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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Daughter's High School Graduation Tomorrow		Noremac420	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/25 01:54 AM

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3	Is there a judge out there that would give one parent 93% of all assets? The mediators primary objective is to get you to agree. That's it. Dude. Hire a lawyer. They are the only ones that will have your interests in mind (that's their job), and they likely know the mediator (make sure they do before you hire them). They will calculate things beforehand, and reassess as needed right then and there (mine did) to make sure you're getting an equal or better settlement - essentially the best you can get. You have a home involved and I assume a good chunk of equity and ot…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 10:53 AM
6	Time for divorce? Modern divorce in a nutshell right here, under the guise of "best interests of the child."	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/26 12:40 AM
2	Men who got walked out on, is it offensive when your STBX says they mourned your marriage during it? I feel this. Especially with little ones and you can see the impact in their eyes at times. Heartbreaking. I (dare I say, we?) chose poorly, unfortunately.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/25 02:12 AM
3	Lol - why is every man a “narcissist” This is it. I never knew that projection was possible until my X. Who doesnt have the ability to empathize? Nieve me. It's truly maddening to see it happen.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/25 07:32 PM
1	Need advice. Talk to an attorney. If the marriage is less than 10 years, lifetime alimony would not be on the table (I think). But you're not far off from the magic threshold. Yes, you would probably have to pay alimony for half the length of the marriage, as well as child support to make up for the difference in income. But if she makes that much working part time, they will inpute income as if she was working full time. Don't leave your home. Your situation really doesn't sound that bad monetarily. If the …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/25 05:03 AM
2	Consumed by crossroads I know it's hard, and ultimately it's only a decision you (or she) can make, but once a cheater, always a cheater. If you forgive her for this one, it's just a license for her to do it again, as she'll think you'll forgive her again, and apparently only when it doesnt work out. She made it clear with her actions that you're just the backup until she finds someone new, and eventually, she will. She wants the comfort of the family and to keep you around until she does. Don't give her this. And wit…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/09/25 04:59 PM
9	We’re good communicators ya’ll That is... hilarious. And spot on. Thank you for putting a smile on my face/the laugh sir. I needed it today.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/08/25 01:34 PM
10	Laugh of the day This is my story as well. I only worked and provided a good middle class life with my hard work, allowing her to be a SAHM. I said many times theres not much I wouldn't give to switch places with her during the marriage - would be so amazing to have been able to spend that much time with the kids and be more involved with their school and extracurriculars, but someone has to bring in the money to enable that. I swear the idea of division of labor is completely lost on them. Now I do it all (whic…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/25 04:26 AM
7	Want to know how the majority of women, at least on Reddit, think about us? Spot on. This was an issue on both sides during my marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/25 12:34 AM
3	I might get a divorce and I’m scared Do everything you can to be there for her, but don't hover/love bomb/suffocate. Give her space. Get yourself in therapy - just you (wish I had done that), in addition to couples counseling. Exercise to improve your health and mood. Maybe do a little more around the house. The rest is up to her. My marriage likely would have been saved had we both been in individual therapy to help work through our own issues, and then worked together in couples counseling - that said, in my case it's probably be…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/25 06:26 PM
2	How did I get here? The depression (and I don't know how anyone wouldn't be depressed going through what we are, and especially what you bave) makes it 10x harder to exercise/get to the gym. But do it. DO IT. I was very good about it early on, but stopped over the holidays, and underestimated how much it was helping until restarting again recently. Also make sure you know that anything you post on social media will be visible to her (and her attorney) during the divorce process. I am so sorry to hear about your son…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 11:56 AM
13	Financially ruined after divorce Know how you feel man. Going through the same thing. I worked tirelessly for years to get to where I'm at. I've increased my income 50% in the last 2 years, just in time for her to draft papers and for me to pay out a ton in CS and likely alimony. 10 year marriage. Separated 6 months. She admitted to me twice she waited until the 10 year mark to get divorced and I should have seen it coming. The signs were there I just sidnt want to see them. I have that recorded, but it won't matter.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/03/25 01:21 PM
1	Finally get to drop off and pick my kids up from school! Sorry you went through that man, and thanks for sharing. Congratulations on getting to where you are. You're a hero to your kids and they'll see it in the future. They will know who you are and who she is. I'm hoping for the same. But the video she has scares me. I never abused my kids, had no idea she had been planning this for over a year, but I admit my mistake getting upset like I did. Didnt hurt anyone, but it might be enough despite CPS already coming to a their conclusion (the correct one…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/24 06:23 PM
1	Finally get to drop off and pick my kids up from school! Was there a protective order placed? How did you fight? In a similar position to you before. Hearing for the permanent protection order in a couple of weeks. I get 1 day every other week right now unsupervised visitation that they agreed to in the meantime. I never abused my kids. Bringing up some things that happened 4+ months ago, retaliating because I picked up my kids from school and had them stay the weekend against their will (not the kids will, realizing how that sounded, they were happy …	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/24 05:46 PM