Nocupofkindnessyet Archive

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2	AA/BB is a Misunderstanding Sounds like men do settle in your reality and it’s for the hottest woman who is willing to let him fuck. If the idea is that men can be happy with any woman, hell women are more or less interchangeable to men as long as they meet a baseline level of attractiveness I would say that men don’t really love their partners either. No one loves each other except providerchad and his stacy, everyone else just coldly tolerates each other for the sake of the kids or the sake of regular pussy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/22 03:20 PM
0	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. I’m not getting into an argument about sex work with you. I think it should be legal. Im just pointing out its controversial. Also it is illegal in parts of Australia and restricted in others. Even if it’s legal though, imo if you personally hire someone for a luxury service knowing they might be trapped into providing it then that’s another level of immoral than just being a bad consumer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 07:44 AM
1	"Niceness" is not as positive as people think, especially in relationships Well, look at who the majority of respondents are in these surveys about women’s dating preferences …oh yeah, its 19 year old psych majors. And they arent making wise choices? Damn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 06:47 AM
1	Most men and women experience the “hoe phase” at different points in life. Men are called immature and dogs when they finally get to experience it for themselves. Yeah, sex work is controversial, that’s why it’s illegal in the USA. The argument is that it increases demand for sex trafficking, which there’s some good evidence for. (You just have to weigh that against the obvious harm it does to jail women for being sex workers…it’s a complicated issue. But the point is, its not all about a distaste for male sluttiness.) Add in sex tourism and you can see while people would find it terribly exploitative, not just “slutty” or whatever. Its a little naïve to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/22 05:26 AM
2	Do you think the fact that the blue pill doesnt have a standard set of beliefs, like the redpill does, hinders any debate here? Is red pill coherent? You can name a bunch of terms but the ideology people have around them is totally different. In this sub alone you have people whining about how they don’t know why red pill is so demonized when it basically just means “attractiveness is important to men’s dating success and men who are struggling should get fit/maximize their attractiveness however possible. People should stop pretending a good personality will get men laid” Then you have men also in here who think red pil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 08:18 AM
2	Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future. Early humans were still social animals as well as being territorial and I think it’s pretty obvious why a female from a species with an arduous childbirth process and very helpless offspring would not want a deadbeat mate. I think evopsych is stupid though and this conversation is a good example of why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 05:03 PM
1	Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future. How quickly we have gone from talking about the empirical studies that were supposed to prove your point to cartoonish fantasies about the cavemen days. Doesn’t even make sense. Apparently cavewomen were attracted to cavemen who were complete antisocial violent maniacs who had no altruistic loyalty to their partner or offspring …because these cavemen were better at procuring resources for their babies. So they're attracted to men who don't give a shit about them or their baby because somehow tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 04:29 PM
1	Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future. Correlation doesn’t prove causation. These studies don’t prove that the increased in sexual success is caused by criminality, and one of them explicitly names a third variable as a possible cause (a gene associated with impulsiveness/reward seeking behavior.) I think its a pretty egregious leap to say this proves all women are attracted to criminality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:48 PM
1	Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future. I think it’s really sad that your takeaway from a study that show that young adults raised by single mothers have “an increased risk of substance use, depression, suicide, poor school performance, and contact with the criminal justice system” is to talk about how these are violent and scary “degenerates” who are going to fuck up society. You’re lumping in kids who smoke at 14 with adult domestic abusers and I just don’t believe thats worthwhile. I don’t see a lot of evidence from you that childr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 03:09 PM
3	How big of a deal breaker is sharing your man? Huge difference between “sharing your husband” and trad polygyny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/22 02:29 PM
2	New study finds that women rate physically disabled men as more attractive than non-disabled men. Even the stupid blog you linked as a source says that small waist size is far more attractive to men, and uses examples of models that are very skinny, just with big boobs. Someone could hurt themselves badly trying to achieve that disproportionately tiny waist. If your idea of average is a literal sex doll than oof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 05:48 PM
2	New study finds that women rate physically disabled men as more attractive than non-disabled men. I don’t think you have a good understanding of the etiology of eating disorders and I wonder if your idea of an average woman is accurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/22 04:53 PM
4	the forsure way you know they desire you is usually during sex I don’t know how red pillers twist men and women both valuing physical attractiveness into some sort of evidence that women are all more shallow or selfish than men. It’s disgusting and nonsensical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 07:35 PM
1	One common issue i’ve seen here is that people tend to treat dating as some kind of equation or formula “ how one treats and views women is seen through the lens of a logical equation and conclusions are made primarily based off observations as if they’re in a controlled lab setting.“ Yes, but most of the conclusions I see here are based off of men’s very subjective interpretations of their personal experience. They arent logical and they aren’t scientific. Most posts here are irrational garbage imitating social science. Its also super contradictory. Women are cold overly emotional sexless horny s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/22 03:01 PM
3	If you expect men to pay on the first date, then you don't get to complain about the wage gap. Onlyfans, really? How many women earn even a living wage from onlyfans?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/22 11:05 PM
1	Women should stop trying to give men dating advice What do you want them to say? “Go get more physically attractive?” Does anyone need that spelled out for them? If someone is fat for instance I assume they’re probably trying to lose weight. They don’t need me bugging them about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 02:36 AM
2	How do people on this sub view queer and gay relationships? Yeah being bi makes all this look stupider. The way men complain on here about dating is so funny. Oh you had to approach someone oh you got ghosted. You’re entitled to your feelings and I don’t want to dunk on anyone for feeling lonely, but people on here will compare that to like, being domestically abused. Also the belief that women are almost all naturally only into masculine men even as with each generation more and more women come out as bi. So many gen z women are bi now, way to many to b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/22 02:15 AM
1	Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negated That’s not nature that’s women being sexist. Plenty of men who have the exact same attitudes towards men or boys they see as “weak”, even their own kids. I’ve seen so many red pillers/ manosphere types call men “beta” or “soyboys” for expressing normal emotions. It’s not natural for anyone. It’s their fucked up ideologies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/06/22 03:15 AM
43	So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible? Sure. They want a virgin who buys into purity culture who also fucks them regularly as kinky as they want and doesn't mind if they watch porn. They want their gfs to never fake attraction to them but also to fuck them if they’re not feeling it because otherwise its mean. They want a woman who doesn’t rely on them for money but who is very submissive and does most of the childcare because otherwise its “unnatural.” They want a woman to never stay in a relationship where she’s settling but also if…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 01:36 AM
1	Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex? Well I don’t like that you’re being mean for no reason but I hope you get help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 06:18 PM
1	Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negated “ I mean when a lot of people that have no idea what TRP is mirror that belief, it's kind of hard to ignore.” “A lot people are saying this” is not a convincing argument. It sounds made up. I continue to find this pov incredibly fringe. Also a lot of people believe women pee out the vagina hole, doesn't make it accurate. Women are human beings who are similar to men in many ways, including the capacity to feel real human feelings just like yours. Women endure bad relationships all the time, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 06:05 AM
1	Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negated Some misogynistic ideas are believed by a lot of women but “women aren’t capable of love to the extent that men are” is not even a common stereotype outside of trp.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/22 05:28 AM
1	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? Dating is not the only context in which people are judgmental about others’ career choices.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 03:14 PM
1	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? Lol, sorry. But really, it’s not only women who are snooty about jobs. Also what country do you live in where emt requires a degree?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:41 PM
1	Why are the professions that society is most reliant on also seem to be the least desirable for a man to have from an attraction standpoint? And why does is it seem so important for a man to have a degree? So many posts here are like “here’s a fundamental problem with society. Why would you do this, women?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:14 PM
1	Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex? Because all those things can glorify binge drinking and abusive relationships, as well as being are very troublingly linked to eating disorders, yes a good parent should talk to their kids about hollywood, magazines and social media. A good parent should provide healthier media to consume and have reasonable rules for their kid. If your main concern about the living human being you’re raising is that she might wear a short skirt or have a high n count as an ADULT (especially if you would congrat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 02:09 PM
0	Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex? I care more about whether a woman is in terrible psychological pain most days of her life than whether she shows too much cleavage or whatever. There’s also plenty of women who are terrified of sex and sexuality because their dads were misogynists. The idea that a good father’s role is to control his daughter’s sexuality in some way is creepy and horrible. Remember how T.I. admitted he’s been forcing his now 18 year old daughter to undergo “virginity checks” for years?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 01:33 PM
2	Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex? I hope you don’t have daughters	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/22 07:17 AM
91	Why do people assume that men that don’t get dates are basement dwelling neck beards? Because this is reddit. Thats just what people think the average redditor is like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 04:45 AM
2	Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say. Regardless what evidence do you have that women are strongly attracted to homeless misogynists over other men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 12:55 AM
1	Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say. But does it happen frequently lol? If op said it happened once then okay, but thats not what was said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/22 12:46 AM
2	Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say. Better than the original post lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 07:51 PM
2	Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say. I thought it was better to link a short summary than the paywalled article although that is here https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1097184X20980789	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 07:49 PM
39	Women LOVE to throw out the classic “it’s not your ____ it’s because you’re a misogynistic asshole” yet misogynistic assholes are consistently the ones getting laid. This alone proves that women are unable to have an honest conversation about dating and discredits anything else they have to say. What? Post evidence. Especially about the homeless thing. Edit: this is only one survey, and it doesnt prove that being feminist causes men to have more sex https://sociology.mcmaster.ca/news/feminist_men_have_more_sex But it seems to contradict your anecdata anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/22 05:38 PM
1	Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason. Thank you for the link :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:59 AM
1	Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason. Post evidence that 30% of the men are having 70% of the sex, even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:51 AM
1	Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason. Pareto principle is 80 20 by definition isn’t it? Its true that there’s no good evidence at all that it applies to dating and its really funny that all the Mr. Facts and stats guys here are convinced it was proven completely true cause they heard a guy here say it once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:46 AM
1	anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrong There’s a lot of well known problems with psych studies, including many posted here. Lack of replicability, difficulty of publishing certain kinds of studies, p-hacking, and extent to which white american undergraduates are overrepresented in psych studies are all common problems. Then there’s all the problems with evolutionary psychology specifically, including difficulty of falsifying hypotheses and uncertainty about the environment in which humans evolved. Also, many posters here are horrible…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:35 AM
1	anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrong “ asking for statistical proof of whether the sky is blue around here” Unironically good and necessary attitude to have in social psychology	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:13 AM
1	anyone here that generalizes a gender is wrong Red pillers call women delusional liars on here for saying they individually differ from some dumb generalization every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/22 03:10 AM
2	Cold approaching is an amazing way to meet partners I think the key to a cold approach is it should ideally be a nice experience for her even if she’s married or gay or whatever. Most people will appreciate a nice conversation with someone’s number offered at the end of it, even if they reject you. Potentially a less demoralizing rejection too, if you got to meet someone new and enjoy a nice moment together. Never at a bus or train station though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 02:04 PM
1	Childfree women - do you split the bill on a date? Idk but if a guy made a big deal about it Id hate that. Maybe thats just me being bipilled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 08:31 AM
1	Strategic pluralism: the scientific name for "alpha fucks beta bucks" None of the studies on this wikipedia page seem to provide evidence of human women actually doing this. Its all just people rating each other on a scale from one to ten or whatever. I don’t understand this being the threshold at which you accept this as a fundamental truth about humanity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/22 06:47 AM
1	Porn has actually freed men more than anything invented before Where are you hearing effort? The porn related complaints I hear are all about like, nonconsensual choking and painful butt stuff.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 07:13 AM
2	Number of sexual partners significantly decreases marriage rates, but only if these partners are recent “The argument is that the prevalence of n count in society is making marriage rates fall.” An argument about causation “Which does follow from how marriage rates have been plummeting now that women are promiscuous.” Correlation, with some pretty obvious possibilities for confounding variables(any variables which might cause both the increased promiscuity and low marriage rates, for instance, shifting social attitudes.) Same with divorce rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/22 06:53 AM
6	Average/below-average women actually want to be asked out in public ?????? Wow	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/22 01:31 AM
1	Do nice guys actually exist? When I was younger I wasn’t good at telling who was actually nice. I let people jerk me around because they were over the top sweet and charming initially, so I brushed off actions that were at odds with their words. I really tried to have limitless kindness and patience, so I believed every excuse. I’m sure some people saw that as me loving jerks but no. I loved the idea of being so nice myself that I didn’t give up on someone for treating me badly, because I just knew deep down they were good …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 04:32 PM
19	The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live in Part of being a HVM is being a good person, so a HVM isn’t using anyone as a cumrag, he’s honest about his intentions and non-exploitative with people in general. I don’t want someone who has a past of treating other people badly, even if I’m the exception. Values are very important. Most men are normal. Most women are normal. Its normal to want a partner with a good personality, and a compatible personality. Personality isn’t completely subjective, but more so than looks. The trope that men onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 03:28 PM
1	Should men really care that much about "slut shaming"? I mean, the stigmatizing lessons taught in abstinence-only sex education don’t slot neatly into the category of “bullying”, and yet they obviously do tremendous harm. For instance, from a talk given by Elizabeth Smart: “I remember in school one time, I had a teacher who was talking about abstinence,” Smart told the panel. “And she said, ‘Imagine you’re a stick of gum. When you engage in sex, that’s like getting chewed. And if you do that lots of times, you’re going to become an old piece of gum,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 02:58 PM
1	Purple pillers, How do you deal with the entitlement mentality from guys in various aspects of rel It’s evopsych which means you just write some fanfiction about the caveman times and whatever it is it proves you’re right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 10:37 AM
3	Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to be Can you post evidence that “20% of men are having 80% of the sex”?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 09:45 AM
4	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. Does a “decent sexual option” mean a guy who actually gets her off? Because I would argue that is not so easy to find, especially with a hookup. Intercourse can also be painful for a lot of women if there isn’t adequate foreplay or lubrication and sometimes even if there is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 09:12 AM
5	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. I think many straight women would enjoy having sex with a random guy who they aren’t that attracted to just as much as you’d enjoy having sex with a man (i.e. not at all). So why call them lucky for having an option that is meaningless to them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 06:00 AM
5	I think there is a fundamental lack of understanding when it comes to women understanding how bad difficult dating is for most men. You could probably go fuck a guy anytime you wanted. What’s that? You literally wouldn’t enjoy it at all so it’s weird to expect you to be grateful for the option? Wow. Interesting. Also I’m happy to listen to my friends’ problems with dating. I’m happy to listen to Average Men, even if they’re not looksmaxing or whatever (I think I’m way nicer to men I’m friends with about dating woes than most red pill guys are.) I’m also happy to hear out most masculine women, feminine men, bi men, any obese …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/22 05:14 AM
5	Would someone that follows RP content be a dealbreaker? 100% dealbreaker, instant date ender, couldn’t even be friends. The self-improvement thing is bullshit to me. It’s like saying you read playboy for the articles. Its literally so easy to find self-improvement stuff that’s not red pill. If you’re consuming rp content its cause you want to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 05:55 AM
1	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. Half the median wage for men in the usa, anyway. Effective minimum wage in usa= 11.80 Median men’s earnings in usa = 57,456.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 09:07 AM
4	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. If he does 50% of housework and takes 50% of responsibility for the kids while they’re home, then sure, but how often does a stay at home mom situation work like that? Even so, paying your wife minimum wage (below market value) for 9.5 hours of work every week is going to add up to about half of most men’s earnings. And the woman still has no sick days, no days off, and the job doesn’t really count as a job for the purposes of getting another one later.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 08:25 AM
6	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. You have to pay babysitters for the entire time that the kids are their responsibility, so if we’re treating mom’s like babysitters, well. Let’s just say your minimum wage idea would be insanely expensive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 07:19 AM
12	If men want to protect their assets in a true 50/50 relationship, they should not expect traditionality from a woman. That’s basically what the feminine mystique said, feminists agree that being a housewife is not constant work. Of course, neither is most office work. The deal is that someone has to watch the kids until they’re school age, and its usually cheaper for the woman to do it vs other childcare options. If a woman does that she’s already taking financial and career damage, for the family’s benefit. Lets say man and woman make equal money, she’s a sahm for seven years and gets rehired to a job with 3/4…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 06:13 PM
1	The main dating problem for women is that they want commitment and relationships from guys who can enjoy the fullest extent of their company without committing What pill is it to believe that men are human beings who are capable of romantic love snd happiness lol?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 05:38 PM
2	Q4W: How easy is it to get free stuff for being a woman One time a man at the bus stop offered me “a free ride to wherever I wanted to go.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 05:22 PM
1	Do Recent Events Involving a Certain Court Case Strengthen Views BPD Women MUST Be Avoided? A Potential Solution Against the Dangers of BPD Women Are you serious about the registry? Its amazing how poorly thought out that is. It would keep people from seeking treatment if there’s any possibility of being diagnosed with it, so anyone struggling with suicidal ideation or self harm is not going to get help. Childhood abuse or molestation is a risk factor for bpd so many people will not disclose that to healthcare professionals either and carry around the pain alone forever. It would force people to put up with bad or abusive, even sexually a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 04:43 PM
1	If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women. This sub…I. Women are literally just people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 06:45 PM
0	TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hate Even a physical abuse victim who does have injuries and is believed and gets therapy right away doesn't have an advantage over you, jesus. Physical abuse comes with its own horrible challenges. Especially if they have burns and broken bones? Just admit it was wrong and a shitty overgeneralization to say that physical abuse victims will heal faster than exclusively emotional abuse victims. “ and ten thousand years of human history showing a complete lack of respect for injured or emotionally vuln…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 08:11 PM
0	TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hate Physical abuse is not always believed (or visible for that matter, especially once the person is safe enough to speak out about it.) For one thing, for anyone who tries to defend themselves it will be their word against their abusers as to who started it. Physical abuse victims are generally also victims of emotional abuse, (gaslighting, blame for the physical abuse, et cetera) and also internalize blame. Healing is not as simple as you’re making it out to be, either. Ptsd doesn’t just work like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 05:59 PM
1	TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hate Is casual sex going to solve their loneliness? I never understood that part of the red pill. If you’re just fulfilling biological needs, can’t some good quality toys do as well, or nearly as well? The best part of casual sex is the human connection, but how will guys who are contemptuous of women (view them as overgrown teenagers, ect.) be anything but dissapointed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:42 PM
0	TRP and FDS both seem to really hate men and women, yet they still want the very people they hate Imagine thinking that intentionally inflicting physical injuries on women doesn’t cause them severe lasting emotional damage. This sub is so so nasty and ignorant about domestic violence	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:20 PM
1	“My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for men Women don’t always have the choice of whether to force the man to pay if they’re living in poverty with their child. In some states women will not get benefits unless they’ve gone to great lengths to try to chase down their kids’ father and get child support from him even if he’s too poor for his money to do much good or the mom doesn’t want him involved in any capacity. Child support for a child the father doesn’t want should be the responsibility of a robust welfare state, not individual peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/22 03:48 PM