TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

NotANerdReally Archive

View 0 posts and 44 comments by NotANerdReally on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
0

I don’t know who Aaron is, but without knowing the context I would say that the last 2 are true only if you’re somewhat attractive. Nobody chases an unattractive person. The question is, are we willing to put in the effort to work on the parts of us that could use improvement? The important thing is: are we willing to work on what is unattractive about ourselves? If
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:24 PM
1

We’re all hanging out on an anonymous Internet forum discussing how to attract girls. Do you think it’s because we’re swimming in pussy? People can think anything they want about themselves. I think I look like a 20 year old Brad Pitt with rock hard abs. Sorry what’s that, everybody says you’re good looking? Well of course, most adults won’t criticize your looks in front of you. Use your common sense.
/r/seduction22/07/22 10:14 AM
1

Unless her name is Elon Musk, she is not that busy.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:11 AM
1

I feel like you made this post specifically so that people will push you to lose weight, get in shape and get healthy. You do know what the problem is, don’t you?
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:54 AM
3

You forgot the part in the article where it says that the synaptic pathways need to synchronize at specific wavelengths to activate the midichlorians that were implanted in us by progenitor Xenu 7.3 billion years ago.
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:09 PM
1

You don’t need to explain to anybody how you became the amazing gigachad and object of supreme envy that you clearly are.
/r/seduction23/03/22 03:21 AM
0

Like the other comment said, post pics in brutally honest subreddits if you really want to know if your appearance is the issue. Or use Photofeeler. Everybody is bad at judging their own looks.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:29 AM
1

When the two of you get together and have babies you can do a parody video “Baby hit me ten more times” and put it on TikTok!
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:10 PM
1

How many times does the baby have to hit the girl until she sees the sign
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:47 PM
5

Rejections, dead ends, having only 2 girls at the age of 22. Know that all of this is normal, and know that men tend to exaggerate their actual sexual successes by a LOT. For an FWB relationship, I think you generally have to be much higher value than the girl. Either you’re much more physically attractive than her, or you’re in a much better position in life. I’m not physically attractive, and the only FWBs I had were those who seemed to look up to me on an intellectual and social level. The on…
/r/seduction19/02/22 07:51 PM
39

Dude gets an entry level job and all of a sudden he starts talking like Warren Buffet.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:24 AM
1

If it takes 20 years to work on yourself then you must still be in primary school.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:20 AM
57

FWB ​ We agreed we weren’t going to see any other people Sounds like a case of poorly defined boundaries. You can't be friends with benefits and expect exclusive access to her private parts at the same time.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:23 PM
2

but then kept telling me to text her ​ she kept saying to text her later ​ she wants me to text her still ​ What do you guys think. I think she's really keen on letting you text her.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:08 PM
2

22 year olds aren't exactly titans of logic. Often they don't even know why they do certain things.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:05 PM
8

You went to a bar, met a bar-hopping hot girl with a great singing voice, who has tons of options and gets lots of attention. The content of your text doesn't even matter here. Unless you are Young Brad Pitt incarnate, I would not expect much from this encounter.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:24 PM
3

Social media made it a lot easier for me. Facebook helped me reconnect with a girl I had a crush on since high school, and we hooked up, traveled together and had some pretty explosive sex on the way. Didn't last long, but it was great while it lasted. It also helped me connect with a very mature and attractive girl 9 years younger than me who had a lot of common interests. We're not physically involved any more, but we still keep in touch. This is coming from someone who's a 4/10 for physical a…
/r/seduction18/02/22 02:50 PM
5

she takes forever to respond ​ She flaked on a date ​ The last time we spoke was Wednesday ​ She has not once initiated a conversation Seems you're already aware that she's just not that interested. The ball is very much in her court now, and until she returns it decisively -- not half-heartedly -- I would move on with my life. Being needy in the face of apathy only serves to make you less attractive.
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:19 AM
39

some of my mates haven't got laid in years but it doesn't bother them at all It's not out of the ordinary. I know a couple of guys who are openly very horny promiscuous players, but both of them don't have a whole lot of other things going on in their lives. That is to say, professionally they are nothing special, intellectually lightweight, no hobbies apart from playing video games, etc.
/r/seduction17/02/22 03:10 PM
1

“If you want my comeback, you’ll have to scrape it off your mom’s teeth.”
/r/seduction08/02/22 09:15 PM
138

On the bright side, this is a clear sign that you can move on. It’s extremely rare for a girl to come back after she’s ghosted someone, and if she does it’s because she needs a temporary distraction. There are 4 billion women in the world. It’s really not worth hurting over one who doesn’t want you.
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:56 PM
1

Legendary reply
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:33 AM
5

This is a perfect opportunity to meditate on letting go
/r/seduction07/02/22 12:26 AM
1

There are different kinds of clubs that are frequent by various age demographics.
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:29 PM
3

Start talking about how much you love your own ex. If you don't have an incredible ex, make one up. Go on and on about how much you miss the hot sex marathons and how she still comes over every now and then for a good pounding. After you've gotten bored of her reactions, drop her like it's hot and move on. Seriously how many red flags do you need waved in your face?
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:35 PM
2

I dated a woman for 2 months, she lost interest in me very quickly. Gave her 4 orgasms in a row with my dick at some point. And even she was greatly disappointed that I couldn’t cum every time, or as much as she did. It’s a myth that men always have to make the woman cum first. Some women love seeing you have a great time.
/r/seduction02/01/22 10:34 AM
6

One thing I’ve come to realize is that “be confident” is nonsense if you have no reason to be confident. Confidence coaches will tell you that. The plane is going down, the pilot and copilot are both dead, who can fly this plane? I can! I’m confident!! Confidence is a natural product of being physically fit, mentally healthy and doing fairly well for yourself. As a starting point, I would start working on all of those.
/r/seduction02/01/22 09:50 AM
1

If you don’t want to drive, don’t drive. That said, barring certain medical conditions, driving a car with an automatic transmission is only slightly harder than breathing, and having your own personal transport gives you an enormous amount of freedom.
/r/seduction02/01/22 08:39 AM
3

Like the other guy said, sacrificing sleep for an actual partner is indeed different to making time for some person on Tinder you haven't met. I had an ex that made time for me several times a week even after the sex became infrequent and her interest in me had clearly waned. I can't imagine someone on Tinder making that kind of time for me unless she was super keen.
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:45 PM
7

I’ll bet you $1000 this guys’s got two or more selfies in his dating profile
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:38 PM
1

Ah. This is the part where the inexperienced guy clings on, asks questions, and gets desperate. This is the part where the experienced guy sends a polite, but terse reply. And nothing more.
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:33 PM
5

The problem is that you are too strong of a ladies’ man. Whenever you approach a woman, your very presence radiates sheer masculinity and virility to the point where the woman starts to feel a rumble in her ovaries, which is of course the sound of her being impregnated by your mere presence.
/r/seduction23/12/21 12:00 PM
8

Even if the game is set up this way, you’re making it harder with this constant self-defeating attitude of yours. Its clear that there’s some part of you that needs to be worked on. How about working on that instead of trying to get girls for the time being? You’re fucking 21, there’s a LONG LONG road ahead of you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:17 AM
1

My experience is that I tend to want what I don't have. In that respect, I'm far from unique. Biologically yes, we men are hardwired to get our seed out there and that is one of the primary forces that motivates most human beings. From an evolutionary perspective, that is undeniable. From an evolutionary perspective, we are social animals, so the view that "You should be perfectly happy alone" also has no basis in reality. Though that doesn't mean that we should be doing our best to get laid at …
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:39 PM
16

Attraction usually comes with an expiry date. During my university years I remember losing my attraction to certain girls once the stress of midterms and final exams was over. I think the human brain likes to create distractions for itself sometimes. If she's been consistently avoiding your advances recently, I would ease off and distract yourself with something or someone else. Nothing good comes from giving unwanted attention.
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:10 PM
2

I think it depends on what you mean by "out of your league". I would be much more intimidated by a 6/10 polyglot piano-playing Ph.D holder than a smoking hot 9.5/10 without much else going for her. I would definitely not consider the 9.5/10 to be in a separate league above myself, or above any other person. And if I did, I would seek counselling.
/r/seduction20/12/21 04:48 PM
6

This is almost as bad as listening to someone talk about their wild adventures in Dungeons & Dragons
/r/seduction04/12/21 08:46 PM
2

Now that’s a sentence I haven’t seen throughout the history of the English language…
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:48 PM
1

The fact that you’re trying to give advice from a place of despair suggests that people really shouldn’t be taking advice from you. You said that your interactions with women are “a DISASTER”. That suggests that there’s some part of your personality you should be working on.
/r/seduction04/12/21 04:52 PM
2

Like many of us who cling on, you’re stuck in a dopamine loop. It’s the same mechanism as being addicted to a substance that rewards you with diminishing returns for consuming it. https://youtu.be/QmOF0crdyRU
/r/seduction30/11/21 06:55 AM
6

I know a girl who dated someone for 11 years and apparently never got “rough”. She has a weird idea of boundaries, and seems to think that a relationship with a boyfriend shouldn’t be that different from a regular friend. Also she finds the idea of a dick in her mouth to be repulsive… Very recently I suggested that she might be autistic, and she got an assessment, which came out positive.
/r/seduction19/11/21 02:11 PM
2

On the contrary, I think it’s an easy way out that people use. That’s why women tend to resort to it. Leave the channel open, let her see his status, etc, and ignore her like a man.
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:14 PM
10

You can’t change what you want. If some part of him wants something to do with her, that’s fine, it’s human. There are perfectly good ways to deal with this without resorting to the block button, which I think is often used in times of cowardice.
/r/seduction22/10/21 06:11 PM
3

Lol the exact same thing happened to me. Probably prompted by a longing for some part of you. But wanting some part of you isn’t good enough because you only come as a full package. I LOVED the song, so goddamn catchy. I stayed up late that night to figure out the jazzy chords by myself. But as far she’s concerned, I wrote back minimal, passive replies and moved on.
/r/seduction22/10/21 05:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter