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0	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with I was working out to get a jacked/aesthetic body, so in this context that's what i'm talking about. im not talking about working out for health reasons and I dont understand what your hypothetical equivalent proves. it actually happens to be a good equivalent. if eating vegetables made you obese, people wouldn't eat vegetables to be healthy, so that's actually a good example which proves my point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 11:30 AM
1	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with it's a hypothetical scenario, if hypergamy selected for skinny males with no muscles. and yes, they would stop. imagine if your big muscles were preventing you from getting laid because girls just love skinny guys. do you really think redpillers would continue trying to get jacked even if it meant girls become physically unattracted to them? come on lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 11:01 AM
1	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with you're missing my point...I disagree that working hard for a job is 'employer validation'. you work hard to get high grades FOR YOURSELF so you can get a job. no one would call it employer validation. similarly, you work on yourself FOR YOURSELF so that you can get a gf. maybe a more simple example is this...you want friends but you have bad social skills, so you try and improve your social skills so you can make friends. the end goal is making friends. no one would criticise you and say you are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/22 05:52 AM
1	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with I don't know what you mean by female validation then. If I work hard on my education so I can get a degree so I can get a job, that's working for myself so I can have a good life. By your logic I am just doing it for "employer validation".	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/22 01:09 PM
2	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with yea, I never reached my goals. I had a decent body and could bench 100+ kgs but I had planned on doing it for much longer. I kept seeing good-looking guys with girls even though they were skinny and clearly worked out less than me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 11:35 AM
3	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with I dont want to say that's true but honestly I might as well have done	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 11:33 AM
9	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with nah I became depressed after dropping out of uni. I was going to the uni gym for free as I was on campus, and couldn't pay for it after dropping out. women in online dating have no idea if I'm depressed or broke anyway, I was rejected based off my face, as OP described. also a lot of my negative feelings were a result of all this, not the cause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 11:11 AM
3	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with I'm talking about going to the gym to build an aesthetic/muscular body (weight lifting). I wouldn't say it was for female 'validation', I just did it because I wanted to be in a relationship. If i was in a relationship with someone who loves me, I couldn't care less about what other women thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:39 AM
1	While I admire the hard work and effort to improve your health and well being, personally, physical characteristics I find attractive in men are usually things you're born with you are absolutely right. a few years ago, I decided to dedicate myself to the gym because I wasn't getting any attraction from girls in real life or online. I got no matches on tinder which made me think I must be unattractive (which, indeed I am). It made me feel incredibly depressed and unlovable, and I convinced myself to dedicate myself to the gym to try and make up for my bad looks by getting an aesthetic-looking body. I spent about 400 hours in the gym over the course of a year and ended …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 10:10 AM
1	Hypergamy does not affect men as much as people think it does. the male virginity rate for under-30's has almost tripled in the past 10 yrs. for zoomers and younger millennials, it is a big issue. I blame dating apps for making it worse	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/22 10:32 PM