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Thanks for the tips. Improving your flirting skills by complimenting people in everyday life isn't a bad idea. I'll give that a try.
/r/seduction30/10/25 08:02 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to write such a long reply. What you write makes sense. Acted seduction skills are mostly needed when there is no chemistry. This means that less acted seduction skills are necessary when looking for a serious long-term relationship. It is better to flirt in a way that shows your own personality. The problem is that you still need basic seduction and game skills to even get the chance to know a woman. Especially if you're insecure and inexperienced, you'll probably …
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:49 PM
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What do you think the difference is? Do you need less seduction skills if you want a serious long-term relationship, or more? I'm asking because I would like to have a committed relationship, but I have little experience and few skills. I wonder all the time how I could make that happen in my situation.
/r/seduction29/10/25 09:18 AM
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Whats wrong with you?
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:42 AM
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What can you do if you are inexperienced, and much too old to be inexperienced, and therefore feel immense shame?
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:08 AM
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Because it sucks to be alone all the time and see everyone else having something you don't have, even though you really want it.
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:05 PM
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. I know my approach is socially calibrated, and I’m within the bounds of normal human interaction. It's not a big deal if you're socially calibrated. If you're not, it's a big deal because you don't know what to say, your body language and voice aren't good, etc.
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:24 PM
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That's an interesting idea. I've never thought about it before. A tip from me: Have you read the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover? If not, you should definitely do so. It explains very well why we have this problem.
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:35 PM
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I have exactly the same problem. Its a terrible problem.
/r/seduction15/09/24 09:36 PM
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Is this a channel? Can't find it...
/r/seduction21/02/24 03:53 PM
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My social skills are so bad that rejection or embarrassment are guaranteed. So I'm not even considering the possibility of a positive outcome.
/r/seduction21/02/24 05:47 AM
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I am interested
/r/RedPillBooks03/11/22 02:30 PM
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Where can I buy this book? It's not available on Amazon.
/r/seduction02/11/22 01:23 PM
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How can you try a second time if the first time makes you lose your self-worth?
/r/seduction27/10/22 09:20 PM
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I am in a similar situation, but I am older than you, so it is even more hopeless for me. I understand your pain because of that. It is very frustrating and hard to bear.
/r/seduction24/10/22 03:53 PM
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I can still remember them all, too. Especially the last time. That one was extremely embarrassing and frustrating. After that, I never tried again. That was more than 10 years ago now.
/r/seduction20/10/22 09:15 PM
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In a YouTube video I once saw, dating was compared to a sales situation. Imagine you go to a car dealer to buy a car and the car salesman has a long small talk with you without talking about the car and selling you the car. What would you think? You would be annoyed because he wasted your time and you went there to buy the car, not for the small talk. It's similar with dating. If you only make small talk and don't go for the "sale", you are wasting the woman's time and she is annoyed or disappoi…
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:51 AM
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This link really is very helpful. Do you maybe have some more links to golden posts from the past? Would be very appreciated.
/r/seduction17/10/22 10:59 AM
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Is this an online course?
/r/RedPillBooks16/10/22 11:54 AM
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You could be right. That gives me hope!
/r/seduction10/10/22 03:22 PM
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Are you sure? She probably wouldn't say it that way, but think it. After that, she would probably end it, unless they are both very young.
/r/seduction10/10/22 02:38 PM
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"If you had ZERO anxiety in approaching an attractive woman, what would that approach look like?" --> If I knew that, I would possibly give it a try, despite my fear. But I have absolutely no idea what to say and how to behave. My social and communication skills are now very poor.
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:55 AM
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I agree with this. The rejection is not the main problem but the thoughts and feelings that come afterwards. They can crush you.
/r/seduction09/10/22 11:41 AM
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You're right. I have no other choice. Doing nothing and being frustrated for the rest of your life with 100% certainty is not an option. Besides, it's extremely hard when you're 80 years old at some point and regret that you never tried.
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:42 PM
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You don't mention your age. How old were you when you started this process and how old are you now? I suspect that the younger you are, the easier that process is. I'm working on a similar process, but I'm already in my late 30s, which makes it really hard. Anyway, thanks for taking the trouble to write all this.
/r/seduction08/10/22 01:17 PM
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Because I'm also an introvert, I know how hard that is and how much courage it takes. It's very good that you are leaving your comfort zone so much. I wish you the best of luck!
/r/seduction01/10/22 09:54 PM
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This is 100% correct. Up to a certain age, some women accept when you are more inexperienced than them. Once that age is passed, it is extremely hard to find a woman who will accept that, and even if she does, it will make you less attractive to her. She will never be 100% satisfied with you and will probably leave you eventually. I myself am in the same situation. I have passed that age and my options now are: either I develop sexual skills and self-confidence with a prostitute or I am doomed t…
/r/seduction27/09/22 11:06 AM
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