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ConversationNofapdeity/r/seduction28/06/21 06:03 PM
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Rant/VentingNofapdeity/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:06 AM
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Because he took the advice and it didn’t work
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:53 PM
1

She’s been giving you handjobs fingering and other stuff. That’s not a virgib
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:58 PM
2

She’s giving him handjobs, getting fingered, etc. I find it low key disrespectful when a girl like that calls herself a virgin. Like nah, I’m a virgin. Never kissed or done anything sexual. That’s a virgin. Can’t suck 100 dicks and call yourself a virgin
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:05 AM
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She’s not a virgin let’s be real.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:01 AM
1

What will satisfy me is making 100k+ off of stocks with my current 1k and living my own life. I will one day be old and crippled but will be happy knowing I succeeded and had power
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:54 PM
1

Same and I’m buying puts on MATCH (owner of tinder) because fuck that shit company
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 06:39 PM
4

It worked for me
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:37 AM
9

Go over to WSB. Become a degenerate stock gambler investor and you’ll never think of wanting a gf again.
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:30 AM
5

This is one of the most retarded posts on Reddit I’ve ever seen, and the other day I just read about someone losing 17k in plant futures. Of all role models… you choose the edgy meme lord? Filthy Frank did care about his image. That’s why he completely reinvented himself and started making music under the name Joji. Yea, they’re the same person.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:04 PM
3

I rather be financially better off than a “man”. Chill with your parents for a year or 2, then go
/r/seduction16/01/22 03:38 PM
1

Vegas? There’s that guy on here that always posts Vegas FR’a and it sounds solid
/r/seduction12/01/22 04:58 PM
1

That’s the thing, there isn’t.
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:04 AM
9

Yeah the pendulum will swing back when I’m fucking 50
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:06 PM
1

100%. Money = status Even when college aged girls are on tinder, they notice if the guy goes to a “rich” school. Status = money
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:56 PM
68

Be a sigma. Fuck your wifes boyfriend
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:55 PM
1

A lot of people use tinder at college man, it’s the way things are in 2021. Trust me I don’t like it much but literally everyone’s on it.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 05:26 AM
1

Should I just relapse on fapping then?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 05:07 AM
8

Only if those women are hot
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:36 PM
1

I’ve been “improving” for years, I lift regularly and workout probably twice as hard as most of the guys here
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:36 PM
1

Off an on yea. The first time I saw this sub was 5 years ago
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:23 PM
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I don’t put women on the pedestal, if anything I treat them the opposite. Throw them away quickly if they annoy me
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:22 PM
1

Thanks for the response, this really helps. With this post I was looking for this type of guidance. I think I just wanna bang women to have the experience but at the same time I want an emotional connection with them, so to me casual hookup would solve the problem but not entirely.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:20 PM
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Yeah I just made it at the end of college so I’ll have to wait until next semester to actually meet up with them. My home area tinder sucks. I’m not sure how I get matches, my tinder is trash and I have no bio
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:16 PM
1

Yeah it didn’t help young me it just was a slap to the face tbh
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:14 PM
1

I’m not afraid of rejection, I’ve been rejected many times. You said a lot about me without knowing anything about me
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:13 PM
0

Sounds like a great way for me to relapse tbh. I’d bring out the p
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:54 AM
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Seems like us guys can’t win 100%. It’s take your path and enjoy the ride, but there would’ve always been another path to take
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:53 AM
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I’m in the west, that sounds interesting
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:35 AM
3

Very interesting perspective
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:34 AM
13

I don’t think TRP offers us a point, if anything, this is a place that confirms that women are opportunists and sexually hypergamous… and that’s it This is the answer I was looking for. Your whole comment pretty much answers my question, thanks man
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:32 AM
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Yea, I downloaded tinder right before I left college and I had alot of likes, I think I’ll be using it next semester
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:29 AM
1

Nah I feel that, I’m low key the same way but I wanna get rid of it
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:29 AM
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I don’t browse the forums too often, I was close once (I did all the steps you just said) but I was a little too drunk and didn’t escalate. Like I said in my edit man, I’m no basement dweller, I think I’ve just been unlucky
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah I was a bit worried about this phenomenon, you think I should just pmo for health reasons?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 05:26 AM
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I’m already in monk mode. I lift, and I’m on day 130 of NOFAP.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:32 AM
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I already beat NOFAP. I am on day 130. I made a tinder at college before I left and I was already matching with hot girls with minimal effort on my end. Here’s the thing, I’m attractive. I just don’t put my attractiveness to use I guess 0-20 could happen
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:24 AM
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The only thing that makes me happier is money. I literally love money and would take $1m over a girlfriend
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:21 AM
1

I’m already a martial artist with years of experience
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:20 AM
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My ultimate goal of life is power and wealth. I want to be at least a millionaire. I spend hours a day on my phone trying to trade stocks and understand the market, I’m an extreme capitalist. And you’re right about my first sentence, I just mean I’ve been active and inactive on the sub Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 02:20 AM
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You’re absolutely right, I think it’s just the lack of intimacy and also emotional connection that gets to me rather than just the act of sex. I never had that gf at 16-20 to look back to. Ya feel?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:44 AM
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It’s a big deal because everyone around me seems to get it but me
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:37 AM
4

There are also plenty of married people in their 50z
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:34 AM
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I just read the post on here called “Women Don't Want to Grow With You. They Are Waiting at The Finish Line, When You Have it All. Important Reminder.” That post was very much how old school trp was. I’m not sure if you were around this sub in early 2017, but it was very, you’re either alpha or beta. Betas lose and alphas win.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:32 AM
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I tried this college semester, I really did. I went out almost every weekend with friends, I went out to bars and clubs. Sadly I failed. It’s very difficult to pull women in the club when the music is blasting and there’s no way to talk I only have 1 more college semester left, part of me just wants to get as many bodies as possible even though I have 0. Like go from 0 to 20 in 3 months
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:12 AM
2

Young guys get rejected falsely? How and why would a girl do this?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 01:00 AM
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Money matters more than almost anything
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 12:32 AM
0

What are we supposed to do then? Cope and live single for ever?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 12:29 AM
2

It’s called being in a capitalist society. Either reap the benefits or cope that it’s unfair. Life is unfair, we just have to do our best
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 12:00 AM
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Young women want the tinder, older women want “real Men”
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 11:59 PM
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Our only option is to play the capitalist game. Get rich as fuck, and lift with consistency. Be a chad loner if you have to. What you described is a capitalist look to the dating world. Either be a top 10% man or cope. Honestly, I’m only 21 and I’m not top 10%. If I can be networth $1M by the time I’m 25, I can be top 10%.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/21 11:58 PM
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Yep it’s over. Looks matter more than ANYTHING else and it’s simply a fact.
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:29 PM
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Try to tell them the girls are cute and to man the fuck up and approach them
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:29 PM
2

I simply don’t give a fuck.
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:25 PM
1

Instagram is slowly dying.
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:11 PM
1

You shouldn’t need software for this
/r/seduction10/12/21 03:26 PM
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It’ll be over for me at 30 if I’m not experienced by then. I only have 9 years
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:32 AM
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What? I’m 21m virgin. Buddy you’re miles ahead of me
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:32 AM
2

Yes people just cope by thinking it isn’t
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:45 PM
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I’ll fuck your wife to spice things up
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:25 AM
8

You fuck your wife
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:02 AM
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Probably. The shitty that never sleeps
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:22 AM
1

The drive home is suspicious
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:05 AM
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I did many cold approach this semester, failed every time
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:05 AM
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What is a unicorn women?
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:04 AM
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I’m from America lol
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:15 PM
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Maybe I should move to south asia
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:31 PM
1

Go around and tell the world you’re a virgin see how far it gets you
/r/seduction01/12/21 07:39 PM
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her purse/backpack was in my way so I just kicked it into the corner Sigma mindset.
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:42 PM
1

That’s a hot take, everyone here says the opposite
/r/seduction01/12/21 03:41 PM
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To be honest he has a point man. I’m the same age as him.
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:16 AM
1

Wow.
/r/seduction01/12/21 06:06 AM
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Not sure Tbh
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:29 PM
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No idea. She even texted me saying she had a lot of fun the night I met her
/r/seduction30/11/21 04:43 PM
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After the initial approach. I usually am able to get the number but it fizzles out after that
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:42 AM
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I’m white and get nothing so…
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:43 PM
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So how can I be not self limiting?
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:18 AM
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Because approaching isn’t my sole purpose and I’m a very independent person with high standsrds
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:15 AM
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Interesting. I’m not big on online dating so I don’t have tinder or bumble
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:07 AM
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Same but it’s been a lot longer than a year and I’m a kissless virgin.
/r/seduction29/11/21 12:29 AM
1

It’s a display of confidence and a witty thing to say
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:07 PM
0

I can’t find the middle ground for this. Any advice?
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:13 PM
1

Yeah I just don’t particularly give enough of a fuck about people to talk to 5 of them at the same time.
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:24 PM
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That is the only nice guy trait I have. I find it hard to find the mental space to talk to 5 girls at once. Seems like a waste to me
/r/seduction27/11/21 04:31 AM
2

That’s exactly what I said in my original comment t
/r/seduction26/11/21 05:06 PM
-8

He’s alpha. He managed to see her walking her dog and turn it into a fuck session
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:52 AM
-2

It’s because you don’t give a fuck about her issues which is ok. She’s not your girlfriend or your wife. You just fucked a few times. Why would you care about her family issues?
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:15 AM
-12

You were too alpha. Sometimes you need to mix in some emotional support. She needed the emotional support but you basically showed her she’s only good for sex
/r/seduction26/11/21 02:08 AM
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That’s exactly what I was going for
/r/seduction25/11/21 10:32 PM
2

I have had good results with it. I’ve always been really skinny and borderline underweight. I managed to gain a little weight, and I can pull a lot more weight than when I first started. It’s not as much as other people can do, but I don’t like to compare myself to others in the gym. For example, I’m not deadlifting 400lbs. But considering where I started, I’m very pleased by my results.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:54 PM
0

There are plenty of other CrossFit workouts. It’s an excellent way to stay in shape. Because you can’t argue against me, you go into my post history. Typical. Probably got mad that I said to stay away from feel good commercial gyms. Enjoy your planet fitness pizza parties
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:43 PM
-1

Go do Murph and come back and say that again.
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:33 PM
1

How small are we talking? I’m in a small town too and there’s still gyms
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:40 PM
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Do you work out at all? I recommend you go to a tough gym. CrossFit, powerlifting, or bodybuilding. Not the commercial planet fitness that the girls go to take mirror selfies and run the treadmill for 10 minutes. These types of gyms will bring you confidence and masculinity
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:35 PM
53

Make eye contact, and start doing push ups.
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:27 PM
3

Wow. This was very detailed. I think I have dismissive avoidant type attachment. Any advice? I’m 21m
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:16 PM
3

It’s not beta. The whole point is that it’s you vs your boss. Your boss can easily shut your shit down if you step out of line
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 03:35 AM
1

Yes. It’s an excellent book and has loads of historical knowledge in it. I may have to read it again over my college break
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 03:33 AM
3

They just use simps to fulfill their emotional needs
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 01:33 AM
2

You forgot about simps. Simps fulfill the emotional aspects of the boyfriend experience while the other guy fucks her. Lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/21 01:31 AM
1

Don’t do it. Women never help guys like us. I have plenty of female friends and in the past I have hinted at the fact I’m single, they have never mentioned any single friends
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:27 AM
2

I have a few female friends. They are useless in this regard
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:26 AM
1

I do all these and still get none. Lol
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:21 AM
1

How do you see yourself as a sexual being?
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:11 AM
1

I tried. I went out almost every weekend to the bars this semester. It’s cope. The club plays music so loud you can’t talk to anyone. Bars are pretty much the same. I got close once but I tried man… nothing worked.
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:08 AM
2

You’re downvoted but it’s facts. If you’re not in a frat or have high social status it’s over for you
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:05 AM
1

I’m absolutely fucked then. May as well yolo my life savings into stocks because I won’t need to buy anything for a girl
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:04 AM
0

Yes it is
/r/seduction25/11/21 01:01 AM
1

My suggestion is to pick up a masculine hobby like hitting the gym. Not just a commercial gym. I’m talking CrossFit, powerlifting, etc. A garage type gym that has a masculine vibe where you’ll toughen the fuck up and learn to man up and finish the the workout
/r/seduction21/11/21 01:39 AM
1

Lmao dude. We all start somewhere, but you will have shit photos to start out with. It’s just the nature of picking up something new. I had shit photos at first. Horrible lighting. I grew as a photographer and 2 years later I’m pretty good
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:43 AM
1

Messaged you some info I didn’t wanna put in the comments
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:40 AM
2

I could do like $40 for a shoot. Low enough for broke college kids to afford, and enough for me as a college kid to get drunk at the bar. For the gear I have that’s a fucking steal, and it would benefit me having another thing to add to my portfolio. Not a bad idea man
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:31 AM
2

The guy is already fucking jacked
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:14 AM
1

It’s when girls say you r***d them (most cases are the guys fault, sometimes the girl just regrets it and is lying). No matter the situation, if you get me’tood it’s game over for you
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:13 AM
1

Dude you’re fucking jacked it should be easy for you
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:11 AM
1

It’s not just the camera but also the skill. Your first pictures will be awful and you’ll be laughed at for charging that much for shit quality.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:48 AM
1

You charge that much? Shit I may have to start offering this as a service at my college. I have photography experience and a camera
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:46 AM
2

Just wanted to add something, if you do shoot in RAW or C-RAW you will have to edit your photos in Lightroom or another photo editing app. If you use them with no edit they won’t look nearly as good. Play with the settings and try it out . Second, I have a very nice mirrorless camera and lenses. I know how to take a photo. But I would never give it to my friend and expect them to take a picture unless they knew how to beforehand. I’d have to teach them and most would just come out blurry. I also…
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:43 AM
0

Honestly it sounds like she was trying to make him jealous and that’s why she was all over you last night. Looks like it worked
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:36 AM
2

I’m tall and still get nothing lmaoo
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:10 AM
27

Go for it please this is your opportunity
/r/seduction15/11/21 05:27 AM
2

More people meet online these days by statistics
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:30 PM
2

Look up “CrossFit gym near me” and check it out. If that doesn’t speak to you, look up “powerlifting gym near me”
/r/seduction14/11/21 09:30 PM
2

Work? They say don’t crap where you eat
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:57 PM
1

Go to a tough masculine gym in your area. Powerlifting, CrossFit, or bodybuilding. Go for the box gym in the back of a garage. These are the gyms that will toughen you up. Stay away from commercial gyms
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:38 PM
1

Can you grow any facial hair besides the goatee?
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:37 PM
2

Your field reports are always a fun read
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:36 PM
2

Yeah fr not every guy that doesn’t get laid is an “incel”.
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:32 PM
10

Those 50 year olds met their wives 30 years ago before tinder and online dating and social media they aren’t a good example
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:26 PM
1

21 kissless virgin here. You’re not alone buddy
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:20 PM
1

Congratulations and fuck you
/r/seduction14/11/21 07:16 PM
1

It’s impossible if you’re like me and have never had a girl interested and succeed
/r/seduction11/11/21 01:26 AM
1

How do you even stay hopeful with that kind of mentality? I don’t have the drive to give a fuck about women and competition
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:23 AM
1

Don’t let other girls know you’re a virgin
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:35 AM
1

What is the treatment you use?
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:30 PM
3

Lazy but efficient
/r/seduction07/11/21 10:24 PM
4

I’m questioning why you want to remain so mysterious?
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:15 PM
3

After reading this, I am DEFINITELY not a nice guy. Thanks for the good description.
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:39 AM
4

You should’ve asked her
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:25 AM
3

It’s because when us guys read this we picture us doing it with the girl we like
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:57 PM
1

Can I ask why don’t you drink?
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:03 PM
1

Because read your post from a 3rd person point of view
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:25 AM
5

She’s literally toying with you and you’re falling for it. Reject this girl.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:25 AM
1

Interesting. May have to invest more time in calling. I hate being on the phone with people I haven’t really interacted with irl, but I can try I also can’t sit still during calls/face time and need to do something else
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:00 PM
1

Drinking is fine as long as you aren’t using it too much or to cope emotionally. Also never drink alone
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:58 PM
3

He’s bullshitting you. I “stopped trying” and I’m 21 and a virgin. If you stop trying nothing will ever happen because you’re a guy and expected to make the first move
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:57 PM
2

If she sees him romantically/sexually but he doesn’t feel the same it can get bad. Girls will literally call him gay over it ( not joking, it’s happened to me Before)
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:56 PM
2

Talk to her a little & then see if she wants to go on a date
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:54 PM
3

Just tell him you’re meeting a friend if you want to be nice. If you want to be mean, tell him at least I’m not working right now. (I don’t recommend this)
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:52 PM
1

As long as you were drunk too you should’ve called her
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:22 PM
9

Different culture, I’ve read that people there don’t do it
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:52 PM
2

Just never reveal the fact that you’re a kissless virgin
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:36 AM
1

Lmao facts people here are ruthless I’m stop browsing this sub for a while
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:02 AM
2

Good to hear the female perspective I think I’ll take your advice.
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:01 AM
2

Yea I also hate when people ask a question here (in this case it was me) and mfs have the audacity to assume you have no life.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:58 AM
7

Thanks for having my back, I saw the downvotes and was kinda surprised.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:52 AM
0

See here’s the thing a lot of young people use the app to send selfies and texts back and forth. It basically lets people keep in touch with you casually. Nerds on Reddit think you should never text a woman besides when asking her out and that’s just stupid that’s how you never hear from a girl again because others are talking to her on snap
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:48 AM
3

I know everyone says “talk to more girls and you won’t have this issue” I just get drained texting like 5 girls at once I barely give enough fucks to text 1 like how am I supposed to keep 5 on my phone. I normally do night game, so this date stuff isn’t really my thing in the first place. That’s why I came here for advice.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:44 AM
1

I’m not obsessing I’m just a little confused, I don’t go on many dates so this kinda stuff is new to me. I am way more concerned with other things… trust me there are far more important matters I have to watch with great interest. I won’t get into it but I’m sure you understand.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:42 AM
1

She’s not simping me lmao I’m not a fucking simp. I haven’t done anything simp like
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:37 AM
1

I don’t even know what sexual dimorphism is to be honest. Fake or not I don’t really care, that was the excuse. I just wondering what my plan of action should be. I’ll figure it out
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:33 AM
3

I could go for some food.
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:32 AM
1

Fair enough. On the low I feel like some girls just expect the guy to do 100% of the work no matter what, so I feel like if I wait it’ll never happen
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:31 AM
1

Buy high sell low
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:27 AM
-8

It’s motivating for 40 year olds who use Facebook. Shit doesn’t work in college lmao
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:22 AM
0

This is probably the best advice here ong
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:19 AM
2

I’ve never sent her a specific picture of me with girls but she’s seen me with other girls on my story
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:18 AM
1

Facts, this wasn’t that important I was just wondering why the mixed signals u feel
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:16 AM
-5

Bro tf you mean preparing for days? You’re the type of guy to tell a chick you love her on day 2 lmao
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:15 AM
-1

I didn’t get ghosted, if anything I can ghost her
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:13 AM
-2

I’ll be real with you bro I don’t care that much I just wanted to know what the best route to take is since I was getting mixed signals I’m not tryna “confess” how I feel. That’s weird
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:13 AM
-1

I don’t text like that irl. I barely text
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:12 AM
-9

I’m Chad low key
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:11 AM
2

Fair enough thanks
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:11 AM
0

This is only how I act on Reddit
/r/seduction28/10/21 06:11 AM
0

I have similar issues. I have extreme overconfidence on alcohol which allows me to pursue much easier
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:14 AM
2

Think so? I never heard this excuse so I imagined it was genuine. You’re pretty certain it was fake?
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:11 AM
6

Lmao fucking hell. Such a weird thing, I may as well ask for that girls number. If she wants to reject me, her friend may be looking for a rebound
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:06 AM
3

If you respond like that you sound like a butt hurt guy who’s insecure. OP responded a lot better.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:58 AM
2

How often do they reach out to you if you ghost them? Because I’ve done it your way before and I usually never hear from them again. Horrible ROI.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:48 AM
0

To me her excuse sounded very legit over text because it was too random to be fake. I am a good liar, and if I wanted to flake I’d just say I’m not feeling well or that I have a lot of hw due tomorrow. Things that could not easily be proven. If she thought I was lame with no balls, why did she agree to the date then? I’m not texting her words every day by the way, it’s just selfies back and forth. Very casual. I have been told by my friends in my generation that if I don’t do this, they lose int…
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:42 AM
-11

So you suggest ghosting her, interesting
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:36 AM
-2

I already am. While I’ve been replying to you I wrote a paper. I am excellent at multitasking and using words
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:27 AM
-1

What did you expect as a response? You basically said I had no life. I don’t understand why you’re so surprised I told you that. It’s not a need for approval it’s just genuinely answering what you asked.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:23 AM
0

Your question was why don’t you have things going on. So I responded telling you that I do have things going on, and I described what I do in detail so you know I’m not bullshitting you.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:20 AM
-4

Your insecurity and need for approval are painful. Why are you trying to prove yourself to me, an anonymous person on the internet? You literally asked me why don’t I have things going on in my life, no? I’m not looking for your approval, I’m telling you what I do on a daily basis and that I do have things going on. There’s no insecurity there, I’m just answering your question.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:16 AM
-8

I do have plenty of things going on in my life. Let me tell you some of them. I watch the stock market with extreme interest all day. I also go on various forums to watch how people are discussing the stocks I am interested in. This is my favorite pastime. I am lucky the markets aren’t 24/7 otherwise I would be even more addicted to my phone than I already am. I go to the gym, I also help run a club on campus (I’m in college). I also go to class, have hw to do, and cook. I also have an active so…
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:07 AM
5

Fair enough. I just over think the fact she said yes with great enthusiasm but sort of rejected me, it just seems weird to me.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:58 AM
2

Will do. I have a pretty active social life here at college, I’ll make sure to post a little more on my story this week especially for Halloween. I noticed she views my stories pretty quickly too. Basically I need to present myself on Snapchat/Instagram as a cool guy.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:45 AM
10

I don’t think it was a fake excuse due to the fact it was so random. So you think I should still show interest and not ghost her… interesting
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:32 AM
3

How could I flip it around? She seemed low interest, but when I asked her out she seemed higher interest. Now she’s low interest again I guess? Also, it’s not like I’m head over heels for this girl. We had agreed on a date so I was expecting a response to my question from her. How do I flip this around? In the end, I’ll probably just end up talking to girls at the bar instead but I’m curious
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:25 AM
11

Wow. Excellent post. I usually approach and text women with the “expecting the worst” mentality because it allows me to stay emotionally unattached to the situation. Next time I will think the opposite
/r/seduction28/10/21 12:04 AM
1

15M I laughed when I read this. Seriously, just get a girlfriend asap. Get experience under your belt so you’re more confident and have experience to relate to. I’m 21, kissless virgin. I have it on extreme difficulty
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:58 PM
5

Why do you care? Ghost her
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:18 PM
2

Definitely. You guys have a social status most don’t
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:17 PM
1

I would not be guilty.
/r/seduction26/10/21 03:57 PM
1

Look at this last paragraph
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:19 AM
4

You’re right. I did sales at my retail job. It was so easy to make sales. I can never get dates
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:11 AM
1

Just fuck prostitutes at that point. Pay for sex. It’s guaranteed and guess what you won’t need to put any work in besides money. Fuck 100 different prostitutes and you have yourself a triple digit body count. If you’re worried about morality, shut the fuck up because I read the post he doesn’t care about morals
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:09 AM
1

I have the years after college where I’ll be a wage slave for the rest of my life.
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:31 AM
1

I don’t think you’re a narcissist because narcissists only give a fuck about themselves. They are generally good at luring women in. So you are 90% not a narc
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:07 AM
1

Ok this I relate to a lot. I am very unemotional and I never expose myself to anyone. It’s just how I’ve always been. Just recently I was supposed to go on a date, she canceled for genuine reasons. I texted her to reschedule today and she hasn’t responded it’s been hours. I’m quickly losing interest in her and I’m about to just ghost her because I’m not playing games.
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:01 AM
3

I also have issues like op, but I am not narcissistic. I try very hard not to be, because my parents are sort of narcs. They’ve mellowed out in recent times but my childhood they were very narcissistic. I don’t get jealous of other guys, I just accept that as fact and move on with my life. I don’t give enough fucks to pursue hard enough to be “top guy”. Like you said I rather not be in the roster. I don’t have jealous but more indifference.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:45 PM
1

I have female friends but not once have they helped me get girls, they are useless in that regard
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:31 PM
2

Why would being a narcissist matter to OP? How does narcissist play a role into this?
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:30 PM
1

You don’t need therapy because you’re absolutely right.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:30 PM
12

Yep. Fucking 21 years never a girls first choice. So OP is right. If she’s not fucking you, she’s fucking someone else.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:25 PM
8

People automatically assume guys who don’t get laid are fat as fuck eating junk food in their moms basement 24/7 with no life
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:22 PM
10

It’s true though, he’s right. He’s literally right. If she’s not with you, she’s with someone else. There’s no story, it’s just your life. It’s how it is, you can either choose to accept it like me and OP or be naive to the fact your crush is talking to 5+ other guys
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:21 PM
7

I have the same issue, it’s funny you post this because I was going to post something very similar. I’m 21 and I could’ve easily wrote this. I’ve either been rejected, or we agree on a date and circumstances outside my control stop the date from happening. Sometimes it’s on her end, other times mine. It’s a literal joke at this point. I can’t seem to ever not be single. I have a feeling I will be single for life at this point.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:20 PM
1

My guy, if you’re in your late 20s, you’re not a zoomer. Also, I think you’re talking about specific people rather than the age group. There’s assholes in ever generation.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:56 PM
1

I’m a zoomer. Our generation is just used to instant culture. Tinder, hookups, etc. I’m not an average “zoomer”. I don’t use tinder, don’t really fw hookups.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:48 PM
4

I think you’re exaggerating it a little tbh.
/r/seduction24/10/21 09:33 PM
1

Just dealt with something similar, tease her very lightly and then ask about it. Show her your soft side
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:52 PM
1

Kinda like Joe Goldberg
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:49 PM
2

Women get approached a lot more than you think. So they don’t give a fuck about the “universe” giving them opportunity. You and I care about that because we don’t get 20 opportunities a day
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:40 PM
10

She has a boyfriend not a husband. You’re definitely more immoral than most guys. I am too. I don’t particularly give a fuck if she has a boyfriend. I know guys wouldn’t give a shit if I was the bf. Either play hard or get out. Not that I even approach girls with boyfriends often, but if this happened to me we would’ve been hooking up.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:28 PM
2

Don’t even mention it then. I wouldn’t mention it especially right away.
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:25 PM
0

Bro what the fuck is a cock carousel.
/r/seduction24/10/21 05:57 PM
15

Sounds weird that she wants to either move in or break up. Like if you’re thinking of breaking up why would the other suggest be move in. Seems suspicious
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:38 AM
2

For sure. I’ve seen some of the same. Mf start a family instead you’re 28
/r/seduction23/10/21 02:57 PM
1

I’m not going to a bar it’s okay. Either way the college bars around here are not romantic.
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:15 PM
1

She can’t go to bars.
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:59 PM
2

Luckily I have that vaccine
/r/seduction20/10/21 09:51 PM
11

You can get vaccine for cancer now?
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:40 PM
1

It’s really not a big deal
/r/seduction19/10/21 02:16 AM
-2

Yea sounds like he’s pissed. Just play it cool man, it’s not big deal
/r/seduction19/10/21 12:01 AM
13

Bro just called this dude out holy shit lmao
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:47 PM
2

I could maybe do 2 rounds max, my dick needs time to recharge
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:41 PM
2

If you’re still talking and flirting a lot I think you’re ok. If you fucked her it may have been a different story
/r/seduction17/10/21 05:39 PM
1

I’m in college so I watch the stock market 24/7, go to class when needed and I also drink
/r/seduction17/10/21 09:36 AM
8

If he doesn’t want you to go for her then yes. If she goes for you, all bets are off. He got rejected.
/r/seduction16/10/21 09:11 PM
2

You’re the guy from Vegas right? Idk why you got downvoted your field reports are always solid
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:12 PM
1

No because weed actually increases social anxiety, especially for me. It does for a lot of people too. Notice the stereotype of stoners being in the moms basement, that’s because they don’t get out much.
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:34 PM
0

Tell him you had no idea, don’t want to fight and were just trying to help. Tell him straight up I’m not fighting you, I wanted you to know straight up
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:33 PM
1

Never say anything about it, I would lie if I were you
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:30 PM
1

Looks when they’re young, money when they are 30+ probably. Depends on the stage of life
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:29 PM
3

No problem man, you’ve got a lot of confidence for doing what you did. Now just apply it to new girls
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:05 PM
0

No problem, and I’d say I was pretty close to getting my first kiss a couple weeks ago. I also understand the “pain” you are talking about. I have similar issues, but I keep it to myself and tell absolutely nobody about my inexperience. I will lie if I get cornered about it. None of my friends have questioned my experience at college because they see me approach and get numbers. So they probably assume I can pull. I probably could’ve gotten my first kiss a few weeks ago while I was drunk but dru…
/r/seduction15/10/21 09:04 PM
3

Listen im just like you, kissless virgin. Except now you’re not kisssless. Never tell girls you’re a kissless virgin dude. It’s a girl repellent. Notice how she said you needed to work on confidence, you never want to do that again ok. Good thing this was a tinder date and nothing too crazy. Most girls our age are experienced and want an experienced man. Keep it to yourself that you’re inexperienced at all costs.
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:48 PM
5

I asked my girl best friend out about 3 years ago I think? I did it very suddenly and I was kinda stupid for doing it the way I did. I got rejected just like you, and we stayed friends. I lost most of my feelings for her after that, asking her out helped me lose feelings. I wasn’t too bothered by it. Fast forward to today, we’re still friends. I hang out with her fairly often. I think deep down she liked me at one point but she’ll never say it. I’ll also never ask her out again. Nothing will eve…
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:24 PM
3

Yes he should’ve but he should also be going for girls his age and not almost a full decade older
/r/seduction15/10/21 08:15 PM
1

Yeah I don’t get it like I just slid into this girls dms she won’t wanna hang out within 1 text
/r/seduction14/10/21 04:04 AM
1

I just dm’d this girl for the first time what else am I supposed to do
/r/seduction14/10/21 12:23 AM
1

How do I “logistics” a new girl I never talked to before. Yeah imma just ask a girl out with no background info she’s definitely gonna say no
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:55 PM
1

Congratulations and fuck you
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:31 PM
16

Yeah well here’s the thing I’m 21 in college not 35. Girls my age text and use social media. How tf am I supposed to ask a girl out that I just dm’d
/r/seduction13/10/21 09:31 PM
1

I rather be an ape over at r/wallstreetbets than an ape on r/tinder
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:30 AM
0

Because they think the people reading them have absolutely no social skills and sit in their moms basement 24/7 lol
/r/seduction11/10/21 02:26 AM
0

Nah it’s actually true, it’s a different culture than us Americans know
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:44 AM
2

For a lot of people yes. Get off of cigs
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:45 AM
16

No they don’t need to. They only try if they really like the guy
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:44 AM
9

Yes it’s the perfect place to
/r/seduction07/10/21 03:42 AM
0

You need to have confidence and go in with aggressiveness, I have a college group chat about seduction, I am adding you right now because we all do this and we can give each other pointers
/r/seduction02/10/21 09:24 PM
1

Are you in college? Just wondering
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:03 PM
1

Yeah most of those books are completely trash just approach women and read the sub for real field reports
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:08 PM
1

However many shots you need to take Just kidding. Approach more & it’ll help.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:08 PM
1

I invited you to the group
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:47 PM
1

You want to be chatted?
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:18 PM
8

She definitely has other friends for you to get with. Don’t discount female friends, some guys here will bullshit you with grr guys and girls can’t be friends! Nah. I have plenty of girls that are my friends. Don’t discount them.
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:58 AM
2

That sucks. Here’s the thing though… she isn’t single
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:54 AM
4

Lmao not this again, I told you to let this go because it’s long distance please just start talking to girls in your area. You’re literally writing a post because she said hey
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:42 AM
2

This is somewhat me but also my avoidant attachment style does not let me emotionally attach to anyone.
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:36 AM
5

That’s great, maybe go for her friend instead
/r/seduction02/10/21 03:34 AM
1

I chatted you
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:43 AM
1

Bet
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:40 AM
8

Dude it’s because you awkwardly approached her with a weird complement, I’m gonna chat you, we can talk about approaching at college
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:53 AM
1

Always love your posts. Good shit
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:25 PM
1

That sounds like a horrible idea, I hope you have a better job now at least
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:32 PM
1

45 days? That’s already a month and a half. Some guy met her at the bar last weekend and made out with her in an hour while you’re laser focused on messages. This is just the reality of things dude, you need to either play the real life game or you’ll lose. Long distance almost never works out, I’m only helping you.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:53 AM
1

You belong on r/wallstreetbets this is not financial advice
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:50 AM
1

Yes but it’s time for you to learn how to project your voice and masks will help with that
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:49 AM
1

Guess what, you need to stop this long distance crap. It won’t help you. Either go drive and get with her or stop texting her
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:48 AM
0

Just be kind. “What’s up!” You don’t want to get into any altercation.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:43 AM
2

Myth. I’ve had girls who use the “heyyy” and end up never going out. Don’t read too much to it.
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:41 AM
1

Are you a college student ?
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:40 AM
1

Get off tinder and approach girls on your college campus. That’s what I do, you will stand out compared to all the other pussies who need dating apps
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:37 AM
-2

This is seduction, he wants to bang women why shouldn’t he try
/r/seduction29/09/21 04:45 AM
3

I don’t understand why you don’t go for guys your age.
/r/seduction29/09/21 04:26 AM
2

Those are all super expensive, I’m college student. If I get rich through stocks I will get this don’t worry.
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:09 PM
1

I’d say a solid 7.5 or an 8/10. I would be a 9/10 if I wasn’t balding. There’s nothing I can do about it, and it does bring me down a point.
/r/seduction28/09/21 06:58 AM
1

Why wouldn’t you just talk to him lmao why did you think he was gay what the fuck
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:45 PM
2

Dude it’s so much fun once you get used to it
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:18 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:34 AM
1

Are you older?
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:14 AM
1

Pregame
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:44 PM
1

Most guys don’t because they are pussys. I’ve done it before on my college campus.
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:34 PM
0

Get drunk and do night game stop being nervous
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:33 PM
1

So night game is going out to bars, getting drinks and night time activities. Generally it involves drinking. Day game is meeting girl out in the day time in a public spot. Day game is harder, but you may end up with more than just a lay.
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:32 PM
1

Are you in college and do you do night game? Message me
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:28 PM
21

OP obviously wants sex. If you want sex, why not just have sex when she’s horny af. There’s no guarantee that she’ll “go crazy” for him. Always strike when the irons hot, that’s like rule one of seduction. In the end she probably went and fucked another guy and OP thinks he’s some manipulative mastermind.
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:27 PM
1

Since you were a baby? Bro what
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:25 PM
1

Do you watch porn?
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:24 PM
14

Lol this is delusional she literally wanted to fuck it’s not like op asked
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:20 PM
6

Why wouldn’t you just fuck her I do not get this
/r/seduction26/09/21 05:19 PM
1

Yes. I have women friends
/r/seduction25/09/21 02:05 PM
15

At least you put yourself out there. Going out to bars alone terrifies me. Especially these college bars
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:46 AM
1

Messaged you
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:07 AM
1

Are you in college
/r/seduction25/09/21 03:58 AM
1

I have this issue too. I’m in a college town, I rather not go out alone it seems depressing
/r/seduction25/09/21 12:51 AM
1

It’s obvious. If you’re fat and you lose weight you’ll do better
/r/seduction25/09/21 12:08 AM
1

Yeah be careful if they’re wasted don’t
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:43 PM
3

Your Vegas stories are always crazy. You do more in a day than I do in a month lol
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:36 PM
2

The campus shuttle is the best place to meet girls I swear
/r/seduction24/09/21 07:06 PM
0

This won’t be an issue for you if you start lifting and do martial arts. Man up and take her to your place
/r/seduction24/09/21 06:53 PM
1

It was sort of sarcastic but in reality men don’t need to read books on how to be men lol just go to the gym and do martial arts boom now you have 2 masculine hobbies. You’re a man.
/r/seduction22/09/21 04:49 PM
2

Yeah the issue is I’m not a freshman I’m actually a senior but this is my first time being on campus due to commuting and COVID . So here’s the funny thing, I only have until May to get experience or a girlfriend otherwise I’ll have to get my first kiss in the real world and honestly that’s probably not happening if I couldn’t pull throughout my entire school career. I’m just nervous I will be screwed after college in the relationship department
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:10 AM
2

Some are some aren’t. I definitely found a solid group that goes out to bars and does fun stuff. So I would say I’m good on that part.
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:01 AM
2

Real men don’t need to read books. Go to the gym and lift heavy shit and join a martial art.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:53 AM
0

That’s what they say vs what they do. They say they want to be approached but look down at their phones 24/7 looking at tinder lol I hate to say it but let’s be honest
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:50 AM
1

You don’t need to pay for her drink at the bar fuck that
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:49 AM
1

Dude the workplace isn’t uni stop getting it mixed up
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:45 AM
1

I’m also living off campus but everyone in this complex is a student. I’m the same as op. I’ve got the friend thing down, I made a lot of friends so far. I’m a month in and I have absolutely no girls, which isn’t good. I have until the end of this school year to get some experience otherwise I’m screwed for life
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:45 AM
1

No woman at the library is going to go up to him unless he’s famous. Lol
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:42 AM
1

Basically same except I have female friends but I always get put in the fucking “friendzone” or something happens and we don’t hangout im pissed off now
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:37 AM
4

Same, it’s rude. Very rude.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:30 AM
1

I did that before this thread, sorry for not clarifying that.
/r/seduction20/09/21 11:29 PM
1

This is what I’m doing from now on
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:55 PM
2

How do you usually text then. I don’t text all that but some of it yea.
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:01 PM
1

It’s a good thing I didn’t come off desperate. I’m just done with this girl and she’s not hearing from me again until she texts me about meeting irl
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:28 PM
1

He’s not a troll we had a good discussion
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:25 PM
2

I already told her to text me when she wants to meet. I’m done until I get that text. I’m not invested in her, I can approach a new girl and start something new.
/r/seduction20/09/21 04:20 PM
1

I’m already moving on. She was down to hang at first, then she had to quarantine (fuck this covid shit) and now we’re here. Lol.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:41 PM
1

I’ve done that. I actually did that WITH THIS GIRL. She was down to hangout but then she got the fucking covid virus and had to quarantine for 2 weeks. I was forced to play pen pal… it was out of my control.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:40 PM
1

Lol. If this happened to me I would be fine because I still hit tho So you still hit tho
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:35 PM
1

It’s too late… she’s getting ghosted.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:34 PM
0

Bro I don’t owe her shit. If she doesn’t wanna meet up I have no reason to talk to her on text. She can go text some other simp. I see no issue with just ghosting her.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:28 PM
1

Yeah I think I’m a logical person and not emotional. I have creativity, but when it comes to stuff like this I’m very logical. I’ve never been emotional and I’ve always been more emotionless than not…
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:15 PM
-4

I’ve been ghosted before, and to be honest I like it. I’m not blocking her number or anything I’m just not gonna reply unless she says “meet up for drinks and sex” or something like that.
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:31 PM
1

Sounds good
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:29 PM
-6

Why shouldn’t I just ghost her lol
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:00 PM
4

Real life just feels so much more… organic. I can talk to women irl.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:55 AM
2

Great advice thanks.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:54 AM
8

I just feel so cringe flirting sexually over text and call. Idk what it is but I just can’t do it. Either I need to practice or just skip it. I did it once over the summer and this one girl was super receptive but I felt I wasn’t myself at all. Maybe it’s because I’m not used to flirting heavy over text.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:39 AM
3

Again as always spot on. Idk how you’re such an expert on women/men dynamics holy shit.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:35 AM
2

I did that but she had to quarantine due to covid. So I was forced to play phone pal for 2 weeks.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:32 AM
7

It’s so hard and in this day and age it’s like a necessity but I hate it. Apparently going for the number is the move. Next time I cold approach I’m going for the #, nothing more nothing less.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:30 AM
0

What? No I’m not.
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:29 AM
1

That’s what it is. Online texting…
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:26 AM
2

What about boobs
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:19 AM
10

I’m either getting laid or called a creep at that point
/r/seduction20/09/21 03:03 AM
3

Moving on is what works in this case, otherwise you become the pen pal.
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:47 AM
3

Yeah that’s how I am irl I just rant a little on Reddit. I usually do really well irl. It’s after the first approach where things go to shit.
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:01 AM
1

Sounds good, next weekend I’ll hit the bars and see what happens. Now the bars around me are super crazy. College bars have a crazy amount of people, super loud music, and I can’t get to know the bartenders or anyone who workers there due to how crowded these places get. It gets pretty crazy in there. Any tips? Should I go during the week and get to know the staff? What do you think? It’s probably quieter on a Sunday night.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:58 AM
1

I don’t get the reference sorry man. However I was told I need to go for numbers instead, so that’s gonna be my improvement this week. Go for the number rather than social media. Hopefully you do some approaches too if you’re single.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:53 AM
2

If you couldn’t tell, I worked there too. Great place to work if the management is good. If you’re just looking to meet girls, you’re going to be meeting grandmas. It’s not the place to be to meet girls.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:52 AM
2

Well so far I’ve day cold approached one girl, got the snap, and she never texted me back. I went to the bars last week, got 5 Snapchat’s, haven’t texted any of them because of fear that I’ll turn into another pen pal.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:51 AM
1

I’m not saying I don’t need women like bro trust me I’d definitely wanna improve my relationship life but here’s the thing… this specific girl hasn’t provided me any value so now I have to cold approach a few girls this week (day and night game) and hope for the best.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:46 AM
10

It just seems so cringe to do that on text like I don’t know how to be playful over text with someone new it’s just like a cringe thing for me. I can do it in real life but like I don’t get it in text. I may just have to stick to texting for logistics because I manage to fuck it up if I text for anything else.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:45 AM
1

7 approaches in a week? Holy shit I don’t think I can even do 5. I’d have to get super lucky seeing 7 girls I want to approach since I don’t go on campus too often. I guess I could walk around with the intention of solely approaching but that seems kinda weird.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:41 AM
2

Cvs is a shop that boomers go to. Working there is good if people your age work there.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:39 AM
6

QUESTION: Are these college bars? I could go out to the bars on my own, but here’s the funny thing. These college bars are fucking ruthless. Shoulder to shoulder, music blasting, people in groups chatting. Going alone doesn’t seem like the move, I don’t even know how I would talk to the bartenders because they’re so busy. Bouncers maybe, but even then I can’t afford too much tip, I’m a college student. Any ideas?
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:36 AM
3

Haha. I think the issue is I have complete shit luck. Yeah here’s the thing I am kinda busy… during the day my eyes are practically glued to Reddit and the stock market. I wanna get rich, all I care about is money honestly. I also have to hit the gym, do martial arts, approach girls irl, hang out with friends, AND do school work. So I don’t want to waste time with women that like to play Snapchat/Instagram/messages games all day. Even though I’m a phone addict I’m not a social media addict.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:31 AM
2

Used to have a friend who did shit like this, it actually worked he met up with her but it didn’t last very long.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:29 AM
1

That’s because they have a child, they can’t be fucking around at parties all the time and guess what I guarantee you they already had a even harder party phase and that’s why they’re so chill.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:28 AM
6

Because they are idiots lol.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:27 AM
4

That’s why I’m ghosting her lol fuck it
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:26 AM
4

Yeah there’s nothing else to do in this situation I have no patience for women who want to play pen pal, I have no time for it. I have to constantly watch the stock market during the day, do school, approach girls irl, and hit the gym, do clubs, hit the bars.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:25 AM
6

I have amazing emotional and mental strength. Not much can anger me irl. I know I came off on this post a little mad but it’s more because this happens to me a lot and I’m just sick of it so I ranted a little. Irl I am unfazed by anything.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:19 AM
6

I’m ghosting her anyways. The only way she’s getting a reply is if she says “lets fuck now”.
/r/seduction20/09/21 12:16 AM
6

Thanks for the advice, I’m going to ghost this particular girl because I don’t have time to waste I’m a college student and here’s the thing… my school has more women than men in it. I can easily approach another girl and get things going. I already approached many girls last week at the bars… but I didn’t Snapchat them at all. Next time I’m going for numbers only.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:44 PM
3

I’m going to be at a disadvantage then. I rather not spend $$ on meds right now because I’m a college student with no job, I’m also pretty sure you need doctor approval for it. Everyone has imperfections I mean if I had my full hair I’d probably be a solid 10 not even gonna lie, so this brings me down to a solid 7/8 in looks.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:38 PM
5

I’m 21. I have a strong beard but yeah I have to keep the hair short. One day I’m gonna be bald with a beard it’s just how the genes work. If I end up getting rich off of stocks I’ll get a hair transplant or whatever the best treatment is. Until then I’m stuck with a receding hairline and a bald spot. Edit: I should say balding spot// it’s not fully bald on my crown just yet.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:28 PM
76

Makes sense… she’s getting ghosted.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:23 PM
11

That’s fine, I’ll ghost her then.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:22 PM
17

I’m actually masculine as fuck I hit the gym I do martial arts I have a beard and I’m tall too. I’m no weakling, it’s just texting that pisses me off I don’t think you understand.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:21 PM
12

I’m not done with day game/night game I’m just done with texting… it just gets me fucking friend zoned every damn time
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:17 PM
1

Makes sense. So at this point I should just ghost this girl because she’s providing me with absolutely no value.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:15 PM
81

Girls like that? See to me it just seems so cringe but I guess if I have to be like that then fuck it. I’m just done getting friend zoned and being a Snapchat pal I’m so done with it.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:13 PM
5

I have every thing besides the hair, but I can always wear a hat if needed. I keep my hair short because I am balding.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:12 PM
1

My college has more women than men in it. Also, how do you go from texting buddy to f boy? I met a girl online that goes to my school, we started talking, she ended up having to quarantine but before that she wanted to hangout. Now I’m in a situation where we just text pictures back and forth.. like nothing happens. I’m about to ghost her.
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:10 PM
23

How can I change the vibe to f boy please help
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:07 PM
9

What is the F BOY look?
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:06 PM
1

I cannot stand online activity anymore when it comes to dating. I’m going to start only texting for logistics I swear.
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:40 PM
1

Online dating banter seems to just be on another level of confusion. I’ve read and seen tinder chats… they make no sense half the time
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:35 PM
1

My college is small.. I wanna say 10k students?
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:59 PM
3

It really sucks that people judge you like that based off race. Not even for dating but you said racism… that’s horrible man.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:27 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. My social battery is pretty charged up since I took a chill weekend. I’m hoping to see that same girl on the bus this week and go for it. I’ll make sure to get a girls number next time rather than social media. What are your thoughts on approaching too much? I don’t want to be known as a creep, I have some friends that are girls and I can tell you this, creepy guy stories like that spreads like wildfire around here.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:19 PM
1

On a scale of 1-10 I would say a good 7. I’ve already made a bunch of friends here (men and women). I’m actually somewhat extroverted and can handle approaching people. Like I said I managed to approach a solid 8 in my apartment complex and we had a good interaction at least I thought we did. But I got her social media and she left me on read. Do you think it’s because I didn’t ask for the number, does that really tick people the wrong way? I saw nothing wrong with the interaction and I wasn’t c…
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:14 PM
2

Any tips for day game? I did great at night game, but I get nervous when it comes to day game and just talking to some random girl on the bus or something.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:05 PM
2

Never really thought of that. I have a decent following on Twitter, but sadly I don’t think that’s used much. I’m not gonna ask a girl for her Twitter. I’ll go for the number next time.
/r/seduction19/09/21 08:04 PM
1

Why the phone number? Social media seems more casual, especially at the bars. Do you suggest phone number for day game more?
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:42 PM
1

Not really no. I’m not on campus too often, only 3 days a week. I live off campus I have done night game at the bars I got like 5 different social media’s but I have nothing to text them lol. I’m going to try though, there was this cute girl on the bus that I sat next too but I’m not a morning person and I didn’t say anything even though I should’ve. I just remembered I did day game at my apartment complex once, got a girls social media and she never texted me back. The vibes in our interaction …
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:24 PM
1

21m virgin here I’m still a virgin because I got rejected in high school (used to be a big simp). College hasn’t been the best for me either, I did my first two years at community college so there’s no social life there. Then covid hit and my entire junior year went online so my life was just school/work/gym. This is my first and last college year actually at a college having a college experience. I’ve met some girls here but nothing has happened yet. I also don’t use dating apps because they se…
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:58 PM
1

Do you go alone or with friends ?
/r/seduction19/09/21 06:10 AM
1

You’re skinny, try to get to at least 150lbs. EAT. I have the same issue man, I’m not as skinny as you but I’m still thin. It’s hard but we’ve gotta gain weight
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:13 PM
1

Personally I asked out my girl best friend a couple years ago, and I did it in a stupid way but she got like shocked. I got rejected. So that’s why I say go for it. We’re still great friends, and to be honest every time I talk about other girls around her she gets silent. Like if I were to text her right now and tell her I talked to mad girls at the bar she would not want to hear it. Anyone else in our group, she’d congratulate and want to hear about it. Deep down I think at one point she really…
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:16 AM
1

Yea a lot of guys wanna get with their girl best friend so it’s not surprising to me that these guys are JEALOUS AF that you actually have a shot. Just do it. Maybe something good will come from it
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:00 AM
1

Get off pussy apps like that, man up and talk to women in real life. At least skip the tinder and go on Instagram
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:57 AM
1

Dude who gives a fuck what these guys say they’re just jealous because they wanna fuck their girl best friend too. Fucking go for it.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:54 AM
1

Boss shit, but on a side note your Uni offers beer? To freshmen? Or was this like a frat party
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:51 AM
1

Height and weight?
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:50 AM
1

This sounds more like she’s actually trying to get his LinkedIn or something lol.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:48 AM
11

Living in Vegas must be easy mode. I imagine plenty of hot girls go there to have plenty of sex. One day I’ll have to visit the city and check out The Strip for myself.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:46 AM
3

This used to be me and honest answer is you need to do something with your life like now that I’m in college and hanging out with friends and going to bars I don’t give a fuck about the girls back home that rejected me they’ll probably see me and wish they had me cuffed 2 years ago
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:43 AM
1

VERY true. I hit the gym, practice martial arts and hang out with friends daily in college.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:43 AM
-1

Take a step back and think of this for a second. If a girl fucks once a weekend for an entire year her body count is 52. That’s if she fucks one different guy every Saturday. That’s one year of college bro.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:41 AM
2

Makes sense, dude your posts/comments always have some insane knowledge.
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:30 AM
2

Underrated comment
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:05 AM
1

Same, my SMV has skyrocketed. I used to be a fucking pussy I hope to be getting pussy very soon instead.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:56 AM
3

Number or Snapchat
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:52 AM
1

Interesting, I wouldn’t worry too much about your reputation from that one girl. 15k students is more than enough to find a new girl.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:50 AM
1

When you say purple pill, is that something at your school or are you talking about the Reddit term?
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:46 AM
1

It’s hard work doing this seduction stuff at college I feel that like the other day I missed a couple of easy approaches. I also understand why it feels fake. You really have to put on that persona and get the number. Ive realized that it won’t be easy and if I want it it’s gonna be a lot of no’s before I get a yes
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:41 AM
1

How small is your school that you have such a bad reputation?
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:39 AM
3

I’m a senior too dude. You’re about to get out so who gives a fuck if you pull college girls? I don’t understand the reasoning man. Unless the specific girl affects your job I don’t see any reason not to.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:37 AM
3

Damn honestly I can kinda relate to this because I’ve had trouble with it all my life, but I didn’t think I would ever have this issue when I was a kid. I thought I’d have a girlfriend by 14, now I’m 21 and never had one Edit: looks like I commented on this yesterday haha same shit stands dude get some friends and go slay that’s what I’m trying to do.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:34 AM
6

Shitting where you eat is for your job/career, not college dude. That’s an excuse. Go slay some college girls
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:32 AM
2

I don’t know and I don’t really care.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:31 AM
3

Listen before I tell you which company I think you should go for, just know I’m a college student so take my advice with a grain of salt. I’ve only worked basic retail. Company A has a strong mentor who could help you get raises and you could learn a lot from him. Company B has a lot more people, networking events, and women. I don’t advise going for women at work due to harassment policies, but going for company B may be the move just because it’s a big company and you will meet lots of people.…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:30 AM
2

I haven’t gotten any hookups or lays yet, but I went for my first real bar experience recently and got about 4 or 5 numbers. My advice is to have good friends to hang out with. I’m not trying to bash anyone, but if you go with the awkward kid you’ll be grouped in with them. You go with a solid group of guys, your now seen as a solid guy.
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:13 AM
16

Yeah man Ice cream is a good first date I wish I did this at your age good luck
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:52 AM
1

Bro the sooner you can get on campus and hit the bars the better. I used to be just like you, I finally got to campus this year & made some good friends and have talked to many women. I haven’t gotten with any girls yet, but probably soon.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:41 AM
2

5 is average dude, no girl is gonna complain. If anything us average guys have it the best.
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:46 PM
14

Stop being such a pussy and you’ll get girls. Seriously, the mindset has a lot to do with it. I get it, I’m not very experienced myself but that doesn’t mean I’m gonna mope around saying since the 7th grade I couldn’t pull. Get yourself a good group of friends. MASCULINE friends, not some fucking losers who play video games 20 hours a day. Then go out to the bars. Then have some fun and talk to some girls.
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:43 PM
1

Honestly 10 days out of the gym won’t kill your gains that much. Once you leave for 3-4 weeks your gains are going downhill.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 06:17 AM
1

It was but he had to put the guy in his place. Show him who the real man in the house is.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 06:12 AM
1

Gen z here, I am masculine as fuck and love it .
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 05:58 AM
1

I don’t know the current politics of Australia but from what I’ve been hearing recently the place sounds like a mess. Never going there
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 05:55 AM
2

I’m on day 40, before the pandemic I was at day 120. Just man the fuck up and do it, get on the sub and just don’t fap. That’s really all there is too it, don’t open the browser or whatever you use.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 05:52 AM
1

Some of the “woke” crowed will hate you for preferring a certain race over another but in my opinion it’s your sex preference so I think it’s fine.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:38 AM
1

I want to get my body count up too.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:34 AM
1

Dude you’re 5ft 10 not 4ft 10 get over the height shit.
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:33 AM
1

Chase a check, never chase a bitch
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:27 AM
2

He probably assumed they were not talking to other people but she’s getting dicked down by the other guys
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:26 AM
1

Make it known you’re fucking other women (even if you’re not, just lie) and see how she reacts. For example maybe next weekend tell her you’re meeting with Sarah and you can’t. Now she’s wondering who Sarah is. Boom, now you’re playing the game
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:10 AM
1

It’s so easy. Literally got more numbers in one bar night than I have all year
/r/seduction14/09/21 05:05 AM
1

You don’t want to talk about stocks, it’s fun to on Reddit but the girls hate that boring shit
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:02 PM
1

Get a couple drinks in you and you won’t have this issue. Seriously.
/r/seduction12/09/21 07:01 PM
1

Just leave the situation. Remember, you’re around a bunch of drunk assholes. Not everyone is a nice drunk (I am) so be careful
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:59 PM
1

Facts bro don’t be a pussy and buy girls drinks, man up and buy the guys shots instead
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:56 PM
2

Yeah dude, get on Snapchat. Some girls online say bs about it but it’s very casual. Also let’s you send pics back and forth. I got about 5 snaps yesterday. Go at it brother
/r/seduction12/09/21 06:55 PM
1

Yea if you don’t know anyone in the frat, OR if you don’t have a friend that can get you in you’re probably not gonna get in
/r/seduction11/09/21 04:28 PM
1

Because frat guys limit the amount of other guys that can come to the party so they can get all the girls. I’m a college senior, not in a frat but I would be careful hooking up with sorority girls at a frat party if you’re not a brother, they may kick you out
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:42 PM
1

Women do have it easier but who cares? I used to care about that stuff A LOT, but these days it just doesn’t bother me as much. I think college has a lot to do with that. If some girl doesn’t like me, then I don’t text her or meet up. Don’t ask out coworkers. Make good friends. Have some fun. Drink a little, smoke, whatever your thing is. Of course don’t abuse it, but learn how to have fun. I’ll tell you a story. I cold approached a pair of girls recently and I got a very good vibe from them. Pl…
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:33 AM
2

This is my 3rd week at college and you’re getting way more play than me. I also needed to make friends first & my roommates do not socialize much so I had to spend time making friends.
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:17 AM
2

Bro what the fuck… she’s mad into you
/r/seduction11/09/21 01:10 AM
26

Get the guys contact info. If you got his it would’ve been more than cool
/r/seduction10/09/21 11:34 PM
10

Facts some girls are shy and will never actually show signs because they’re so nervous… you’ve just gotta MAN UP AND make the first move.
/r/seduction10/09/21 11:24 PM
1

FACTS. They just wanna settle with girls they don’t have to work for
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:04 AM
89

Drake be listening to his own songs after she said that Marvins room on repeat
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:54 PM
1

What does pupil dilation have to do with it please explain that please
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:53 PM
3

Your first mistake is assuming most people are smart. The average person is stupid.
/r/seduction06/09/21 06:29 AM
1

How about now
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:56 PM
1

I really don’t think so unless it was a really shitty high 5. I use those 2 and it’s fine
/r/seduction04/09/21 11:20 PM
2

I was the quiet kid too I get it. Your best bet is to go out I guess. Try to day game at coffee shops.
/r/seduction04/09/21 07:16 PM
1

You don’t do this. What are you even thinking man, she’s not gonna date you. Go for college girls that will give you the time of day
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:54 PM
1

Honestly I had a lot of trouble meeting women in my old town when I wasn’t going away to school. If I were you I’d maybe talk to some girls you went to high school with, that’s what I tried to do and it failed but it’s worth a shot. If not, maybe go to the mall? I don’t know if you live in a city or a smaller town so it’s harder to say
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:53 PM
1

Why did you give her a high five and how was it awkward?
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:39 PM
1

I’ve been ghosted before, I do not care if I get ghosted.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:38 PM
2

You talk to them, I’ll give you a small story of my recent approach, maybe it’ll help. I went downstairs to the common area in my building to get some food, and I’m eating with my friends. These 2 cute girls come downstairs and make small conversation with me and my friend about the food. Then they go get their food and my friends and I play a game. Then I lost, so my friends are playing and I am free to approach. They’re just sitting there, so I go over and talk to them. I asked them how they l…
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:32 PM
1

Because I’m 21, also no real experience with women but now I’m at college and I’m talking to multiple girls. College is easy. Outside of college I couldn’t pull man.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:16 PM
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Do you go to college?
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:28 PM
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Get your ass off of tinder and go meet girls irl. The only time I do online game any more is if the girl messages/follows ME. Otherwise you’re just another number on the screen. I’ve done more in the last 2 weeks talking to people at school than my entire youth trying to play the online game
/r/seduction04/09/21 05:20 PM
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You have to find the right girl that’s all.
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:50 PM
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Sometimes people post here and ask
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:49 PM
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Yes you can copy men’s fashion on Instagram if you have no where to start. Your style should reflect you. I could tell you what I think you should wear, but that’s based off of what I like to wear. I will say one very overlooked part of your style is your shoes. Get a pair of Air Force 1s or Jordan’s and then get an everyday shoe depending on your budget. Shoes are one of the most important parts of the fit I used to get complimented on my fits all the time, and I still do. Your style should ref…
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:46 PM
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Sounds like she likes you dude why are you asking this
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:44 PM
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Why are you doing stats? The only statistic that matters here is that you’re at a college of 30k people. That means no one knows you, and the college is so big that even if you fuck up the school won’t care. If your college was 1k, then I would say worry. If you do the cold approach, expect the cold shoulder. I’m also in college and I’ve approached a few girls and gotten nothing, but I already have a few girls in my dms.
/r/seduction04/09/21 03:40 PM
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OP really called out the user names wow. Caught in 8k
/r/seduction03/09/21 06:34 PM
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I wouldn’t say that, I’ve seen some girls at my college gym legitimately working out.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:48 PM
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It won’t let me reply to your comment, but if you don’t like this sub why are you asking lmao.
/r/seduction03/09/21 01:01 AM
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Bro I need your advice specifically can I message you it’s important
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:58 AM
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Yeah the book is boring. Read this sub instead you’ll get more practical applications
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:57 AM
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Some girls will literally tell you their age. I’m also 21, I’ve had multiple girls tell me how old they are when meeting me. They’ll bring it up in conversation. If they don’t, ask their birthday. Then they’ll usually give their age.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:57 AM
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What is an ENM marriage??
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:53 AM
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Bro I’m in college just because I went once doesn’t mean I stay home every night I literally go out every night
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:52 AM
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You’re 38. You don’t go to college bars in 2021. If you do you’re a creep buddy. “Just speak louder” is horrible advice
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:21 PM
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You said it yourself you’ve never been to a bar, so you have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about. In this bar there is no “quiet” part of the bar.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:47 PM
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There are definitely girls like that, I’ve seen the type.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:18 PM
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My advice is to stop smoking weed. It’s literally going to only hurt you in the long term.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:19 AM
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It’s horrible advice.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:17 AM
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Ryan is a simp man
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:15 AM
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If you go to the gym to hit on girls you’re a fucking weirdo. Literally bro. It’s the land of the iron, HIT THE IRON NOT ON THE LADIES
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:01 AM
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No shame in that I like your mentality but it’s just not feasible in this situation. I went to one and the music is so loud you can’t hear anyone or even get near the bartender. It sucks.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:26 AM
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Keep going to class. I’m shocked you don’t like this kickboxing, it sounds masculine as fuck and something you should be doing. Man up and keep going, not just for the women.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:15 PM
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You’ve never been to one of these bars and it shows bro. You can’t speak louder than the music
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:12 PM
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YES this is how it was at the bar I went to. I was like, the fuck? How am I supposed to talk? From what I’ve heard maybe try a different bar.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:11 PM
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I’ve done about 3-4 this past week. Im in college so that’s why it’s easier for me. I did one last night, but it was super late and I was tired. I definitely could’ve number closed but it’s fine, we live near each other so I’m not worried. I did one this past weekend, got a number (no responses) though.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:09 PM
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There are 2 places I do not approach. The gym and the store. Why not the gym? The gym isn’t a place for you to talk to girls. You’re supposed to be focusing on your grind and being masculine as fuck hitting the bench, squats, and whatever else you do. I don’t walk in the gym and hope to talk to girls. I get it, sometimes there are girls there. The other day I saw a super hot babe in there. It was just me and her. I didn’t say shit. Most girls do NOT want to be approached at the gym, and honestly…
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:08 PM
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Only text to hang out maybe a little more to see how she is but that’s it
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:00 PM
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From my experience, it’s over for you bro
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:55 PM
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SAME ISSUE bro I started cold approaching at college and that’s the same thing that happened to me. We had a good vibe in person, now she doesn’t text me back. I tried twice, so I’m not texting her again BUT I will say hi and talk to her if I see her in person.
/r/seduction31/08/21 10:21 PM
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Ok thank you
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:47 AM
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The good news is I did do something to make a connection! We played a game of pool & we talked a little. It was fun.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:12 AM
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Dude you’re a literal savior man. I took your advice now I have a full friend group at college and I’ve number closed a few times. Haven’t taken anything from there yet but it’s going well so far
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:50 PM
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I’ve been pretty successful so far, especially considering I knew absolutely no one last week. I sadly missed 2 chances to number close, not because they didn’t want it but because I simply didn’t ask.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:25 PM
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Ok so I haven’t gotten any action yet BUT: I did meet a lot of people and I have made a bunch of friends. I also cold approached a group of 2 girls and I got one of their social media. She left me on read, so I’m not sure if I’ll send her anything again. The vibes in person were really good though. I’m going to keep cold approaching at my building and on campus. I’m also in a club already so that’s cool. Overall I’m having a good time, I’m more glad I was able to make friends here. So far I’ve g…
/r/seduction30/08/21 06:52 PM
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Write her LMAO
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:25 PM
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I’m also 21m virgin so you’re not alone
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:18 PM
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Good job man, I recently did a cold approach of my own and number closed.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:26 AM
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Listen dude you need to make some friends. I’m also 21m in college and I have some stuff to say. Don’t sit in your room all the time you’re never gonna meet anyone there especially if your roommates don’t do shit either. My roommates both are shut ins so I have to be the one to go out. No ones gonna hold your hand. I was sitting in my room bored af at first but then I actually manned up and did something. You’ve gotta make some friends before you worry about pulling girls. Get a few guy friends.…
/r/seduction28/08/21 01:20 PM
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Hey at least you tried but it sounds like your new supervisor is an asshole. I used to be a supervisor, and I would never talk to one of my employees like that. Such a shame. I also worked my way up from cashier so I was a little more down to earth
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:35 PM
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No but they don’t wanna see the dick online with no warning
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:34 AM
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You shouldn’t have sent the dick pic you ape
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:33 AM
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Sadly I don’t wanna pay for friends cause I’m a senior. If I was a freshman/sophomore I’d seriously consider joining a frat.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:09 PM
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I know. Ones an avid gamer and the other seemed more social at first cause he talked about parties last year but surprisingly the gamer is the one who usually wants to hang out, the party guy sits in his room all day. I’ve tried keeping my door open and being the most social but I’m new here so I can only do so much.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:03 PM
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Yeah man, shits tough. My roomates are more introverted and shut ins than I am. I’m hoping to become better friends with them
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:39 PM
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I already joined a club but things haven’t really started yet.
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:36 PM
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Rather not say online, but I will say it’s a smaller public school. I think about 15k people go here. I’m in an odd situation, I’m a senior but it’s my first time being at this college. I was supposed to live up here last year but covid ruined it. I know no one here except for my roommates who are less social than I am. I’ve just been sitting in my room all day.
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:18 PM
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Cold approach is my only option in college otherwise I’m fucked I have no social circle here
/r/seduction25/08/21 08:04 PM
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You sound like a fucking pussy. Seriously… you’re going to use her for sexting? While you’re playing phone games with her the next guy will be having sex with her.
/r/seduction22/08/21 11:50 PM
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This is literally me
/r/seduction22/08/21 05:11 PM
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It’s not so black and white. You don’t have to text all day. Text game is important in today’s day & age especially with the pandemic. It’s not a lot of time wasted. You’re right, don’t text all day. But you don’t have to be a robot texting for logistics only. While you’re acting like that some other guy is woo’ing her over text and getting her excited for a date.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:50 PM
1

What if he’s vaccinated then he’s fine
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:42 PM
1

How? He just went on 5 dates in a day
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:36 PM
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It depends on your age. If you’re GEN Z, you should be building attraction on text. I’ve tried texting for logistics and it results in boring conversations where I get rejected. I’ve recently went in full force in the DM with heavy flirting and it works. Especially if the girl is already into you a little. This also lets her get to know you a little, not all girls like going out with complete strangers right away.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:21 PM
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This is oldhead logic. Don’t text too much but some good text game doesn’t hurt.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:09 PM
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Lifting and martial arts.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:07 PM
1

Get your vaccine and stop being scared. Or just wear a mask. Dude it’s not March 2020
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:27 PM
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You don’t have to be like this 24/7 but I would go in with heavy flirting right away depending on how much she’s into you. Otherwise you could get friendzoned. It’s hard man, I used to think like this too until I tried flirting harder in the dms and you wouldn’t believe the difference.
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:52 PM
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Yeah sure so let’s say you ask “wyd”. You: Wyd? Her: not much you? 2 ways to answer this: 1: You: Same (bad way, this gets you left on read) 2: You: Just thinking about how we should hang out soon ;). (Good way, flirty and not boring)
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:26 AM
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Yes, just YOLO right into her dms.
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:12 PM
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Lol that obito pfp I already know what’s up
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:32 PM
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Good luck but be careful
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:31 PM
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