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I shook my damn head Lol I’m just posting to to express my Ava love. No one I know watches this show altho it’s hilarious and Ava cmtfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 05:30 PM
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This is such an essential post. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:15 PM
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Yes, therapy with narcissist or manipulative men is inadvisable. They will charm the therapist and appear reasonable while all the while learning addt’l ways to play upon you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 06:14 PM
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I think using “foodie call” has become a brilliant excuse for low effort and penniless men to take women on bargain basement dates. It sounds reasonable and meritorious. It’s transformed into a widely accepted justification. Reality is, using a date for a free meal isn’t pervasive, nor is it a scheme utilized strictly by women. Crappy men also do this e.g. “whoopsie, forgot my wallet at home.” In life, there are just shitty people that the rest of us have to navigate the world with. And we all d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 02:50 PM
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Lol I’d be pissed too but also blame myself asking strangers on Reddit who probably also haven’t had a date in 10 yrs lmao. I think he’s just trying to cope, it’s pride and not admitting he f’d up. In 2032 when he gets his next chance he’ll be the one suggesting the steakhouse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 03:06 PM
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Men can’t even wash their asses right, no way I would trust my uterine health in the hands of a man. Condoms or abstinence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 02:02 PM
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They will hold it against you and use it against you e.g. this donkey will expect her to take so much of his shit b/c she’s been treated so poorly in the past. As he said, comparatively he’s a “saint.” He will also weaponize it against her in arguments to hurt her or to catapult himself as a better & smarter person. Sadly, she’s chosen another dud, and many women stay w/shit men b/c its been worse and so badly treated by other shit men in the past. Hope she is making smarter choices and leaves t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 01:29 PM
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False flattery. Denigrates and sexually exploitative. Idiotically sends demeaning texts to victim. Pulls slack jawed ridiculous explanation from his ass b/c he still expects to fuck her. Insults her intelligence and actually attempts to dupe her w/birdbrain explanation. Genuinely thought she’d show up for a date after he makes disparaging & contemptuous comments about her body, is a moron who accidentally sends to her, plays her for stupid w/lame ass excuse, b/c he’s admittedly “desperate” and p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 09:29 PM
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B/c when ppl break up, the mother is seen as the default provider. W/out marriage, a man can walk away and leave the kids w/her and it becomes the woman’s burden to track him down for child support. e.g. the guy who had the “spiritual wife” he said the quiet part out loud. When asked why he wasn’t legally married to his “wife,” when they were planning for children, he explicitly said b/c it would be easier to walk away if it didn’t work out. Note, this is all the while expecting her to give up h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 08:44 PM
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Who is this queen 👑? He was dumbstruck cuz he genuinely couldn’t answer the question. She said the quiet part out loud, and I’m not sure if she realized it. She was trying to help him do some introspection, and that’s not men want to here, b/c men DO want women to lower their standards. One scrote was whining cuz on a first date, he asked the girl to pay 1/2 b/c he just had to make a big payment & was waiting on his next check yet. She emails him later saying he didn’t meet her standards & didn’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 09:13 PM
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I haven’t experienced this but I’ve seen examples. Three days ago was that FDS post re the woman whose husband wouldn’t have sex w/her b/c he told her he was not attracted to her due to not being in the “best physical shape” that she was 8 years prior and before she had a baby. That type of body related manipulation is psychological abuse and affects health and cause depression, anxiety, stress or loneliness. It’s also a form of control. Which is typical in age gap relationships between older me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 05:05 PM
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OOP has now learned the lesson, the only time men go this hard for a woman is when he either used to sleep with her, is sleeping with her, or hopes to sleep with her. The fact he kept defending Mary over and over despite her blatant disrespect of OOP and invited Mary to OOP’s home after she said she was uncomfortable were blatant signs something wasn’t right. Hindsight is 20/20 tho. But let this be a lesson to all, anytime a man starts telling you you’re “too sensitive” or you’re “taking it too …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 04:38 PM
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Another alopecia sufferer and my friends were trying to understand, b/c Will & Jada have been in the public eye for decades at this point, joked about, dragged, meme’d etc. why is it this joke that sent him over the edge? Well I started showing them pictures and they were like “ohhh” and it completely changed their opinions and are defending him now. Especially after watching me cry. Also made sense to them now why one day out of the blue I went bald. I never told anyone b/c I was so embarrassed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 03:06 PM
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Yep, this is why you’ll see them on other subs arguing to the death that something horrible a girl went through wasn’t rape. They say she “felt regretful” the next morning. Dismissing she didn’t know her name b/c she was so intoxicated, or was coerced into having sex. They don’t want to face they’ve assaulted multiple girls. I chilling a story I will never forget is a girl said after telling him no repeatedly, she just stopped and froze, and while raping her, the guy said to her “what’s the matt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:44 PM
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Garbage men. They’ve both probably already cheated. How is it hard for men but not women? We are the ones that get dicks thrown at us as soon as we walk out the door. Men typically have to do the pursuing, so they are looking to cheat. Or a pickmeisha is after him whom no tasteful man would want to be with. Supports the theory they “always affair down.” In many instances the wife/gf will look like a beauty pagent contestant and the man cheats w/a troll. Or the woman will be highly successful pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:35 PM
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Adding to the OP, similarly, don’t tell a man what you like. What I mean by that is women think if they tell a guy what they like and he gets it, that means he’s really into her and wants to make her happy. When what you’re really doing is telling a man exactly how to finesse you. So if you tell a guy, I like roses, and he gets you a bouquet of roses, you’re smitten while he’s thinking “this is so easy, got one foot in the door.” Then you tell him, you’ve always wanted to ride in a pony carriage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 03:10 PM
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Be careful w/this tho, some men will take it as a challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/22 02:43 PM
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Probably the first time you’re very thankful work became hectic. You would’ve vetted and uncovered his true colors eventually, but happening this way saved you time & energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:08 PM
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Don’t disagree that ppl should have more family time, but I really really wish ppl would take these factors into account before they have kids. The cost of daycare, the time demands, the cost, the emotional work, the the housekeeping labor etc etc. And did he not learn this lesson after having baby #1 but added more? I have no sympathy for this idiot. Admittedly lazy and bad work ethic, yet brings multiple children into the world he’s responsible for and wonders why he’s joyless. Cherry on top, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 10:00 PM
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mAybE tHe quesTion blindSided hIM. Let’s pretend that’s true, he initially said her “boobs.” Upon thought, he answered he loves what she does for him. He’s never marrying her. He doesn’t love her. When did women begin believing it’s prudent to have kids, buy homes and start businesses w/men who refuse to commit to them? Feel really bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 10:35 PM
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Precisely. A so called ‘pretty’ woman has a personality, thoughts, beliefs, feelings, likes, dislikes, and so many other characteristics. All this tells us that they either never bothered to get to know their wives, instead treating them wives like blow up sex dolls not wishing they’d speak, or they went into it eyes wide already knowing they weren’t compatible, or not caring if they were compatible. And now they want to find another woman to bleed dry, split 50/50 with, help pay their child sup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:53 PM
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I’ve said it before and I’m gonna say it again. I mean NO disrespect to single mothers. But you really have to be real w/yourselves. If you meet a single man, never married, has no kids, and you have multiple children and he says he wants to help you care for. You need to be raising both eyebrows. These men target single lonely women to get at their children. Overwhelmingly the girls, but boys too. And these little girls, like in OOP’s case, will see these predators as their bf’s and will compet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 07:10 PM
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Men are masterful Houdinis. Men will date a woman for 2 yrs and then immediately after they get married, or she has their baby, turn into monster when they’ve trapped her. They can play the part for years before they reveal themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 09:27 PM
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Are you psychic? This morning I was thinking about a guy I would cry on the phone to and I’m literally physically cringing. He’d try to calm me down, everything but change the behavior that had me so upset lol. Looking back, he did love it, and it made him believe I was wrapped around his finger, and I was. Thus, he’d be incredulous when he asked me to do things that I found to be degrading & I’d say NO. I had some dignity remaining. Tho w/all that crying, I can see perfectly why he thought I wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 07:09 PM
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JMO, one red flag is if he himself brings it up, especially if it’s not really related to the subject of the discussion you’re having. Another is, if he rants laboriously about his EX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 06:11 PM
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Unconfirmed, but this idiot was acting dodgy one morning. Later I peered out the bdrm window & a woman I recognized rolled up. He’d previously told me she’d had a crush on him since HS, was a lonely woman who wanted a husband and kids and was wealthy. She was very unattractive & odd which is why he said he’d never dated her. He walked to her car, they talked a little then she handed him an envelope (I assume $$ b/c he was having cash flow issues) He turns and looks back at the house and sees me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 05:12 PM
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Had one pull this. Needed to “stop by his house real quick” before he took me home (pre-FDS.) I told him I’d wait in car, similarly, says he lives in a bad neighborhood & I shouldn’t wait in the car alone. So I went up to his apartment, and stood by the front door the entire time. Neither of us speaking to each other while he walked around doing nothing. While my feet were killing me, I turned down his invite to sit and stayed by the front door. Finally he stops walking around doing nothing and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 08:32 PM
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He was doing so well until the last 20 seconds. The problem with DL Hughley is he’s a LVM. As evidenced by the last 20 sec of that clip. He says so many thoughtful things that I agree with … and then he always messes it up but taking it a couple steps too far. The other arguably bigger issue is he’s the WORST messenger there could possibly be. He was (is?) a serial cheater who got one of his mistresses pregnant. However, the mistress’ bf shook the baby to death and Hughley was relieved b/c it me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:17 PM
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Hilarious. And factually correct. My two fav men quotes: “Poor men invented love so they can fuck for free.” and “Men only want equality when it’s a conversation of paying bills and hitting women back.” Wait one more: “Most men are just some guy.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 02:30 PM
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What do most people say on Dateline? “I never thought it would be my family on Dateline.” Thank you for bringing this to my/our attention. This is admittedly not a topic I paid attention to, I never even heard of the phrases family annihilation or familicide previously. But it’s so important and yet another risk to women, and now I’m intrigued. I had to know why it occurs so often in August and I looked it up. Researchers say it’s because estranged parent, predominantly men, usually have access …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 02:29 AM
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The very second you think it can’t go lower. I’m literally speechless. This is so spine-chilling that I can’t string together the correct words to articulate how horrifying this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 09:37 PM
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My aunt is on husband #3. But husband #1 knew me from when I was a toddler. And husband #2 knew me from when I was in elementary. Husband #1 hit on me when I was 24. Husband #2 tried it when I was 21. Husband #1 was so bold, MY MOTHER WAS THERE, and she told his sister she better get him before she kill him. Husband #2 was so insistent and determined to get me in his car, at a few minutes my body went cold and I felt like alarm bells were going off in my head. He literally followed me down the s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:21 AM
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That was also my very first question!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:23 PM
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So he’s looking for walking, talking, blow up doll. Great that he said all this so she didn’t waste her time. I wish she hadn’t responded at all tho so that he can continue shooting himself in the face. He may modify now to fool future women & waste their time. Let’s normalize completely ghosting these weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:22 PM
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Be careful w/widowed men. Take a trip to the dating a widower sub and you will see that has it’s negatives. Particularly the “phantom-ex” phenomenon that someone recently posted about in FDS. And other issues. Just make sure to vet thoroughly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:28 PM
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First, I wouldn’t qualify being single neither as being “alone” or “doomed”. Lowering your standards just to be in a relationship is what I would qualify as being doomed. But at what I think you’re getting at, the # of HVW does significantly outweigh the #’s of HVM so in that respect, if you are strictly heterosexual & looking to be w/someone on the same level, it’s likely you won’t end up w/a colloquial “life partner”. That doesn’t mean your life won’t be fulfilling or happy. Which is why a tru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 04:19 PM
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Your step sister is lucky to have you. I had no guidance other than my friends who made it seem like “casual sex” was so much fun, and by her age I had her same mentality that I wanted to be part of all the fun that everyone else was part of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 01:27 AM
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Read the Vice article. That Professor is trash. Calls herself a non cheater apologist and then says this: “At the end of the day, for these men the big thing was, they love their wives. They adore them. What I heard in every narrative was, ‘This is boosting my self-esteem and I feel better about myself and I'm getting my needs met, but gosh I really wish I was getting this from my wife.’ They're staying because they have hope; hope that on some level things are going to change at home.” My blood…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:17 PM
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Hahaha I love you & this story so much, thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:30 PM
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Yes and I really liked the point she makes about how men will use the humiliation of a girl/woman, as bonding. And even if the guy is bothered by the girl sleeping w/another guy, he will slut shame her to cover up his feelings so it’s an extremely foolish thing to do b/c he’ll just weaponize it against her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:20 AM
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Using your body as a conduit for revenge or to elicit jealousy is probably the best example of the saying “drinking poison to make someone else sick.” The issue at its very root is that men & women, for the most part, don’t view sex similarly. So girls will make the mistake that a guy will be hurt if she sleeps w/someone else, b/c she would be hurt if he did that, when in reality, she was just another hole to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 01:14 AM
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Men these days love living in the shadows of the grey areas. The rules of FDS are explicit, verbalized, and clear because men love dragging us onto unknown territory where excuses can be made and they can feign innocence or ignorance. Adding to my book of quotes. This pinpoints exactly what bothers them about this sub. Sure they’ll come up with bs reasoning. I think my favorite is when they say “it’s all man hating, they don’t give actual dating advice.“ Which is really saying FDS is not male pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:41 PM
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I see this more often than I should in my line of work. This happened years ago but I will never forget the sheer astonishment on one woman’s face who refused to believe her bf was raping her daughter b/c as she told us “I let him F me in my mouth & my a** and you want be to belive he’s f’in my daughter!!!” Yes, and he was doing those disgusting things to her daughter too when the mother would go to work overnight to pay all the bills & leave him home w/her children. The daughter went through he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 11:16 PM
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and held there he held her in the goddamn cake & her family literally wants her to stay w/this abuser. No words. At least the columnist supported her. If this was posted on Reddit she’d be told to try marriage counseling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:23 PM
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I’m HOLLERING at Judge reading this pervert. “why you come whining to me now?” “b/c you’re a 60 yr old man dating a 27 yr old child” Plus he’s just flat out stupid, he tanked part of his own case b/c the texts he showed the Judge, indicated he expected the loan directly back from ‘Rebecca’ cause he asked the girl for ‘Rebecca’s’ # and his horny self dodn’t realize what we all did 20 seconds into the story ‘Rebecca’ doesn’t exist. And in the end he still didn’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 12:34 AM
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I love how she immediately was like “i’m out” and didn’t waste her time further. So many times these types of convos are posted & the women scold the guy & then several more pages until she finally accepts he’s the trash person he revealed himself as on page 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 09:34 PM
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I read a story a long time ago in college & the story has stuck with me. It was a short story and I believe the author is a popular black woman author but for the life of me I’ve never been able to remember who or the title. This woman marries a man, he keeps her chronically pregnant, he doesn’t support his family, and after finding him cheating for the millionth time she leaves him, for real this time. She turns her life around without him. The house is always warm, the have food, there’s laugh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 10:24 PM
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It takes courage to post your story, as much as this helps you to reveal, you’re helping other women in similar situations, or helping those not to get caught in this web, so thank you for sharing. The societal brainwash is virtually ingrained in our DNA. Be kind to yourself. Extend yourself the same grace you would a friend telling you the same story. Indeed many women share your story. Forgive yourself for things you did due to low self esteem and trauma. I hope that you are in therapy to assi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:45 PM
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This man had been faking for so long he convinced himself no one could tell this is all an act. He had no idea how transparent he is. And he had nothing worthwhile to say in rebuttal, and he knew that. So all he could do is smile to try and camouflage his embarrassment. Had it been a woman calling him out, what he would have done is try and bully her, talk over her & say a bunch of sexist crap. Other men would eat that up. That strategy doesn’t work with a man, other men would sniff how weak tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 04:08 PM
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I mean he literally sexualized a crayon. He really did that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:35 AM
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JMO, a lot of these women commit emotional incest w/their sons, and make mini husbands out of them due to the fact that the fathers are LVM/NVM. And yes, many are OG pick meishas for reproducing w/those LVM/NVM in the first place. So then you get these MILs competing w/their daughter in laws or the other opposite end of the spectrum, mothers trying to convince women to date their “nice guy” sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 05:40 PM
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I forgot, she was 22 when they met! Makes me sick to my stomach. He’s been grooming & negging her for years & started when her brain was still developing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 02:58 PM
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I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t leave her alone either. I think they have another meet up after this where he tracks her down and she again has to shut him down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:23 AM
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Lol he’s so full of shit. After all that he rejects his robo-vagina threat. Besides, they’re all broke & couldn’t afford it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 12:17 AM
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Addition to that, even if he became super husband over nite, I could understand her still wanting to leave b/c I’m sure he’s accused her of “nagging” him for years, and literally sat and watched her struggle, but not until she’s legitimately out the door, is he making an effort. He had the capability to do so all along but chose not to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 07:43 AM
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I have never had a good experience being set up. How to explain … in the end I’ve felt it was insidious. The “match-maker” always ended up admitting they knew I was out of the guy’s league and/or a guy I would never date. We were set us up b/c I’d be a good catch/influence/ideal for the guy. And one “friend” admitted it was b/c she felt my standards were high and my standards made her feel bad about herself (she literally told me this), so she wanted to hook me up w/one of her LVM’s friend so we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:22 PM
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Holy smokes. This entire post was such a great read and good behind-the-scenes-look at the debauchery, but this last point surprisingly startled me. Although it shouldn’t have! Thank you for sharing it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 03:06 PM
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This is how I live my life innately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 08:17 PM
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This makes me so sad for her. I sense she doesn’t have many friends if any and is codependent on her ‘bf’ if we even want to call him that. Pick me’s are on their own as far as I’m concerned but it goes deeper for this girl she needs friends and support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 02:24 PM
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Lol I can’t believe the sigh of relief I let out. I was legit a bit anxious, happy ya’ll are back 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 02:50 PM
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Do not hesitate to call the police if your life is at imminent danger. The bad people who call the police on black ppl usually don’t do it out if fear but out of a feeling of superiority. Typically follows a white person issues a black person an order (turn down the music, show me your ID, show me where you live, don’t film me etc.), the black person refuses, and all of a sudden the white person is scared for their life and calls the police. But if you’re being assaulted or at risk of being assa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:51 AM
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