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Wow. I almost didn't read this for fear it would say the exact opposite. I am not an addict myself but can tell you based on my education in psychology, experience with Al Anon, and experience with people who have been in AA, you've hit the nails right on the heads. AA is a horrible program. Its made for men and does not consider women at all. Its based on non scientific, religious shite. There are other ways of seeking support (secular in person groups, therapist led support meetings, internet …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 04:58 PM
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Many therapists, particularly the good feminist ones, offer sliding scale payment. I know my therapist does lots of pretty much pro bono work. Perhaps you could search your city and "therapist sliding scale" or something? Sorry I can't be more helpful. All I can offer is solidarity. I have no contact with my family of origin. Even therapy ime will not fix your normal, primal desire for a family. ❤️
/r/askFDS12/01/22 09:42 PM
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Thanks! I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 05:28 AM
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NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 06:47 PM
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it’s clearly stated in the New Testament that God hates liars, manipulators and those who take advantage of others. What a strange turn around from all the god approved or caused baby killing, genocide, slavery, beatings, child rape, etc. in the Old Testament. Also kinda weird that Jesus specifically and repeatedly said that every letter of the OT still totally counts. And that the NT only includes women as whores or virgins. Like everything about the Judeo-Christian god is actually just awful a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 05:13 AM
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Yup 🎻💧🤕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 02:41 AM
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Shaming women for men being POS? Nah. Get help with your internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 05:53 PM
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Yes. When someone asked a group of men in a domestic violence program (so more serious offenders) how long into the relationship they start abusing, they agreed they usually wait 18+ months to make sure she can't get away. So kindly stfu about your "HV" man of less than a third that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:00 PM
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The whole thing where they pretend that women are the ones who came from the body of men is just too much for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:03 AM
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Why go to church? If your god is into that, why are you worshiping him? He sounds like an incompetent ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:02 AM
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All of the Abrahamic religions are based in patriarchy and require maintaining an abusive relationship with an imaginary being. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:00 AM
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Women get punched by men all of the time though. They're upset at the idea that someone once held a door for a pregnant woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 12:35 PM
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You're a rape apologist. Disgusting. Everyday, babies in diapers get raped. Unconscious people lying in hospitals and homes get assaulted. Men rape inprison, in schools, in alleys, in classy hotels, in office buildings, courts, bars, playgrounds. They rape old people, young people, naked people, people in suits, powerful people and poor people. The only thing that all assaults have in common is someone doing the assaulting. The only sure way to prevent rape is to not rape. There is nothing you o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:33 PM
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Did you really just say that women who experience date rape should have picked better? WTF is this victim blame-y shit?? No. Rapists do not wear labels. Only rapists and predators are responsible for sexual assault and rape and violence against women. Consent to sex is not consent to what ever the fuck the person with you feels like doing. You need help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:05 PM
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Yep. That's not pick-me behavior, its survival.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:34 PM
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🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Here, take all the red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:43 AM
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Faking pleasure is often a way for women to end things quickly without the risk of violence. I kinda hope this was share by a teen who's too young to know. Don't blame women for the shit behavior of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:08 AM
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I'm sorry if I misunderstood what you were saying. In the US, we have a political party entirely dedicated to preventing things like research and access to education/food/health care and social services and whatnot for the explicit purpose of making obscene amounts of money off the suffering of others. Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:20 PM
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I don't know why you're asking me if I forgot Epstein. Its a particularly shit question to ask me though since I was a victim of a similar case. So no, I certainly have not forgotten. The horrors of child sex abuse are with me every waking moment if you must know. How does what work? Usually, as an undergrad you study psych or sociology or anthropology or whatnot and then in graduate school you get more specific. I took an undergrad course on the psychology of dictators and another on the psycho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:31 PM
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? That's not how the field works. Psychologists who study porn or genocide or serial killers or sexual abuse of children aren't shunned or stigmatized for wanting to understand the shitty parts of humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:31 AM
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On fucking point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:33 AM
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You have provided absolutely no evidence to support your outrageous position. There is as much evidence for any of what you said as there is for my idea that left handers are trying to take over the earth. It's not nit picky to point out that you don't seem to have a basic, elementary school level understanding of science or biology or sociology or anything other than typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 10:51 AM
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Well now you just sound stupid. Evolution doesn't have a "point". That's antiscientific. Gibberish. Clearly you haven't watched enough nature docs. Since we're comparing humans to animals though...did you know that most mammals eat their placenta? Oh and also any young that don't look like they'll make it. Better get your knives out hu?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 10:13 AM
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Because you said so? Lol. I can say things too. Left handed people are actually aliens trying to infiltrate our right handed human race. I'm not sure where you copied and pasted "apex fallacy" from but this isn't it. Is there some reason you don't go get this power yourself? Must be lazy af or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 03:10 AM
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Poor women have a good life and power? Where do you come up with this shit? Take your meds. Fyi, you too could have this "power". Just let men fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 02:58 AM
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This is not you. This is how it is sadly. So many mental health professionals are qualified in only a technical sense. Your best bet is to find someone who is highly recommended. Do you know people you could ask?
/r/askFDS05/10/20 10:57 AM
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Start to be a good person again after slipping into a life as a victim Being victimized doesn't mean you are a bad person. At all. These are not related. You didn't "slip into" being victimized. Bad people chose to hurt you. They are 100% responsible for that. The beginning is self compassion. 💙❤️💛 Therapy can help.
/r/askFDS05/10/20 10:57 AM
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Do you think FDS is noticeably changing the dating scene in the US? If so, for what age groups? I've been wondering about this. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:03 PM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:21 AM
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The vast majority of men are poor and unknown. Are you saying that the majority of men have a choice and choose to be poor??? Lmfao. https://www.worldbank.org/en/news/press-release/2018/10/17/nearly-half-the-world-lives-on-less-than-550-a-day
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:08 PM
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Wealth isnt proof of power, it is proof of powerlessness. 😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Now I've heard everything. I'm dead, done, overcooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 12:01 PM
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All hail this queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:31 AM
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Fucking thank you. I love this space but the internalized misogyny needs addressing. The idea that anyone who doesn't leave is a pickme is laughable but still perpetuated here. Women stay because they want to stay alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:17 AM
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No where in the definition of the word "reward" does it say "to not fuck over" or anything or the sort. Words have meanings. Lol that you think I owe you shit. You created the OP with not one citation. You don't get to demand any thing Mr Irony.. I'm sure you can use google. Nothing in your OP or comments is about men raising the children they create. Less drugs perhaps..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:19 AM
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Where did I say “women owe “nice” men something. Right here... The point that I’m trying to make is that if you do not reward the men... You're so uneducated about this topic, its difficult to even respond. I don't have the desire to teach you basic life stuff and you clearly need to learn a lot. Men are hundreds of times more likely to experience actual rape from another man than to experience false accusations from a woman. Why aren't you worried about getting raped? Anyone more concerned abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 08:18 AM
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Yes, you most certainly said that women owe "nice" men something. Ridiculous. How are women "fucking men over"? Where is your evidence? The preponderance of scientific evidence shows that sex, dating, marriage, reproduction, even just existing near men is dangerous for women. Men do not experience this same risk around women. Ya'll should stop perpetrating violence against women, children, and yourselves. Men can and are also being raped, and assaulted Almost exclusively by other men dinghus. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 08:22 PM
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What in the actual fuckity fuck did I just read??? This has to be terrible satire. OP can't possibly be serious, I forbid it. Under his fuckin eye. Women are not sex vending machines. The idea that we need to do anything for men is laughable. We don't "despise" lvm. We really don't think much of them at all. The only party getting "fucked over" are women who risk assault, rape, pregnancy, infertility, single parenthood, etc. by being with a man. If the reason you're treating a woman respectfully…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 10:35 AM
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Expecting women to predict the future actions of other people is not "agency". You're using the word incorrectly. Embarrassing. Have you always been able to predict your own life path? And those of others? If so, just go be a psychic and get rich. Why wear a seatbelt if you might still die in a car crash? Why wear a mask if you can still transmit the virus? Why look both ways when crossing a street if a plane could crash on top of you? If you can answer these questions, I believe you can underst…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:52 PM
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Other than women who are trying to commit child support or welfare fraud The entire concepts of "welfare queens" or women having children to get money are based in racist, classism, and misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:27 PM
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Look at you blaming women for not predicting men's future actions. Lmfao. Men have much less responsibility and just as much choice as women. Unless he was raped, he made a choice. He didn't trip and fall into a vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:24 PM
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Did you, a man, just write an entire post un-ironically about what women want? 😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣 I'm fucken dead. Mansplain me harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 10:01 PM
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Fucking thank you. Finally a great FDS post that addresses internalized misogyny without blaming and shaming the victim. 🏅🏆👍💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:53 PM
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Abusers escalate. They typically start out doing the things you're talking about. Many times victims don't realize just how high the stakes are until they try to get away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:44 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mind-games/201909/the-number-women-murdered-partner-is-rising https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/full/10.1089/vio.2019.0005
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:19 PM
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I'm sure you mean well but the fact is that telling women just leave decreases safety. That's why DV advocates and others who are educated on the matter don't do that. It comes with it's own body count. Please don't perpetuate this idea. The right time to leave is when the victim feels able to do so safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:16 PM
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I kinda get the point she's trying to make but realistically, in the US, 4 women per day die at the hands of their male intimate partner, many trying to leave. This number doesn't even include those who have already left or the children killed. Her statement comes from a place of privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:57 AM
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When these women complimented you, did you feel worried for your safety? Men's unsolicited "compliments" to women come with risk of harassment, stalking, assault and worse. As a very intelligent person once said...men are afraid women will laugh at them, women are afraid men will kill them. Edit to say that I disagree with those who say women don't like compliments because they're about sex. I like sex and am happy to receive compliments from gay women because they don't make me feel unsafe. Bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/20 11:35 AM
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Going to watch this now. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:07 AM
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Yes. I also notice a lot of nOt LiKe OtHeRs GiRls shit. Which is really just internalized misogyny and sad but I wish it weren't happening here of all places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 11:57 AM
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When I was in like 2nd grade someone told the class that if you made a wish at exactly 11:11 and said 1, 2, 3, FLICK! it would come true. We all did that for about 6 months before mutually deciding it was bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:13 PM
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This comes across as pedophilic and misogynistic as well. No one over the age of like 14 regardless of gender thinks that, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:11 PM
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Now I want to bake and eat a whole cake. Damnit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:11 PM
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Being into any of the major religions is a huge red flag because they are all patriarchal in nature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:22 PM
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It's been so long, I had forgotten that this happens. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:15 PM
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The Matrix Fight Club The Hangover There's Something About Mary American Pie American Beauty Braveheart Any rom-com Any movie about a serial killer or domestic abuser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:22 AM
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Can I just say how much I appreciate this non shamey post regarding motherhood or lack of. Seems to be a hard thing to find these days, even around here. Shitting on women for men's bullshit only helps men. Also, Rihanna is a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:17 PM
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Trauma doesn't make someone LV. Ever. LV is not getting mental health treatment, not taking responsibility, treating others badly and trying to use trauma as an excuse for hurting people and in doing so, creating more trauma. HV is going to therapy/groups/providers/meeting/whatever, taking responsibility for yourself, and never using trauma as an excuse to harm others. You say you "very recently returned". There's no rush. Work on yourself. Follow some of the advice given to the women here perha…
/r/askFDS16/08/20 10:43 PM
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I think you're missing the point though. Would that woman expect you to give her pleasure while acting like doing the same for you was gross? You would never tell a woman that because women don't act like this. If a man expects you to service him sexually but he shames your body, thats not because of trauma or low sex drive. That's because he's a fucking asshole and possibly not actually straight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:56 AM
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😂 Yup. Thanks for sharing that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:09 PM
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Anything that isn't self destructive or destructive to others can be HV imo. I think that's possibly what redbird meant. Obviously, there are some activities we would all agree are LV like cat calling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:14 AM
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I understand that the list isn't meant to order us to do these particular things. But I would argue that reading the bible is actually a LVW activity unless you're reading it to better learn how to turn it around on people who might try to subjugate you with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:12 AM
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Not to mention lots of infanticide, rape, child abuse, oh and talking animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:08 AM
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Not sure how studying a book of god sanctioned patriarchal human atrocity is hv but I appreciate the rest of the list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:07 AM
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Just yesterday, some dude on here tried to tell me that you don't have to be a man to mansplain and that I was mansplaining patriarchy and the subjugation of women to him. 😂 I wanted to quote him mansplaining mansplaining to me here but the dickbiscuit deleted his shameful comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 08:10 PM
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These little boys feel entitled to us. So when we tell them they won't be having us, it feels to them like an insult to their person. As though someone was telling you or I we couldn't have air to breathe or water to drink. And they are panicking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:47 AM
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You support yourself? Uh, ok. I would hope so. Its easy to be cool with joking about a disenfranchised, subjugated group that you are no longer a part of. I know. That's my point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:34 PM
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Babies should be cancelled Should probably work on basic reading comprehension a bit before trying to correct others. I hope people who think bigotry is funny think I am not and stay faaaar away. Just as its not funny for men to joke about cancelling women since that actually happens, it's not funny for adults to joke about cancelling kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:16 PM
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Plenty of parents treat their children like property. Much of the child abuse in the world happens at the hands of parents. I'm not sure that's a good defense. The equivalent of saying you have a black friend. Lol. At this point, the alcohol seems to kick in and I'm having a hard time reading whatever you meant in the middle here. If you don't know what "cute aggression" is, google can help so you don't make a fool of yourself. If pointing out that its not cool to joke about "cancelling" a disen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 07:08 PM
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Probably not a good idea to "joke" about ending a marginalized group though ya know? I have MAJOR cute aggression so I get that. Punch up, not down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:20 PM
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You don't have to want children. Saying any group of people should be "cancelled", particularly a group that is marginalized and abused all over the world, is disgusting. Would you feel comfortable saying the same about POC or people with disabilities? Children don't choose to be children. Don't be a bigot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:37 AM
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Yes but I am replying specifically to this comment in which you correct the OP. It doesn't need to be corrected because all women are worse than pedophiles. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:34 PM
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I mean, I'm white passing, battling for my life and my kid's lives against a violent, drug addicted stalker pedo (who happens to be a POC) in the courts and I have been demonized for something as wild as showing up early to meeting once. Racism sucks but you don't have to be non-white to be shat on in this way when you are a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:33 AM
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Yikes. Just say "i'M a pEdoFiLe" and be done with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:04 PM
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but I'd like to know who promotes this kind of thinking. Do you watch porn? Congrats, you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:01 PM
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DARVO. Deny your own abusive behavior. Attack the victim. Reverse the victims and offenders to appear justified and human. Load of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:58 PM
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so if he judges me for it great, trash took itself out No, not great. He gained social standing/value and you didn't. You took a much bigger physical risk as well. If you find out that you're pregnant in a few weeks, only you are fucked. It's an interaction that almost always benefits men and rarely benefits women. Read the handbook. I have to say that your constant insistence that you are a woman makes me doubt it. Editing to add that your insistence that if you don't like the sex you just end …
/r/askFDS30/07/20 01:04 PM
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Sounds like woo-y magical, just-world thinking to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:04 AM
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Don't fucking try to tell me that I can't be mad at people that abused for me years for their own sick pleasures... Dumb pieces of shit. I feel this to my core. Thank you for taking the time and effort to post this. Being abused as children doesn't just mean we had a shitty experience. It changes who we are forever. We can be angry until we are whole and there is justice. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:10 PM
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Lol. Perhaps you live on some other planet where women aren't killed every day for trying to get away. Victims try to please abusers to mitigate abuse and prevent tragedy. Telling them to just leave is terrible advice that comes with a body count. Your rain analogy is awful. If I get wet in the rain, I am not left with lifelong effects of trauma. There is nothing intrinsically bad about rain. There aren't social system designed to protect the rain and re-victimize wet people. People who see that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:17 PM
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I responded to your comment piece by piece so I'm not sure how its possible to have missed it all. I get that you think you are on my side but I am telling you that the bullshit you are spreading actually helps perpetrators. Your intentions may be good but your words are harmful and endanger everyone. Intention is only a part of the equation. Impact matters. Anything that removes 100% of the accountability from perpetrators doesn't contribute to safety and in fact, creates danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:23 AM
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I know that we don't know each other so this may be overstepping but I still feel sure of this... You didn't make yourself an easier target. Having experienced trauma can make you an easier target. It's not your fault that you experienced trauma. The effects of trauma are real and long lasting and they don't signify personal weakness or instability. They signify that someone hurt you. I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:04 AM
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If people want to tell themselves that, then it is their onus, not ours. What? People aren't just "telling themselves" that. That's the problem. Right here, survivors are being told that. These harmful myths endanger literally everyone. That rape victims aren't believed doesn't effect you...until someone rapes you. Have you heard the phrase “Fool me once That's not how abuse works. The "fooling"that goes on is a trap that the victim can't get out of with out risking their life or the lives of ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:00 AM
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Yes, exactly. It's a load of disgusting garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:46 AM
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I think some people need to tell themselves this crap so they can sleep at night thinking they are doing the things that will ensure they are safe so all is well. The reality is not so. Safety is not created when women leave or learn the signs or whatever. Not that there's anything wrong with these things but they don't stop abuse. We know from research that safety is created when perpetrators are held fully and completely accountable for their own shit on every level and that includes socially.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:51 AM
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Ew, no. This is victim blame-y nonsense. There is nothing you or anyone could do to make me use/abuse/assault/rape/kill them. Predators will spend years learning how to get away with it and honing in on a victim. Victims don't "allow" anything. Children, people with disabilities, the very elderly, the neurodiverse, etc. are at greater risk. Are they just "allowing" it more? That's nonsensical. 100% of the blame lies with the user/abuser/assaulter/rapist/murderer. Shit like this removes accountab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:43 PM
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OP I think you're using the term "himpathy" incorrectly here. Himpathy refers to the excessive sympathy men and particularly male sexual predators receive. It has nothing to do with men only caring about women who they get something from or feel they have possession over but we need a term for that too. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:03 AM
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I think you're lost. This isn't a place for New Zealanders, its a place for women. Women don't have less value based on where they are born. Thats's borderline racist-y, nationalist xenophobia. AOC is a fucking queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:05 AM
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Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez for president!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:59 AM
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yOu'Re NoT lIkE tHe OtHeR gIrLs He might as well just say he actually hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:51 PM
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Porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:31 PM
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Thank you so much for this post. I am a victim and seeing people on social media act like Epstein is a fun mystery makes me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:20 PM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:20 PM
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Is this like Schrodinger's date? Gaslight-y af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:44 PM
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Well said. And also that at least as many women had bad childhoods but still they aren't killing their intimate partners or raping children. Almost like the bad childhood is not the cause at all. #nametheproblem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:34 PM
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Ungrateful for fucking what though???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:42 AM
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It's almost like they just hate women. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:44 AM
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All in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 06:52 PM
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Because many men feel that women aren't entitled to take up space. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:02 PM
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Thank you for sharing this. Gotta love the insight and honesty from Lundy Bancroft.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:55 AM
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I tried to watch Fleabag but it was too real and depressing and I had to stop. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:49 AM
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Now it just seems like you're purposely pretending you don't get it. The issue is not being scared and choosing not to have a medical procedure. No one gaf about that. The issue is expecting your partner to have a more invasive, painful, riskier procedure because you are scared for yourself. It demonstrates a lack of normal human empathy and compassion. Again, if that's not your situation, that's great, this wasn't about your situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:08 AM
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Read the third stanza again though. He's specifically talking about women who are asking for a tubal because their husband won't consider vasectomy because they are scared. Happens all of the time. If that's not you, this isn't about you. I don't mean that in a nasty way, just literally it's about other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:21 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding the OP which is specifically about men who won't consider vasectomy but expect their partner to have vaginal sex and make sure there's no baby. A man having a vasectomy has no bearing on whether you have a tubal. Your response is akin to saying "all lives matter". We know, but that's not the point. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:02 PM
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Thank you OP. These posts are so needed in this space where at times, I wonder if the hatred towards women who aren't there yet is greater than the disgust toward the abusive, violent, nasty, small men who create these issue for their benefit. There is nothing you or anyone could do to make me abuse them. Only perpetrators are responsible for their shitty choices. ♀☮♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:37 PM
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No, all we actually know is that the person who committed the murder says he did it because a woman made him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:45 PM
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Mental health issues are never an excuse or reason to abuse others. Many, many people who have struggled with mental health issues (the majority in fact) never abuse others. Abusers abuse because they choose to. Empathy doesn't fix abuse. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:01 AM
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The problem with pretending that victims are ever to blame for their abuse is that you're just wrong. There is nothing you could do to make me abuse you, no rose tinting so thick. Also, some people are more likely to be victimized for reasons outside their control (disability, neurodiversity, previous abuse, etc.) so it's extra shitty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:30 PM
6

See the rules. Dgaf if you or the OP personally enjoyed my answer. I am not here to please you.
/r/askFDS16/06/20 09:33 PM
13

What's going on is that women are being subjugated at their expense and the expense of children. The patriarchy is losing its grip just a bit (see the flocks of people leaving organized religion). What about "MALE POSTER" says "disregard"? Lol. Lack of privilege is not oppression though if you're used to having privilege, it can feel like it. You literally did ask questions and I tried to answer at least one of them. You're welcome. Yet you're still trying to make yourself out to be some kind of…
/r/askFDS16/06/20 05:34 PM
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If you want to quickly debunk the idea that women will only reproduce with the tallest, richest, most handsome men, take yourself down to any elementary school event and have a gander. Those dads all found some woman to reproduce with and they are nothing special: beer bellies hanging out over their socks and sandals and heading off to their boring normal people jobs after. So yeah, cry me river.
/r/askFDS16/06/20 09:47 AM
12

Yes. Victim blaming only strengthens abusers. There is nothing you or anyone could do to make me abuse them. Tired of the victim blaming that goes on here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:57 AM
28

Every time I see cOmMuNiCaTe, I have to say it in my head in that voice. Just cOmMuNiCaTe, aka blame yourself for him treating you poorly. Happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:18 AM
12

I'd bet a lot his mommy was cooking for him prior to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:20 AM
19

You'd think that if family meals were so important to him, he'd have learned how to cook. It's almost as though he dgaf about a family meal and what's really important to him is a woman serving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:44 AM
18

Damn it! I typed out this great response just before comments were locked.... YTA. This may come as a great shock but.... She doesn't owe you shit. Not her food or her time or her home or her energy. Wtf are you bringing to this table? Certainly not your charming warm personality and insight. You act like you purchased her. She is not for you. Her life is for her. Lmfao that you call her "lazy" when you can't be bothered to make your own damn food and seem to think clicking "cancel" is some grea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:34 AM
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YES. Many ideas simply aren't worthy of consideration or respect. It's the Paradox of Tolerance. Dangerous people want to gaslight the rest of us into thinking that if we don't accept their kinks or religious ideas or bigotry or what-have-you without question, we are the problem. No, fucking no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:53 AM
12

No need to try to make the victim sound like the bad guy though. She is not the reason he's a shitbag. Logic like that keeps women locked in relationships with asshats and it's also incredibly illogical. He is responsible for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:08 PM
2

You do know that its waaaaay more common to not be a complete loser and have a spouse than to make 300k/year at 23 right? These aren't comparable. Being married is not hard to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:36 AM
1

nOt AlL mEn!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:34 AM
9

Yes, this is fast becoming just another place for pick-me's to not-all-men and shit on women who are experiencing the patriarchy differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:25 PM
3

Lol, from your link... I do however think that some of the things women post as high value traits are not that at all. They are baseline good manners and proper etiquette. Yes, they are positive signs but not actually indications that a man may be HV. The bar is so horribly low that women are excited about and praising men for doing the bare minimum. I think it's important to keep their behavior in perspective. and Most of the society (including many of us, unfortunately) is unknowingly biased t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:56 PM
4

If a man doing it is HV and a woman doing it isn't, you aren't "balancing" anything though. You are perpetuating the imbalance. Yes, pretend I'm "triggered" if you must but stop perpetuating the idea that men doing basic shit is HV. It's not and this harms women and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:51 PM
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The express purpose of this group is to uplift WOMEN. "Balance" is literally not a part of it. Read the rules. Things posted here should be for the benefit of WOMEN. This doesn't do that. Additionally, its actually a fucking put down to all the mothers out there (on Mother's Day weekend no less) who do this shit day in and day out with zero respect or recognition. This is not the place for praising men. This post supports a culture of devaluing the work that women do. From the FDS rules... "We d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:16 PM
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🤦‍♀️ Could the bar get any lower for men. This is the last place I should expect to see this crap. Please stop it. Stop calling men HV for simply doing normal shit. You are perpetuating the problem. I have zero personal interest in trains, sports, fashion, or reptiles but these things were important to my kids so like any normal, halfway decent parent I took them on a real train, learned all of the rules of soccer and researched associated head injury risk, learned how to sew and found a second …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 09:36 AM
10

At this point, I can't even tell if you are kidding. I hope so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:44 PM
15

We also bathe in the blood of rapists and dance naked in the woods on solstice. You should come sometime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:36 PM
8

Only at the full moon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:33 PM
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I was just assuming there are a bunch of pearl clutching baptists reading it or something. 😉 I thought most FDS women would prefer the Satanic Temple tenants over other religious shenanigans but I guess not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:26 PM
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WHOA WHOA fucking WHOA. I'm a Satanist. Satanists are lovely fucking people. Do not disparage satanism please. https://thesatanictemple.com/pages/tenets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 09:40 PM
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Victims know on a deep level that leaving is dangerous. When leaving becomes less dangerous because perpetrators are held accountable, we know safety is created for all. Judges, attorneys, the police, social workers, all of us MUST hold perpetrators full and solely accountable for their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:29 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to express this. 💚 I know it's cheesy af but you speak for me and so many. I knew for years that I had to leave but also that I couldn't. I know either he'll die or I will, he will never let this go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:27 PM
12

He thinks "Trump is a shrewd politician & business man". 😂 That's all I need to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 08:59 PM
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Everyone, regardless of age or gender, is far more likely to actually be sexually assaulted than to experience false accusations. Anyone more worried about the false accusations is basically just announcing that they know they are rape-y af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:04 AM
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The strangest part is that it was written by a man. 😳 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 06:21 PM
11

I think that the only time that guy pretends to care about "actual sexual abuse" is when he's using it to try to make a member of a marginalized group stop talking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:08 AM
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Reminds me of the wonderful children's book The Paper Bag Princess. Actually, now that I think about it, that book is like an intro to FDS for the very youngest. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:02 AM
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When I read this I lol'd and then quickly remembered that actually doing stuff like this makes me afraid some guy will physically harm myself or my children. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:30 PM
9

😊😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:03 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I did try a few times to stare back (and I've been told I'm no stranger to a bitchy face) but then I swear their expression changes from creeper-stare to serial-killer-ogle but maybe thats just in my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:55 AM
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I really want to do this but I'm terrified they will take any attention as evidence that I want them. I can tell my kids are becoming aware of these men staring and I want to make it stop. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:04 AM
5

The title literally says "A Poem by Frida Khalo"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:10 PM
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Google is telling me she didn't write this at all. :( Which is unfortunate because I like it! https://www.truthorfiction.com/frida-kahlo-leaving-is-not-enough/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:46 PM
2

Exactly. Most women in these situations know it's bad they want out. Stop telling them what they already know (which is actually harmful) and start helping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:45 AM
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OP, I know you mean well by saying "please leave". But in actuality, this isn't helpful at all. Victims know they are fucked and they know that leaving is very dangerous and they are just trying to survive. Women leaving is not what actually creates safety. What creates safety is consequences for men. If you want to help, do whatever you can to hold perpetrators accountable and lift women and children's voices. Stop pretending women leaving is the solution to men's violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:03 AM
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Just another way to blame women for the shitty choices of men. As though marriage is the key when in fact, many married men do not care for their offspring either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:28 AM
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I'm living in constant fear of a violent stalker who fantasizes about torturing and killing me and my kids. I have asked countless people (cops, dv advocates, therapists, DHS, etc.) for advice like this and no one will tell me shit. I'm assuming because they don't want to feel somehow at fault when he comes for me. I am going to fight like fucking hell. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:32 AM
63

Next up...the Nobel Peace Prize! But seriously, congrats!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 10:46 AM
-1

Your Nigel sounds just darling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 08:59 PM
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Yes but I do appreciate these pictures. They are slowly chipping away at the wall in my mind. Ha. Perhaps just not mentioning the wall in the post would be good?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:45 AM
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And frankly, also women without standards. Like as though women are just always wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 12:58 PM
10

Its almost like religion is a tool of the patriarchy or something. Who knew a belief system in which a woman comes from a man and a girl is impregnated by your god could be used as such. The bible contains outlines for how to get and keep slaves, how to kill women and abuse children. Anyone who looks to it for morals is going to have some serious issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:19 AM
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I have pointed out sooo many times over there that men talk over and for women and then wonder why no women will fuck them. It's not a mystery to me what is occurring irl. I tried leading those asses to the water but they won't drink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:54 AM
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It is a bit strange to tell others "don't do this thing that I am doing right now". 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 11:42 AM
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For now until the end of time, whenever this issue comes up, I will always picture rapist Brett smug pansy ass fuckin Kavanaugh and his ball sack looking whiny face. Like "WaaaaHHHHH! ThEy WoN'T LeT mE hAvE tHe PowEr aNd ItS nOt FaiR!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:44 AM
1

Keeping you open as an option is not "one detail". It's a major red flag of a bigger problem: he doesn't value you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:16 PM
1

u/bristows24 This playlist has helped me get the fuck out of bed during an extremely trying week. Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 11:40 AM
2

Women who make men *you* wait for months just don't like sex *with you\* There, fixed that for ya. I drive by the ice cream shop pretty much every single day. And I LOVE ice cream. But I don't stop all of the time and get ice cream. In fact, I haven't purchased any there since last summer. Doe this mean I must be lying about liking ice cream? Perhaps, I get my ice cream elsewhere. Perhaps I'm taking a little break from ice cream to focus on other things. I am not a fucking animal and I consider …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/20 10:46 AM
2

Lol at you telling me what to do and trying to get personal. I call out victim blame-y bullshit when and where I see it and this is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:23 PM
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I'm responding to exactly what was said. Privilege is when you think something isn't a problem because it's not a problem for you personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:19 PM
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Lmfao. Objectively, you can't prevent future trauma because people do not choose trauma. It doesn't seem like you "overcame" anything, it sounds like you're in deep denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 11:16 AM
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but decided I will never become a victim again. See, thats your victim blamey bullshit though. Vicitms do not choose to be victimized. Thats ridiculous. There is nothing you could do that would make me abuse or assault or rape you. Because we are each responsible for ourselves. When you pretend victims have a choice, you are blaming those who suffer for their own fucking trauma. See here....NO, fucking no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:50 AM
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Yikes, gross. Mental health doesn't work by magic. As with physical health, some people have to do very little work to be healthy. Others will struggle their entire lives to achieve a basic level of wellness that they just can't. Some trauma is in fact too big to just "move on" from. This is some ableist pick-yourself-up-by-your-bootstraps, girl-wash-your-face garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:46 AM
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Paglia is a raging misogynist. Nonsense and word salad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:24 AM
1

What? Lol, what fuckboys provide emotional support and clean your home? It’s okay to take care of someone with the flu when it’s actually part of a reciprocally nice relationshipl though. Fuckboys are never "reciprocal". Thats kinda the point of the OP. Again, literally no one is saying life should be a tit for tat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:23 AM
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Women do the majority of the work for a minority of the wealth, property and power on every single continent. The OP is 100% correct. No one, regardless of gender, has a right to the use of another person in this way. Literally no one is complaining about doing an extra couple nights of chores when someone has the flu. Just fucking stop with the victim blaming nonsense. No one is stopping men from doing their fair share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:47 PM
1

Oh sweetie, its not "kids these days". This may come as a great shock to you but....people have been doing the sex in all kinds of ways besides PIV for millennia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:14 AM
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then don't have unprotected vaginal sex Fixed that for ya. Pretty difficult to get knocked up if you aren't putting semen near a vagina. Still very possible to do the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:49 AM
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PSA If you are a male and you choose to put your dick in a vagina, you are choosing to possibly have a child(ren). Because facts, and reality. If you didn't know before, you certainly do now. You are welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 12:47 AM
3

Signed up for Spotify for the first time just for this. I've been wishing for this very thing for months. Thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 12:10 PM
8

I fantasize about someone going down on me and then saying something like that. Damn. Life goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:47 AM
6

Any good internet resources on self defense? All of the local stuff near me is taught by machismo-looking dudes and I'm not interested. Already have the weapons but I wish I were more prepared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 12:41 AM
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HO....LY.....SHIT. What in fuckin tarnation did I just read. Dear Juno/Aphrodite/Ostara/Kali/Isis/Freya, cure me of my attraction to human men. I beg you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:45 PM
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One of my biggest fears is wasting months dating a guy I think is HV only to find out he doesn't get off on on eating me out. Like I have nightmares about this. Is there an indicator light I can check on the first date or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 01:58 PM
0

So you're saying that something magic does occur when a person reaches their 18th birthday that suddenly makes them less vulnerable. Rrrright.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 01:07 PM
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Lol, then why the f are you trying to correct me? As I said... Children's vulnerability doesn't magically end the day they turn 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:59 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 12:25 PM
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"One side effect of teaching one gender to outsource its pleasure to a third party (and endure a lot of discomfort in the process) is that they're going to be poor analysts of their own discomfort, which they have been persistently taught to ignore. In a world where women are co-equal partners in sexual pleasure, of courseit makes sense to expect that a woman would leave the moment something was done to her that she didn't like. That is not the world we live in." https://theweek.com/articles/749…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 11:43 AM
1

Treating other people as a means to an end and an object is disgusting and dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:58 AM
1

You sound like a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:56 AM
0

Non predatory people don't seek out the most vulnerable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:55 AM
1

Jfc. Didn't make it through 3rd grade maths hu? The day before you turn 18, how old are you? Are 17 year olds children or adults? I can lead you to the water but you'll have to drink for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:55 AM
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They are vulnerable just as people with disabilities or other types or trauma are. Of course they should date; non predatory individuals. Seeking a relationship with someone who is vulnerable and has less power is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 11:49 PM
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Considering that many children grow up in abusive homes their entire childhoods, "dating" someone freshly out of that situation when you're 30+ is clearly a major imbalance in power and red flag for abuse. Children's vulnerability doesn't magically end the day they turn 18. As others have mentioned, it's always the low lifes who can't date women their own age who try to to do this. Predatory af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:42 PM
5

^still 18 and doesn't realize that he won't think and feel exactly as he does now for forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 10:38 PM
1

And my point is that while you feel my definition fails, I and the professional organizations in related fields disagree. I'm not concerned with your personal feelings on the matter, random internet man. You can redefine terms all day long in your own head. Literally no one cares. There are people who think the earth is flat and vaccines cause autism. I don't take the time to argue with them either. Factually speaking, if there isn't consent, its rape. I'm sure most rapists don't like that. Beho…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 08:18 PM
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The definition I provided was written by researchers, doctors, attorneys, etc. That you think you know more about sex is laughable. Definitions aren't created around your life. The purpose of defining consent isn't to please you. I could not care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 11:17 AM
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Never was it said or implied ever that most men are rapists. You and others say that to derail the conversation. Literally no one thinks all men. You don't even have to say bUt NoT aLl MeN again. We know. We've always known. Thank you Cpt Obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:42 PM
1

Those are links you've copy and pasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:36 PM
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Look, you're a liar and/or crazy. Don't know, don't care. But I'm not going to say you're right when you're wrong. https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/sexualviolence/fastfact.html Why bring up male victimization in the first place when the topic at hand was women being victimized? wHaT aBoUt tHe MeNz yeah yeah I know. Pretend like you actually give a shit about rape victims and not baselessly demonizing women and we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:15 PM
2

I mean if someone got on here and wrote a diatribe about unicorns and fairies, I'd say "lol" to that as well and for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:08 PM
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Wrong again hun.... Also from the CDC "1 in 14 men was made to penetrate someone" Still not close to 1 in 5. You must be fucking terrible at math hu? Wow are the perpetrators in nearly all cases? Men. 99 out of 100 approximately.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 09:00 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 08:58 PM
2

WOW. Freudian. Never said or thought about "homosexual desires" though yes, many men do repress those. If your theory were true, gay men would be the biggest danger to women. But they aren't. Its cis het men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:43 PM
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You're just pulling shit out of your ass and typing it on the internet now. Directly from the CDC... "Nearly 1 in 5 women and 1 in 38 men have experienced completed or attempted rape"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:05 PM
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If you think that someone attacking you will just let you leave, I'm not sure what to say. It doesn't happen until it does. Saying "this horribly thing hasn't happened to me" like it means something is ridiculous. Many women have not been allowed to leave situations that made them uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:04 PM
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Neither is there anything forcing him to continue to pester someone. Only one party is behaving poorly and its not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:01 PM
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Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:08 PM
1

I really hope you're fucking joking. No one has tried to stop you, until they do. Are you suggesting other women don't have this happen? No one thinks "all men" but thank you for coming to their defense of the poor sods. When women get attacked they're told that they should have been more careful. Here you are saying they should stop worrying. Like the only way for women to be in the right is for them not to get raped. Lol. Here's a novel idea....everyone is responsible for themselves. If you ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:08 PM
1

Unless she says "No, maybe later.", this is not ok. Those saying it is should consider in what other life situation it would be socially acceptable to ask someone the same question over and over without reason. It is a hostile and aggressive way to interact socially. When you do it in regards to sex and someone else's body, waaaay over the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 05:02 PM
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Lol, look at all these boys scrambling to figure out how it is that they can't actually show you examples of what they say is so pervasive. Its "complex", women are "indirect", "subtle". Lol. This whole thing is a way for men to continue to act like they don't have feelings, some about other men. As though they only have one emotion and that's wanting to get their dick wet. Its ironic and sad that there are men commenting here doing this very thing. Complaining that women won't help men with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 01:19 PM
2

They tried to force you to cook and clean for them?!?! Like domestic slavery? I am so so sorry. Have you gone to the police? Perhaps the media? You have internet access right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:44 AM
2

So no, you can't provide even one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:33 AM
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There are crazy members of literally every group. There are no feminist groups that profess only men should do basic life tasks. I doubt you can even find an example of a single feminist person who claims this. You just made it up. Lame. 0/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:32 AM
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No, it doesn't. You're making up extreme silly shit and attributing it to feminists, an actual movement of people with a list of important accomplishments.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:21 AM
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Many extreme feminists these days claim that women shouldn't learn how to cook or clean their homes because it's a form of male oppression, and that men should do it instead. Lol. This isn't happening of course. Everyone needs to learn life skills. Feminists are more likely to teach those to their sons, who lag behind girls in this area. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ehw7gr/rp_menare_these_women_actually_cleaning_your_home/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:19 AM
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W....T....F is wrong with men? Grow up and clean your home. If guests are so disgusted they're doing it for you, that's a sign. This isn't a gender thing, this is a you're-a-slob thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:15 AM
1

No, its not my job to figure out vicariously through reddit if a specific situation is consent. Anyone who pretends consent is hard to understand is a liar and likely a predator because my 6 year old understands it. You do realize that thats not my definition right? Get consent (as defined by the government, the UN, the WHO) or put yourself and others at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 10:15 AM
1

Is this comment meant to be ironic or something? As a Swede, why do you turn a blind eye to the Muslim invasion of your country and their actual rape of your women, yet you continue to browbeat your effeminate men into being more effeminate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:27 PM
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So you're telling me that Planned Parenthood, the UN, the WHO, etc. are unaware of how sex works but you are? Uh hu. Sounds perfectly reasonable. Its not the purpose of defining "consent" to ensure that you have an enjoyable sex life with your ex. The way you're presenting this is bizarre. Also, as has already been pointed out, if she consented, there is no issue. If she didn't consent, boo hoo, you didn't get to rape someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:59 PM
2

YIKES. Blissfully unaware that women who don't want to be having sex but find themselves there anyway, fake enjoying sex to make it end. This is so embarrassing and you just keep going.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:49 PM
2

If you read his other comments here, its pretty clear that the only sex he's had was rapey af.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:55 PM
1

Bodily autonomy is not comparable to a dinner. Thanks for coming to my talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:52 PM
2

Well I'm not a Swede so I'm not sure what to tell ya. Not sure why you're so threatened by effeminate men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 04:20 PM
2

Well...you're wrong. Multiple men on this very thread has specifically stated that women can't say no or that no doesn't mean no. You say that consent isn't necessary so my big gay friend is stoked!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:38 PM
1

What? No, its my response to idiots who suggest women don't have a right to say "no". If women don't, neither should men. I hope you like it rough and raw cause my friend does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:33 PM
2

Ok, great! My big gay friend here has read your non-verbal cues and implication in your language and he can tell you want him to put it in your butt. Ready?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:27 PM
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Damn, imagine being this unashamed to admit no one is excited to fuck you. I only have sex with a partner who's enthusiastic about it. I've never had a problem with men or women. It's like you are the issue. If not being able to rape your wife causes chaos, let the motherfucker burn bitch!!!! Do you inform your sexual partners prior to that they are giving up their rights to their own body by consenting? Thats not even legal. I can't imagine anyone ever agreeing to that even if it were. No wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:26 PM
2

I didn't read any of that but that last few lines. Lmfao that you think anyone cares what you, a person who thinks rape is fine, think of how they raise their kids. Hey gay people with rape fantasies, silverfox is waiting for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:17 PM
2

Is your point that if you only have sex with people who enthusiastically consent, you'd be having less sex and therefor, consent is a bad idea? Lol, ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:15 PM
2

What? "really really Real Raped" is not a real thing. You just made that up. Rape is rape, as defined by the UN, the WHO, governments and medical organizations, etc. I don't want or need your patronizing apology nor does anyone benefit from that. What you could do is stop supporting rapist by pretending only some of their crimes count. Frankly, stay the f away from women. You sound dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:27 PM
2

So if my big gay friend wants to put it in your butt and you say "no", he doesn't actually have to stop right? Because it "isn't black and white" and there are "shades of grey in this complex situation". "Courtship" is about "persuasion" and he wants to persuade you with his dick. You might be saying the words "no" and "stop" but he can hear your "tone of voice" and knows you like to "play hard-to-get". Science shows that men love games. Men's libidos are tied up in a challenge and fight. Whats …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:01 PM
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Getting fucked on a party where she did not say "no" is not that traumatic. Literally, this guy just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:23 PM
7

Anyone. regardless of gender or age, is far far more likely to be sexually assaulted or raped than to be falsely accused. Anyone more worried about the later might as well write "predator" or "rapist" across their forehead. There is no logical reason to take this position unless you know you're going to be accused. I see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:07 PM
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It's not complex, nor is it a problem if you know what consent is. If the person is saying "no" and you don't STOP, its assault/rape. There is no grey area. Rape is not "an inability to communicate". That's rape apologist bs. I'm not at all sorry for calling it out. The rights to ones own body and to determine what goes inside of it are pretty fucking black and white. You don't get a vote for someone else. Again, NO means NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 01:03 PM
1

Lol. You've added nothing to this discussion. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:15 PM
4

This is incredibly illogical. The real consequences of sex for women are physical and not magically reversible by thinking you said "no". I've been raped and had to have an abortion. Then I had a bad reaction to one of the medicines they gave me so I was super sick and had trouble walking for the better part of a year. I was fucking screaming "NO" and "STOP". Wasn't much of an out though hu?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:13 PM
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WOW. OP you sound like a prospective rapist. Anyone here who isn't sure that "no means no" needs to get educated before they hurt someone and find themselves in jail. CONSENT is Freely given Reversible Informed Enthusiastic Specific "No" is not consent. "Maybe" is not consent. "I guess so" is not consent. If you're having trouble getting women to enthusiastically consent to sex with you, leave them alone and work on yourself. If you're telling yourself that women need to be cajoled or convinced,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 12:08 PM
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I argued just fine. I can lead a horse to water but if its too stupid to drink, I'm out. You just sit and ponder on what the connection might be between women feeling like men are a danger and men not getting laid as often as they want. Or not, whatev, I'm done explaining and your willful ignorance is not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:52 AM
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You are slow af and likely emotionally stunted. Normal people know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:51 AM
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Hey everyone, if rus passes out at a party, feel free to put whatever inside him, If he can't say "no" and you don't cause permanent damage, you're good to go!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 11:44 AM
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If baby can't have some candy, no one else should have any candy either. Just hearing about another toddler having had a lollipop is enough to set some little ones off. That's what this is. Also, there's a lot of self hatred, misogyny, a desire to gain a little bit of control, and sexual shame involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 02:55 AM
2

Because trying to leaving an abusive spouse is dangerous to women's and children's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 08:41 PM
1

Jfc, slow as molasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:29 PM
1

You're confused. I'm not comparing law enforcement to anything in the dating market. You suggested there be some special "enforcement" to help you get laid and I'm saying zero of my fucks are given until some more "enforcement" happens to protect women and children and even men from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 05:04 PM
0

Lol. I'm not your internet mommy. Nor is this a scientific journal, you are not a jury of my peers. If you wanted to verify how many untested rape kits sit in storage, you could very easily google it yourself. Thats what I and other responsible adults do when someone shares information and we want to verify it. "Blissfully unaware" is of course not the same as "blissfully aware of another's suffering", it's the opposite. You are "blissful" because you haven't had to deal with this issue personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:41 PM
0

Your entire position seems to be "nuh-uh!"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 12:21 PM
10

Usually, I fucking hate "positivity culture" and anything that could be associated with it. But the positivity here in this group is just right. 😊✌️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 12:05 PM
1

This question has been asked and answered in this very sub numerous times recently. If you're interested in learning about how sex is riskier for women, you can use the search bar or google or pub med. Sorry, I'm tired of doing this work for random internet men. Nothing is stopping you from educating yourself other than yourself. Lmfao that you admit your abuse was "minimal" yet here you are bringing it up on the internet, telling someone who nearly died more than once that they can't let go. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:51 AM
2

No, creep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:47 AM
1

You are replying to me I believe. MY point is that men are safely wasting their time and women are risking their health and lives. These are not comparable. Just stop, you're pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:32 AM
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I appreciate your patience. I just do not have the emotional energy for explaining why getting raped is way worse than worrying about getting accused of rape today. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:30 AM
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There is nothing abusive or unethical about choosing to date a lot or not get married. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be with someone. Not every negative emotion you feel means that some great atrocity has been committed. jfc. I am not your therapist, get one. I am talking about abuse and assault, having to risk your fucking life to go on a date, not high school heartbreak. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:25 AM
2

Like, I aspire to be an old women with cats and books and good weed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:19 AM
0

People are allowed to leave relationships. Thats not what I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:18 AM
1

Literally do not care. You know whats actually unfair? None of the people who have assaulted me are in jail. That is actual injustice. Are you blissfully unaware that there are hundreds of thousands of rape kits just sitting in storage rotting in the US?? Or that 40% of US police are SELF REPORTED domestic abusers? There's a problem and it's not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:17 AM
0

I just don't see this happen much. I'm bisexual and women just don't seem to want to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:14 AM
2

I'm not black, thanks for asking. I'm not a "reject", I happen to be typically "hot ". Not sure why that fucking matters though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:13 AM
2

As though ugle, short, poor men do not use women as well. Ok. Lol, do non middle eastern women deserve abuse? Random. Dgaf if you call it "peaceful", I've experience sexual assault multiple times. Thats not peace. I know many other women who have had similar experiences, in America. You seem really uneducated on this topic. No, I think not having sex doesn't compare to the risk of abuse, assault, rape and murder that women face. When sex is safe and enjoyable, perhaps women will be more interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:13 AM
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The "mechanism" for the vast majority of those issue is men. Its fucking hilarious that you think the solution to your "problem" is an "enforcement mechanism" and instead of applying that to the issues of assault and murder, you say I should learn more and rectify it. Lol. So you want systemic help in getting your dick wet and women should get rich if they don't want to worry about being killed. What???? That makes zero sense, any way you look at it. I can't even give you a real response because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 11:09 AM
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Wow, no. We want men to stop wasting years of our lives. We want to stop living in fear of abuse, assault, stalking, rape, and murder. You sound worried about getting your dick wet. Which is fine but not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:36 AM
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FUCK THE PATRIARCHY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 02:17 AM
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If you think FDS or any self respecting woman is about upholding current social systems, I want a hit of whatever you're smoking. the smoother things go. Smoother for who? Your entire post reeks of a male-only perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 02:05 AM
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I know lots of 30's women. None who are like what you describe. Lots of people end up in a funk after a break up. I don't personally know Emma Waston so I can't comment on her. You must know her hu? Oh wait, no, you're a grown man pretending you know shit about a perfect stranger's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:36 AM
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I haven't noticed women giving any fucks as to who a successful woman is or isn't with. Unless there's a specific reason I should know about him, I can't see why I or anyone would care. I think you're just making this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:32 AM
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You are creepy af. Wtf is your obsession with enslaving women? Gross. Imagine someone saying this about POC or children or the elderly or people with disabilities or people from other countries. Why do you feel so comfortable talking about women as non-people? I don't mean this sarcastically: you need mental health help. This is not normal. And then men could raise those children without any further involvement from the mother. Lmfao. Men aren't doing their half now in the child raising dept. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:31 AM
4

You're saying "status" but I think you mean "male-approval" or something. There are plenty "high status" single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 01:24 AM
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That you think women being alone is somehow worse than wasting 5/10/20 years, being cheated on, abused, etc. I'm not sure what to tell you. Science doesn't back that up. No woman I know would rather be with some guy who feels he settled for her than alone. I don't get the negative connotation associated with "spinster". Lots of interesting, successful women are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 11:20 PM
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I'm glad that other people took the time to give you thoughtful answers. Because frankly, it blows my f'in mind that you're using reddit but didn't realize that men and women do not have equal risk in sex. That realization came to me as a child, just by looking around and having a basic understanding of reproduction. I really hope you aren't having sex. You need to get a book about it or something first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:37 PM
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Sex is much risker for women. You have to be worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:47 PM
1

Yes. The mental gymnastics some will go through to demonize women never ceases to surprise me. As you said, there's nothing terrible about it but when men do it they're just sharing and when women do it they're "showing off". gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 03:46 PM
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In the US, nearly 4 women a day are killed by their intimate partner. And this figure doesn't even include many of the women who were trying to leave when they were killed. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:37 PM
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I guess none of what you said about men is different for women. You're just calling it "competing" and "showing off" when women do it. Of course posting a photo of your big fish is showing off. It doesn't matter that you personally do not find fish impressive. Neither do I really. I've dated a few car guys. They love to post pictures of the same damn vehicle over and over. No one is that interested, no one is coming to play. But its their way of feeling relevant and cool and trying to impress ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:59 AM
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Lol, as though the whole tough guy, macho crap isn't a big show off. Nearly all men do that, regardless of their relationship status. I know lots of men who brag on social media, post pictures of their oversized truck with unnecessary stacks over and over, post photos of the deer and fish they get, humble brag about the donations they make, etc. Men show off differently than women, but they sure do show off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 10:45 AM
0

There are many men more sexually appealing to women than you are to men Then why aren't you talking about them being raped too? 0% of your links say anything about female animals exchanging sex for rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 09:16 PM
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Ffs. If rights are only given by physical strength, I would be owed by the average man. Many, many men are weaker than me. Why do you assume women are all weak? Though the AVERAGE strength of men is greater, there is more overlap than not. In order to say that only women would owe sex, you'd have to assume women are for sex and men are not. Or else smaller men would owe bigger people of any gender who are stronger sex as well. Since gorillas are stronger than human men, would humans owe the gori…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 08:44 PM
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You are not understanding that comment then. Thats not what was said at all. Taken in the conext of the prior comment, its clear that she is stating the opposite. Do you see the question mark? I mean without the strength to secure rights yourself, yes you are acting like it's "owed" to you by someone else. The person you quoted is pointing out that this is ridiculous logic and you jumped in to defend the person saying that unless you can "secure rights yourself", you owe someone. Perhaps it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 07:58 PM
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My argument is if you think you are owed a man’s body through his utility of strength Literally no one said that ever though. IF I loaned you $100, what make you think you do not have to pay me back? Why are you holding such a double standard? See?? Boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 06:30 PM
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You still have yet to explain why in this scenario women would owe men sex but weaker men wouldn't. Men may be on average stronger but there are many, many men weaker than me. And men do not do more work than women, its the way around. Like you just think women=for sex. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 11:48 AM
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How would you know? ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:47 PM
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Why assume women feel they are owed shit when the evidence suggests that if any one is being entitled to the efforts of the other, it's men? While we both agree that the OP's question is rather silly (I think), we disagree for very different reasons. You seem to think men are doing something or providing something special that women aren't and that women can even it up by offering themselves sexually. Which is just not true. For some reason you won't articulate (cough cough misogyny), you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:44 PM
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Jfc. Where did I or any women say they were owed anything from men? As a person who is smaller than some (maybe most, I don't know), do you feel you're owed anything? You're talking out of both sides of your mouth because you can't stand by what you said because it's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:08 PM
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I wouldn't have seen this there. I'm glad they posted it like this. Clearly the OP took the time to do this well. It's deserving of a post imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:32 PM
1

Standing ovation. Thank you for organizing all of these thoughts so well. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:31 PM
1

Smaller men still attempt to provide their utility of strength or they are often disposed of (but some smaller men do opt to provide utility of sexuality in our society) Uh...the exact same applies to women but even more so. Women make up the majority of slaves, do most of the world working hours, gestate/birth/nurse/raise children, care for the sick and eldery. In places where people need to carry water for miles to perform basic life tasks, women do almost all of that. Archeological and skelet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:09 PM
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Were you ever a baby or child? Societal protection must be very important to you then. All women could have overpowered you easily. You must be very grateful to women hu? The average man has billions of other men who could overpower him. Should smaller men feel special and protected? If a big burly gay man isn't having his way with you right at this moment, do you feel privileged to be safe? Lol, silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:55 PM
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when regular people say "Average" as a lay term they dont mean some mathematical or statistical average, they mean common everyday person i see Lol, what? You're using the word "average" but I'm not sure you know what it means. Ever heard of a bell curve? Literally, on a normal curve, the mean, the mode and the median are nearly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:12 AM
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71% of people in slavery today are women. Thats adorable that you think slavery just ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:01 AM
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So do smaller men owe bigger men access to their ass or...? They aren't "owed the utility" or whatever right? If you're keeping tabs, men start off with a debt to women. We literally built you from ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:58 AM
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Not sure why it would matter. The average man doesn't have self defense training and a 100lb protection dog either. Literally no one has "secured their rights themselves". This clown acts like it's "owed" him and then has the audacity to say women have no right to the same. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:30 AM
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You don't get to have both sides of a conversation sweetie. Google it or don't, it's still just as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 07:28 AM
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They do. Men make up about half the population, do a minority or the world's work, and own a majority of the wealthy and property. Did I stutter? If you don't understand how this is possible while most men are still not rich, thats not on me. Go take an economics class. I'm not your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:38 AM
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wOmEn HuRt mY FeElS. whAt If wE sAy FuCk iT aNd KiLl eM? Good to know men are so rational, unemotional, and calm hu?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:35 AM
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Men literally do not have the "technology" to make more of themselves without women. Jfc. Are you proposing men stop "protecting" women or are you straight up saying you want to enslave women? Those aren't the same, at all. Please, by all means, leave us the fuck alone. You're the ones we need protection from.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 01:30 AM
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I never said, thought or implied that most men were rich. Lol. What??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:28 AM
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Ok, once born, women do the majority of the child raising. I don't think kids owe their parents, nor do I think women owe men. I'm not saying its good logic. I'm pointing out the ridiculousness of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:28 AM
1

Here's a little secret for you... regardless of size, most women are not super interested in anal sex. We don't have prostate glands. The clit is far away. If your dick were 4 inches, you'd have much the same experience in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:25 AM
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I mean, you owe your fucking life to a woman who sacrificed use of her own organs for you. If women decided to kill all male babies, there's not a thing you could do to stop it. Stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:38 PM
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So I'm assuming you're extremely fit, muscular, large, etc. and have a small army to secure your rights yourself or....? I have a gun, multiple other weapons stashed around the house, self defense training, a massive protection dog, zero fear of you and I'm fit af. Come at me boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 10:36 PM
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How dare women think they are owed basic safety or rights to their own bodies!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:29 PM
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W.....T.....F The next time someone here tries to give me shit for assuming men might mean women harm, I'll direct them here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:25 PM
-1

What a strange thing to say. I hope you get your GED someday son.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:21 PM
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Those are words. Fyi people who hurt others do not have "self confidence". They are weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:20 PM
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Confident or not they are common af which is the real issue. I really don't know men who handle rejection from women well. Research can show us that they suck so badly at it, people die. 4 women a day in the US alone die trying to leave their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:46 PM
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Lol. Read your own links. Having to purchase diapers for children and the elderly is not "power". Your last link clearly states that women do not have the wealth that men do. 5 people making ends meet do not have the same economic freedom or buying power as one person with 5 times each of their incomes. Duh. Also, the article is making my point for me...that even when women do have the spending power, companies are slow to cater to them. Women spend far more on healthcare than men but still medi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:36 PM
1

Wow, you really throw a tantrum just because you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 06:33 PM
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Men do most of the measurable "grunt work" Jfc, please just stop. You just keep digging your bullshit hole. Is there nothing I can do to make you stop? 71% of people living in slavery today are women. Women produce half of the world's food though they do not eat half of it. Millions of women carry gallons of water for miles each and every single day so their families (men included) can drink, eat, wash, etc. Recent studies also suggest that prehistoric women did the majority of the rigorous manu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 04:15 PM
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I dont know how it works Exactly. So maybe stfu about it and go educate yourself before you spout more nonsense. Or continue spouting the nonsense and I'll continue to name it bullshit. Whatev. Thank you for demonstrating the exact issue I am referring to in my original comment. Men will just pontificate about shit they have no knowledge of and think they are superior for absolutely no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:06 PM
1

I don't have time to personally explain to you why people are not computers. Best of luck living in your Ayn Rand fantasy though!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:03 PM
1

You are woefully uneducated. There are hundreds of thousands of untested rape kits just decaying in storage in the US alone. Go read a book hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 02:01 PM
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😇💜
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:59 PM
5

That's literally not true. This is what I am referring to in my comment. Men like you will just say shit thats not based in reality and pretend like it's true. I see you. We can all see you. Aren't you embarrassed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:50 PM
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Women are worried about dying or being assaulted and you're like i FeEl aShAmEd, wHy DoN'T wOmEn EvErYwHeRe CarE???? It's not so much "outrageous", just pathetic and laughable. Get a therapist. That's who you talk to about shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:49 PM
-1

If the consumer is to blame, men are always at fault as they hold the majority of the world's wealth and property. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:44 PM
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Lmfao. That's just not true. On every single continent, women do the majority of the work. You're delusional. I don't have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:43 PM
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Thanks for making my point for me I guess. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:38 PM
1

You... When did I say anything about women running OLD companies? Also you... Women decided... You are really confused as to how markets work. Therefore tinder is an accurate representation of the desires of women 😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:05 PM
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Men be out there doing the vast majority of the killing and raping and warmongering and touching children inappropriately and so forth and you want me to worry about your "comfort" level in blaming women? Behold the field in which I grow my fucks and see that it is, indeed, barren.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 01:02 PM
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What?? That didn't make sense but I'm getting the feeling you're a believer in "reverse racism" and there's no point. A random internet wise woman once said... "Its been apparent to me for a while that most men can't imagine 'equality.' All they can imagine is having the existing power structure inverted. I cannot decide whether this shows how unimaginative they are, or shows how aware they must be of what they do in order to so deeply fear having it turned on them."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:55 PM
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Lol, how are you able to use reddit and yet unaware that the vast majority of these companies are owned and run by men? The biggest OLD company I know of started by a woman is actually the one least designed for speed in moving through matches by looks. Whoops! There goes that "theory".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:50 PM
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Many men think "love" is when someone makes you feel good. They're thinking 100% about themselves and their needs/wants. They don't even consider that love is a reciprocal thing or something you actively do. So they see a sexy woman and think "This could meet my needs, this could be love, I want this!" We know from a preponderance of evidence across multiple fields that men are prone to inflating their abilities, bullshitting, failing to see their weaknesses, etc. They literally think they are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 12:40 PM
2

She doesn't get a vote as to what size other people are though/. Thats not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:43 AM
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Most women I’ve had relationships with told me that penis size stops being important once you reach a certain threshold(average) They're lying to make you feel better. It matters. Someone can be good or bad at sex regardless of size but bigger is better. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 09:22 AM
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People who touch others without express, specific, enthusiastic consent deserve all of the shame. Shame away!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:53 PM
2

😂😂😂 I realize you might be ancient but at no time in human history has having sex with someone meant you can speak for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:55 PM
3

Why are you trying to speak for and over women? Are you saying that you personally are only attracted to men who are thicker? You do not in any way shape or form speak for women, random man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:46 PM
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The OP is a woe-is-me because men have to do some work for women to consider them attractive. Cry me a river. Literally no one is out there shaming "prolific runners".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 06:22 PM
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Lmfao. You do not get to redefine what I actual say though. I said "DICK (particularly of the limp variety) is abundant and of low value". Did you have a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:40 PM
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Either you don't know what a dick is, you don't know why it has value to women, or you misunderstand the terms "scarce" and "high value". THIS post is about limp dicks. Those are never, under any terms I can reasonably think of occurring, "high value".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:19 PM
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Stating a fact is not bashing anyone. I've literally not typed that phrase in my life more than a handful of times so thats not even possible. You're creepy. Here, one last time in case I wasn't clear... Dick, particularly limp dick, is abundant and of low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:46 PM
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There is nothing "condescending" about correcting someone who tries to tell me what my priorities are or should be. Though again, my goal isn't to make sure some random man on the internet doesn't feel condescended to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:31 PM
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You're confused. I'm not trying to be "neutral" about men who watch so much porn that they can't function sexually with real live women and then ponder how women could do something differently to improve their circumstance. I'm addressing the OP, which is about men taking zero accountability for their choices and expecting women to be their therapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:09 PM
1

You think discrimination is funny but you want me to feel bad for marathon runners? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 03:04 PM
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Why would I randomly say something good about men? I haven't seen you say a single nice thing about Swedes this whole conversation! Pot, kettle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:43 PM
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I see plenty of fat shaming, single mother shaming, classism, ableism, racism, sexism, childism, etc. in my life. I've never, not one time, seen the shaming of marathoners and I am a runner. You're really reaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 02:42 PM
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I'm just here taking notes from a Queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:32 PM
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HARD disagree. Pun fully intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:27 PM
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All of the above. Oof. I'm an atheist waiting for a sign. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 12:25 PM
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Pretty much all of the women I know are attracted to runner type bodies. I am a runner. I've dated runners. My bestie is in a LTR with a non-runner who looks like a runner. At my events, there are lots of men with wives, girlfriends, boyfriends, etc. Most men have a beer gut and can't run around the block. Thats a turn off. Having a runner's body is not a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 12:05 PM
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I'm calling bullshit that someone has the body of a "prolific runner" and is being shamed by women. Didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:31 AM
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Lol. You think porn prevents kidnapping? Lmfao. If you want to hurt other people, you should be ashamed. I dgaf what people do in private so long as it's not harming others. If you want to wank it til you can't physically have sex with a real live woman, go to town. There's only an issue when men try to make their limp dicks women's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:18 AM
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Never did such a thing. Not all men view porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:15 AM
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I'm not pointing and laughing at addicts. I am pointing and laughing at the idea that this is somehow women's problem. Men make the porn, men consume the porn, men over tug their dicks, men can't get it up and still feel entitled to something from women they find attractive. We already know most of these guys just want to get their dick wet. If its soft, wtf are you offering? Literally nothing. Go see a doctor, a therapist and deal with your "addiction" before you try to drag an unsuspecting wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:14 AM
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Sorry, the OP is about limp dicks so that is what I am discussing. They are of very very very low value and in no way can be considered "good".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:07 AM
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Those are words.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 11:05 AM
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What? THIS thread is about porn. I'm talking about this thread hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:58 PM
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What???? In your example, his dick is limp. Thats not "good". lol. Why am I having to explain this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:58 PM
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Right. If someone is using so much porn/alcohol/drugs/whatever that its ruining their sex life, that's their fault. It's not because women aren't making their vaginas interesting enough. Lol. I like women and I don't require them to do anything fancy or degrade themselves to turn me on. Its like the men are 100% of the problem. Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:49 PM
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Right, thats the fucking irony. Nm, this is waaaay over your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:44 PM
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LOTS of men are having a real problem. Hence the OP. I don't see tons of posts by women hElP, cAn'T oRgAsM wHeN tHe PoWeR gOeS OuT!!! Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:43 PM
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I have a clitoris. I can vibrate it on high everyday for weeks and still get off from thinking dirty thoughts and wiggling. Thanks for coming to my talk, random mansplainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:40 PM
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That you only see vaginal sex as sex is very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:39 PM
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If a man makes choices that make his dick limp when he's with a woman, she is not obligated to be into or to stick around for that. Dick is abundant and of low value. If I found out that the person I was with was so enamored with violence against women on a screen that they couldn't get off without it, I'd run and not look back. Zero regrets, no guilt or shame. Women risk their fucking lives, their health by exposing themselves to men. We are not obligated to do so for a man who is screaming "I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:37 PM
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Jfc, no. Thats not how the clit works hun. Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:32 PM
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This can happen with some women too, where they use toys that really mess with the sensitivity and henceforth it gets really hard to get off unless you're literally using a jackhammer, which is unrealistic. Lol. Please stop spreading ridiculous myths about women's sexuality. If this is true for you, say that. I can use toys daily for weeks and still get off by thinking dirty thoughts and moving my legs anytime. You are an n of 1. Makes me wonder if you're actually a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:31 PM
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I'm bisexual. Never met a woman who was interested in being on either end of degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:23 PM
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As the other commenter mentioned, there is a minority of people of both genders who enjoy that. No one wants to be treated like an object. If you think otherwise, thats a major reason you're not getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 11:15 PM
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How did humans even survive before the internet, amirite? My brain is "wired" to crave sugar and trans fats and cocaine and sex and thanks to industrialization, globalization, modernization and so forth I can get those things at anytime. But I'm not a fucking animal about it. Cry me a river. If you mess up your own dick, that's not on me. If seeing women degraded on screen gets you off, don't expect real alive women to be into that. Stop trying to make women responsible for the shitty choices of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 10:16 PM
2

I eat sweets most days. I have coffee every day. I drink a glass or 2 of wine most evenings. I have a burger or pizza at least once or twice a week. I'm aware fitness doesn't work by magic so the more pizza I eat, I either lower my own expectations for myself or a run harder or I eat salads and smoothies in abundance or whatnot. Taking the time to maintain my body in a somewhat healthy way is not optional because reality. It's not a big sacrifice, it's living. Originally, the comment was about h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 06:29 PM
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I never said any of that. Since you seem interested, I don't have good genetics. I have been "overweight". And in case you missed it, I gestated 4 humans. Stop pretending women being attracted to men with some ab definition is creating an unattainable standard. Women have less muscle mass, are slower to develop muscle, have extra tummy fat for baby making, etc. So I just do not feel bad for men in this particular regard. Wanting a basically healthy, fit life/sexual partner is not a high standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 05:34 PM
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I'm a mom of 4. I eat a basically healthy diet with a hearty sprinkling of chocolate, alcohol, and fried foods. I run when I can which works out to about twice a week. I have visible abs. Cry me a river.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 04:43 PM
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Lol. This is just sad. Just stop. I've had relationships with and am someone who has a "great bod". Its really not that big of a deal. Women dgaf about your body fat percentage, only you do. What women actually want is basic fitness. And that isn't difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/19 12:02 PM
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I can lead a horse to water.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 03:23 PM
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As N increases, pair bonding ability decreases, which leads to increased divorces and decreased rates of marriage. Society becomes less stable and less able to form nuclear families. How does this change the debate now if BP couldn't argue that N isn't important? I directly addressed this. It doesn't change the debate. You are confused about what is being debated. Women don't have some unified goal of maintaining the status quo and supporting the patriarchy. Let that shit fall and burn. Imma get…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 02:09 PM
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Slut shaming girls and women makes them traumatized and vulnerable to exploitation and abuse. How is that "working"? And no, I don't see hardly anyone slut shaming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:50 PM
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None of those examples are about pinkpill though. Pinkpill is strongly against the kind of "sexual activity" you describe. Are we even talking about the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:22 PM
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By this logic, you should be slut shaming men, not women. Even the biggest woman "slut" can only create one, sometimes 2 humans every couple of years for a couple of decades. A single irresponsible man "slut" can impregnate thousands of women in that time. And thats not that uncommon. Why isn't anyone shaming them? Hmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:19 PM
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What? lol. Societies fail and fall all of the time. Like literally every time. Such is the nature of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:15 PM
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Lol. You are confused about how science and society work. We have pretty conclusive evidence that drinking alcohol is bad for you and bad for society. People still celebrate with a drink all of the time. There is a preponderance of evidence that having vagina sex can lead to babies yet men be on reddit regularly like "hOw ThIs hApPeN tO mE?!?!" when there's a pregnancy. No credible researcher would argue that sun bathing is good for your skin or your health yet every Saturday my local beach is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:13 PM
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Nah, "Stupid sexual chicken" doesn't sound like a smart or fun game to play. Passing. Best wishes to you though taking your own advice! Let us know how all those random men work out. HIV by 40 hu?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:18 PM
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it's just sex what's the worst that could happen? Anything you fear could happen won't happen anyway with the amount of safeguards today. I'm sorry, what?!?!? I really hope you are not legally capable of consenting to sex or driving a vehicle or voting if you still think like this. Let me help you with some facts hun. 1 in 5 women has been raped. 9 out of every 10 rape victims are female. Women are at greater risk from men they know (i.e. friends, dates, sexual partners, coworkers, etc.) than wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:08 PM
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Its ironic that you call them "attention seekers" when so much of what is discussed there is about eliminating unwanted attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 11:45 AM
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I think you're confused and you've been trolled and you don't even realize it. Lol. TRP's like to justify rape and such by calling it "biology". Pinkpillers are saying 'If you want to justify violence against women by saying "biology" then let's apply that to men.' So if a bigger guy comes along and wants your shit, he can just take it right? Because biology. They are pointing out that saying "biology" is actually fucking ridiculous but that if you're going to do it, you need to do it across the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 11:23 AM
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You say women aren't interesting but I couldn't even make it through this tirade. Snooze. Your idea of what women are looking for is way, way off btw. Stop trying to speak over women. We type and talk fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 11:01 AM
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Where am I? Is this Jr. High?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:23 AM
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I think that 99+% of women have no fucking clue what you're referring to as "beta" or "chad" so about 0%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 12:07 AM
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Stressing about it is a very I've-been-raped/sexually-assaulted-by-men-who-felt entitled-to-me-and-didn't-understand-consent thing to do. https://lmgtfy.com/?q=why+does+consent+need+to+be+enthusiastic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 09:28 PM
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No legitimate organization defines consent otherwise. Stop trying to justify your feeling of entitlement to women. No one is owed another person's body. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:50 PM
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Consent is the same around the world fyi. The UN and the WHO use near identical definitions. Also, I'm not Swedish or in Sweden, I just know what consent is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:47 PM
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I think the point is that it just doesn't matter. People lie to all children. As a child, I was lied too. They lie about relationships, they lie about death, they lie about money, they lie about the gods and Santa. The male controlled media is a lie too. It's really very unfortunate and it's not something I participate in with my kids. But now you're an adult right? And you know the truth. So go do some therapy, have a bath, and move on like the rest of us. What we're blaming you for is not movi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 11:34 AM
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Ironic af iF i DoN't UnDeRsTaNd, nO oNe CaN
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:23 PM
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Those are words. Fyi, no one cares about your dick. If it fell off today, you'd be the only one sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:07 PM
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No, I am responding to you saying that older women won't divorce older men because they're afraid of going back on the market. I am saying that thats not true. Women are not afraid, they have support and are self sufficient. But many older alone men are afraid because they do not have support and can't care for themselves well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 02:07 PM
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I did. I work with the older population and a large portion of the men have neglected themselves. They're 55+, scared and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:51 PM
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Kind of, not really. Its not like there's a 20-30 year difference in lifespan for men vs women. Neglecting your own mental and physical health and relationships for decades just catches up with you, regardless of gender, making the last years of your life either sick and lonely or well and full. Men seem less likely to have focused on health and relationships and they pay the price. Older women aren't worried about the "market" or whatever as you imply. Its the men who are worried. As others hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:52 PM
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Having worked intimately with the older population, you are really out of touch with how it goes down. As people age, shit really catches up with them. Women seem to focus more on health and relationships in their youth so that by the time they're 50+, they are stable, capable, and have supportive social circles. Men are less likely to have focused on their health and developing deep, meaningful friendships and relationships and they really pay for that if they are 50+ and single. No one is ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:10 PM
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Who knew that being fit and healthy were attractive? Oh wait, that's right, social scientist have always known this but red pillers and generally men on reddit like to dismiss social sciences. I bet if they took psych 100, all would be revealed. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 11:21 AM
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You are welcome to post about red pill ideas. No one is obligated to take them seriously of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:18 PM
2

Damn, that was a well done, interesting read. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:53 PM
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Oh hun, thats exactly why I can't take you seriously. No one outside of the red pill takes it seriously. Maybe you've been there so long you've forgotten that. If your view is really "why bother?" then feel free to stop at any time. But don't expect me to care or "debate" with that. I'm not interested. My example shows that your "logic" is terrible. You're just calling everything "mating cues". Lame. Dgaf that you think I'm smart, random internet person. My goal in life is not to contribute to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:55 AM
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Fuck no. I'm not an object to be guarded. Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:50 AM
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It's near impossible to take someone seriously who's flair is "Red Pill Man". Even if I didn't know anything about the topic, the way you speak about it is laughable. You say you think we really don't know, but you're pretty sure I'm wrong and you're right anyway. You say shit thats not logically possible. Again, I just can't take that seriously. There is nothing to debate as you haven't said anything of substance. Men seek status largely because status helps in mating, subconsciously or not. By…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:03 AM
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Why do I have to mention who I am. You never mentioned who you are still! <jk, I don't care Saying that violence is way worse than <insert bad behavior here> is just a way to shirk personal responsibility and set a really low standard for yourself. 😂 😂 😂 😂 What??? Are you hearing yourself? Lmfao. So if I punch you in the face but you were kinda rude prior to, its ok because violence is not way worse. Cool. Fyi, VIOLENCE IS THE LITERAL FUCKING WORST. Damn, you are a pickmeisha if I ever saw one. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:52 PM
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Ok, but thats not a legitimate, evidence based view. I know a flat earther, people believe all kinds of things. That "mating cues" (not what its called btw) shape our behavior does not mean that the men at the top of the class are there because "mating cues". Plenty of research has been done in this field. Spoiler alert: people don't think like that. Neither do most higher mammals. We are not insects. Uh, literally, some people are average. You should probably take a science methods class before…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 09:46 PM
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Lmfao, now you're just making shit up. I'm a social scientist so its laughable that you're lecturing me about "male behavior". You are one male. You don't seem to know anything about male behavior beyond your own experience. Disrespect and violence are not the same and no reasonable person would pay them equal mind. Or they'd be dead by now. Give me a break. Are you hearing yourself? Literally being there to change the diapers, wipe the noses, pay the bills, cook the dinner, teach manners and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:38 PM
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Ok, thats a small difference but a big change. :) We mostly agree on that point I think. Though to be clear, I don't think like any men at the top of the class are there because "mating strategy" either. That's not how the human brain works.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:27 PM
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Women don’t tend to care if they’re the top philosophy major in the room...because men don’t care about that. Either you mistyped or you are misunderstanding me. I dgaf if men care about who's the top of the class. I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:52 PM
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The OP asked about "moral instruction". Men are more likely to kill, rape, steal, lie, and less empathetic and kind. Women already raise the children and care for the sick and elderly. Wtf do women need instruction on? How to stay out of men's way? The moral obligations are the same regardless of gender and men have a lot of catching up to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:44 PM
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Lol, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:41 PM
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Lol ok dude. Women do the majority of the world's work for a minority of the wealth, property, rights, positions in government, etc. Their own homes aren't safe. If equality had been achieved, I wouldn't hear people say shit like "man up" or "stop being a pussy" or "men don't cry" or "you throw like a girl". When being like a woman stops being an insult, maybe then we can talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:17 PM
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Most children of color choose white dolls. This is not an indication that white people are better. People are capable from a very young age of understanding that identifying certain ways has advantages or disadvantages. As you showed here, people try to demonize you for being a feminist (which literally means you want equal rights for women). Most people reject the label "atheist" even if they do not believe in gods because there is a lot of prejudice (at least in my country, I know thats not tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:40 PM
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I know that this isn't for everyone but running has really improved my physical and mental health lately. When I run, my body craves healthier food and I feel more internally motivated to make other healthy choices. A few weeks in I was changing after a run and I saw my legs in the mirror and didn't recognize them. I've wanted to give up and just stay home sooo many times but I'm really glad I kept going. Yesterday, I ran 4 miles straight and I felt so powerful. The couch-to-5k app/program is gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:42 AM
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Lol. Why would we need more moral judgment on the least violent, least rapey, more ethical group? So they can be told to fight back even less? What would be the goal? The goal of the The Good Men project is to change what men consider masculine to improve public health and safety. It's a response to a specific problem. Women don't need their violent behavior curbed, they aren't public safety hazards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 11:01 AM
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Feminists have expanded education, voting, improved working conditions for all, fought for safety, and social welfare, and created crisis centers, refuges and law reform. MGTOW haven't done anything but move into their moms basements. All of the women and men in my life are feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:54 AM
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A good person is a good person. But we each face unique challenges in being good and some of those might be due to our gender identity, race, ethnicity, neurodiversity, sexual orientation, nationality, socioeconomic status, etc. Women can't breathe without being told they're doing it wrong and they can't move their eye balls without being told its shameful so I think we're good there. Plus women and feminists have been having these conversations for decades regarding masculinity/feminity, gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:01 AM
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Whoops! I got mixed up with who was responding. Sorry! LOTS of men around here actually think women only do things with men in mind. I like sarcasm but its hard to tell here. For instance, earlier today, a man said that risk of pregnancy or rape or STD for women was equivalent to a pregnancy scare for a man. He was not kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 03:46 AM
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YES. If being a behaving like a decent human being is a special ask, please stay the f away from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 03:44 AM
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Are you legit saying women don't care about being top of their class unless a man values them for it? Lmfao. I was the top of my class throughout college, my girlfriend thought it was hot af but that's not why it mattered to me. I was the top or close in high school before I met her too. I can assure you that the thoughts and feelings of random men never entered into my choices regarding education. Lol sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 01:02 AM
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I know plenty of dudes who worship women who share their hobbies That's not what they're doing at all. I'm an avid hunter, snowmobiler, 4wheeler, I am stealth af in a particular popular shooter game, broke my jaw playing football, rodeo queen, can out run/bike/swim most people of any gender, I've read all of the classics, I could continue. Men don't worship me, they worship the idea of me worshipping them for being better than me. If I don't worship or if they clearly aren't better, they often b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:52 AM
2

Wow, you're entirely unaware that gay women and heterosexual men also wear makeup. Ok then. Books, try them sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 12:45 AM
2

POC are more likely to do blue collar, hard labor, low paying and dangerous jobs. Does that mean white men are just better suited to the good safe jobs? Lol. You're killing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 09:12 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 05:10 PM
1

Its almost as though the patriarchy harms us all or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:54 PM
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I'm not sure what women experiencing anxiety has to do with any of this. You know that mental health isn't indicative of a character flaw or something right? And that you're just selecting one particular mental health condition out of hundreds? Men are more violent and more likely to engage in risky behavior. Duh. People who pick fights (regardless of gender) are more like to end up with a broken nose. Women are at far greater risk just going on about their lives. Men don't generally have to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 02:27 PM
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I'm not Swedish or in Sweden. See, there's part of your problem actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:33 PM
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I mean, most of what you're saying is just objectively untrue. Those are words though. https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/e4ch3t/not_sure_if_these_have_been_posted_already_but/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:32 PM
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You have no context for this bias. Like someone on an 1800's plantation saying that field slavery comes naturally to POC. Or that children make great coal miners. Being forced into work doesn't mean one is naturally inclined to it. Being led by their hormones, taking stupid risk, starting wars, raping seems to come easier to men. Maybe we should put them in cages to protect the women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:04 PM
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You're not dicussing this in good faith. We know that men do not pull their weight in this regard. I am not going to pretend men are actually in touch with their feels and supporting women. In fact, many women live in outright fear of men, and for good reason. Thats the reality. Men also have more wealth and more leisure time than women. You're not making any good points. Women are expected to pull their shit together, develop coping skills to overcome the abuse they experience from men, and fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:02 PM
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Ask OP, they are the ones who made this point. I think you got confused. No one cares about you and your girlfriend in this context, random person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:58 PM
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Lmfao. Caring for the most vulnerable 24/7 is not a "technicality". I think if you spent one day as a caregiver you'd see this differently. No one is complaining about helping out a friend or neighbor in need. We're complaining about men making babies that they don't bother to raise. Or the eldery and ill they don't seem to see but for a weekly prayer (lmfao, I really hope you were kidding about this btw). Try wiping asses, noses, planning and preparing all of the meals, managing other people's …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:56 PM
3

If these things are "kindness", are men far far less kind? Just using your own definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:35 PM
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Jfc, are the men unaware they can and should be helping themselves to grow and mature??? The only solution to men's emotional problems that you can think of is to lay them at the feet of women? Yikes. For a start, get educated about your own brain and society. Get a therapist. Eat well and exercise. Develop a supportive friend group. Don't ask women to do the work you won't do for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:33 PM
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Wow. You've reached a point in life where you're capable of using the internet, you claim to be a "woman", but you can't imagine what lesbians are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:22 PM
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It's a juvenile sentiment, frankly, that they're doing that specific behavior wrongly, that it should more closely align with his beliefs, instead. For the people in the back!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:19 PM
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That you have a deathly fear of anything you see as feminine or gay is not some indication that everyone else is bisexual. It's only an indiction of your own misogyny and homophobia. Like nearly all aspects of personality and who we are, sexuality occurs on a spectrum. There is no such thing as "completely straight" just as there is no such thing as completely white/extravert/neurotypical/etc. You may lean farther one way than another person. There is not a wrong place to fall on these spectrums…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 12:16 PM
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So I shouldn't CMV even though this is literally CMV that you posted? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:55 AM
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Every single study I've ever seen shows the same regardles of how the data was collected. I don't see where this one says it was self reported, nor do I see why it matters considering we know that men are more likely than women to inflate their efforts and achievements. If anything, self reporting should sway things the other way. Time and time again, women are shown to be more efficient and better leaders, whether it's through self reporting or otherwise. I just love it when someone presents ze…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:53 AM
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Thats not research, nor do they support your position that women are slower. Try google scholar hun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:47 AM
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Lol, those are some mental gymnastic you're having to do with zero citation to support your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 01:38 AM
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You don't need reddit CMV for that. Again, no one gets to decide what another person is thinking or feeling. And you have no evidence. Lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:15 PM
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I'm a research scientist, sweetie. I've studied ancient cultures. Again, you're just calling everything you see "biology" which is not how science happens at all. https://www.cnn.com/2018/03/07/health/body-image-history-of-beauty-explainer-intl/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:12 PM
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Jfc, this is why you should have to take a basic scientific method and research class before being allowed online. Kinda kidding, maybe. Anyone who has just been rejected is more likely to reject someone else because their opinion of themselves has been damaged. This is not hard to understand. Your personal opinion on the research is not substantiated. Thats not how science works. There's plenty of great evidence to show that women's work is devalued. A quick google search could clear that up fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:03 PM
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Lmfao. I seriously lol every time some dude makes an observation about humans in the now and/or in their particular culture/region and calls it "biology". Some things are indeed widely appreciated (symmetry, clear skin). Almost everything else is very much dependent on culture. Read a book sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:30 PM
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You know that women have thoughts that aren't about men right? I've had many, many conversation with women about body image. These are not conversations about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:27 PM
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Do you have some evidence you're hiding that shows men are twice as efficient as women? All of the evidence I've seen demonstrates that women are more efficient, better managers, better leaders, etc. Your misogyny is showing. https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2018/10/women-are-more-productive-than-men-at-work-these-days https://hbr.org/2019/06/research-women-score-higher-than-men-in-most-leadership-skills https://hbr.org/2017/11/women-respond-better-than-men-to-competitive-pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:06 PM
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Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:44 PM
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Your English is pretty fucking awful for someone lecturing me about words.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:35 PM
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Yes, it took me all night to come up with that list. Or three seconds but whatev. And now its disappointed some random internet dude. However will I live with myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:32 PM
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I hope English is not your first language and that this is a language barrier. But I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:28 PM
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The worst that could happen IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER Oh no, I didn't please some random man on the internet! Let me go get my pillow so I may cry into it. AHAHAHAHA.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:22 PM
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The worst that could happen in no particular order: pregnancy, STD/STI, pain/discomfort, assault/rape, stalking, a wasted night, death. My fingers work great and have a 150+% success rate! Thats not how vaginas work, at all. Are you sure you're not gay? I always wonder if men who know so little about vaginas are clueless because they really can't stand thinking about them. Literally no. It's a turn off. I like men with self control. Only if he's good in bed. Precisely zero of my fucks are given …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:24 AM
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Yes, I went to private schools run by women. You have provided no evidence whatsoever, not a single citation on anything. Just a bunch of lip flapping. Boo hoo you have to pay taxes like everyone else!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:40 AM
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The fact that women try to inject themselves into every male space as soon as it emerges The irony is that you were grown inside of a fucking woman. You literally fucking emerged from a woman's body. You can lead a horse to water.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:38 AM
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Lol, of course not... "As this infographic shows, it is the world's women that are putting in the largest amount of these unpaid hours and in every region, the total amount of time spent working, paid or unpaid, is higher for women than it is for men. "
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:33 AM
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It's one thing to put effort into men and other thing to put effort into an adult man. What??? Get off the drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:23 PM
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University of hard knocks I bet. Lol. I fucking hope someone who doesn't understand how research works is not employed by a university. That would be sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:22 PM
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WHO? WHY? WHERE?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:21 PM
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It is a current mainstream legal doctrine that it's men's responsibility to care for all women universally. Lol. No man has ever for a minute supported me. Thats true for many many many children/young adults in the US sadly. Again, on every continent, women's work is subsidizing men's leisure time, per actual evidence, not my own opinion. Boo fucking hoo. A woman was mean to a man so now he can't go on and keep himself clean? Cry me a river. Men have more access to therapy than women but even st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:19 PM
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Arguably, the most important job in the world is raising the youngest humans. If you don't understand why, thats because you haven't taken Psych 101 and Sociology or Anthropology. I will not be explaining this to you, you're welcome to google it. The most intense, most impactful work we can do in our lives is with the youngest members of society. Minors are absolutely NOT capable of raising children well and we have a shit ton of evidence for that. Women's work is devalued. If the world made sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:14 PM
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I'm not "suggesting" anything. You're not even being suave about trying to put words in my mouth. I meant what I said. Women do the majority of the world's work, physical and otherwise. I did not hypothesize here on why. All people, regardless of gender, have basic needs in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:08 PM
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I already provided a citation that women do more work all over the world. I'm sorry you don't have a basic understanding of science and seem to think that your opinion matters at all in the face of the preponderance of research showing otherwise. The science is in, men suck. https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/e4ch3t/not_sure_if_these_have_been_posted_already_but/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:58 PM
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Lmfao, you're adorable, thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:55 PM
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Yes, yes, we know, your personal experience of the world is so much more accurate and reliable than all of science. Pathetic really that you can't come up with anything intelligent to say so you just say "Nu-uh!"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:53 PM
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I'm just responding to the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:51 PM
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That's weird, I don't recall saying anything about wanting men to do anything. If the OP defines washing and laundry as "basic human functioning" then by this definition, men do not function as well as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:50 PM
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You're replying to my comment but absolutely nothing I said was about showering or doing anything to excess. Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:45 PM
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So you're asking me to defend a position I've never taken Bizarre. That you haven't personally studied wether women are as efficient as men doesn't mean others haven't. Time and time again, women are shown to be more efficient than men, better leaders, etc. Try a book sometime, you might like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:45 PM
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Oh I'm sorry! My bad! Not even sure how I mess that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:38 PM
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Babies, the very ill, very old, etc. usually do not put an effort into like anything. Because they can't. It's convenient for a healthy middle aged man to say something like that when in reality, he would have literally died if others had taken that same position. If you get hit by a car and can't get up and at least try to help yourself, should I leave you to die? If I'm supposed to match your energy, I'll just lie down next to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:37 PM
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There's a ton of evidence you could find easily with a quick google scholar search. Lazy. Here hun... https://www.newsweek.com/women-work-more-unpaid-hours-men-every-region-world-942923?fbclid=IwAR1EX4vOZpz0kJNO36m_NcuyjXe_C8AzuknVxy9mHS7FSWi92Q3gKqZnU2k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:32 PM
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Nope, literally women make up about half the population but do measurably more than half the world's work. Meanwhile, women have had to fight every step of the way just to have control over our own bodies, to be able to own property, to not be property, to study, to read, etc. Read a book hun. https://www.newsweek.com/women-work-more-unpaid-hours-men-every-region-world-942923?fbclid=IwAR1EX4vOZpz0kJNO36m_NcuyjXe_C8AzuknVxy9mHS7FSWi92Q3gKqZnU2k
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:31 PM
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https://www.newsweek.com/women-work-more-unpaid-hours-men-every-region-world-942923?fbclid=IwAR1EX4vOZpz0kJNO36m_NcuyjXe_C8AzuknVxy9mHS7FSWi92Q3gKqZnU2k Lol, you can't just say "that was found to be made up" whenever objective, scientific evidences contradicts whatever bullshit you've been telling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:29 PM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 02:26 PM
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On every continent, women do the majority of the work. Every single one. If you limit the question to "housework" the disparity is even more appalling. Oh those poor single men! lol, hope you're joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:17 PM
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I have a simple rule: I match the energy of my friends that they invest themselves. If they try hard I help hard. If they don't I don't. Try reading the OP first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 01:15 PM
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bUt AlL ThE oThEr PeNiSeS mAKe HeR loOsE
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:18 PM
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Many men feel they have a right to live in a world where women only want to fuck them, a fantasy where they are the Link/Spiderman/007 and superior to other men. The reality is that your dick isn't special. Women who like to have sex will of course like it outside of just you. The idea that they are not special is so terrifying that they deal with it by vilifying the women who, in their eyes, cause them to feel this way. So women who fuck other men are bad, so are women who don't have any sex. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 12:15 PM
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Many men don't bother to raise their own children so I think it has less to do with not taking responsibility for something you shouldn't and more to do with just being lazy and selfish af.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:39 AM
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Unless you want to someday be the "complication" he's with while he's texting some other woman, BLOCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:36 AM
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The idea that women can just stop doing this work if they don't feel its reciprocated is fucking hilarious. I'll try this out and I'll "match" the energy levels that my kids and the elderly put into my care and only give that back. Wonderful! And we'll all starve and be sitting in our own shit by next week. If washing dishes and doing laundry is just being a "functioning human being", are men less human and less functioning? Now that does make sense. Also, lol at "existential consulting".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:07 AM
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The women who "want" him are gray haired boomers who hate the gays and are afraid of POC.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 10:59 AM
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One and only one reason...social privilege outside of the bedroom that comes with heterosexuality and being seen as belong to a cis het white rich male (the closer to this the more privilege it affords).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:45 PM
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Take your own advice and "just go for it" with one of these other "horny critters". If it's such a great idea, you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:44 PM
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For those in the back or who are just slow... The patriarchy harms us all but only men may benefit from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:41 PM
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Funny thing is that I'm not. Whoops, your bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 08:04 PM
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Being a man gives you more power than being a woman or a child, yes, for certain. Only you brought up "magic powers". Are you old enough to be on reddit hun? Thanks for being so clear that you dgaf about children but expect women to. I'd be embarrassed to admit such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:45 PM
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Nope, I meant exactly what I said. Thanks for coming to my talk random man. Did you have a question?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:43 PM
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Because those with more power are more responsible because reality. As a parent, if shit goes wrong in my family, its mostly on me, not the kids, because I have more of the power. If a business fails, its more the fault of the CEO/manager/owner than any entry level employee because they lack the power. POC are not responsible for "fixing" racism because they fucking can't. Similarly, men hold the majority of the power, wealth, property, position of government, etc. while doing a minority of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:25 PM
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lmfao https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/cdc-says-more-half-us-pregnancy-related-deaths-are-preventable-180972140/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:19 PM
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Yes, if your life goals are to be orange, scientifically illiterate, bad at business, despised by women, heading for prison, laughed at by the world, this "worked" for him. I suppose you could say that killing worked for Ted Bundy or that scamming worked for Madoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:13 PM
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Yes, exactly as I said. You lack the most basic understanding of economic systems or even just regular life. As though you've never paid your own bills even. I bet you call everything you think or feel regarding women "basic biology" hu? Here, I'll do a bit of the work for you dear...If everyone needs food, why doesn't half the population just stop what they're doing and go grow food? Since everyone is hungry, this will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:11 PM
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I really appreciate your honesty. Maybe its super silly but because of this I'm going to try to be a little more careful about judging attorneys as automatic bad people. Thank you for taking the time after I pretty much insulted your entire profession. You're clearly one of the good ones. I had considered the field but I just can't physically keep my mouth shut when I see injustice so don't think I'd last very long. Haha. In spite of my judgement, I have always felt a certain respect for women a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 01:09 PM
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^Clearly has no fucking clue how economies or currency works. Still sure it will be fine if he's getting laid. Lol, you can't even make this shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:59 PM
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Worked? Uh, I hate to be the one to break this to ya but he's on the edge of impeachment. A bunch of his buddies are already locked up. He could be next. Also, people fucking hate him and he doesn't seem to be good at anything other than making an ass of himself on twitter. Melania looks like she wants to murder him in his sleep. Terrible example.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:50 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if they would all do the same. I used to think the lawyer jokes weren't all that funny and were stupid and mean. But my life experience tells me the majority of lawyers are fucking bad people willing to do anything for clout or money. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 11:45 AM
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Yes. I've watched plenty of attorneys argue for their obviously unsafe clients to have access to children. All for a paycheck. It's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:22 AM
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Lol, why the f are you asking me??? This is bizarre. Should I answer for all women and you as well? Ask yourself "why not?" and then you won't need this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:21 AM
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Nah. If "destroying the other side" puts children at risk, fuck that. If you "destroy the other side" and the environment with it, thats not admirable, it's gross. Your profession isn't an ethical pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:14 AM
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Capitalism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:10 AM
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Lol. I'm giving it an hour until the post and/or account are gone. You just can't get around that hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:05 AM
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I'm assuming he's signing up on some websites right now. By this time tomorrow, he'll have made at least 1k right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:01 AM
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But you could make more money and its low risk according to you. So by your logic, you should be jumping at the chance. If not, consider why and BAM, your question has been answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:51 AM
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But why only if you had no choice? Remember, you said it was lucrative, easy, low effort. If its so great, why would you only do it if you had no other choice? Lol. It's like you almost know the answer to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:42 AM
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Lmfao. I've been project poor and self made millionaire rich and it doesn't matter how much money a creepy dude has. I don't want him near me. Money doesn't magically make men less gross. Ever heard of Weinstein, R Kelly, Cosby, Epstein, I could go on for a looong time but I think you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:40 AM
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I'm not sure if I should laugh or cry when I see posts that ask why women do things. Both perhaps. 1) We are not one person. 2) I dunno, why do men not do more sex work? OP, why aren't you selling yourself? If you weren't aware previously, you are now that many gay/bi/pan/trans/etc. men are happy to pay for sex. You can just do cam stuff, it not even unsafe. You set your own boundaries (lol), for instance you can only let left handed men put it in your butt. Its really not a lot of effort, you j…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:36 AM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 06:09 PM
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Wow, you need to read a book. Foreplay happened all of the time before the internet. The degrading stuff is the vast majority of it and it's prominence is new. Foreplay is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:20 PM
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99% of what shows up on the popular porn sites is not about pleasing women sexually. It's about degrading them and meeting men's needs. It's repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:26 PM
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Damn, I had no idea men were so quick to publicly admit that they aren't giving their partners orgasms. I'd be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:03 PM
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YIKES that you think porn teaches men how to give women sexual pleasure. Thanks I guess for making it clear that you are one of the people we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:02 PM
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get back into your imaginary good guy cave, idiot. 😂😂😂 keeping this line in my back pocket for future use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 11:56 AM
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Well timed. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 10:39 AM
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I take my kids to a busy community center. There's always at least one dad there who's paying zero attention to his kids but tries to approach me. Like dude, you scream "I need a nanny" and you can't afford me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 09:36 AM
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Some people are over weight because they lack control. Some people are big because they don't want men creeping on them. Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:17 AM
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I'd show you but you conveniently deleted the account. Thanks for coming to my talk!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:16 AM
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Thats...not how bisexuality works dear. But again, we aren't interested in you. Please, do not marry us. Better yet, don't talk to or approach us. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:14 AM
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Oh ffs. If you aren't responding to what is posted here, you aren't having a "debate". "Debate" requires more than one view. You are having a discussion with yourself and you don't even know it it seems. I just commented my opinion on what I think you meant. If you disagree that's fine. No sweetie. You don't get a vote as to what I mean. You speak for you, I speak for me. You aren't "challenging" me by telling me what I mean. Thats called "mansplaining". This is a major reason you aren't getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:00 AM
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My comment only makes sense in light of the OP. It is, quite literally, a response or a comment on the OP. Out of context, it doesn't have the same meaning, as could be said for the vast majority of words ever typed, spoken, written, etc. Why do you not already know this? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 12:55 AM
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I've lived all over the US and travel to many other countries. I'm not buying that your local fathers are all supremely good looking, successful, etc. and their wives are average. You're back peddling and playing dumb. Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:43 PM
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Jfc, do you literally think that most of the dads at my local public school PTA are over 6'??? What fucking planet do you live on? The SAHD next door is nearing 50, almost completely bald, out of shape and he fits right in with the other dad beer guts and contractor work. A simple google scholar search could tell you what average dad's income is like in your country. If you're in the US, it's not even close to 6 figures. Dude, you need to get off of reddit and into real life or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:23 PM
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Lmfao. Disqualified from what? Your mom's basement? I can assure you bisexual women have no interest in anyone who thinks women should have X number of partners. Guess that works out hu? You can't even control the jealousy over what strangers are doing. Lol. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:19 PM
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Why respond to someone's comment and then act like it doesn't even really matter what they were saying anyway? Just make your own fucking comment. Seriously mansplainy af to reply to my comment by telling me what I really meant. To reiterate my original point for you because you seem tired or something...LOTS of very average men get laid. Many, more than once. Many dads are average af, no matter how you try to twist the meaning of "average". The OP's point was that women don't want to fuck or be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 11:17 PM
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In this context, its isn't difficult at all because the OP made a post about it, which I am responding to. Why are you the second man I am having to explain how commenting or replying works to? I AM RESPONDING TO THE OP DIRECTLY. For those who still didn't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:44 PM
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You must be fucking joking. I AM LITERALLY TELLING YOU THAT I AM RESPONDING TO THE OP AND YOU'RE TELLING ME I AM NOT. WTF. I don't know you but I can tell from this distance that your mansplaining is a barrier for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:42 PM
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I was responding directly to the now deleted OP, which based on your comments I am wondering if you ever read. If you can find it, my comment makes sense in light of that. Going forward, thats generally how reddit works. I dgaf if married men are happy and neither did the OP. He referred directly to having sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:55 PM
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You can't redefine terms as you go and as suits you and have a real discussion of course. When terms have no meaning, nothing you're saying has meaning either. If "average" means "of average success in relationships with the opposite sex, then, just logically speaking, the OP is fucking ridiculous and contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:53 PM
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Yes, I'm sure you interpret everything women say as "hysterical". Color me shocked. You literally responded to my comment by saying that "we" were continuing some imaginary "narrative" that married men are "successful, happy and satisfied" by virtue of being married. To be clear... 1) Didn't say think or imply that 2) Not women's job. Find your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:45 PM
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What??? If you're judging who is below average by previous success in the thing....duh. I can't even. I hope you're kidding. Generally speaking, the people who are fast will be fast. The people who are symetrical will be symmetrical. Those who are charming/fit/intelligent/kind/etc. will be those ways. I can't believe I am having to explain this. Literal average men get married all of the time. Ffs. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:41 PM
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If you think women have a wall, that's your problem. I'd love to see the citation. First, think of and treat women as people. Then perhaps you'll get laid. You seem to lack a basic understanding of biology if you think women can be "used up" by fucking. Lol. What are you 12? I really didn't know grown men who aren't over 60 still talked like that until I joined this fucking sub. Women don't want to fuck someone who doesn't understand they are human. Beta provider? Is that an oxymoron? I hope you…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:38 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Of course women don't want to get married the day they turn 18. Neither do most men. Sorry to be the one to break that to you I guess. Do you have any evidence that all married women had a ton of sexual partners prior? I'm a bisexual woman with plenty of women friends and have never heard of such stupidity. Not to mention that I'm not sure why you care unless you A) think that vaginas can be changed by a penis in some special way B) are just jealous af. Do you have som…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:33 PM
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I didn't say any of that. Weird. The men here seem to only have one goal, many of them state it explicitly: to fuck women. Some will even say just one woman. My point stands. You're moving the goal post and I see you. Repeat after me: It is NOT the job of women to fulfill men and make them happy. That's childish and irresponsible and immature and ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:29 PM
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You mean you don't feel you owe these men sex for simply not being human garbage? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:23 PM
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These posts confuse the fuck out of me. Like, nearly every one of the married dads I know is pretty damn average and always was. Still, they've managed to have sex with a real live woman and even convinced her to allow him to reproduce. Are these men figments of my imagination? I'm not personally looking to give anyone a "chance" but this doesn't pass the smell test at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:21 PM
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You can have whatever expectations you want. No one cares what your thoughts are or what you personally find sexually attractive. Attraction isn't a conscious choice of course. Has it ever occurred to you that some women want to be bigger to avoid men creeping on them? You seem lost. You don't get to ask anything of me or random other women. We do not belong to you and don't owe you sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:18 PM
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Lol, of course. Haha. Here I am typing into google in a million ways. Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:58 AM
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Sorry, I'm new here and couldn't find this...what is OLD?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 11:56 AM
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I'm not responding to your comment. Yes, some people "overcome" their trauma and lead ok lives. Some people aren't able to and they die or live lives full of illness and suffering. Mental health doesn't work by magic. Just like physical health, some people are well and some people aren't and its not a measure of character or of worth. If two people are in a car accident and one walks away with just scrapes and bruises and the other ends up in a coma and never walks again, no one argues that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:13 AM
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Lol, you are A man. You know how YOU do it. The difference within the groups is greater than the difference between the groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 12:08 AM
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I literally did not say that though either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:40 PM
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Curious about why only women do it. As though them doing it is the curious or problematic thing. Lol. I see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:36 PM
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None of my comment was about blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:35 PM
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While I agree with what you've posted here, I wonder if you're trying to extrapolate in a way thats nonsensical. Like, just because YOU were capable of something at a certain point doesn't mean others are. You were able to work when you were legally able but not everyone is. Someone who comes of age while so ill they can't manage their health can't possibly be held responsible like the majority of us. Its a myth that any of us can function as an island. Certainly, we must all take responsibility…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:24 PM
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It sounds like you're suppressing a lot of shit and waving that around as though its a point of pride. Yikes. I never had parents ever and was given a ton of shit advice. The shit advice were just the drops in a bucket created by childhood trauma and growing up in a world of patriarchy, childism, and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:17 PM
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In response to your edit... It's not women's jobs to improve men and teach them about themselves. It's still on them to be introspective and figure out why things didn't work. Women do not expect men to tell them why their relationship didn't work out. Also adding that "letting men down gently" is often necessary for women to feel safe. If I think telling a man the truth will put me at immediate physical risk, you fucking bet I'm goinn to try lying. I don't see that as a defect in character or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:13 PM
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Why are women responsible to see into the future and know what he will do years down the road and men aren't held responsible for making those choices and actions in the now? Instead of asking why she picked someone who would someday be a loser/deadbeat/AH, why aren't you asking him why he's being a loser/deadbeat/AH?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:08 PM
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It's almost like they think that women are responsible for themselves and also the future choices of men. Get out your crystal balls ladies!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 12:03 PM
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You do not need to feel guilty that you need rules, tactics or a community like this to try to make this largely patriarchal system work for you. Damn. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:05 PM
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also makes him do funny shit like this What??? Lol. No one is "making" men do anything. We're each responsible for ourselves. The only person responsible for abuse or rape or harassment, or murder is the abuser, rapist, harasser, or murderer. There is nothing you or anyone could do to "make" me abuse them. If you feel differently, seek help before you harm someone and end up in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:25 PM
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There is absolutely no evidence that prostitutes from hundreds and thousands of years ago were routinely degraded. And we have a TON of records. Dude, you're so out of your lane. Again, try a book.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:05 PM
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In order to agree with you, I'd have to assume that you, man who can't get psychologically healthy women to sleep with him, knows more about women, genetics, sociology, biology, than myself and scientists. Nah. I bet you don't even really know what DNA is or how it works but you just figured that this sounds about right. I've studied ancient Roman culture. They were big fans of the pornography. The vast vast majority of it does not involve hurting someone. There are a few specific examples that …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 04:54 PM
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Its very telling that the only women who will sleep with you hate themselves to the point that they can only get aroused if you're mistreating them. Thats whats actually happening and you're bragging about it. Yikes!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 02:24 PM
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While I could not agree more that choking during sex in NOT normal... The issue is not that its actually happening in most bedrooms, the issue is that its being seen in the legal system and socially as some excuse/defense for killing women. I am a DV victim with a restraining order. When he overtly violated the order by threatening to kill me, one of the first things the police asked me is if I was into BDSM, bondage and/or choking. Like they were looking to justify his behavior as consensual an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 02:21 PM
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When I see someone suffering, I don't consider how they can please me sexually. Thats gross and inhumane. Like an animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:20 AM
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Does it kill your sex drive in the moment she's crying? Where the fuck am I?????
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 11:16 AM
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Please cite where women have come together and declared that shorter than average equals low value and unfuckable. They don't ask men if they think shorter/taller guys are attractive, or high social status guys, THEY ASK WOMEN because they want to see what women are into What??? Lol. The VAST majority of women aren't asking anyone who they should fuck. Thats hilarious. Get off of reddit for two seconds and you might realize this. We aren't sheep. The more you type, the more clear it is that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 10:34 PM
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There is no credible evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 08:08 PM
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Lmfao. By your own definition of "less desirable men" (which is hilarious that you insist on using it in spite of women here and everywhere saying they don't feel that way), I do have a clue because I've been long term partners with them. Women aren't coin operated machines. You don't put kindness in and get sex back. That's a disgusting outlook and is the reason why no women want to fuck you. I already addressed what you're asking in my original reply to the OP. Women aren't so much concerned w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 03:46 PM
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Lmfao. Benevolent conquerers. I'm dying over here. You have a serious white savior issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 11:49 AM
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Jfc, I already answered this question numerous times. That you aren't able to take in the information is just more evidence that your issue is not listening to women about what they want. You aren't "using studies". I'm a social scientist and you aren't sciencing by hearing some red piller site a poorly done "study" on swipes. Try google scholar for that. Or better yet, don't. Stop treating women like a game, treat them like people, and maybe you'll get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 11:46 AM
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Your assumption, even in the face of me specifying that I was into him because he was kind and unselfish in bed. As though you're so sure you know what women want so you're not listening to them so you're not actually giving them what they want so they don't want you. And it's not because of your height or your face or your name. I can assure you that if you poll women, a desire to please your partner is way way up there on the list of "HOT" traits. In fact, there was just a discussion about thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:22 AM
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I know tone doesn't come across well on the internet so I want to say I mean nothing nasty but... You seem really unaware of what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:48 AM
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I'm new here and kind of in shock right now. What grown adults put this much thought into casual sex that other people are having??? Why do men in this sub keep speaking for women? Just weird. Perhaps all of this energy you're putting into other people's sex lives is part of the reason you're not getting laid right now? I don't know, just a thought. Editing to add...thats some serious cherry picking using a single "study" of a dating site swipes to make a sweeping statement about half of the pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:19 AM
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What? No, thats not what I said at all. He was HOT because he was kind and into pleasing me sexually. He wasn't especially good looking, nor was he horribly deformed. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 12:00 AM
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Yep. Its ridiculous to suggest that smaller men are destined to be alone. In college, I was petite, fit, blonde, etc. and I chose to date to nicest guy who I had a lot in common with interest wise and he happened to be 5'6" and 115lbs soaking wet. And he was fucking HOT and we had a lot of fun together. The woman he was with after our relationship ended wasn't someone I knew personally but she was very attractive and fit imho. I've slept with much physically larger men who weren't because they j…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:43 PM
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I'm bi- or pan- sexual, a petite person and prefer partners, regardless of gender, who are at least my size. I did have a long term relationship with a man who was almost exactly the same size as me, fit, and I was very much sexually attracted to him. For me, I don't want to feel like I might hurt someone. ;) Editing to add that I had another long term relationship with a man who was exactly my height but much heavier/more muscular. And I think women are more worried about feeling big themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:33 PM
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r/menslib
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:26 PM
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Are you forgetting that to this day, native children are taken from their families? Native Americans have been and will continue to experience suffering as a result of this. If by "less violent" you mean fewer white men were killed, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:14 PM
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the guys who I know who do the absolute best with women That your definition of "best" is a count of how many people you've fucked is very telling. Your problem is not that you aren't cocky enough. It's that you don't see women as people. Yikes. You admit you're ignoring wether others are honest and then complaining that you're not "doing the absolute best with women". <hint
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:09 PM
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Lol, what??? I waited until I was in my 30's to have kids with a successful man I knew for a decade and was married to. Still, I'm raising our children and he is not. Why are men not held responsible for their own actions in the past and present and here you expect women to see into the future and predict the behavior of others? Do you know exactly what you'll be doing in 10 years? Did you predict perfectly where you are now and how you'd get there 10 years ago? Use your brain here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:03 PM
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