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| 3 | How to tell if it’s your looks, your personality or both?As long as you take care of yourself, you should be alright. Most men don't think about looks as much as you are thinking, meaning that you don't have to be a top model to be attractive enough. Getting asked as a joke sucks. I understand it can undermine your confidence. But life changes a lot in your 20s. It's a different stage in life and you have to relearn that you are as valid for dating as anybody else. Eye contact and confidence are related. When someone is talking to you, try to make eye… | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 07:46 PM |
| 6 | How to tell if it’s your looks, your personality or both?Regarding your looks, the only way to know is by seeing a picture of yourself. Regarding your personality, well, what's your personality like? Are you shy? Do you make eye contact? Do you smile? What are your hobbies? Do you have interesting stories about your life? | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever recovered from LJBF / no romantic feelings?This is probably the best response ever. And it did work for me as well. Distancing yourself and carrying on with your life is the best pproach. Not only for women, but everyone. I think it all has to do with the feeling of "he's orbiting around me"; if someone feels like that, they'll push you away. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 08:26 AM |
| 2 | GhostedAct like nothing happened and move on. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 07:03 AM |
| 9 | How to trust a womanSeek a therapist if it something serious. Otherwise, learn how to keep your frame and still be vulnerable | /r/seduction | 10/03/24 10:13 AM |
| 7 | How do I make our convo less one sidedJust stop | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Rejected after first date/kiss closeI never say how much I like them and always try to play it cool. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How can I meet with a girl that I only see in public and is always surrounded by people?King, this one is easy. Get any chance to talk to any of the foreign students and ask them where are they from and get introduced to their group. You don't need to focus on talking to her directly, she just needs to notice you talking to someone from her group | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 03:50 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withDo not talk about feelings with women unless they bring it up. Always keep a safe distance. You're friends, but not close friends. Then when you meet escalate. Grab hands, touch arm, etc. Escalate if she's receptive, etc | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach is not seduction. Just because she gives you her number doesn’t mean she likes you or wants to see you again.Connecting emotionally takes time. It also takes two parties to do this. You tell her cool stories about your life and she does the same. Start by recent stories, things you have some recently. Then every now and then tell something you did some time ago. Ask her questions, listen to her, and make interesting follow-up questions. Challenge her with your questions too. i.e. a girl I was talking too was complaining about her manager lashing out when things went wrong. I replied "many managers have… | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach is not seduction. Just because she gives you her number doesn’t mean she likes you or wants to see you again.Literally just be cool | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 11:57 AM |
| 29 | Girl only texts me when she wants but got pissed when I did the same?She was using you for attention | /r/seduction | 15/02/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn’t care if you are rejectedYou can always improve, that's for sure. There's no one-size-fits-all neither | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Why you shouldn’t care if you are rejectedYou have very good points and I agree that presentation is important and will increase your chances of not being rejected. However, I feel that thinking there's a problem with your presentation just because someone rejected you, and thinking that the problem is you and not them, is also unfair. Imagine a scenario where you have an impeccable presentation. Someone may still reject you because of their own insecurities. Think about people with anxious/fearful avoidant attachment styles. Yes, worki… | /r/seduction | 14/02/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I studied seduction men to women. Anyone knows women to men?Can you give some tips about that? | /r/seduction | 19/12/23 09:46 AM |
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