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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | She still uses Tinder. Does she see me as an option? How to proceed? | North_Dog7366 | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:30 AM |
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| – | She still uses Tinder. Does she see me as an option? How to proceed?Hmm good point. Well she might have time during the week to see other people casually. Maybe I'll set a date with someone else some time during the week next week. In case this girl turns out to be a "regular" on Tinder. I don't want to be serious with someone like that. I'm not even using protection with this girl - I know, I know Lol. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 02:17 AM |
| – | She still uses Tinder. Does she see me as an option? How to proceed?I don't want to initiate exclusivity talk. I believe women should do that. Coming from a man it sounds needy - don't you guys think? I actually wish I had it in me to talk and date multiple people at once. I'm not sure I'm built like that. Would be nice. But I'm with this girl during all weekends. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 01:40 AM |
| – | Am I in my own head about the 2nd date idea?Why didn't you kiss? It's your job as the guy to make that happen. If you get rejected do 2 steps back and 1 step forward: back off, take it slow and try again the next date. Don't try to BS her into coming over to your place with activities when you know you want sex, and she knows it too. At the end of your next date invite her over for a drink. You need to make your intentions clear and lead the romance. I've always went for the kiss during the 1st date AND invited her over. And even though I… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:22 AM |
| – | How do I set a date the bestDon't flake on her just to show you're busy. That'll make her ghost you. You don't have to message anything during the day of the date. Maybe a text like I suggested at most. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:18 AM |
| – | Maintaining InterestHow long are you waiting before you ask them out on a date? How many texts each around? On dating apps you need to ask for the date pretty quick. Girls hate small talk on there. Meet in person. The ones who dont want to meet mostly just want attention, in which case you would never be able to meet them anyways. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:14 AM |
| – | How do I set a date the bestNever remind the girl that the date is coming. Never never never. This gives her an opportunity to flake and think "well, do I really want to go out with him?" and shows that you might be used to people flaking on you. Instead of confirming the date this way, send her on What'sApp the map location of the place you're meeting the day before, or something related to the date like "We'll meet in front of X". For filtering out the women seeking validation I think it's good to ask them out within 2-4… | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:07 AM |
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