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| 1 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableWell then allow me to offer my even more radical take: you can't help but be "enslaved" by your emotions and anyone who thinks otherwise has just constructed or adopted rationalizations to obscure that fact. OK. I guess here's where we depart. I don't think it's appropriate for men (or maybe anyone; I give exceptions to children) to be leaning into their emotions so much. Part of becoming an adult is controlling your emotions to a certain extent, or channeling them to appropriate places. And tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 06:01 PM |
| -3 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableFrom being a human being. What happened to you that you're somehow baffled by that "impulse?" Why does your romantic partner need to be the recipient of a bunch of your emotional energy? I'm not saying you should not have emotions. I'm wondering why you think your female partner should value you for them, or even be particularly interested in them. I know this sounds radical but your life should not be enslaved to your emotions and worse still, you should not be making others prisoner to them ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 05:06 PM |
| -5 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableI'm not a credit card taped to the end of a dildo. I'm a person. Things you can also be that women love: *Car repair guy *Plumber *Social event coordinator *Trip planner *Chef *Dad etc The thing you seem to want to be, but which most women don't want from men: *a girlfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:58 PM |
| -4 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableI actually acknowledge that I have emotional needs, because they exist, and I'm not going to lie about that to myself or anybody else. Do you need your romantic partner to fulfill these for you? Sounds overwhelming for a woman to deal with to be honest. My read on women is that they don't really want to do that kind of thing and I think they think it's largely a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableBut isn't the thing we're always told to do "to treat women like human beings"? Yeah. That's good advice. Do that. I think there's a huge distinction between treating someone like a human and insisting on emotional resonance and fulfillment. A vast vast majority of the humans I interact with -- I treat them like entire and full humans but do not have any sort of emotional vulnerability or emotionally laden interactions with them. Why not make your romantic interactions both very human but NOT re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 04:23 PM |
| 5 | The society we want where women making the first moves and approaching men is the norm will never happen.Not a single male who is lonely and sexless can lay the blame on female nature and their hesitance to approach. Think of it like this. This is probably true: be it from being too short, too poor, or just not having the right social disposition How would women being more assertive help the poor, the short, the ugly, and the autists? It won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:14 AM |
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