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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about it Because it’s a date, not a charity event. Same reason why you wouldn’t ask an ugly girl out, even if she was nice. Attraction is both physical and chemical/hormonal. You can grow in love. Rarely (unless weight loss/gain and/or surgery are factors) can you grow into physical attraction. And even more rarely can a woman overlook a man’s personality and WANT to fuck him despite it.	/r/seduction	18/09/25 02:17 PM
1	Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget that Woman here. Your approach works because if you don’t touch a woman but you are enthusiastic, attentive, and take the initiative in setting up another date, she feels respected and it creates a sexual tension/builds desire if she is already attracted to you. It is also good on your end not to lead with your dick and forget to ask whether or not you actually like this woman’s personality.	/r/seduction	26/05/25 06:47 PM
1	Is being cubby/fat that much of a deal breaker? “I don’t wanna wait for someone who likes me just when I’m in shape…” Are you comfortable dating someone as fat as you are, or substantially fatter (300lbs+)? Could you honestly say that you’d find them physically/sexually attractive? If the answer to either of these is “No,” quit whining, cut the portions, eat more protein, and hit the gym. I don’t even need to ask to know that you’re under 40. The single worse quality of Millennials and Gen Z is this delusional belief that physical fitness and…	/r/seduction	15/08/24 04:15 PM
5	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? If you are not encroaching on her personal space or being otherwise aggressive or creepy, a secure, mentally stable woman will appreciate the opportunity to either reciprocate, or kindly deflect any unwanted advances.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 03:47 AM
18	Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked? This is so refreshing to hear. I once told a guy I was seeing that vagueness, ambiguity, and nonchalance was a huge turn off for me, and he decided to test me. Not only was it a major turn off, I lost a lot of respect for him when he came back swearing that things would be different. I had already given him the fvcking cheat code the first time! Being direct is so sexy! If the woman wants you, it’s a huge relief and time saved on both sides.	/r/seduction	11/08/24 03:13 AM
10	Constantly getting ghosted after sex. Do they know you want more? Assuming you’re actually pleasing these women in bed and don’t have some weird hygiene issues, they may assume you only want sex because you aren’t direct about setting up follow up dates. If you’re texting about “hanging out” women will read that as “he just wants to fuck.” If you like these women, and trust if they slept with you, they probably like you, state that directly. Being vague or nonchalant is how a lot of men end up with high body counts, but no relations…	/r/seduction	01/07/24 12:19 AM

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