with any sense thinks that means ALL men. Carbon copy of feminist reasoning right there. You say "men", you are lumping ALL men in the same boat. Period. I did not cause women's sorrows and I shouldn't have to apologize either. I'm no doormat, unlike you. Why are you saying ALL Dinosaurs were carnivores, you forget about a lot Grade school analogy because we qualify between carnivore and herbi…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 03:49 AM
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It is not fair you having to face the bullshit caused by men generations before mine. Not ALL men were responsible for keeping women down. Have you forgotten those at the bottom rung, the ones slaving away in dangerous jobs, suffering on-site (sometimes fatal) accidents? Those poor men had no say in what the few men in power at the top dictated. Unless they were fortunate to own property, they were excluded from the voting process with the only option left to sign up to fight in war. The draft s…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 02:31 AM
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I said to her, “How many times have you heard about a woman getting jailed for rape.” She obviously said never. I then asked her what rights men have that women don’t. She called me a misogynist and walked off. Predictable desperation there. Her opinion was easily disputable then when it's demonstrated she resorts to slurs before retreating like a coward. Same with your female teacher, depending on the school system for petty retaliation. You really did well there in standing up for not only you…
/r/MensRights11/03/23 12:16 AM
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Nobody likes extremists. Good thing facts support me then because I'm certainly not being extreme if you open your eyes for once.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 10:11 PM
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In fact, all of this is about men Of course it would be in a MEN'S rights forum with a pre-dominantly MALE userbase. Knocks on your head Hellooo! Hellooo, anybody home?! Mcfly?!
/r/MensRights10/03/23 07:38 PM
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How about you do something to combat the pernicious misandry spewing from the orifices of these bastards, is that too much too ask?! Fucking reclaim appreciation of women from the toxic, victimhood pushing feminist pissants. I'm fed up having to hear how I need to pay for some "Original Sin" as someone who has experienced some pretty abusive girls and women in my youth. Until then, don't preach your sense of morality at me!
/r/MensRights10/03/23 04:45 AM
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I mean, I do think its a little tone deaf to be making such a post on women's day I'll tell you what's also tone deaf: Using International Women's Day as a platform for misandry and anti-male hatred, which has been running rampant from the start. It's about time somebody pushes back...HARD!
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:26 AM
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In a Victoria, Australia school, boys were made to stand up and apologize on behalf of female rape victims. Then this story hits on International Women's Day. Death squads may be an exaggeration but this rank hostility against boys that's excused and propagated in school systems are certainly a sign of further, more insidious indoctrination to come the longer this stretches.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:19 AM
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If this was just to raise awareness, making them stand up 2 secs for a photos would have been enough. No they should not be coerced into standing up AT ALL because they have nothing to do with women's struggles. In the end, this cruel joke of a recognition day has unleashed everyone's inner misandrist and it's only going to sow further resentment in the most vulnerable such as these boys. A pox on International Women's Day.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:43 PM
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If you go alone at night who are you more likely to get robbed by? Men or women? Yeah, keep baiting me, shithead. I'm not walking into this one. Violence is violence, abuse is abuse no matter the gender. Ignoramuses like you can't convince me otherwise. Fuck off and die.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:40 PM
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Next time anyone tries to convince me that there's nothing nefarious about International Women's Day, I will print this article and shove it in their face.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:38 PM
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Men commit majority of crimes in almost every country on the planet. Bunk. Absolute bunk you low effort, first-time account troll. That's all I'll say.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:34 PM
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Once again, taking a page from Hillary "Because I'm a woman" Clinton's handbook.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:32 PM
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According to the FBI Their methods have been debunked and the fact you resort to referencing them shows how hard you're looking to validate your personal, misandric biases.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:27 PM
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You are not married to Bill Clinton. She is. Let that part go. Firstly, I don't need to be married to Bill Clinton to know for a fact that letting an intern blow job you while married is a violation of trust. Second, the fact that Hillary still stood by her man shows she lacks any integrity and self-respect whatsoever for all her "I'm a strong woman" schtick. Third, she ran her campaign on the insipid "Grrl Power" platform with her "Because I'm a woman" pandering. Fourth, stop defending the inde…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 08:00 AM
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My daughter is 17 and if she started dating a 50 year old Yet if she were in her 30s dating a man in his early twenties, you'd be okay with that? You're pathetic.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 01:20 AM
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Yet older men are vilified for dating 28 year old women. Double-standards much?
/r/MensRights09/03/23 01:18 AM
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Yet it would be even worse if, say, you lost your job, your reputation and your social circles on account of an unproven sexual harassment charge. You can shake off the disappointment of quitting of your own accord. But a false charge sticks with you for eternity. Plus the statement from your principle on white privilege, propping it up in a way to dismiss your concerns, does not make for a healthy work environment. If the principle frowns on the critical thinking you're offering, then it's obvi…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 09:49 PM
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If it were me, I'd cut my losses and quit. Sure, it'd be heartbreaking leaving innocent children, especially boys, with no encouraging male role model, but if the environment is so toxic as to get in the way of my genuine attempts to mentor youth and affect my own mental health, it's not worth it. Not to mention how easy it would've been for girls like that to falsely accuse me of sexual harassment with no recourse whatsoever.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 08:49 PM
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Nothing like a has-been, infidelity apologetic, misandric former presidential candidate resurrecting the same talking points that was one of many blunders leading to her downfall.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 08:44 PM
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I used to be an ally now Your first mistake was degrading yourself in such a way. Don't be anyone's tool or doormat. You're an individual with their own thoughts and pet peeves.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 07:19 PM
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From the get-go, International Women's Day has bedded Feminism and it's ideological tenants under the guise of appreciating women. I don't celebrate it based on that alone. Women deserve better than having a day that associates with an ideology that leaves them soaking in perpetual victimhood.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 07:17 PM
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Look around you: -Girls and women escaping the consequences of abuse towards boys and men. You think this would be permissible in a patriarchal society? -False accusations of domestic abuse and rape. Again, slaps on the wrist or these cases don't make it to court. Patriarchy at work here? Seriously? -Women can say and do anything to a man. Both in private and public spheres. I don't think patriarchal institutions would tolerate women stepping out of line like that, hmm? Unchecked power at work h…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:28 PM
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There is no truth to their claims that women are more emotionally intelligent by default, nor that women are better caregivers to children or that women bond more to their children or are any better at raising them, and quite a bit of evidence to the contrary. Did you show them statistics that illustrate the majority of child abuse and neglect is perpetuated by mothers? Wonder what their response was.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:24 PM
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Because it's delusionary to think Matriarchal Systems are going to be flawless in the long-term when, just like their "Patriarchal" boogeyman, it's fallible. Plus, it's another form of power structure and we all know what can befall someone with that much power unchecked.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:22 PM
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But international women’s day is to support women. There’s nothing wrong with women. So long as it's tainted by feminism's toxic, anti-male animosity and victimhood mentality, I'm not supporting it. There are many ways to appreciate women without some cult ideology that demands I ignore women's flaws and zero in solely on their virtues driving it.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 01:04 AM
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Or they'll manufacture yet another "Global Emergency" now that it's been proven that nearly all the population are gullible enough to believe anything, including the supposedly intellectual decorates in higher educational institutions.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 08:54 PM
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I don't know except it's driving me insane at times. To the point where I'm extra cautious about anything involving women in the mainstream media, whether it be entertainment, politics, music, you name it. Because every single time, I'm having to hold my nose, grit my mind, in preparation for yet another screed on men oppressing women. How they're fighting a male dominated, patriarchal system. Then I flashback to all the times I was mercilessly ridiculed and bullied by both genders and how socie…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 07:00 PM
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Alright, I'll kindly wait for laws that'll allow parity in female dominated professions like teaching. Crickets Any minute now...
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:50 PM
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Why do men matter less? What do you think?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 11:00 PM
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Or any man. Simply name them and "PRESTO", instant get out of jail free card.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:58 PM
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Blaming men for circumstances that are well within women's control is entitlement, as this article does.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:54 PM
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Women have a right to speak up when they feel uncomfortable. 99% of your discomfort is informed by feelings and assumptions of nefarious agendas from actions or words you tend to impulsively misconstrue. Here's a little secret: Not all awkward men are creepy perverts when they chat you up. Some are trying with the resources they've got. Keep that into consideration next time you have the urge to turn them into villains.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:58 PM
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The UK is looking more and more like a police state for male citizens there.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:51 PM
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Be a woman or hire a woman to run that person over in a car. UK court will merely hand you a suspended sentence for it. No, if you're a man hiring a female for violence by proxy, YOU will be the one given a jail sentence while she will escape unscathed.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:49 PM
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It's really sad that, once again, some men dismiss the abuse from their girlfriends/spouses and vouch for lighter punishments.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:47 PM
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Have to give Cate Blanchette props for also speaking out against this great plague that is the cancel culture of social justice permeating every facet of our lives.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 01:56 AM
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Look up The Tender Years Doctrine, the precursor to our current biased family court system.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 01:28 AM
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They're not wrong though? I used to be pretty anti-feminist back in 2014 when I was not very educated and SJW compilations were #1 on Youtube. Then you need to look at their central tenants because they set the stage for those Social Justice Warriors. Start with The Declaration of Sentiments, pre-dating the 20th century first wave.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 04:56 AM
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so-called entitled radicals Aren't distinctive from the "Good" feminists. They're simply more open and honest about their misandry. The entire ideology has long possessed animosity towards men as a group. Otherwise, "Patriarchy Theory" wouldn't be one of their central tenants. It's the same movement that erased male victims of sexual abuse (Mary Koss) and male victims of domestic abuse (Duluth Model). A feminist group in India fought to prevent their government from making rape laws gender neutr…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 09:11 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uoz1kJsqLcM&ab_channel=N.W.A-Topic
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:53 AM
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No, I don't have support systems, not now. I was hurt by both genders, too. You're not alone on that. Alright, then maybe you can point me to some advocacy groups or organizations that make it part of their mission to address girls and women abusing boys and men in addition to speaking out against the rampant, impulsive desire by society to minimize or hide it through "female empowerment". Society caters to stories like yours. But not to mine when I veer off the narrative that abuse can only hap…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:48 AM
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You have the luxury of supports systems, advocacy groups and plenty of shoulders to cry on. Hell, popular culture (movies, tv shows, books, etc) falls over itself to shove domestic violence and sexual abuse that goes only one way down our throat. Including the throats of male victims of female abuse. I was hurt by both genders in my youth so, believe me, I've experienced the dark side of girls and women. To this day, it's difficult dealing with the "Female Empowerment" feminist groups, politicia…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:01 AM
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You sound like a cheesy after-school special written by people who have never met a young person in their life.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:55 AM
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till a gender slur, friend. We don't need gendered slurs Shut up, Bitch.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:53 AM
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You just love assuming things about boys don't you? Did one of them touch you the wrong way in the past and now you've decided to carry a grudge against every single boy on this planet? There's no evidence in this article to suggest what you're insinuating. So, I'm leaving it at this. Have fun with your bigotry.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:29 AM
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She's a misandric idiot. Don't bother.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:52 AM
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And I absolutely will label it “harassment” if its a case of boys not taking no for an answer, or sending a photo of their junk. And I'm going to label you a piece of worthless shit for assuming nefarious agendas from these boys, prick. It's not sexual harassment, fucker. The fact that you think that makes you a subhuman cretin of the lowest. Go fuck yourself six ways to Sunday with your worshipping of #Metoo and "Guilty until Proven Innocent".
/r/MensRights13/02/23 06:50 AM
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It's because you both missed the point of the article in which they're citing instances where boys awkwardly attempted to pick up girls or flirt. The girl misconstrues it as sexual harassment (and don't you even think about labeling it as such because it's not no matter what your prude, misandric brain interprets), writes it up online and the boys are summarily subjected to mob rule. You both have also engaged in victim shaming because, like it or not, these boys are victims. Especially boys who…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 12:56 AM
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They're drowned out by people demanding we stop whining because women have it worse. Men are conditioned to not share their trauma but not out of insecure, macho pride or fear of feeling emasculated. Rather, they're too aware of how society caters to women's issues, including mental health, at the expense of men. That's the polite part. Other side is when our issues have to do with negative experiences from abusive women, there's immediate pushback. Society is still reluctant to acknowledge fema…
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:00 AM
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But not OUT ON the rig, in the thick of it, tasked with equipment operation and maintenance. You're not doing an adequate job of convincing me that feminists are fighting for equal representation in dangerous occupations rather than safe, cushy desk jobs, where they only break a sweat when pushing pencils too hard and fatal hazards are paper cuts.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:08 AM
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That’s why I specifically picked the one of the feminist who had a degree and sought out the job on the rig No, they're at a desk doing paperwork. Major difference.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:09 AM
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That totally depends how you want to define "hate". Oh I see now. Women hating men = Depends on your definition of "hate" Men hating women = Yes, pure unadulterated hatred. No question. Be gone with those double-standards.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:07 AM
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That's not the same as saying their early objectives were inherently bad. Declaration Of Sentiments: "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpations on the part of man toward woman." Man toward woman. In other words, ALL men have harmed women including men at the bottom rung. Note how this speech predates the first wave and hopefully opens your eyes to the rot that had always been present since the ideology's very inception.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:56 PM
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The comment I replied to never said doing what on said oil rig. Then your argument is null because actions speak louder than words. Next time, link to feminists who are out there on the frontlines doing those dangerous jobs alongside men without complaining about patriarchy keeping them down.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:35 PM
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You're talking about the Suffragettes. Suffragists were only about Women's Emancipation.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 05:00 PM
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When fighting for voting rights feminists didn't fight for blacks voting Because the early waves were rife with racism. Those early, upper-class white women wanted nothing to do with the "lower dregs" that were black men AND women.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:58 PM
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I'd also like to add: "No feminists, Feminism does NOT mean Women. Ideologies are CHOSEN, sex/gender isn't."
/r/MensRights10/02/23 04:56 PM
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Reassuring you possess that awareness. But, honestly, you're better off telling that to the people who say otherwise.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 03:49 PM
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Cant express emotions because its weakness. When you do, you're told women have it worse so be grateful.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 06:22 AM
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the most vocal feminists do fit that category. No, feminism as an ideology fits that rather well, no matter if, and I say, IF "Good Feminists" exist.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 12:57 AM
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I GUESS it’s fine to generalize feminists (even tho there’s so many little separate branches of it) You need to stop looking at branches and consider the WHOLE. And the WHOLE can be traced back to the Declaration of Sentiments, predating the suffragist and suffragette movements. Where prominent feminists openly declared Men as the obstacle towards Women's Emancipation. ALL men, not simply those 1% at the top. Every single man, right down to those toiling away in dangerous industries, scrapping b…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 07:30 PM
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Well one feminist complaint is men don't take their fair share of childcare. Funny they make this complaint while advocating that probable solutions like "Shared Parenting" never make it past congress. Additionally, attraction levels of men plummet steeply once they've taken on the role of stay-at-home parent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 01:38 AM
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Like imagine a white poor person talking about systemic poverty only to be told to shut up because white people control the government. I'm afraid they already have been in the form of the "Privilege" argument.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 01:36 AM
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I guess the first rule is you do not talk about it. The second rule is you DO NOT. TALK. About it.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:46 AM
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If men barely talk about women, why would men need a safe space from women? Because there's only so much misandry, from casual to outright hostile, they can take. Women's spaces are given free reign to complain about men or throw the odd joke about that if it were applied in the reverse, would get them in trouble.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:41 AM
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My point was that both radical feminists and the men who insult them refuse to listen to eachother. Why should men listen to women who are so far entrenched in their hateful ideology?
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:55 PM
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If you see bad behavior from men, you can criticize it. I see bad behavior from BOTH genders and I don't support it. But these feminist groups would rather I police only other men.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:36 PM
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Oh please, don't act like men didn't have issues eons ago either. If you were poor, didn't own property and refused to sign up for any inevitable war no matter how far off, you were denied the privilege of voting for example. Those men at the bottom rung weren't oppressing women at the bottom rung. People need to remember this.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:35 PM
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Women are not automatically feminists so there's a distinction. As far as generalizations, feminism has provided ample evidence to support these generalizations. WE didn't do it to THEM, THEY did it to THEMSELVES!
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:32 PM
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These stories make me think that Terry Crews (for example) got sympathy from other people only because his assaulter was a man. Exactly. They revealed their true colors when Terry started speaking out on the presence of positive fathers or male role models in the family is vital to a child's development. Proving your point that they only spare empathy for victims of male abuse and so long as they stay within the ideological narrative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/23 11:03 PM
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I get the need to protect women from online abuse Obviously, they've never heard of a "Block" button.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:55 PM
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They say it’s not gendered, however it disproportionately affects misogynistic comments. So it's gendered, then.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:52 PM
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Mothers are supposed to be compassionate. Guess again. Women aren't always wonderful.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 09:42 PM
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Where is the father? Either out of the picture or so cucked to the point he allows her final say on everything, including parenting decisions.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 09:38 PM
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Way to go, mom. You've not only engendered hatred in them towards you but also towards women if you keep this up. Fine example of parenting there. Why didn't you just abort him if you never wanted to raise a son? Better yet, keep your legs clenched together instead of going down on the nearest man.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 09:36 PM
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90% of silicon valley are autistic programmers making more than 400k/year. And how many grew up in environments where they were supported, encouraged, and mentored into those jobs? Not every autistic individual is born into such an ideal situation. Majority come from backgrounds where their system of thinking and expression is either ignored or deprogrammed out of them. Upbringing and support plays a major part in shaping the autistic individual's destiny. But you like to victimize yourselves, o…
/r/MensRights03/02/23 01:05 AM
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Said another way, you didn't want him to question your "values" and think for himself? What kind of parent, for example, looks forward to their son learning that they're a threat to females and that the onus is on THEM ALONE to treat them with respect at the expense of self-respect? That's what they're shoving into the curriculum nowadays as staff look the other way while girls use "grrl power" to get away with abuse against boys. I certainly wouldn't want my son in such a poisonous environment.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:52 AM
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Equity is enforced equality by any means necessary in every aspect of life. I don't endorse it, whatsoever.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:18 AM
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Lots of people have it way harder, try being homeless or living in Africa. Why are you playing oppression olympics here? Autistic men have many advantages, great focus, attention to detail, creativity, intelligence, etc. They're also the go-to target for abuse, treated like broken goods or creeps because their means of expression are misconstrued. Everything comes with a down side.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:00 AM
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Autistic men and boys are targets based on how easy it is for them to miss subtle cues. Something to be taken advantage of, a weakness to turn against them from women who aren't autistic. They're perfectly susceptible to false accusations since the way they express themselves is easily misconstrued. Any male of any age considered low on the social scale has very little recourse when subjected to bullying and ostracization by the opposite sex. Autistic men are no different.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 12:55 AM
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Considering what she did afterwards based on an "Accusation" (with the only evidence being her word against his) I don't buy her side of the story whatsoever.
/r/MensRights29/01/23 11:18 PM
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Feminism itself is not inherently the problem. As a male born from a mother and having sisters I would LOVE equality for women. You won't find it in Feminism. However neo-feminism which is what modern day feminism Feminism has always carried an intolerant, adversial approach to men. Read The Declaration of Sentiments from Seneca Falls. That speech predates the first women's movement in the early 1900s. Already declaring that men as a whole are the obstacle to women's emancipation. ALL men. Not s…
/r/MensRights28/01/23 02:14 AM
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Not only overrepresented but catered to as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 07:07 PM
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First you'd have to get rid of the toxic hostility that continues to fester in these female dominated fields. Second, provide immediate support for men who are falsely accused of harassment. Third, address the fact that this is ignored and condoned in the first place. But all this would require admitting there's an empathy gap and asking women to accept the consequences for their actions instead of hiding behind "Female Empowerment". Unfortunately, I don't see society as a whole doing that soon.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 07:03 PM
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Yeah, good luck finding justice in the UK. Remember, that country's own law system still won't classify women as rapists when they do it to men.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 08:04 AM
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I don't live in the UK and it also doesn't surprise me either since it's a country that still refuses to recognize women raping men as a crime in their laws.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 08:01 AM
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We do see certian behavior such as men not seeking hospital help Well, when health care prioritizes women over men, you can't blame men for thinking they won't be helped. Particularly men seeking help in dealing with their abusive spouses/girlfriends/women in their life. and women communicating like absolute trash. Where men and Patriarchy are blamed instead of the fact that these women are trash, raised by other trashy women.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 09:18 PM
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radical feminist biological determinists The entire ideology is toxic so nothing radical about these feminists. it’s too easy to twist the meaning to present men as the problem, overlooking the origins of the term and in harmful gender stereotypes / expectations Then CALL IT stereotypes/expectations. Christ almighty.
/r/MensRights22/01/23 09:12 PM
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radical feminists Feminists, period. Nothing radical about them if you go all the way back to The Declaration Of Sentiments in Seneca Falls. Everything they say and do is the logical conclusion of what the ideology has allowed to fester, bubble, and boil to the surface for a LOOONG time. If feminism was about equality, why didn't they come down hard on whoever wrote that speech and the people who gave them a platform? Hmm?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/23 05:58 AM
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Grow up and learn to vet your sources. Says the petulant prick crying like a little baby about sources when we're talking about a female rapist who got off scott free. Stick with the subject at hand or shut up and get out. Nobody's holding you hostage.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 07:26 AM
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Yeah, it's always the responsibility of men as a whole whenever a woman has been through some trauma involving a man. I'm so tired of this mentality. She needs to take some form of responsibility like, say, not pepper spray every man that passes by her on the street if they got too close assuming they're out to harm her because that's assault.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 01:01 AM
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The more we sit idly by, the more male teachers get excluded meaning less potential healthy male models for boys to emulate. Do you want that?
/r/MensRights10/01/23 01:22 AM
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You got a point. Any user not up on their Reddit Terminology could easily miss the subtlety. For example, I didn't know "jfc" meant "Jesus fucking Christ" until now.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 06:04 PM
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Yeah, it works like a charm! /s
/r/MensRights08/01/23 06:02 PM
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I dont think that is has something to do with gender more with shitty people beeing shitty. Of course it does. If this man rearranged her face after the assault, those men laughing in the background when it happened would've mobbed him. The fact that they find a woman nearly concussing a man with a heavy, blunt object amusing tells you right there this is a gender issue. Women can get away with assault in public and even with video evidence, somehow the men that answer back in kind are evil.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 06:00 PM
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Or simply end with an "/s".
/r/MensRights08/01/23 05:56 PM
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I repeat: Declaration of Sentiments. Look it up.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:10 AM
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Feminism is the fight for women's equality with men. By tearing men down as a whole. Finished it for you. Look up The Declaration of Sentiments.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:08 AM
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I am friends with some women who are feminists. One of them posted about male suicide, but still believes women are oppressed and all the other feminist and SJW nonsense you can think of. In other words, they threw a bone just to get others off their backs about hating men. Not out of empathy. Typical.
/r/MensRights07/01/23 02:07 AM
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Misandry coated in intellectual word salad.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 11:54 PM
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Jesus, that's way beyond low for friends to straight up discard you when you're down and expressed it accordingly. Then again, it revealed to you how shallow the relationship was from the outset and the kinds of human beings they are towards people that suffer from similar issues. Hope you're doing better.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 11:53 PM
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Put any female friends they know in their place when reprehensible and repulsive attitudes about men surface in their daily interactions. This can applied to themselves, too, if they hold unhealthy beliefs about the opposite sex. That would go a long way, for sure.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:17 PM
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By nuance on the wage gap, I meant looking deeper into things like statistics using an average of the wages. Of course men would earn a higher average, given that in general men tend to prefer college majors, degrees and vocations that end up with higher wages than women (e.g. engineering degrees versus gender studies), childcare leaves, and so on. Exactly. All down to individual choice, not exactly sexism. Men tend to choose jobs that are very demanding, so their salary will reflect accordingly…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 02:55 AM
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Additionally, its very misandrist to assume all guys are the same. I'm a pretty small and thin guy and the average adult male is likely stronger than me. I have a pretty feminine build. But apparently, I don't exist. Because all dudes are buff giga chads, amirite? Comments like the one that woman made only reinforce the one-sided way society views men. Also, if you were to start physically wailing on an adult male and they retaliate with equal measure, you'd get called out on it by others. Yet, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/23 01:34 AM
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Because girl power is often a result of women being abused by men in some way, and trying to fight to get their life back. So every boy raped by a woman or bullied by girl, every man falsely accused of rape/domestic violence, every single decent father barred from seeing their children after a session in family court, so all of that is justifable to you because some women were abused by men. Eye for an eye approach, right? Fuck you. NOBODY deserves to be abused, belittled, and vilified for thing…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 08:36 PM
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You’re really afraid of some sort of woman takeover. That's where society headed and it's what feminism wants in the end. Why else have they gotten cold feet when it comes to addressing women as human beings, discouraging people from calling them out on reprehensible behavior when it happens as they propagate "Victimhood" so as they can shirk responsibility? You may mock fearing women but let me tell you, you treat a woman with kid gloves enough, look the other way whenever they commit a crime, …
/r/MensRights01/01/23 08:31 PM
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CEOs being chiefly male These are men who needed to work way harder than the average joe and make the kind of sacrifices few are in order to aqquire this position. Male CEOs have to be practically MARRIED to their job because there's very little respite even when they're, rarely, at home since one phone call regarding company business is all it takes and they have to immediately switch back into work mode. the "wage gap" I know you put parenthisis around these words so we may be in agreement on …
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:52 PM
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Unfortunately, that's what female empowerment has become thanks to this malicious notion that men have been oppressing women for centuries, according to Feminist Theory. I cringe every time I see little girls wearing shirts with messages that go beyond empowerment into designating their gender as some kind of superpower or something special. There was even a shirt reading "Girls rule and boys drool." It's "Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them" all over again except at least the misandry was upfr…
/r/MensRights01/01/23 06:40 PM
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You can't discuss Men's Rights without those issues because majority of problems holding men back are by-products of said issues.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 12:47 AM
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They call it a "Shit Test". The old "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best".
/r/MensRights19/12/22 09:38 PM
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tackling the patriarchy will take personal sacrifice and work Yeah, fuck off. Patriarchy doesn't exist except in your puny little peabrained mind.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 08:11 AM
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Alright, fine. Now fulfil your end of the bargain: Stop demanding that every single IP cater to your demographic and assuming because they don't kowtow, they're homophobic. Create new and original gay characters instead of "Gaying Up" existing ones like they're doing right now in DC Comics. Shoving it down our throats then crying like a little baby when we answer back in kind with our refusal. You have your interests, we have ours. A cross-over needs to be organic. Remember that.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:17 AM
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proper feminists Don't exist.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:58 PM
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You don’t watch enough anime. Or old Bond movies Got a problem with female characters that earned the male protagonist's ire, I see. Also isn’t a core idea of Star Wars that you can train or just get lucky and be really strong in the force? Luke didn't train much either, man just did a bunch of flips and fought-- Okay, I've heard enough. It's patently obvious here you aren't as well versed in Star Wars because Luke sure as hell had to train hard and the suffered the consequences for abandonning …
/r/MensRights18/12/22 10:45 PM
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Because you don’t like women and think they are entitled. No, that's not true. But coming from someone who lives to kiss the ass cheeks of women, worship the ground they walk on, it's not surprising. Get this: Thinking women aren't perfect doesn't imply hate. Sit down and process it slowly if what's left of your brain is that out of shape.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:55 AM
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Based A.I. there.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:46 AM
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Maybe because they were qualified for the job and not due to a nefarious scheme by some patriarchal cabal to keep women out? You people are getting more pathetic every year with your insufferable, passive-aggressive shaming methods towards white man and white boys.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 02:38 AM
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Wow, how strenuous. Hope she didn't pull a muscle.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:28 AM
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Women: If you don't want to do something, don't Response: "How dare you believe women are incapable of doing these tasks, you sexist!" If you need help, ask. Response: "I don't need a man MANsplaining to me on how I should be doing these tasks." Don't secretly do work and then get mad about it because it went unnoticed. Response: "I DESERVE to be noticed because I'M A WOMAN!" Seriously, that's what it's come to nowadays. Best winning move is NOT to play.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:25 AM
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TBF to that team, i wouldn't immediately think a male team sucked because they lost to a women's high school team. Well, if female soccer athletes in those specified leagues are going to start bragging about how they can go toe-to-toe with male leagues in the majors therefore they demand equal pay to reflect that yet they can't cut it against an all boys HIGH SCHOOL TEAM, that doesn't do well to support such demands. Put up or shut up.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:19 AM
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And Bill Burr stated that truth: "BECAUSE YOU DON'T SELL ANY FUCKING TICKETS!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QY9Gz_IMn_k&ab_channel=LaughDomain
/r/MensRights15/12/22 12:24 AM
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And since when did Pugsley need to rely on Wednesday for retribution against tormentors? Last I heard, Pugsley is equally macabre in his own right with the ability to come up with grotesque ideas of retaliation. Even when the tormentor is his sister in a "Sibling Rivalry" kind of way (because siblings don't always get along), he can hold his own. The fact he depends on her to fight his battles for him, when it could've been HIM to have released all those piranhas or at the very least supply the …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 06:50 PM
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More than once?
/r/MensRights11/12/22 12:06 AM
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If a male is raped by a female in the UK, the female rapist cannot be charged. I can't imagine the nightmare UK male rape victims must be living under that rule.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 11:47 PM
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The reverse accusation of rape can put them in jail until the investigation And even when they've been found innocent, an accusation of rape or domestic violence will cast a shadow over their reputation.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 10:41 PM
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Troll better.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 10:59 PM
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But they still don’t have the power to get women elected to important positions Maybe if those women ran on clear, concise platforms without resorting to victimhood whenever polling doesn't go in their favor, they'd be taken more seriously. it would also help if they didn't signal out their gender as an asset. Like Hillary Clinton with her "Because I'm a woman." tripe.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 10:56 PM
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Math and the scientific method are patriarchal! -Same Feminists
/r/MensRights05/12/22 12:44 AM
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Wasn't it his "Poisonous Testosterone" that gave us some iconic movies and moments from his earlier repertoire in the first place, not to mention TWO of the most iconic female protagonists in film? What a self-loathing, wretched excuse for a man he is.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:22 PM
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James Cameron has let the success of Titantic, a multi-billion, below-average written weep fest, go to his head. His "Terminator", "Aliens" and "True Lies" days are way far behind him. Such a shame.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:19 PM
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But she basically didn’t ask it that way, she just said that we should prioritize candidates that are women and complains about every male candidate. Illegal and discriminatory. You prioritize skill, qualifications, and what they can contribute to the company. Not what's between their legs or that they're the latest fad du-jour, which is what equity reduces women and minorities to.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 09:15 PM
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This is arguably better than physical violence. No, for physical wounds, even those that feel debilitating, have the potential to heal and are visible. Mental wounds? Yeah, incredibly daunting to deal with depending on the trauma. And they're easily missed or misinterpreted or both.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/22 06:59 PM
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THIS is what YOU said, earlier, in response to someone who disagrees with the notion of Motherhood as akin to slavery: How is it not if you are not allowed to decline it? I, in return, disputed your claim that there's no way to opt out of with examples like this: Abortion, Birth Control, and Adoption You then proceeded to make claims that I never did and assumptions which aren't true. It's not my fault you fail to grasp what I'm saying and prefer making a pompous, arrogant asshat out of yourself…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 05:11 PM
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Abortion, Birth Control, and Adoption are NOT motherhood. I never said they were for if you had any comprehension skills whatsoever, you would've understood that I was talking about the ability to opt out of motherhood to dispute your belief that women are slaves to motherhood. You're GASP judging others based on your morals Look who's talking. as if the NOT wanting to be a mother is abhorrent Funny but isn't that the exact mentality of people who think Motherhood is slavery? and you've effectiv…
/r/MensRights01/12/22 02:37 PM
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Yup. She led him on only to throw him away, reveal her true feelings. Played a childish game. That's the WORST thing you can do in a relationship.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:49 PM
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How is it not if you are not allowed to decline it? Abortion, Birth Control and Adoption. Women have a choice. They're not forced into it or being held hostage. Some, GASP, actually WELCOME motherhood.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 07:45 PM
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EVERYTHING costs too much for kids these days with inflation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 05:06 PM
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And even when we butt heads, leading to the odd physical altercation or two, we cool down rather quickly with time and space, then have the ability to forgive one another. Depending on the person, of course. If they did something really reprehensible, that'd be a different story. Unlike what most people think, not all men are warmongers always looking for confrontation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 05:03 PM
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Already read the series. Still count it as one of my influential favorites.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/22 04:58 PM
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There are many feminist women who are white, straight, financially well-off and live in safe areas and can't stop to talk about how "privileged" they are because of all this. The notion that all feminists believe all women are oppressed is false. You really aren't up on feminism as a whole if you believe they haven't been spreading this message, both subtly AND overtly, for decades since its inception. Educate yourself.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 11:54 PM
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Ehh due to double standards. Generally when women cross a line it’s not viewed as being vile or assaulting behavior. Are they crossing a line? That depends on context and what was done. Oh bugger off. Consent is consent, regardless of gender. If a man's consent is violated in any way, it's just as vile. Stop making excuses for women. They're not perfect nor always wonderful.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 01:14 AM
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Instead, these women are classified as victims of "Patriarchy" or "Patriarchal Attitudes". Like if this influence were eradicated, women would be holding hands in harmony. Problem is it once again plays into the "Women are Wonderful" effect, ignoring the fact that, like men, women are human and can be their own worst enemy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 07:14 PM
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To be honest, all this shower of concern over women's safety and everyone's tendency to play up the murder of an innocent female as some national tragedy has, unfortunately, been making me ambivalent towards women. Not hateful, mind you, but there's only so much shaming of my gender and burdens they demand I shoulder before it becomes too much. It's like when women abuse men, girls bully boys, and it's passed off as "Grrl Power". Or empowerment means tearing men down as a whole now. I can't take…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 04:50 AM
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That’s acc so weird that feminists aren’t equality tho because that what I always thought it meant Always let the actions of a movement be their arbiter, not words. Feminism's actions have shown they're not into equality unless it solely benefits women.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 12:57 AM
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There's feminism as gender equality and the dismantling of gender roles, and then there's feminism as the advocacy for the interests of women and girls. One and the same.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 11:14 PM
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Feminism only believes women are strong except when they need to take accountability, accept the consequences, of their actions. Then it's all "She's a woman! Have some sympathy because the patriarchy made her do it!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 11:12 PM
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But at the risk of more downvotes i want to say- the feminists are not your enemy, the false accusers are. You must reach out and build bridges with the feminists. No.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 09:05 AM
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Let me know when you've found a rational feminist that wasn't excommunicated from the movement, then we'll talk. Unfortunately, I can't say you'll bode well since you're up against the over 130 FEMINIST organizations, journalists, researchers and professionals supporting abuser Amber Heard. Just to name one of many instances that speak against rationality in the movement.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:21 PM
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Feminism is supposed to be defined as wanting gender equality That was never their desire from the outset. Quote the dictionary definition all you want but it's merely a mask to hide their true intentions.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 10:12 PM
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I dare anyone to change my mind on feminism as a hateful, intolerant ideology that has nursed a grudge against men since The Declaration of Sentiments after seeing this. Go on, give it a try. I'll be in the corner laughing my ass off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 07:47 AM
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A lot of the MeToo movement that was partaken in by average women didn't even name the person that did it. It was just about sharing the hashtag to say literally, me too, in solidarity. You're being way too kind towards a movement that excluded male victims of female perpetrators entirely out of the discussion. Amongst other reprehensible acts.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 02:02 AM
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I think that feminists see that the heard case outcome discourages other women from coming forward. Perhaps they should start re-thinking their original stance on domestic violence as solely the domain of men against women and advocate for abusive harpies, like Heard, to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law instead of turning a blind eye in favor of their agenda.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 02:00 AM
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Alarming findings around men's mental health In a country that doesn't care about it, I might add.
/r/MensRights18/11/22 01:51 AM
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The short answer your question is that segregated systems like this are self perpetuating. Funny, I don't see anywhere in their mission statement that their standards for admission are gender focused. Why should anything with a majority men in it yet remain open to anyone willing to earn their place rankle your sensibilities? Would you be okay pushing for more men in female-dominated positions like teaching? Based on how poorly boys are treated and graded by female teachers, they sure could use …
/r/MensRights13/11/22 04:42 AM
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Current feminist culture isnt about equal rights anymore Never has been. Look up Declaration of Sentiments, which pre-dates the suffragist and suffragette movement. The deep-seated resentment towards men has always informed feminism's tenants and philosophies.
/r/MensRights13/11/22 03:57 AM
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This article also does two things for the mental health of boys: Jack and shit. And Jack left town.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 04:50 AM
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This level of ostracization was at its peak during the early times of #MeToo. When a male victim spoke up, they were only allowed a seat on the plane so long as they sat in the "By other men" section. Otherwise, you were denied and vilified since "It's not your time."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/22 07:55 PM
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Yes, boys not having the same educational level as girls is an issue that definitely needs to be addressed. But I doubt the whole "to society's detriment" message. The gap that men left will be filled with women, whether it is in STEM or elsewhere. And you don't see a problem with this? I do. Because women aren't perfect nor wonderful. There are plenty of women capable of the worst traits men possess and act out on. I was bullied by both genders in my youth so trust me, I've experienced the dark…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/22 07:51 PM
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Did you even read the article? Considering that when men are taught inappropriate/violent ways to express emotions whether they be anger, sadness, etc. it tends to hurt other men and women, And what of girls violence and harm towards boys? Women towards men? Why does it have to always fall on men and boys to fight sexism when girls and women can get away with the worst of what men and boys are capable of? Maybe we should start demanding a long, hard look at the evils that girls and women are cap…
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:02 PM
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If some naked boys aren't comfortable around other naked boys, what makes you think mixing with naked girls will make them more comfortable?
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:48 PM
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And yeah, it was a boy's club No. Not every male singer achieved the level of success granted to your Bruce Springsteens, Bob Dylons, Neil Youngs, and other timeless, popular male singers. It's a cutthroat industry that chews up and spits out people. To be a success, you need to have ruthlessness, gumption and the ability to game the system itself because it's not about talent.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:43 PM
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Remember her hit song "You Oughta Know"? Knowing her overall attitude now, exasperated by this action, I think her boyfriend at the time dodged a bullet when they broke up.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:39 PM
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do you understand sarcasm? Online? No. That's why we have this little thing called an "/s". It's not rocket science. anyways while we are at it could you explain why we seperate between men and women... We gave you an answer. Some areas, like locker rooms and change rooms, need to be seperate. Not every person of one gender is going to be comfortable naked or in their underwear around the other gender. We need to respect that.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:27 PM
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why seperate boys and girls at all? how should people learn to behave properly and deal with people if we seperate them? are we not all gender neutral? So, I take it you're okay with men and boys waltzing freely into private women/girl spaces like locker rooms and change rooms because "Equality", right? Look, some places require separation. No exceptions.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 09:09 PM
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So, tell me then, where does all this irrational maliciousness from these girls stem from? What's the root if not feminism?
/r/MensRights07/11/22 02:53 AM
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Is the school going to take action on that? You know the answer.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 02:51 AM
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BOTH sexes? Where sexual harassment against men by women is actually broached? What program?
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:20 AM
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Unfortunately, I know of no counterpart preventative programs for the opposite sex nor any motivation to make those reality.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:16 AM
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Because that's a response to people trying to teach women how to stay safe. Do you seriously not know the context of this? Rape isn't a gendered crime. Why aren't we teaching women to not rape men or women as well?
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:11 AM
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Being against feminism doesn't mean you're against women or equal rights in general. Feminism has long proven itself incapable of recognizing the other side of equality: Men and their issues. Instead, all the way back to Senecca Falls, the animosity towards men as a whole has been a feature of the movement. Not some bug or anomaly. Otherwise, it would've been opposed from the outset. Since it wasn't...well, don't blame men for refusing to touch the movement with a ten-foot pole.
/r/MensRights29/10/22 12:14 AM
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Last chance: Name one Men's Issue that, if addressed, would seriously affect women's rights.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:36 PM
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... You need therapy.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:31 PM
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No because NONE of what we advocate for is deliberately set out to harm women while supporting men. Name one Men's Issue that, if addressed, would seriously affect women's rights. Go on.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:23 PM
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fingers crossed it’s not the radical aspects Hate to break it to you but feminism has always been unseemly from the start. Dates all the way back to The Declaration of Sentiments in Senecca Falls. You'll find something unseemly had been lurking underneath all along disguised by the veneer of empowerment.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 11:41 PM
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The women are saying they know the difference between a man flirting and a man harassing them. Bullshit. They blurred the line be redefining what constitutes harassment, so I don't believe a single word of this claim coming out of their mouths.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 09:43 PM
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Too late, it's already happened. I'd say it's been happening for awhile. As an 80s autistic child, I was bullied mercilessly by both genders. I experienced the dark side of girls from the onset. People were just too wrapped up in their misandry and ignorant of what's been going on under their noses to notice. Nothing has changed decades later. Except the elevation of women as "Kind and caring" has skyrocketed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/22 09:39 PM
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"Women will win the war" Yet, it is MEN who are warmongers according to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/22 09:34 PM
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Oh, I see the context now. You're basically agreeing with the "casual feminist" label as the domain of people (men AND women) who only apply a surface level understanding of feminism that is it's all about equality without digging deeper and realizing the root in the soil belies otherwise. Ah.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 05:37 PM
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How about I let that underlying core of feminism, the one that's been to allowed to fester and grow for centuries, explain it for you with the The Declaration of Sentiments from Senecca Falls. Look it up and you'll find that the ideology itself doesn't allow for casual feminists. Also, look up what happened to Erin Prizzy, Christina Hoff-Sommers and Cassie Jaye as additional proof.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 04:04 PM
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casual feminist Non-existent.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:32 AM
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And risk getting labeled the bad guy? I thought women didn't need a man dashing to their aid in the first place. Oh right, except in situations where they'll hide behind her gender as an excuse to avoid taking agency.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 10:06 PM
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Considering how easy it is for a woman to accuse a man of sexual harassment if she so much as gets the wrong idea, in her head, about their intentions, with the ability to escape responsibility when her accusations are proven unfounded, your imagination is sadly reality for average men.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:25 AM
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By her own logic... How does she not see. IF a woman exhibits misandry due to trauma she's suffered at the hands of men. Does that not ALSO indicate that men who display misogyny do do as a result of trauma they have suffered at the hands of women. "IT'S NOT SYSTEMIC! WOMEN HAVE IT WORSE! REEEEEEEEEEEEE!"
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:21 AM
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But isn’t that the same argument that saying Black Lives Matter means they are saying other lives don’t? Considering that one of their chief organizers invested all those major donations into an opulent lifestyle instead of in the black community they proport to fight for, it's pretty clear even THEY don't believe Black Lives Matter unless it can line their pockets.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 01:01 AM
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Well, to these boys, they'd be just another brick in the wall.
/r/MensRights03/10/22 12:56 AM
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Does patriarchy make any claim that men are stronger than all women? Isn’t patriarchy about bloodlines and power structures. Yes. MALE bloodlines and powers structures maintained by MEN. That's what feminism proports society is made up of to this day. But tell me, would a patriarchal society: -Stack the deck against fathers in family court? -Allow women to get away with falsely accusing a man of rape/domestic violence, fracturing his social circles and career in the process? -Deprive men of any …
/r/MensRights02/10/22 04:35 PM
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Because feminists remain trapped in that Victimhood mindset and instill this in any woman gullible enough to believe they're about equality.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 04:28 PM
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Listen. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 04:27 AM
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To be fair, back in 1848 women couldn't even vote. Neither could men who weren't property owners and didn't fight in wars. No justification for such contempt towards them. And they wouldn't get that right for another 72 years. Black men were denied the vote even longer than women. Don't believe everything you were taught about history from supposed higher education. to a lesser extent "meninists" They're not a legitmate Men's Movement as they themselves admit so why are you thinking otherwise?
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:55 AM
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You're serious, right? We're talking about an ideaology that's firmly rooted in anti-male sentiment well documented throughout history (as per Senecca Falls) and you're pleading for men to find middle ground with them? No offense but you're naive and need to stick around. You'll find exactly why it's a waste of energy to sympathize with an ideology that doesn't give a shit about you. Repeat: They. Don't. Give. A. SHIT. About. You!
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:50 AM
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I also wish they'd drop the deflective "REAL feminism" whenever they're confronted with criticism of their movement's actions committed in the name of equality that harm men. "That's not REAL feminism. REAL feminism blahblahblah..." Say all you want about your empathy or sympathy but the minute you dismiss the well-documented, historical repugnant side of feminism is when I will never trust your altruistic motives.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 08:29 PM
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Self-worth. Imagine navigating a landscape where you lack any role models to look up to and the ones that exist fall hard for the narrative that women's issues are priority and every man are required to absolve themselves of the sins they commit, and those of their forefathers, against them. I'm not talking fictional or public persons but even those you know (family, friends, etc). Imagine navigating a landscape that's borderline hostile to your gender, explicitly and implicitly. You look at the…
/r/MensRights01/10/22 06:36 PM
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Right. Marxist. That's the appropriate term for their spiel against capitalism. Guess I prematurely latched on to the nearest thing I could find. My mistake.
/r/MensRights01/10/22 02:35 AM
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I mean he’s got a boatload of education more than I do? Is your argument “well x person who is famous and makes a living off debate/public discourse is better at conveying his opinion than you” No, I'm referring to the way they conduct themselves during a debate. Like I said, there are some arguments he makes that I don't agree with and, if it were me in the room with him, I'd state my contrarian opinions. Yet, he would respect me enough to offer a cogent, eloquent counterargument that, while it…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 11:36 PM
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So, to you, Jordan Peterson is bad news therefore anyone with an opinion that doesn't march in lockstep with your worldview means they like Jordan Peterson. Clearly, you're here to rabble-rouse instead of have anything resembling a discussion. Edit: By the way, while I disagree with Jordan on some things, he makes more cogent, eloquent arguments than you with your socialist ramblings.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 10:11 PM
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She also bedded a minor so that discredits anything coming out of that sanctimonious mouth of hers.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:35 PM
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Stop sexually abusing minors and hiding behind a Hashtag Movement, then. You reap what you sow.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:34 PM
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This is patriarchy under capitalism. No, it's not. We don't live in a patriarchy, under any guise whatsoever. Period.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:28 PM
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"So, you're simply affirming the belief that women have no agency in their feelings and actions. Got it."
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:26 PM
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Sleepwalking? No, society's awake, aware...and doesn't really care.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 04:08 AM
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Which is what tenants lol. Patriarchy Theory, for a fairly obvious one that you'd have to be BLIND to not notice! I don't believe in Patriarchy, I don't believe we live in anything resemlbing a patriarchy, and sure as hell don't believe every gender issue stems from patriarchy. So, there's one reason I will never see eye to eye with Feminism. And don't attempt to change definitions because I will sense your phony game right from the start. Did what themselves? -Opposed Shared Parenting -Envision…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 01:39 AM
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There are so many branches of feminism. And every variant adheres to the same tenants. It doesn’t mean anything to paint them with one brush. No, THEY did it themselves through what they allowed into their bubble, policies they advocated for, and their opposition to actual solutions like Shared Parenting. This "No True Scotsman" argument is frankly bothersome and I'm tired of stating why it no longer applies. Read the article it explains the distinctions and why this one is problematic. I'm not …
/r/MensRights26/09/22 01:01 AM
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No, it's plain old garden variety feminism. Look at the tenants they follow and read The Senneca Falls speech that predates feminism's wave cycle. This has been a long-standing issue brewing to the logical conclusion that's being enacted in society today.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:53 AM
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TDL: Pointing out hypocrisy is "making shit up".
/r/MensRights26/09/22 12:45 AM
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Feminist Instagram Never, EVER engage with these people. It's a waste of time, effort and energy.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 09:32 PM
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You: The race of a fictional character doesn't matter. Also you: At last, now little black girls have someone who looks just like them as a positive role model. Pick one.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 05:53 AM
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So what would you call the old men that are politicians? Uh, old male politicians? Personally, I refer to them as politicians since I'm not someone harboring animosity towards any gender and prefer judging them on their policies.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:57 AM
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If they want to make a patriarchy argument based on the custom of women often adopting a man’s last name, then fine, that’s not a false premise. But still pretty infuriatingly pointless because in a true Patriarchy, women wouldn't have the option to regain their family name after a divorce.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:54 AM
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Yeah, we're practically DROWNING in it!
/r/MensRights24/09/22 02:51 AM
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If you're a straight, white male, you're relegated to the very back of the line, fighting over every worthless scrap they throw your way at best.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 01:19 AM
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Why? The majority of "help" available are people williing to gaslight your feelings, throw you under the bus. I'm not in the mood to hear "You're just insecure in your masculinity." or any variations thereof both for free and from a paid therapist. The empathy gap has broken me. When women who are hurt are lent a helping hand and men who are hurt a steel-toed boot to the face, not worth it.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 08:10 PM
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When boys and men are constantly belittled on a regular basis for so much as breathing, engagement is futile. Maybe they should start recognizing that self-preservation is the name of the game now. Let society either fix itself or lie in the bed they messed up.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 08:06 PM
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Me: Chewing a nice piece of medium rare steak Sorry, what was that you were saying?
/r/MensRights22/09/22 08:02 PM
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The first rule of The Patriarchal Cabal is you do not talk about The Patriarchal Cabal. The second rule of The Patriarchal Cabal is you DO NOT. TALK. About The Patriarchal Cabal.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:19 PM
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It's not simply male victims. This ignorant gaslighting (yes, implying that men only have themselves to blame for shying away from help due to insecurity and macho pride is gaslighting) extends to boys who are bullied by girls. Read this: https://www.child-psych.org/bullies-and-victims-a-risk-for-psychopathology/ While I agree with the solutions as they can be applied across the board, the theories it proposes validates OPs justifiable ire around "Toxic Masculinity" as the go-to culprit. Makes m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/22 06:46 AM
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Which is western women? No, it's generally: -Girls who bully boys -Women falsely accusing men of rape/domestic abuse -Women inflicting rape/domestic abuse on men or boys -Women imparting a negative, toxic view of men and masculinity on men and boys Believe it or not, these are serious issues I've yet to see feminism address. Unless you can provide concrete, unbiased examples of such, then as far as I'm concerned, then your beloved movement is part of the problem.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:41 AM
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You just read sexism into everything you see because you want to be offended. Oh, Pot do call the Kettle Black, please. Lay off the projection there.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 09:38 PM
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Yes, my philosophy includes men, too. Don't worry your pretty little sexist head about it. Yeah, you are sexist, thinking because they're women they should be granted special consideration for their capability to cause equal harm, pain and suffering. Girls who bully boys, women who hit/rape, I'd say it's about time these ills need addressing.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 09:27 PM
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Violence is never the answer and encouraging someone to hit a woman It's open season on any woman with the mentality that they can inflict wanton, unjustified violence on a man and pull the gender card to avoid the consequences. You attack me, your vagina isn't going to save you from retaliatory defense.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:39 PM
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Or violence by proxy. If they're not up to the task, they simply seek assistance from either a male family member, male friends, even male acquaintances. Make up a false accusation, pour on the emotions to embolden the white knight mob and you've got yourself some loyal enforcers.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 05:35 PM
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Japan wasn't in ww2. Shows exactly how far your education goes: From Ziltch to nothing.
/r/MensRights18/09/22 01:26 AM
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No, it isn't. As has been stated earlier, no woman would reach the highest office in politics if our society were patriarchal. They wouldn't even be allowed to STEP IN to a higher office unless they were hired to serve coffee or as a secretary.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 12:24 AM
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Now if only you'd extend that egalitarian outlook further by acknowledging that just because more men are in congress doesn't mean the average male benefits or is privileged. But pigs will fly and hell will freeze over before your empathy ever evolves.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 12:21 AM
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Misandry and Feminism are synonomous, its roots extending as far back as the early preliminary waves in the late 1800s. Refer to The Declaration of Sentiments at Senecca Falls. Where part of the speech asks that men be named the obstacle to emancipation. None of this was challenged by the attendees nor the organizers. What does this tell you except there's either a blindspot to such misandric assumptions or it's all intentional? Either way, this undercurrent has prospered into the empathy gap we…
/r/MensRights03/09/22 10:15 PM
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It’s perhaps easier to convince people that sub groups, such as boys, black men, or veterans deserve empathy for their unique issues Hate to disappoint Cassie Jaye but there remains a profound lack of empathy and support for boys. On the contrary, they're still bearing the brunt of relentless social shaming and subjected to a concentrated witch hunt in institutions such as Public School. The fact that we have an office for women and girls issues yet no counterpart for men and BOYS speaks volumes…
/r/MensRights03/09/22 09:26 PM
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Building from that, what if I realize it's folly to open up on a vulnerable level when it's reciprocated in a toxic, invalidating manner so rather than bare my soul to every person, I'm very protective? Suppressing your emotions is unhealthy. Yet exposing yourself willy-nilly, allowing women and men to: A) Weaponize it against you in the future B) Harshly invalidate your experiences Is equally unhealthy.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 06:24 PM
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Sometimes they get the better of you and you end up hurting people. Yet, when it comes to harms wrought on to men/boys from girls/women, it's the perfect allegory on the many attempts society attempts to invalidate or dismiss the effects, erase the victim. "She was mentally ill. It can't be helped." "Her childhood was traumatic, cut her some slack already."
/r/MensRights02/09/22 08:55 PM
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that men rule the world, so little girls should feel empowered. little boys don't need to feel empowered for their gender. How do men rule the world? Oh wait, let me guess: "Majority Congress, Majority CEOs". You obviously fail to consider those men at the bottom rung who don't benefit from those men in power.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 08:44 PM
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Change it all you want but there's no changing the core tenants that were founded on some misandric outlooks.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:36 PM
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The point of these types of messages, is to play to the positive emotions of the target group. Yet you don't see shirts carrying a similar message for boys, don't you, if these messages are supposed to be light-heartedly harmless.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 11:33 PM
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This type of stuff is meant to be light hearted and “cute”. If you ask me, it actually is. If the genders were reversed, would you still think so? Sayings like “The future is female” are meant to be empowering What's so empowering about leaving men out of the equation?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 08:53 PM
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Your toxic, insipid kind scared them off by making it easy to classify any form of behavior as problematic.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 06:42 AM
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So you're in it for petty revenge, not for equality. Screw you.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:44 AM
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This isn't a contest. Women are just as violent as men. Except society refuses to see it as such. Instead, it prefers to label it "Empowerment".
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:34 AM
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I think a key difference is that when people post kill all women, they can sometimes end up doing Eliot Rodger shit. Elliot's victims included 4 men and he saw them as rivals. It was his insecurity taken to the next level. Hardly due to a hatred of women.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:32 AM
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Reddit is controlled by corporatists, not leftists. Leftists are in bed with the corporatists.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:24 AM
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Nah. They both get in trouble. And it's either a stern talking to, community service, or a transfer to another district. Double points if she can blame mental anguish. A male teacher doesn't have that kind of luxary.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:23 AM
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Saying that feminists want to kill men based on a post on reddit is like saying you all hate women Feminists don't equal women. There are females here expressing similar sentiments. What would you call them?
/r/MensRights29/07/22 10:36 PM
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I look at it the same way I look at guys who say stupid shit like "I'd tell her to get in the kitchen and make me a damn sandwich, woman!" There's no comparison between "Get in the kitchen" and "I get to kill men". Mainly for the obvious reason in that the woman in question IS STILL ALIVE!
/r/MensRights29/07/22 10:33 PM
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i’m not doing the work for you guys, Then you've destroyed your credibility.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:40 AM
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I've known some but honestly it's usually short-lived and they end up being egalitarians or humanist (my preferred term). That proves the point: There are no "Moderate Feminists" in the movement as they either disown the name or are exiled quite viciously from it.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:16 AM
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The goal posts keep getting moved. They have to. Otherwise, these so-called "Non-Profits" would have no reason to exist anymore. By the way, "Non-Profit" is just another way for these organizations to receive a tax write off.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:11 AM
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Wow! Incredible! You know, I'm so glad to have refrained from sharing a story similar to who you responded too because I expected no less of a apathetic, hate infested, condescending, egotistical, holier-than-thou, bitch-fest rife with invalidation galore, of which you've now provided. I will say this: You are as reprehensible as the user whom was called out in the OP and now deleted their account because they couldn't stand the heat. Such wastes of oxygen.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 01:04 AM
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Idk man if you don’t think there’s real incel shit out there They asked you to provide evidence. Either show it or you lose the argument. Period.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:59 AM
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Yeah. Don't dwell on it. She's a damaged individual whom prefers hiding behind her trauma to excuse her behavior. Elsewhere, she described what she did in the OP's message as "Female Empowerment". That right there is where any discussion with them ends. At least it did with me. Because I'm fed up with these damaged goods using "Female Empowerment" as a cover up for their misdeeds and reprehensible behavour. I mean, is it any wonder why "Girl Power' irks me nowadays? This "Thing" that I was respo…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:56 AM
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All I did was point out that violence in music is more prevalent and more toxic than female empowerment. No, what you've done is demonstrate how hopeless a case you are by labeling your hate filled post highlighted by the OP as "Female Empowerment" and attempt to, once again, play the "Women have it worse" game when called out. In other words, dumb and crazy are exactly what you are. I won't sit idly by anymore while female damaged goods like you hide behind your traumas in an attempt to excuse …
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:46 AM
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Sorry, mistook you for another user. But that doesn't change the fact that you've done nothing but toss slurs and invalidate in your own way throughout this thread. And no, your own dark past isn't an excuse.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:37 PM
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One time a guy manslpained You do realize such a term doesn't exist? The correct one is "Condescending". And I hardly think someone explaining where wood comes from is being so towards you. That's why it's hard to take any arguments seriously if the debater resorts to phony, male gendered terminology,
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:27 PM
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Well, going by your logic, since you constantly misrepresent men here, I'll call you a cunt.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:20 PM
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No, not all women are wonderful. Let's take you for example. In addition to calling every user here a "Scrote" with mentality of someone who never left high school, when another user revealed his abusive childhood, you proceeded to express fake, condescending "sympathy" with the whole "You need therapy" argument AND invalidate his entire experience by playing the "Who has it worse" card. You're an example of how dangerous it is to proclaim all women are wonderful based on your toxic attitude. In…
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:17 PM
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Typical feminist apologist retort.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:07 PM
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Lots of women have done bad things. I don’t think I’ve ever seen this being denied. Obviously you haven't been aware of the "Women are wonderful" effect permeating all forms of culture as of late.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 09:05 PM
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Some women might lie. But still better to have women reporting sexual assaults. Innocent until proven guilty. I don't want to live in a world where you think it's perfectly justifiable for every man to have their lives ruined from an allegation of rape so long as women have the ability to report sexual assaults as the standard.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 12:40 AM
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I really don't think women reporting sexual assaults is a bad thing. Except many women are now using false allegations as leverage against men who clearly are innocent. We're at the point where if a woman regrets having sex with a man, they can simply bring them up on sexual assault charges and they won't be questioned whatsoever.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 12:38 AM
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Pretty shocking if a male victim is involved. People still have trouble imagining a man could be rendered helpless by a woman.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 10:45 PM
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1st and 2nd wave feminism were definitely aimed at giving the rights and abilities that should have been an absolute “duh” since the beginning and it’s a shame that it took multiple movements spanning the greater half of a century. "The history of mankind is a history of repeated injuries and usurpation on the part of man toward woman, having in direct object the establishment of an absolute tyranny over her." -Declaration of Sentiments, 1848 I'm afraid the rot predates your precious 1st and 2nd…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:09 PM
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Just have a look at 'feminismuncensored' or 'purplepilldebate', they are all similar idea's that have ended the same way. Femradebates, too. Look how fast that fell once more feminist-minded mods were appointed.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:46 PM
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I want it to allow feminists and MRAs to talk Unrealistic pipedream.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:44 PM
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I’m definitely for equal rights Feminism has never been about that.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:43 PM
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Their first mistake was visiting twoxchromosones looking for some constructive dialogue. Second mistake was encouraging them to see reason when that sub is full of notoriously toxic ideologues with a genuine distaste for men as a group. You cannot reason with such lost souls. And there's a very real distaste for feminism Stating like it's a bad thing for an ideology with a sordid reputation they EARNED themselves to be taken to task for the harms they'd wrought on innocent men as a whole. I won'…
/r/MensRights10/07/22 09:41 PM
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wtf are they witches or what was the broomstick for? I can only imagine what they would've utilized it for had they NOT stabbed the boy to death.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 08:03 PM
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You know you can make your own banners right? Don't expect others to do it for you. So long as you don't attempt to tear them down, deface them, or report them as a hate crime.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 04:35 AM
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This is about sexism in football. Then why make it all about men as a whole? Is there any sexism against male football players that needs to be campaigned against? Believe it or not, women aren't incapable of pretty nasty stuff towards male athletes like, for example, false rape accusations as financial extortion.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 04:33 AM
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You know you're merely validating the OP's mistrust of women. Especially with this: It’s a matter of women being scared of rape, theft, and/or murder, and as such reacting early as a defense mechanism. Do you have a son? A husband? A boyfriend? Because if you think every man exists to rape, rob or murder you, that would include them as well. When you project your fears on to decent men who would never do such things to you, you not only repel them away but are left with men who would harm you as…
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:14 AM
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Modern feminism takes advantage of feminists of the past Take advantage or join forces as "Sisters in arms"? Go back to the Seneca Falls speech in the 1880s, where prominent feminists declared the entire male population as an obstacle towards their emancipation. To the objection of NO ONE! This toxic attitude has been a part of feminism for a long time. If these feminists of the past had an issue with the way these "extremists" were tainting the name, why invite them into the tent?
/r/MensRights12/06/22 09:53 PM
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Any feminist or feminist-follower who invokes "Original Sin" doesn't deserve my audience.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 09:50 PM
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Regarding Affirmative Action and Vawa. Affirmative Action: You get the job because you're female and we're looking to diversify our staff. Vawa: Only female victims are deserving of support and Women's Shelters top priority in funding. For Affirmative Action, do you honestly believe that treating women in such a special way, granting them a job not on merit or their qualifications but their sex because a company wants to maintain an image of fighting discrimination is in any way empowering? If I…
/r/MensRights12/06/22 05:10 PM
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Since we can't expect feminist to show compassion, we as men should show compassion to other men being vulnerable, instead of expecting them to be stoic. And what makes you think we don't?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/22 01:36 AM
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They fighting for theirs to be equal to yours If this were true, they'd be putting in the work demanded of their male counterpart. Not all of them do, though. Instead, they're treated with kid gloves, given extra time off, and appeased every time they open their mouth to complain to HR. Throw in weaponized accusations of rape/harassement towards a male colleague for the crime of a compliment and you've got someone undeserving of their fair share. Again, not all women do this. But for the women w…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 12:24 AM
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Forget gender for a moment, I believe society has reached its lowest when you're allowed to strike a comedian on stage, one known for his really sharp-edged style of wit, because he made a joke someone close to you didn't like.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 10:04 PM
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The same women celebrating such a violent outburst would change their tune immediately if they were on the receiving end from their spouses/husbands for cracking jokes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/22 06:20 PM
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"And then God created Adam." "Then God Xeroxed Adam."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/21 07:49 PM
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patriarchal institutions Are non-existent. We don't live in a patriarchy. As proof, bring up Men's Issues outside of "Expressing Emotions, wearing make-up, etc." in a public setting. Write to your congressmen and press Male's Issues. Either way, you'll see we're not in a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 03:18 PM
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"How dare he rape me while raping him!"
/r/MensRights05/12/21 07:19 PM
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Buckle your seatbelt, Dorothy, cause Kansas is going bye-bye.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 01:23 AM
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Somebody leave their laugh box on?
/r/MensRights03/12/21 09:43 PM
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Repeatedly kissing a toddler on the lips That's a serious red flag there.
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:57 PM
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That I'm fully responsible for all the hardships facing women and minorities. Including those I've never met in my life. I've grown a thicker skin lately but still doesn't lessen the sting.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 06:54 AM
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And it isn't wrong. It is wrong. We do NOT live in a patriarchy. Just because men make up the majority of congress doesn't mean they're beholden to the needs of only their male constituents. In fact, it is political suicide to acknowledge male issues now. How does this resemble a "Patriarchy" in any way? Could you not say this is due to the conception that men are naturally stronger and more imposing than women, and therefore are incapable of actually being victims of things like DV? Let me ask …
/r/MensRights09/11/21 07:26 PM
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"Death Is A Tool Of The Patriarchy According To Latest Survey"
/r/MensRights19/10/21 06:18 PM
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All women need to earn your respect? Damn that’s rough. Predictable. Glossing over the fact that I apply this to MEN as well as women. Do you have a problem with earning respect? But to answer your questions, I guess nothing, if you really don’t wanna respect women then you really don’t wanna respect women and that’s your personal choice. Remember what another poster said about gaslighting? You're doing it to me as well. Assuming I don't respect women when in actual fact there are women in my li…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 08:51 PM
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You feel degraded by having to respect women? What can they do to EARN that respect, though? Before you pull the sexist canard on me, I'm not down with coercing someone into respecting a PERSON otherwise. Woman or man.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 08:13 PM
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Except we do not take kindly to someone spouting plattitudes that were incorporated into an exclusionary method of handling domestic violence situations.
/r/MensRights14/10/21 08:09 PM
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Ah yes, how can I forget. Immediately following a substantive level of backlash, the principle issued a half-baked apology that didn't help matters at all.
/r/MensRights07/10/21 11:40 PM
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/End of discussion Seriously, we need to whip this out for every feminist staunchly and stubbornly defending the movement. Dismissing harmful, toxic policies enacted by them as "Not Feminist".
/r/MensRights19/09/21 08:36 PM
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male-on-male sexual abuse Yet convinently ignoring female-on-male sexual abuse, particularly the issue of female teachers treated with kid gloves (no pun intended) when having non-consensual sex with their students. In the words of Agent Smart: "Missed it byyyyy...THAT much"
/r/MensRights19/09/21 08:20 PM
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And how did they address it? Short answer: They didn't. That's my point. You can't claim feminism as a whole isn't about hate when there have been countless examples throughout history of these lunatics allowed a platform to spout their views without any repercussions or pushback. These same lunatics also gaining power in institutions, enacting "The Tender Years Doctrine" and "The Duluth Model". Both reprehensible logical conclusions of declaring an entire gender an obstacle or problematic.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 07:00 PM
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Read "The Declaration of Sentiments". Particularly the section where they declare men as the obstacle in their quest towards equality. The undercurrent of hate was present from the get-go and never addressed. Allowed free reign to fester and attract toxic individuals proposing laws like "The Tender Years Doctrine" that have since beget some of the issues Men are fighting against in the family court system. If 1st wave feminism wasn't about hate, they would've stamped out stuff like this before i…
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:46 PM
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I've been saying for years that Dr. Phil is Jerry Springer with an Oprah veneer. You're not far off from the truth. Prior to Dr. Phil's career as a talk show host, he made periodic appearences on another talk show as their go-to expert on relationship and mental health issues. Guess which show that was? Yes, Oprah. It was that close-knit professional connection that lead to Dr. Phil's meteoric rise. Not his "expertise" nor his "credentials". Of the latter, there are none anyway. Many in the fiel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/08/21 06:05 PM
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Me jokingly saying someone who is acting like they’re well spoken and smart in a Reddit comment section is giving off virgin vibes is part of the harmful expectations? No, simply flagging the obvious contradiction of someone who, in one breath, insists they're all about men expressing how they feel then in another virgin shaming a man expressing their feelings. Evidence that you are only about "Men opening up their emotions" so long as it doesn't question your narrative.
/r/MensRights18/07/21 12:56 AM
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theyre saying that maybe the culture telling them they have to be strong and show no emotions is harmful Jesus Chris get laid Yeah, it's always the self-righteous ones that project hardest.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 11:01 PM
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One and the same.
/r/MensRights17/07/21 10:59 PM
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Wonderful empathy there. /s None of those men know you nor ever hurt you. Yet you get off on their suffering. That says a whole lot about you.
/r/MensRights12/07/21 02:04 AM
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Need only look towards the Domestic Violence Industry, dominated by feminist organizations and other organizations that adhere to the core tenants of feminist theory. Like pushing the myth that women are victims and men abusers when we've had documented research from credible experts that says it's a universal issue, encompassing BOTH men and women as victims and perpetrators. Now imagine if this were widely accepted instead of relegated to the fringes? The cash cow's udders would dry up. Hence …
/r/MensRights11/07/21 04:46 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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