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Question For WomenNormalArmadillo281/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 08:51 PM
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So, that means I can do the same thing to the next person and get away with it too?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:14 AM
1

So you can't ask from a jokey way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:12 AM
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Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:11 AM
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That part. Because they're cowards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:11 AM
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Nope, she has somebody she HAS to listen to. Everyone has a limit. I just need to know one for someone avoidant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:10 AM
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I don't care if it's man or woman, I just despise people who are not held accountable. I don't despise all women, just the ones who get away from accountability. I'm not saying YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:41 PM
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If your boyfriend is a good boyfriend, he will take you seriously, right? Meaning he actually listens to what you say. So therefore, if you said that during a argument, that means he should take it as face value. No apologizing, we have more than a million words the brain can think of, use the right ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:29 PM
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No, because you don't get to use me for a whole relationship and a free place to stay. If I had to cry in the relationship because I was getting treated badly, she should cry because she f-ed up and is being held accountable everywhere she goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:27 PM
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No different than asking "am I the best kisser you had?" You might be asking from a place of confidence and get shot down.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:15 PM
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If she's not sobbing and asking herself, "Why did I mess this up" in a corner, a bunch of times; I didn't do a good enough job. Her friends did not hold her accountable enough. I need her to feel TRUE LOSS.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:14 PM
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Yeah, but I NEED for her to hear it from a source she thinks she can run to. I want the person or people she cries to (with a bias opinion) to completely just "YES, I understand you're angry but you had a part to play. You messed up sis. This is your fault."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:13 PM
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Cant blame his consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:09 PM
-1

Happened with my ex. No woman was there to hold her accountable or tell her to stop making woman look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:08 PM
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And he has rvery right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:07 PM
-2

But... if your boyfriend is good with communication, he should take you serious in that moment right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:07 PM
0

So as long as your current boyfriend doesn't ask "how do you feel about our sex" or "what was the best sex you've ever had?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:03 PM
1

Does he have a decent self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:36 PM
2

Happened to me with my ex. Nobody held her accountable or shamed her into stopping. I never asked for the information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:27 PM
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So, I should have the right to dump her. Her friends should drill into her head "You lost a good man because you let go of your past. The other guy has moved on already. You messed this up. Yes, you."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:26 PM
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What a dick bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:14 PM
2

Hey, no problem. Some of us prefer putting our energy into one person instead of scattering it everywhere. But hey, not everyone is built for being able to satisfy one person. Everyone is different. Question for real though; why do so many poly (not saying you) people have a... certain look... I feel like you know what I'm talking about. That.... certain look.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:28 PM
1

Sure, and I'll enjoy my normal, healthy, monogamous relationship as well ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 06:09 PM
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Bro, you're non monogamous. All advice is thrown out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:53 PM
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I'm loving every bit of this. Please, continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:52 PM
8

Crazy work. So, it's like the equivalent of knowing better but not doing better?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:40 PM
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Lol I'm just on here for shits and giggles. Both sides are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:35 PM
1

So open your mouth and explain your stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:24 PM
1

? Totally confused about what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:14 PM
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Because other women don't call them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:53 PM
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Fair, so how about this. I'll go out and fail today. I'm gonna go and approach. Because screw it why not. Let's see where this get me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:29 PM
1

But with the labs at least I can MEASURE and get more PREDICTABLE and also REPLICATE the solution. At least there's the scientific METHOD. A>B>C>D
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:16 PM
1

Nope, be brave and show your boyfriend what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:09 AM
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I hope he doesn't get too attached. You should show him what you said. Cmon be brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:38 PM
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Would you be hurt if he dumped you? Or would it be "no skin off your back?"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:14 PM
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So you approached him? How would you react if he acted like a lot of the woman on here if they get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:09 PM
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That's actually well thought out. Can't say anything bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:40 PM
1

Mhm, just accept life is this way. MHN!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:35 PM
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I don't want to tell them. I want two women of opposite opinions to Duke it out. I want a final answer. All the women who don't want to be approached gets to pick a representative. Same for the women who want to be approached. Whoever champion wins is the final verdict on whether men should avoid approaching or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:35 PM
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So... that means he had to at some point, interrupt what you were doing. Unless you're one of the women who approaches men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:31 PM
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Nothing at all. I'm gonna take your advice. I SURE hope it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:30 PM
2

How does he KNOW with 100% certainty that he is your type before he talks with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:23 PM
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Wanna know the crazy part. I have my dream job, by following steps, became the top of my class, by following steps, in a book. I got my drivers license and car, from reading a book and completing a test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:06 PM
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I mean, theres books and steps for every other part of life. How to start a business? There's a book. How to become a therapist or mental health expert? There's a book. So there has to be some way to win in this one small part of life. Because if you can study the human mind (psychology majors) why can't you study how to successfully get a girlfriend step by step.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:58 PM
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Oh, so it's okay if a woman approaches at work. That's not very equal/fair-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:32 PM
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And what would you, as a blue pilled person, tell a woman if she told a man not to approach at work. And no not just her, as if she's speaking for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:31 PM
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So... who's gonna tell those woman "Shut up, you don't know what you're talking about." I would love for a woman to tell another woman who is against it "Hey, I met the love of my life at work. Had I took your advice I would have still been single. You don't know what you're talking about sis." Just a good back and forth would be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 04:30 PM
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"Don't approach women at work. They are there to work."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:49 PM
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"If he could he would."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:47 PM
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Now I'm the bad guy for not forcing myself to be compatible. Because, I should think about her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:11 PM
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That is very well explained!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:38 AM
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So... how does one become numb to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:56 PM
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And if it can't be replicated the way my friends did it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:24 PM
2

Bad idea, sure (the stock market comparison) but you explained it well. Props. Can't complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:43 PM
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I'm asking for people in general. Men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:42 PM
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So, I'm gonna ask you a fair question; how would you mitigate it? Say it was a stock market, how would mitigate your losses?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:58 PM
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So if I go to college to become a bio engineer and I take classes, etc. Do I (as a college student preparing for a job) have an instructor and a class book. Instructors also include syllabus. So... why is it weird to study dating and getting a girlfriend? What is the scientific reason I can study everything else, that it's commendable; but the moment I study to try date, I'm desperate. So being desperate for a job is okay by that logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:57 PM
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So, let's say he tries to implement it. Exactly, as the book says. Just like you would do for an upcoming test. He studied it through and through. He fails. What then? Let's say his worse fear did come true and the woman he approaches ridiculed him. Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:54 PM
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Is one a number?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:41 PM
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Not autistic but, if there's a book on physics, human psychology, therapy, psychiatric care and help, why does it stop with needing to learn on how to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:35 PM
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Monster women exist, but they're quite rare in my experience. But it only takes one... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:28 PM
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Yup, those "vibes" that are nuanced and not easy to reproduce because there's no instruction manual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:50 PM
1

Do you think it's possible for a woman to play the long game... say a single mom with nowhere to live needing a place to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:43 PM
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Which happened to me in my real life... but imagined. Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:33 PM
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Really puts a smile on your face doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:58 PM
1

So if a person tries your way. Is it 100% bound to work. What is the scientific percentage of it working and being effective. Can this be put into a equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:46 PM
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Cant complain; you reassure him, and he has found the perfect spot. Hookup partner to boyfriend. He was able to fit the grey area that most men will never be able to get to. I have nothing bad to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:34 PM
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Would you be able to tell your boyfriend that if he asked? Basically a long winded way of saying my standards for one night stands are much lower than my standards for anything repetitive or long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:21 AM
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He also has joined social clubs/hobbies such as tennis, dancing etc It is implied
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:14 AM
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Same happened to me and my guy friend. It sucked because we knew each other for so long but at the same time. If you can do this to your S/O, whom you intimately love, what would you do to your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:18 PM
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It's very much possible to befriend them and they treat their spouse horribly behind closed doors. Assuming their good to the girlfriend. Again, I am not talking about mutual domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:16 PM
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You're right, let me rephrase that. My friends, and hopefully with their friends it can go down the line, to their children, to their children's children. I need everyone around me to be better. Which is nothing wrong to want. It's all about creating healthier relationships. A lot of the time, you are the sum of the people you hang with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:20 PM
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Understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:16 PM
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I never said all women are the same. Question: If your friends saw your boyfriend or girlfriend, whom you love and want a future, with someone and they're clearly cheating; would you want your friends to sit there and just be okay with it or would you want your friends to tell you so that you can make the decision to let them go? If your significant other was cheating; would you want their friends to tell you and hold them accountable?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:51 PM
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I don't believe Rollo. He's a quack joh just as much as any redpill grifter. There's multiple videos of him getting called out by other men, and I have no problem holding other men accountable. You're not infantilising him by saying, "Hey, I understand this person is doing ______, and it can be very frustrating. At the same time, though, why do you stay with that person if they treat you bad? By staying you're telling them it's okay to treat you that way. You have to set up healthy boundaries." …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:28 PM
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Some good people can have toxic traits that they may be blinded to. I'm not assuming your friends or people you surround yourself with are automatically toxic. But I'll ask this: Through your various years, you've never had a good friend with a toxic trait in relationships or a toxic friend whom you drop? Let's assume you're 18, at minimum. You're really gonna tell me for the 365 days, 24 hours, and 60 minutes per hour of your 18 years you've never met anyone like that? So, for 6,570 days and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:15 PM
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Who said I'm trying to change the world? Even if I were to be trying, it takes time and people around me. I can not force my way on anyone, but at the same time, I can walk away from someone destructive. Yes, I hold my friends accountable. Because me and my friends and I hold each other accountable, they have learned from past mistakes and have found more compatible people to be with. So yeah, it has real life consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:02 PM
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Question: If my male friends are treating a good woman horribly and using her in the same exact ways and I call him out on it; am i shitting on him? Or do I want him to do better? I can't force my guy friends to do anything I say, but for me to sit around and be a part of it at a good woman's expense is CRAZY work. Literally cut off a guy friend for dumping a great woman (his own words) for someone he got pregnant and is now trapped with. I don't care if you're a guy or a girl. I'm just a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:00 PM
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We all have choices to make
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:03 PM
1

Again, think about the subreddit you're in. I agree with you. Trust me I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:06 PM
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"This advice is not GUARANTEED to work. You can possibly do everything right and still fail. But at least you exhausted all your options and can now get into brass tax." Aka the advice received is not a cure all and may not save you. Go in knowing this if you decide to pursue your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:00 PM
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In this subreddit? Idk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:27 PM
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There we go! The little grey area people HATE to bring up because there's the possibility you can do everything right and still not succeed in the one area you want to so bad. I ab-so-lut-ly LOVE when someone admits it. I think when all advice is given out, everyone should say: "Please understand that this advice is not guaranteed to work for your specific goal due to outlying variables. This advice is only meant to increase the opportunity and give a higher percentage of success. It is very muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:55 PM
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If you have your virtue and morals on what is and is not acceptable, I think women who don't want to be approached should tell the women who do "You're wrong to want to be approached, you're messing it up for us." That's all. Now, if these other women snap back, yall should be able to come to a conclusion by the end of the day. What I'm saying is; the women who don't like to be approached should meet with the women who and finally hash it out. Women to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:57 PM
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One thing I don't get is; why don't you tell the women who want to be approached that it's wrong and they should stop wanting it? I think women who hate being approached should have a direct talk with women who want to be approached. I wanna see how that talk would go down. Would you be able to tell another woman (preferably a close friend) that what she wants is wrong? Even at the cost of the friendship / start of a fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:23 PM
1

Wow.. just wow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:07 PM
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So you know what most men like? You've spoke to most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:28 PM
1

I don't mind her calling me a male. I am one. I have enough confidence in myself to know she may mean human male (man).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:51 PM
1

But doesn't that take away her autonomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:32 PM
0

Must suck to be wrong :/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:29 PM
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