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| 23 | Fun little table | Discussion | NoobSaw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:29 AM |
| 10 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it valid | Question For Women | NoobSaw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 12:45 AM |
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| 9 | Performative males are more attractive to women, at the expense of their own dignityNot everyone who read or drink matcha or listen to Laufey is doing it for female attention. The same argument could be said for many many hobbies and professional achievements. I wonder what hobbies qualifes a man as a dancing monkey in your book OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:22 AM |
| 15 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?Me when Im in a social climbing competition and my opponent is Chinese women 😧 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?Carabiner. Nah but srsly there is no external things that can repell a man, if you are hot enough in the face or body or both, someone will see the potential and pursue you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:57 PM |
| – | As a attractive Man, you will always be beat by the higher Status male, and i can vouch for that. Looks isn't that much of a Godmode as you Guys believe.Bodycount don't nearly matter as much for men as you claim it to be. Better to see how women treat him vs women treat you, also the quality of women matters greatly as well. Better to have 8 women who remember you for life for the night you shared than 30 that only remember the meal you paid for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Is "desperate guys don't get girlfriends" complete bullshit?The former chase hard by choice, the latter has no other options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What should men do to vet if a woman is safe to be vulnerable with?Super easy test to see if you can be vulnerable with a woman: Is she your mother? Then yes. If not, preferably family member. If not family then your therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 12:06 AM |
| – | All men are ephebophiles and I'm tired of pretending they're not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 12:50 PM |
| – | So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overallYou are taking AFBB too literally OP. The reality is alpha always "fucks" in every life situation with women, whether thats marriage or situationships. While beta gotta stack "bucks" to make up for their lack of raw attraction to get to the same level of treatment from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Women are more suitable as corporate slaves.Women have been on a roll in professional spaces. It wasn't that long ago that they weren't allowed to work and now that they are, they feel like they have to excel at it or they have no place in society. Companies are also highly incentivised to hire and promote women cause it looks good on their ESG reports. Men have been slaving since the dawn of time and for the first time in history being providers and hard workers are losing its value as a man, therefore we are more likely to not find mean… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/24 12:26 AM |
| – | As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men.Isn't it kinda true tho, like through numerous studies on that topic only foot size and height showed statisically significant correlation. Wasn't alot of correlation but it was significantly more than race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Is anyone else annoyed when people in the red pill community like Myron, Zherka and other red pill podcasters claim they speak for all men?Don't listen to them at all but I should point out that Pewdiepie's parents are rich as thats why he was never under much pressure to be in a safer career compared to YT. He was never considered broke at any point of his life. Women care about what you can provide for them, not how hard it was for you to provide for them, in fact I would argue they like it more if you're not self made. E.g. trust fund & nepo babies appear to be more fit, more adventurous and, more carefree due to lack of stress … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:08 AM |
| 4 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themI'm sorry bout your life man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 04:09 AM |
| 9 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themI have a theory that physical/romantic and platonic attraction are not distinct from each other, but points on the same attraction continuum, if sexuality permits ofc. So if a man and women are attracted to eachother enough, it would be par of course to go from friends to lovers. Any women who only want you as a friend is also not that attracted to you as a friend, and therefore not that good of a friend. Only befriend women that you could potential attract romantically and wouldn't mind a physi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 10:48 PM |
| 2 | As a woman why should I get married?Why u keep talking bout the average man? You seem to be or atleast think yourself to be an above average women, go for an above average man that doesn't have the potential problems u listed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:01 AM |
| 0 | Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the pastI find it kinda interesting that people immediately assume its women that does this. Has anyone experienced men who do this? If not, couldn't one argue that the Madonna-Whore complex or its equivalent is more prominent in women, as it actually affects people in relationships instead of just during the selection stage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:17 AM |
| -1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”There's so called hypocrisy in all kinds of preferences. E.g. Men want slimmer women despite themselves being chubby, women want taller men despite themselves beings short. There is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to look or be different than yourself, it is not being a hypocrite. The only hypocrisy is maybe that if you only like slimmer women but you judge others for only liking them as well. About the treatment of fat people I do think yes fat women get treated worse than fat men becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Men dont actually care about a women being healthyLets assume average proportions, no serious health complications and 20-25 year old women so BMI is more accurate. What do you think the BMI of a "healthy girl" should be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who existsThis is true for any marriage/romantic commitment between two people??? And how does women have inherently more value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Which of these scenaris is the "friend zone"?B Friendzone is something that's enabled by both the man and the woman involved. The man's inability to see that she's not interested and move on plus the woman's stringing along for attention or other gains equals the friendzone phenomenon. B is the only scenario that involve these two core elements of the friendzone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 06:31 AM |
| 10 | Pleasing a man sexually as a woman is so much easier than pleasing a woman sexually as a manAs a man, how am I supposed to know when exactly to go for it? When theres consent Why can’t you just learn to read my thoughts already? Men are so terrible at sex! Said no woman who cares about getting off ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 01:56 PM |
| 3 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughThe Friendzone's main cause isn't the 80/20 thing, its the man thinking he will eventually have a chance and/or the women leading him on for attention. To avoid being in the friendzone a man should really pay attention to how the women treats her other male friends cause she definitely treat some of them, who are not in the friendzone, better than you. I'm someone who view attraction as a straight gradient from friends to lovers, someone who is sexually attracted to you WILL treat you better tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who call all other women 10's/perfect/gorgeous are engaging in intrasex competitionI understand that most women don't rate each other truthfully but that doesn't mean there's an elaborate plot or conspiracy in just complimenting your friends and make them feel nice. Yes intrasex competition exist but most of the time it isn't through plots and schemes, it is through simple traits that people already have. You don't interact with a group of women and find the one with the most empathy attractive, you find the one thats most attractive all things considered attractive. Maybe you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 08:12 AM |
| 4 | What are common ways to shame men and women for their preferences?Most common thing is probably shaming men's preference for weight and women's preference for height. To me these are just physical features like faces that you are completely justified to have a preference on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever give a reformed OF model with a promiscuous past having a high body count a chance if she changed her ways ?Too little information to make a decision. What do you count as high body count, lets say at age 25? What was she doing on OF, just taking pictures or getting fucked by other creators n having gangbangs?? Personally as many others have said here, there's plenty of other options out there that it's very difficult for an ex-OF girl to make up for it, and even if she does its almost exclusively because of her looks. It's in the same degree of how people discriminate against uneducated or broke peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 12:32 AM |
| 21 | Male Delusion Calculator!58% if you make everything else irrelevent and just not obese, US moment lol, really really sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Define undateableWhat about people in STEM fields for thier job but are very inclined towards art, music, theatre, things "unsustainable" (I think is the word you were trying to use). Also I find it strange that you listed lack of curiosity as a trait you don't like but find people in STEM fields boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Define undateableCurious to know what makes people in those fields unattractive to you? Like have they exhibited traits that you don't like. And what fields are you attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Almost anything a man does can screw him over in datingAdjust your parameters to suit eachother? If beyond your limits break up?? Everyone's a whiny little bitch and think they deserve the idyllic, but as long as you identify the real dealbreakers, the rest doesn't matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a man wanting his woman to remain physically fit in a relationship is a reasonable thing to want?I think it depends on if they gained weight due to circumstances out of their control vs they just lost their discipline or became lazy. Some might feel like they are no longer dating the person they initially fell in love with, not simply because they looked different, but the changes in their behaviour that made them look different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 07:02 AM |
| 1 | You must pick oneYou just said that they don't have the time/energy. They can't housewife full-time if they are working full-time can they. (What is your definition of "dutifully" clean/cook) Do you think its fair to say that they are lazy around the house if they have been working full-time to support the household financially? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneOption 1, but I have to point out the chance that a women with the best traits of both option exists is more likely than the chance a women like either of these options exists. They are walking contradictions as others have pointed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashHope you abide by that and live a good, "risk-free" life man 😭 I'm sure you'll live longer and achieve more than all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashDid you seriously just liken the risk of getting sexually assaulted if you go to a work event where they serve alcohol, to the risk of getting pregnant if you have sex or getting addicted if you do drugs??? Don't take any risk at all is that ur suggestion? "no matter how big or small" lol, classic victim blaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Google exec fired after female boss groped him at drunken bashBonkers takeaway. Maybe you shouldn't expect people to sexually assault you during a work event, regardless of alcohol??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Men being Insecure over sex toysAs a guy, I'm fine with anything that doesn't resemble a human body part, although I have never been with a women that depended on sex toys so idk. Like if its a dick in there its gotta be my dick not some silicone copy. But a magic wand type shit that flicks your bean at 6000 rpm resembles nothing I have or can do so I'm fine with that. I would say that if you can't get off of tongue and fingers with even the most skillful guys then you probably have a problem, that shit is equivalent to men wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 0 | We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?I'm so sorry you had to go through that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Once the cute fembot girlfriend revolution is achieved, everything will be different for us men, are you ready?Bro haven't seen Bladerunner 2049 😭😭😭 bro not ready for the dread and emptiness when their SO is a commercial product, easily replaceable, copied & owned by others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it validThats the main point you extracted from the movie??? Come on Gillian Flynn and David Fincher don't deserve to have their book and movie to be reduced to paper thin like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Fun little tableNot my research not my opinion just an interesting table, someone compiled where they sourced the data HERE From what I can tell only modelled after online dating. So not necessarily fuck buddy or relationship, just attraction. 🤷 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Gun violence is a male problem. Media should stop pussyfooting around that.Uh duhhh? Since the beginning of the human race yea one of the genders gotta have the biological advantage to exercise violence, you know, to protect the other gender during their most vulnerable times, compete for survival of themselves and their offsprings. Gun violence just an extension of it, and is very much a social issue. (plenty of countries with high gun ownership and not nearly as much shootings per capita as the U.S.) But sure I guess its also a male problem, except from that view you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it valid🤦 Who hurt you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it validWhat heroic qualities does she possess ???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it validI guess I should've re-worded as "do women look up to Amy Dunne holistically", not just if they resonate with one quote. Wants to be like her, have her attitude, use her exploits, maybe stay within the confines of the law but have an equally corrupt moral compass. Like they would've done the same if they were in her situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it validWoah woah 💀🤨🧐📸 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Do women really cheer for Amy from Gone Girl??? It's like if a men quoted anything Humbert Humbert said and called it validGone Girl great movie & book but based take I guess. What would you consider as a chick flick, like I consider American Psycho a great chick flick tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!Clearly shows their lack of taste liking someone like that, and if they liked me as well then I should be offended not flattered. Like, you think I'm comparable to these trash men, no thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+.Well... Its not like they can't tell from meeting them or pics on social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:47 AM |
| 0 | Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+.Was interested in a girl whose first words to me when we met was "You're too tall for me" before I even suggested anything along the lines of getting more acquainted with her. Whats even worse is that she was already cuffed at the time and even though I was interested in her I never felt a shred of jealousy towards her bf who was shorter than me. I never over stepped boundaries cos I respected the guy but she never did any PDA with him beyond quick hugs and pecks, and was way too friendly and to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 01:38 AM |
| 2 | The Body Count thing is gendered, but not in the way people thinkAgreed, but women are more intimidated than disgusted by mens body counts, while men are more disgusted than intimidated by women's body counts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl posts me vs the girl he cheated with and it backfired on her, people (largely men) defend the bf cheatingI think its less excusing cheating and more not excusing cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationshipI do. Why wouldn't any rational, empathetic person make a distinction between things you can control and things you can't. Both shows changes in looks, but the latter also shows changes in behaviour and attitude. Nothing wrong with breaking up with someone if their behaviour and attitude change for the worse. You were talking about how things happened after you already started dating, height is irrelevant as a metic as it can't be easily changed. Only thing I could think of is if your bf lost hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 09:01 AM |
| 3 | One of the best ways to test a man as a women is to get fat in a relationshipGaining alot of weight (something you can control) is not the same as growing old and post pregnancy belly and stretch marks (something you can't control) lol. It is completely fair and not superficial for your partner to leave you if you let yourself go in that regard, especially in the case of them staying in shape this whole time. You are basically saying they deserve less, that somehow you not at your best deserves to be with them at their best. Its about mutual respect and not looks. Natura… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many women unashamed of being overweight in OLD?OP you really want to play lifeguard at the gene pool and honestly who doesn't. Do what you said you want to do in your post, actually tell them that they are undesirable, make them feel bad and hope they can channel that into motivation to become more fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/22 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Watch what they say not what they do, women of ppd what things do men say they want/ care about that they don't actually follow through onYea many of us conveniently omit the "but if she's hot enough..." at the end of those statements. Most standards men set are fluid, except for looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 01:46 AM |
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