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| 26 | Update: got set up with a LVM and was almost assaulted.I'm sorry, but I'm not understanding how you were almost assaulted in this situation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:44 PM |
| 87 | As an essential worker, I’ve honestly met more male ‘Karens’ in my life than the stereotypical lady ‘Karen’When I worked as a waitress. I had men leave cards saying how if they give God 10% then I should not receive more. I had men throw fits around how the conventionally accepted version of medium rare (145 F) is not their personal version of medium rare (basically uncooked). The best was when a man decided that I wasn't serving him fast enough and knocked loudly on the surface of his table with his knuckles to get my attention, then when I looked over at him he opened his mouth and pointed into it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Pickme: a cautionary tale (long read)The advice to document is great because I find that I often feel like I have brain fog when it relates to him. I've done such a great job of gaslighting myself that it's the mindset I habitually slide back into. For example, thinking about relstionship-building activities, I can't think of one time other than very early in our relationship where he took me out on a date that he planned entirely. I always had to have a hand in the decision making. He casts it as a "partnership" where we both have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Pickme: a cautionary tale (long read)Definitely looking to get into a respite service and of course the burden of looking for all of this falls on me. It doesn't even occur to him to ask if there are other ways we could be getting external help. He also is adamantly against a cleaning service because it "makes him uncomfortable when there's a stranger here cleaning" while he's home. Well 1) plan your days better so there's a consistent time when you're out of the house and 2) maybe do a better job of cleaning so I don't need to hir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Pickme: a cautionary tale (long read)I like this advice of approaching a potential divorce slowly. I'm a planner so need to approach this with a plan in hand and figure out the logistics. How much will I need to pay him in alimony and child support, how much I need to buy him out of his share of the house, could I afford help to drop off/pick up and care for the kids in the evening until I'm done working, etc. Definitely agree with putting boundaries to protect my own energy. It's crazy because I still find myself scheduling dates … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:35 AM |
| 256 | Sis needs helpThe internalized male gaze is the reason she feels so down on herself. She's placing her entire self-worth in the hands of this scrote and his scroty friends. If she would just realize that it's NO PRIZE to be salivated on by scrotes, her life would be much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 06:43 PM |
| 27 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.To all the scrotes out there: you want us to stop talking about how you're shitty? Then stop being shitty. It's only logical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 04:50 PM |
| 223 | This dude is SHOCKED his wife is mad about him wanting to miss a wedding for a football game that he isn’t even going to!! Thankfully he gets roasted in the comments.I wonder how a scrote like this would respond to his wife not wanting to attend his father's funeral because honestly, he "kinda sucks" and it's his father, not hers, and oh, let's throw in some stereotypically feminine hobby like, there's a once in a lifetime fashion show that I HAVE to watch because the head designer from Versace is now designing for Tom Ford and they're both going to be sitting next to each other at the same show and OMG oNcE iN a LiFeTiMe show for fashion faaaaaaaaannnnns!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 02:07 PM |
| 244 | Excuse me?Scrotes all over the world be competing with their own helpless babies for milk: https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2020/jan/28/she-cant-say-no-the-men-who-take-breast-milk-from-babies Is this the first world version of this problem? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 14 | Following an FDS approach to relationships has long-term implications. Case in point: the retirement gap.Just doing a math exercise here: Vanguard's Total Stock Market Fund (VTSAX or VTI, depending on amount available for investment) has an annual management fee of 0.03%. If you invest $10,000 for a year, your managed account would charge you a minimum of $69 and a maximum of $115. With VTI or VTSAX it would cost $3. This starts to compound if you're investing larger amounts of money or for longer periods of time. Take the same $10,000 and invest it for 10 years, with the expectation of an annual 8… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 135 | I'm sppeechlessDoes she think that because he's well off he's not posting the videos to porn sites? I'm so confused by that statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 4 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meThe part where he says that he has suggested a counselor but things are complicated by her cancer points to that exact reason to me. He wants a therapist to tell her there's something wrong with her because she's not dispensing sex during her treatment/recovery period, but realized after contacting a few that no therapist will stand for his shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 10:04 PM |
| 27 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡He might interpret that as an opening for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 06:43 PM |
| 105 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meSome of them actually don't marry or have kids until they've achieved their FIRE goal, but then they make posts about how they can't find a woman who's not a gold digger because they think that stealth wealth means showing up to dates looking like you crawled out of a dumpster or driving a 20 year old car because FIIIIIIIRRRRRREEEEEE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 248 | Look who apparently "Picked Up" COVID (screenshot lifted from a sub almost as reviled as this one...😆)Yet still have energy to post on social media looking for sympathy. Someone call him a WAAAmbulance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 263 | Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for meHe also thought he was going to be a SAHD after retirement but also admitted that he has put his friends and family on the back burner to further his career. Like, how the fuck you gonna be a SAHD if you don't even know how to be a dad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 74 | The Magnificent Scrote: the red flags of chapter one of the Magnolia StoryHe also picked up a dead roach and ate it in one of the episodes. That would've been a deal breaker for me right there. Wouldnt even have take any of the other stuff you posted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:45 PM |
| 204 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!I work in a high tech field and hire and work with both men and women. I have to say that 99% of the time for the same position, the women who work in it are more organized, more conscientious, and generally smarter as well. It's my anecdotal observation that the previous male dominance of tech is based on exclusion of women. Now that women have a chance to compete head to head your average man simply cannot complete. I don't know if it's the early exposure to porn rotting their brains or if the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 10:31 PM |
| 553 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Another reason not to disclose your sexual history. Scrotes will use it against you. Maybe she had unprotected sex with a Tinder guy and got an STI and now has newly set boundaries. Nope, all this guy cares about is how it's not faaaaaiiiiirrrrrrrrr that HIS gf is enforcing a boundary that she didn't enforce with some other dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:28 PM |
| 54 | We can't even have subreddits that are clearly for usThat last point: so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:12 PM |
| 55 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5380/millionaire-starter-wife/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏So sad. Now wondering if he'll get away with it like the scrote who left Angela Tramonte out in 100+ degree heat with no water. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 202 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?It's never FIRST to love you and care for you and cherish you though. It's always FIRST to fuck you, ruin you, traumatize you, or leave you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 18 | NEVER 👏 STOP 👏 VETTING 👏Yet she's the one who, according to this article, has mental health issues?? Societal fucking gaslighting of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:16 PM |
| 27 | It's 2021 why is it still on women mostly to take birth control? 79% of men think it should be a "shared responsibility" its msyogynisyic that we still have to carry the burden as womenI became aware of a company that created/licensed a hydrogel for injection into the vas deferens (outpatient procedure, similar to vasectomy but much fewer side effects). The idea was that the gel was porous and would block sperm from traveling through, but not other fluids in semen. It had months-long durability and once in, the men couldn't even feel it. A non-hormonal method that required a doctor's office visit once every few months. A no brainier, right? I just looked today and the company … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 01:58 AM |
| 196 | Funny how 50/50 almost always works in the scrote's favor22 year old scrote is married to an RN. He made his way through trade school and is now a project mAnAgEr. His wife has student loans and makes 65% of his income but is always insisting that she has similar level possessions and experiences as him (how dare she that gOlDdIgGeR). He insists on splitting household expenses down the middle and when they do, she hardly has any money left to spend on herself. Now her student loans are coming due and he's pissed that she wants him to help her with the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:25 AM |
| 18 | Help I’ve Become Absurdly Hot Since I Got Married and Now I Want to Dump The Only Woman Who Ever Wanted to Fuck Me So I Can Become The Porn Star Of My DreamsBut he could LiTeRaLlY bE hAvInG sEx WiTh PoRnStArZ!!! But seriously tho, I never understood the obsession over having sex with porn stars as some kind of achievement to unlock. I mean they're literally being prostituted on camera, hopefully of their own free will and free of coercion. All you need to have in order to have sex with a "porn star" is money. Also I love (by love I mean hate) how the first paragraph of the "answer" to this scrote's ode to narcissism was more narcissistic drivel abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 6 | "All ages considered!"Clearly a screenshot from his favorite porn footage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 99 | "All ages considered!"Who is he even trying to pull in with this ad? Men? Lesbians? Does the average male not compute that women don't generally go, "oooh tiddies" and become instantly mesmerized and want to find out more, the way men do??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:59 PM |
| 43 | I can't get over how society shames women for expecting men to pay for dates but they never shame men for using women for sex."Because didn't you know, women are just vapid brings with no inner life who only strive for beauty and pleasing men? Women only do activities in option A to meet men anyway. She's going to the gym in the hopes of meeting a Chad. She's watching TV to fantasize about her life with a Chad. She's only going out to socialize so she might meet a friend of a friend who is a Chad. Heck, she's probably even thinking about Chad when she's showering and sleeping. Those things you list in option B are what… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 09:45 PM |
| 215 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞She is SUUUUUCHHHHH a pickme. Queen of the pickmes. Her entire notion of self-value seems to solely depend on the man she is with. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 448 | Four years for choking her during sex. This is not okay.And this ladies is why we are against BDSM in this sub. According to this article, this murderer claims that they've always had consentual rough sex, the post-mortem did not find signs of active or prolonged resistance, and now a woman is dead and there's no one to speak for her because she was one of the "undesired" in society and it's easy to explain away her death, because she has mental health issues and other "problems" that society can conveniently blame her death on, as if her destiny wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 11:35 PM |
| 79 | He said he wanted a relationshipThis is the answer. The 180° pivot with men is ALWAYS because they found someone else. They wouldn't leave the possibility of sexual access unless they had found another source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 09:14 PM |
| 117 | Unlearning my perception of pubic hair.To me that ask is only reasonable if they do the same for their pubic hair. Like, the trimmed beard is only a fraction of the effort I'm putting into my well-cared for hair. If they want me to groom my pubic area a certain way, then I'd better not see a single strand of straggly wiry hair on their ballsack. I pReFeR wAxEd 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:06 PM |
| 12 | I finally left.It is so disgusting that someone who claimed to care for you would hurt you and make you relive your trauma in this way. Hope he ends up in a threesome and his stupid pecker just lays there like a slug from all the furious jerking, and the women laugh at his impotence and tiny flaccid dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:56 AM |
| 35 | I finally left.Your experience sounds fascinating and definitely deserving of its own post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:52 AM |
| 40 | Reverse reality to show scrotes their depravityNow if only every once in a while one of these scrotes who pull this shit got their kidney stolen. Not often enough to condemn all gamer girls as kidney thieves (because NAWALT duh) but just enough that they'd have to wrestle with the question: do I want to risk being an unwilling organ donor today? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 749 | I…am speechlessWhat did he think she'd be sitting in a bath full of her own blood or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 82 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.Including a kidney, please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 03:39 AM |
| 162 | A Pickme's LifeApparently to a pickme? 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 198 | A Pickme's LifeWhen I saw it on my homepage (thanks Reddit recommendations that I don't want 🙄), I almost reflexively upvoted because I thought it was someone on FDS roasting this scrote!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 10:20 PM |
| 48 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮Wtf is this supposed to be? This is the kind of shit that teaches men to think of women as computers or vending machines. Even the language used is like programming, if A then B, if C then D, if fail, return to step 1. Ladies, if you are playing into this crap, you and encouraging this type of behavior toward ALL women. Discard. Discard. Discard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:05 PM |
| 53 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menAnd at the end of it, they're all gaming to be in these positions so that they can have a harem and fuck multiple women. That's it. That's literally the extent of male human aspirations. I could use this energy to do great things, or I can use it to trick/manipulate multiple women into fucking me. That's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 58 | A man can get 3 women pregnant within a year! Don't accept shaming or cultural misogyny!I remember once looking up athletes who had the most number of children and found several that had some incredible number (like 10+) of children and rarely more than two with the same woman. Often the kids would be close in age. They only stopped or slowed down when it was eating up a good chunk of their multi-million dollar annual income. Some of them joked about needing to continue in their sport because they're broke from having to pay baby mamas. It's like, DUDE, you did this to yourself! Yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:25 AM |
| 50 | Dozens of women sue Pornhub - alleging explicit videos were uploaded without their consentWith the amount of money that Mindgeek (PH's parent company) pulls in, I would've thought that some ambulance chaser type would've gone after them already with some of the same allegations. I was wondering to myself why they hadn't up until now. Then I realized that it is likely because most lawyers and judges and people working in the legal system are men, and chances are they didn't want to be the ones to pin down PH for its illegal behaviors because it would mean that they've self-incriminate… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 22 | He is not Prince CharmingAnother thing I've noticed from my pickme days is the complement to this idea, which is that when someone shows up who meets your MINIMUM standards (e.g. 6 ft tall, good looking and good hygiene, 100k+ income), you still need to vet vet VET! Often times I would form this illusion of what this man must be like (ambitious, driven, provider, etc.) based on what he brings to the table at first glance, because he looked the part and his profession/finances suggested desirable personality traits. The … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 60 | What’s with some scrotes’ obsession with high school life when they’re well into adulthood???It's because that's when they peaked. That was the highlight of their life. Everything went downhill from that point on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 6 | Men always talk about natural selection and animals. Well here is proof of their 'nature'.This x 1000000000000000000000000000000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:21 PM |
| 72 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?I also had very thick hair. It thinned dramatically after the first kid, to the point where I didn't feel comfortable wearing it in a ponytail because the sides would look sparse. I despaired for a while then kinda got over it. It got lush again during the second pregnancy but I was totally expecting it to all go away after birth. Surprisingly about 80% of it is still there after almost 3 years! Coincidentally my first kid has a SUPER thick head of hair and the second one is a bit on the thin si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 11:56 PM |
| 16 | He called me a princessJudging by the effort most men put in these days, it's more like a ratty ass short tailed single feathered rickety postured peacock hurling insults because the peahen is more interested in the comely peacock with full tail feathers and regal appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 101 | He called me a princessMen want to believe that somehow they're different from other males in nature. They've twisted women into thinking that we are the ones who need to doll up and do things for them in order to attract and entertain them. No Sir. We are the drab brown cardinal and they are the bright red cardinal. We are the brown unconspicuous female peacock while they are the ones who need to dance and prance in front of us with their goods, for a chance that we'll take a glance at them. We are the female dragonf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 3 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.Lilith, we'll miss you on Reddit and as the website matures I'm hoping that more women follow your lead. I hope to continue hearing your valuable opinions on the podcast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:23 PM |
| 7 | The random man I locked eyes with the other week shopping for cool ranch doritos and mountain dew 🥰🥰Why you gotta do us like this sis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Chace Crawford ladies <3Not since seeing his character on The Boys. Just like in real life, doesn't matter how good a LVM looks, the minute they show their low value personality, I lose all attraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:52 PM |
| 6 | I have doubts…I wonder if they picked up on the unbridled aggression and sense of entitlement and noped the hell outta there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The macho sperm myth: The idea that millions of sperm are on an Olympian race to reach the egg is yet another male fantasy of human reproduction. Really interesting read/listen about biology and reproduction!And this is exactly how all women should screen men. Take the hoards and put them through their paces. Discard the ugly ones, the deformed ones, the incompetent ones, and the remaining healthy ones maybe, maybe can have a chance with you. Don't be worried about freezing them out in the crypt for a while either, they're on your time, not the other way around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | What the hell is thisI'm cringing so hard right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 12:20 AM |
| 40 | Too many men think they’re above jobs in the sex industry to make ends meet and let their prejudices hold them backNailed it!!! This will be my next response to anyone who regurgitates the SWIW mantra. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 9 | Scrote posts a “muh biology” comment and says men are wired to be attracted to kids. He’s awarded and gets nearly 4k+ likes, in TwoxChromosomes.You know, we humans are universally attracted to sugary, fatty foods because of "muh biology" yet somehow people manage to not act like a dog that spots a squirrel every time they walk by a donut shop. Stop making excuses for your lack of impulse control or go back to licking your assholes or dragging your butts on the rug. Oh wait, some of you scrotes haven't even figured out how not to do that either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 16 | Women have been conditioned to always put themselves last and not rest- so self care is ESSENTIAL ❤️It takes a lot to overcome the female conditioning! Even as someone who regularly takes time out for herself, I still struggle with feeling guilty (could be spending time with kids, could be getting chores done, could be working). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 47 | Just got sent this from a friend....5’9 not attractive...is he taking the piss?He's probably also 5'6" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 11:10 PM |
| 84 | Nah sis 🤢🤢This is so fucking gross 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:00 PM |
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