NootNootMFer Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
999	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice.	Social Issues	NootNootMFer	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 01:23 AM
36	The Men’s Rights Movement is inherently progressive. Claims that it promotes traditional conservatism are egregiously false.	General	NootNootMFer	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 03:09 AM

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1	The real reason why men are more single than women now (hint: it's not age gaps or men being picky). If 30% of women from 18-29 are single, but 60% of men of the same age group are single, there are only four possibilities: [1] The women are dating men from another age group. [2] Women are dating each other and men are not. [3] More men are dating multiple women than women are dating multiple men. [4] Women have a different definition of "single" than men. All four of these are contributing to it. For [1], the effect is slight, but not absent. For [2], women have been shown to be more sexually …	/r/MensRights	04/03/23 02:22 AM
9	I get it, being lesbian is cool and all but… the body shaming??? like is it necessary Yeah I'd agree that for a terminally-online woman of course women's bodies look better. I mean, nearly every picture posted on Instagram by a woman is run through seven different filters to erase every blemish, make her nose narrower, make her face smaller, and whiten her teeth. Pictures of their bodies are thrown through Photoshop. If you want to see the average woman's body, go to a water park.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 12:30 AM
20	How many of you are left wingers? Their argument against men's rights is that advocates for men's rights are actually tradcons who want women to stay home and be powerless. Like ... I want women to fucking work tbh. I think the vast majority of MRAs feel the same way.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:14 AM
1	How many of you are left wingers? There is not a single political party in the US that represents men's rights.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:11 AM
11	Being the Main Character Japanese women at least are incredibly controlling in relationships and around the house. In many households they handle literally all finances and give their husband an allowance. It's actually pretty common for them to hide money and constantly tell their husbands that they have little to no savings. Once the kids go to college the wife takes the hundreds of thousands of dollars she has saved up in her nest egg and divorces her husband.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:07 AM
31	Being the Main Character I've had to deal with an obnoxious wife in this regard too. I must have told her like 100 times not to tell me to do something, but that she has to ask me to do something. Only then will I consider whether I will be doing it now, later, or never. Women in general just approach relationships believing that they are the authorities on all household matters. I actually had to bust out the "Who do you think pays for this house?" before.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:01 AM
1	Fat acceptance is feminist baloney. Body positivity? Let them have it. Your organs don't care about your personal opinions towards obesity. Your joints don't either. And you know what? Neither does the vast majority of society. People don't speak out against obesity simply because they're afraid to. Morbidly obese women will model underwear and everyone will clap and talk about how tolerant and positive it is, but few people like that. No matter how much they stomp their feet and how much they try to push the fat, healthy, and bea…	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 01:58 AM
3	Boys as young as 13 forced by ISIS women to impregnate them at women's Syrian detention camps. Drugged by Viagra-like drug until poisoning. Kept in tunnels. Ten rescued, total number of unaccounted for victims unknown. Sources report women decided to rape boys to enlarge the Caliphate. post something stupid get banned yOu'Re AlL SnOWfLaKeS Laughing crying emoji is basically 100% you being mad and trying to look like you find it amusing.	/r/MensRights	24/02/23 10:25 PM
57	Women need to be called out on their hypocritical use of sexuality in the workplace There's this bizarre duality here. [A] A woman using her sexuality to her advantage is empowered. [B] A man enjoying the woman's sexuality is predatory. You see, despite the fact that [B] is a necessary condition for [A], [A] is perfectly acceptable while [B] is met with open derision. All roads lead to the Women Are Wonderful hypothesis, where women are by default regarded as good and benevolent creatures, while men are distrusted no matter what they do.	/r/MensRights	24/02/23 09:59 PM
23	Nowadays it's women who keeps alive the ideia of "Men can't cry" Any man who has ever cried in front of a significant other can tell you that it simply does not go well. I too was fooled by the myth that women are the more emotionally in-tune sex. In a way, it's correct, but you have to check the fine print: women are in-tune with their own emotions.	/r/MensRights	24/02/23 09:49 PM
31	this is being taught at my high-school. It wouldn't hurt to bring this up in class. Prepare the statistics in advance, and ask why the assignment isn't gender neutral when women abuse men at higher rates than men abuse women.	/r/MensRights	21/02/23 12:56 AM
24	Woman on Twitter Hopes Mother is Raped by Her Sons for Having Boys. Man Steps in to Apologize for Men. You know, in the past, I would just shrug and think that the women in this are probably on government support and are at least out of public generally. But nowadays with the feminism virus being so widespread, I can't even be sure anymore. These women could legitimately be in positions of authority over young boys.	/r/MensRights	20/02/23 04:21 AM
7	Woman on Twitter Hopes Mother is Raped by Her Sons for Having Boys. Man Steps in to Apologize for Men. I'M GOING TO TIE YOU TO THE RADIATOR AND GRAPE YOU!!!!!! RIP Trevor.	/r/MensRights	20/02/23 04:15 AM
223	CLEAREST evidence that reddit and society in general have more empathy for women The primary AITA demographic is 30- to 40-something single women. Straight-up FemaleDatingStrategy rhetoric gets upvoted there constantly. It's always crazy to me that people buy the stories there in the first place. Tons of it is just ragebait. People will post stories such as: I'm a 31-year-old man and my wife is 22. She works full time and I stay home. She doesn't want to do literally all the chores and cook and clean and wait on me. AITA? This is barely even exaggerated, by the way. What the…	/r/MensRights	19/02/23 11:33 AM
46	Damned if you do, Damned if you don’t. Women complains that man keeping it professional at work makes her and other female coworkers feel uncomfortable All the reasons off the top of my head that he might keep to himself: He has had work related drama with female coworkers in the past He has a significant other and this is one of their boundaries Past trauma involving women He can see that your group is trouble and you are proving him right He is on the spectrum and cannot understand female social language He finds you dull This is a great range of possibilities. For me at least, I simply don't go beyond cordial and professional with female col…	/r/MensRights	16/02/23 09:59 AM
4	Reported crimes with female victims have higher clearance rates than crimes with male victims, and reported female criminals are less likely to be arrested. A while ago I saw something kind of funny on MensLib. They surprisingly acknowledged your last statistic about false accusations being an enormous part of female-on-male abuse patterns. They really wracked their brains for a reason why that paints women as benevolent and flawless, and eventually they found one: They claimed the men were just lying. Never change, MensLib. Never change.	/r/MensRights	16/02/23 09:38 AM
1	CDC young men kill themselves 4.5x the rate of young women, young women most affect I hate to say it, but when it comes to sympathy for men, there's simply a blank spot in most Western women's brains. I honestly think this is an issue that is significantly worsened by feminism, as it actively encourages women to discard men's issues and treat men like garbage. The damage that feminist lobbying has done to men, taking issues that affect men more than women and redirecting funding for their handling exclusively to women, cannot be understated. With that said, there's more to it. …	/r/MensRights	15/02/23 01:03 AM
10	r/therewasanattempt mods Removed a post about make victims of domestic abuse and are banning anyone who mentions it. Remember: behind every female perpetrator of violence, there are thousands of feminists who will stand up for her. Periodically, there will be a post on TwoX with an OP who's distraught over redditors "loving watching women get hit." The way she words it, it's a video of a guy sucker punching a woman in the head, and the hoards of incels are beating their chests and declaring victory for mankind everywhere. Then you look at the actual post, and it's generally a woman beating on a man repeatedly,…	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 11:52 PM
7	What happens to the men without money looks and status? Of course a man can have meaningful romantic relationships even if he's not attractive. OP, on some day when you have a bit of free time, head over to an outdoor cafe in a shopping center or something. Order a coffee, bring a book, whatever. And then just people watch. You'll see that plenty of the men you see with women aren't even good looking. Some of them are ugly. On a bell curve, 68% of men will fall in the slightly under average to slightly over average range. About 14% of men will be sol…	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 12:03 PM
223	Are We Dating The Same Guy So a man looking in the general direction of a woman in public is harassment, but a woman posting a man's picture with his personal information, followed by other women providing more of his personal information, is absolutely fine? We play by different rules. Oh well. You know, we're only a couple of years away from facial recognition technology capable of taking a picture of someone's face and then deep scouring the entire internet for all pictures of that person. This includes nudes, lewds, s…	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 03:44 AM
35	what's everyone's opinions Reverse the genders and watch reddit lose its mind. Instead, when you point it out, someone responds: Found the incel Wow. TIL that saying women shouldn't hit men is literal incel rhetoric /s	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 02:05 AM
4	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Because "No" is a full sentence. You would not be saying the same to a woman who didn't want to go on the pill.	/r/MensRights	13/02/23 12:01 AM
3	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Where did I say we should get rid of Safe Haven laws?	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 10:24 PM
4	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Where did I say it was reasonable for women to bully men into surgery? You stood up for women who tried to bully their partners into surgery. You said that their reasoning was fine and they weren't technically forcing them into surgery so they did nothing wrong. And you dodged my question again... Anyway, feel free to blame me for your inability to make a cohesive argument. Run away with your tail between your legs, but that doesn't change the fact that you defend women who coerce their partners…	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 10:22 PM
9	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. I misunderstood nothing you said and I certainly didn't move the goalposts. You simply keep changing your stance. First, the women were being perfectly reasonable. Then, the women were not real feminists and their opinion didn't matter. Now, the women are being perfectly reasonable again. Frankly, if any woman calls a man not wanting to get a vasectomy "infuriating," calls him "selfish," or doubts his true intentions, she is using coercion as a tactic to get him to undergo a medical procedure th…	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 01:01 PM
8	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Your post confuses me. You just defended the women above, and now you're saying they're not real feminists? Which one is it? Are you defending them like you did here: Not one of these is an example of forcing a man to have a procedure. Are you unable to discern the difference between “expressing frustration with again being asked to carry the burden of contraception in a romantic relationship” and “forcing a man to have a surgery he does not want”? They are not the same thing. Or are you critici…	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 12:10 PM
17	Velma is racist and sexist (Mainly against white men) Casual reminder that TheMarySue gave Velma a positive review, and then when the show got backlash feminists claimed it was a conservative trying to make feminists look bad.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 11:29 AM
9	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. You said this yourself: No legitimate feminist will call for men to receive vasectomies by force or coercion. Ultimately, the decision to be sterilized belongs to the individual—not their partner. These are women calling men not having vasectomies selfish, infuriating, toxic male bullshit, and suspicious. Do you honestly think that their attitudes never poke their heads out in their personal relationships with men? Here, let me make it simple for you: Pressuring a person who has already said no …	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 11:26 AM
9	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. And ultimately, no feminist is going to advocate for someone to undergo a medical procedure against their will, no matter how bad you wished we thought that way. Oh really? Some comments from TwoX for you: I think a lot of us women are just used to being the ones that are responsible for any kind of contraception. For many of us, it feels like the first time a man is asked to take some responsibility- and then they say no… That’s why it feels so selfish. It's selfish to not want a vasectomy. I’m…	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 11:03 AM
7	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. ...Are you legitimately this illiterate or are you trolling?	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 10:58 AM
14	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Nope, not even close. Women use "My body, my choice" for a whole variety of situations, including not wanting to have medical procedures done or not wanting to take a certain medication (such as birth control). And they're absolutely correct! The only issue is that people do not lend the same to men, rather insisting that we should just suck it up and get a vasectomy done whether we like it or not. I'm not surprised you missed the point of the post but I don't think you really even tried.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 10:13 AM
6	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. I agree with you but saying that Roe v. Wade being overturned caused people to not care about men's bodily autonomy is not what I was trying to do. It's not my message really. It's rather than the phrase "My body, my choice" is accepted by far more people when it's a woman saying it.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 05:48 AM
16	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. And whose decision is that? Oh, that's right. It's the mother's. The father has no say. Can you find me a single case in the history of United States family law where: [1] Woman gives birth to a child, wants nothing to do with it. [2] Child is taken from woman and given to father without her input. [3] Woman is forced to pay child support.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 04:11 AM
11	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Unlikely, sadly.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 03:41 AM
18	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Do you agree that if a woman gives birth to a child, she shouldn't have the option to put that child up for adoption, then? Because that's the only way your point would be consistent. Women have options during pregnancy and after pregnancy. Women can give a child up for adoption no questions asked and be free from all financial burdens. However, if a woman chooses to keep a child, she can also force the father to pay. So please do answer. Should all women who give birth be forced to financially …	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 03:39 AM
42	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. I think there's a bigger underlying issue with the control freak wives who sap every ounce of happiness out of their husband over decades. It doesn't even have to be "you're not allowed to do that." It could be shaming him for enjoying something after, nagging, or the like.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 03:38 AM
12	Remember: "My body, my choice" only applies to women. If you are a man, nobody cares about your body or your choice. Way to fly off the rails with that irrelevant point. My body, my choice is universal. It is the discussion-ending point for any debate about bodily autonomy. For that matter, I am against the decision to overturn Roe v. Wade, and therefore feminists should also be against coercing men to get medical procedures they don't want done. The issue is they're not. So in principle, I'm against Roe v. Wade, but in reality? Not my body, not my problem. It isn't relevant to me. Deal with it.	/r/MensRights	12/02/23 03:36 AM
4	Type in "domestic violence" on Google Images. That's correct. Look at lifetime victimization rates of domestic violence: Slightly more than 2 in 5 women (42.0% or 52 million) in the United States reported experiencing any physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. More than 2 in 5 men (42.3% or 49.9 million) in the United States reported experiencing any physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime. We also have to understand that these are self-reported rates, where women are more likely to over-report and me…	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 03:13 AM
16	Older women dating younger men is not as stigmatized as men dating younger women, study shows Unpopular opinion, but when it comes to age gap relationships with an older man and younger woman, the younger woman is generally getting the better deal. When I dated a woman 10 years younger than me, I was always on my A game. I took care of my appearance and trained really hard. I had abs for the entirety of our eight month relationship. I took her out to fine dining and she never paid a cent. We stayed in great hotels and traveled. I live in Japan where younger women often go for older men. …	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 11:59 PM
20	Older women dating younger men is not as stigmatized as men dating younger women, study shows Some American women go to Jamaica for sex tourism as well.	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 11:42 PM
6	Woman Of 3 Kills Her Kids And Tries To Kill Herself While Husband Is Out Getting Medicine For Them Anyone ever notice how when it's a woman who kills her kids, it's "sad" and "a tragedy," and they feel "so bad" for the father, but when it's a man who kills his kids, he's "a monster" and we need to talk about the overreaching problem of male family annihilators? When a woman does something bad, she's a victim of circumstance and it's always a sad story. When a man does something bad, he's pure evil. The sad thing is it's mostly women who enable other women with this too. There's even a post on…	/r/MensRights	09/02/23 10:25 AM
31	Most Reddit Subs Ban You For Sharing A Non-Gynocentric Point of View At least you can learn a nice lesson from this: be like Leo. Leo knows that people talk shit. Leo knows that women will call him a predator. What does he care? He's wealthy beyond imagination and is in a relationship with a smoking hot 19-year-old woman. No matter how many woke people there are shrieking about him online, no matter how many times people try to cancel him, and no matter how uncomfortable it makes everyone, Leo just doesn't give a shit. When his current girlfriend reaches 25 or so…	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 06:59 AM
3	yup... these people are trash (2nd image) You have to understand that when they say men are more likely to molest girls, they're actually saying two things: [1] The above point. [2] That it's better for a female babysitter to molest a boy or a girl than a male babysitter. They never say [2] out loud, but they mean it.	/r/MensRights	08/02/23 06:21 AM
14	Got posted on "Are We Dating the Same Guy" and got my car vandalized! I've seen these communities advertised and promoted on feminist communities. Women only understand consent and boundaries as far as their own consent and own boundaries are concerned. I hate to generalize here, but with how fast these communities have taken off and how little criticism I hear of them from women, I can't really come to any other conclusion. I mean, if I take a picture from a female friend's private Instagram, post it, and then post her personal information like her name and the c…	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 01:04 AM
2	Am I the only one that feels like men are attacked for being men? Nah, I don't buy that argument for one second. You can only blame so much on where society/peer pressure led you, and then you have to take responsibility for your own actions. The fact of the matter is feminist groups actively promote hatred against men. Feminists are fine with this. There is no excuse for that.	/r/MensRights	07/02/23 12:46 AM
13	Am I the only one that feels like men are attacked for being men? Generalizing feminists is fine. It's a social movement with completely voluntary membership. Men and women who identify as feminists look at all of the movement's rhetoric and say "Yes, this is a group where I feel I belong."	/r/MensRights	06/02/23 11:56 AM
5	All disagreeing comments were removed due to "derailing" How do you feel about men's mental health? [Every poster immediately makes it about women, complaining that the epidemic of poor mental health among men in the US inconveniences them] I would expect nothing else from AskWomen. These are the kinds of women who would take their son's door off its hinges if they walked in on him masturbating.	/r/MensRights	06/02/23 04:45 AM
1	Anyone else feeling uncomfortable around the gym lately after that latest tik tok trend where girls film themselves to catch any men that glance at them for a second? Wait till you hear that you can be accused of leering at a woman outside the gym too.	/r/MensRights	05/02/23 10:06 AM
13	NY Times yesterday: A study finds that 10.76 millions U.S. homes were owned and occupied by single women, while 8.12 million owned by single men. Portrayed as an accomplishment. Feminism, does, not, want, equality. Feminism, is, chauvinism. Female, anti-male chauvinism. Both times that my dad got divorced he lost a house and started living in a rented apartment. Yeeeeeeeep. I mean don't get me wrong the guy was very hard to deal with and I don't blame my mother at all (although my stepmother was a total piece of shit), but it's just funny how that's the norm. Dad pisses off, Mom stays in the comfy comfy home.	/r/MensRights	05/02/23 10:03 AM
83	He did what women do on tiktok I actually got curious about this TikTok trend so I looked it up. One woman claimed that she was being stalked because a guy entered the same studio as her and stretched where she was stretching. One woman claimed that a guy using the rack next to her was only doing so because he wanted to stare at her. Reminds me of high school. The popular girls routinely called the less-than-popular boys creeps, claimed the boys were in love with them, and made other false accusations to raise their own socia…	/r/MensRights	04/02/23 12:30 AM
134	British men quit their jobs 'when too many women join their departments' The first office I ever worked in was 95% women. My first week, I found an entry error from someone. I don't know who made it, but it had to be corrected. When I informed my boss, she started individually calling every person in the office to nastily ask if she was the one responsible. This led to a huge argument. It was an error that could be corrected in 1-2 minutes tops, but they spent an hour fighting about it. I soon learned that I had to play this game of not involving two women who fuckin…	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 11:55 PM
5	ChatGPT : Black Women > White Men Joe Blow has not, but he is also not oppressed. His life was negatively affected, but he can still find success as long as he talks, with friends, with the mortgage company, with people who might help him and do his best to be back on his feet. You're completely off your rocker if you think all white men have safety nets in place ready to catch them any time things go south. Like, are you shitposting or do you really believe this? Where do you think homeless men come from?	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 12:06 PM
308	ChatGPT : Black Women > White Men AI in general opens a can of worms, but the ChatGPT, which is meant to give factually-correct answers, is knowingly spreading misinformation. Are women more at risk of violence than men? Are men more at risk of violence than women? Funny how for women, the answer is a resounding "Yes." For men, it's "Well it's complicated because although men are at higher risk for virtually every violent crime, we can't outright say that." Facts don't matter anymore. It's only about perception and optics. I rea…	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 02:37 AM
4	“Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at best for men By doing normal people things and having a regular social life.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 01:38 AM
8	“Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at best for men Oh yeah, in Japan what I noticed is that some new foreigner guys would brag about banging a few Japanese women. Then as time goes on they're all bragging about banging the same women... The foreigner hunter girls get passed around looking for the idiot just dumb enough to marry them.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 12:31 AM
2	Who has it worse Men or Women? To expand on this, look at the top issues that feminists bring up: Street harassment (annoyance, non-criminal). Wage gap (doesn't exist). Violence against women (violence against men is far more common). Abortion (if abortion were only legal in one single back alley clinic in one state in the entirety of the USA, women would still have greater reproductive rights than men). Emoji equality, sexist air conditioning, pants with/without pockets, and other nonsense issues.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 12:28 AM
19	“Go to Asia” is imprecise advice at best for men A lot of Asian girls exclusively date white guys, and hate Asian guys. As a white guy in Asia, I can only say this to other white guys: avoid, avoid, avoid. Asian women who exclusively date white men are very often in a position where men from their own country wouldn't want to touch them with a 10-foot pole. Many of them feel that a foreign man is easier to control because of his residency status in their country, and on that front, they're correct. If you get married to one and get a marriage …	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 12:20 AM
3	Equal pay in soccer is sexist IIRC, both the men and the women were given an opportunity to choose from the same two contracts. The men chose the contract that was more incentive-based, while the women chose the contract that had greater non-monetary benefits and was more stable.	/r/MensRights	02/02/23 12:13 AM
2	When are you going to marry him? see feminist mommy I'm saying the right things one sex please 😰😰	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 08:41 PM
6	When are you going to marry him? feminist mommy I called the MRA an incel do i have enough good boy points for a sex now please???	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 07:34 AM
6	"A misandrist feminist might complain about men online but a misogynistic male can shoot up a school because he doesn't get laid." Yeah... Jesus H. Christ that's the worst take I've ever heard. Women kill their children because men don't do enough eMoTiONaL LaBoR	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 07:31 AM
1	Woman just walks into mens changing room? What do I do? The post above mine is suggesting that OP sue. I responded to that. I wasn't shooting down the wrong lane; you just didn't follow the conversation. In addition, criminal and civil are not mutually exclusive. OJ Simpson may have won his criminal trial but he lost the following civil case. For someone who knows a thing or two you sure don't seem to.	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 06:36 AM
1	Woman just walks into mens changing room? What do I do? So you want to discuss filing a police report and charging her with a crime now? The post above mine talked about suing her. I discussed a civil suit. If you want to talk about getting the police involved I'm more than happy to tell you why that's probably pointless as well.	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 02:54 AM
12	AskMen post asking why a certain female mod is locking and deleting posts gets locked. My experience with MensLib years ago was hilarious. I posted a story about a man who got out of prison after serving 20 years of a lifetime sentence for a rape he did not commit. A few minutes later I got this long, butthurt, sarcastic post about how I was a terribly misogynistic alt-right pot-stirrer for that, and that the woman who accused him and misidentified him wasn't wrong for doing so because she had actually been raped. I then responded with a slight change: instead of being about a man…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 01:16 AM
0	Woman just walks into mens changing room? What do I do? I know a thing or two Well clearly you don't because court cases, especially civil cases, are not based on facts. OP would have to prove that his life was affected in a meaningful way by her walking in and that she was negligent enough to cause significant harm. It's especially hilarious because I've been in a small claims' courtroom with a similar case. A maintenance worker walked into a woman's apartment after she got out of the shower and he saw her naked. She tried to sue him for $5,000, whi…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 12:57 AM
1	Woman just walks into mens changing room? What do I do? I didn't say it was right. I said the lawyers would argue it. Court cases aren't always about being right. They're about arguing a more convincing case. If you knew the first thing about law in general you'd probably know this, but you seem to think that OP should dump thousands and thousands of dollars into a hopeless lawsuit so why are you giving legal advice?	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 12:41 AM
5	Why is it whenever a man is single(even if by choice) he’s seen as a freak, a weirdo, someone who needs fixing, but whenever a woman is single, in particular by choice, she’s seen as brave, courageous and stunning? I think my favorite instance of this was a woman over 40 who was saying that if a guy over 40 is single, there's a good reason why. Like ... pot? Meet kettle.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 04:32 AM
9	I am done pretending men are safe (even my sons) It pains me to say that I don’t feel emotionally safe with them, and perhaps never have with a man, but it needs to be said because far too often we are afraid to say it. I don't understand how this could be said any clearer at this point. As a woman living in a Western country, she is one of the safest people on the face of the planet. No group in human history has ever even dipped their toes in the pool of privilege she swims in every day. Despite this, she claims she can't trust men. Despite …	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:16 AM
2	What are the benefits of a marriage that you cannot get outside of a romantic relationship as a man in the US? Benefits that outweigh the cons? Objectively speaking, nothing. It's a huge risk with nearly no reward. However, if you're with a woman you trust and love that dreams of marriage and wants to marry you, I say it's worth it. I say this as a married man.	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:06 AM
11	Woman just walks into mens changing room? What do I do? Suing someone is a lot harder than people make it out to be. For a case like this, there's a good chance that OP could lose. Her lawyers could argue that it was company property and that she had every right to be there. They will also argue that she did not know the locker room was occupied. OP would have to convincingly argue that being walked in on caused distress that affected his life. During this ordeal that will likely be several years, OP will have to pay out the ass for lawyer fees that …	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 01:03 AM
22	Am I the only one that feels like men are being targeted in the gym? Just go to any serious non-commercial gym. The overwhelming majority of people there are men, and the women who do work out there are serious athletes who don't give a fuck about uploading videos to Instagram.	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 11:05 AM
8	Am I the only one that feels like men are being targeted in the gym? You know I honestly have a plan for TikTok in general. I think that every year, we should pull 100 random obnoxious TikToker names out of a hat. Take the top, say, 3000 most self-absorbed attention-seeking assholes and just choose 100 at random. Obviously not only those obnoxious women, but people who do the stupid dances too. Then we should put them on a rocket and fire them into the sun. I know this sounds draconian and expensive, but imagine the tourist revenue we could get. NASA also needs a…	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 11:04 AM
4	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. Well if you're going to be disingenuous and claim that incel ideology flat-out doesn't exist, I don't think this discussion has any merit left. There are incel forums where men post hateful things about women. There have been multiple mass kills from incels who cited incel ideology in their manifestos and discussed their beliefs extensively. It is not our job as the MRM to take responsibility for such people, but calling them out is something that we can and should do. I don't care if they disli…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 11:37 AM
2	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. Don't care. Incels exist, and incel rhetoric is incel rhetoric. If OP were a piece of shit in some other irrelevant way I wouldn't say incel. I'm calling him an incel because he's spreading incel ideology.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 11:26 AM
4	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. Nope, sticking to my guns here. The idea that 30%+ of children are born under paternity fraud is such a disgusting idea that it would only come from the mouth of someone who truly despises women. Downvote me and hate me all you want. OP is a piece of shit for suggesting something so irresponsibly.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 09:28 AM
1	The Men’s Rights Movement is inherently progressive. Claims that it promotes traditional conservatism are egregiously false. This isn't a discussion about left/right. As from my post: Progressivism holds that it is possible to improve human societies through political action. We seek to enhance the human condition through reform. This suits the MRM solidly. The bigger issue with the MRM is neither the left nor right in basically any country puts the slightest bit of effort towards acknowledging our issues, let alone changing them. We have no representation.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 06:34 AM
2	Almost 19 years...... Can I ask a few questions? [1] Who do you find is more hostile towards you, men or women? Have you noticed consistency between the sexes? [2] Did you ever end up getting married or finding a lifelong partner? [3] What is your opinion about pineapple on pizza?	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 06:25 AM
3	Why is being a young white male so hard?? Discrimination against Asian men is basically never recognized or cared about at all.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 06:20 AM
1	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. Yep, OP is a total fucking moron for saying way over 30%. He's lashing out at anyone who disagrees with him for not indulging his cuck fetish.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 06:03 AM
-1	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. Nope, wake up from your incel fever dream. What you essentially did was the equivalent of taking a room full of 7'0 or taller men between the ages of 18-30 and asking how many played in the NBA. When you found it was 10%, you decided that "way more" than 10% of men played in the NBA. You have no idea what you're doing with statistics and selection bias. You should probably stop posting ridiculous things.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 03:13 AM
-1	Paternity fraud is around 30 percentage for which test are done, real will be way more than that. One of the reasons why feminism is such a joke of an academic subject is that feminists can make literally any claim and as long as the underlying intent is in line with the goals of the greater movement, other feminists will nod along and agree. OP, the Men's Rights Movement does not have this luxury. Acting like "way more" than 30% of children are being raised by men who falsely believe they are the father is such a ridiculously false statement that I don't even know where to begin. Stop sprea…	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 02:53 AM
3	Now guys cannot even enjoy making their partners orgasm without being sexist. I looked up the authors. They're psychology and women's studies professors. It's fair to say that they had no intention of actually conducting research in good faith; they set out to prove a point and took every step necessary to prove it. The issue with the social sciences is that any good research begins with actively trying to disprove the hypothesis. A women's study major simply cannot do that, as disagreeing with any of the main tenets of feminism is strictly prohibited.	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 11:35 PM
9	Now guys cannot even enjoy making their partners orgasm without being sexist. The study gathered 810 men to read a story where they had to imagine an "attractive woman" either did or did not orgasm during sex with them. Each man was then asked to rate their sexual esteem and the extent to which they'd feel "masculine" after experiencing the scenario. The results are what you'd expect: Men felt more masculine and felt high self esteem when they imagined a woman orgasmed during sex with them. "These results suggest that women's orgasms do function — at least in part — as a …	/r/MensRights	27/01/23 10:31 AM
0	TIL that feminist Sheryl Sandberg said the quiet part out loud in her book When I was single and dating, I dated plenty of women I didn't consider marriage material. I had one fling with a woman who I'd meet every couple of weeks. We'd have drinks, dinner, and then go to her place or my place for sex. She was an interesting woman but we didn't really have a lot in common. I had one booty call with whom I used Japanese as a lingua franca. She was Polish and I'm a native English speaker. Her Japanese was pretty poor too so it wasn't her personality that I was into. I did…	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 06:49 AM
-1	Don’t waste money on only fans You're talking about two different groups of women. I'm sure there are some OF content creators out there who are disgusted by their audiences, but the types of women who are against men looking at porn are generally the types of women who hate the women who produce it as well. What happens between two consenting adults is none of my business. I will say though that the OF content creators leaking into other communities is really kind of stupid. Like yeah if she posts her ass on the ass subreddi…	/r/MensRights	25/01/23 07:40 AM
8	What about the Working Man? The hypothesis of patriarchy immediately crumbles under the slightest scrutiny. That's why they made all those ad-hoc modifications about it hurting men in order to make it fit. The question I have is that if they acknowledge the so-called patriarchy hurts men in ways that it does not hurt women, why do they still consider men privileged? I mean, I know the answer (my post above), but it seems a bit disingenuous of them to push two contradictory ideas so aggressively.	/r/MensRights	25/01/23 12:53 AM
133	What about the Working Man? The entire academic field of feminism is designed to dishonestly represent the privilege that men and women have. You need to understand that for these people, it's not a matter of just wanting to be right; they have actual financial incentives to make as many people believe in their cause as possible (women being prioritized for jobs, more well-paying do-nothing jobs centered around diversity, more money going into their university departments where they hold all the positions, more social bene…	/r/MensRights	24/01/23 09:41 AM
4	Why do women blame everything on men You're getting downvoted but it's been way too many years since I saw a SexyLosers reference.	/r/MensRights	24/01/23 01:26 AM
18	Why do women blame everything on men Can I go on a rant here? Sex workers are just delusional. They insist it's "skilled labor," but the fact of the matter is there is literally no labor less skilled than having sex. 95% of women between 18 and 40 are capable of making 95% of men between 18 and 40 ejaculate. Skilled labor would be making precision machine parts. You show a machine for a precision machine part to a layman and he won't have the slightest fucking clue what to do with it. Sex on the other hand is something we innately …	/r/MensRights	24/01/23 01:25 AM
9	Why do women always have to “marry up?” In college most of my class was girls putting males down who were their equals. They always said they deserved to marry up like to a professor or Doctor. Why isn’t an equal partner good enough? Primarily biology. I'm sorry, I don't buy the whole "iT'S aLwAyS SoCIeTy" horseshit. If it were, we wouldn't see the same thing happening in every country and every society to ever exist. If anything, certain cultures may embrace and encourage this more, but it's always just a matter of degree. Women seek a man who can provide for them and their offspring. That's it. They want to improve their situation and the situation in which they raise children. Simple example: What's worse, (1) an emotiona…	/r/MensRights	24/01/23 01:00 AM
5	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys Here, let's try something else. A MensRights poster posts this sort of tweet: Let's cut all girls' clitorises off with toenail clippers at a young age so they feel less pleasure from sex. Make you uncomfortable? Well now you know how it feels to be circumcised at birth. Stop mutilating your sons. Posters begin providing alternative suggestions. Why cut off their clitoris? Female circumcision exists. We could do that instead. Do you think that the average feminist would be OK with this? I mean, I…	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 02:00 PM
7	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys tone police I'm not tone policing. Tone policing would be criticizing the way that the people in the post stated their message. I'm criticizing their actual message. Did you not see the part where the posters offered alternatives such as chemical castration? Why do you think it was just a tongue-in-cheek comment made to raise awareness? Here, let's try something else. A MensRights poster posts this sort of tweet: Let's cut all girls' clitorises off with toenail clippers at a young age so they fe…	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 01:20 PM
128	i'm genuinely reading through and crying The difference between the feminist movement and the men's rights movement in a nutshell. In feminism, all men are responsible for the actions of the worst of men. In men's rights, bad men and bad women are responsible for their own actions. Yet we're considered the hate group...	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 11:07 AM
11	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys Ah yes, the "We didn't mean it this way. We meant it that way" rhetoric. An old favorite of feminists. See, here's the thing: the post asserts that young men, around the age that they begin ejaculating, should have forced vasectomies. Even in the best of circumstances this is a terrible argument. Posters jumped on and provided this commentary. Or maybe a reverse viagra pill? So you only get to have erections once you're financially and emotionally capable of raising a child? Chemical castration …	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 10:59 AM
18	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys You'll be hard pressed to find a feminist who actually believes in that. Well I literally just linked a post from a feminist community with people saying they believe it, and yeah, I didn't find it exactly hard. Do keep clutching your pearls in response to every comment in this post, though.	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 06:38 AM
19	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/uirrv1/this_tbh/ I mean, what do you think this is? Do you honestly think they're just being ironic? Do you legitimately think rhetoric like this is OK? I'll wait for you to take back what you said about my original post being wrong.	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 03:02 AM
11	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys Protect your sons, men. I have one and one on the way. The waters are going to get rough over the upcoming years as people like this slip through the cracks and end up in classrooms and positions of authority.	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 01:05 AM
283	Tumblr user wants to forcibly sterilise pubescent boys I agree, but filing this away as the insane ramblings of an insane person is the wrong way to think about it in my opinion. I have seen the same opinion generally accepted on feminist communities. When confronted about it, they typically resort to either (a) calling you a fragile incel, or (b) denying it until they're blue in the face, but the sentiment that men should be forced or at least pressured into having vasectomies is dominant. The misconception that vasectomies are easily reversible is…	/r/MensRights	21/01/23 01:01 AM
21	Highschool girls falsely accused a boy of sexual assault (he was charged) because they "just don’t like to hear him talk. … I don’t like to look at him.” THIS IS FAKE, RIGHT??? Of course I believe this kind of thing could happen. The reason why is something similar happened to me. In middle school the girl sitting five seats down and in front of me on our school field trip to the circus accused me of masturbating during the gymnastics performance. [1] She was in no position to see me. [2] There was a teacher sitting right on my left. [3] I don't think she even turned her head back a single time. [4] I was completely fixated on the show like everyone else. Despite the a…	/r/MensRights	19/01/23 11:57 PM
8	My problem with (online) feminism and misogyny My plead is that the feminism movement is not helping this fear go away and in some ways promotes and confirms it. The way many feminists speak about and push away men causes more harm than good. Of course it's not just feminism, there has to actually be bad men that exist (via news, experiences, etc), but telling men how much you hate them and how they all have terrible intentions sets us all up for failure. You clearly do not hate men. It's commendable that you understand this point about femi…	/r/MensRights	19/01/23 03:09 AM
1	Voted one of the sexiest men Channing Tatum scared away from marrying again after ‘super scary' divorce A bit of a rant, but the greatest power of the MRM is the fact that we have ... well, facts on our side. What makes feminism a joke is that they can sit around in a circle and say whatever they want, whether it's true or not, and everyone else will nod along saying "Oh yeah totally!" Examples: Being a woman is super dangerous! (Being a woman in a Western country makes you among the safest people in the world.) Women only make 79 cents for every dollar a man makes! (Absolutely no other factors co…	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 11:52 PM
7	Remember, there is no such thing as 'The Patriarchy' I don't know if you're legitimately this unintelligent or if you're just being disingenuous, but know at least that you're pretty in line with the vast majority of people who come here to start arguments in every post. You'll just get discouraged in a day or two and then disappear.	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 02:55 AM
16	Remember, there is no such thing as 'The Patriarchy' There are over 43,625 school principals currently employed in the United States. 55.4% of all school principals are women, while 44.6% are men.	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 01:10 AM
10	Voted one of the sexiest men Channing Tatum scared away from marrying again after ‘super scary' divorce The article doesn't really say anything about Tatum getting ripped off, abused, or feeling animosity towards the marriage in itself. The article discusses how he doesn't want to get heartbroken, how relationships are tough for him, and how he needs time to process his life. He even speaks amicably about his ex-wife blaming neither side for their growing apart. I think there are much better examples of men for whom marriage was a horrible experience. The obvious would be Johnny Depp, with Brendan…	/r/MensRights	18/01/23 12:46 AM
27	I raised my son as a feminist. As an adult, he doesn't want to speak to women nor to spend any time with them. What should I do? Social movements are not defined by their bite-sized PR mission statements. Social movements are defined by their actions and their rhetoric. Feminism is demonstrably a hate movement and no matter how many times you argue that its intentions are good, it doesn't change that fact.	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 10:07 PM
238	I raised my son as a feminist. As an adult, he doesn't want to speak to women nor to spend any time with them. What should I do? Yeah but ... now she wants grandchildren.	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 09:59 PM
7	I raised my son as a feminist. As an adult, he doesn't want to speak to women nor to spend any time with them. What should I do? To be fair, lots of questions basically anywhere online are bait meant to get a reaction.	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 09:58 PM
16	I legit cannot even imagine showing up to any professional job with my shoulders exposed, let alone being a goddamned lawmaker and doing it. I think what upsets me the most about this is the fact that MO lawmakers have the time to debate this kind of inconsequential shit.	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 11:40 AM
9	Correcting Women as a Woman I think a good place to start would be Cassie Jaye's work. She has identified as a feminist and then changed her views after making a documentary.	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 01:20 AM
4	I posted on a marriage thread about my wife's effort in the bedroom vs mine an it's all my fault apparently! It's kind of depressing for me too. I've been with many escorts and I've been in many relationships. Escorts want repeat business. If they think they can potentially get it from you, they will be enthusiastic and eager to please. They will be open to additional sex acts. A girlfriend at first, in a sense, also wants repeat business. She wants you to invest more resources into the relationship, and therefore she will be more open to sex. She will be more eager to engage in various sex acts, more …	/r/MensRights	17/01/23 01:16 AM