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| 13 | Can chemistry be created or is it something that can't be changed? | Conversation | Norpeeeee | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 11:09 PM |
| 7 | Do you have male friends? Are friendships important? | Norpeeeee | /r/askMRP | 11/05/24 10:51 PM | |
| 3 | Sexual needs in deadbedroom | Norpeeeee | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/21 12:57 AM |
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| 3 | Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority?I’m not sure, but my hunch is that sexual attraction is situational for women. They could live without sex with one guy and then fk like rabbits with another guy. This is confirmed with some stories where husbands thought their wives were almost asexual only to discover evidence of affair. So wife has a high libido just not for him. | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Unknowingly married someone with BPD (and was pressured into doing so)When I was a Christian, faith was valued over reason. Blessed are those who do not see and yet believe. And this behavior encourages "risk taking", in my opinion. Not saying it's right, but it explains some decisions. I know Christians who left good jobs to go live in a totally different area, without a job offer, trusting God to provide for them. | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/25 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it true if you are physically attractive man, women generally approach you first and make a move?I’d say there are exceptions, but generally you will not get approached by legit 9 or 10. If you are approached, then assume you are not the only one who’s being approached. In other words, don’t assume you are treated uniquely. | /r/seduction | 20/04/25 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Social SignalingMy biggest issue is inability to generate income outside of my job. I do well at my job, but realizing that without this job my income will stop, makes me feel uncomfortable and unsuccessful. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/25 03:40 PM |
| 3 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.I remember, in my younger days, the mom's of the ladies I was interested in would called handsome. But those girls never did, so you may be on to something. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | He’s handsome, in shape, has a good job—but women don’t stick around.Depends on what “good looking” means. Someone looking like Justin Bieber may not be considered as attractive to women as John Berntal or Benicio DelTorro. | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like the grass is greener on the other side?The grass is always greener on the other side, because it’s fertilized by bullsh!t. - original author of this quote unknown to me. | /r/askMRP | 30/10/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you have male friends? Are friendships important?Autistic? I wish, probably ret*rded though. | /r/askMRP | 13/05/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you have male friends? Are friendships important?Good answer, thanks. | /r/askMRP | 11/05/24 11:56 PM |
| 3 | It's rock bottom for me and I'm begging for help!Perhaps you do need help, but have you been to the gym? Lifting heavy weights changes you. It changes your mood, your outlook and your opinions. A few years ago, I was in a similar boat as you. Feeling stuck and ruminating on the past abuse, past hurts and mistakes. I wasn’t lifting and was addicted to porn. In fact, I would not even be aroused by porn. My lifts were very bad. I was weak. Fast forward a few years, I’m squatting almost every day, up to 220lbs (47yo, 220 lb body weight, and I’m no… | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/23 01:23 AM |
| 5 | My Wife No Longer Trusts Me.Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize https://archive.is/2hjQR | /r/askMRP | 26/07/23 12:05 AM |
| 5 | New to Red Pill - Life's a messDisengage. Focus all your efforts on the gym and getting your house in order. Forget she even exists for now. I agree with your point, but I'm having a hard time understanding how this can work in OP's situation. Afterall, he's coming home to this messy situation. What does he tell the kids? How does he keep the wife in check practically speaking? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What Does It Mean to Believe on The Lord?ok, if you say so. | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What Does It Mean to Believe on The Lord?Faith can be temporary as Jesus said ‘Luke 8: 13 Those on the rock are the ones who receive the word with joy when they hear it, but they have no root. They believe for a while, but in a time of testing fall away. I can’t say a single issue was the cause of me leaving Christianity but contracting message on salvation played a big part in my decision. | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/23 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What Does It Mean to Believe on The Lord?I used to believe same as you but the Bible is way too contradictory on this point. | /r/RPChristians | 16/06/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?500k is a nice salary in Chicagoland, but may not be so nice in CA. Especially considering higher taxes in CA and higher costs of houses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?Have you seen CALI house prices? in many States, 500k gets you a nice house. But you need a few mills for a similar CALI house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 01:09 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?I’d check with a competent divorce attorney if I were you. Im in IL, and based on my understanding, all assets are looked at during the divorce in my state. Perhaps there’s a chance you could get half of her inheritance too? Also, in my state, the longer you are married the longer you have to pay alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Sharing a Personal Story + Tragedy of Blue Pill conditioning, and why Red Pill saves livesLegit questions, not sure why the downvotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Discipline Your ChildrenMy dad often would hit first and then talk later. I grew up in the USSR, with my grandparents experiencing ww2. I think the war made them rough, a roughness they brought their kids with and then my siblings and I were born to those kids. My dad’s older brother was an alcoholic. I shudder to think what my cousins went through. I would probably not survive their upbringing. Perhaps I’m too weak emotionally and need to toughen up. | /r/RPChristians | 13/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Discipline Your ChildrenDid you learn not to hit your younger sister?? I would not say that I hit her, it was more of a rough play that day. Our mom (stay at home) would lock us in a kids room, which was not very big, and we had to keep ourselves busy however we could. That day went by fine, except I just had this end of day idea to throw a pillow at my sister. It was a thoughtless act, childish. I did not really hit my sister except maybe in retaliation. (I was taller than her but she had no issues with hitting me for… | /r/RPChristians | 09/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Contamination OCD is ruining my life. The synchronicites are not helping either. I’m trying to do NoFap but I’m about to lose it and start soiling all my belongings on purpose. I’m so tired of this nonsenseGood question. I’m not OP, but I’d like to hear your prescription. What is the best workout to calm someone down? Personally, I've enjoyed 5k jogs, at an easy pace. They dial me down quite a bit, but I know I also need to lift more too. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Discipline Your ChildrenPerhaps you are right. Can you share when it's appropriate to beat a child and how do you beat them to avoid black and blue? And where is the line between discipline and child abuse? | /r/RPChristians | 02/01/22 01:41 AM |
| -3 | Discipline Your ChildrenI agree with training your kids, in a way that makes them respect you. A dad can command respect without hitting their kids. | /r/RPChristians | 01/01/22 05:40 PM |
| -5 | Discipline Your ChildrenI disagree about beating your kids. This just treats them like they are worse than animals. I grew up in a Christian home, with a dad who believed that spanking was the only form of discipline. He’d hit me with a belt, with his hands. One time, I was beat so bad, my backside was black from bruising. And this was due some rough play with my sister, 2yr my junior, at whom I threw a pillow and she bumped her head on the wall. No bruising or lasting damage for her, but I must have caught my dad when… | /r/RPChristians | 01/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Sales and DiscipleshipWelcome. Our head mod /u/Red-Curious was in a dead bedroom situation for years and turned it around. He has his story somewhere on reddit, maybe he can pull it up for you. Thanks. You said /u/Red-Curious was in DB for years? That guy looks like he's in his 20s. | /r/RPChristians | 03/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Sales and DiscipleshipI think you’d be surprised. I think a lot of attraction is about mental attitudes. You could be built like a model but if you lack confidence then there will be dead bedroom. My issue is a lack of confidence and being weak emotionally. I’m easily irritated and have anger issues that cause health issues (hypertension) | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/21 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Sales and DiscipleshipI’m here to learn RP as I’m the black sheep in my (Christian) family and like the Christian lifestyle. I even attend church with my family although I’m not a member. I’m curious how you guys handle dead bedroom situations, since you can’t cheat or have “plates” like the other, secular redpillers. So I’m here to observe and to chime in occasionally. Hopefully not causing a scene. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Sales and DiscipleshipHey bro, I hope you don't mind me responding to you. I'm an Atheist, although I was a Christian and have a Christian family. Are you familiar with Street Episthemology by Anthony Magnabosco? It's basically a sales pitch for atheism/skepticism. I find Anthony's approach effective because he's not really pushing his views and doesn't really debate. But he has been successful with his approach. This is one video of him engaging with a Christian street preacher https://youtu.be/aTztSJ-0yYc | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What lifting routine do you use?how do you split your workouts? I’m curious as I’ve heard some people don’t take a rest day. | /r/RPChristians | 28/10/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroomAnd what about the things YOU are contributing to that marriage? Don't tell me you're the "good one" and that you're not remotely responsible for anything bad that happens in your marriage. Well, if my wife were here, she’d say that I’m a lazy bum, who doesn’t do anything around the house. Even though she is a stay at home mom and has not worked at a job more than a few months in her adult life. I’m the breadwinner and have a desk job. But, as I learned while being married, my wife expects me to… | /r/RPChristians | 16/10/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroomhttps://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/8jox9n/sexual_incompatibility_in_a_christian_marriage/ there’s an interesting thread on Christian deadbedroom. I’m not sure how common it is but I’d venture to guess it’s common enough. | /r/RPChristians | 16/10/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroomI get what you are saying but in the Christian culture that I was brought up in, similar to mainstream evangelicalism, sex is forbidden outside of marriage. And yet, there are unmarried women in the church who don’t seem desperate for sex. And its common for widows not to remarry. One of my aunts was very picky when it came to men, and ended up acting very needy towards the later part of her life (she passed away in her 50s I believe). So I’m of the opinion that Christia women are not as horny a… | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroomI'm here because my struggles are similar to those of other Christian men, considering my background despite of my current atheism. What did I say that made it sound like I was in a cult? | /r/RPChristians | 11/10/21 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroom>But more to the point, I'm not sure I understand your reason for considering divorce. Sure, sex is an important part of marriage but are there other problems affecting you? Is sex the ONLY thing that is bad about your marriage? lack of sex is the biggest issue. But it comes with other issues, such as lack of respect for me. wife and I were not truly a good match. I married her trusting God to take care of my needs. In fact, I wanted to break the engagement and wedding as I felt like I’m makin… | /r/RPChristians | 09/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Sexual needs in deadbedroomThanks for your reply and for the kind words. I’m too far gone from Christianity to even begin considering it’s truthfullness, tgh. And at the end of the day, if there’s a God, then he just watched my childhood without intervention, which makes him responsible especially when the caregiver is sincere in their faith. if you don’t mind answering, what is your mission and purpose? Also, my understanding of red pill philosophy is tha it involves getting sex. What do Christinians red pillers do when … | /r/RPChristians | 08/10/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Just broke up with gfWhat really fks me up is an idea of eternal hell. fear of the unknown. Is it possible to overcome this fear? I feel like this is my biggest issue at the moment | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Just broke up with gfYour response struck me as very honest and down to earth. I’m not the OP, but I identify with the weakness. How does one deal with life’s troubles like a man? What practical steps would you recomend? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?> She says she cant leave me right now because she is a stay home mom and I am the breadwinner. unfortunately for you, this may actually be the best time for her to divorce as she has no income and is owed spousal maintenance/alimony. Not a lawyer, check with one in your state. Avvo.com has specialized attorneys who can answer your questions anonymously. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/21 12:54 PM |
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