| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 28 | SHARING A STORY | North-Permit-1021 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 11:42 AM | |
| 10 | DIVORCE | North-Permit-1021 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:58 AM |
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| 2 | How am I supposed to be expected to just give it all up?A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Wife emptied main liquidity account and rerouted her payThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Communication With ExThat sounds disorienting — especially when things shift without explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:38 AM |
| 1 | For those with kidsKid'slove never change as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Divorce after repeated infidelity – kids, house, winter timing. How do you get through this well?Pal thats rough, I do really hope that you will get thru this | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Gratitude is the Antidotethanks for sharing dude! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/26 06:12 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you can't count on your partner to communicate with the kids in a healthy way?Road ahead will be a tough battle, but trust me you will get out alive . Divorce only changes relationship for both of you and STBX , but kid's love man it never change and it last | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Please help if you have experienced anything like thisThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | I not copingGlad to see the community helped you brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | In an amicable divorce, how did you cut your emotional ties?Damn that sounds hard, I remember when Im feeling lost right after my divorce , its super bad when I think about it | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:46 AM |
| 4 | It’s over, we wonCongrats pal, you handled it very well | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:43 AM |
| 3 | STBXW - Threatening to take children - GeorgiaPal I am very sorry to hear that, at this point you kinda remind me of myself when I was dealing with pure hostility and toxicity.. there are structures out there that can help ya get clarity . Stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Being Honest About My Asexuality Didn’t Protect Me in Marriage — I Was Outed After Divorce.Pal that was tough, I cannot comment anything but congratulations for moving on., not everyone can do that | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/26 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Any other men here feel like you were left for dead?A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/26 01:41 AM |
| 2 | First thing you did when you got the engagement ring back?i feel like crap at first , but I had to deal with it and ended up just selling it cause it has no use | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Fundamentals: Tips for Meditationthanks for the insight man | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/26 03:03 AM |
| 1 | For any dad who’s been carrying a lot lately/alwaysThanks for this brother, my prayers to all other dads as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Post Divorce problemsPal.. I am really sorry that you are in this situation.,I hope you have at least documented what was said between you guys | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 11:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you find shit to do?Part of being alone is getting bored.. divorce really sucks anyways but you can maybe try new things .. I have tried fishing when I was going insane and lo behold I loved it afterwards | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with the decision of whether or not I should divorce my chronically underemployed wife.Its not gonna be easy to open something like divorce to your spouse , but if you really think that its not working then think about what will happen next, having structure can help as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 11:10 PM |
| – | In need of advice...That sounds hell man, but I suggest that you tell your brother to post here himself .. this community will help him for sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 11:06 PM |
| 3 | When the divorce was done, what did you do ?I did focused on the kid afterwards. . I think it depends on the situation,, if only one of you wants a divorce then grieving will be next , otherwise its a celebration | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Worried about maintenance and custodyDivorce really changes everything but Im confident that its not gonna be that bad for you based on what you posted | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:57 PM |
| 4 | CrushedMan thats very tough.. specially finding out that there's already a 3rd party while we still have feelings left for the woman.. what I did before was focus on the kids first | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Where have you traveled alone?what do you seek anyways? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Where have you traveled alone?It really depends on the hobby that a person has, i love fishing so I didnt had to travel far | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Dads who balance 50/50 and looking after parenthuh | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Feeling lostA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. having structures to get you some clarity will do you good for sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Telling the kidsThat is the hardest and devastating part man.. it will not gonna be easy and you will be surprise how aware kids are sometimes, but one thing is for sure ..their love will never change even tho divorce changes almost everything | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:28 AM |
| 2 | It's finally done 😌You are out of the fire now.. moving on is gonna be hard.. finding the right structure will help you thru out the process | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Parental Timehavent been thru that but i am rooting for you either way | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Separated after 22 years — scared I’m making a mistakeThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Normal to be depressed?A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Anyone come out NOT broke?having structures helps , so you won't have to guess what will happen | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Dads who balance 50/50 and looking after parentThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/26 12:15 AM |
| 1 | For any dad going through divorce who knows he really triedThat sounds disorienting — especially when things shift without explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Making friends after separation/divorce -cook something or order and try to share it with em.. thats a start for me hah | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Sensation your children live in two different worlds between you and other parent...A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 02:17 AM |
| 2 | I’m getting used here rightThat sounds disorienting — especially when things shift without explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Leave or stay?Man thats tough, I know its confusing but if you dont wanna lose custody just try to leave in some apartment for a while | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Birthday partiesA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Moving on too fast?You are not crazy for feeling that. . during my divorce i was even hiring hookers just to cope .. ur not alone so stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Strange Behavior Question as regards MLCA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Disabled wife divorcing meYou guys already consulted on some financing expert? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:42 AM |
| 0 | Advice on how to respondThat sounds disorienting especially when things shift without explanation | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | So I guess this is itThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Advice-Separation SorrowsThat sounds disorienting — especially when things shift without explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Opinion/ 2 centsdamn this is really heavy and messed up | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Separated, living together, house sale? Kid involvedThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Ripped the bandaid off. Feel alone on an island.That’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 2 | I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her jobyk when you told her that she's better than that but she still did it anyways | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Dating - tried, not ready. Tips?A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:48 AM |
| 5 | I found my ex wife in sexually explicit promotional materials for her jobThat’s heavy. specially when you still care about her for giving her a good advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:46 AM |
| 3 | RegretMan thats tough , finding help thru AI is not that bad but it will let you hear what you wanna hear only | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Looking for advice and some reading materialA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/01/26 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Divorce while being on disabilityMan damn, so sorry to hear that . . | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Staying in an unhappy marriage for my childNot sure if she can just take her away entirely. . as for me it was 50-50 at first when it comes to custody | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Keep the faith. I'm moving on. Life gets so much better.have a safe journey and thanks for your service here! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Feeling myself backtracking on leaving her… Advise meA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Divorce trial done, final judgment and wage garnishment.i know its tough to choose rn man but congrats on winning | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:19 AM |
| – | Help methats tough man, hang in there | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:17 AM |
| 2 | AntagonisticThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Advice on Way Forwarddamn, sorry pal that sounds rough, been thru worst before so hang in there please | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:02 AM |
| 2 | First time out.be free, go with the flow but do not take anything serious quickly | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 4 | Caughtsorry to hear that man, i hope you feel better soon | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Beware of all DVPO consequencesThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:57 AM |
| 1 | 33 divorced dad of 3. Need advice.Thats tough man, I guess even a small apartment would do imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Need advice help with buy outA lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:53 AM |
| 3 | Small success today!!!Congrats with the success man , I suggest having a structure to help you after you move out .. I am happy for you anyways! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:46 AM |
| 6 | I'll have a relationship with her for himLots of dad experience the same thing somehow, stay strong! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/26 03:44 AM |
| 2 | So, I gave myself a Move Out DateThat’s heavy. Sudden escalation can throw everything off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Potential family plan.That’s heavy, her doing sexual affair even if you guys are not yet divorce is crazy imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Complicated Divorce Ahead - Advice?that is tough man but hang in there | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Complicated Divorce Ahead - Advice?A lot of dads describe that fog early on. You’re not crazy for feeling it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/26 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Seemingly hopeless situationThat sounds disorienting, especially when things shift without explanation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/01/26 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Divorce allegedly finalGood luck on the next step ahead | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/26 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Crushed worldman your points are valid.. going thru divorce changes a lot of people and that will include you later on , I remember feeling unsure what mattered and what didn’t at that stage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Legal Custody questionsDm me man.. i will share something that might be able to help ya with this | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Decree violationsI'd say do both man..,in that situation i think she is intending to do it all the time since you are not doing any action,, there are always limits to everything | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Not sure the flair choices? Either way success stories seems to fit for thisVery well said brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Just got into it…Brother.. i feel you i have been there and had to go 2 years of battle just to have full custody.. yeah your wife is a demon but please understand that your kid is just a victim and not in any fault at all | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "quiet" in the house?I did some fishing, tried video games to have other people to talk to .. watched some stand up comedy and most important is visiting and hanging out with relative and friends once a week .. and an online course to help me cope as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | STBXW is 'relieved' that divorcing is concluding, I am desolate.Hey man stay strong.. i have been there before.. hookers and alcohol just to cope , therapy and whatsoever . But when i realized that I am just breathing and not living .., I seek and search for help thoroughly .. i luckily found one and i have been ok now and ready to date and give it a go again | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:09 AM |
| 0 | Get a therapist.Therapy helped me a at first.. but then realize its just a waste of money .. a course i found on how to deal with shit during and after divorce saved me a lot of money | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with a high conflict combative ExI remember feeling unsure what mattered and what didn’t at that stage, but i found a course that helped me deal with that .. so stay strong ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Today is going to be toughMan for what its worth, you might be alone but at least you are with a cheater anymore . I understand its lonely and frustrating , It’s hard when things shift quietly and you don’t know why | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Exhausted dad trying to do this the right way and could use perspectiveMan that was tough.. i have been there and done that .. and during the divorce I searched and luckily found a course that helped me even after the divorce were final so stay strong bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Solo surgeryHey man i know its tough, have you tried asking family members like bros/sis or live with your parents in the meantime just so they can assist you in little ways at least | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | finance sanity checkI suggest you hired some financial expert about this , but imo it seems unusual | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Legal Custody questionsi do have the full custody , but depends on how old your kid is you guys should talk about on who decides on what | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Home Buyout QuestionHey man go seek help.. I know its confusing but hire an expert regarding this.. the tax that will appear later can mess you up | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:28 AM |
| 5 | Here we are again... drunkI seek hookers and alcohol as well man, but i did my best to help myself and luckily found something that works . But I started watching stand up comedy online and it helped me cope as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Hired a LawyerHey man that was tough, but glad to see that you are at least sure on what you are doing. . some guys i have talked to just goes thru divorce or separation blindly | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Need some opinions on what I should offer in the divorce that's fair but doesn't leave me strapped.you are doing the right. salute to you for being so fair | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Need some opinions on what I should offer in the divorce that's fair but doesn't leave me strapped.Man for me your offers are too much and she does not deserve a damn of it..,I am no lawyer and I cannot offer legal advice but you are more than fair base on what you wrote | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 03:02 AM |
| 4 | AI is scary good at explaining things while I am going through my divorceMan going thru divorce clearly sucks and I understand that AI helped you somehow , but remember its just man made , regardless I am rooting for you so stay strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I just need someone to talk toOh man dont ever ever let someone hit you, thats a sign of toxicity .. but yeah not knowing what to do will mess you up , but you are not alone in this battle .. just focus on the kids for now | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Advice on filingHey man I know the feeling of concerns, i suggest that you prepare yourself first, when i was in your situation I have gone a course online that help me prepare myself on what to do next and also on how to move on after the divorce is final. Do not just go blind imo | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | contact after divorceif it only involved the kids , otherwise no more | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:50 AM |
| 2 | The more you and your spouse can talk and negotiate your own settlement, the more time and money you will save in your divorce.I do agree with that.. I understand that lawyers and therapy costs a lot and it sucks cause nobody wins at the end. there are lot of alternative on how to be prepared out there, I have used a course that helped me and shared it with other dads. Luckily it work out pretty well so go try some alternatives brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Moving to unit in same houseif your son will be living with you there will only be pros in my opinion otherwise nobody wins , divorce changes relationship so imo the best thing you can try is getting your kid/s to love you more cause if you dont love the mother anymore .. then you dont have to consider her just go , at least thats what i will do | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | What do I do here?That was tough man but we have to follow what the judge says.. its fucked up yes and you should see your kids all the time. . I have been there and have to battle 2 of hell just to get the custody , so hang in there | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Safeguard your irreplaceable items.Divorce sure ruined all of us, mine was losing my kid but I luckily get her back.. I can buy new dog or new cars but the kids man.. the kids are the most precious | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:32 AM |
| 2 | If I could talk to her one last timeNice positive thinking man. I know how it feels missing someone you loved for years, go get her back brother if you feel that it can be fixed | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:27 AM |
| 10 | Struggling to accept realityI know how it feels man, not seeing the signs until its too late.. I'd say let her do her thing if she wants to be alone, you just focus on the kids and do not even show them that you are not ok , stand strong | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 02:17 AM |
| – | Virginia separation date living under same roofWhen i was going thru my separation , we didnt set up any date.. i just left as soon as I can | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Divorcing because of infidelity. But why do I forget that?I am so sorry to hear that brother.. it will be so hard to forget cause we cannot accept the fact that other men got ahead of you if you know what i mean , it is a different situation when we're the one who got cheated cause for us that is not the norm and it really is hard to imagine.. but nevertheless you will still forget that but it will take a long long time my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:38 AM |
| 3 | After 15 years, I am in a dark place.You are absolutely in the right here brother, if she doesn't care on what your demands , I suggest you get a lawyer if you really thinks that your relationship cannot be fixed. Big salute to you brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Seeing the ChildrenOh man thats plain awful, you have every right to see your kids, the court might favour all her demands but its really impossible for them to just plainly agree for you to not see your kids at all , unless you are serial killer and a cannibal then i dont see the point | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Thinking about taking the plunge - financial considerationsYou will be better off sure you might lose a ton of money but ask yourself if being inside a toxic relationship is worth not losing money, but once you decided to do it then be prepared as it will be a tough road ahead | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Question for you guys who did care about family members on her sideMan imo you should just show up in person .. us men intend to just keep it ourselves most of the time , im sure the guy missed you as well just cant say it maybe because he also respect his daughter | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:07 AM |
| 4 | This isn’t about you or your wife, this is about the law.Peace brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:02 AM |
| 3 | It wouldn't be so bad if there was some level of truth.for money and reputation as well .. cause if you are known as a lawyer who wins lots of cases , that means more people will be interested to hire you and that means more money and good reputation within your colleagues | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 03:00 AM |
| 3 | It wouldn't be so bad if there was some level of truth.at this point man lawyers are well known to do that.. even if they know their clients are guilty they will still defend them and I experienced the same when im going thru divorce ,,but if they cannot provide evidence and then let em lie.. even tho its frustrating | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | It is finishedThere's really nothing about divorce that can make you say congrats as nobody does win, there are lots of help out there that helped me specially the one I have been using recently | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Is your self worth in the toilet?I have been in a similar situation before.. if you will read my story i even look happiness in hookers brother but since i found help i realize that loving yourself as well is not impossible , we as a men tend to just give it all and when there is nothing to give to we will feel heavy and down ., but you are not alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Divorcing narcissist wifeOh man tough times are ahead but when your spouse on thinks about herself at all and not you means the love is dead. It sucks and frustrating at the same time , but love yourself and your 2 year old kid for now my guy | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Mediate?Be prepared my guy, tough road is ahead and imo chatgpt is great but always remember that its AI i suggest you ask a human instead if you want suggestions since chatgpt has never been in a divorce situation lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:15 AM |
| 4 | It wouldn't be so bad if there was some level of truth.Lawyer's job is to do whatever they can legally to win, they will cook you in any way possible and thats what a good lawyer do sad to say , but yours will do the same anyways but still frustrating for sure | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Just IncredibleIf it was the other you will be straight up going to jail, reading this really frustrates me like how can someone do that. In my opinion I don't think its about money since you mentioned that she almost makes twice that you do I think she hates you so much that she will do everything to ruin you | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:52 AM |
| 7 | My storyRoad ahead will be tough my guy, divorce is not easy it will change you in both good and bad way . What happened was tough specially that all has been told during NYE . Love yourself for now and think about your daughter and do your best to give her all the love you can as our kids are the only ones that we can never ever replace | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Divorce parties.Yep they really do | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:33 AM |
| 1 | What are your distractions?I do play video games sometimes, I eat my favorite foods and hangout with friends once in a while . It was really hard for me at first , the memories with almost made me a cry baby but I did research and found a course online that helped me moved on and I really do feel better right now | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to balance accept versus hopeBy the time it gets to therapy its way too late, be prepared and ready to face it instead , there are helps out there that can help you deal with it but doubting to do it cause you are not a quitter is like saying I will never quit smoking cause im not a quitter , let go when you need to let go | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Feeling Invalidated for Years - she moved outI am really sorry to hear that, it really sucks when someone you love told you that she only want the kid , its really not a good way to treat you like an instrument to make baby . but hang in there you have a community that can help you deal with it | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 05:05 AM |
| 3 | How do I copeI am very sorry to hear that, i know its confusing and frustrating at the same time my ex also told me the same thing before . No matter what I do she will always say its not enough or I dont want that and its too late for that Was confuse at first but I just realized that she doesn't love me anymore so I loved myself instead | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Moving out todayI am sorry to hear that man I was roughly 15 years in when my wife left me, but it wasn't so amicable because of mental health issues. All I can say is if you need help speak up, and you've already done that. You have a whole brotherhood behind you that is willing to do whatever we can. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Recently separated - Found an STD testing kit in out home.man that really sucks , i mean std? the first thought that comes to my mind is how many men did she body bagged already , but still I dont know her so just sharing my thoughts but going thru divorce will be tough so stay strong brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.haha based! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Ex-wife’s boyfriend loves to talk shit and taunt.Do not take the bait man, that guy surely has plans and would be happy to take a punch if it means you will be ruined or so he can sue you etc. i guess you should just talk back and wait for him to punch first :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:16 AM |
| 1 | STBXW is buying me out of our house. What are the pros and cons of me moving to the town next door where housing is cheaper? We have three kids that will be splitting 50/50 time.Divorce changes the relationship — but it doesn’t have to change the love your kids feel. If you are that concern I suggest you take him to school back and forth 12's still a kid imo , i'd say that there's only cons when you are not together with your kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Children and after school activityThat sucks dude, imo your ex should do her part and not just abandon it, but maybe there are reasons who knows? but it sucks anyways | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/26 04:09 AM |
| 2 | A letter for my wife...Hang in there man, first step is admitting your mistakes . Salute and respect man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Make sure your marriage is over before you start pursuing a divorce.Totally agree with you there as some people go thru divorced just cause they are mad or been carried away by their feelings, I'd say try to fix it as much as you could before checking out | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 02:11 AM |
| 1 | CA Divorce condo pet no kidsdo not just walk away mane cause assets acquired during the marriage are often considered marital property, with laws varying by state , and yes you can hire a lawyer as I am not sure how it works on different state . I am rooting for you :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | How are you improving your social life post divorce?Was an empty piece of a shell before , I did research online on how to deal with post divorce ,,found one that helped me a lot and of course with the support of my family and relatives , just dont turn in alcohols etc. whenever you feel down, time itself will do its work | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | What system are you guys using to document everything without losing your mind?I was the same when I first started the process on how to deal with hearings etc. I just saved record of conversations as much as I possibly could and gone thru some courses online that helped me big time | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | 3 nights on a couch because she changed the locksMan you should seek legal help for this , i mean changing lock is one thing but not allowing you to see your kids personally is straight up abominable , only the court can decide whether you can see your kids or not, you are not alone but I understand its frustrating at this moment | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Divorce court tommrrowMan, having to deal with divorce sucks whether you have disability or not and people outside your life making the situation worse is just straight up awful, now you got to defend by yourself,, just always remember that you aren't alone I am rooting for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Would this have helped you after divorce?Thank you for sharing this I have been a mess myself, hookers and alcohols when my ex wife checked out .. I was just breathing and not living at all but luckily found a platform that helps men like us to get better ..its pretty solid ..I am now better and financially stable again after 7 months of battle | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Wife, soon to be EX wants to sell our housebeing married means you share material things equally but assets you bring into the marriage generally stay separate unless you mix (commingle) them, but assets acquired during the marriage are often considered marital property, with laws varying by state on how they should be divided so yeah earnings during marriage should be consented with each other as far as I know | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | This must be the breaking pointI should double check first with a coach man , for me maybe there is another reason why she lacks energy when it comes to you , not saying you are doing wrong and forgetting about your birthday just really sucks | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | IncidentYou absolutely did the right thing man, as a father we are the one who should protect our children and I always tell myself that I am my daughter's first love and my son's first hero , trust your gut man and always protect what's important I am rooting for you | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 11:25 AM |
| 1 | I need a sense check - second guessing myself and spirallingI understand the struggle man, I was a poor partner myself that just could not get it together. I said hurtful things when I was triggered, wasnt there when she needed me to be, looked at women lustfully on social media (didnt ever reach out but I did look) and I lied about things I would change that I never did until it was too late and she was checked out. One step at a time is all it took , and luckily i have found help and got to move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Made appointment to see a lawyerI get you man my wife left me in April but decided to breadcrumb me throughout the separation period. Our divorce was finalized about 3 weeks ago and the next day she blocked me, said I was trying too hard to get her back and that she doesn’t have anxiety when we don’t speak. Later that week it came to light that she was bringing another man to a concert that we were supposed to go to and also a few of my friends had been trying to get with her behind my back throughout the separation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/26 11:01 AM |
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