NoodlesGotAGun Archive

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1	Speculation: RP is just a crude foreshadow of what is to come i.e. AI assisted "gaming" of people in general and women in particular. Again, so does slamming your dick into the power button on your computer if you do it enough times, but no one would agree that it's the best way to do it. If you told someone about that they'd be like, "What? Why? I mean, technically your computer is on, I guess...". It doesn't work any better than speaking to women normally (in fact far less efficient). It's trying to simplify a simple interaction for socially deficient men (like I was). It's also a massive grift for lonely guys to fall into. …	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/21 02:00 PM
1	Speculation: RP is just a crude foreshadow of what is to come i.e. AI assisted "gaming" of people in general and women in particular. The thing is that redpill doesn't "work". It's like trying to turn on your computer by pulling all of your teeth out of your head, punching your mom in the face and slamming your dick into the power button. Sure, maybe the computer is on but you wasted a lot of time and caused a lot of damage. It's highly inefficient and destructive (and rarely actually effective). Gamification won't work any better and AI isn't going to solve this for anyone. It's a scam, always has been.	/r/ExRedPill	11/09/21 02:18 AM
10	How to make female friends? You thought wrong amigo. You're thinking wrong. If you were thinking right, you'd be happier. Expand your search. Not for sex or a relationship, but companionsip. Go on dates. I don't care who it's with or how you get there. You're a person who's seen black and white your entire life. It's hard to explain the color blue to you, but you're in a psychosis right now. I know because I was there too. You have lots of value and women desire you. You just don't know how to communicate with them yet (ju…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 11:35 PM
8	How to make female friends? I'm a fucking 35 year old man that was a virgin till he was 24. Chill. Listen.	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 11:23 PM
10	How to make female friends? Go on dating apps and go on dates. With E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E. Regardless of attraction. Don't do it to have sex or start a relationship necessarily (though be open to it if it works). Learn how to appreciate other human beinga for non-superficial reasons, and get out of your comfort zone. Every single human being on this planet has something to offer you, and every date can be fun if you're a fun person. This is advice for anyone, not specific to you. I worked in male dominant fields and never knew h…	/r/ExRedPill	06/09/21 10:55 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth You're not hearing me, women don't have this concept of "Average" because almost every guy is average to them. They don't apply numerical scores. And that isn't how casual sex works either. That's ultimately about trust. No one wants to sleep with a creep or a weirdo. Plenty of guys you might say are average or below do just fine for themselves by making women feel comfortable. I'm not sure where you get your opinions about casual sex, but they're way off. Women are the subject of male attention…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 01:50 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth Men project their insecurities onto women and assume that "attractiveness" is A) universally important to everyone and B) a consensus among the demographic. When you start having honest conversations with women around you who trust you enough to be vulnerable, you will find that they vary wildly on what they find attractive. You'll also be shocked to discover how unimportant it is to many, many women. Incels and redpill people fixate on certain types of women and ignore those who are single or w…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 01:29 PM
1	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth "Depending on who is looking" just means "subjective" though. I think a lot of men, particularly romantically unsuccessful men, have no concept of what a woman, let alone women as a monolithic group, find attractive.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 08:45 AM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth You're contextualizing it in entirely the wrong way. "Average looks guy and attractive girl" are absolutely subjective values. Redpill culture tries to teach you that there are almost numerical scores guiding interactions like a math equation. That's not how it is when you're healthily dating and in relationships. So naturally, redpill types think they're doing 2+2 and wondering why it doesn't add up to 4. There's a lot of stuff out there. It's a bit like a delusion. I can feel like the weakest …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 09:58 PM
3	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I feel every day like I'm getting away with something that I get to walk around in the world now and be happy after believing in such awful shit. Particularly when, as I mentioned, a friend of mine killed himself over this sort of stuff. Not all of these are people here in good faith looking for help but there might be a guy who is curious and momentarily open to deprogramming (usually near the end of his rope). The redpill philosophy is toxic and deadly but lots of men are quietly poisoned and …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 09:10 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I try, but only in fits and starts because it's soul-wrenching to do. A lot of people here aren't remotely ready for help and I just have to back off. I only sub and check on sporadically, otherwise I just get into flame wars like this thread almost devolved into. Checking in occaisionally allows me to keep perspective and not become just another "internet person" only concerned with being right. This doesn't need to be a "Safe Space" but I know what would have helped me (when I was ready for he…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 08:41 PM
8	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I was an incel and now I'm not. That's literally what the sub is for. Why are you here if you're pro redpill?	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:33 PM
3	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I never asked, no one here did. We know why and it's bullshit. Trust the snake oil salesmen instead of the healthy, fulfilled men is satisfying relationships if you want.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:22 PM
0	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth It's one sentence	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:12 PM
4	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I'm happily married now, I'd rather I never thought or felt this awful shit and pretend it never happened but my friend killed himself a few years ago over this shit and I regret not trying to reach out and pull him back up (don't even know that I could if I had tried). I try to engage this stuff and own my sucky past occasionally now. Sorry again.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:12 PM
1	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth Well, you're miserable and alone, at least you still have your standards.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:09 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth Maybe, but a lot of these guys aren't trying to get into "a" relationship, they're trying to get into a very specific relationship without understanding how or what that entails.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:05 PM
1	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth Well, that and the occasional murder?	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 07:04 PM
2	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth I'm actually very sorry. But regardless of the world being built for us it isn't working for some. I don't think you would think I'm a piece of shit now (though who knows judging by your response), but you might have thought so 10 years ago. It just seems to run contra to the stated mission of the sub, is all, and would have been very unhelpful to me when I was in the thick of the incel bullshit. I wasn't trying to say you shouldn't post, I was more responding to the dismissal of the question. A…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 06:59 PM
4	Question: Who has it easier in finding relationships/casual dating Women or Men? It's built on the weird supply and demand theory of dating between the sexes. It's not remotely true, redpill types fixate and a lot of women are functionally invisible to them, so there's confirmation bias there. There is a class of people in every gender that dates easily and effortlessly. Incels target the women that do for their resentment and fixate on them and ignore anything that doesn't confirm their worldview. It's a lot less psychically damaging in the short term and easier to develop …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 06:53 PM
5	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth A lot of these men haven't been in a position where they've been rejected a lot. They perceive a lot of rejection because they have a fundamental misunderstanding of how people of the opposite sex relate to one another. The reason they try to codify things and break them into systems is because they don't understand what is happening at a basic and logical level. This happens for a lot of reasons. A lot of intersex relationships happen behind a veil. You don't see what your buddy who gets laid a…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 06:34 PM
0	Rejection leads to low self esteem and perception of lower self worth It sucks the way this ethos and the fucked up young men who follow it treat women. There are plenty of subs where that is discussed and rightfully put in the spot light. Women are the primary victims of this culture and mindset, but they aren't the only victims and there aren't a lot of spaces where the young male victims can receive attention and support (which is dangerous, because fucking Jordan Peterson is eager to tell you that he sees you and he cares). There needs to be a space for young …	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/21 06:23 PM
5	My plan as an incel I'm sure it's much more comfortable to believe what you believe, it doesn't make it right. If you say that it's reasonable that you exclude some women from your search than so be it. I can't argue with that, it's entirely your call and only you can make that determination (I'm not harping on obesity by the way... You are. Look back at what we've both written and see how many times I've mentioned it). You have an adversarial relationship with women that is not serving your search whatsoever. I co…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 11:38 PM
7	My plan as an incel You want it two ways. That no one loves you, never will and never could. And yet, it's also only fair you have standards, and that you're lowered to date these women you imply you're disgusted by. You also are communicating an anxiety that women would be eager to use you for money, casting yourself again as a victim. I haven't been made fun of my whole life for a deformity, but I'm on this sub because I got poisoned by toxic thought that made me want to be not alive for a while, and scraped and …	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 10:11 PM
2	My plan as an incel I'm just saying it's not impossible, or worth "giving up" on. You wish someone would swoop down and give you a chance. You need to be willing to do that for someone else. Forgive me, but you seem a little superficial for someone who self identifies as deformed.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 09:45 PM
3	My stance on archetypes (Alpha, Beta, Sigma)... No, you misunderstood. I said what you would consider alpha or beta. It's meaningless. The word means nothing if it's not defining anything specfic, and it isn't. Alpha and beta are the ways people like you (and me before) tried to make sense of an inherently chaotic world. We thought it we codified and defined everything we could figure it out. Our conclusions were all based on flawed premises, but that was more comforting than saying "I just don't understand". You're dooming yourself when you …	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 09:01 PM
9	My plan as an incel Do you consider them ugly, though? That's kind of an important distinction. I'm not going to tell you you're not ugly (it's meaningless and subjective anyway). What I will tell you is that there are women who have come to the same conclusion you have, and who haven't felt pretty for one second of their lives. For as isolated as you feel, there are communities for you, with like minded people (that's part of the problem. People get sucked in). These women suffer alone. I don't believe you that it…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 08:48 PM
9	My stance on archetypes (Alpha, Beta, Sigma)... These aren't real because they change all the time. I do stuff you would find alpha sometimes, sometimes I do stuff you would think is beta. I'm not a sigma male because that doesn't mean much. I think it's important that you look at these as types of behavior and not as types of people. And then break it down further and look at what parts of it are useful, useless, toxic and healthy.	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 07:42 PM
3	My plan as an incel Do you find a lot of women to be ugly?	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 07:14 PM
21	The dangers of the “numbers game” “cold approach” method red pill coaches spew Trying to turn it into a science is where it gets weird and bad. Honestly, I think every guy that's feeling isolated from the opposite sex should try asking a stranger out. The key is to do it respectfully and not get pissed off, whatever the outcome. If done correctly it does a lot of things for you. It calls on you to be empathetic and considerate of the person you're approaching. You actually take the time to consider what way would be respectful, make them feel the most safe (not just during…	/r/ExRedPill	19/08/21 03:46 PM
7	Am I a redpilled? Black pill? Idk anymore Look back to my first response. The first line says no one here thinks you're evil. No one thinks you're a monster. You are me. I'm what you look like when your life changes, almost imperceptibly. And it will if you're open to it. I have a friend that I think killed himself over this stuff. It didn't need to happen. There's nothing you've written that I haven't thought and then been proven wrong on. There are so many lonely women out there dying for someone, and they need you, dude. Your support…	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/21 09:22 PM
14	Am I a redpilled? Black pill? Idk anymore I don't know what FDS and 5th wave feminism is because I don't seek out things just to get angry at them. This is not feminism, and it isnt affecting you except to view it as an adversary.	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/21 08:56 PM
14	Am I a redpilled? Black pill? Idk anymore These issues aren't mutually exclusive. Feminism is having its moment right now, and it isn't at the expense of men's rights. We can (and should) want to change things for men too, but it's a separate rail running alongside feminism. Literally nothing they're doing right now is at the expense of men. The courts need to change, but that's like centuries old precedent, held up by old judges. Feminism didn't create judicial bias.	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/21 08:26 PM
27	Am I a redpilled? Black pill? Idk anymore This is an ex-redpill sub, no one thinks you're evil, just confused in the way a lot of us were for a while. Some of your stuff does sound redpill, some just plain nihilism (and hey, who doesn't think we're in a shitty world right now?). The question is more who you think is responsible. You cite feminism and liberal thinking as being oppressive, and that women are being awarded preferential treatment. If you have some real friends of the opposite sex you'll probably soften on that once you real…	/r/ExRedPill	18/08/21 07:48 PM