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Seriously. I'm surprised I had to scroll to the 10th comment to see this.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:58 PM
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Yeah it's getting progressively worse, and I'm about ready to jump ship. We texted for a long time after I bailed last night, and I threw out a lot of language to let her know that our relationship is coming to an end soon. The only bad thing I did while texting her was I resorted to calling her crazy at the very end, when she was annoying the FUCK out of me. I shouldn't have resorted to name calling, because that's just petty and not RP at all. But anyway, yeah I think it's just going to get wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 03:43 PM
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Can I run a scenario by you really quick? My LTR and I have been arguing a LOT lately, and last night I went over to her place to hang out, and it was kind of an unspoken agreement between us that we would both be on our best behavior since we've been fighting so much. I get there with a bottle of wine. I pour us each a glass and we sit down to chat. After a few minutes of talking, this conversation goes down: Her: What kind of wine is this? Me: Francis Coppola Her: Don't you mean Francis Ford C…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 02:54 PM
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I have no problem saying those kinds of things to my girlfriend, because I know she loves it, and I don't let it affect our status (like you said - She still knows I wear the pants). We both have to be up at 5:45 for our jobs, but we randomly stayed up until 2am last night having sex. After we finished the third and final round, I wrapped her up tight in my arms and told her I loved her (we've said it before plenty of times, but I initiated it after this round). It made her feel really secure an…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 03:12 PM
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I'm not an expert by any means, but I definitely show beta traits while still remaining as alpha as possible. I surprise her with gifts and favors, I cuddle with her, and I validate her by giving her compliments often. But I do these things in a dominant way. I don't give her gifts and favors with the expectation of getting anything out of it. I do these things because I want to - Not because I think she expects them. And I don't sit around waiting for a "Thank you" from her. When I give her com…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 02:31 PM
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I've been nofapping for years, and I have the same issue as you. However - Me and my LTR have the understanding that if I get off really fast the first time, then I'll be ready for round two 15 minutes later, and then I last WAY longer, and it's WAY more intense. She gets off a few times when we're on round 2 (or 3), and it works out well. Highly recommend it - Best sex of my life. Don't sweat finishing too fast the first round.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 05:51 PM
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Perfect - That's the kind of thing I was looking for. Thanks man
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:17 PM
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Brilliant! Thanks man, that explained it really well.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:44 AM
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I've definitely said with authority "I like looking at you" before, but I wasn't sure if that was a good idea since it's validating her? I dunno, I overthink this stuff too much most of the time
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 12:56 AM
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That's pretty solid! Thanks man. Like I said, I usually respond with silence, but I had a feeling TRP could come up with a few good responses...
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:57 PM
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You must not have read my post. I was wondering if you guys had any good lines to say back when she says "What?!" or "What are you looking at?!"
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:29 PM
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It's stuff like this regarding TRP that's really struck a chord with me. In the past, I'd receive words like this from a gf, and I'd think "Wow I'm doing a really good job!" and I'd start slacking off. Now, I'm with you. I recognize that maintaining my role as her sex god is extremely important, and I can't slack off when it comes to keeping her excited and on her toes. A nice, predictable, stable man is boring to her. To be my best, I have to be that stable man while also maintaining the beast …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 05:15 PM
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Nah no way man. I'm fucking girls outside of my department for sure! I wouldn't get involved in a situation where I could lose my job. I don't even think I'd get a slap on the wrist if HR found out... People at our company have dated (and even gotten married).
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 03:24 PM
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I feel ya, but I'm not worried about it at this point. It's been months, and we still talk at work and get along great as friends. She tells me about guys she's dating, I tell her about my relationship. I was just a fun fuck buddy for her, since she just got out of a 20 year marriage and wanted to get some dick for a while
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:03 PM
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Haha I feel you, but I'm keeping it very under control. The chick I used to bang is 39 now, and she just got out of a 20-year marriage right before we hooked up. She never got to be a slut and she was only with her husband her entire life, so she was ready to get fucked by someone else. I obliged her, and she was very, very thankful. She was also really understanding when I told her that I had to stop, because I'm looking for something long-term. The girl I'm dating needs this job badly and she'…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:44 PM
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Thanks man. It's my first LTR since swallowing TRP, and it's helping immensely so far.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:55 PM
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Solid points. I completely agree. If you follow the rules, then you'll stay out of trouble... Definitely not arguing there!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:37 PM
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No, she's well aware of my current relationship. That's why we stopped fucking. She's in her late 30's and divorced, not looking for anything serious. I'm in my late 20's, single, looking for a wife and kids. She understood that, so we were just having fun.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:35 PM
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In my opinion, these rules are all way too cut and dry. I've fucked/dated women that I've worked with at my last 2 jobs, and nothing has happened. I made completely sure that they were sane individuals first, and I gamed them for a long time to build attraction, until we finally went out for drinks innocently together and ended up fucking. Now I'm in a long-term relationship with a girl at my company, and it's awesome. She works in another department on the other side of the office. We're keepin…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 08:25 PM
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I agree that it's possible to do it without a perfect diet, but eating 100% clean, bland foods made me feel incredible!! Definitely never felt like shit. I was never hungry because I was eating a lot, and I enjoy the taste of my lean meats and veggies. But yup, cutting out restaurant food (or any food that you didn't prepare) will make you healthier immediately... Looking at restaurants' nutrition facts always shocks me to the core. 3,000mg of sodium and 1,500 calories in every freaking dish...
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:33 PM
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I ate fresh, lean meats, vegetables, cottage cheese, eggs, and more vegetables. That's pretty much it, besides some other high-protein foods sprinkled in. But usually for a meal - I'd eat a big chicken breast, a huge bowl of veggies, and a side of cottage cheese. I never ate a bite of food unless it was prepared in my kitchen (except protein bars and shakes, which I obviously didn't make myself). And I didn't eat a bite of sugar. It was that simple. If you have the drive to do it, then it's easy…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:18 PM
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Good questions. You know how you get to Carnegie Hall, right? Practice, practice, practice. I read the material, read the field reports, took good mental notes, and tried to put them into practice whenever I could. My first few attempts were rough, because I was still learning. I would attempt to show dominance. I would attempt to lightly neg a girl. Anything I read about lately on TRP, I would try on a girl in real life. Now that I had a good body and good fashion, I was starting to catch girls…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:11 PM
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I've been working on it for more than 2 years now, and I can tell you my notes: It took about a year for me to get my shit completely straightened out (started when I was 26). The first 6 months were complete monk mode - I wasn't going after women at all, and I'd turn down any opportunities to get with a woman. I was nofapping, porn-free, working out 5-6 days/week, and my diet was completely clean... and I mean completely clean. Once I was fully purged and had lost 30 pounds + gained muscle, I s…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 03:47 PM
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I've absolutely held frame so far, and I've sat her down after the fact to discuss her issue completely rationally, never showing an inkling of anger... I guess you're right - I just need to be more dismissive about it... Let her throw her tantrums if she wants, but I won't be involved in them. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:27 PM
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But that's the thing with this girl... She doesn't take kindly to the jokes. She knows about a couple of girls that I've slept with... I've VERY gently teased her about something related to one of them, and she goes into shutdown mode. She can't handle even thinking about me hooking up with anyone else. It's a sign of immaturity to me, but that's really her only big flaw. Everything else is highly manageable, and I really like her other than that (she's very cute, great body, high sex drive, ext…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:22 PM
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I've tried teasing her like that, but it doesn't get her out of her funk. She's told me that she holds onto feelings like that for too long and it takes her a while to get over them. Should I just ignore her and refuse to talk to her while she's giving me that attitude?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 05:15 PM
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This is really great. Thanks man.. We were laying in bed after sex the other night, and she was basically telling me how she wants to say "I love you", but she thinks it's too soon, and she was hinting that I should say it first... I kept my mouth shut, because even without reading that tip, I knew telling her first would be a REALLY bad idea. The only problem about seeing other women talk to me is that she's VERY possessive/protective. She's already shown her colors about how jealous she can be…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 04:39 PM
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Hey man I completely agree! I'm just saying that I see why it would cause a huge stink on campus. I already said that those posts aren't enough to suspend anyone over, but in today's society you have to know that shit is going to blow up. Look at Donald Sterling for god's sake. It's ridiculous. But it's the world we live in, so they shouldn't have been posting this shit on Facebook with their names attached to it...
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 03:44 AM
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The article mentioned something about the guys talking about drugging women. IMO that's not enough to suspend them, but I can absolutely see how it would raise some major shit on campus. If they're talking about planning to drug and rape a girl, that's way over the line. The hatefucking stuff is completely harmless fantasy though, and if they got suspended for that, then that's fucking ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:20 AM
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I'm always torn about this topic too, but I'm starting to come around on TRP way of looking at it. If this waitress chick was going to fuck OP, then she probably has already fucked someone else. And if she hasn't, then clearly she will if she's ready to cheat with OP (some random guy at the bar). I mean, unless OP is the absolute most handsome motherfucker on the planet, then I bet she'll go after some other guy eventually, too.... So even though OP probably shouldn't go after her, it's not like…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 01:15 AM
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