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Nope…. Just gray rock them and try not to stress about it. It will probably get worse too…. Narcissists typically are very very vain and shallow…most have gotten by with their bullshit and manipulation because of their looks. Once that starts fading…. She will start dramatically losing any “power” she has/had over people. This will cause her to become even worse and bitter especially once she sees you winning at life with an attractive new GF.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/23 02:00 AM
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It’s really really bad out there now…. Lots of women actively preying on broken down, devastated divorced men.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 01:36 PM
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Nope…. That’s the thing that blew my mind the most. I had to jump through endless hoops…. Outright lies… proved with rock solid evidence…… oh ok…. Here’s some new fresh lies…. Proven false by yet again more rock solid evidence. On and on for 2 1/2 years….. absolutely nothing negative for her for lying constantly to the court. On my end… it was basically “hey you are lucky you have proof against it…. Consider it a win”.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 06:36 PM
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Oh definitely the mothers involved. They clearly do not care what’s in the best interest of the kids. I was referring to the Lawyers though
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 03:19 AM
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And they truly don’t care about the damage being caused… even damage to any children involved. This was the part that shocked me the most…. I knew going in it would be bad… but I thought the “human “ side would come out with kids welfare involved… but nope…. They simply don’t care.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/23 02:44 AM
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Men …. At least married men don’t stand there ground anymore because they know they are fucked if they do.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 09:22 PM
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They really are literally incapable of it. I’ve spent far far to much time trying to be rational and logical about things when it comes to them. It’s modern society and social media for sure…it has turned modern women into self entitled, narcissistic, very very selfish “the world revolves around me” type of personalities. I think relationships are doomed honestly…it’s only going to get worse.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 09:20 PM
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I’m all for 50/50… making time for each other…. But that’s not the case and I’ve seen it with several women now. Nope…. I don’t HAVE to deal with that shot anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 06:33 PM
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I’ve run into the same issues….with both people having kids and a life…. The woman thinking that HER time and schedule were the ONLY things that mattered. Expecting me to cater completely to her and jump through hoops, adjust to her terms. Uhhhh…. Nope…. Dealt with that shit for far to long.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 11:17 AM
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Because of 2 things….. They are no longer the center of attention and their looks usually are forever altered for the worst. they know that they have fuckin got you now for sure…..now what are you gonna do?? Leave? Nope they know they can treat you however they want.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:08 AM
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It’s not even worth the hassle anymore. Spend time and energy only to find out one is just like the other. Just make it clear to them that your time and energy is important to you and you don’t make exceptions for anybody. I’ve had exceptionally good results with this as far as keeping the bullshit and games at bay…. At least for a little while. But in the end, get into a relationship with them… they will go back to their old ways unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:30 AM
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Unfortunately not…. It’s worse because now you have even less time or energy for the bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 01:18 AM
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It’s 100 % up to us…. Stop tolerating bullshit from women. You don’t have to settle for anything less that 50/50 effort. I flat out tell women now… nope I don’t like that bullshit…. I don’t tolerate it…. Knock it off or kick rocks…. That’s all there is to it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 11:59 PM
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It gets worse… the more you date and run into this bullshit…. The more your guard goes up and the less tolerance you have for any bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 11:55 PM
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I’m finding it incredibly hard to deal with the slightest amount of uncalled for bullshit. And we don’t have to either…. I think a lot of these women were married for years to a punching bag…. They walked all over their husbands because they knew the husbands had no choice but to take it. They get catapulted i to reality when they realize that …. Oh…. This person doesn’t HAVE to take my shit. Sad part is, they have been that way for so long….. they’re not going to change for the better.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:37 PM
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Divorce is… Realizing you being the “perfect “ husband,father,provider,etc….. doesn’t mean shit…..the spouse can literally have it all… and still fuck it up….and all those years/decades were wasted….especially considering you were probably miserable the entire time while jumping through a million ever changing hoops to make her happy. Divorce is watching a person change into a completely different, horrible person before your very eyes. Divorce is trying to remain the good parent while the other…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 05:46 AM
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I purposely hired a “former CPS” female lawyer. I thought with my case , having kids involved she would absolutely go to work ferociously considering having a ton on evidence on how crazy and abusive my ex was. It was a mistake, you could tell she couldn’t care less and was barely doing them minimum … with me doing the vast majority of the work.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 12:10 PM
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There is absolutely zero positives and only negatives for a man to get married now. On the flip side there is ONLY positives and ZERO negatives for a woman to get married. Seriously….. what positive things do women bring to the table in marriage? Everything good about your “GF” goes away once they’ve “got you” and become your wife. If someone has “got you” legally…. What incentive do they have to not turn into a horrible selfish,entitled person?
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 10:43 PM
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The difference is that they are checking superficial boxes… in the sense of not checking out how you are as a person, your personality,thoughts,wants,needs,etc. But seeing if you fill the roles they want in life.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 01:18 PM
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It’s crazy the sense of entitlement out there too. You will be on an interview instead of a date. They are seeing if you check all the boxes that they want.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 12:12 PM
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Yes….. you will waste soooo much time on these apps. They are like an attention seeking video game to them. No need to take anyone seriously when you have a sea of horny gullible dudes constantly feeding their egos.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 12:10 PM
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Yep….. they will play multiple men simultaneously…. Getting their life paid for while having absolutely no real interest in you while stringing you along.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 12:08 PM
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I’ve ran into a couple of women that were definitely planning this. I ALWAYS take the condom, rinse it out in the sink AND take it with me to throw away. I’ve had women get pissed at me because I didn’t “trust them” that they were on birth control and it was ok to cum inside with no condom…. 🙄. Seriously….. don’t put anything past anybody….. I don’t care how “logical “ she might seem.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 12:07 PM
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Yes…. Be very very careful of this. Especially with women in their 30’s+ with no children or worse…. Women with children looking to lock you into being either a monthly paycheck (child support) or…. You being the “step daddy” to her kids…. Which means you take care of all of them.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/23 12:02 PM
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You won’t because the family court system is absolutely fucked and criminally biased against men. I divorced my ex because she was a horrible true to life, narcissistic sociopath…. Physically, and mentally abused our children. All with literal proof ……. Guess what? She’s in therapy. She’s all better now, and that was in the past. I was lucky to get 50-50. I’ve seen women abandon their children, gone weeks and weeks or months of drug binges hang out with criminals do absolutely whatever they want…
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 06:12 PM
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Same with the delusional part and need for constant attention. Fuck that… give me a 6 who is a genuinely good person. She’s nearing 40 now and her looks and body are starting to slide…. You can really see her realizing that her “power” over men is dwindling away.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:46 PM
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You don’t plain and simple. I’ve dated multiple women since my separation/divorce….. all have ended with disappointment. People just aren’t the same anymore, you have to just accept it now.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 07:41 PM
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Mine is about the same… if I didn’t have kids I would 100 % buy a tiny home. All that space is just wasted,unused and has to be heated and cooled, not to mention the big backyard… just more to maintain
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 09:14 PM
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This is exactly what happens. They know who truly has all the power. that’s something women don’t like to admit, they don’t like or respect weakness/neediness. They will use that leverage to but incredibly cruel and manipulative
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 12:55 PM
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Nope… they simply don’t care. I had literal evidence, and was struck in front of our 5 year old…..she eventually got a citation for “domestic disturbance”. Lies her ass off in court submitted statements, says that I’m the abuser, blah blah…. I show evidence that she is clearly making false accusations….. Nothing….. ok, you’ve proved your innocence and she’s lying… no harm no foul. Crazy how the system works, unbelievably broken.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 10:07 PM
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Yep…. I have kept recordings of a ton of shit that have saved me multiple times. Crazy thing is that they don’t get into trouble for lying or making false allegations…… just meh… on to the next one until it yet again gets proven wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 01:57 PM
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The problem is that it’s never going to be enough. Women WILL find a way to “rationalize “ their terrible decisions and have a total lack is accountability now.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 08:25 PM
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Don’t count on that. My ex seemly could do absolutely whatever she wanted and nothing mattered.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 09:28 PM
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Similar to mine… My ex was pushing for us to take out a second mortgage and loan the money (we would never get it back) to her dad to pay all the years of back taxes he owed on his house…..he was going to lose it all if we didn’t “save them”. All the while cheating on me….. literally texting another dude AS SHE WAS ASKING FOR MY HELP. Luckily (I guess) she thought I had no idea about all her bullshit….I put it off until I could file for divorce. All those crocodile tears didn’t help her , they e…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 12:52 AM
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Same…. Ex attacked me…. Hitting me in the face right I front of our 5 year old. Called the cops, they clearly did not want to do anything….. was repeatedly asked “Well…..are you hurt?… are you injured “….apparently this was a deciding factor on whether or not they would be “forced “ to arrest her. My crying 5 year….”my mom hit my daddy, please arrest her “old and my red scratched up face and bloodshot eye wasn’t enough. I had to press the officers….they clearly didn’t want to do anything. Oh and…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 01:04 AM
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Dude I was in the same boat…. It’s sickening, it really appears that they don’t care at all especially when it comes to evidence. Even upon hearing the evidence, it was looked at like “oh that was in the past and she’s not like that anymore “. WTF?!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 04:15 AM
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Absolutely nothing happens to them. It is crazy…. It’s perjury, lying to law enforcement,filing false reports,etc. But nope…. When you jump through all the hoops and provide rock solid proof that they are clearly lying??……. Absolutely nothing happens to them. Yes…. It’s let’s just ignore it now,sweep it up the rug and move on. You are to just “consider yourself lucky” that you were able to prove the accusations wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:20 AM
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Oh yes, I totally agree!! When I hear that, back to back “abusive relationships “…… I nope the fuck outta there.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:14 AM
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Not necessarily…… she could very well be drawn to abusive relationships. That’s a problem in itself, I’ve known women personally that were like this. Not a bad woman by any means…. But constantly sought out terrible,abusive,cheating,etc men….. over and over. Some people absolutely love that constant drama.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 02:59 AM
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Another thing is that unfortunately…. Even if they are good women…. They may be so justifiably jaded that they will always have a wall up and you will just waste your time banging your head against it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 12:24 AM
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Very often yes. But if they truly have been in abusive relationships…. Especially multiple ones….and they stayed? Giant red flag 🚩….. run….because from my experience…. They aren’t going to ever be happy or satisfied with being in a healthy relationship and being treat well.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 12:14 AM
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The problem that I’ve run into in dating single moms is that they don’t respect YOUR time. Generally you are both single parents with busy schedules and pressed for time. But the single moms seem to think they are the only ones with schedules and time constraints…. Expecting you to bend to their schedules…. When they have time for you. Nah…. No thanks……you gotta meet me 50/50 or that’s a nope.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 12:12 AM
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Nope… mine was caught with clear cut evidence of her flat out lying in court submitted documents….. I provide clear cut proof….. what happens? Absolutely nothing…. I was “lucky” to have had the foresight to be documenting things all along so nothing bad happened to me. Her? Nope…. Not a damn thing…. Multiple big time lies she was caught in…. Absolutely nothing. This went on for 2 + years…. I still don’t understand how the legal system allows this…. It’s clearly a game.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/22 11:01 PM
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Yup…. And the ex’s seem to need to be reminded of that also 🤦‍♂️. The look on my ex’s face when I flat out tell her no… is priceless. Yeah…. Uh…. You have zero power over me now and I don’t have to talk or even listen to you. You can just see them spiraling, they have no idea what to do with that lose of control.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 10:37 PM
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It’s absolutely crazy how they can get caught doing all of this AND not suffer any consequences at all.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 02:47 PM
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Yup… in a nutshell this is what it boils down to. 😂….. no thanks….. that’s a nope from me
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 03:29 PM
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Yup…. Once they realize that you are no longer married and they have no power over you AND you won’t be tolerating any of her bullshit anymore….. Totally different mindset from them, it’s crazy how they act when “they’ve got you” and you are essentially helpless against them vs now that you are free of their tyranny. Fuck that shit…. Never again will I ever allow another person to have that control over me. 1st even hint at it….. boom…. So long…. Kick rocks kid.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 12:00 AM
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It really is…. We men are fucking stupid for ignoring everything else in favor of looks and sex…. Both of which will change dramatically once they’ve “got you”. Not me anymore…. Unless you offer 50/50…. I’ll stay single for the rest of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 02:27 PM
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Yup…. Modern feminism has completely fucked themselves to the point to where they will never be happy….. you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t. A constant ever changing set of hoops to jump through where there is no finish line. You literally cannot make them happy no matter what you do. And…. They don’t care about your happiness AT ALL. It’s a “me me me” society now…. Self entitled, selfish, zero consideration for others….. nah… no thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 08:32 PM
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Nope it truly isn’t. I’ve met a ton of women, gone on a ton of dates… in the end it’s all they same. Nothing to offer but negatives…and do not improve/compliment/enrich my life whatsoever. Me giving 98 % to their 2 % isn’t going to work anymore…. I have zero patience for it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 08:25 PM
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Ignore it….she doesn’t give a shit if you are ok. She want self gratification that you are doing horribly and pinning over her. Don’t feed her ego, I’m willing to bet that the grass wasn’t so green on the other side and now she’s regretting it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 04:34 PM
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This is what has been bouncing around in my head a lot. What I have to offer vs what they have to offer. Honestly I can’t see anything other than sex…. Which lets be honest… as soon as they’ve “got you”….. it becomes weaponized and turns into a reward/punishment scenario. Soooooo all I see are the negatives that a woman brings to the table… if it was 50/50… awesome…. But nope, it more 98/2 %.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/22 07:46 PM
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Stay on top of her AND your lawyer!! My divorce dragged on for 2 1/2 years mostly because my ex and her lawyer stalled and stalled…. flat out wouldn’t respond to anything,etc. Every “request” had to end up being a court order for them to comply. In the end, it didn’t do anything negative for them… they are allowed to do whatever they want apparently.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 12:54 PM
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It’s crazy. My ex tried all kinds of bullshit like that. Luckily I had literal proof of any and all of her lies. It’s more crazy that when they get straight up caught lying…. Absolutely nothing happens to them. Wtf?! Isn’t that a form of perjury??!! “Uhh technically yes but it won’t stick so it’s best to not bother, just prove her wrong and move on with the divorce process “
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 09:41 PM
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100 % on the lack of accountability. It still completely amazes me how grown ass women STILL cannot take any responsibility or accountability
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 11:35 PM
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Oh I would be just fine with a 6 too. But you have to offer just as much as I do. It was bullshit back then to offer nothing but your looks…. But now it’s absolutely ludacris. I’d much much rather be alone, then be with someone who offers nothing but negative and expect everything.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 12:00 PM
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Yup…. 46 years old here, good looking guy, very fit… good job,etc. The dating pool at this age absolutely sucks. The sense of entitlement is crazy even at this age. The list of “requirements “ that a expects is genuinely laughable. I’m not being sexist, I’m really not….but these women should have developed actual personalities and something to offer BEFORE they stopped being the hot 20 year old. Now… they offer nothing, expect everything AND are a “6” at best.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 11:21 PM
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Same age and 2 1/2 years for me. After being married to a severe narcissistic bipolar sociopath …… I still had hopes for finding someone. After being in the dating game for awhile…. Nope….. dating is actually worse now. Nobody invest themselves in anybody else anymore , everybody has ultra high expectations without offering anything in return. It’s a colossal waste to find the time to get to know somebody only to find out they’re not who they pretend to be. We live in a completely disposable wor…
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 02:44 AM
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Also…. When you get married….all of there things become hers….👇🏼. All money , yours and hers…. Becomes hers to spend as she pleases. And if you dare to spend anything on yourself….. the war is on!! Time….. all of your time will be dictated by her, outings, birthdays,her friends,family, etc…..every bit of your non working time is hers to command or the war is on!! Oh…. But her time is her time, Happiness…. She has the power to make you miserable based on her wants. Sex….. lol…… becomes weaponized…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 10:42 PM
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I’ll add to this… Here’s the thing also….. it doesn’t matter how “perfect “ of a husband and father you are/were…..women can become so evil when they decide they want a divorce (usually because they are cheating)…. That they absolutely couldn’t care less that you were good to them….. they will lie,manipulate,gaslight,etc…. And totally fuck you over. They never look back, zero accountability…. Just destroy your life and it’s all about them, not even the kids…. All about them.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/22 10:31 PM
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This really is a massive problem in our society. I see it constantly from women…. They’re “unhappy” in their marriage…. Take that for what you will…. A lot of the times it’s just bullshit grass is greener mentality. Then they want to see someone else share their misery…. So instead of admitting their horrendous mistake and reassuring their “friend” that they in fact DO have an amazing husband and marriage…… they do everything they can to place seeds of doubt. It’s really disgusting to watch it h…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 11:15 PM
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Mine tries that bullshit also. They know what they are doing, swooping by to cause chaos…. Then leave you to the aftermath.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/22 01:46 PM
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Oh I’m still here, still deal with the bullshit almost 2 years later. After her striking me in the face in front of our then 5 year old…. She gets to come back to the house… right there is a wtf?? She get served the TRO/PRO orders and the next day she takes the kids and goes to her parents house until the temporary custody hearing out of “fear for her and the kids safety””. Yes you heard that right… she physically attacked me in front of our 5 year old and gets to take the kids to her parents. T…
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 12:13 AM
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Don’t do it…. I lived in absolute misery for over a decade because of this. Life is far to short for that shit.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 01:22 PM
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This is so true. She didn’t cry because she feels bad or what she did was wrong. She didn’t cry because she feels bad that she hurt you. She cried because she was exposed for the person she truly is and now everyone is going to know about it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 01:52 PM
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How on earth anyone can argue this is just mind blowing. This is financial slavery. Either go after the child’s biological father or force the mother to pick up the slack… I don’t care if she has to work 4 jobs to support herself……. This is an unbelievably evil and vile thing that somehow is still a thing. The woman committed to worst fraud there is to be had to both the non biological “father” AND the child. “In the best interest of the child” So a man gets cheated on, his heart ripped out not …
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 11:38 PM
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I’ve been separated for almost 2 years now. I have primary custody of my boys also, it’s really difficult to find time to date anymore. I’ve had really good success in getting dates….. but it seems like the “same” personality over and over. Too many people putting on a very fake front, being very flaky and unreliable. I’ve really lost interest in dating anymore… I keep looking at what I have to offer versus what they have to offer in a relationship….. it’s disheartening at best. Seems like a tot…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 05:46 PM
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I have primary custody of my boys and my ex would have tried this also if I hadn’t beaten her to the punch. It’s crazy what people think they can do even when it’s clearly illegal. We’ve been legally separated for over a year and 1/2 yet she still insisted that we file together 🙄. She already demanded half of the child tax credits which she wasn’t entitled to. Then she fraudulently claimed and received the ebt-p (whatever it’s called) debit card… 2 children at $1100 each. Still has the audacity …
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 01:18 AM
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Oh ok gotcha
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 11:06 PM
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Standards are obviously fine everybody has them. I’m talking a crazy impossibly high set of standards money/height/body, etc…. All the while offering nothing yourself. And I’m not even talking about their looks
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 02:35 AM
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It sucks “All parties appear to be selfish “ ☝️….. yup and very very childish. No one invests in anyone anymore… everyone is disposable now. Ultra high standards with NOTHING to offer back 🙄.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 12:27 AM
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I distinctly remember one of my ex’s friends talking about that to a group of them. I’ve never been more disgusted in my life….watching these women’s eyes light up hearing about it. They were so full of glee and giddy while talking about it. It absolutely terrified me, that someone could do that to their spouse AND completely damage the child forever…. Just to “win”.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 10:25 PM
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That’s the truth. You don’t realize just how miserable you actually were until you are out of it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/21 01:25 AM
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I’m currently in the process of this right now.... word of warning.... it is expensive as shit. If you can’t afford a lawyer, the Psych evaluation is going to be a bitch....$3,500 just to start, and that’s MY HALF... my ex has to pay for the other half.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 11:13 PM
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Yes... most definitely I have seen this. I’m tall, good looking and really fit (abs at 44), I don’t have any problems getting a date. But I do see this constantly... women who are average looking and usually not in shape at all (overweight)... have this crazy list of demands and expectations of what they “need” in a man. I’m always like Jesus Christ lady.... exactly what do you think you have to offer in a relationship? And the ones that are attractive and fit (for being 40+) seriously think tha…
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 02:02 PM
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I was surprised when I started using them... I thought it would be more mature (mentally) people on there. But not really.... it’s a lot of women that just love getting tons of attention and aren’t really invested in it. And the women that are attractive, and I mean attractive for being 40+...... think way to highly of themselves. I’m not some bitter dude either, I’m tall, fit and good looking. I haven’t had any trouble getting dates on there.... but I do see this attitude a lot. And a lot of th…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 12:13 AM
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I do all of that, I’m very present in their lives on a daily basis. But my ex is a legitimate narcissistic sociopath. I could list a million things she has done but I’ll list one to give you an example of the type of person she is. When I caught her cheating and she couldn’t lie her way out of it.... she turned to my 5 year old, bent down to his eye level and said “your daddy’s leaving you because he doesn’t love you anymore “. She’s a very sick person and couldn’t care less about how this is da…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 02:20 AM
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I definitely have stayed calm... a lot of what she does is to provoke me so she can manipulate the situation. I’ve told my lawyer and now I start the disgusting process of having to record my kids when they tell me this stuff.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/20 02:14 AM
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Same... I’m 44 , 6ft, probably 180 lbs. (muscular and lean)and have been in to fitness my whole life. There’s very little competition for them when the vast majority of them are obese or at least overweight and aging quickly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/20 01:20 PM
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I agree completely and the ones that aren’t obese and are attractive.....holy shit do they think they are super models!!! And have this crazy list of “requirements” for a potential partner lol. Uhh lady.... you’re attractive for being 40+...... you’re not a 20 old smoke show. Just because a bunch of overweight,sloppy,40+ year old dudes are falling all over themselves to date you......it doesn’t make you a playboy playmate 😂.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/20 01:12 PM
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Tell me about it. I have a TON of evidence of my ex being a horribly abusive person to both me and my 2 boys. She even physically attacked in front of our 5 year old... called the cops and everything. I’m still having to defend myself like I’m the problem.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/20 03:04 PM
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I’m so twisted around with all of this I don’t know what’s going on anymore. It’s temporary this and that, oh we have to get her and the lawyer to sign off on this temporary thing or that. But the way she just does whatever she wants, it makes me wonder if there’s some kinda loophole or something
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/20 03:07 AM
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Should I just do this myself? I’m paying a stupidly high amount for a lawyer that hasn’t done shit for me. Temporary this and temporary that and temporary this..... I don’t even know what’s going on anymore. Something about my ex and lawyer haven’t signed the temporary orders or some shit. But the judge signed off on the temporary primary custody and child support, so I don’t understand any of this. And this lawyer..... a highly reviewed, expensive, former CPS lawyer..... has been absolutely mil…
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/20 07:38 PM
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Not to mention I have a restraining order on her, she’s not supposed to be coming to the house at all. But yet she comes over whenever she feels like, steals new school clothes and shoes, plus whatever else she wants. Loaded up and stole a brand new bike and skateboard I bought my sons. But apparently women can do whatever the fuck they want.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/20 07:26 PM
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Apparently they haven’t changed to much. Same, I don’t know a single guy that didn’t get hit IMMEDIATELY with child support notices.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/20 07:23 PM
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Yep and makes more money than I do.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/20 07:21 PM
1

In Texas
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/20 04:17 AM
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Just have fun and don’t invest yourself in another woman. Sounds harsh but fuck that shit, never again. You put 100% into being the “perfect “ husband,father,etc. Then the other person just turns to shit ..... no fucking thanks.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/20 02:21 PM
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It’s just crazy how one person can be such an undeniable horrible person to you. Lie,cheat,steal,manipulate,etc.... basically everything bad thing you could possibly do to a person. Be a terrible mother, just a horrible person all around. Then have the audacious behavior to get mad and be a bitch to TO YOU.... because you couldn’t take it anymore and divorced her. Then still try to take and take.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/20 12:56 PM
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I disagree... It’s a special event for you to spend time with your kids. Very quickly she will be pulling that shit all the time, you will end up getting weeded out.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/20 02:59 PM
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Tell her( not through your son obviously) to go fuck herself. My ex tries this shit, then has the fucking audacity to be even more of a bitch when I say no. I can have primary custody of my boys... she was/is a terrible mother. The Judge gave her (reluctantly) every other weekend, which she fucks up all the time in various ways. Still have the balls to call or stop by the house asking to take the kids somewhere for a few hours. At 8 or 9 pm mind you. Then I have to say no and then she turns into…
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/20 02:57 PM
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As “cheesy” as that quote is from Rocky.... it’s actually a great quote that applies much more to real life.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/20 02:19 PM
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That’s the truth. It’s me and my 2 boys now and it 10 times easier across the board. I was absolutely shocked and what a total slob my ex was when we 1st got married and moved in together. Everything was way harder than it needed to be and now life is much smoother. I did all of the work before, so now it’s actually easier without her here trashing the house like a 3rd much younger child.
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/20 10:06 PM
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But it’s all about the children right??? Fucking bullshit.... they don’t give a fuck about the kids well being.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/20 08:23 PM
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Yeah and it’s a fucking unbelievable double standard too. My wife abuses my kids, I have literal proof of it... I’m talking recordings, pictures, etc. My wife has attacked me in the past, I didn’t report because more than likely I would be the one getting arrested. I have my wife served with divorce papers ... she attacks me in front of our children. I call the police, they are very hesitant to do anything , my 5 year old is telling them that she attacked me. Finally... she fakes an anxiety atta…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/20 04:57 PM
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I never got that either. She just may have never found someone that she wanted to have kids with. Or has fertility problems. It’s the same mentality that men over forty ,not married and no kids.... he must have issues or is a closeted homosexual. Both are just assumptions and lame ones at that.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/20 11:17 AM
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Thank you. I was really replying to the one guy trashing me. I’m not going to, I have asked that she have a psych evaluation. I hope my evidence will be enough though.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/20 04:01 AM
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I tried to do that 4 separate times. My stbxw is all over the place unreliable, nailing down a time was impossible. I had to have the process server literally hang out around township could text him and let him know. She is getting the ex parte TRO because I’m afraid she will hurt my kids,take off with them or hurt herself and tell the cops i did it. I didn’t do it for some legal tactic, She is a severe narcissist and a true sociopath. I wish this wasn’t true, I wish it was just a divorce and sh…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/20 03:29 AM
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Set her up? You don’t know jack shit about my situation. This is a very unstable,abusive , and dangerous person. I had her served OUTSIDE of our house, she came inside and attacked me in front of our kids. She is physically and mentally abusive to our kids. They are terrified of her. They literally said “Good.... we want to leave and live with you daddy”. I didn’t want her to be arrested or attack me. I also didn’t want her file a false domestic abuse claim like she has threatened my with our en…
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/20 12:35 AM
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Through her being a horrible spouse in every way you can imagine. Completely unreliable,unaccountable,lying,stealing,just being a horrible narcissist and sociopath. I was going to just be completely miserable and ride it out until my son turned 18. But finding out she was cheating and also twisting knife by secretly rubbing it in my face was the last straw. Me complimenting her on whatever, got a response of “only for you”,etc. It was that kinda stuff that still fucks with me, cheating is bad en…
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/20 01:11 PM
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They really do. But the worse part is they know they can do whatever they want.... lie,cheat,steal,etc. Because if they get caught and you obviously want to divorce them.... they know that the odds are greatly in their favor and they can completely destroy your life and take you children away from you
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/20 03:55 PM
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Dude you sound like me.... sans the dad bod thing. I spent over a decade being the super husband. This is not a brag , I’m only saying this because it shows how fucking ludicrous women’s sense of reality is. I put 100% into being the “perfect husband. To much to list with the mental aspects...loving,attentive,considerate,complimentary,etc. I’m a good looking guy..6ft tall,tan,very fit. I kept up my fitness the entire time, I’m cut and semi jacked like a UFC fighter. At 44 , I have a six pack and…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/20 01:19 PM
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I’m gonna try man, it’s hard but I’m gonna try.
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/20 12:12 AM
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I’m trying man, but Jesus Christ.... I have been diligent with EVERYTHING. Only to hit this fucking roadblock by the person who is supposed to help my kids and I. This is a former CPS lawyer for fucks sake. I have been mentally a wreck since the beginning of all of this. I’ve been terrified of going to court and getting screwed over and losing custody of my boys to this monster. So I’ve been doing everything right, collecting evidence, staying calm,etc. But then this fucking shit, all the energy…
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/20 12:01 AM
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Dude I get that, but I have explained my situation to her. My wife is a severe narcissistic sociopath. She has flat out told me that she would hurt herself and call the cops on me. She has said that push comes to shove she will take my kids and disappear into Mexico. She is fully bi lingual, her parents own property in Mexico, she keeps my kids passports updated and hidden from me. She is physically and mentally abusive to my boys... I have audio recordings and pictures to prove it. I have told …
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/20 11:36 PM
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Then a lot of the times... they will see that the grass wasn’t greener on the other side and expect you to just take them back like nothing ever happened. And if you don’t??? Then they become very vindictive and hateful towards you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/20 12:55 PM
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“I don’t love you anymore, I’m just used to you” “Begging for my attention “ Brother these are giant red flags that she is possibly cheating or is definitely considering it. “I don’t love you anymore,I’m just used to you”. Means she has been looking at you like this for a while.... I’m just used to you means that you are a stable comfortable place in her life. If/when she finds someone “better “ she will cheat, drop you and never look back. “Begging for my attention “ Ehhh... in this case, in my…
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/20 01:04 PM
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Dude that gives me so much hope... My stbxw is a raging severe narcissistic/bi polar sociopath. I’ve been recording her being completely out of control, abusive physically and mentally to both me and my 2 boys. Saying horrible things to our boys, I could go on and on. Just waiting for my lawyer to file and to get a restraining order against her. And I’m gunning for a psych evaluation also, she’s 100 percent fucked in the head and has no business being a mother. Fuck... I want this to happen so b…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/20 01:01 AM
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Yup.... I worked my ass off, 50+ hours a week plus a side job of a small one man(me) lawn service. Never bought myself shit... wouldn’t even buy boots for work until they were falling to pieces. While she had amazon packages arriving every week on clothes,make up,purses,shoes,etc. My old as shit MP3 player (an iPod shuffle for fucks sake) finally stopped working.... literally from the sweat of me working in the hot Texas sun. I bough another one, a cheap generic MP3 player.....she was pissed and…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/20 12:34 AM
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Yeah that isn’t what she wanted. She wanted to have her cake and eat it to. She had it made at home I’m sure, never expected to get caught. Now the reality of what she was doing has set in. It isn’t about her fucking up and feeling bad about it....... it’s about the loss of what YOU can do for her. Kick rocks dude, don’t even look back.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/20 07:58 PM
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Not divorced yet... waiting for my lawyer to file the petition. But my stbxw literally has made every aspect of my harder in every way. Everything... from the small to the big things. I’m so ready to start over and gain peace and normalcy again. Even the little baby steps... getting my own phone line and carrier, taking charge of my bills, insurance,etc. have been huge joys so far
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/20 11:44 PM
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Fuck that shit.... My stbxw.... was/is a terrible person, a severe narcissistic sociopath.....lied,stole,manipulated,cheated,etc. She’s pulling the “amicably” shit too...... I don’t trust her whatsoever...age definitely will say one thing and fuck you over. I’ve lawyered up and am fully ready to go to war with this crazy bitch.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/20 02:56 AM
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I’ve never seen it to be 50/50..... more like 80/20. I watched a coworker, a great dad, responsible, no booze,drugs,arrests,etc...... Get his kids taken away from him,he gets to see them about twice a month. He’s a shell of a person now, the life,energy, everything has been drained from him. All because he caught his wife cheating on him and he rightfully so wanted a divorce.
/r/MensRights11/05/20 03:25 AM
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Really??? I’ve seen far to many dads get fucked over and the children handed over to the obviously abusive mother. I was one of those kids..... Despite the bruises,black eyes,welts raised with clearly a hand print, blood on my shirt from getting my nose bloodied,neighbor’s calling the cops, me telling the people who were supposed to help me (CPS) that my mother hurt me.......... They sent me back over and over to her only to continue to get beat on. So yeah I’m fucking terrified of the same happ…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/20 02:33 AM
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I know, just heard too many stories of good dads getting completely fucked over and the mother STILL getting full custody despite clear evidence showing what a horrible mother they are. I’ve been planning on lawyering up and calling CPS all at once to make sure no cracks can be slipped through
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 03:25 AM
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And my oldest (10) is very close to her but also terrified of her, I’m really afraid of her brain washing him into defending her and her telling g him horrible things to manipulate him in her favor. She’s a true sociopath, I caught her cheating and when I said I couldn’t deal with that..... she bent down to my 5 year olds level and told him..... “Your daddy’s leaving because he doesn’t love you anymore “. It’s still make me sick to my soul that she could say something like that to her 5 year old…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 02:48 AM
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I have not, I’m worried about it slipping through the cracks, or them dragging their feet on it. My wife has already threatened me with telling the cops I beat her, one of the few things I wasn’t able to record her saying. She is bi lingual and her parents have property in Mexico, I’m afraid she will take off with the kids and disappear into Mexico. I know it’s horrible but I’ve had to try to save for a lawyer, I’m terrified about losing them from not being prepared or running out of money for t…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/20 02:41 AM
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100 percent Women can /will be venomous snakes when needed.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/20 10:34 AM
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She’s a true narcissistic sociopath. I’ve recorded her saying and doing horrific things. But I really wish I could have recorded this. She’s such a piece of shit that she even denies that ever even happened.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/20 03:40 AM
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Women can be just disgusting, vile monsters when it comes to stuff like this. After telling my stbxw that I was divorcing her, after I confronted her about her cheating..... This piece of shit kneeled down to my 5 year olds level and said “Daddy’s leaving because doesn’t love you anymore “ My heart and humanity were ripped out of my body that day. She has never apologized, felt bad or even explained to our son that it wasn’t true.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/20 05:21 PM
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“She is still contacting the guy” ??? Dude leave.... fucking drop her.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/20 12:24 AM
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Seriously? Not it’s suggesting that both parents although getting a divorce, work together and be the best parents that can be. Like not fucking over the other parent with full custody and completely unrealistic and greedy child support. So neither parent gets some bullshit “every other weekend” visitation restriction. Which is not “in the best interest of the children “.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/20 01:06 PM
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For fucks sake.....can you imagine a husband saying that to his wife??? The wife says it and people will pat her on the back telling her to “own it girl”. As the husband you are supposed to be totally understanding and deal with it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/20 03:35 AM
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Yup.... it’s really disgusting to witness. They encourage flirting and eventually having an affair. The whole time “reassuring” the wife that she’s not doing anything wrong and somehow it’s the husbands fault. Completely dividing a family and as soon as the single friend gets a man..... boom she drops the newly divorced woman never looking back.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/20 02:37 AM
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The bad female friend. I’ve seen this over and over. Women are incredibly shitty to each other, it’s like that can’t stand to see other women happy. A women’s single “friend” often encourages an affair or initiating a divorce. Not giving a shit about the destruction they cause.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/20 01:21 PM
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I’m so elated to be getting out, I swear the world seems brighter.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 04:10 AM
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Do it man. Seriously.... the thought of finally being free having my life back actually brings tears to my eyes. I’m not a cryer by any means, and I didn’t think “tears of joy” were a real thing. They are. I feel lighter, like I’m walking on clouds and everybody has noticed and commented on how happy I look now and how I’m always smiling and in a good mood. I physically even stand up straighter now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 02:32 AM
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Don’t do it. I’ve stayed for a decade + in total misery. Looking back now, I’ve wasted over 10 years of my life , literally forgetting what it was like to live any other way. Now that there is light at the end of the tunnel..... I’m giddy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/20 12:55 AM
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This is a really well articulated response. I hope others take the time to read it. This is what I tortured myself over with.... Trying to wrap my mind around it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/20 03:36 AM
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Man I feel you in this one. But seriously thank whatever god you pray to that you didn’t have kids with her.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/20 03:31 AM
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Dude I’ve said this before. My stbxw is an absolute smoke show and the sex was fantastic. But holy fuck what a nightmare of a person to be Married to. Even the thought of her being with someone else, evokes nothing from me. The only thing it evokes is a strong desire to warn the other person about her.... which I’m not because they won’t listen anyways.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 07:19 PM
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Yes and.... I agree, I know there are cases like this, plenty of them. But still more often it’s women just constantly seeking attention (which will never be enough).
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 07:14 PM
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Yeah fuck dating dude. Get your life together, then enjoy the peace and quiet.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 03:12 PM
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And that’s a fundamental basic “flaw” in women. I’ll get bashed for being sexist but it’s true. I’ve noticed this since I was a kid.... women have this total inability to just be by themselves. They can’t seem to just be alone even for a short time, think about things, self reflect, etc. They have to be constantly distracted
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 02:19 PM
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Absolutely this I have NEVER seen a case when this wasn’t true. Women don’t just decide they are unhappy and want a divorce without someone waiting in the wings for them. I don’t care what anybody says, they just don’t.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/20 02:14 PM
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That’s much much worse that “bias” , and a much ad people don’t like this word..... it’s financial slavery. This man’s life is ruined.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/20 01:30 PM
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Nor will they take as much either. I’ve know probably 3 guys in my life that got custody of their kids. In all 3 cases the women clearly did not want the children. All of the women worked full time with decent jobs. All payed $50 or less per child a month. I currently work with a guy that makes $12 an hour and pays almost $700 a month in child support for his son AND has to provide(pay for) medical insurance. The guy had to move back with his parents because he literally cannot afford to survive…
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/20 01:34 AM
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Fucking “MAY” get child support... And you are right, he MAY get child support. God this shit makes me sick..... I’ve seen this shit to much. Wife takes off, leaves husband and children behind.....goes off trying to relive her 20’s partying and fucking every random she comes across. No child support, nothing.... then 6 months later decides now she wants the kids (because she loves them so much 🤮) , the house and child support. And she fucking gets it....what the actual fuck ???
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 07:54 PM
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I thought I knew what it meant for a person to be a narcissist. Until you know/are married to a true narcissistic sociopath..... It’s 100 times worse that the clinical definition. This is the worse feeling in the world
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 04:51 AM
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I’m not kidding about starting up something big. I’m going to start a thread about it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/20 03:46 AM
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I fully understand what you mean and it really does seem that way. But seriously, read through it and keep this in mind. Look it as not a guide for YOU.... to be a horrible person. But as a guide as to what OTHER people will do to you despite you being a good person. If you look at this book as a protective tool, it’s very very useful.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/20 03:21 PM
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That’s the way I looked at it. Not to go out and hurt or screw people over.... but to protect yourself if need be. I really believe that this book help me to prepare for my divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/20 03:44 AM
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I’m geared more towards the child custody and support issue. If you are a good ,responsible father.... there is absolutely no reason why custody cannot be split 50/50. And if it’s 50/50..... there’s no reason for child support to be payed to either party. That whole section of it needs to be completely revamped and fixed. I don’t give a shit what anyone says... the vast vast vast majority of that child “support “ never reaches the children either directly or indirectly. That alone is a grotesque…
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 07:14 PM
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Depends on the situation. Did the husband want the wife to quit work and be a stay at home wife and mother? Then yes, he wanted her to do this, she has lost 20 years of working potential. Did the woman work then demand to be a stay at home wife and mother after getting married (this does happen too)?? Then no, that wasn’t his choice, he more than likely was affected in a negative way.... ie has to work much more hours now that they aren’t a dual income household.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 07:08 PM
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I’ve been very passionate about this topic for a long time, long before even getting married or having children. Yes I know the irony of this. But watching my wife run into a completely different, horrible person right before my eyes has turbocharged my energy for this subject. I’ve been thinking for a while now about starting up something myself. A no backing down movement, something to truly bring these atrocities to light. No bullshit, no women haters, just good men that simply want what’s fa…
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/20 03:14 PM
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As much as it has killed me on the inside. I’ve had to sit back and watch /let it happen, in order to get slam dunk evidence of what kind of sociopathic narcissistic she actually is.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 07:18 PM
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Oh I have brother, I’ve been absolutely terrified of her getting even partial custody.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 07:13 PM
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This is what hurts the most and keeps me awake at night. My stbxw was not a good mother from the start, and has exponentially gotten worse and worse. She is a train wreck of a mother, just too much to even list. She should have never ever had kids, and I have this immense guilt about it. She’s abusive,mentally and physically, neglectful, etc. Literally doesn’t feel love for our kids(this destroys me every time I think about it). They are a burden to her and she barely interacts with them at all.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/20 03:58 AM
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Holy shit polar opposite here. 1st year of not having to “celebrate “ our anniversary and also Valentine’s Day. What a gigantic relief to not have to fake that shit any more. So stressful in the past, not because of what to get her.... but because having to fake like I was I to it was vomit inducing.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/20 11:17 PM
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Please dude, please don’t make the horrible mistake of getting married. It will be the biggest forever lasting mistake of your life. Life destroying ..... You could do absolutely everything right, be the perfect husband and father, but ultimately it doesn’t matter. Because your wife can/will change for the worse. In the end you very well might lose everything. Your house,kids,etc. And especially you don’t want to be completely financially devastated by alimony or child support. I don’t think peo…
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/20 04:34 AM
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He could be over his and still be attracted to her. As I said my soon to be ex wife is gorgeous, crazy body and the sex was fantastic. Still.......NONE of that makes up for a horrible horrible person and marriage/relationship. I have zero doubt in my mind that I just want the fuck away from this person. And yeah everybody both men and women should take time off from dating , be by yourself, focus on you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/20 02:41 AM
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Why?? Dude you do not need a woman or relationship to make you happy or “complete” you. Enjoy being free and doing whatever the fuck you please without having to get “permission”. You don’t have to listen to someone drone on and on about their day while not giving a fuck about yours. I seriously seriously do not think I ever want to be in a relationship again, at least not live together or for fucks sake not married again.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/20 02:28 AM
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No problem. And also, something that I never thought about because being in another relationship is the absolute last thing on my mind.......but this was pointed out to me by a woman who was divorced and over 35. If you are an even semi attractive dude in your 40’s, in decent shape and with a decent job...... You are a unicorn to divorced women. Think about it, the losers that they have probably dealt with?? Now being older and more realistic about relationships, these women tend to greatly appr…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 10:01 PM
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Dude my soon to be ex wife is stunningly beautiful. But holy fuck what a horrible nightmare of a person. At this time in your life, enjoy being single and not having to deal with the bullshit. And or.... yes , you have to be attracted to the person... but find someone that is a great person AND happens to be cute. Don’t shoot for smoke shows anymore...at this point in your life go for someone that actually helps you in life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/20 08:50 PM
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It wasn’t one thing really, I noticed her showing some very different personality traits. But in my case I’m 100 % convinced that she had a personality disorder that started to emerge when she hit 30 years old. She became the polar opposite of the person she once was. At first, it was little by little, then it started exponentially getting worse and worse. In a few years she was a totally different person. I mean core personality traits flipped 180 degrees. I too mourned her, I was watching her …
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/20 03:35 AM
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This is common?? Serious question. How on earth would this even be an option? That’s just batshit crazy
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/20 08:55 PM
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No empathy at all from what I’ve seen.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/20 04:42 AM
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30 years old is when I saw my wife start to go through this massive personality change. She changed slowly at 1st, then quicker and quicker into a severe narcissistic sociopath. It was very surreal to see this happen in real time. Started making just terrible decisions, started acting very childish and immature. Ended up cheating on me which I still can’t wrap my mind around. Made absolutely no fucking sense either.... I was a great husband and father. I know the following is going to be cringe …
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/20 04:24 AM
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Absolutely not getting married again for sure. I’m really thinking all the bullshit from relationships is not worth it at all. Watching my wife turn into a completely different,horrible person for no reason...... Don’t need to invest my son that shit anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/20 04:15 PM
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No value except for you to get it off of your chest. Tell her this, at least she doesn’t get to walk around thinking she got away clean with what she did. But that’s all you can expect, this doesn’t mean she will feel bad or be sorry for it, she probably won’t. Just say it, without any pain or anger in your voice, that way she knows that she wasn’t worth as much as she thought she was and you will be fine and replace her no problem.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/20 02:38 PM
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That’s one of those things I noticed about women. They can’t seem to take time to be by themselves. Time to grow or reflect.... maybe work on yourself. But nope they seem to have to constantly distract themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/20 04:08 AM
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Think about it. How many women have you seen that got divorced and Immediately, magically had a boyfriend right after?
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/20 03:05 AM
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I know this is terribly cliche but it rings so true so many times. A monkey will swing from branch to branch only letting go of the 1st branch when it has a secure hold on the next branch.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 03:03 PM
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This is not how I’ve seen it at all. I’ve seen WAY WAY to many good fathers get completely screwed over in a divorce and custody of their kids. And the exact scenario that I posted happens, the woman gets full custody, with bullshit limited visitation for the father. Yet the man has to hand over a fuck ton of money every month for child “support”. Then the woman constantly drops the child off at her parents every chance she gets.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/19 03:57 PM
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I know they do, it’s just disgusting to do this to children. If you’re going to do that, just let the father have them for fucks sake.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/19 02:00 AM
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I don’t think this guy is full of shit at all. I can relate completely to his anger and disdain to this behavior from women. It drains your energy and enthusiasm for relationships when you realize that you HAVE to act this way, treat women this way...even when you are a good dude and don’t want to.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 03:43 PM
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I’ve been thinking about this a lot .... every single day really. Long story short.. My soon to be ex wife had literally zero reason,logic,rational or excuse to cheat on me. And had EVERY reason you could possibly think of for the act of cheating to even cross her mind. She has lost a great husband of 10 years (together 12). And destroyed our family life and severely hurt our 2 boys 2 1/2 and 8. For nothing, no reason, no logic, just nothing. For this I’ll never have closure, because there is no…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/18 03:18 AM
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Not for my generation. Most people I have known have gotten married right out of high school.
/r/MGTOW16/01/18 02:44 AM
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Also there is a SERIOUS SERIOUS lack of logic and rational in their thinking too. Double standards are rampant and incredulous nowadays. Women in particular think that if they cry or be overly dramatic, that somehow overrides logic and they “win” any arguments. No matter how clearly they are wrong. They have absolutely zero self reflection or introspection. How can you ever have a relationship with anyone that can never admit fault or even think that they could possibly be wrong??? You can’t.
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 01:21 AM
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I waited until I was 29 to get married for this very reason. Doesn’t matter, even if you find the “perfect” woman. And she may very well be awesome and all of that. Sad reality is that she WILL CHANGE.... once she doesn’t have to be a good person or pull her weight...she will turn into a piece of shit.
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 01:09 AM
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Not going to do anything. I’m already in fantastic shape, 41 with a six pack. I work out and take care of myself. Bear with me because it’s cringeworthy I know. I’m considered a good catch, I’m tall, good looking and fit. I have a good job and I’m a great husband and father. I have women come on to me all the time telling me how “lucky” my wife is and they’d kill for a man like me. But once a woman realizes that she has this power to completely fuck the man over... all logic and reasoning goes o…
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 01:06 AM
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My wife is half Hispanic half Croatian. But she’s basically Hispanic, grew up in a Hispanic household, grew up that traditional route. Didn’t grow up privileged or anything like that, had older sisters that cooked and cleaned. My wife started out like this, even though I felt weird and still helped out with everything. Flash forward to 10 years and my wife is completely useless. I have to do 98% of the work across the board in our house, that includes stuff with the kids,house,cleaning,etc. All …
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 07:37 PM
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This..... This is a real thing that is vomit inducing. ALL women will reach this drastic turning point when it sinks in that they have “got” you. I’ve seen it 100’s of times before and with my own wife. The reach this point to where they realize that they can act/behave however they want and the man is fucked because she can always just divorce him, take half his stuff, and screw him over with his children and child support. This allows them to just become terrible people with no consequences fo…
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 07:20 PM
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I used to think the same thing. They start out that way but eventually turn into the Americanized useless garbage.
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 07:13 PM
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I’m a 41 year old man... take it from me they are truly broken/useless people. I had this exact thought growing up, I always hung out with older people and saw a very sharp contrast in women my age and older. The women from my age and down (maybe a couple of years younger) are truly useless and a total burden across the board in a relationship. They don’t offer anything and expect everything. It really boggles the mind how a person can think it’s ok to float through life like that.
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 07:11 PM
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Same boat man. Been married for 10 years, have 2 kids... 2 1/2 and 8 years old. I’ve been wanted by to leave for about 8 years now. I only stayed because I love my kids, I’m a great father and she is a terrible mother and spouse. She’s never been a good spouse, but in the last few years she has had a complete personality change. She has turned into a horrible human being, the very definition of narcissistic and sociopathic personality disorder. The thought of having to not see my kids every day …
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