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DiscussionNormal_Red_Sky/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:02 AM
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DiscussionNormal_Red_Sky/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:45 AM
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We're talking a couple a year. Not worth the effort. You can write off my experiences if you like and say it must just be me... but a lot of men are having similar experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:07 PM
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No, read it again, it was more like a match a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:46 PM
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Good for you, would you care to share with us what your match rate was before you found her and how many of them would translate into a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:36 PM
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You're missing the point, I can tell you from experience that only a small percentage of them would even result in a date. Matches are more like possibilities, not options men can actually choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:34 PM
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If you really think that dating apps are such a good option for men, I invite you to create a profile yourself and post your numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:31 PM
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I was on there for some time and I don't know if I got to 70. He doesn't say how long it took him to get there or if he paid for a subscription which may help but I don't think either of us realistically had 'loads' of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:28 PM
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Can't give you specific numbers, but I've been on Bumble and would get maybe a match a week with a lot of swiping and most wouldn't go anywhere. Dozens? Not likely. Hundreds? You're dreaming. I didn't leave the app because of all the amazing options I had on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:28 PM
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You consider 1 or 2% as having options? Oh buddy. Once you filter through the bots, the ones trying to get more Insta followers and the ones which ghost you still have to try hard to get a date and you'll be competing for attention with literally hundreds of other men in her inbox. Dating apps are absolutely a joke for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:11 PM
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When women phone up, do they ask that extremely standard question,?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:33 PM
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And who are the others you're specifically concerned about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:06 PM
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Those are literally just arguments against extending the draft to women. I can't see anything in there saying that men also shouldn't be subject to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:28 PM
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i’ve seen a ton say there shouldn’t be a draft at all So have I, but only in discussions about conscription on Reddit where men complain about having to take the whole burden with women doing nothing. I've never heard of any feminist group campaigning for either inclusion of women in conscription or abolishing conscription. If you can give any examples where they have I'd be interested to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 07:45 AM
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Most people outside the US have even heard of Nick Fuentes, I've never watched his videos. Don't forget, people like him who make their living from their online presence have an incentive to be particularly outrageous to get more engagement. The right wing Americans, especially under Trump are all nuts. The likes of Nick Fuentes even more so, they're not representative of anyone but themselves to the point where if anyone outside the US references people like that in an argument, the rebuttal is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 09:14 PM
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MRAs are not confined to Reddit, some like Paul Elam had some interesting things to say when interviewed on Cassie Jaye's The Red Pill, which I recommend watching. None said anything so remotely unhinged. Your accusation is not far from accusing them of eating babies and absolutely sounds like propaganda. As far as Reddit goes, apparently you know more about them than I do. Still waiting for any evidence whatsoever to support your claim though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:07 PM
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Meanwhile, the men's right subs are all crying why they can't wait the rape and how all rape victims are liars. I don't frequent those subs but I've never heard any MRA say anything like that. Unless you can give actual examples I'm not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:03 PM
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“Voices like this exist online” and “this is mainstream feminism” are not the same claim. The video has 28000 views. Imagine if a man made a video claiming women had too many rights and advocated compulsory sterilisation. It would be up long enough to get that many views because it'd (rightly) be illegal in a lot of countries. Wake me up when this video gets taken down for hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:24 PM
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If the dating culture means that women feel entitled to never have to pay for dates, to be 'spoiled' with gifts so they feel 'valued' and taken on nice holidays and these are the only options men have for a relationship, then they need to get used to burning some cash. The alternative, to never have relationships with women, is not acceptable to most men. Before the inevitable nit pickers comment, obviously not every single woman is like this, but these have become increasingly common expectatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:42 PM
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Things that she's tried once didn't like and not done again with anyone are clearly not what the question was asking about or what I had in mind when I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:27 PM
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If she's done things for an ex that she won't do for you (sexual or not) then she clearly doesn't like or respect you as much as the last guy. This should be a massive red flag and not controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:14 AM
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Some countries discuss the basics of masturbation as part of sex ed where it's presented as a normal healthy thing. The US is particularly prudish when it comes to sex ed, but I think some discussion on it and removing the shame around it can be healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:28 AM
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OP and people like him want relationships too but they know they're never going to get it, they're interested in sex bots as an alternative to masturbation, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:05 PM
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I don't see where I assumed that she never received oral, so don't know what you mean? The question was all about what she'd done though, so obviously the answers are going to be around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:11 AM
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She's still got a low body count and had most of her sexual experience in relationships, so that's a good sign, though it sounds like she has some hang ups around penetrative sex which we may have to work through. Would be concerned about why they don't seem to last very long though. Wouldn't blame her for blowing a few high status guys, it's natural for her to be attracted to them, though I'd be concerned that she might cheat if she got an opportunity with another high status guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:51 AM
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On my planet, men mostly dress for comfort and practicality and couldn't care less about fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:16 PM
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Exactly, a nice guy will just go along with everything and they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:46 AM
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but being agreeable suggests you never challenge or disagree with them. No, no it doesn't. Where did you get this idea from? I hope you're trolling here. Again, we're taking about bare minimum standards, and if this is your idea of a healthy relationship, then I don't think you've ever been in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:13 PM
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Being supportive of just another bare minimum standard you'd expect in a committed relationship. Men also don't explicitly say they want a woman who doesn't have 2 heads, funny that. OP's argument isn't the big deal she thinks it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:36 PM
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I don't know why you think this is specific to men? Do you think women don't want a partner who's agreeable? This should go without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:51 AM
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Not denying trust this could be annoying but you're literally talking about first world problems here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:13 PM
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And yet plenty of men date single mothers and fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:19 PM
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> " I beleive adults should sacrifice for and protect the children. After that, if people need to be saved, it should be by age (younger), not gender." This is dong a lot of heavy lifting and you know it. This does NOTHING to acknowledge all the men who gave their lives to protect women and children because social norms said that their lives were worth less. You're just completely ignoring all my points and anything that proves you wrong and now you're suggesting I'm irrational? Nice trolling. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:32 PM
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>Yes, yes I can. My post No, you didn't. In fact, you literally denied it ever happened. This is blatant gaslighting. >I don't see this being as much of a rule as an imagined from Hollywood dramatic and noble claim. When you are on a plane that crashes into the Potomac and needs to be evacuated, nobody says "women and children first.' As I said in a previous comment on here where I did a fact check, women and children first was a thing historically, not just in Hollywood, that's why so many more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:50 PM
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Did you even read my comment before posting this? If you had, you'd note that I mentioned this had been the case historically, as evidenced by survivor accounts and the number of men who died on the Titanic. I also clearly said this wasn't the case with the Costa Concordia as everyone knew there were enough life boats for everyone. I should not have to be repeating myself like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:42 AM
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not what I have read here Maybe some good feminists commented after I made my post, can you link to them? I didn't even mention the draft but you forgot that only men have to register for subjective service to be able to vote in the US. Why do you think this is still not a requirement for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 08:34 AM
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This discussion can be resolved very easily, honestly, can't you people use Google? From the (very liberal) Guardian newspaper on this very subject: "It was every man – and crew member – for himself." According to the story, men refused to prioritise women and children and fights broke out for spaces on lifeboats. The phrase "women and children first" was first associated with the sinking of HMS Birkenhead in 1852 but was subsequently also closely associated with the Titanic. The Wikipedia entry…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:53 PM
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I notice something conspicuously missing from the replies here: feminists agreeing with op because they believe that feminism should be about equality. Isn't this exact issue an example of patriarchy oppressing men as well as women as they claim? Yet where are they? Crickets. Instead, we have a lot of women either denying what's obvious to every man or defending it, ironically proving OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:44 PM
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I've seen women been that rude when it wasn't justified. Just assuming OP deserved it is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:54 PM
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What are you doing to improve yourself OP? Are you at least in shape? Dress stylishly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:59 AM
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The guy's getting told by women that they find him disgusting - it's clearly not all just in his head. I think you just don't want to believe him because you don't want to acknowledge that women act in such shallow ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:57 AM
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Ah, therapy, the Reddit stock answer to everything. If he's getting brutally rejected because of his looks, how is this going to help exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:22 AM
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Hey Adolf, the Jews aren't responsible for all your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:21 AM
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Maybe, just maybe we can treat grown adults the same and not infantslise women. As you're clearly not getting it: yes, shame women for not being able to do basic tasks just like you would men. Tell her to fix her own damn tire or call a breakdown service like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:53 AM
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Where is this utopia? I want to relocate. Go and talk to some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:51 AM
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Women choosing to enlist less doesn't mean "women's lives are more valuable". Nice way to completely ignore the fact that the few women who do show up are rarely put into front line combat roles. They still do valued service, but working as a nurse in a field hospital isn't the same as getting shot at and dodging drones and watching your buddies bleed out in a cold muddy trench because the medics can't get to them. That's men's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:49 AM
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You think women are incapable of replacing a tire? Don't be so patronising. We're supposed to have gender equality, they can do basic life shit themselves without the privilege of being coddled by having men do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:44 AM
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i’m not sure how you got this idea that all women find all men as such a threat… I literally see this all the time. Every man has had experiences like this. ive never, not once heard a man say he was scared to take his child to the park or any other environment where there’s typically just women & children. They won't say they're scared to do it, they just won't. Same reason why they don't go into teaching, no point expecting societal norms to change just for them, they just get a different job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:41 AM
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It's called a hypothetical scenario, I can change a tire. You wouldn't say this to a woman though, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:37 AM
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If two people phone up and once says she's a woman on her own, they will absolutely prioritize her over the male customer. I've known people get their wife to phone to get faster service for exactly this reason. Women's lives are still valued way more than men's, when a ship sinks it's still 'women and children first'. Don't even get me started on how few women even enlist in the armed forces, let alone actually serve on the front lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:35 AM
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I think he means things like been seen as a threat wherever you go, women crossing the street to avoid you, not being able to take your kids to the park without working the police being called... And then there's all the perks and privileges you get just because you're a woman. If I get a flat tire and can't replace it myself, no one will stop and help me, I'll have to call a breakdown service and wait behind all the women they've prioritised. White Western women have an insane amount of privile…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:51 AM
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See, op? People have to think before they speak. Wow, patronizing much? Also, nice straw man but you're not really addressing OP's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:18 PM
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Do you really have no idea what it's like for the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:44 AM
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So you really think there aren't a lot of women who think like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:03 PM
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Obviously someone physically attractive won't have to work as hard, this shouldn't be a difficult argument to understand if you've ever been to a social event and noticed how people interact. I don't agree with everything red pill, but telling young men to get fit and dress better can only help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:19 AM
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This happens a lot, knowing how to deal with it on a way which keeps everyone happy is part of having good game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:17 AM
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Good luck trying to get a woman you've never met before with no game, it's just what the kids now call rizz, you need to know how to approach with confidence, keep them entertained and generally come across as an interesting, fun person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 11:55 PM
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Yes, I'm even familiar with the concept that some women are also attracted to men who don't have body builder physique. The fact is you're derailing the argument by making it about you and what you personally like. The responses from the women in this thread have all been about what the woman is attracted to and how she's somehow owed an attractive man just by existing and that's the bare minimum she should get. Are the men she likes just expected to date her regardless of what they think? What …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:49 PM
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You're missing the point, you need to stay in your league. If you want an attractive partner, you should be reasonably attractive yourself. None of the women around here seem to get that because they think they're entitled to a 6'5" ripped finance bro. "Dude your standards are just too high. Settle with tje women you don't want to have sex with" Men get told this all the time. Men settle all the time because our society elevates women and panders to their delusions so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:11 PM
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By your logic I should date Ana de Armas, don't think it's going to happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:24 PM
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Who are you or anyone to tell someone what is realistic or not? Going off OPs description, she's not going to have a lot of interest, especially when there are better options available. Why would she expect to get the man of her dreams when she's made no effort and doesn't look that good anyway? We see this entitlement all the time from women and it's a problem. What makes it worse is that they don't give each other honest feedback. I bet the woman in question told her friends about it and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:02 PM
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She needs to have realistic standards, just like anyone else. If the ugly step sister wants Prince Charming and a pony and won't settle for anything less she'll just end up becoming the crazy cat lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:49 PM
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I know it's gone out of fashion to talk about privilege, but white Western women have an insane amount of it. In addition to what's been mentioned already, look at all the men conscripted in Russia and Ukraine and tell me the women in those countries who aren't subject to it who can leave the country freely don't have it easy by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:46 PM
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Would you care to share your definition of a pleasent conversation? It seems to be different to everyone else's around here, but by just telling everyone they're wrong but refusing to electorate, you're contributing nothing to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:17 PM
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Keeping her entertained with engaging banter is not just 'talking in a pleasent' way. Do you think OP has in mind sitting around, talking about the weather? Either you're deliberately trolling with a straw man argument or you have no idea of the kind of hoops guys have to jump through to not just pass all the tests women throw out, but also be more fun and engaging than all the other men vying for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:20 AM
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If anyone here hasn't seen a man get brutally rejected by a woman they need to get out more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:11 PM
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Women tend to look for different things in men at different ages and points of their lives. Plenty of young women just want attention from the most attractive men to feel validated. I've personally seen this plenty, everyone knows this happens, this shouldn't be controversial, obviously it doesn't mean that they don't also want relationships, especially when they get a bit older. Oh, and when women cheat on a man, what type do they usually go to for fun? OP may be generalizing (so are you), but …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 08:06 PM
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The difference in numbers here is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:41 PM
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I presume you're referring to OPs last sentence here. So you really think men never look for relationship material? Do you really believe the line that all men want is sex? All men are pigs, are we? I think you'll find the real world is more complex and nuanced than the radical feminists slogans would have you believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 09:45 AM
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The fact you think average men are 'low value' shows where the problem is. No one would say the average woman is low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 05:14 PM
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There's plenty of women complaining that there aren't any good men or that men aren't approaching anymore on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:01 PM
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Are you seriously recommending online dating for men? Only the most attractive men get anywhere with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:45 AM
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If women only insist on the absolute best men, they need to be the best themselves or they risk being single for a very long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 10:14 AM
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Maybe we can start by not demonizing young men for existing and setting more realistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:39 PM
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There's more women than men, but not that many more. If 30-40% of men are single, then so are a lot of women. This doesn't just affect a group of men that privileged women like to call losers while they dream of 6'5" finance bros, but because it's seen as a men's issue, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:59 PM
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Why do you keep asking this? Cis men buy sex toys sometimes too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:51 PM
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Have you known all the women in your life since birth or something? A man introducing himself to a woman in a social setting in a respectful way shouldn't be an issue. Your suggestion that you should never meet new people because of stranger danger is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 09:36 AM
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What does this suggest about how they see men? Especially when they call men oppressors. I've got plenty more examples of misandry from the feminist movement if that's not enough for you. The point is this was all happening well before the internet came along.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:33 AM
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It is a response to the extreme hatred towards women by the "manospherans". The man bashing has been going on for years online and reflects arguments from the early days of feminism. Take the week known phrase, 'a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle', how old is that? It certainly predates the internet let alone the 'manosphere'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:07 PM
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Can you give me an example of where DEI has helped working class white men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:05 PM
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So being discriminated against because of your looks is fine, but because of your personality isn’t? Obviously not what I was suggesting. Also, autism isn't just a personality trait like how some people are more or less outgoing, but I think you know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:25 PM
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If an autistic man is genuinely attractive the way a neurotypical might be, he will have no trouble. Because it's nothing to do with looks. why even announce that you're autistic early on? Because it significantly affects their day to day lives and how they approach relationships. Really, what kind of questions are these?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:37 PM
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They're talking about being discriminated against, not guilting neurotypical women into it. There's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:20 PM
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Nobody is denying that men have their issues. Sorry, but I see this all the time in this sub, go to certain other subs and they'll still insist that men don't have issues and if they do, it's obviously the fault of other men and therefore doesn't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:28 AM
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Short guys can get women, they just have to work harder e.g. be muscular and charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:47 AM
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> Red pillers claim dating app data exists in droves that proves their point. It does. I'd personally like to see more data from more apps, but it's not hard to find. I was able to find data to support my argument very easily: According to internal user surveys, men swipe right (i.e. like) liberally at 46%, while women swing right more selectively on just 14.5% of profiles. This choosiness gap drives asymmetric match rates. The average female notches 7.8 new matches daily, compared to just 1.8 b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:06 PM
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There are stats that show that men initiate messaging more, just like they're expected to initiate offline. Of course you could always gather some days yourself instead of demanding people Google for you to prove what everyone else knows but you won't accept. Setup a test account as an averagely attractive man on a dating app of your choice and see how many messages you get from all the women you say will be talking to you as well as the very attractive men. Then do the same as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:12 PM
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If these are messages where the woman initiated, there won't be many. Men message first and keep the conversation going the vast majority of the time and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:01 PM
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Why then do average looking guys get so few matches on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:58 PM
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I don't think most women claim they have a harder time dating than men. I hear women saying 'the bar is in hell' and how they can't get a good man and things like that all the time both online and in person. Men absolutely have a harder time dating but most women seem unaware of how bad it is. How many stories have you heard about a single man and woman comparing success on dating apps work the woman ending up shocked that the man is barely getting any matches? Women massively lack empathy here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:04 AM
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It does not show that women swipe right on the same 5% of men. It is, however, quite well known in sociology that women are attracted to a narrower range of looks than men. This combined with the 5% figure obviously means they're largely chasing the same men. By your logic we'd have women reacting the same way to the neighborhood slob as they do to film stars. Funny how we don't see that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:49 PM
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You're getting too hung up on the 7% figure, red pill says that most women in dating apps only rate a small % of men attractive despite the idea that men are supposed to be the ones with unrealistic body expectations. The chart clearly shows that. On your 3rd point, do you mean this Tinder paper which I found very easily? https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0272775719301104?via%3Dihub It shows that women swipe on less than 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:56 PM
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The ok Cupid blog posts which contained a lot of data that backed up red pill taking points were taken down (can't imagine why) though you can still find some of it. Here's one famous example which clearly shows women discriminating much more on looks than men. https://graphpaperdiaries.com/2018/10/21/judging-attractiveness/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:32 PM
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When I went to one in Germany there were plenty of mixed groups and all female groups. Women like enjoying food, drink and music with their friends just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:06 PM
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Apparently we're supposed to choose better without having standards which may make some women feel called out. Funny how women are quick to shame men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:16 AM
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Funny how concerns about safety when hooking up are only ever voiced in response to this exact argument. Meanwhile, in the real world women meet men off dating apps all the time and plenty of young women have random hookups with men they just met in the club. If I could get pregnant like a woman and still be able to hookup easily, I'd just take the damn birth control or make them wear protection. Believe me, this wouldn't be an issue for most men-we'd be too busy taking advantage of the situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:25 AM
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Women have an insane amount of privilege when it comes to hooking up that the average man could only dream of. If you don't recognise that then I suggest you're being deliberately obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:21 AM
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But means the mother has to give up some of hers to have the father around. Better to just allow men more than 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:19 PM
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Men are only eligible for up to 2 weeks paternity leave in the UK. Statutory maternity leave is 52 weeks. There's also the option of shared parental leave. Not very equal is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:19 PM
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If men had more than one hot minute of paternity leave it might help. Men having equal paternity leave would mean they can support the mother better and have more time to bond with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:04 AM
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I've never seen that in my life, in fact I've only heard of it online. Have you actually seen this happen, or have you just heard of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:38 AM
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You dodged my question. Have you been called any of these things when you've approached a man in good faith? How many times have you tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:00 AM
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Congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:58 AM
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As a man, that's not how I think of women who make the first move at all, honestly it's a refreshing change. Try asking men what they think instead of female radical feminists and you might be surprised at how different the answers are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:37 AM
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How many times have you actually done those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 08:34 AM
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Tons of professional and social organizations host gatherings and happy hours. There aren't so many of these and for those of us who work in male dominated environments it wouldn't help much anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 12:51 PM
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What is it about them that makes you nervous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:55 AM
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Interesting, what country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 07:53 AM
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You mean like when hen parties hire male strippers? Or when they go on girls nights out dirty dancing with random men because they're not there and won't find out? I'd argue these are worse than going to a Hooters and men are already expected to just put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:31 PM
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A man that really wants to be a woman... is still a man. I think you're talking about sex, not gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:11 PM
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As mentioned, it's already been changed in America, there's no impetus to do so in the UK because it's not seen as an issue because it's minimised. There are men's rights activists who do campaign on issues like this but they just get demonised by women. If you want an equal society, you need to also accept that men have issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:19 AM
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Just because some men make light of it doesn't mean that it isn't minimised and even treated as a joke by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:14 AM
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Male rape is minimised all the time. It's not even acknowledged in UK law. In the US it's only been covered since the FBI's Uniform Crime Report in 2012.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:12 AM
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They don't mean physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:29 PM
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Women are socially programmed to want money and status in a male partner. Even from a very early age, in fairy tales it's always the prince in the castle that they go for, not the local butcher, baker or candlestick maker who might actually be a perfectly nice bloke and decently attractive, but they just can't compete with the prince for money or status. This doesn't necessarily make the women who just want the best for themselves and their future children gold diggers. It's not just societal ei…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:54 PM
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I'd personally prefer if she wasn't broke but generally, men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:34 PM
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If most women had a choice between 2 decently attractive men but I've was clearly more well off than the other, who do you think she's going to go for? Of course less well off men can get dates, but it pays against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:49 AM
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Newsflash: all women want a man with money and status, not just the gold diggers. Men hope that as the relationship progresses that she'll start to appreciate him as a person and not a walking cash dispenser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:02 AM
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The number of women in denial about the simple idea that like everyone else, they get less attractive with age is unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:45 AM
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The powerful can already start wars, men usually fight them voluntary and drafts can be implemented if there aren't enough. Also, powerful men have never had trouble attracting women. You think they need to engineer an elaborate loneliness epidemic? The loneliness epidemic is an entirely logical outcome of societal changes over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:33 PM
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The alternatives are dating apps, which are a joke, or just hoping a woman you like will approach you - which has even worse odds. Sometimes you just have to risk the rejection. Yes, the odds are bad, but if you make an effort with your appearance, be charismatic and have a few buddies to help them the odds get better. That's just the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 09:14 PM
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It looks good when you describe broad principles. The problem is they are broad, which could mask issues in a movement. You could say that about feminism too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:54 PM
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Would an average woman's options really all be unsuitable though, or are they just being unrealistic as is often pointed out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:10 AM
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Women complain all the time they have it harder in the dating market, even when they acknowledge they have plenty of dates. There's always something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:09 AM
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You could argue a dad bod, but when you ask women what that actually looks like it tends to still be fairly muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:26 AM
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Game doesn't mean conning a woman to sleep with you. It's more about doing things that will make you attractive that she will want to, but you seem pretty determined to take all these terms out of context and interpret them in a way that makes men look dangerous and women the innocent victims. Like women don't play games all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:21 AM
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I'm literally talking about never getting a relationship, you never want to have grandkids and risk your son getting suicidally depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:07 PM
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Just telling someone to 'go work yourself' is vague and unhelpful. Would you really be so unempathetic to your own son? I'm sure you wouldn't be if we were talking about a hypothetical daughter with the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:05 PM
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Did it not occur to you before posting that comment showing your toxic attitude that it might be a reflection on the parent and that they may be partly responsible? Glad I'm not your son or daughter. What's that you had a nightmare? Suck it up! You're depressed because you can't get a date for the prom? Just stop being such a little bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:01 PM
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That's true but entirely misses the very obvious point: if they've not got the social skills or confidence for one, they'll struggle with the other too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:57 PM
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If a guy can't get laid he probably isn't getting a relationship either. If you had a son, would you care if he was miserable his whole life because he could never get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:48 PM
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Who exactly are the majority of people whining on subs like this ? It’s men. I’ve seen hardly any women moaning about situationships. We literally see women complaining about men and put their male partners on blast over petty shit all over social media all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:54 AM
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I think it's more like they don't like a lot of the low quality women they have to sort through while trying to find a good partner so they don't have to spend their whole lives alone. Women complain about men all the time at a much younger age and ask where are all the 'good men'? Men have to put up with some shit too, especially after a certain age where, as OP mentioned, most of the more desirable ones are either taken or aren't so desirable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:54 AM
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I think OP has in mind things like the American boy scouts now having to admit girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:56 PM
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Have you talked to her about whether she has any long term plans? If all she wants to do is work at a bar while you're going to college, studying hard to get a job that earns well then I'd suggest you're not compatible and you should get someone who can at least understand what you're going through and appreciate the effort involved. She may also find that her job forces the choice for her as they'll likely replace her with someone younger and hotter after a few years. How many people do you see…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:57 PM
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I don't think this contempt is really there, I think you're just projecting from your own insecurity. For me the presence of a child is an issue, whether she's divorced, separated or widowed is irrelevant. If the kid is older e.g. mid teens and can be left on their own while their mother goes on a date, that helps a lot, but there's still another person who you have to deal with in the relationship. If there's been a messy divorce then that obviously points to some poor life choices and I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:47 PM
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Looks like you have a type for men with big noses? 🤷‍♀️ That aside, these men are conventionally attractive and of you look at shirtless pictures of them they're absolutely ripped, like most men need to be in order to get on screen in Hollywood. I don't think these are the best examples for your argument that there's hope for average men too. An actually average man would kill to look like either of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 07:51 AM
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Those numbers seemed very high to me, so I looked it up. No couples therapy has as much research support as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Ninety percent (90%) of couples who go through EFT significantly improve their relationship and 70-75% of couples no longer fit criteria for relationship distress following treatment (according to a metanalysis). Compare this to a 35% success rate for the next leading couples therapy. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/mindful-relationships/202101/th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:01 AM
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Women (even straight ones) sometimes have relationships with other inmates that they wouldn't normally for protection. At least some of the guards will be male. They may also just do it for a sense of normality as it's one of the few things they can have control over. This isn't the gotcha you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 07:44 AM
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Nothing to stop me using on a woman I'm going on a date with too though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:16 AM
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You like the JD Vance look?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:22 AM
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Quality of dating profiles makes a difference but you can't deny makeup gives women an advantage. Most men don't use makeup or filter their pictures like women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 10:20 AM
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Same here, get a job working in tech and you'll soon get used to very few women being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:54 AM
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if you see only woman cashiers, you go to self checkout. That kind of avoiding Literally no one does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:53 AM
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Last time I went out, I saw a young guy, looked early 20s, out with a few friends approach a couple girls in a noisy bar making peace signs and just saying hello, just looking to try and start a conversation. One of them straight away gave him the finger. Instantly rejected and pretty rudely. He looked decent too. Will definitely put him and other men off though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:23 PM
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Is what I’m seeing online actually representative of real life? I go out to bars fairly regularly and there are definitely fewer young men approaching young women and there are clearly more hostile attitudes to men from women. There's definitely been a cultural shift over the years and now it's literally like men and women are scared of each other. I can absolutely see that the stat showing 60% of gen z men never having approached a woman is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:10 AM
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Yeah, wonder what continued to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 10:46 AM
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You've not seen the state of some of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:19 PM
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I assure you the bar is in hell and I still swipe left on about 40% - 60% of profiles in dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:55 PM
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Interesting how a lot of liberal women will say they don't want 'toxic masculinity' though. I think it's more than just muscles, there's also the appeal of the taboo and an 'I can fix him' mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:46 PM
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You're not the first to notice this, it is a thing. https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/why-is-every-man-i-m-attracted-to-right-leaning Apparently the women find the right wing men more masculine and so more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:28 PM
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It's a false equivalence as I'm straight so won't be attracted to the gay men. It's also pretty insulting to them to assume that they'll just fuck any man. The average woman has a massive selection of men and some women who'd have sex with her at any given time, some of who you'd be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:02 PM
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You think all men have money laying around to go to prostitutes whenever we want? I'd love to live in your world-I'd be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:14 PM
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the men who left the kids with the shitty mom. Look up what % of divorces are initiated by women and what % of the time women get custody and tell me it's always men leaving that's to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:15 AM
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You don't think this sort of content is popularising and excusing this kind of bad behaviour among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:48 PM
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We need to tell our young women not to cry wolf, no one seems to be doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:24 AM
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If anyone else had done that, they wouldn't just be barred, they'd have a court date too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:03 PM
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Autism is a spectrum disorder and you can have traits without being autistic, so it's recognised that it's not a binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:44 AM
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Asshole or selfishness is the bare minimum to win in a competitive environment. You can be successful without being a dick and you'll end up with fewer people holding grudges against you if you do. There's a weird idea that all rich people only got where they are by screwing over other people and that's simply not true. A bit of Machiavellianism can certainly help when it's called for but you don't want to end up in a Scarface scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:03 AM
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It's not that simple, there's a big difference between someone who transitioned at a young age with puberty blockers and someone who transitioned as an adult. There's also intersex people whose birth sex doesn't conform to male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:56 PM
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In the UK, women over 30 who owned property got the right to vote at the same time that all men over 21 did, in 1918. A lot of these men would have just been fighting for their country in the often brutal conditions of the first world war (1914-1918) with no right to vote. https://ukdefencejournal.org.uk/a-timeline-of-voting-rights-in-the-uk/ Funny how no one ever mentions the part about all those men also not being able to vote. In both the UK and US feminism was led by middle-class white women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:13 PM
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Lighter sentencing in courts https://journalistsresource.org/criminal-justice/courts-lenient-sentencing-bond-women/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:50 PM
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Aside from so many social ones it's not even funny, there's little things like conscription. You will never have to worry about being sent off to fight in a foreign war and dying there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:42 PM
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Are you seriously suggesting that women don't have privilege? If so, you need to go out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:33 PM
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Are you scared of women having equality? No, but I'd argue feminism has never really been about that. It's pretty obvious that you've already made up your mind and have an agenda from these questions though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:22 PM
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I've never seen or even heard of anything like that happening. You clearly work in a toxic workplace, please don't generalise these nutjobs to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:39 PM
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Then they need to have a conversation where the objecting party explains why it's such an issue for them. You shouldn't just demand your partner stops doing things because you don't like it or feel threatened by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:04 PM
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First ask if they're doing this because they're not getting what they need from their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 05:00 PM
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Are there any kinds of therapy which actually help address the root of the issues? Sitting in a circle and sharing your feelings doesn't sound like it actually solves anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:22 PM
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I completely understand why women may feel unsafe around some men, but men generally? That's not rational. We now have societal issues related to this. That's the result of years of misandrist man bashing which only served to foster fear and division and drive men into the arms of Trump and helped him get elected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:47 PM
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What makes you think I do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:23 PM
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We live in a society where women would rather be stuck in the woods with a bear than a man because they fear and hate us so much. I think OPs take about men being vilified had some validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:46 PM
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Remember all the women calling no nut November toxic? Don't hear anyone saying that about the women threatening to abstain for 4 whole years-not that it will last more than 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:03 PM
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You seem to think you're entitled to be approached by men, what kind of event was it? What did you do to help yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:05 PM
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You think men can't learn things? Also, since when have women only dated men with high IQ? You think all those bad boys they like to hookup with are all members of Mensa?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:12 PM
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I'm in the UK and it's not that unusual to see women who refuse to date anyone who votes for the Conservative party ('Tories').
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:12 AM
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Interesting find on that specific stat, but stats from some of the biggest dating apps still support the general point. Women’s perception of men’s attractiveness may be more warped than men’s perception of women’s appearance. With the rise of pornography, plastic surgery and airbrushing, many people wonder — do guys know what real women look like anymore? The answer appears to be yes. When Rudder showed us a graph of the ratings men give to women on an attractiveness scale of 1 to 5 through OKC…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:10 PM
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It's different in school as you have to be around mixed company in classes and you get to know at least a bit about the personalities of the opposite sex whether you're attracted to them or not. In adulthood most women won't find out about what a man's like until she starts dating him and 99% of women wouldn't date someone they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 10:11 AM
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You've hit upon a big problem with the kind of consent feminists have been pushing for. People have drunk hookups all the time without issues, but if you give women the power to shout rape on a whim every man who hooks up runs the risk of prison time if the woman gets irked and wants to get back at him. IMHO being concerned about this shouldn't lead you to just being labelled an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:01 PM
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Hey let's just ignore the fact that men have been arrested for rape and had their lives ruined because the woman was drunk when she consented. Just call anyone who worries about the issue an incel and pretend it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:37 AM
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Don't you remember the consent poster from Coastal Carolina University? https://www.thefire.org/research-learn/coastal-carolina-university-drunk-poster
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:26 AM
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The third reason can be outright disregarded because all it does is reinforce arbitrary gender roles for men in a world where gender roles no longer apply to women. Your so called arbitrary gender roles are still quite widely followed in the real world. How many women approach men? It's very rare. Men are still expected to approach so the third point is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 09:35 AM
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There was an r/askmen post a couple days ago where the guy mentioned he once said hi to a woman and had the Police called on him for harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:12 AM
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Women need to create an environment where men can feel safe to put themselves out there. All those TikTok videos shaming men for glancing in their direction at the gym just creates the kind of fear you're expecting them to just get over. Rejection is one thing, having your face all over the Internet and being labelled as a creep can have a very real impact and cause you to lose friends, dates and maybe jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:28 AM
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To be fair, I think there is a cultural difference most Americans would be unaware of where fat-sorry, 'chubby' or 'curvy' women can still get men in the US. In every European country I know of the men are attracted to women of a healthy body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:38 AM
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That's a bit selfish if there's kids involved though, which is why a lot of people can stay in that kind of dynamic for years just being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 09:52 AM
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Just think about the sheer number of men you've seen in your life, at work, school, shops, bars, restaurants... And not one was good enough then you're probably not going to like any.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:23 PM
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So literally all the men you meet are trash? Nice bit of misandry there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:52 PM
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Have you considered that women might feel more free to be themselves on vacation if they don't have their usual friend group around or they have a 'what goes on tour stats on tour' agreement? If they want some dick they can do so more freely knowing that they won't be judged as they would be normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:34 PM
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Seriously? How many terrible men do you think there are? There are plenty of decent men out there that would make good fathers. Also, it's generally a good idea to get to know someone quite well before having their baby. That's not hypergamy, that's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:58 PM
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There will always be terrible people, if fewer women could have their babies that'd be great.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:05 PM
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just know this is not the majority of feminists being like this. Well they need to speak up more because the radical feminists have been controlling the narrative and men having their lives ruined like this is the result.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:27 AM
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OP was trying to make the point that they get all this despite being rampant misogynists. Society tells men we have to respect women and men walk on eggshells around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:31 PM
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Interesting, I've only heard of it in relation to young Catholic women in Ireland who want to save themselves for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:20 PM
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Don't forget the poop hole loophole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:11 PM
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She still shouldn't have complained about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:30 PM
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The body counts of sexually active young women suggest otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:40 PM
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You seem to be making a false equivalence between a normal man who's not such a disgusting slob and who at least wears clean clothes having to lower his standards to get anything at all and women who are disgusting slobs being so entitled that they complain about not getting higher quality men who have their shit together. To then be told that he should improve himself is a bit rich don't you think? So either he finds these women attractive enough to be interested in them and he’s a moron for be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:35 PM
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why is he wasting any time reading multiple messages from women he is not attracted to Because unless men lower their standards on dating apps they often get nothing. Maybe they at least had some common interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:47 PM
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Yep, interesting how most of the objections for 1 are because of his body count. Women would flip if a man said they were rejecting a woman because of that but they're shaming this guy for it all over the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:24 PM
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I wouldn't recommend using the line you have been, you're essentially going up to random women and saying 'I need something from you'. Would be interested to know what your success rate is with this. How many were interested in talking? How many numbers did you get? Did you get any dates from it. Cold approaching during the day is hard to do and has a high rejection rate compared to other methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:11 AM
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I leave my house every single day. How often do you go somewhere where you could safely be approached in a social setting? Leaving the house doesn't mean very much if you're just going to the shop for some milk, you've not made any effort on your appearance and you're not interested in talking to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:25 PM
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Weird how they ask for a minimum weight but not a max.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:02 AM
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By cold approaching I mean like asking straight away for a date or a number. Sorry, but that's not what's meant by cold approaching. No sensible man should expect to have any success with that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:59 AM
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It gets easier for men with the caveat that they need to lower their standards. A man in his 30s on dating apps will find it mostly full of single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:33 PM
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Wasn't easy to find over all the screeching of 'pink tax!' but I found an article that explains how they're different products. So no, the manufacturers didn't just take a razor designed for men and 'pink it and shrink it' as they've been widely accused of. If they had it wouldn't work as well so it wouldn't sell very well so it's not in their interest to do so. ​ Women have much softer hair than men’s hair. Women often shave areas like armpits, bikinis, and legs. In order to avoid cuts and nick…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:42 PM
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Women generally used men's razors until razor companies recognized they could color them pink and lavender, call them women's razors, and double the price. I remember when debate was raging about the so called pink tax and this was a key point. One of the manufacturers explained that because of how by women to shave legs it's used they're making a very different product to what they make for men who just want to shave their face. That makes it more expensive. If any CEO is thinking of upping pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:26 PM
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White (Euro) and Semitic women have hair on their legs and arms, and sometimes a little on their chest. Many East Asians have very little body hair. However I've seen Northeast Asians with sparse black leg hair and, yes, I found it unattractive at a gut level. Nearly all women have pubic and armpit hair, some much more than others. Women shave or have it removed because they believe it will make them more attractive, and they aren't wrong. So if natural women have body hair, why aren't we men ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:22 PM
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Given how much lower the standards are for women, men will put up with a lot. Even an unattractive woman has a lot of privilege when it comes to dating. You're worried about wearing the right clothes on a date? Seriously? I've had women turn up to dates looking nothing like their pictures, blatant catfish and I didn't even acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:44 AM
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Women can literally throw all these rules out the window and still get dates though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:26 AM
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Even if OP had literally no men in her life the fact that about 1 in 3 men ages 18 to 24 years reported no sexual activity in the past year was quite widely reported. Still not impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:12 PM
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It's shocking just how many women on here are as badly out of touch as OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:53 AM
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Both sexes get less interest once they start losing their looks, an older woman getting less attention is not the same as a man who's struggled for female attention all his life and may only have had a handful of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:52 AM
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You do realise that they're all chasing the top few percent of men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 AM
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Me too was probably a facto, lockdown another but let's not forget about dating apps (Tinder came out in 2012). I went to a singles event last night and by the time I left there were about a dozens guys to only 2 girls. If a woman feels lonely and wants attention, all she has to do is go on Tinder, scroll through the dozens of matches she'll have even if she's unattractive and message a few. She could easily have a date the same night, a hookup in literally minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:35 PM
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This has been going on for years. Older women often go to the Ivory Coast or Ghana for something 'exotic'. https://tourismteacher.com/female-sex-tourism/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:59 PM
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Even then that's the high end, about $120k is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:32 PM
1

What about this guy whose wife ran off with their child and got a substantial amount of alimony? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1u-FmzTIQE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:11 PM
5

Most men find that if they're in a relationship that the woman won't like them going out drinking and partying with the lads and will feel threatened by them having female friends and being around women who aren't family. When he leaves that relationship, what's he left with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:02 PM
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Women don't walk around thinking "when I go here I'm not talking to any guys but when I go here I will." Don't know if you missed the memo but there was a huge thing a while ago about women not wanting to be bothered by men when they're out and about doing every day things like shopping or going to the gym. Men are risking being labelled as harassers by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:58 PM
1

Why is it that single men seem to treat being single as a justification for violence? Since when has this been a normal, commonplace thing? I doubt most incels male or female are even capable of violence, they're too fat and depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 10:38 PM
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Apparently that's not exciting enough for OP. Also, average Adam will be getting plenty of single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:32 PM
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Yep, whenever I've seen women discuss body count, they always say: 'it shouldn't matter about the number but also, it doesn't matter as a future partner won't find out anyway. Ironically the young woman hooking up at the club every weekend and enjoying Tinder fuckboys in between is doing much more risky sex than a man visiting a legal brothel occasionally because he can't get his needs met elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 07:23 PM
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Imagine if a woman asked you that. They literally do. I was recently talking to a woman about how hard it is to get dates. The first thing she asked was what my job is, followed by where I live, so it's pretty clear how she thought of me and my worth in a relationship. Red pill theory nailed that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:31 PM
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Or her standards just changed? Funny how they didn't change before. Honestly, how stupid do you think men are? ​ In case you've not noticed, not all men are created equal. If Christian Bale were to go to a bar and try and chat up women, he'd get a hell of a lot more than if Danny DeVito did. Some people around here need to get away from their keyboards and spend some time in the real world where I literally see this happen all the time. They'd very quickly realise that the whole 'all bodies are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:51 PM
1

Look at the story of Jeremy Meeks and tell me women aren't attracted to bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:16 PM
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the vast majority of people would be happy you helped them. I think you underestimate the amount of crazy out there. If I came across a woman who needed CPR I'd certainly think twice before helping her.
/r/PussyPass05/10/22 07:23 PM
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even blame the woman for allowing it to happen. Tell me one man who's done that who hasn't been some ultra conservative religious nutjob. Don't try and tell me nothing's been done on this front. Women have got their way and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:19 PM
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I wouldn't know how to stop people from being awful. Wow. What a cop out. Can you imagine if a man said that about street harassment or rape? Not only do we do something about these problems, there's national discourse, public awareness campaigns, changes in laws, etc. By your logic men should have just shrugged their shoulders and said, 'sorry if there's women being raped but I don't know how to stop people being awful'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:49 AM
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If a woman has slept with a lot of other men and then decides she wants a relationship with a less attractive beta, she's clearly settling. Is it insecure to want someone who actually wants you and isn't just seeing you as a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:27 PM
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There's plenty of stories like this, actions have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:23 PM
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I thought this would be kind of obvious too but it seems the only acceptable PC opinion to have is to say it doesn't matter at all. Take a look at the comments in this thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/xrramz/my\_wife\_slept\_with\_18\_guys\_by\_age\_20\_wondering\_if/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:38 PM
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I can't believe you want to get into an argument with me on this while completely ignoring the fact that she forced a 14 year old kid to do something he clearly wasn't comfortable with - and there are perfectly reasonable reasons why he wouldn't be - instead of respecting his boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:05 PM
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It's worked too well-I see a lot of women who are flat out scared of men. It's increasingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:03 PM
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Do you really not understand why men don't dance at that kind of event?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 09:26 PM
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Why is there this expectation that men should be able to just roll up to a bar or swipe on an app and get sex guaranteed? ​ Don't know where you got that idea from? I don't know why women so often have this idea that if a man is on a dating app or approaching women in real life that he thinks he's entitled to sex. The fact is dating apps are a joke and we know that when approaching in person we're going to get rejected a lot before we get anything. ​ Like yea, if you're an introverted guy who on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:43 PM
2

They just need to wait until they're in their 30s and all those women who wouldn't dream of giving them their number before will now want a relationship-now that they're single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:25 PM
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Can’t stress enough how none of the men in my life don’t suffer from this, I even discussed with my brother to confirm I was not out of touch. Ask your brother how often he gets a Tinder date. The average guy gets nothing. ​ no shit you’re not meeting people in your house If you think an average looking introverted guy can just to a bar and meet women and get dates you're very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 08:22 PM
1

I've know more than a few women who are into skinny guys. I wonder how many developed that preference after either a bad experience with a muscular man or being rejected by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:54 PM
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Without the initial attraction, how does he get that far? A lot of dating advice I see from women or discussion about what women look for centre around personality traits e.g. be confident, charming, responsible, etc. These are generally things that you find out about someone once yet get to know them. If that pretty girl at the bar isn't remotely interested in you, you're kind of sunk before you start.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:05 PM
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You literally complained about men abandoning women in old age but in the US 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:26 PM
13

Most divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:12 PM
0

This is completely unrealistic, to message a woman on Tinder you first have to match which is just about impossible unless you look amazing in your pictures or are willing to put up with a lot of single mothers wanting a beta provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:16 PM
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Even in this case, the men did win the lawsuit. That's all very well and good if you can afford a lawyer. Even though they won, they may still have difficulty finding new jobs in the same field as they'll now have a reputation and what company wants to employ someone who successfully sued their last employer and won?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:26 AM
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man who pays for sex doesn't see women as people Where did you get that idea from? Why do you think it's true for every man who pays for it? Sex in relationships is transactional too in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 04:43 PM
1

For a start, men know full well that women compare us to former partners and the more she's had the less likely you are to come out on top and the more likely she is to cheat and leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:50 AM
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I find a willingness to pay for sex repulsive. OK, but if he hadn't he would probably be increasingly depressed and bitter the rest of his life and die a virgin. Relationships are clearly not going to happen for him, so why judge him for paying a pro?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:42 PM
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I never understood why men who pay for sex are treated like lepers by women, especially in this guy''s case. If a woman has had a hundred sexual partners and who knows how many STIs, men are supposed to accept that as part of her sexuality and not have any problem with it. Nice double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 10:26 PM
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dishonest and manipulative You're thinking of it the wrong way. Women do things like this all the time, it's not because they're being dishonest or manipulative-at least not in their minds-they're just testing the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:35 PM
1

following your logic, a male IT worker is leading an easy life compared to a female construction worker/logger/farmer. How exactly do you think that's wrong? If you've ever known anyone who works in a trade you'll know that it can be very hard on the body and the working environment is much more dangerous. It's not uncommon for builders to be suffering joint problems in their 40s. Something someone working in an office wouldn't have to worry about. I know someone who retrained to be a web develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:10 PM
1

It's definitely not new, it's just going mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:27 AM
2

The vast majority of men would realise that if the circumstances of their lives were even slightly different that they might be affected by those issues. I didn't expect to have to explain empathy to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:19 AM
1

Your examples are specific to particular cultures. The ones I gave affect men all over the world. I'm sorry if they're not enough for you because they don't affect every man on Earth but to not recognise women have even that much privilege because of it? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:15 AM
1

I think it's sad you think so many men lack basic empathy and are so short sighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 10:23 PM
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If you have a gender that consistently has significantly lower workplace fatalities and injuries and isn't expected to fight for their country and this is consistent across cultures and countries world wide I think you can make a good case for that gender being privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 09:36 PM
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I think the whole question of "Which gender has an easier life?" depends on where you live. Name me one country in the world where the rate of industrial accidents for women is higher than that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:50 PM
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Not suggesting it is, just saying that it's the approach someone on the spectrum who's having to learn all these skills at a later age than his peers would take. Unfortunately PUA has been demonised in my opinion a bit unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 09:24 PM
3

You do realise that all these things commonly go along with autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:46 PM
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I suspect a lot of PUAs are on the spectrum. They observe what works, break down social interactions, look for differences between chads and themselves and try to change themselves and their behaviour in response.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/20 07:45 PM
1

I might prefer Jennifer Lawrence as my girlfriend but I have to be realistic and live in the real world. This just sounds like a very entitled mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 08:03 PM
1

You call this photoshop?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:00 PM
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Yah, not like there's been tons of scientific studies done on this over the years. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:52 PM
1

Kezia has some interesting stuff to say about this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xY3yC4Z8sqE&feature=plcp Her other videos are well worth a watch too.
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