NonJuanDon Archive

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2	How to open naturally in everyday normal situations? Yeah man, you should have good luck if you keep working on it. Try to think of it as just saying hi to everyone to practice being more social, rather than thinking of actual openers etc. Just like some people awkwardly stand around eachother in elevators while others say hi or comment on the weather. I always do the latter now.	/r/seduction	30/05/26 06:37 PM
2	How to open naturally in everyday normal situations? "I like your earrings/jacket/shoes/whatever" is usually good enough to gauge their response/body language and tell if they have any interest. Harder when walking past you the opposite way, I dont usually bother in that situation and prefer more natural interactions, in line, shops, parking lots, concerts, bars, etc. Feels so natural to talk to the person next to you, even if its just to comment on the weather. But FWIW I shoot the shit with anyone, young/old/male/female.. Just makes life more pl…	/r/seduction	30/05/26 04:24 AM
3	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Hope it works for you! I think it says all the right things. Starts the interaction right, because it takes the pressure off both parties with an innocent, non-threatening question.. and by being direct afterwards, you're less likely to get flaked on later too, because you're being upfront about your intentions from the start. My $0.02 anyway..	/r/seduction	09/06/24 09:10 PM
3	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Absolutely. Too easy to get stuck in your own head. I genuinely believe that the answer, most of the time, is just to be upfront in a confident, authentic, but non-pushy way.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 09:03 PM
9	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Your post reeks of bitterness and youre overanalyzing my words vs getting the big picture. My suggestion wasnt theory btw.. literally just said what came to mind. And I've used (some variation of) that succesfully on multiple occasions so I KNOW it works. But then again, I also dress well, go to the gym 5 days a week and strike up conversations with everyone, because I'm a social guy who genuinely enjoys it. And if you really believe that rehearsing and overthinking every word is more effective …	/r/seduction	09/06/24 05:12 PM
63	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store If you just want effective, rather than specifically an interesting, canned opener.. try something a little more upfront like: "Excuse me, can I ask you ask question?" proceed to ask literally any question about anything relevent to your surroundings After she answers, thank her and say: "By the way.. just wanted to say that I think you're pretty/cute/whatever. Wanna grab a drink/coffee with me sometime?" But SMILE and make good eye contact, smiling with your eyes too! And I mean an honest,…	/r/seduction	09/06/24 07:12 AM
16	What are some interesting openers to start a conversation at Costco/Any store Do you want interesting... or effective lol? If you mean interesting, you can say literally anything.. as long as you deliver it well. I genuinely believe the words barely matter if you're attractive/clean cut and come across as non-threatening and fun. Picked up a girl at a mall coffee shop once, with: "GIRAFFES... have extremely long necks. Discuss?" I was like 17 or 18 years old, and my buddy and I would each come up with lines that the other had to use, on the spot. I walked up to a girl (fr…	/r/seduction	09/06/24 07:10 AM
1	Emotionally unstable girl I assume you're young.. because if you're an adult, you'd have to be a real piece of shit to fuck this girl under the circumstances. We all do selfish shit when we're young, but grow up. You really can't see how fucking this girl who has feelings for you plus attachment issues, abandonment issues and a history of self harm could possibly be a bad idea? How will you feel when she ends up in the hospital after trying to kill herself again.. or worse still, succeeds. Find someone more stable.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 10:54 PM
1	Approaching multiple girls at once Go say hi, start a conversation and engage with everyone in the group. Shake hands/high five/introduce yourself to all of em. Whatever you do though, make sure not to ignore the least attractive one.. because that's the one that will usually get frustrated or jealous and kill your plans..	/r/seduction	10/03/22 07:23 PM
9	I finally know seduction isn't bull Lol 80% sure I've blown that one.. but maybe I'll ask her to spot me on Bench next time she's in the vicinity? Should make for a laugh asking a 5'2" tiny girl for a spot lol	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:21 AM
–	I finally know seduction isn't bull Man it must be a good feeling.. I feel like I'm almost there too. Went to a show tonight, number closed 1 set getting off the train, plus the 2 sitting next to me at the show.. then got cock blocked by a ticket checker with another 2 trying to sneak me in the pit and finished off chatting up another 3 set on the train home. This was all solo too. A week ago I was nervous to talk to a girl I saw 6 days a week at the gym who was giving me the eyes daily, and flaked on 2 other interested girls in a…	/r/seduction	16/09/19 05:11 AM
1	For those just working on themselves, make sure you still spend a bit of time working on game. Sound advice. As a guy with social anxiety, I'm starting with talking to cashiers, bartender, servers, people at the gym and the occasional stranger. Surprising the amount of obvious interest I get just from this little change, coupled with hitting the gym and lifting hard 5 days a week. Just need to grow some balls to act on the interest now	/r/seduction	15/09/19 09:02 PM
3	How I Learned That 'Looks Aren't Everything' I've been there.. long dry spells suck. You either wait for it to fall in your lap rarely and take what you get.. or change, learn the skills and get what you want. It should be essential learning for men to get a girl at will any time..	/r/seduction	12/09/19 11:02 PM
3	How I Learned That 'Looks Aren't Everything' Man...this is the cold hard truth.. definitely agree that the biggest change you can make to improve as a seducer is your vibe.. after having spent 6 months getting into the best shape of my life after a bad breakup, I'm finally getting more looks and attention from women that ever before. Which led me to quickly realize that I have some serious hangups because I'm still not taking shots nor closing. Clearly looks and fitness definitely help.. but if I had to choose one or the other? Vibe and pe…	/r/seduction	12/09/19 10:58 PM