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| -1 | what's everyone's body count here?40~ at last count years ago, plus a few more since, mostly instigated from daily encounters, work, social circle etc. 34yrs old, in a serious relationship for the last couple years 👍 | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Ex says we're over, but still picks up when I call.People are illogical man 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 01:06 AM |
| 11 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedThis is hilariously lacking in self-awareness. Buddy, YOU are clearly the problem. If you can’t have fun, how is anyone going to have fun w you? | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Tired of the game, I want to go back in timeOne, there was always seduction. Two, lucky for you, you’re a human, & those are easy to move on & forget. So, do the thing you’re afraid of & try to make it work with ONE great woman. All the meaningless flings you think you’re “conquering” saw you the exact same way, as a future anecdote, & all parties are just hoping they can fill the void that only a real connection brings. No point playing around in the shadows & complaining that life’s dark. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | When you ask a girl out and she says “we’ll see” is that just a nice way of saying no?It’s not “f’d up”. Just find some free time soon & ask her if she wants to do something. Btw, women are not robots. Hell they’re not all that practical at all, so asking her out a month in advance is…odd. Laugh it off & do something sooner. You ain’t that busy. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 03:11 AM |
| 101 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?I’d say it’s not all it’s cracked up to be, but that’s on the other side of many many fun, strange nights. Be available, put in the time, & trick yourself into just having as much fun & not focusing on getting laid, even if you are. Humor & confidence goes a long way, & casual touch. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 08:05 AM |
| 0 | 3 women in under 48 hours in NYC…That doesn’t even make sense. You and I both know what you want to hear. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 03:59 PM |
| 0 | 3 women in under 48 hours in NYC…So you can find a reason to invalidate the events based on immutable characteristics. It doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 10:28 AM |
| 23 | Has directly asking women you have known for a while to fuck actually work?Are you serious? What do you think 😆 | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 03:09 AM |
| 3 | How many times have you guys gotten laid from cold approachYou sick of it yet? | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 04:04 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?To answer your actual question, not many. I’d guess 1 in 10 can do it consistently. Maybe less. Some others will get lucky every once in a while. & the majority have no shot, bar some crazy amount of factors aligning. It’s even more skewed if you factor out advantages like unusually attractive or wealthy. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?To give you some hope…buddy, there exists right now a combination of words & actions you could use to “seduce” most women out there. You just have to find it. Better yet, find the headspace needed to generate those words/actions & it’ll be authentic. I could get specific with the best tips but generally it boils down to treating women like the regular people they are, focus on having actual fun with them, & staying positive about yourself & life. That & a little bravery to act. So yeah there’s a… | /r/seduction | 02/02/25 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Understanding Christian girls?Honestly good for her for sticking to her convictions 🤷♂️ get over it or move on & stop trying to take something she doesn’t want to give you & will regret if she does. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?Have you met other people? Have you ever said one thing and meant another, or changed your mind? Do you know what a lie is? Relax. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Why is cold approach so addictive?So then what fills the gap? After endless hunting, the repetitiveness wears on you. Same conversations, same experiences, same cycle, meanwhile none of these relationships/people will fill the crowd at your wedding, iykwim. The experiences have enriched me, yet made it difficult to trust women. I assume work, hobbies, family, & nothing are the answers to what fills that space. & that’s just life? | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:21 PM |
| 0 | What are your crutches for social anxiety/extroversion?Capture the mannerisms of that desired state and emulate them. Once you do it once successfully in the day or sober at night, it’s like riding a bike. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 04:08 PM |
| 11 | why does it seem like the less energy a man puts into women, the better his life gets? such an enigmaNobody is attracted to someone they have all the social power over. If even a beautiful woman completely threw herself at you, you’ll find it off-putting. It’s unnatural and shows a lack of discretion, standards, etc. I’ve never understood how some guys can’t simply put themselves in the shoes of the girls they worship, because most of those guys have experienced that worship (albeit from a hag, but still) and rejected it. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 05:55 PM |
| 17 | I spent 5 days in Europe with a girl I am hooking up withThis feels like it should be in a relationship sub | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Preconceived notions and a lack of confidence/self esteem. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird that I don't want to sleep around anymorePeople do things for absolutely no reason all the time. They also do things for little reason, or unknown reasons. Maybe you aren’t in the mood, are stressed, busy, or jaded. Maybe it’s nothing. Don’t overthink it and don’t try to put yourself into some naive “maybe I’ve CHANGED” box when your wants could flip in a single moment. Humans aren’t static and our desires are chaotic. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Never initiate commitmentDear lord, if you want results then ignore this crap completely. Oslo and BDragon would be ashamed of you kid. Get over your fear of rejection ffs. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeIt’s cliche because it’s the only advice. I’ve seen it work for all types of men and it has worked incredibly for me. Too well possibly, as I started to get jaded | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 1 | What can you say to compliment women's Boobs while making out?“It is almost annoying how great your tits are” I’ve found women prefer the word tits to boobs, for whatever reason. I prefer compliments that aren’t straight up. Not quite “neg” bs, but not so direct either. Like “those might be the best boobs I’ve seen all year”. Though, why? I’d only compliment her tits if I genuinely meant it. They’d have to be some extraordinary knockers. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeConversation advice was given. No one said it would work 100% either, and you’re supposed to have the common sense to know rejection happens. Limiting beliefs prevent the state of mind OP is referring to. Fake it until you make it if need be, OPs advice is dead on. Like it or not, be successful or don’t; it’s your life to live. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placeSays who? Have you tested that? If you go into an interaction already insecure like that, you won’t be able to enter that sunny, confident flow state he’s referring to. If you’re hideous, then yeah, it will limit your options, but not by as much as you think. I’ve seen plenty of average dudes pull women who didn’t know the guys name, let alone his credit balance. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.It (sometimes unfortunately) kinda is. The better you get, the more robotic people start to seem (if I do X I will get Y response) and the more repetitive it can seem. You can get jaded. But that’s also life. We’re simple animals with simple desires. There’s only so many different ways for people to enjoy themselves, and most people particularly like the sexual kind of joy. Seduction is not the topic for the overly romantic or symbolic thinkers. It’s like the explanation of a magic trick, never … | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.This used to help me w exactly your problem: it’s a complete stranger, so you have ALL the things in the world to talk about What you talk about specifically doesn’t matter really, not nearly as much as just talking confidently, except for sexual topics. Its almost required to have some sexual convo. When he says cold read, he means commenting on anything relevant. Could be about their look, the location, something else in the area, etc. Doesn’t matter, doesn’t have to be some witty brilliant li… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:18 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] I pulled a pornstar in 15 minutes.God, aren’t women cruel? Bailing on her friend like that so easy, it always surprises me a little when I see shit like that but that’s dog eat dog life we live in I guess. Well, dog fuck dog I guess. Hyperbole works wonders. It allows you to say something without really saying it. I used to use a LOT of lines from random stand up acts or movies/shows if they fit the convo and I remembered them. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] 3 girls wanted to run a train on me at a gay clubIn my experience, gay clubs are some of the best places to pull. Less competition, crazy sexual vibe, you become the hot commodity, as a straight male, and free drinks if you want them. Just got to be wary of any funny business. Like you hinted, I would of just isolated the two desired chicks at home. Can’t worry about bumming out “Sam”, not worrying is the crux of the game anyway, right? And you know how women are. As bad as it might make her feel, it makes the other girls feel good being selec… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:07 AM |
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