Nostophobic Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Example of a simple shit test on Tinder asking my height Fair enough. I've never dated online but from what experience I do have with "sliding into dms", it gets creepy really fast. While on the dating side of the internet it might be vastly different, in my experience it just gets.. objectifying. But again, I've never actively searched for partners online, so what I say can easily be dismissed.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 07:40 PM
2	Is the frequency of a couple have sex so low because guys are dorks? What another user said about sex becoming a routine, and that a woman's libido varies drastically through the month. A week before her period she could be horny multiple times a day and then a week after her period she can't get horny at all. There's a lot of outside factors aside from if a guy is a turn-on or not- usually involving health, medication, etc, and can easily just vary from woman to woman. One major thing that could change a woman's libido is if she starts birth control once you and…	/r/seduction	04/01/21 07:27 PM
2	Example of a simple shit test on Tinder asking my height as a girl, she sounded pretty rude lmao. Be careful if things go any further with her edit: and the way you make women sound makes it seem like you dont even like them at all. The hell are you doing looking for dates if you think of women as toxic assholes? I personally love a sensitive partner. If I feel like the person I'm dating just doesn't feel emotions I'd bail instantly.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 07:17 PM
2	A few things to understand about self-confidence I'm so glad you're doing better! It's heartbreaking to know that love can't cure a mental illness, but it's a big step in focusing on yourself and your health. I hope things only get better for you from here. :)	/r/seduction	04/01/21 07:14 PM
1	Listening to people's advice or articles about stuff like "how to get a guy/girl to like you" should be taken with a grain of salt. Yes! Yes! Yes! I'm a girl myself, and great god after seeing this subreddit and just seeing all the advice saying "be confident, be an alpha male"-- I can assure you, not every woman wants that. I personally prefer gentle, down-to-earth people. I find over-confidence, typical alpha male behavior, threatening and scary. Some may be charmed, but other's can easily be scared off. So yes! Thank you for this. People need to hear it.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 07:07 PM
2	[deleted by user] As a girl I just want to let you know, most women want emotional connections instead of someone who "doesn't care". If you put out the idea that you don't care, it's alarming. A lot of the "alpha male" advice I've seen for men looking for relationships is very frightening behavior that would scare a lot of women away or pressure them into cooperating because otherwise they're scared the man might lash out. As for the girl pushing you around, of course stand up for yourself. There's nothing wrong…	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:51 PM
2	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes I am friends with a lot of sexually active people, but the reasons a woman might not be interested in someone can be the same as a man not being interested in dating either. Sometimes other stuff is just going on, or she isn't ready. I don't like how OP went straight to a woman's sex life as a reason for rejection	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:43 PM
1	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes Maybe instead of going straight to "She's fucking tons of other people and doesn't care about me" you could rephrase it to, "she isn't interested in me, it wouldn't work out. I should respect her decision and move on." this type of mindset sounds awful and can really put down everyone including yourself and the women you happen to like. Just because a woman doesn't like you doesn't mean she's going around fucking everyone- a woman's identity isn't based around the sex she has. Maybe she's having…	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:41 PM
1	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes Hey! As a girl, I'd like to let you know your method is probably the best go to. Especially if this girl isn't the hook-up culture/speed dating type. In my experience the best relationships I've been in were never started bluntly and suddenly, and leaving hints and waiting for reciprocation is a gradual buildup. I was in a relationship with a guy once who, while he was sweet, never really left any hints and asked me out very abruptly. I decided to give it a shot, and within a week we knew it was…	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:37 PM
1	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes Thank you.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:34 PM
1	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes Hey! An asexual girl here, I'm glad someone brought this up since reading this just made me cringe.	/r/seduction	04/01/21 06:33 PM