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Why is fighting feminism illegitimate when it’s become a core threat to men and masculinity? Classically liberal feminism was a great thing. The neo-Marxist and misandrist feminism of today shouldn’t be tolerated. And the word feminism itself expresses an interest in female supremacy. I think we’d be a lot better of if people who support equality of the sexes called themselves egalitarians, and all agreed that the gendered movements are sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:11 PM
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The hate that men’s rights groups get, the fact that we discuss “toxic masculinity” but not “toxic femininity” etc is all proof of what you say. Achieving legal equality of the sexes was a huge accomplishment. A huge part of the problem with movements like feminism though is that they have inertia. Do they ago away when they’ve accomplished their goals? What about all the staff at the non-profits and media companies and public interest law firms built up to support the movement? So instead of go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:08 PM
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A very small percentage of shitty women want that, but only shitty men should desire and settle for them anyway. They’re made for each other, a symbiotic relationship of toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:44 AM
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100% agree with this. My fiancé and I both consider each-other to be the most difficult, and worthy, partners we’ve had. The best relationships force you to honestly self-reflect and improve as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:42 AM
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I’ve only asked women with whom I wanted a long term relationship, or whom wanted one with me. So that’s 5 (although that includes times they asked me first which was 2-3, I don’t remember every conversation specifically enough.) Each time it yielded valuable information that helped me determine compatibility and whether it was worth it for me to continue investing my time. One girl I had been interested in continuing with had a number that was way above my comfort level and indicated a level of…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:45 PM
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I kept looking for the study this is based on or the evidence for the supposed phenomenon. I found none, so I don’t really know what to think of this other than that it looks like an unsupported and highly political misandrist opinion rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:52 PM
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Right but they’re getting screwed in no fault divorces, which is fucked. If there’s not abuse or infidelity or some actual proximate cause to end the marriage, both sides should leave with what they came with and equal custody, as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:50 PM
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You seem to be kinda dodging the whole topic though. It is complex, but you’re ignoring one of the sources of complexity here. He said “no fault” divorce shouldn’t exist with kids. So we are not talking about a situation where there’s abuse. Why is the woman entitled to be financially taken care of if she abandons here family and lifetime vows without cause? I don’t think the law should trap someone in a marriage they don’t want to be in. But if you abandon your marriage without cause you should…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:47 PM
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It’s a tough issue, but I kinda agree. Marriage is a contract for life. You know that when you sign up. Unless the other person has broken their end of the deal (infidelity, abuse) then there’s really no good excuse to end it ‘just because’ if there’s kids involved. If you don’t have kids and one person wants to call it off for no real reason, it still think it makes you a shitty person who doesn’t keep their word, but there’s no case for legal/government intervention. But “I fell out of love” i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 01:44 PM
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I mean, it’s up to you to try to be both. Then you get to decide when you’re just looking to fuck around and when you want to settle down with someone because they’re just that great. Stop complaining and take control of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:49 AM
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This is an absurd exaggeration. Extreme has poverty fell four fold over the last 20 years. Poverty is largely irradiated in the US and other wealthy western nations, aside from a small percentage of the mentally ill and those with extreme substance abuse problems. Otherwise those at the poverty line have government provided health care, income subsidies, a smart phone, car, television, and air conditioned home. This is the best time to be alive for everyone, and the average American middle class…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 10:23 PM
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The phenomenon you’re talking about is real and like everyone is saying comes down to hate and jealousy. but… As a happily engaged man, I have to ask: how do we know the critical characterization of events here isn’t accurate? Did he tweet that he wasn’t into her for those 7 years and just started to see her romantically? Or is it actually possible that he was friend zoned until she settled with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 08:55 PM
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Well ya it sure is confusing. Because for some girls, like you, you really mean no when you say it and intend to stand by the boundaries you set. Other girls seem to treat it as sort of “part of the dance” and you’re supposed to keep trying after they’ve said no until eventually you do something right and she ‘gives in’ for lack of a better term (sometimes that same night.) Thats where this red pill concept comes from, not that I’m necessarily agreeing with it it outright. But lots of urban lege…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 12:35 AM
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I think the part you’re missing is that lots of women don’t actually mean no when they say “no” the first time, especially in the context you’re talking about. Sometimes it’s a form of playing hard to get. I only know this because I was raised to be very gentlemanly and chivalrous, and only learned later that I had actually disappointed/upset some girls by not “making a move” after they had told me they didn’t want to do do anything. So girls play games, too. “Sure I’ll come back and watch a mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:34 PM
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The whole point of this claim is that it’s subconscious. Why would you expect to learn anything by asking people about it? This would be like asking voters whether question wording affects their opinions on public policy issues. They’re all gonna say no, because it’s subconscious. We are often a mystery to ourselves and even when we know why/what we think we’re often unwilling to admit it. So even if a woman admits that she’s more likely to have sex with a guy who doesn’t make the direct ask, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:26 PM
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Universal imperatives may work for Kantian morality, but they’re really not very productive for real world problem solving. What’s your proposal? Get all men to start acting all the same all at the same time? How? If 90% of guys stop paying for dates, the 10% who do are suddenly given an advantage. The only thing you can really do is determine what the dating market actually looks like in reality, what you can do individually to maximize your chances, and then individually act in accordance with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:19 PM
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Well as a man who has many male friends, 99.99% of men would love to fuck two hot women at the same time. If they say they don’t, it’s most likely they’re trying to impress you in some way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 07:12 PM
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Have you met very many men…? Doesn’t seem like it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:44 PM
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Pretty “easy” in my case but I agree it takes high SMV to pull off. My then girlfriend, now fiancée, and I had talked about my desire to have one. She was comfortable with trying it. At the same time, she didn’t want me to expend a lot of effort to get one (going on dating apps or actively seeking out unicorns) and preferred it “happen naturally.” Easier said than done. At my high school reunion we both got drunk and learned two other girls there were pretty into me. My girlfriend and I made out…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:39 PM
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Your comment is so earnest and so judgmental at the same time. I see why he feels the need to lie to you to get validation and approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:29 PM
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Don’t want one. Have had one. Not talking about me. Talking about men in general. Very little chance her boyfriend is telling the truth in that scenario and sounds like one of those common little lies to make the significant other feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 04:27 PM
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FWIW, I agree. I had one threesome. GF didn’t like it, so we haven’t done it again. But it was a nice thing to check off the bucket list.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:53 AM
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Your boyfriend would absolutely jump at the opportunity to fuck two girls he found attractive if there wouldn’t be consequences, and you’re kidding yourself to think otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 08:51 AM
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You keep repeating that it’s a “revenge fantasy” without any logic or evidence that’s the case. Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:31 PM
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I don’t know where you’re getting the idea that TRRers don’t go to parties or have friends. Both of those things are pretty important to SMV and game. But when you get basic stuff so wrong, it’s hard to take your other arguments seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 11:26 PM
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Well ya, that’s kinda the obvious implication. And ya, highly sexually permissions women who have had lots of casual sex are way more likely to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:42 PM
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There’s no value in male virginity today, unless it’s intrinsic to you. In society, it’s a liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:17 PM
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Your wife can’t prohibit you from anything.
/r/askMRP30/07/19 01:24 AM
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The cohabitation vs marriage trade-off is important here, because it might point to an alternative explanation. Marriage is expensive. Especially weddings. Men are told to save 3 months of salary for a ring. And while the tradition has been for the father of the bride to pay for the wedding, that’s far less common these days. Coming out of the Great Recession, a lot of wealth was destroyed. The recovery was slower than past recoveries and wage growth is only now starting to pick up, 10 years int…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 01:14 PM
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This is exactly the point JP actually makes. Blind or unwarranted empathy is not a virtue. That’s not a license to be an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/19 12:35 AM
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I went through a very similar situation. I feel for you. All we can do is the best with our lives and try to make it better for a future generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:26 AM
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How does your coin have three sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 04:01 AM
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I admit it depends on your local culture and profession. If I didn’t wear a suit every day with nice shoes I’d be a pariah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:37 AM
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To look good men have to buy more expensive clothing (suits) and either shave daily or keep a trim and maintained beard. About the same maintenance I’d say.’ But men have to put way more effort into exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:28 PM
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The recommendation is that people get 30 mins of exercise 5 times a week. I’m not talking about what’s recommended, because that’s overkill to stay in shape. Again, a woman who doesn’t eat/drink like a slob, has average genetics, and performs light activity for at least 20 mins 2-4 times a week will be able to maintain a healthy weight. And maintaining a healthy weight is pretty much all girls need to do. Intense cardio and weight lifting are for the 1% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:07 PM
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I’d place her significantly below average. Overweight with odd features. Probably a 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:59 PM
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He’s definitely above average...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:56 PM
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So I’m very decidedly not average. I’m 6’5 and 220 lbs. I’ve got low body fat and good muscle. I don’t look as muscular as Superman or Wolverine or Captain America, but I look damn good. That said, I 100% agree with you. I’ve struck the genetic lottery and still have to work my ass off to get close the male “ideal.” Women don’t even really have to exercise to achieve peak hotness. Just don’t be a fat slob. Eat a reasonable calorie restricted diet and do some light activity a few times a week. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 07:42 PM
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No....that’s so wrong. The reason women aren’t as into porn is because on average they’re less stimulated by visuals. Women like the story/context. That’s why romance novels sell well to women and not men. That’s their version of porn. There are outliers of course. Rules have exceptions. But on average women just aren’t as in to staring at penises as men are into staring at tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 04:41 PM
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The difference between “being a creep” and being “charming” is just whether the woman finds you attractive. A guy can pull a move on woman and she finds him gross, same move on a different woman she finds it hot. Likewise, that first woman might’ve liked the move coming from a different guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 04:23 PM
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“Because you’d be a fool not to.” “Should probably get off Tinder if you’re not looking for dates. Unless you just want to skip that step and move right to something more intimate?”
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:23 AM
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I mean I have to a degree. I really don’t get drunk often and I’m really good at keeping frame when I’m sober or even tipsy. It’s just those few occasions where I lose self control that things become problematic.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:38 PM
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You’re a horrible person and I hope you end up in jail where you can’t do further harm to society. You’re seriously asking if you should ruin someone’s life because you didn’t like something they did during a consensual sexual encounter? You’re an evil person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:32 PM
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If he was accusing you of flirting with other men and talking about marriage/kids he absolutely was not Red Pill. Maybe read some pick up artist philosophy or “game” theory, but not Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 09:24 PM
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I encourage you to check out the married red pill subreddit. Or to just fuck off. Seriously you’re dangerously misinformed by a whole half of the RP theory, how to make marriage and LTRs work for the man instead of against him. A lot of guys find satisfaction this way, more than endless plate spinning will ever get you. Last night she sucked my dick in a jacuzzi and I came on her face. I don’t need help with attraction or submission.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 09:09 PM
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For sure. I think it may be a problem of me “faking” it to a certain extent. Like, I apply red pill behaviors but it takes conscious effort (which falls apart when drinking). I haven’t totally internalized it yet to where it’s second nature.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:54 PM
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I want advice. Just good advice from someone who understands more about TRP than me. This Guy ain’t it (neither are you apparently).
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:51 PM
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You didn’t read OP. I absolutely have an exit strategy and could walk away at any time. LTRs have a place in red pill philosophy. If you find a high value woman who fulfills your needs, you get to put more focus on other aspects of your life like achieving personal and professional goals. Plate spinning and game is beginner level RP. You must be new.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:40 PM
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From the fact that she brought up the talk (mentioned in OPs comments below), you can tell this girl wants commitment. You signaled you didn’t want that too, you’re seeing other girls. She may have TOLD you she was fine with it, but her actions show she’s moving on. She told you why she wanted and you said no. You can try to keep her as a plate. If you do that you don’t get to care about who else she’s fucking. Probably won’t be successful because she’s looking for commitment and no longer expec…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:52 PM
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Fuck off you white knight bitch. If she was scared then she wouldn’t have sucked him off and tried to get back with him. Women use false sexual assault claims as a weapon and they usually win.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:25 PM
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I’d say if that’s what they want to do they can “try.” A lot of people just don’t have the genes to be 250 lbs with 10% body fat. I could probably get there if I wanted because I’m 6’5. It’d only be an additional 30 lbs. But the people who think they should be over 200 at 5’8 are mostly delusional.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 06:19 PM
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Next level is being able to fuck her without feeling the oneitis. Thing is, there can be no sign of a “relationship” or you’ll fall back into orbit. Her: “Want to go to McDonalds and grab a bite?” You: “Nope. But you’re welcome to come back to my place.”
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 06:04 AM
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Guys on here are mostly delusional or lying. I’m 6’5 and 220 lbs, about the size of top NFL quarter backs. I promise you no one would call me small.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:30 AM
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I’m 6’5 and weigh 220 lbs with a lot of muscle and low body fat. But I’m naturally bigger than most men. If you’re not over 6’1, you’re probably fat if you’re over 200 lbs.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 05:24 AM
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You’re young. It will go away. Keep the path. I didn’t get teary eyes but I would feel super nervous if someone older and more authoritative confronted me. It took me realizing that none of these people have any more idea what they’re doing than I do to get over it. I’ve worked with Senators, Governors, etc. They’re not that smart. They’re not special. They’re normal people. Your school administrator isn’t shit.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:25 PM
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A much milder version of this happened to me. I was at a bar with my girlfriend and some friends. I went to the bar to get us some drinks. A blonde HB8 turns to me and says “hey how’s it going.” I respond, “not bad, you?” She doesn’t respond to the question and instead asks, “do you have a girlfriend?” I said, “yup, right over there” and pointed. She looks and then tells me “she’s beautiful, hold on to her.” I said “I will, thanks.” I thought it was a fine interaction. Then she turns back to her…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 11:12 PM
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Gotcha. Wasn’t clear from the text. But ya that’s pretty much the response I get from feminists. “Go watch porn.” “Why are you such a perv that you need pussies in your movies?” Meanwhile the internet is full of major actresses and some actors calling for more dicks in TV/film and they don’t bat an eye lash.
/r/MensRights23/12/17 02:41 PM
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That’s not a real response. I’m not asking for the genitals in my films, the feminists are. I’d prefer no dicks or pussies.
/r/MensRights23/12/17 02:37 PM
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Probably true. Traditionally neither genitalia was shown but they’ve been lobbying to show penis because it’s somehow equivalent to boobs in their mind.
/r/MensRights23/12/17 02:57 AM
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You seem to have missed several important bits of information and totally misread the second quote. First, cable TV is not subject to the MPAA. They have and do show erections. You also seem to have missed that partial erections are now allowed by the MPAA. Second, genitals = genitals. Breasts are not genitals. Vagina do not have a visible transformation so that’s totally irrelevant to the equity debate. As for the second quote, that’s not what I’m saying. Women have been historically more sexua…
/r/MensRights22/12/17 09:29 PM
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Well I like marvel movies and I like Star Wars movies. I just don’t want half naked men thrust in my face when I see them, especially if there are no half naked women. You want Adam Driver shirtless? Fine, make Daisy Ridley shirtless too. Or....just leave both shirts on. Idgaf as long as it’s not so lopsided. You want to put dicks in every damn premium cable show? Fine. Let’s see some pussy too. Or just leave the genitals to porn. Once again, I just want it to be both or neither.
/r/MensRights22/12/17 07:28 PM
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Usually when a woman does full frontal nudity she is required to either: A) Have such naturally thick pubic hair that it hides everything B) Where a “merkin”, which is a wig for your pussy. They don’t like to show any of the actual genitalia. Osha’s character did not have a merkin on or naturally thick hair. The actress actually complained about this because she assumed a wildling would have a thick bush. And yet you still saw no genitals because the amount of hair she did have plus the poor lig…
/r/MensRights22/12/17 07:25 PM
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You should read some of the articles I posted. Game of Thrones has had at least half a dozen penises shown. They’ve never showed a single vulva. Showing a woman’s public hair is not the same as showing her genitalia and does not equate to showing a man’s penis. That includes Osha the Wildling. There are also dozens if not hundreds of penises in mainstream movies and tv shows but again not a single vulva. Starz seems obsessed with penises lately. Spartacus, American Gods, The Deuce, are just a fe…
/r/MensRights22/12/17 07:21 PM
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True but not helpful for OP.
/r/askTRP20/11/17 11:27 PM
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The girl was joking. She probably says that same joke 50 times a week without much thought. The guy was trying to emasculate OP and assert his dominance. He was trying to impress front desk girl. Best option would have been to ignore the dude, maybe even look at him when he said it and then look away without comment, but to have joked back with front desk girl. That is if he was interested in fucking front desk girl. That said, what OP did was pretty solid. At the very least he’s stoic and inter…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 02:42 PM
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Work out a lot. That’s the only way for you to improve. Your question is like saying “I’m hungry. How can I feel better without eating?”
/r/askTRP30/10/17 03:39 PM
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How do you get the LTR to stay in shape? I’ve had a few LTRs and while I always keep working out and eating right they seem to let themselves go without fail. I’ve tried dread. I’ve tried talking to them about it. I’ve tried suggesting is as a fun couples activity. Nothing works with 3 different girls. My current LTR is just starting to be in noticeably worse shape. I even tried to nip this one in the bud my encouraging working out together before she started slipping. It’s the one thing I have …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 03:33 AM
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Exactly. Is she texting exes or guys who are interested in her? Fine. Tell her it's unacceptable and drop her if she doesn't stop. I believe in calling that bullshit early and firmly IF you want to keep the girl. Don't let her pretend it's innocent. On the other hand...are you saying she can't have any male friends? Are you upset about house work or some bullshit like "not texting you enough?" Misbehavior is a broad and ambiguous term.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 09:29 PM
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What kind of misbehavior? Be specific.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 08:38 PM
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One of the toughest guys I know (former MMA fighter) has battled depression and even confided suicidal thoughts to me. Doesn't make you any less of a man and your friends sound like they'll understand that.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 03:57 PM
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Good. Maybe if you break her hampster wheel and expose her bullshit she'll have some self realization and stop.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:20 PM
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Good. As someone who ended an LTR when branch swinging behavior started the hardest thing more me to understand was why none of our mutual friends, even male friends and siblings of hers, told her she was being a cunt. I was really close to her dad and brother. Me and the brother were friends before I even met her. And yet everyone was silent when she needed to "find herself."
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:13 PM
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It's probably hopeless but have you tried telling her how fucked up what she's doing is.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:10 PM
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By normal terms of ethics/morality, yes, providing makes a difference. Men feel like it SHOULD make a difference. We expect gratitude. If you let a male friend live with you during tough times you'd expect gratitude. Unfortunately we all know that doesn't mean shit to a woman chasing chad.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 09:08 PM
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I put the word loving in quotes for a reason. It's not that I don't believe in love, I just don't believe in soft sex.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 04:19 AM
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Disagree. "Loving" sex is usually boring for the women and the men. There's exceptions, but most women want to be pounded good and hard. I've had multiple women tell me I'm the best lay they've had (not just bragging, it's useful for the point I'm making) and all of them liked it rough. Usually the rougher I was the more they liked it. It's not just about the speed and power of your thrust, they like to be manhandled. Even the ones that don't like slapping or spanking like it when you take contr…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:56 AM
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Because it's non-voluntary. It's not a huge issue for me personally but I do see why it's kinda fucked up that we cut baby boys penises and they never get a say in it.
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:51 AM
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