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| 1 | I did every right but still got rejected because of own insecuritiesIt’s her issues, not yours tbh. She’s probably scared of vulnerability and intimacy. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 06:52 PM |
| 3 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sI’m going through this right now. What the bloody hell man. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I really want 8s and 9s but I only can attract 5s and 6sBro - It’s not the outside that matters, sure it’s easy on the eyes, but I’ve found many of them to be incredibly shallow and stupidly obsessed with their looks and have this insane need for attention. So yeah obviously look for both looks and personality. Personality is super important, actually the most important part. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 1 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.I didn’t say men don’t lie. I just said women are more inclined and prone to lying. Actions over words. Always. Regardless of gender. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 08:11 PM |
| 0 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.Action over words. | /r/seduction | 19/03/26 08:10 PM |
| -1 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.This is so true. Women, by nature, lie. Always trust actions over words. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 04:22 PM |
| 4 | My experience on dating apps and why I hate them.You need to use them continuously to get results. Tinder is kinda the worst of all the apps now You need to pay to get results or follow rule 1 and 2. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 07:04 AM |
| 2 | What mindset do I need to adopt for fulfilling experiences with womenDo I have to be American to subscribe to your views? | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 12:43 PM |
| 0 | What mindset do I need to adopt for fulfilling experiences with womenDon’t listen to this advice, not all STDs are controllable or curable. Not to mention sometimes it screws up your life by limiting career options. | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Hobbies that could make you better with women?Do whatever you enjoy. Like dancing? Go for dance classes. Like reading? Find reading clubs. Like pottery, painting or art? Find classes for them. Like video, role playing or board games? Find places that you can play them. The trick is to be social, not a tool(ok some women enjoy that too). You socialize and do what you want to do, without expecting women to come up to you or without expecting anything out of it, except a good time. Desperation is the single most insane turn off a man can have. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Hobbies that could make you better with women?Oh come on. Why would you choose what to do with your life to please some woman you’ve never met? If you enjoy Warhammer, play it! | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How to disagree with women without being cocky?Just say you don’t agree with them. You don’t have to explain, unless you want to or they ask. It’s not your job to change others views on life and issues. And don’t really care if you come off cocky - what’s anyone gonna do if you come off as cocky? | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why am I able to flirt effortlessly while being drunk but not when sober?Alcohol messes with your brain and lowers inhibitions. So you can flirt easily. | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?seems out of character then. Do verify. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?Well, you could try it with and without. Maybe the female partner gets an IUD and they go raw with the man finishing in her. Maybe ribbed condoms, or something else. All novel, isn’t it? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?Bruh plenty of people hookup hoping for a relationship. Also who tf says I love you that quickly. Are you sure she’s someone who has done this before? | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 09:48 PM |
| 17 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?You do know sexual novelty doesn’t mean a different partner everyday? You can have novelty in the positions, places, clothes, toys, contraceptives and so on without even including other people in the process. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 09:46 PM |
| 6 | Why am I so attracted to the “easy” girls?You fall for the aura. They’re charismatic, and can make life fun, you like the banter and the chemistry. They can build chemistry with almost anyone, will be highly extroverted and social, and will take extreme care of themselves - grooming, food and dressing. Overall, a very attractive package even if sometimes their looks aren’t up to par. In reality, they’re insecure about everything. They’re insecure about their looks, their appearance, skin, past, how they grew up and so much more - it tak… | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you MAKE yourself more exciting or interesting? (not just for dating, but in general)Bro, you just haven’t found your tribe yet. You’re the main character in your life. Everyone else comes second. So, what you should do is focus on yourself. Start working out, focus on what makes you happy and do it more. Gaming doesn’t do it anymore? Trial and error, find out what does. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:49 PM |
| 3 | How long will it take for a girl to respond to an Instagram dm?When you send a message, don’t expect a reply. If it comes, great. If not, let it go. If you’re feeling adventurous, talk to her in person. Tell your piece and if she’s not interested, let it go. | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?I would love to get a woman’s perspective on this. Casual sex is something that’s been hyped as ‘the’ thing to do if you’re a modern woman/man, but almost every guy I spoke to says it’s empty and not fulfilling in the long term. Sure you get ‘cool’ points and street cred of sorts by bragging (not very gentlemanly btw) but is it really that great? | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Do i have the right to be mad? Gf still following her ex.Oh yes. It can’t be one rule for her and another for you - so yeah. Be mad. Don’t think it’ll change anything but you have all the right to be mad. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you derive confidence around women from?Tbh, don’t care who thinks you’re a 10/10. You’re a 10/10, and whether the world believes it or not, you believe it. In a relationship, ideally there’s no lower or higher. Sure there will be imbalances of looks, finances etc but those are things that shouldn’t really matter after a while - it’s how the person is and how they act when faced with issues. Someone can be 10/10 but run at the first sight of trouble or anything that makes them insecure. Someone can be an objective 6/10 but will stay a… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:44 PM |
| 7 | What do you derive confidence around women from?See, that’s just how gender works. Understand these points: - Women are humans. There’s no need to pedestal them. They breathe, poop and fart just like men. They’re not superior in any other way, except that they are blessed with the ability to create life. That is something we must respect all women for, regardless of whether they use that ability. You have self worth issues. Understand that you’re an attractive man with a lot to offer. You being with her is placing her in a much better positio… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 03:40 PM |
| 5 | What's your WORST cold approaching experience?Approached. Got shot down. Didn’t try for another 10 years. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I feel so hopeless and jealous of all the hot wild sex and relationships happening the worldBruh Reddit is a tiny tiny fraction of the world. If you’re gonna get into a relationship, leave Reddit and don’t come back. You know this shit happens, and tbh we don’t know if any of the partners in the setup are actually happy. Those subs thrive on young horny men coming in and hyping it all up, but reality is none of that even needs to be true. Everything can be faked and everything can be staged - so don’t think everyone else is doing better than you. All of them are struggling and take it … | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How to give her the best sex of her life?Talk to her to figure out what she likes. Do it. There’s no one fits all rule | /r/seduction | 04/11/24 04:28 PM |
| 10 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedI’m happy to be included in the attractive list 🥹 major ego boost right there, right off the heels of being told I’m more heavier than what she expected from a date over the weekend. But I’m not making it up, I’ve had different women tell me this multiple times tbh- They don’t all look for model looks or a guy who’s ripped - some of them actually look for men who they can talk with, are accomplished and have solid a personality that comes from doing work on yourself. But for that you need to als… | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 02:12 PM |
| 6 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedWomen don’t solely at the man’s attractiveness level. Sure, there are women who do that but there also exist women who won’t and don’t. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Girl takes forever to respondIf you feel she’s not reciprocating, don’t chase. Why would you do that to yourself? | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 03:07 AM |
| 5 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal AttributesI go rarely. And it’s intimidating walking up to them and starting conversations. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 12:23 AM |
| 4 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal AttributesGot church. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 12:07 AM |
| 2 | I invited my female colleague for coffee and she gave me her number. I didn't ask her for number.Bruh you’re going on a date 😅 Just go on the date. Enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 12:22 AM |
| 3 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?Subtlety is the name of the game. | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Thank you for the recommendation. Will read. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 11:50 PM |
| 6 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Aah yes. The ‘I’m not ugly, respect women, am nice and call women pussy, why don’t I get women’ post. This is why you’re friendzoned bro. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?Yes, but the point is: attracting a woman is the byproduct of you bettering yourself. Some people have it as their goal, and that’s not bad neither, but the point is: if that’s your primary goal, you will be easily demotivated when you don’t get the results you look for. However, if your goal is to better yourself, then your primary motive is only to do so. Whatever else happens is an additional benefit, including your increased self confidence, getting work, finding a partner and so on. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | From shy “can’t look at people in the eyes” guy to popular, easy going dude that easily gets a girl a week: what I did and what you can learn from my experienceNice going OP. Lots of useful tips, I think most of it can be applied universally by anyone. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?Can’t help you if you’re unwilling… also the goal shouldn’t be to attract women. Just be yourself OP. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?Bad skin can be cleared with a doctors help. Balding, just bite the bullet and go bald. Or talk to a dermatologist. There are medications to grow your hair back. Ears that stick out is ok, and a big nose makes you look dominant. Speech impediment is more difficult to easily manage but practice makes perfect. It’s all about working through yourself and gaining confidence. Hit the gym, work out and just go ahead with life man. Stop feeling pity for yourself and you will find someone to cherish you… | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Wha can I do?Not sure what you mean by extremely ugly. But yes. Change your looks. If you’re balding, own it. If you can grow a beard, do it. If you can buy some better fitting clothes and dress better, do it. Approaching a woman is mostly about confidence. As long as it isn’t taboo to do so in your country, go for it again. If one woman rejects you, go for the next. It’s a numbers game to be honest. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment?It’s a compliment. Could mean anything, maybe they found something in you that fascinated them. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 08:31 PM |
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