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| 186 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women? | Discussion | Nobodyherem8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:00 PM |
| 9 | How unattractive men pull beautiful women 9/10 times | Blackpill Discussion | Nobodyherem8 | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/11/23 08:32 PM |
| 7 | Brootal | Nobodyherem8 | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 10:38 AM |
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| 1 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?How old are you? Are you Gen Z? Millennial? We probably do not talk to the same type of women. Even then, you just got lucky honestly. I can guarantee you women aren’t splitting the bill because they want to see if I’d be a good pick for raising a family lmao. Of course you can only see who the person portrays, but still you missed the point. Rather than look for “whether this person is a good fit”, they think “how can I use this person to my benefit”. Do you see the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Lol I saw that vid too. Girls girl are the worst. They’re usually the ones to cause drama too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I think you missed my point. Also seems like a no true scotsman fallacy. But yeah it’s a US thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I’m confused how is what I said wrong? Don’t some men want a trad wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?While you’re not wrong, it’d be wrong to just dismiss it because it’s online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Have the same question. But yeah unfortunately it is looked down upon primarily by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I already had this conversation with someone else but basically progressive women or atleast those who claim to be mostly don’t like 50/50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Why can’t the same be said of the inverse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Lol thank you. I don’t know why so many people here are acting like I’m making this shit up or going out of my way to find a niche population of women who behave like this. It’s literally all I see now sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:45 PM |
| 14 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Yeah it should be self explanatory. Just because I say, “Every man I know isn’t misogynistic” doesn’t make it true for the broader sense of society my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Uhhh ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 12 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?But people in real life are like this…? Dating apps? College? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:58 PM |
| 13 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Loud minority…? Seriously do you date women? Do you have social media? It’s everywhere I go lmao. No matter how many times I hit “not interested”. Women are literally called pick me’s if they point out the discrepancy. I can’t give you percentages. I’ve looked for studies but very few have been done. Only thing I found is that 30 percent of gen z split 50/50 first date. 5 percent of women expect to pick up the tab. And a lot of women get mad when they actually do have to pick up the tab. But if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Some men do want a trad wife, but that’s like the red pill and that stuff which isn’t too mainstream. I’d say more men want 50/50. I’m talking specifically genz and maybe millennials by the way. More women are becoming career women, but like I said the majority still want to be provided for. For a “masculine man to unlock her femininity”. Or whatever that means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:10 PM |
| 16 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Vast majority where? I’d love to see them. The whole reason why it’s a conversation on social media is because more and more men are opting for 50-50, and the majority of women do not like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?And I agree. These are all traditional values. My problem is that so called progressive women tend to still hold these views. You in your circles, as you admit you are the most progressive one here, don’t really see the average “progressive”. TikTok, instagram, twitter. Especially when you get to the dating side of these social media sites, will you see what I’m talking about. At college, you’ll see the same. Dating apps as well. These women (and men) will claim to be progressive. Have all of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I agree with most of what you said, but the issue is that a lot of these self proclaimed “financially independent women” are the main ones wanting to be taken care of. Now I have met some who are truly financially independent. But it’s much more common to see a woman who labels herself as such to be the opposite. And like I said in my post, picking up the tab is generally expected of men. So it’d be more likely that the financially independent woman needs to pick up the tab once in a while to si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Yeah but 50-50 is still looked down upon is it not? Sure you and your circle may engage in that but generally it’s the easiest way to not get a second date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I agree but this seems to have nothing to do with what I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?True. Though it doesn’t really have to be mutually exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 18 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Hmm there are many aspects from the past that still prevail. Did you read my post? Providing for a woman. Being chivalrous. “His money is our money but my money is my money”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 10 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?That’s not your thought. That’s your “solution”. You didn’t lay out your thought process at all at how you came to that solution, or to it views on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Lol yeesh good luck bro. Was there any warning signs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:52 PM |
| 14 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?What’s the best way to pick up on this early? Besides splitting on the first date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:51 PM |
| 21 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Yes which is the point of my post. A lot “Progressive” women hold these views of what makes a man a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:50 PM |
| 13 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?And these people don’t live in the real world? Are you serious? Or is that a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:36 PM |
| 11 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?I asked for your thoughts. Not a snarky comment. Do you think this is a problem or are you ok with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:32 PM |
| 12 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Angry? Not angry. More confused. Though this is the second comment where someone has told me to start a movement. I asked for your thoughts. Not a snarky comment. Do you think this is a problem or are you ok with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:32 PM |
| 4 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.No it’s not I just explained why they aren’t the same thing. That’s what I meant by you didn’t read my comment and your comment didn’t make sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:37 AM |
| 8 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.☠️did you even read the comments? I’m exposing how submissiveness and being subservient AREN’T the same thing. So your reply makes zero sense my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:32 AM |
| 5 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?Women go online and brag about having certain men listed as “lunch”. Lol what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:26 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Being subservient means unconditional obedience. You can be submissive and still speak your mind, give your opinion, disagree, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:22 AM |
| 3 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.Lmao she’s onto nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:17 AM |
| 25 | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.I can’t help but feel there’s a more nuanced choice you’re leaving out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 10:16 AM |
| 4 | Hi everyone, I’m a 5’10” guy (179cm morning 178cm evening) and I’ve dated a few women all 5’4”-5’7” who mocked me for being short( and It’s taken a toll on my self esteem 😭These are dating profile pictures? | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/11/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Take the passportpillIf you think she’ll love you, you’re wrong. She’s only there for the status and money. So betabuxing basically. Rather stay single and find a western woman who actually loves me than go overseas and betabux | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/11/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | How often do chads lose girls to other chads?Damn hope you’re alright dude. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/11/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | How often do chads lose girls to other chads?Yeah for Chad it sucks for them because they know they’re at the top yet it doesn’t prevent them from getting wronged by women. He knows he can get another so he come back quickly. Probably doesn’t trust like he used to but still. For the rest of us, we know we can’t do the same. Which is why a lot of people stay with their girl after she cheated | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/11/23 05:37 AM |
| 3 | How often do chads lose girls to other chads?If you curve women, they care too. It’s an ego thing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | How often do chads lose girls to other chads?Chads have egos man they care | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/11/23 11:05 PM |
| 3 | It's better to be an incel than a normieI rather be happy bro | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/11/23 12:52 AM |
| 3 | over lol 😂Poor guy. Reading through his responses, it's funny to see people baffled thinking he's doing something wrong, when it's just how the world works. Some people will die alone, and that's reality. Not due to them/their actions, but circumstance, genetics, where they live, etc. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 03:28 AM |
| 6 | over lol 😂Seriously lol. They can easily recognize the world isn't fair to some group, but when it comes to ugly/short/non-nt men, it's your attitude. Or you're not trying. Your hygiene. Gaslighting these poor guys to the max. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/11/23 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How unattractive men pull beautiful women 9/10 timesI’d say it introduces people to reality, so a little more than nothing. Plus it’s fun/helps pass the time. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/11/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How unattractive men pull beautiful women 9/10 timesHating is not gonna make them change and goes no where. Better things to do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/11/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Every Girl I have Casually Slept With Was With Another Guy at the Time of Penetration? did you read what I said? I'm going to check for red flag BEFORE I put my trust into her. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Every Girl I have Casually Slept With Was With Another Guy at the Time of PenetrationOh yeah I agree. If I suspect some shit she gotta show that shit asap. But hopefully that would never happen | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Female standards haven't changedAgain for sex since guys will fuck anything but guys don’t usually date ugly women. I’ve rarely seen a couple where the guy is considerable more attractive. I have seen ugly guys with attractive women though. Those are a lot more common. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Every Girl I have Casually Slept With Was With Another Guy at the Time of PenetrationTrue but I'm not getting into a relationship with a girl I don't trust. I'll take time before to figure out the kind of girl she is, the friends she has, her track record etc before I commit. One red flag and I'm gone | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Every Girl I have Casually Slept With Was With Another Guy at the Time of Penetrationtrue, which sucks. But imo trust is so important in a relationship and if I can't trust her to be faithful, then I can't love her completly. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Female standards haven't changedThey are if you ignore nuance. Fucking =/= relationship status. like I said earlier. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 11:32 PM |
| 8 | Every Girl I have Casually Slept With Was With Another Guy at the Time of PenetrationEh my philosophy is not to have access to her phone. If she cheats, she has revealed her true self. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship where she would be cheating if I didn't have access to her phone. Seems counterproductive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Female standards haven't changedlol take the granny pill. Why do you think fat girls and olderwomen have egos? Because guys will fuck nearly anything. Which makes sense considering our biology. Women are able to do the same. Just have to be a provider/beta bux. Just the way it is. I don't think men go after ugly girls. Tall girls are also neglected. Which is only natural. I've seen plenty of women who are with guys who are ugly, but are stable. So theres a natural trade off. A man will be lenient when it comes to status, but n… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Female standards haven't changedIt's the same for both genders. We both want what's best. It's just in our biology. Men, however, are more willing to fuck ugly girls. Not wife em up though. Girls aren't able to do that, hence why they control the sexual market. | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/11/23 09:51 PM |
| 0 | How old is everyone here?lol unironically i agree | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/10/23 06:56 AM |
| 2 | OkCupid's 80/20 rule has been misinterpreted.I wouldn’t call it the real world. Yes it’s growing to become one of the ways most relationships are created (I’m pretty sure through a mutual friend is still on top), but it’s not really real world. It’s unnatural. It’s fueled by an algorithm, kind of like pornography. That’s a lot of people are quitting it. Hopefully more people do. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 10:48 PM |
| 2 | OkCupid's 80/20 rule has been misinterpreted.Yup they aren’t pulling Chads. They want to but can’t. Anyways I’m starting to think online dating isn’t reflective of real world. I think people become pickier online, especially woman. Not saying a beautiful woman will always fall in love with an average looking man, but in a setting where it’s more natural and the man has a chance to showcase his personality, it’s more likely. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Is this the ideal relationship? When women is so much into you?Of course. Looks matters too though | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/10/23 06:19 PM |
| 0 | Change my mind: If a woman never pursues you for casual sex, then it means you're unattractive in the eyes of women.Don’t some women purposefully not pursue casual sex with a certain guy since they want a relationship with them? Since casual sex tends to lead to more casual sex and not taking the girl seriously? | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 02:57 PM |
| 5 | If you aren't attracted to your looksmatch, then you rightfully should be a genetic dead endHonestly think that women on average on more attractive. You can put the same general facial features of a woman on a man and 9/10 they look better for some reason I don’t get it. Also makeup too. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Forget about the pills, do you believe w*men love men the way men love w*men?I would assume normal women and men have the same level of ability to love to the same degree. Women aren’t a different species lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/10/23 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Race pill and JBW is BS.JBW is just the default tbh. Every race/ ethnicity/nationality seems to idolize white people. I don’t think many will outright exclude them. For other races, the opposite it true. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Depressed to whitepill, my journey in life and relationships.That’s dope that’s what I’m trying to do. Additionally basketball as well. Thanks for the info. Cheers. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Depressed to whitepill, my journey in life and relationships.I actually want to do that as well, for self defense and just fun. What are you training in? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Depressed to whitepill, my journey in life and relationships.I’ve been, haven’t found it yet. I don’t think it’ll be job because while I like the field, not too passionate or feel like that’s what I’m here to do. I think it’ll be family. You found your purpose? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Depressed to whitepill, my journey in life and relationships.Yup. That’s why a lot of people in 3rd world countries are happy despite their shitty situation. Because of their outlook. Even if I never ascend, I’d like to find my purpose in life and just go all in into that. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Depressed to whitepill, my journey in life and relationships.White pill should be the goal. Hell I haven’t even ascended yet and I subscribe to it. Having a positive mindset will have you fare way better than a negative one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:08 PM |
| 3 | If you're a white incel you're either racist or lazyThey reject them? Who’s asking men out? Hardly any female is doing that. Plus again, they have to find them attractive while having realistic standards. Again it seems like you want white incels to find any random girls outside their race just to not be incel. That relationship would be doomed and psychical attraction is still a factor. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 05:19 AM |
| 3 | If you're a white incel you're either racist or lazyShouldn’t incels be able to get with someone they find (realistically) attractive or atleast their looksmax? Physical attraction is a very important factor in relationships. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/10/23 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Do people assume a man is lower status if he marries a black girl?No because you’re a racist against your own race lol. Some black women are ghetto. Some are ugly, fat, loudest. It isn’t something inherent to black women. It’s upbringing. Plenty of black women who aren’t any of those things. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/10/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | [ Removed by Reddit ]*stupid Welcome mate. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | [ Removed by Reddit ]No but the fact you had to ask that says something about to it critical thinking skills. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Theres only 20 Million chads on earthYou can be a Chad without being 6 foot. It really depends on how attractive you are, your frame. Maybe status too but that could be seen as betabux. I think you can reasonably be a Chad if you’re 5’10. Any lower, probably not but there may be exceptions. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 08:08 PM |
| 0 | [ Removed by Reddit ]What the other guy said. Lol what a terrible question. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 07:57 PM |
| -1 | Would you consider a 27 year old tall, bulky, not ugly, virgin, forever single man a gay, weirdo or mentally ill?Judging by your comments, it seems that you’re doing it to yourself. I suggest you go to exposure therapy to help your social skills, and go out more into the world. I feel like alot of above average guys who aren’t ugly but aren’t the most attractive have a distorted view in themselves, so they don’t try in fear of rejection. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | [ Removed by Reddit ]Extremist views tends to do extremist things. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 2 | How and why do tall incels exist?Ugly, no social skills, lack of trying | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Blackpilled During My DateDude girls are just like that for whatever reason. Maybe she’s gay/bi but most likely she’s just a woman admiring another girls look | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 09:41 PM |
| 3 | How young is “too young” to be blackpilled?Honestly under 20 is too young imo. While the black pill is the “truth”, it can make one very pessimistic and induce self sabotage. However, blackpill lite should be encouraged, where it basically it says looks and social skills matter, and so they looksmax in a safe manner. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/10/23 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Which group has it worse in their interactions with the opposite sex?Lol white men can pull w/o trying. The Asian women will make sure of that. Black women aren’t desired too much, even a lot of black men don’t like them. Don’t believe all the shit you see on the internet about women hating white guys. Because chances are, they all are dating one who’s “different from the rest” until they break up. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/10/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women going mask off:Though she could just be calling him ugly due to his politics, when a girl doesn’t have to pretend to be positive, they are very brutal | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 01:03 PM |
| 12 | Not even A chance 😭😤Lmao literally that one meme flirting vs harassment. Seriously dude sorry this happened to you | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not.Yeah that math doesn’t math up | /r/MensRights | 23/02/23 12:08 AM |
| 3 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Developing cancers is a pretty big risk though when taking birth control. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 11:26 AM |
| 3 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Yeah no surgery is 100 percent. Things will always happen. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 11:17 AM |
| 0 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Oral contraceptives are linked to cancer. That’s pretty bad. And no both tubal ligation and vasectomy are very safe. Way safer than birth control. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 11:06 AM |
| -5 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Yes and the surgery is very low risk | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 10:45 AM |
| -6 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Not as bad as birth control | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 08:12 AM |
| 0 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…Birth control side affects are terrible. Plus he doesn’t want any more children so why not | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 07:54 AM |
| 8 | My brother’s wife lied about birth control…A vasectomy would’ve been better than her going on birth control | /r/MensRights | 01/02/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Fear of women after a traumatic experience.And people will still try to attack you because you “compared” women to dogs. We humans are pattern recognition machines. Don’t get why people hoots try and act like we don’t see things that separate us | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Even our fellow man want too see men loseI’m also sick of the, I don’t want to call it a “trend”, but the way everyone jumps on the train whenever someone gets accused of something. Like I remember Kai Censt, a streamer, hosted a party and someone got raped. She messaged him and he took a neutral stand and get her in contact with his lawyer. Yet everyone said he handled the situation poorly. It’s crazy | /r/MensRights | 15/01/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | No remorseThis sub is basically just people being rude to girls now. Shits sad. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 0 | No remorseImagine calling a girl a "thot" or "slut" because she has a cleavage out or sticking her tounge out. Shit has literally no connection. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 22/05/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | the hypocrisy of womenThe double standard came from men in the past. Tough shit. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/05/20 04:45 AM |
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