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| 2 | If a man and a woman are friends, then the man is (most likely) sexually attracted to the woman?From personal experience: Yes and no. My friends are very attractive. But the reason I hang out with them is because it's their friendship that's valuable to me (coincidentally that makes them even more attractive). But I'm not actively pursuing them, because we have an established platonic relationship and they're usually taken or they're part of the LGBT. If the opportunity arises where we're both single (and they're interested in men), I'd ask them out. If they say no, it is what it is. To ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:37 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?Unironically go meet better women Women are the only ones that allow for emotional discussions while men get all squirmy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 07:36 AM |
| – | Who has more unrealistic dating expectations, men or women, why?This is why I say every loser man should build up platonic friendships with women before trying to brutforce dating Hell, all men would benefit from platonic friendships with women But nooo "muh redpill uwu, muh cant be friends with heckin femoidozinos uwu" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | JDBF (Just Don’t Be Fat)Two questions: Is your face cute? If the answer to this is yes, you're at least 1 or 2 points better looking than you think. Are you morbidly obese or just fat? If you're morbidly obese, forget men until you're at least close to a healthy weight. Not because "nobody wants you" but for your own good. If you're just fat, work on making a consistent workout schedule. You'll reach your goal eventually as long as you stick to it. All you really need is an hourglass figure to drive most men wild, you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 06:19 AM |
| 2 | About Looks and Physical Attractionif he's hilarioud but fat I'mma stop you right there, it's the fat that's the problem Only when that is gone does the rest of that example become a problem If you're not physically attractive, your personality can't even begin to matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:40 AM |
| 2 | About Looks and Physical AttractionFuck that scale is brutal but completely true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:36 AM |
| 2 | About Looks and Physical AttractionLooks matter first Which is why looks are the most important thing, they're the crowbar that breaks open the doors of opportunity After that personality matters if you're aiming for a relationship If not, who cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together./thread I swear some of these posts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menan attractive shy or socially awkward guy is cute and worth pursuing FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Women have zero tolerance policy for even slightly socially awkward menDepends largely on where you live. In Eastern Europe that doesn't exactly track. All the niche weirdos want the classic jock archetype with a little nerdiness sprinkled in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why women think men suck at relationshipsI will be shocked and possibly have to erect some sort of monument to him. But, I've met a lot of men and in the iconic words of a well know crooner, "I just haven't met him yet". Maybe it's a thing in nerdy circles, but every single guy I know wants a shelf to display his nerd shit at the very least, and a desk for all their electronics. Most want a poster or two or art of some sort. But that's the thing. Men look at what they need because having more causes only issues with minimal to no benef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Why women think men suck at relationshipsI see. I mostly disagree with you. I think the core issues here are: Your BF wanted the princess lifestyle, but bought into "masculine minimalism" let's call it, going against his own desires. There's a COLOSSAL difference between comfortable minimalism, which most men want, and matress-on-floor-only-food-in-fridge-is-beans type of minimalism. Men unironically don't need much. That doesn't mean we barely need anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upI mean mom seems to agree with us in that case And of course they agree, buying something and wearing it once is stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upDidn't you say in a comment you are around 40yo? It makes sense why you think he has no influence, you're out of touch with the younger generations. Cute little jab there at the end, shame it's objectively untrue. Tate set back the evolution of what men could be at least by a hundred years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upAnd who judged you for it? Nobody sane I can tell you that And sorry if my last comment came off as aggressive towards you, I'm moreso angry at the stupid standard because it's so damn illogical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upNo You CHOOSE to buy into moronic standards that you yourself admit were put there BY WOMEN There's less than 0 reasons that you can't wear the same dress to literally every outing ever Except if you delude yourself that there are reasons Most men only have 1 or 2 suits at best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upmarry their best female friend regardless of looks As someone whose friend group mostly consists of women I can tell you for a fact that this is not true. Same dating rules apply across the board Which is to say, if you are ugly, you are ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give upCould you describe your process of how you did it a little more? I don't think I'm unkind, at least according to my friends, but you never know what one might dig up in a good self reflection session | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Why women think men suck at relationshipsSo because your man is too weak to admit his desires, suddenly all men are like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | What this sub has taught you about dating and the other sex in general ?That I heavily disagree with both sides and also that I'm completely undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't think average men get laid that much actuallySo you're saying I should go on a cougar hunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:41 PM |
| – | People of PPD: To what extent would you blame the rise of celebrity/influencer culture on the hyperinflation of dating? And, if it is one of the more important factors to take note of, what should the average young man and woman do to adapt to these circumstances?Celebs? Yeah they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 06:29 AM |
| – | People of PPD: To what extent would you blame the rise of celebrity/influencer culture on the hyperinflation of dating? And, if it is one of the more important factors to take note of, what should the average young man and woman do to adapt to these circumstances?Ignore celebrities Block celebrity posts Report celebrity bullshit as false advertisement or terrorism if you're feeling spicy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Genuine close friendship between men and women is basically impossibleGuess I'm gonna need to tell the majority of my friends they don't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually benefit from this sub ?The only thing I get is losing the little hope I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Women do use dating apps, but they stop using them quicker than men because they work for themI'm a dude and I agree Lasted on Tinder for a month before kicking it. Friend convinced me to join Bumble. Lasted for less than a day. I hate modern dating so much. Drowning in alcohol and cats sounds preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Women do use dating apps, but they stop using them quicker than men because they work for themthe other half is fat and dressed like shit Maybe in america | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Women do use dating apps, but they stop using them quicker than men because they work for themThey absolutely work for women, if you know what you're looking for. If you're just browsing randomly, yeah they suck. Also, women are the selling point of the app, men are the cashcows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:05 AM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upMost women today are talking to several people wanting to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:12 PM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upNo I didn't. Call me when you stop spinning lies about what I said. Then we can continue the conversation respectfully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:11 PM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upHow do you know she doesn't have a date with other guys lined up already? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 1 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.That's not a relationship then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:07 PM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upThat's not what I said. You can lie and spin stories all you want, I was pretty clear with my words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | For those that have a girlfriend, how would you describe her views on gender issues?Solid stuff, hope you both enjoy it for decades to come | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:05 PM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upContrary to your belief, friends can ask friends out, which is the case I'm talking about, which is, in fact, competition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:04 PM |
| 3 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?Going outside. Every guy with a girl around his arm is conventionally attractive. And don't get me wrong I'm happy for them. But I'm years away from looking like that. Personality isn't gonna save me from being a fat bastard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:02 PM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upContrary to your belief, the single guys in her social circle, dms and on the dating apps don't magically stop existing when you go on a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:59 PM |
| 0 | For those that have a girlfriend, how would you describe her views on gender issues?Bro where did you find her? Sounds like a dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:09 PM |
| 9 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.Not good enough for a relationship. Like you said, that's a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:36 AM |
| 5 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?I'd prefer to not dox my country exactly, but from what I hear the attitude is pretty prevalent throughout all of Eastern Europe. Tall, dark and handsome seems to be all the rage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:34 AM |
| 8 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.Being alone is better than being in a loveless relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:35 AM |
| 5 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?You do realize you repeated what I said in a more nonsensical way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:34 AM |
| 2 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?Maybe it's the country I live in (not America), but the stuff you said about male personality/nice guys absolutely does not hold true, not even among the alt/nerd/outcast crowd which I vibe in. Looks here trump everything else, after that personality becomes a thing that matters. Which is unfortunate because I live by the "be yourself" rule as being someone else is fucking tiresome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:42 AM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upYou were still on competition with every other man that wanted to date her Your mindset is a good one to have, but the competition still exists regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:37 AM |
| 5 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?I'm not misreading anything, they keep telling me personality matters more than looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 06:35 AM |
| 9 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?It's mostly women mostly who gaslight about this Until you push them on it, then they admit that looks matter far more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:21 AM |
| 17 | What blue pill advice do you think people choose to misinterpret?This is partly true The caveat is that you need to be attractive for women to come (pun intended) But not needing women is a mindset all men should adapt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:17 AM |
| – | You don’t choose to be in the competition. It’s easier to say “I’m not even trying” than admit you gave upThe problem is that dating specifically is a competition whether we like it or not. If you're trying to date, you're competing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:55 AM |
| 5 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Not from a Jedi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Pretty based ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.I'd say that's a little more than "somewhat" negative. Sounds like a nightmare to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.Oh, that kind of negative. I thought she was just pessimistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Even when it comes to relationships hot guys have this "premium" version of it the average guy just doesn't get to experienceTreating women like human beings lands you into their friend circle. There's nothing wrong with that, but of you intend to date them you have to break some boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:07 PM |
| – | Q4A: Male loneliness, what is it to you?I think the issue is that men feel romantic loneliness far harder than women do. One if the main pieces of advice coming from women is to just replace a partner with a friendgroup because for them it works. For men a friendgroup can make romantic loneloness easier to deal with, but there will forever be an empty hole in our life where we want a partner to be. Incel/blackpill guys tend to have neither so that loneliness festers into hatered, whether self-oriented or outward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.cripplingly shy and somewhat negative Wife material tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age.I love how both pro police and pro BLM are no-nos I think most of those can be shuffled under being antipolitical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:14 PM |
| 3 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Women have no need for it anymore because they have no need for men. Generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?No your understanding of the concept of wanting is extremely limited. If a machine is programmed to want something, it will want it because it's programmed to do so. It's an artificially created want, sure, but from the machine's standpoint it is a want nontheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:48 AM |
| -2 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Actually it is factually true. If you program a machine to calculate that 2+2 is 5, then it will do so. If you program a machine to care about a human, then it will do so. The fake part comes from the fact that it is artificial love created by a developer. But as far as the machine is concerned, it loves said human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winNo sane guy would let a good woman go. If a break up happens they're at best single for a few months. Most of the women I hang out with fit the description. They are all taken or were single for a month or two at best. Their friends? All taken as well. My colleagues who fit the description? Taken as well. That's a total of 50-60 women right there, all in LTRs, some since they were 18 yes. The chance of meeting one of these women within the few months they're single and building enough rapport wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 11:41 AM |
| -3 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winThey're extremely rare in the sense that most of them are taken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is never ending and there’s no way to winWe both are brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:02 AM |
| 5 | In my experience women don't care what you have to say and they are generally not genuinely interested in anything you are unless it aligns with them.I'mma be real with you chief, as boring as I think women in general are, what you're describing is a human problem, not a gendered one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:00 AM |
| 22 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Because most men aren't attractive enough for it to be a relevant threat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:47 AM |
| 2 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?He opted for it because he has a choice For an ever-increasing minority of guys the choice is that, or being alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:40 AM |
| -1 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?Sorry to break it to you but you're an outlier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:37 AM |
| -2 | What does the popularity of AI girlfriends say about real life western women?It does want you because it's programmed to Sure, that's might not be real, but when the choice is existing alone vs having a machine "care" about you, I see why some men would choose this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areIf you know women can have a high emotional IQ then you should know personality characteristics & the way they’re treated can mean way more to a lot of women than physical appearance. Which is the huge flaw in the argument that only tall muscular men can get with women. They only matter AFTER the man is attractive. And I never said it's just tall and/or muscular men, alt chicks tend to go for skinnier/more androgynous looking dudes quite often. There’s tons of studies that say women prefer dad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areActually I think women have a pretty high emotional IQ. I also think that has nothing to do with what they're physically attracted to. And I've never said all women are the same. I said what they're attracted to is nearly the same, which it is. I didn't say it's a bad thing, I said it's just reality. There are outliers of course, but they are so unfathomably rare that they don't register as a statistic. I would gladly be proven wrong on this because that would only benefit me, but unfortunately … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:09 PM |
| 3 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?In no particular order: Promiscuity us only bad for women It's bad for both genders and has ruined dating Men aren't immune to the effects of promiscuity, they're just slightly more resistant to it The wall Bro some of the women I've seen 30, 40, even 50+, my lord The wall only exists if you don't take care of yourself, and that goes for both men and women Women should lower their standards That would just lead to rampant cheating and monkeybranching There's probably more but these just off the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | What are some popular opinions commonly held by people of your own gender here that you not share?standards for men haven't changed Where the hell do you live because I'd love to live there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 10:59 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships.You realize you are far more likely to get raped and murdered by the guy that approaches you? Cowards don't have the capability do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itIf a machine is programmed to care, it will. Is it fake? Kind of, but it's far realer than a human playing pretend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge itHuh that might explain why I like green and gray so much, didn't think about it like that Interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areNo, that’s a similar group of people experiencing similar things Most of these guys are nowhere close to similar to me You guys may think you’re able to hide those opinions from the women in your lives, but the red flags show and as soon as I see them I run for the fucking hills. Yeah yeah, women have superpowers, age old fairytale. I can guarantee you, if we met IRL randomly without knowing who we are online, the only "red flag" you'd pick up is that I'm awkward. Also, why, in that case, do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?I have far less of a reason to lie than tiktok cloutchasers, but you do you m8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Because they didn't realize the man would be bad to date until later on? I said objectively bad Think drug dealer, violent criminal, etc. Someone who clearly spells bad idea, not someone who is sneaky about it Because the pros of dating that man whatever they may be outweigh the cons? With the above mentioned framing, what would the pros of dating someone like that be? Other than the fact that their life is exciting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?Spoiler alert, TikTok trends are for clicks, they don't represent those women's actual beliefs I know you love believing everything you see on the internet, but unfortunately most of that is a lie, sorry to burst your little safety bubble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?Uh huh Now show me who they're actually dating My money on that they will find it extremely weird that a guy doesn't have insta/twatter/snapchat/<insert social media here> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyMy parents and grandparents wanted to actually be with eachother, but they were never forced to be with eachother I already agreed with you that enforced monogamy is not the way because it'll lead to a worse society Do you hate promiscuity because you can’t partake in it or do you not like the idea of women having sex in general? Neither, I just think sex is should be something intimate between two loving partners, and having sex with random nobodies is the complete antithesis of that Also I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Chilling and vibing isn't boring unless you're just sitting still doing nothing in complete silence I don't, but why is it bad to just do that in complete silence? This is exactly my point, women for some reason CANNOT comprehend the concept of nothing happening (Not claiming you're a woman, I'm just saying the thought process is very similar) it's blowing my mind that you're trying to frame this as some shortcoming that only women have Because the way women are addicted to excitement is highl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:09 PM |
| 0 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyThis is what freedom looks like and if you oppose it, understand that what you’re advocating for is the control of women and stand by that opinion. I don't oppose it That's why I said it's unfortunate, but I should've clarified it's unfortunate for me specifically because I hate promiscuity and casual dating I was born to late to witness the glory days of dating that my parents and grandparents got to partake in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?My point is that it's a lie There's literally no reason why a person that's active on social media would want be with someone "off the grid" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:57 PM |
| 4 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyNot necessarily It just means they're the outlier to the norm Being gay is also an outlier to the norm, but I doubt anyone would say there's something biologically wrong with them (other than religious freaks but I don't count them as sane so...) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:49 PM |
| – | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?King shit tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:56 PM |
| – | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?Whenever the question pops up "would I date me?" the answer is always Yes But the real question is "Would women date me?" The answer to that, I realized, is that I don't meet the requirements to be romantically interesting to a woman Which is kind of funny because I platonically get on very well with women It is what it is I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Many women, by believing in "their worth", believe unattractive men aren't worthy enough, which is kind of a contradictionTheir dating worth is though Which I'd argue is a seperate thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:43 PM |
| 2 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyKey point being that they're in a liberal society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societySaid it better than I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 5 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyThere are exceptions to everything Example, most men want a submissive wife, yet I find that boring Me being the outlier doesn't magically invalidate what most men want naturally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” societyWe need to if we want to fix dating However we shouldn't because it'll lead to a worse society overall Freedom of the individual is unfortunately more important even if monogamy dies because of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:08 PM |
| 2 | What if another reason men are checking out of modern dating is the performance anxiety brought on by social media & "display" culture?minimal social media tiktok trend Clown world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:03 PM |
| 0 | How hard it is for you all to be social?Flair checks out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How hard it is for you all to be social?Depends With friends - pretty easy Friends of friends - takes time getting used to but has generally been positive though awkward Strangers - I'm an awkward mess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Men do We just don't considering boredom We call it RNR, chilling, vibing, etc. Literally there can be nothing happening and we would be content But women NEED something happening That's why they love drama, that's why they go after badboys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 02:48 PM |
| 15 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Women like it when men open up. Women are more loyal than men. Women care about personality more than looks (I'm still being gaslit about this by friends). There's probably more but these are just off the top of my head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:01 AM |
| 6 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?That one still holds true The caveat here is that the men you want probably wont be in that group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?No they don't Well, to be more correct, they want a greek god wrapped in shy/nerdy wrapping paper The usual nerdy guy doesn't cut it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:46 AM |
| 8 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Women are addicted to excitement Once you stop being exciting the women stop coming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Gigabased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Yeah but why would you want to date a liberal woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areSure, you can call it anecdotal, but when thousands of men from various different countries have similar anecdotal experiences, eventually it comes to the point where it's not anecdotal, it's just reality Broad studies also confirm these "made up statistics" as you claim | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?Wrong again Social death for men comes in the form of a false rape accusation When that happens men lose their job, friends, family, get a marked on the sex offender registry which prevents them from attempting to restart a life The man's entire being is forever marked as a negative Since changing ones identity isn't as easy anymore so literally the only choice left is to die unfortunately | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:24 PM |
| – | A lot of posts here would be much more productive and fulfilling if we used "discussions" rather than "CMV"It wouldn't be so bad if they didn't retroactively start deleting comments that agree with OP that were made while the post was marked as a discussion Honestly, I'd argue CMV posts and the tag should be banned from the subreddit because the mods clearly don't know how to actually use the tag and the concept of CMV so it would be better to throw the entire thing out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?Worst case scenario? If she's normal, uncomfortable body language or verbalization of that discomfort If she's a b*tch, social shame, or at least an attempt at it If she's insane, hospital or death | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?False Getting beaten up within an inch of your life lands you in a hospital Social death makes it so your only path forward is suicide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | As a man, when you're interacting with a woman, what is your biggest fear?They don't but nice try Unless you mean politicians but politicians aren't human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What would happen if all Men abstained from sex for a entire year?Women would have the happiest year in their life Guys would hopefully stop simping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:53 PM |
| – | A lot of posts here would be much more productive and fulfilling if we used "discussions" rather than "CMV"Blame the mods, they're not very good at running a dating debate sub unfortunately Instead of bruteforcing every Discussion into a CMV post they should bruteforce more posts INTO discussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Would virgin guys be better off with casual sex for the first few times or no?Absolutely not The people who don't value sex as an intimate activity with their partner are FAR more likely to cheat We need LESS of those people in dating, not more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI'm not telling you what you specifically desire, I'm telling you what women mean when they say dad bod You might be one of the outliers, and that's fine, but there's a difference between you desiring something, and the majority of women desiring something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI wish this was true Where I live there's a bunch of tall women None of them go for the short guy, they'd rather take the guy that's their height The single couple I've seen where the girl was taller, they were both shorter than me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areNo real life pretty much confirms this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI mean it tracks That man is tall or otherwise conventionally good looking, dangerous (which translates to can protect/is exciting) and wanted by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:24 AM |
| 4 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areI regularly interact with female friends and their acquaintances and if anything they have confirmed most of what guys here believe that you claim are false statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:15 AM |
| 9 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areComplete lie. What women desire when they say "dad bod" is a guy who is fit but doesnt have a visible six pack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Do abusive/manipulative men have better relationships than normal ones?You can philosophize, moralize or do whatever, I'm just saying what's happening on a basic level. Manipulative assholes get hated after the fact. By that time they've already gotten what they wanted so the hate isn't really relevant. It'll hit them later on, in their 30s and 40s, that being an asshole when their nature is the opposite is a burden to deal with. For now they're just happy they're getting attention from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Do abusive/manipulative men have better relationships than normal ones?I'll believe that when I see evidence to the contrary. So far, unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 07:32 AM |
| 4 | Do abusive/manipulative men have better relationships than normal ones?Nah I'm here cause I don't look good enough to date and it's kind of funny and kind of sad seeing people still desperately try to understand the dating world when it's literally all just dicerolls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | How does fitness culture affect dating and relationships?Women think having 10% body fat is the new average for men. Women also think being skinny is the only thing guys want. Meanwhile the chubby nerdy chick can lock down 7/8/9 guy by wearing something just a slight bit more showoffy than her usual and caring about his interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 05:03 PM |
| 17 | Do abusive/manipulative men have better relationships than normal ones?Don't hate the player, hate the game. I think it's sad too, but as a guy I get it. Being a good, kind person gets no results. Being a manipulative asshole does. The boys are just adapting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Depends on how well we click. Doesn't have nerdy interests? Gone Doesn't have hobbies? Gone Can't fit into my friend groups? Gone Doesn't care about men's issues and men's mental health (and well mental health in general)? Gone Does she want to go out and travel constantly? Gone "but muh new tings and excitementerino!!!1!" Gone Now don't get me wrong I'm desperate. But I also get bored easily and have a hyper specific way of life. If she can't fit that, I'd rather stay alone. Relationships are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Many of the problems in the dating landscape can be attributed to a lack of viable social venues for young people.potential match for us This sounds like "Fit our specific standards or don't talk to us". Might want to rephrase that unless you actually mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 06:24 AM |
| 9 | Men focus way too much on dating appsSounds good, doesn't work Women still have the same looks standards IRL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?Not to doxx you but, Eastern Europe? It sounds like Eastern Europe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythTIL I'm a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:00 AM |
| – | Your success (or the lack of) dating is not a valid measure of your entire self worth, therefore shouldn’t be treated as such.Dunno of you'll read this op but thank you for this This is exactly what men need in today's world, not Andy Taint's bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 03:02 PM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Eversince I deleted my main account I was only lurking but damn you pulled me back in. A male slut brings the same danger of cheating and other issues to the relationship as a female one. A high count male is like being the top OF creator for women. Impressive, but not relationship material. Women have two body types they like: muscular and skinny. When they say they want a "dad bod" what they mean is Henry Caville (insert any actor you think is attractive here) but without visible abs. There ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:21 AM |
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